how active is your social life, effay? how about your love life?

this thread is shit
theres no one here and i have an ugly tattooed girl staring at me
girls with tattoos are gross

>extroverted
>effay
What the fuck is wrong with you

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>>11159775

i refuse to believe anyone can actually be extroverted
becoming energised from socialising goes against the law of conservation of energy

>>11159772
>how active is your social life, effay? how about your love life?

both are non-existant

>>11159772
my social life is shit

i only know the same basics i knew in high school

uni was a complete disaster for me and im lonely as fuck because i cant talk to anyone about anything important to me

>tfw when you're an extrovert with social anxiety.

Worst feeling.

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>>11159781

>>11159775
tattoos are for unironic trailer trash and hipsters, if u find that hot

>>11159772
blogshit please off yourself

I'm 22 and I haven't had real friends since I was 15. I've also never been in a relationship.

I'm hoping things will get better.

>>11159811
god damn im guessing youre a virgin

>>11159811
nope, hope =/= making it happen
youre here pipe dreaming so youre cooked brah

>>11159833
lets be real uni is the last chance to make lasting friends

after that its p much over

Social life is ok, go out to bars like 1 night a week. Love life nonexistent

>>11159836
This

>>11159811
what do we do about this?

>>11159772
itt: normalfags

>>11159787
Hyouka is a shit anime

>>11159836

Bullshit Its more like after you hit 25 new meaningful friendships take effort.

>>11159772
>how active is your social life, effay?
Nearly not at all. I know a couple people I talk to on a semi-regular basis but I never hang out with them
>how about your love life?
Pretty great actually. I've got a lovely ginger gf whom I love very much. We've helped each other through some shit and we're the happiest when we're together.
>how much time do you spend online vs out being social/outgoing?
I spend nearly all of my time online unless I'm with gf
>>11159787
I actually kekked out loud

>>11159887
theres nowhere to even form meaningful friendships tho

everyone is too caught up in their own life

>>11159807
>being this salty

What's the point of buying fashionable clothing if you just sit in front of a computer in a bedroom all day?

Nobody can be so autistic that they spend $$$ on designer just to take pictures for the internet or to wear browsing 4chan

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I am 37 years old.

My mother still buys me candy when I visit home and hands them to me the same way she did when I was a kid.

I work as a data inputter at a logistics company.

I have no friends.

I have no girlfriend.

The last time I kissed a girl was 1997.

The last time I got drunk was around 2006.

I am a virgin.

My dad left my mother for another women when I was very young.

For my birthday last year I booked a motel room and paid for an escort but when she turned up I felt sorry for her and gave her the money and told her to get some sleep but she laughed and called me a bunch of names and left.

I was attractive in my late teens and early 20s buy my looks have worn off.

No girls notice me and I don't feel worthy of being noticed.

Sometimes I drive to McDonalds after work and buy way too much food and eat until I feel nauseous and then lie in the backseat while listening to R.E.M.

Last year I developed a crush on a girl who works at an Arby's near my workplace but when I asked her out she seemed to hope I was joking and said no thanks.

My old neighbour had a pet dog that I'd look after sometimes but he moved out and now all I have are the plants I try and care for.

I don't know how to dress very well so I came to /fa/ but I just don't get it... I do not get anything

>>11160871
i really hope this is a joke

>>11159772
I havent been laid in 9 months and i suck with girls

>>11159788
this.
/thread

>>11160871
copy pasta

>>11160871

>My mother still buys me candy when I visit home and hands them to me the same way she did when I was a kid.


This sounds lovely. Be grateful that your mother loves you and thinks about you.

>>11159772
>how active is your social life,
lol social life. I've had friends/gf and all we did is smoke weed,play video games and go to the movies. gf would just gossip about how she hated her classmates and her stepdad
I have a job now don't have time for that shit. and my old friends and ex-gf were the definition of problematic

> how much time do you spend online vs out being social/outgoing?

after work and school. i go to the gym for an hour and come here study films/philosophy and shit post here.

Atm I don't see the point of hanging out with ppl I don't really like just to be social. If i come across people as retarded as me great!

I haven't made any new friends (who I didn't already have a mutual friend) since the first year of uni. Starting from zero must be real fucking difficult.

>>11160581
someone answer this

things got real fucked up in the past year. I have no problem whatsoever making superficial friends to fill my time, but I am really lacking any meaningful friendships that are mutually beneficial. I have a girlfriend who I adore but I feel like she's the only person I consider worth the effort of investing myself in. All of my acquaintances have left me feeling sour for some reason or another, and I can't quite put my finger on whether or not the problem lies with the kinds of people i gravitate towards or just me as a person. I try to be as honest as possible, I try my best not to mislead people. But this has lead me to realize that I am wholly incompatible with most people. It's a terrible feeling to know that you cannot hangout with someone who you thought you were close with because you cannot tolerate their shortcomings and no longer want to lull them into a false sense of personal security. I guess I am really misanthropic and I'm only writing this blog post so I can re-read it and see how pathetic it all seems from an external perspective.

I could have all the friends in the world, be the life of the party, and generally be a socially successful person but my own pessimistic world view has made it so that most people are a write-off before any sort of connection can be formed.

>>11160581
http://petapixel.com/2016/01/23/this-artist-got-90k-instagram-followers-with-photos-of-a-fake-lavish-lifestyle/

what we do here is nothing compared to instagram

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I am social, get 8/10 chicks (Maybe 9-10 on 4chan scale and mainly 5/10 on their /fa/-scale but i only fuck them, havent found a decent interesting /fa/ gurl yet ;_;) and still browse /fa/. I hope the very best of you all, there is hope. I haven't always been a "cool kid". Godspeed anons.

>>11159772
my social life fluctuates between great/fulfilling and empty/horrible every two years or so, and I haven't quite yet figured out why. romantic life is non-existent mostly due to my own volition. I go on dates but never want to date anyone. being fake/superficial is a drag, and i try to play the social field deep rather than wide, but no one else seems to embrace the same strategy, so things tend to fall apart on me. I'm not a guarded person, and I think im easy to get along with despite my admittedly cold exterior, but /other/ people seem too willing to get hurt and brood rather than be open or vulnerable and work things out.

>>11160981
>my old friends and ex-gf were the definition of problematic
tumblr pls go and stay go

>>11159772
>social life
Non-existent except gf, friends left me after rehab and I don't trust people anymore even though intellectually I know this is a bad idea
>how's your love life
long-distance relationship with Japanese qt (no, I didn't meet her online and yes, we've boned several times)
>online/social time
I don't spend any time being social, mountain biking, reading and browsing /pol/ are more fun than interacting with a bunch of cunts
>why is being extroverted more fashionable
what a stupid question
>why do underage teens think being a brooding shut-in is fashionable
I never thought it was fashionable, I just became like that because people were mostly vapid cunts who never want to do outdoorsy shit. Now that I'm in my 20s the ones who were alright have become either cocaine-addicted plebs or insufferable professional SJWs who have replaced outdoor activities with virtue signalling and lusting after activist poon that they'll never get. They have, in essence, become cunts.

>>11159772
>how active is your social life, effay?
i hang out with my friend who is a neet about once a month, besides that i don't talk to nobody except my parents and grandparents
>how about your love life?
fucked it up with the only girl i care for, ex-internet girlfriend. we almost got back together after she broke up with the guy who replaced me (after 4 years lol) but apparently i need to learn about consent because i "forced her" to kiss me because i told her she promised to
>how much time do you spend online vs out being social/outgoing?
100% online
yes i have autism, no i dont want to go outside

>>11159772
pretty quiet
hang out with alot of girls am dating a very qt girl
alot of bros
people describe me as an extrovert but i keep a good amount of stuff hidden away

>how active is your social life, effay?
dead
>how about your love life?
virgin
>how much time do you spend online vs out being social/outgoing?
all online

just kill me f.am

>>11161777
Well... How?

>>11160871
Damn.

>>11159775
I agree, tattoos look really bad on women.

>>11160871
It's OK anon I'm probably going to be like this within the next year or so, let's just go back to /r9k/ together.
>>>/r9k/

>>11163156
fuck m8 u and I are almost the same, only I followed my gf back to japan. outdoors type shit is lacking in my area tho

>>11159898
Are you me senpai

>>11159787
What if the energy is being drained from the introverts?

>>11163457
>Followed gf back to Japan

Like, to get married & get citizenship? Thats my life goal at this point, pathetic as that is. If I stay here any longer Im gonna go postal, I cannot fucking stand it...

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I have a few close friends but I live in a different city from them now. I can't talk to normals without getting drunk first. I've been in a few relationships and with my share of girls but I just feel like I'm using them, I never cared about any of them. They tell me I'm very closed off. I keep falling in love with people who are taken or hate me, it hurts but I still want to be close to them anyway. I'm not sure if it's just bad luck or the stupidity of my own desires wanting what I can't have.

>>11161705
And most of this. I've a very pessimistic outlook, it's the most reasonable conclusion for me but counterproductive. I misuse Zapffe's outline (pic related) as a way to help ignore it - the last 3: idealism, drugs/superficial media & relationships, art - but it only gets me so far and I think people can smell the artifice. I'd suggest it. Valuing honesty is naive, white lies are important, even more important is humor, which rests on lying. In turn, humor is essential to good conversation, and good conversation approximates good art, and what else is there but art?

>>11159787
No, no, they suck the energy out of others like vampires. Picasso is known to have done this better than anyone, his dinners would leave everyone completely drained while he was more powerful than ever. and he was also never called an asshole

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>>11163807
Meant to post this

>>11159795
Yeah, only recently realized I'm an extrovert. . . And I can't socialize. . .

>>11159811
Get off of 4chan man seriousky. Go take care of yourself and get a hobby. Put yourself out there man.

My social lofe is near non existent because I work insane hours usually 60 a week. The only socialising I do is on a chat with some people who produce music since its a hobby of mine I am getting more and more serious about.

My love life is existent but it consists of talking to my ex and slowly getting back into what we had. Best relstionship I ever had, most amazing girl I have ever met. It was a mutual decision to break it off because we both wanted to better ourselves and now that we've made pretty big steps in improving our quality of life we are trying to come back together. Its a slow process but it will be well worth it.

>>11159772
Fuck you guys are depressing. I only have a couple real friends but I go out almost every week to rock shows at dive bars. My love life is a feast or famine situation.

>>11160581
I feel like people here actually wear clothes for themselves and when they do go out are harassed for the way they dress. And being that the typical 4channer is anti social and most likely.not a normie they dont fit in at a club or bar or any sort of social scene because they relate better to people online who share their not so normie interests.

I find it fairly hard to find people who share my interests and I usually dont go out. Not because of social anxiety or anything but because all my friends ever want to do is go out clubbing and drinking and that shit is so fucking lame. I would rathrr go on a mini road trip and explore the wilderness somewhere or make music or art of some kind. Not many people I know care about clothes like I do. I may not outwardly show it because I am in work clothes 80 percent of the time.

>>11163866
>I would rathrr go on a mini road trip and explore the wilderness somewhere or make music or art of some kind
Just be upper-middle class in socal or wait until puberty's over. This was every basic coachella-tier bitch in my hs

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>>11159772
>how active is your social life, effay?
Not very active. Nothing to do outside these days besides uni. No one to hang out with, no one Invites me anywhere. No true friends.

>how about your love life?

No gf, kissless, never had a "proper" serious relationship. So basically never had a gf.

>how much time do you spend online vs out being social/outgoing?
I spend more time online really, most of the friends I made were online but I cut most of them off temporarily these days. Always alone so no point being out when there's no one to hang with or have fun with.

>>11163209
so why fashion

>>11160871
Get a puppy.

I'm 19 going on 20

>Social Life
all my friends left town so big when they're back home but nothing the rest of the year

>Love Life
celebrated my 1st year with my gf (longest relationship I've had t-b-h) last week. 8/10 at least to me we're both weird looking

>online vs offline
when my friends are in town I don't touch a computer for like 2 weeks of near constant partying and street crawling at night doing dumb shit. Outside of that it's just work and then I'm on my PC the rest of the time

things could be better but they could be worse

>>11163224
Me

I hang out with my only two real friends on the weekends because while still living within driving distance, we're all going to different uni's and one is going to community college. I live for the weekend honestly. During the week I just attend classes, take xanax, and wait for Friday.

i'm wasting my youth in my room

>>11159772
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cGvZyrhObrg

I'm 23 years old

>Social life
Not much on midweeks. I'm finishing a degree outside the city I frequent, and I have to be on class only one day. I spenda lot of time on the internet, or trying to learn new shit, while actively looking for an internship and a job

>Love life
This summer it would have been 2 years along the girl that was my girlfriend. She broke with me. Sometimes i'm ok, but sometimes a big stream of resentments gets me. Its hard not to react like this when you go, night to day, to being absolutely dead for that person you loved so much. But she really doesnt deserve my attention: she's doomed. Might had all the money in the world, but she's empty on the insides. No feelings, no maturity to ever be able to love someone other than herself
Other than that, i haven't feel in love with someone else again. I had a couple of affairs, but nothing else. I feel its complicated to connect with people somehow


Whats with people that feel repulsion to tattoed people? its truth that most of them are very narcissistic, but other than that its just ink