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Femdom/Gentle Femdom and Role Reversal General

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Time for another Role-Reversal and Gentle Femdom thread now that 504's gone.

As per standard protocol:
>related hentai
>greentext
>monster girls
>general lewdness
>dojinshi recommendations
>anime/manga recommendations
>preferably recommendations that are on-topic
>cuteposting
>vocaroos
>friendly discussion
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Whoops, forgot previous thread: >>7418458
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>inb4 /pol/mblr and bitter virgin posting
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>>7429733
It happens even outside the /r9k/ version?
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>>7429733
>tumblr screencap as the OP
You're literally asking for it
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>>7429742
ohh yeah, plus we have futadom stuff getting posted, but I find that tolerable because it makes the "femdom is totally TradCon Bro!" faction go REEE in entertaining ways.
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Why do I love the idea of pegging but I am not at all interested in doing it with my girlfriend?

Pegging has been my main fap fetish for at least 5 years (more like 10, fuck my ass I'm getting old) but the thought of actually doing it is so much less arousing.
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>>7429881
you like the abstract concept of it but making it real dilutes it and brings baggage that undermines what arouses you.
it happens to lots of /d/ fetishes that are dependent on and/or grew from a fantasy setting.
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>>7429733
Oh cool some casual sexism to start off the thread, nice
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>>7429927
Hi /pol/mblr.
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>>7428672
Why not seperate femdom from gentle femdom?
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>>7429733
>trying to start a shitstorm
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Anybody have saved greentexts? Or an experience they could greentext? Feel like getting my read on
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>realize how much I want this, start making a lot of effort to be cute
>change my diet, change how I dress
>skin starts clearing up, nearing noticeably feminine figure, slowly achieving actual trap mode
>only ever attracts dudes
help
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>>7430175
I met my currant Dommie through looking for older women and finding she liked to dominate younger men after we hooked up, and I'm fatmuscular, and most of the dom women I've talked to on line and face to face actually aren't really into the cute boy look as much as a "cute boy" personality.
I'd say try to find the "cougar" bars in your area and go flirt, and yeah, a good Dom of either gender is probably going to be older/ over 30, that's just how it usually works.
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>been lurking and posting her for a long time
>waiting for the right girl for months
>but I now I found her
>she's everything that /gfd/ ideally described
>I swear she's got this ability where she can take everything she sees in me and accept me for who I am
>Now I've really fallen for her
>She seems to have an invisible touch
>She reaches in and grabs right hold of my heart
>But then she takes control and slowly tears me apart (in a good way)
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>>7430303
that's fucking beautiful...

...please tell us more
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>>7430303
You're dating ebola-chan?
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anybody remember the huge crew from ned's declassified, and the crush all three of them had on ned?
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>be me 19
> never even thought I was into gfd or any kind of domination at one point
> always been shitty at talking to people awful stutter got bullied a lot for it
> meet tomboy at work 8.5/10 always jokingly bullies me
> We love hanging out together her favorite thing to do is steal my controller while we play and make me fight for it
> uses it as bait to get me to cuddle
> I soon realize I'm addicted to her headpats and back rubs
>actually pop a boner while we're wrestling she sees it and stopped
> she asked if I was actually attracted to her
Apparently she used to get bullied pretty hard too for being a tomboy so didn't trust many guys
> tell her I do and awkwardly mention I love her head pats
> she got really happy told me if I'm lying she'll beat me up
> one thing lead to another now were dating she's the first girl to actually enjoy my stutter thinks it's adorable
> loves trapping my arms so she can edge me as long as she wants
>and every now and then like when we have a day off she'll milk me all night till I'm empty
> when we're not doing it 90% of my day at home now is spent in her lap or buried in her chest
> realize stutter practically gone when we cuddle family also realizes I have significantly less stutter when she by me
> her family realizes I helped her get her confidence back
truly best girl I've ever met yeah sex is big bonus but nothing makes you feel better than having to explain to your friends why your covered in hickies
If you have a domme lads how has she helped you?
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I might post a shit ton of teacher x student femdom doujin tonight because they're super fucking common and i have a bunch of good ones saved.
It dawned on me that i should when i was checking out this artist earlier and got to a femdom doujin that hadn't been labeled as such.
Also, I'm glad I'm building up muscle and stamina during work because my stamina is garbage. When talking to my domme last night, she told me to work hard to build up some resilience to labor, after joking about how a country girl like her was going to break a city boy like me.
What a time to be alive.
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>>7428672
>Implying anyone would ever care about the disappearance of young men.
It breaks suspension of disbelief.
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>>7430877
>Like this kind of thing
>Dont want to be needy or a burden and want to work through issues on my own so that I'm in control of my own happiness and im not a greakup away from a total mental health restart.
Im so conflicted.
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>parents never praised me when I was growing up
>if I did well, they said nothing because it was expected of me
>if I did poorly, I was severely punished
>never had any physical affection
>the only girlfriend I've had hated touching
>have a good enough job that I can live alone
>one day it dawned on me that everything I'm doing now isn't because my parents expect me to, it's for my own sake
>everything feels empty
>renting a 3-bedroom house so it's more space than I need and it doesn't help
>desperately want to come home to a loving gf that will give me head pats and tell me I'm doing a good job
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>>7430136
i suppose i could
>Gf and i trade off on dom or not, just sort of depends on mood
>if visuals help, im 6'4", white, basketball player who lifts build
>shes 5'11", long red hair, crazy ass/hips, b cup tits.
>she gets into 24 hour dom moods
>the night before we hadn't seen each other for almost two weeks, so shit was super sexually charged
>the moment her housemates weren't around she would kiss me super hard and practically tongue fuck my mouth and break off when she heard movement
>would grab my ass hard and grope it when they turned around, even in the same room
> i had to havemy dick up in my waistband
>bad news, they were basketball shorts, so i had to keep a longer shirt on and posture so it covered
>she knew, she lives to give me public boners when shes in this mood.
>i try to tease her back
>today she isn't having it, the few times i tried to tease her by groping her ass or kissing her neck she grabbed my crotch and whispered, "not today hon..." and proceeded to bite me hard below my neckline so no one could see, but i could feel it, and then would give my ears a hot breath and a lick because she knows its my weak spot besides running a hand softly up my lower abs.
>housemates are prepping to leave that night
>we pregame with them, hang a bit
>shes getting hungrier
>at one point one went up stairs, the other to the bathroom, and she gave me a 15 second bj in the kitchen and then pulled my shorts up and winked at me
>ive basically been hard and edged for like 6 hours
>finally they leave
>we play some drinking games
>shes getting squirmy and wiggling her hips, which means she's wet and almost at her limits
>soon she calls me to the bedroom
>when i step in shes in full lingerie, and she walks up to me, and starts running her nails down my chest, and when i close my eyes, she slides behind me
>I try to resist and turn around and flip the tables on her
>she smacks my ass hard and i yelp a little, surprised, she doesn't do that often
cont?
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>>7430387
>>7430735
Well, I don't really know her, just her name.
But she crawls under my skin, and I'm just not quite the same.
Now I know she's got something she just can't trust
or something mysterious so I've fallen for her

(refrain)
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>Be me, a dumb slut boy
>I tend to be really quiet, even when I move around
>So sometimes I would accidentally spook her by suddenly speaking or her turning around and noticing I had entered the room
>Tells me she's gonna put a bell on me so it doesn't happen anymore
>Don't think about it, completely take it at face value
>The jingly bell is attached to a thick leather dog collar
>Still don't think anything of it
>Tells me I have to keep it on all times when I'm inside
>I wear it for two full days not thinking much about it
>Laying in her lap while she's petting me
>The bell on my collar rings
>Wait a second, collar
>I finally realize what has happened
>sit up and voice this out loud
>She gives me this perplexed look and asks if I just figured this out
>I don't want to admit to being this dumb but I can't lie to her so I just start wringing my hands
>she caresses my face and chuckles a bit
>asks if I like it
>I manage a flustered yes
>she kisses my forehead and calls me a cutie
>Every thing that happened after that is sort of a blissful rush followed by LEWD

Don't know if this is good green text, but she said it was. [spoiler] Pls no BULLY, only she is allowed to do that[/spoiler]
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>>7431366
Yes
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>>7431226
Ye my stutter was never emotional problems just uncontrollable adhd made me talk faster than I could think, and she never like hated herself she was just never a fan of guys that liked being in charge and you gotta remember in a relationship you don't want it to be a one way support bridge shes there to keep me calmed and distracted and to help me limit my adhd and I'm basically there to help her trust that I won't stab her in the back and let her know she can ask me anything and I'm not gonna freak out or just leave and also to help her express her affection
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>>7431770
>I wear it for two full days not thinking much about it
>Wait a second, collar
>I finally realize what has happened
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>>7431875
Sorry last bit, reason she mostly needed help with expressing she was really used to bullying and fighting as a way to show that she cared but even though she's only domme she always got super nervous about asking to show any living affection like rubbing my head or cuddling she actually left my place once after she really quietly asked if I could call her mommy when we cuddled I didn't hear her I Responded by saying "what" and she freaked out and sat on the complete opposite end of the couch because she thought I was judging her for asking about it . But after about 3 months she figured out I didn't care about judging her and I was mostly cool with her actions and if I wasn't a fan I'd let her know making sure to enforce that I still love her a bunch truly is still best girl for me at least. See my grandpa told me one quote he said "never think about whats wrong or what you don't like in your lover because the minute you do you'll never love her as much as you did when you first met". Still live by that today that's why i always try to think anything that I don't do that she does is something that's makes me fit in her puzzle and hers to fit in mine
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Reminder that you aren't a real domme if you don't support your sub financially.
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>>7431910
It ends very cute.
>>7431878
I was not joking when I said I was a dumb slut boy, I am denser than a male protagonist in a harem anime. Plus I trust her a lot so I don't really question any of the things she says very much.
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>>7429733
Ooh, posting stuff from starless? I gotta finish that game
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>>7430877
Fuck you for giving me these feels.
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>>7431910
>>7432061

sowse on this one pls anon
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>>7432286
Yea please
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I'm thinking of writing a story with a possessive wolf girl, but I just have the beginning right now. Any criticism for my writing style is appreciated.

1/1
I needed to run. To get away. That’s all that mattered right now. I could feel my throat and lungs burn because of my heavy gasps in the frigid air, but that wasn’t of my concern, not even the aching soreness of my feet and legs from running so long. What was of my concern was the thing that was chasing me.

The cold rushing air stabbed my eyes and made tears form, blurring my vision of the darkening snowy forest around me. The dim light combined with my distorted vision caused the shapes and colors of the world to collapse into distorted masses of white and black around me. I knew I couldn’t last long at this rate.

I knew she would catch me eventually.

My exhausted running strides began to devolve into fast paced stumbling as I began to hunch over from exhaustion. Oh how sweet it would be to just collapse on the snow right now and let things take its course… Wait. I can’t give up now. Maybe I’ve somehow led her off my trail during my run, never mind how unlikely that would be. Maybe if I just take a peek behind to make sure she’s not too close, then I could take a minute break. Wiping my eyes and straightening up, I turned to look back behind me.

Oh. She’s been right there this whole time.
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>>7432361
2/2
No less than 15 feet away she’s been behind me this whole time, calmly walking towards me and keeping pace with my exhausted stumble of a jog. I turned to run with renewed adrenaline, but only managed to trip and fall down to the snow. I felt a cold hollowness inside me when I realized I can’t get up, a terrible chill that outclassed the snowy air outside. I felt my stomach drop and heavy vertigo overcome me, as if I was free falling.

I could see her now, coming closer to me. She gazed at my crumpled form with that enigmatic sad smile that was so accustomed to her. My vision began to blur again, but I could see her eyes clearly in that pale face, those large blood red irises that seemed to evoke thoughts of insanity and bloodshed in people. For me though, I could see that those eyes held a great degree of loneliness in them, and something innocent and pure which had over time become corrupted and perverted into an obsession.

I noticed a blurry form moving back and forth behind her. Her tail, wagging to show off some kind of sick glee she felt.

“Found you…”
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>>7431957
>tfw mine actually does, she's got a job and I'm starting a new school
I do try to pay for a lot of things myself though.
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>>7432234
Sorry m8 :,(
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>>7431957
Bad b8 m8
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>>7432361
>>7432362
Maybe write a third part where she talks to the narrator, or takes him back to her home.
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>>7431957

The state is the biggest dom of all apparently.
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>>7432464
I was thinking more a flashback to how they know each other and what led to this happening, then continuing.
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Don't worry little anons, you'll start feeling better once you accept that being a man is just being a tool for sexual pleasure in a woman's hands.
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>>7432286
https://nhentai.net/g/136560/
There you are.
So, instead of posting doujins last night I passed out in yet another intoxicated stupor, so let's try this again.
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[1/3]
https://nhentai.net/g/169546/1/
Starting off with one that barely counts, a teacher sees a former student outside of her apartment, invites him in, and seduces the fuck out of him.
Also, she has large boobs.
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[2/3]
https://nhentai.net/g/128777/1/
A boy is caught by a teacher "peeking" into the showers, and after a misunderstanding, becomes a better person through confronting his issues.
...Or he bones said teacher.
This one gets my award for cutest bancho-sensei.
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>>7432811
I forgot the thumbnail I made.
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[3/3]
https://nhentai.net/g/146205/1/
Student lusts over his teacher, then gets another teacher after his virginity, then gets the teacher he wanted the first time after his virginity, who lets the other teacher take his virginity anyway, only to assault him twice as hard after that.
Also coach best girl.
Back to my usual schedule of lying around and complaining about sunburn. I hope this brought entertainment and fantasies to some of you.
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This may be relevant to some of your interests. (He's 24).
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>>7432614
Cool, if you finish it, please post it, your writing is good.
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>be me
>kissless virgin
>start talking with a girl
>tells me she wants to visit me this summer and makes plans
>i tell her i'm very inexperienced and never kissed anyone
>she doesn't seem to mind
>asks me if she could be my first kiss
>tell her if it comes to that and we like each other then yes
>also tell her that i'm somewhat submissive and nervous about all this
>she says i don't have to be and she will help me
>says she will initiate stuff if i'm too shy

Her personality doesn't seem very dominant but maybe i'm wrong
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>>7432882
Thanks, I'll work on it.
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>reading scum manifesto
>get a erection
>end up jerking off 3 times while reading

g-guys what is happening
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>>7432786
That thumbnail makes it look like she has really thick lips
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>>7433042
that's not gentle
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>>7430877
>be 6'5
>only thing I want is to be bullied by a tall tomboy
>have sex with my face buried in breasts
>all women here like short cuteboys
>will never be short and cute
>will never even be same height as girl, pic related
Why gooby
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>>7433082
Actually the average girl who's interested in this seems to be less committal and want a normal looking/acting guy who is a sub in bed. Sort of like an inverse of the cute nerdy girl who's secretly a dominatrix stereotype.
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>>7433042
See, this is exactly why the bible says men aren't supposed to be taught how to read. Their brains can't process it all and they end up getting funny ideas in their heads.
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>>7433087
That describes me, so where are these girls of which you speak?
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>>7433087
This makes me happy because all of the lewds are focused on really femmy looking guys, and I'm a 6'2 wide shouldered canadian lumberjack looking motherfucker.
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>>7430136
my gf came over last night and i put on paties then she got on top of me and started jacking me off and choked me while doing so then she put her mouth on my cock and i cummies everywhere

the end
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>>7433347
5/5
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>>7433205
outside, they don't really congregate in convenient locations so you have to get out in the world and socialize and find them in the wild.
it's sucks, I know.
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>>7433205
Same place all the Dom girls are.
Personality traits are invisible so Dom girls could be anywhere or more likely: not actually real at all
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>>7433438
they are rare but quite real, however they are repelled by the smell of bitter virgins.
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Masochists are disgusting, and ruin femdom for everyone
yes or yes
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>>7433489
>e
1
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>>7433489
If the world was good or decent categories would divide the fetish up into Femdom and masochism femdom instead of gentle femdom and femdom like we have now.

I just want people to understand there's a human side to this fetish that isn't all "worms" worshipping self proclaimed goddesses in leathery sex dungeons.
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Is there a support group for depressed subs?
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>>7433445
I'm not bitter I'm discouraged.
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>>7433559
No, because masochists are scum. They aren't content to just make it so that all the content is just awful for anyone who isn't a destructive degenerate, but they'll get incredibly uppity over any prospect of a submissive not feeling good about themselves
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>>7433559
This sounds like a recipe for a lot of peoples depressive self destructive behavior to get worse.

A lot of /gfd/ people need therapy, not as an insult, they actually would be significantly better off if they worked through their issues with somebody.

Sticking all of those people into one group specifically about negative feelings and being a submissive is a recipe for trouble imo. As much as I want support I dont think a big collective of internet subs is going to be healthy.
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>>7433573
Submissive ≠ masochistic.

That's kind of the whole point of this thread.
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>>7433604
I am very aware of the distinction.
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>>7428672
I wish I could find a girl that was into gentle femdom. I've been in multiple relationships where I always had to initiate, and always had to be the typical (guy) of the act. It got to the point where I was getting bored of being on top that I would try and act sheepishly to hopefully get them to do something but it never worked. Eventually I came out about to one girl I was dating and she had no interest in it.

I just want to be timid and go with the flow that she sets in the bedroom, and to be led by the nose and teased. To have her come up behind me, pull me towards her chest, nibble on my ear while she caresses my body. For her to call me a good boy when she commands me to go down on her after a long day at work. It'll probably remain a fantasy that I'll never fully experience. Sorry for blog.
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>>7433679
same, just know there are more like you, and we might one day luck out, you just have to keep trying until you find the one
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>>7433679
>Tfw need to be dominated by a girl
>Can participate and even enjoy normal sex but eventually I run out of steam to keep up being normal and need to melt into a cute women for attention and submissiveness
>Attitudes towards my fetish have been pretty negative in past relationships (lead to abuse once) so I pretty much need a mutual interest in this fetish over it just being entertained by my partner on occasion
>Oh and also I'm damaged goods, just to add to my total lack of marketability
>Mfw trying to find acceptance and love saddled with this stupid fetish
At least I might be funny again after I get help from some therapy, I'd have that going for me again at least.
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>tfw no spider-killing gf

better hope this little shit doesn't come any closer.
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>>7433725
I will get him! Spider! Get away from my boy! I doesn't afraid of anything and I will destroy you!
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>>7433731
it went away. you have a gift.

(also this post made me feel warm inside thanks)
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>>7433731
The domposts that make my cynical outer shell falter for a moment are what keep me coming back to these threads.
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For all the guys:
Why do you like femdom?

For me, it's because femdom is more intimate than normal sex. Having to completely trust my partner and just lay back while they do as they please makes me feel vulnerable and that's hot in itself. It almost makes me wonder, do women feel that way with normal sex?
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>>7432402
Who's the artist for this?
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>>7433087
I mean, I'm also fat, but the fact that I'll never be cute is the saddest aspect. I don't stutter and when I do it isn't cute.

Only people I get attracted to me are for some reason black whores.
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>>7433885
It's because you thicc

Even if you can't make yourself look like a thin Jojo put some work into your body and you'll attract a better type probably.
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>>7430030
I don't understand the whole /pol/ and fandom whatever the fuck but this picture make me hard so post mor
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>>7433865
When I was a kid I got molested by my best friend, my first girlfriend was an ex of his who was obsessed with him (they had dated in middle school so I thought it was no big deal since this was like senior year, and I had repressed the memory of him doing it at that point so the weird factor from that wasn't a consideration) and was using me to get him, my second and only other girlfriend was abusive. They both told me that they loved me without meaning it (both admitted to it after our relationships). So I'm pretty much fucked-shit damaged goods in all things intimate now.

The idea of a girl who is attracted to gentle domming and specifically gently domming me (instead of just entertaining it for me) makes me feel really desired and safe. I'm not going to be able to be a strong dominant type for a woman, it's just something I've come to accept. The idea that there's a woman out there who not only is ok with me the way I am but needs somebody like me in their life the way I need somebody like them melts my heart. I really hope I can find someone like that.

Sorry for oversharing
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Alright m8s here's a little story on current gf little long but good

>be me 20 6'1 larger guy but not really overweight
>still live with parents because current college is like 3 miles from my house saves money
> go to pick up a couple cds to listen too loverboy, Hollywood undead shit like that
> go to checkout cashier was absolute bitch critisised my music preferences about to get pissed then realize it was one of my really good friends from high school
> she's about 5'11 slim punk rock look and like has one of those lesbian fohawks
> immediately retort by giving her shit about her hair asking how's it like being a lesbian
> she fires back asking how I like getting my ponytail pulled when my boyfriend fucks me bants like that
> probably one of best friends I ever had met her when I was 17 when I changed high schools
>watched fucking cartoons like Star Wars clone wars during our classes
> she asks if I've finished it yet say no she hasn't either both on only season 3
> invite her over to try to rekindle friendship
> says alright gets off work in 3 hours
> she shows up after we start it back up in basement
> siblings wanted to watch for a while getting triggered by em but all of a sudden she gets a blanket and lays on top of me still watching
>ohyesplease.jpg
>then start feeling her hands doing a little exploring across body notice she's got a fuckin devil smile across her face
> puts one hand under leg the other gripping the back of my belt
> about 20 minutes later siblings take off to go to friends
>minute they're gone she yanks me down the couch and puts my into a full fuckin amazon position
>literally in shock how easily she did it too she doesn't even bat and eye
>puts my legs farther back with hers and starts thoroughly exploring my mouth with her tounge while combing through my hair with her tounge
> about 6 minutes of this she pulls away drops legs back down and says "damn one hell of a first kiss for me"
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>>7433971
Is this supposed to be an anime rendition of Mew2King getting kissed and hugged by that one girl?
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>>7433971
>while combing through my hair with her tounge
Wait hold on
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>All these lankboys who'll never find a Domme

Fucking reverse manlets, when will they ever learn?
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>>7433592
Guess I'll suffer alone.
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>>7433592
>This
See /r9k/ as proof.
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>>7433971
Continued this is where shit gets steamy...

> after catching my breath ask her why she did it
>she leans back in goes rightby my ear and whispers "because you always were shit at hiding the fact that you've wanted mommy to do that"
Sorry forgot to mention she loved it when I called her mommy during class more for the meme of it but now I realized it was more than a meme for both of us
>dick is diamonds she goes back in and keeps tounge punching my mouth for another 15-20 minutes while groping my bulge
>finally she backs off and slowly starts taking my pants off mints later she's in her boxers and in bottomless with the biggest hard on in my life
>she starts touching it and playing with it doesn't really know what to do with it
>says she's never seen a cock before (even better) and asked what I like
> say I've never had a girlfriend so mostly just jacked off
> the smile creeps back on her face as she tells me to kneel on the couch puts me into doggy position
>spits on her hand and starts slowly massaging my cock
> leans in and whispers "just close your eyes and let mommy milk you babe"
>ohchrist.webm
>she milks me for about 7 minutes before I tell her I'm about to cum
> she suddenly grabs my ponytail pulls its back softly but definitely with force
> locks my legs open with hers and starts furiously jacking it
> about 30 seconds later I cum with the force of a thousand suns spray cum all over our legs and blanket we're both exhausted
> she finally asks how I liked it she sees I'm literally panting like a dog
> after a couple minutes we get up and hurry to run to grab a towel and air out the basement
> all cleaned up new blanket but I grabbed some extra towels
> she asks why I say that I need to make her feel good now
> she looks at with with that ara ara kind of face and slowly slides off her boxers
>says "well I'm waiting" I say I've never pleasures a girl before takes my face in her hands and says "don't worry it's time for me to teach you"
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>>7433981
Fuk meant combing my hair with hands while we made out
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>>7430877
>anon posts really nice story
>good balance between cute and hot
>realize now not only am I jealous but sad
>mad at anon for feels but thankful for very nice story
Tha/uck you, anon. It was really nic/ful.
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>>7433679
>>7433719
>>7433720
I came for faps, but now I have feels.


why
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So recently it's been like something in my brain switched and I'm suddenly able to enjoy gentle femdom porn a lot lot lot more. Reading or thinking about a really hot gfd situation makes me get red in the face and start breathing heavy, when I jerk off it feels similar to when I get high and my eyes get all watery (I think if I were to get to do gfd with a girl I might actually end up crying which is really embarrasing). My orgasms have blown anything previous (including vanilla sex with two girlfriends) completely out of the water, a cum tsunami, leg spasms, I had an aftershock like a mini cumless orgasm like a minute or two afterwards. It was fucking great.
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>>7434025
Should be last one sorry I'm a detailed man

> she starts showing me how to lick and please her
>after a while it's hard for her to show me just leans back and keeps moaning guess I'm doing something right
>keep eating her out tasted a lot better than I imagined
>after about 10 minutes of this i start going a lot faster her moans get louder
> suddenly slam tounge in and she locks my head in her legs with the strengh that could challenge chun li
>she begins spasming while bucking into my mouth
> after a while she calms downs I'm able to pull back
> she looks exhausted but so happy I'm back to full mast by now
>she looks at it then says "well I think we're both ready for what's gonna happen next" she pulls me on top of her into her nice pillowy tits
> she kindly guided my cock into her never felt something this great in my life want to start jackhammering immedietly but try to pace myself
>start off with nice slow strokes then after a bit start going faster she's moaning again she's pushing her hips up into me too
>finally can see the finish line she says she's pretty close too tells me to go to town
> start going full throttle in her felt so fucking good after a minute or two her pussy grips me as she finishes
> I keep going after a second she gives my ponytail a little tug says "I want to see you face when you cum"
> about to finish
> think about pulling out instead of finishing inside naw son not today
> I bury it as I blast load after load into her almost pass out from the pleasure of my first time
>we both lay there for around 5 minutes she's back to rubbing my back
>after a minute she pinches my face and says "wtf who said you could finish inside me you faggot" she smiles and starts rubbing the spot she pinched
> after a bit we clean up she says she's gonna head home to clean up then come back
> she takes off I go to kitchen realize 14 year old brother is giving me the biggest shit eating grin "yeah faggot finish on the outside next time"
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>>7434064
Also is there anywhere online where I can like find a dom (actually female and not some dude looking to wank or some weird shit and I actually know that for sure) to talk to because I think some ERP stuff might honestly hit the spot for awhile until I/if I dont find this in real life.
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>>7434067
Sorry for long ass story got many other but dont wanna flood thread truly funniest and greatest lover and friend I ever had she loves to make me blush she ordered a craft machine to make one of those let mama rub your meat shirts I plan on marrying her at Christmas
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>>7433087
personally it's almost cuter when the guy doesn't look like a stereotypical sub
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>>7434088
Everybody says this, but are stereotypical subs still a consideration?
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>>7434102
Apparently not any more.

>tfw like and work towards the aesthetics of the stereotypical sub
>It doesn't sell/nobody wants it any more and, apparently, have to look like a dudebro/ruff looking man and on top of that I also have to be tall if I ever want to have a domme
My as well start investing on my funeral and kill myself while I still look cute. Who knows? Maybe I'll be lucky in my next life.
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>>7434107
>There are decent looking guys attracted to nearly every single niche of girl
>Every girl regardless of attractiveness is attracted to ONE SINGLE BODY TYPE
Seriously at this point death would be non-meme welcome. I wish I didn't have family members who would probably follow my lead if I did. I wont do that to them.
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>>7434107
Stop thinking in black and white. Some people like it and others don't, you just haven't met any that do. Christ, humans aren't that simple.
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>>7434107
>Maybe I'll be lucky in my next life.
Yea, maybe next life you'll be a woman and can get affection without having to go through all that "effort" shit
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>>7434112
>muh "grey world" philosophy

>>7434113
That would be much worse.
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>Domme's barely exist
>They don't even find submissive males attractive
I swear being stuck with this fetish gets better every day.
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>>7434122
It is a pretty big limbo this fetish you gotta act less submissive to try to find some Dommes But I know one trick I tried was using a domminent synonym in like a dirty comedic way to try to feel out if they are more dominant or if they gave me a more wtf look I could figure out they wouldn't be into it much that's how I met gf when she'd try to yank my backpack while walking I'd let something slip in a joking way quickly learned she liked hearing me say shit like that.

I dunno just a little experiment I tried before I got into a relationship not saying it works for all but helped me out
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>>7434142
>one trick I tried was using a domminent synonym in like a dirty comedic way to try to feel out if they are more dominant or if they gave me a more wtf look I could figure out they wouldn't be into it much that's how I met gf when she'd try to yank my backpack while walking I'd let something slip in a joking way quickly learned she liked hearing me say shit like that.
What did he mean by this?
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>>7434146
The only time acting like a sperg helped me out
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>>7434115
Man he was just trying to add a little bit of optimism. I'd wager a good deal of the reason some of you struggle so much is that you have such a toxically negative outlook. Wallowing in your own angst for extended periods ain't healthy. Most people more than anything are attracted to somebody that's just nice to be around. Change that first and maybe you'd have fewer woes.
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>>7434107
for what its worth, I am ugly, like not meme ugly for sympathy, I am just ugly, overweight, throughout school everyone called me Shreck I look way better with a beard everyone agrees but my beard is patchy, ect. I can go on all night on how ugly I am

my dom still loves me, even though she is willing to tell me I am ugly, she actually prefers the cuteboy look, but our personality's match perfectly so she is happy

tl;dr if an ogre can get a dom so can you anon
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>>7434165
Yeah because typing like one isn't helping you or anyone
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Is there such a thing as a submissive dom?
As in, she is submissive to you but she will take the dominant role if you ask her to because she wants to make you happy.
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>>7433865
Gender identity issues
I wanted to be a gril since like middle school. I was overly sensitive and acted girly and consequently i like assertive tomboyish girls. The idea of a gril wanting to be on top made me feel warm inside for some reason then i realised that litterally no girls like faggoty guys like me.

Pic related is my dream
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>>7433865
Mom beat a lot me as a child
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>>7430877
...wife her.
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>>7433865
I've had fantasies about losing control in one way or the other before I even hit puberty. Discovering femdom just allowed me to put that into a context.

And I just generally like sexual assertiveness in girls, because it shows that they're actually into it. I could probably get into domming a girl as long as she was really eager about it, but nothing says eagerness like "we're gonna fuck now whether you want to or not".
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>>7434330
Theoretically yes, but it's a little complicated, so I want to split this into two dimensions (the way I'm using these words aren't entirely accurate, but I'm arbitrarily defining them to have this discussion):
Sub/dom: Whether you like to be in control
Bottom/top: Whether you're focused on your partner's pleasure or your own

So you can be a sub, a dom, a bottom, a top, a sub bottom, a top dom, a sub top, or a bottom dom. All of those are possible on an individual level. But when entering a relationship, only certain combinations work. Two sub bottoms don't work together, obviously. But you can be a bottom and get along with a sub: You want to please them, and they get pleasure from not being in control, so you play along with that for their sake. You can be a dom and get along with a top: You let them have all the "fun", but you're in control of it.

But it's kinda like molecular bonding: Perfect compliments have the strongest bonds. So how well it would work out could be ranked something like this:
Perfect: Opposites in both dimensions (sub top + dom bottom, sub bottom + dom top)
Good match: Opposite in one dimension, neutral in the other (sub bottom + dom, top + bottom)
Decent match, but likely to cause confusion about the power dynamic: Opposite to adjacent dimension (top + sub)
Doable with some work: Neutral in both dimension (top + sub, bottom + vanilla)
Bad: Same in one dimension (top + top dom)
Disaster: Same in both dimensions (sub bottom + sub bottom)

And then it's even more complicated than that because they're actually gradients, so you could be more flexible on one dimension than another. And people are generally malleable and can really get into a certain role if someone they care about offers a lot of positive feedback.

Where do you guys place yourselves? I think I'd just call myself a bottom, I can flip over to either side of the dom/sub fence depending on mood, but I usually feel much safer being in control.
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>>7429881
You want to be fucked, but the idea of a man being fucked turns you off.
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>>7434428
please stop posting like this, and indeed at all
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>>7431366
Don't you fucking stop
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>>7429881
Did you never have something in your ass before? How can you make something your main fap fuel for a decade and not even check if you like anal.
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>>7432361
>>7432362
Give me m o r e
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>>7434468
s o o n
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>>7434444
I guess I went into a little too much detail, but it was the best way I could gather my thoughts on how the kind of power dynamic he described could work.
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Anyone tried therapy to cure themselves of this fetish? All of my experiences with "dominant" girls have been deeply disappointing, and it depresses me. It's frustrating to have a fetish that can never be realized IRL.
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>>7428672
Are you now genuinely using tumblr posts or whatever that is for your OP image?
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>>7434484
>Implying we can afford to be picky when good femdom material is non existant
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>>7434482
> It's frustrating to have a fetish that can never be realized IRL.
Try to think about size fetishists like me :(
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>>7429881
Maybe you just like the idea. Lot of people watch football without wanting to play it thbfam.
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>>7434482
just trying meeting up with a larger group of kinky people like your local munch. that might help you x
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>>7434495
I don't know. It's obvious that giantesses don't exist, so you can never get too hopeful. Gfd on the other hand seems realistic until you try it.

>>7434529
I've been involved with the BDSM community in the past. The women I dated from fetlife/munches basically epitomized everything that makes me disappointed in female doms. I assumed that was a problem with the community, so I looked elsewhere. But nothing changed.
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>>7434541
Can you be a little more specific on the issues? I dont understand
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>Cuddling with a girl
>Try to finagle myself into being the cuddle receiver instead of giver while we're shifting around
>Receive a weirded out look and a "uhhh, what are you doing?"
I dont understand why girls are straight up aggressive to the prospects of a submissive male. This wasn't in the context of femdom at all, I just wanted to be held for a bit and she treated me like I asked if she was down for watersports or scat.
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>>7434571
These women (six of them in total) called themselves dominant but were completely unable to exert any sort of dominance in the bedroom, let alone outside of it. The whole situation was absurd.
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>>7434596
Are you by any chance a big guy?
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>>7434596
What exactly was happening in the stead of domination that made them think they were being dominant? Like were they just blindfolding you before sex and calling that domination or something?

Or did they literally just dead fish during sex and have you fuck them while they sat in a dominant mindspace in their head? I dont understand
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>>7434599
For you
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>>7434574
sorry about that, man.
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she protec
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>>7434608
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>>7434609
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>>7434601
>Or did they literally just dead fish during sex and have you fuck them while they sat in a dominant mindspace in their head?

Essentially, yes. Sometimes they would even ask me to hold them down, pull their hair, slap them etc.

>>7434599
Nope. I'm thin and somewhat feminine looking.
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>>7434617
>I am going to dominate you by telling you to dominate me
I had this happen to me to but at least it was with a girl who said she wanted to try it for me, not an actual self proclaimed dom.

If there's any "doms" that do this reading ITT, go find a different fetish. There's plenty of market for girls who just want to deadfish and get manhandled in normal maledom relationships.
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>>7434626
>If there's any "doms" that do this reading ITT, go find a different fetish

weve been telling them that for years but they still come here to attention whore. s m h t b h f a m
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>>7434626
They might be confusing dominant with selfish. If they go and find a maledom to slap them around, they'd have to accept that he'd want to have things his way instead of just playing out their exact fantasies.
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>>7434634
I honestly cannot imagine the how the normal relationship dynamic for straight couples isn't one sided enough for them but whatever.
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>>7434636
I hate to bring up the "women are attracted to assholes" idea, but these kinda women probably are. They want a rough fucking, so they seek out aggressive and arrogant guys, then realize that kind of relationship isn't all that great, and get weird ideas about how to seek out alternatives. Or something. I don't know.
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>>7433865
Partially, I've always preferred to be subordinate, at least to people who have my respect; authority has no real appeal to me.

Mostly I just like the general trappings of the fetish. Being wanted, cuddling, a lot of intimate touching (girls messing with my hair is my fucking kryptonite), and I've got an interest in trying out some of the bondage stuff too. I wouldn't be brave enough to wear a collar out in public but being made to wear one around the house is something I really want for some reason. I really don't know why. I assume it ties back to the 'being wanted' bit somehow.
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>>7433592
I don't come to this general very often, though I used to. I tried therapy; maybe I need to try again, but it was mostly useless. Tried to talk through my shit, and it seemed like she mostly just insisted that I was normal and on a good life path, and that's if I was getting any feedback at all. Maybe I didn't explain well enough or something. Fuck it, at least now she can be used for a ref' if I ever want to hit up HRT.

Here's a pic to make this at least a little relevant.
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>>7434698
fuck me
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>>7431356
Shit, I am you in a few years :/
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>>7434934
Implying I'd ever be retarded enough to look a girl in the eyes and say "I like femdom" a second time. Public perceptions and what google will show them should be evidence enough that its a bad idea.

Also if I was ever somehow in this situation I'd explain that I'm happy to indulge in pain play for her (bondage is pretty tight so I dont care about that) but that I'll need some time before I'll be ready because of reasons that I would have already explained to her at this point (abusive ex)

This does bring up a good discussion though, most of us aren't going to find a self proclaimed domme and find a girl who happens to want to/be able to do this. How have anons/would anons approach this issue with their GFs? Howd you do it and howd it go?
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>>7434115
>All my problems are everyone else's fault.

No wonder you're so stupid, you blame the world for not having someone around you.
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Guys I gotta know if min getting bamboozled

>started working for craft company have female boss several years older than me
> constantly see her stressing out about making paperwork deadlines
> I like getting my all my work done really fast so I have more free time offer to help her with hers
> parents were both good at budgeting I managed to help save store some money on useless stuff
> she starts giving my hair little ruffles when we finish for the day
> she constantly invites me over to her house to eat always tries to feed it to me herself she thinks it's cute when she cleans my face after we're done
>paperwork done thought this is where she leaves me to the wolves
> surprisingly invites me to old retro arcade have really fun night after a game she ruffles hair says that's my boy then goes to play another game
What I'm getting at here is two questions, one: what age of a domme do you think would be too old for you and two: if I'm pretty sure she's into age play what's some stuff I can do to let her know I like it. I don't look like ageplayer 6'3 dress like desperado larper duster coat and such and covered in cuts, and marks from very reckless and stupid child and early teen years I think she's getting discouraged trying to do this stuff and thinking I don't like it I dropped a lot of weight to get women interested in me I just have never had or hardly takes to women before her so I just need some tips from anyone who might have had an ageplay domme
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>>7435008
Tell her how you feel you fucking loser
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>>7435023
I did I make sure to. I'm mostly just tying to think of ways to let her know I'm ok with age play I'm just really shit at expressing myself got into trouble a lot when I was younger so kind of got used to throwing on a blank face for everything
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>>7435037
"Hey we should sit down and talk about sex things that we are into, I'll start _____"
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>>7435040
Shit is it really that easy I have 3 sisters and I'll be damned if I think it's that straightforward with women but hell I guess it's worth a shot I'm going to her place to night for Sunday dinner guess I'll post my result for it after
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>When I do find a gentle domme on the internet, its basically somebody who wants a kid or a pet instead of just being an adult man who wants to be desired
It never fucking stops with this fetish
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A long time ago I remember a real life gfd story about a guy who had a rough childhood and how he met this girl who looked after him but then also sort of exploited him and they sort of hooked up and after that my mind sort of goes blank...
It was this ongoing saga and I think he met her again as an adult but I can't remember what it was called... Am I crazy and did I dream this or can anyone else remember this too?
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>>7435085
hey where do you find petplay dommes
a-asking for a friend
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>>7434698
>female therapist
gee, I wonder why it didn't help
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>>7433679
this caption isn't gentle, the implications are horrific
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>>7435122
this thread is gentle femdom and role reversal. It very much is role reversal.
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>>7435219
you're arguing with the guy who wrote it lol
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>>7433592
>A lot of /gfd/ people need therapy

Every single thread le psychologist appears. Fuck off you and your meme
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>>7435285
the people who need help are the people who can't distinguish fantasy from reality
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>>7431366
cont'd
>she says, 'Oh anon, i already told you... but if you don't try again, ill let you get the oil out'
>can't pass this up
>we have this pina colada scented massage oil, and its edible, and it tastes awesome too
>she sees my eyes go wide, i cant help it
>she smiles and tell me to sit down on the bed
>she comes over and starts to give me a light blowjob, with the mirror behind us
>at this point im stupidly hard, and once i twitch involuntarily once in her mouth, she pulls off
>"good, you're ready"
>she starts to strip teaste and tells me "no touchy or we wont use the oil"
>so i get to sit there, hands at my sides while she grinds inches from my cock, slowly stripping off the lingerie
>once shes completely naked, shes gets onto the bed behind me
>you'll get your reward once im done, hon
>i move forward
>tells me to kiss her legs
>kiss down the length of her long, gorgeous legs
>shes smiling at me and makes little cute sounds
>when i get close she puts a hand on top of my head and grabs my hair
>"If you make me cum... you can cum in amazon, anon"
>i love that position like life itself
>i start to eat her out, doing long strokes up and down her slit slowly, digging in deeper every few
>shes incredibly wet and i love being enveloped in her scent and taste
>move my lips around her clit, suck it into the top part of my mouth slightly and then lick up and down the hood part inside with my tongue while its held in place with the light suction
>thats her weakness
>do that for a little bit, and then back to the original longer strokes, now i stick a finger inside and stroke slowly
>work my way up to two fingers
>return to the suction after a while
>for the last five minutes, start to work fingers in with the suction
>feel her closer and closer
>she starts to cry my name out, "anon.. anon... mmm.. anoonnn"
>clamps her legs together and grips my head and pushes it into her and cums
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>>7435307
>i move my way up and we cuddle for a few minutes, painfully aware of how hard i am
>precum noticable
>she knows
>cuddling is either her onto my chest teasting me lightly
>or i get to put my head onto her chest and she palys with my hair
>"That was great, anon... who's my good boy?"
>its me, and she looks to the oil, its time
>>I grab the oil she had set out and heat it up by rubbing it in my hands, and i start to massage her entire body slowly
>i get to grope and play a little bit, mostly my time to enjoy while shes afterglowing hard
>get to spread her ass cheeks and see her glistening pussy from behind
>when i flip her over i get to rub her oiled up tits while she looks at me
>once shes enjoyed her massage for ten or so minutes, she motions me down, and oils me up
>we proceed to makeout and grind and hand play for a little bit
>dick too hard
>she starts out by cowgirling for a few minutes
>sliides down onto my length slowly, shes super tight, but so wet that it can go in... i can't really believe its moving
>after she's warmed herself up, she puts my arms above my head, and kisses me deeply, during the kiss though she hand cuffs me
>she gets off my cock
>smiling at me, she says "youve been such a good boy tonight... you can have to blindfold too"
>proceeds to tie a strip of cloth, probably a scarf of hers cuz it smells like her, around my eyes
>pushes my legs up , i grab the back of the bed frame to help keep them up
>i can feel her thighs on mine
>she's fully set up in the amazon position, and she slips me inside her
>she starts thrusting, and all i know is her smell, her tightness, the feeling and sounds of her on top of me, thrusting at me, taking in about half my length
>it feels sooooo gooooodddddddffdfdafdsfdafad
>after i start to get closer, i moan ,"oh femanon, im getting close"
>she picks her pace up
>im really fucking edged and need it more
>"fuck me harder, harder"
>suddenly she gest her force up all the way
cont
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>>7435319
cont'd
>i can feel my entire length being fucked every single thrust, i won't hold out long
>the bed is shaking from her thrusts
>my head is getting light, this is too good
>after maybe a minute or two, i cry out "im cumming, im cumming"
>she slides off quickly and jerks me off through the orgasm, jerking me off onto myself
>my chest and stomache are pretty covered, biggest load of my life.
>she gets the blindfold off so she can see i see her handiwork
>goes and cleans me up while im still cuffed
>once im cleaned up she uncuffs me
>cuddles me a little bit, light kissing, telling each other we love each other and little whispers of cute nothings
>then just mostly silence and little happy sounds, enjoying the feel of our oily bodies sliding lightly in the afterglow, fall asleep in each others arms.
this was the prelude to my dom session, and boy did i have to live up to something.... She just makes me feel so wonderful and good in the bedroom and out and its perfect. One time i woke her up by eating her out, and now she has a habit of sometimes starting the day morning sex because she just likes starting the day with an orgasm. Can't blame her.
I have too much to say and way too many stories about her i love her and will be marrying her soon. good luck fellow anons.
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>>7434574
They don't want men to have their privileges of being provided and protected for or for men to be free from male gender roles. Hence the feminist opposition to men's issues and the MRM
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>>7433720
i am eternally gr8ful for my girl
I think people are looking in the wrong places. I met her without looking at all, really.
I had given up and was just playing the tinder game at my friends house on our phones years ago, and she happened to message first, and was the only girl to ever do so, and it went from there. We didnt even meet up for weeks. No one was 'looking'. That's always how my godo relationships have been. Try to be open, but not trying to find something, and the right thing will fall into your lap. THats my experence anyhow.
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>>7435353
>Stomaching the "dating game"
Some option. Dip myself headfirst in what I hate on the offchance I find a girl who will tolerate my fetish. And certainly stop once/if we get married and I'm stuck to her.
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>>7435219
>>7435279
and right here we have why everyone hates us
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teaching my sub gf to dominate me. she now will count down and have me cum on command

>>7435122
w-what are the implications
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>>7434603
YES! True memes never die.
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>>7435057
/D/!!!! I did it I did it lads so happy right now went over had dinner we started watching a movie I tried not to be too awkward about it just asked her what kind of stuff she's into gave me kinda puzzled look mentioned the hair ruffles and asked why she liked cleaning my face told her I was into that kind of thing she lit up super bright and just hugged me close to 30 minutes she started crying mentioned how she only had one relationship when she was 25 but it only lasted a month or two because the minute she tried this stuff he left she just said she always had really strong paternal instincts her life and so I was basically run through a test and I passed!! So reason I asked what age is ok she's 26 I'm 21 in November but never really cared about her age just happy she didn't beat around the bush i talking to me about it. Now I just gotta work on expressing my happiness with her not that I'm hers. thanks for help /d/
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You hear me turn the key to the door. You make a happy little squeak in the kitchen as you finish our dinner. We finish and I take off my pants before a brief nap in bed. You finish the dishes and come back for our evening fun. I sit up and pat my lap and you lay down on our bed. You relax your head on my lap, pointing right at the laundry basket. The FULL laundry basket. "How many times have I caught you misbehaving this week?" I pull your head to the pillows and pull your briefs off. The spanks begin and you meekly say "One?" knowing this was your thirteenth.
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>>7435285
My dear god please sauce.

Thats the best phrase there is.

Please.
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>tfw no gf to beat me up

>>7435699
nhentai.net/g/164435/
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>>7435722
>>7435285
404 gentle not found
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>>7435722
THANK YOU BASED ANON
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>>7435741
are gfdfags just vanillafags in disguise
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>>7435748
I mean it's vanilla just 'the other way'. You can do a ton of cute and ultra lewd things like this.

Also, like, there's CBT and harsh femdom and fighting/boxing threads. This is for GENTLE femdom. Here I thought I might have crossed the line with this: >>7435584. Meanwhile we're actively punching people in the face for arousal.

I'm going to write a story for this maybe, but I'm sure one exists within the ATLA/LoK people.
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>be me
>highschool 5 years ago
>get first fake ID
>College brother who has a friend invites me downtown
>she buys all my drinks
>I never not have a drink in my hand
>first time being drunk, can't handle it and she knows it
>go home with her
>can barely walk inside
>laying on couch
>"are you tired anon?"
>*grunt*
>"aww, It's ok"
>lays on couch with me, cradles my head between her boobs and rubs my head until I fall asleep
>even makes me breakfast in the morning and washes my alcohol ridden clothes
This is what made me like this fetish, but she graduated and moved, and I haven't found anyone similar yet
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>>7435578
>she's 26 I'm 21
I thought you meant she was like 50 you faggot.
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>>7435764
>>7435578
Oh and also congrats you lucky fuck
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>>7435748
>Literally fucking decking somebody belongs on gentle femdom
Fuck the hell off you massive retard
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>>7435767
Not that guy, but what about friendly sparring with your domme?
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>>7435578
Good job anon. Best of luck! :)
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>>7435776
I dont really box, how rough would that be?
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Theoretically, how difficult would it be to look androgynous and hairless while keeping strength? Because I really like the androgynous/feminine men looks, but I also want to be strong enough to lift heavy shit around without prominent/noticeable musculature.

Would it be possible, or should I just wait till humanity can pass one persons consciousness/brain into a robot so I can live out my dream of being beautiful.

>>7435767
>This faggot wouldn't have a friendly pankration sparring session with his domme then lick the sweat out of her body
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>>7435799
You can have fetishes that aren't gentle femdom and use them during gentle femdom

That doesn't mean you should post them here.
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>>7435766
Yeah nah maybe it's just my family but basically if you went out with some more than three years older they thought it was weird
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>>7435789
it can vary, some people full force spar, and that will really rattle your marbles some, others just go slow and gentle, to teach, all depends

>>7435804
this anon is correct though, just because I love bbw's, and my dom is on the chubby side (I would like bigger, but not my choice) doesn't mean I should post a ton of bbw stuff here
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>>7434466
I mean pegging always appealed to me for conceptual reasons, mostly role reversal... The physical sensation was never important in my mind. That said, I did experiment by myself, and it does feel good (although rarely worth the hassle compared to normal masturbation).

If you mean with another person though, no I was flying solo most of those years (aka a virgin into my mid 20s, too busy being physically prude, brooding, and idealistic).

>>7434433
Yeah... this feels pretty close to the mark. Being fucked is so much hotter than fucking. There's more to it, so many layers of conflicting emotion. Fucking someone else is pretty straightforward by comparison. But I'm heavily endowed with masculinity in general and being fucked doesn't seem to mesh with my identity at all really. Not in any gratifying way.
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>>7435835
Light painplay is acceptable, scratching and spanking choking and more are all posted regularly as long as they're not really intense.

Light things of a lot of things are accepted on the sub, the key is intensity. A boxing match isn't gentle.
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>>7435853
>Light things of a lot of things
Light versions of a lot of fetishes*
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Gentle pegging is so hot.
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>>7435874
futa is not pegging, it's juste futa
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>>7435875
For fuck sake people this thread main idea really isn't this hard of a concept
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>>7435877
Meant to reply to >>7435874
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>>7435897
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>>7435853
your right anon, I was simply answering his question, didn't intend to imply it belonged here sorry, though now my mind is going, and wrestling might be very gfd, if done gently.
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>>7435903
Ye I agree
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>>7435877
>>7435875
being this mad
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>meet girl
>we both like anime
>we both have stable jobs
>she's perfect
>find out she is sub
i just can't
it's not even a fetish at this point
being submissive for me is to the point of sexual prefrance
being dom in bed makes me disgusted and gives me anxiety

i was so close too
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>>7435846
Yep.

I'm in the same boat. I've had dozens of sexual partners, but not once have I ever been fucked. Being ridden by a girl isn't being fucked.

I want to be bent over and fucked hard in the ass until I can't take any more.

But I'd never actually feel comfortable doing that with a girl, since guys being fucked in the ass is so unappealing in my mind - and i know it's the same for 99% of girls.

It really sucks. I'd give anything to be a girl just to be fucked senseless.
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>>7435936
Find a bi Dominant, live together in happiness

Good end
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>>7435940
easter said than done
i'm trying
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>go to the gym
>find girl
>date her
>realise you can be cute and fit
>still go to the gym
>still a sub
>still cute
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>>7435916
but futa is not pegging, it's just futa
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All I want is a woman to violate my personal space and whisper into my ear "would you like me to seduce you?" Is that so wrong?!!!
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>>7435963
Are the roles reversed?
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Gentle CBT
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>>7435984
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>>7435578
Mfw /D/ is better at giving dating advice that /adv/
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>>7436117
This
Went to fit didn't want me to lose muscle mass to look more sub told me to keep large body go to /d/ shown charts and proper workouts still need emotional help go to friends, family told women are hella complicated and that they like men who hate showing emotion /d/ tells me complete opposite mfw my new gf about started crying when she saw me actually smile during dinner /d/ works in mysterious ways
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>>7433679
good luck finding a not-troll 3DPD that is into that
really like the caption tho
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>>7435008
She's into ageplay and you might feel self-conscious since you don't look the part.

That's the gist of it, yeah? If so, just remember that a part of it might be more her getting off to seeing you in an embarrassing position. The fact that you know you don't fit the part plays into it. It's a gentle humiliation
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>>7436104
enough with dicks
its femdom not goatdom
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>>7433865
I'm a sad person that has every chance to find any girl who I could possibly want, but I am too suspicious and have too little self esteem to try and make something that would bring me happiness in life. Not fat, not unattractive, just scared to be intimate with anybody, so I guess I'll just fetishize the one thing I'll never obtain.
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>>7433865
I want a mommy I can stick my dick in, also ties into other fetishes I have, due to thinking about males being the disposable sex way too much
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>>7434609
>>7434611
Best
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>>7433865
Because I'm 6'5 and built like a freight train and it's boring that every single goddamn girl wants me to take control, take all the initiative, and do all the work. I want to feel wanted, rather than feel like a means to an end.
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>>7434074
Flood the thread
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Didn't know at first I was into /gfd/ until 4 years ago when I discovered my issue with a childhood friend spoiling me.
Now all the things I'm reading here are hitting me right in the kokoro, there's nothing I can do about it. Should I consider prison gay ?

Will maybe greentext my story when I'll be on my laptop
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/rr/ is getting memed on. Is this the first step to it becoming socially acceptable?
look up "male romper" on twitter
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>>7436468
You're going to have to explain how this is /rr/ related because all I'm seeing is random fashion shit.
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>>7435874
>tfw no penis
>tfw you'll never know the pleasure of cumming inside your bf

Fuck. Strap ons are still fun but I wish I could feel him ;_;
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How do I into pegging? Given myself prostate massages before and it's great but when I tried getting pegged it felt more weird than good. Sliding in and out is a weird feeling. Anything I should do to get used to it?
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>>7436204
Yeah when I did ask her she said she was heavy into ageplay and I asked if she liked me acting different than what I usually do well the main reason she wanted me smiling was that because a couple of my friends work at the same place I do she asked them about why I didn't smile much and they basically told her how I was a pretty big trouble maker so got used to not smiling so she thought I was like depressed or something but when I talked to her she basically laid me on her lap and said I can act however I'm used to but I shouldn't be afraid to act silly around her so it's not that she likes embarrassing me but she definitely has given me a place to start acting like myself again
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>>7436468
I looked up male romper on twitter and as >>7436589 said found some fashion stuff. Don't see what it has to do with /rr/. /rr/ will only start to become socially acceptable when the male expectation of being a disposable provider and protector starts to collapse, which will be a long fight as the tradcons and feminists don't want to give it up.
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>>7436710
I'm truly lucky. If only the /pol/tards stopped being stupid.
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>>7436939
You're not a woman and don't belong here no matter how much you try to disrupt the thread.
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>>7436939
>If I post images as I crash the thread it's ok!
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>>7437022
This would be even better if it was F/f.
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>>7436998
That feel when you'll never be able to be a cute girl.
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>>7437026
Futa on female? Agreed.
>>7437049
Titty skittles aren't that bad.

I need boys to bully.
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>>7436710
I'm pretty sure that would kill him.

>>7436754
No, don't.
Unless the kappa takes has already stolen your shirikodama and you're in this shape.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_my3088VArY
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>>7433956
I know how you feel anon.
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>be busy businesslady in a medium sized company
>be single for awhile and try to enter the dating scene
>older coworker keeps leaving small homemade gifts at my desk
>also have friend from college regularly talking to me

A. Tell him to fuck off
B. Pursue coworker
C. See what college friend is up to
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>>7437323
D. stop roleplaying
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>>7437326
Besides, to be /rr/ it would have to be an older business-lady (late 30s/early 40s) pursuing a younger man.
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>>7437323
D. Take this shit back to deviantart comment sections.
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>>7437323
E. become friends with both :)
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>>7437054
You can bully me fampai.

Unless youre a dude.
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>>7432902
same with my gf, she's more of a sub but took the lead with a lot of things because i was too shy and nervous
sometimes she goes full dom out of nowhere, heavenly feel
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>>7433720
if its some consolation, this is a better fetish than full on foot fetish
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>>7435578
Congrats man!
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Who is your favourite /gfd/ related character?
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For some reason, I like the cool and stoic dominant girls. Like a kuudere, they don't blatantly express a lot of emotions, but by their actions and the subtle change in their demeanor, you can tell they care.
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>>7437762
Same.
I don't really trust people that are overly happy (been hurt by these kind of people in the past, generating a resentment towards them) and I had an history teacher (that I had a crush on) that was pretty much a kuudere which help me trough a rough time in my life, which, also, funnily enough gave me this fetish and a love for cool stoic characters that are very subtle at showing emotions.

Anyway, post music that remind you/makes you imagine your domme
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jnimZXClLFA

>tfw no tall and strong goth girl to be your stoic pale empress
I just want someone to look cool and dark and talk about weird/bizarre things other than myself or people on the internet and may be cuddle afterwards.
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>>7436865
Anon, I like the stories and all but you gotta work on your run on sentences. Your posts can get pretty confusing to read.
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>>7437686
Tio>Rachnee
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>>7438033
Tio is love, Tio is life
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>>7433559
There sure is. Entrance fee is one 9x19 round for lifetime membership. .45 ACP is also accepted.

For real, though, I'm with >>7433592 but for different reasons.
Real life support groups work because they have some sort of moderator. A neutral party to keep the group focused and maybe throw their 2 cents in every now and again. A group consisting of 50 male subs will inevitably devolve into
>Tfw no dom gf
and stagnate in a circlejerk of self-pity.

Also, therapy is a joke. If you're forced to go it's extremely easy to tell them what they want to hear and walk out with no consequences. I did that shit all the time when I was a kid. On the other hand when you actually want help working out life issues you're pretty much paying someone $200/hr. to watch you talk to yourself and occasionally nod. I gave it a shot a couple years ago and quit after two sessions.
>>7434698
>>7435114
My therapist was also female, both as a kid and a couple years ago.
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What are some red flags to look out for when choosing a domme?
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>>7438270

Findom
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>>7436865
I... don't understand, could you use a bit more punctuation?
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>>7438270
-referring to oneself as Goddess, Mistress, etc.
-polyamory
-older than 30 and still posting on dating sites
-short hair (less than shoulder length)
- describes self as bi/pan/queer

desu you should just stay away from online dating, especially fetlife. the best dommes I had never called themselves dommes or participated in the "BDSM community".
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>>7438273
>sweet release that I deny them
God damn I wish I had a cute girl controlling my orgasms
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>>7438272
Can confirm. If you encounter a findom nuke the site from orbit.
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>>7438270
>feminist
>switch
>pegging
>into cuckoldry
plus confirmations to >>7438272 and >>7438281.
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>>7438350
I agree with this post, just want to add that while feminism is definitely a red flag, so are any strong political leanings in a woman - left or right.
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>>7437686
Leone in Akame Ga Kill maybe
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>>7438272
>>7438281
>>7438350
Some of these points were very valid and then I was wondering about the incredible concentration of autism among some of the others. Then it dawned on me: The femdom-anons on /d/ were these infamous "gentle femdom" faggots. Thank you for reminding me why I stay away from this thread, even when scrolling through the board.
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>>7438635
All of those words just to say nothing. s m h
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>>7438635
Femdom always have been a trash community surrounded by SJW/Feminists/Findom
But you can still stay and sometimes read some lewd greentext about how anon's ex gf was lovely when she used to headpat him
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>>7433983
>Born with the body of a dominant
>Born with the mind of a submissive
>Nobody on either side wants me
F U C K
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>>7438399
>>7438350
>>7438281
>would prefer if women weren't their own persons and didn't have any autonomy
lmao no wonder you guys have trouble getting dates
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>>7438641
>>7438662
It's bait, don't feed them.
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>>7438755
you only just figured out why this community is so cancerous?

at the very least it drives what few ladies there are to the other /d/ communities
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>>7438756
I don't think it's a bait, sounds more like a pissed guy
I probably would have say this few years ago
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>>7438755
Butthurt feminist detected. Also, going by your logic, does that mean that only 18% of Americans and 7% of Britons believe women are people and should have autonomy?
>In a culture where feminism seems to be gaining momentum, a new poll appears to contradict that notion, showing that only 18 percent of Americans consider themselves feminists.
>More than two thirds of Britons support gender equality – but just seven per cent would call themselves feminists
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>>7438764
lol, I've always wanted to get "by your logic"ed.
>>7438757
Nah, I've known for years, I just like insulting these assholes at every chance I can.
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>>7438270
Switch for me is the biggest

You do good at normal sex one time and you never get dominated again.

90% of Switches like the idea of us way more than they want a submissive guy.
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>>7438820
Not an argument. Now then are you going to explain how only 18% of Americans and 7% Britons see women as people?
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>>7437686
>>7438033
Tio=Cerea>Rachnee
ftfy
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>>7437332
>decide to pursue younger man
>he's a early 20s college drop out with no hobbies or friends
>try to make conversation but he ends up just agreeing with me with everything
>he starts talking about wanting to be a househusband
>kitchen is a mess, rarely showers, and expects me to cook everything for him

What do>>
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>>7433865
Its a two-parter for me.

First part is I was sexual assaulted by a female friend when we were in middle school. Told my parents that I got jumped by a few high schoolers on the football team. Fucked me up for being intimate with ANYONE I don't know REALLY well, and that's all I have to say about that.

The second part is actually a positive experience:
>Starting college, only ever kissed one girl, going for dual engineering degrees because fuck having a social life, going to major university city
>ShippingUpToBoston.mp3
>A female friend from high school, whom I had a crush on but never acted on due to aforementioned sexual assault, starts at nearby school one year later. I had moved on by that point, but I still considered her a friend. We'll call her Sarah.
>Sarah starts inviting me over on the weekends somewhat regularly.
>She is determined to get me laid with at least one of her friends (later I find out she is a domme, not a gentle one, irrelevant to this story - but she got off on the idea of having me fuck her friends)
>Confess the assault to Sarah (I was very drunk) as a way to get her to stop wasting her time.
>She fucking doubles down on her efforts
>Halloween weekend approaches, and it had been unseasonably warm leading up. All the girls costumes are super-ultra-revealing. I've seen lingerie that covered more.
>Sarah has been planning, scheming. She insists I come to their party
>Shitty freshman six-pack dorms, with furniture old enough and dirty enough that some of the legacy students very well might have been conceived on it.
>Halloween night and winter decides to show up
>Nor'Easter.slush
>Everyone is trapped inside, watching scary movies
>"There is a spot open next to Liz, Anon" - Sarah
>All the couches are packed
>End of movies, close to midnight, couples are 'retiring' and Liz has both her legs draped over my lap.
>I'm drunk, I'm tired, the subway is about to close
>"See you in the morning Anon" - Sarah, taking a girl back to her room
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>>7433865
No idea how to relationship and terrified of making moves because everything is rape now so the idea of a woman taking the initiative seems like a good way to actually learn about this whole "love" thing. Also grew up with a short dad/tall mom and mom was also the main decision-maker so that's always been my idea of normal.
I've also been a bit of an outcast for most of my life so actually being wanted seems nice.
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>>7438273
Yeah sorry was super hyped at time so totally forgot any type of punctuation.
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>>7439257
Cont.

>Liz and I stay up talking
>My eyes keep drifting shut
>Comment how disgusting the couch is
>"Put your head in my lap Anon" Liz says in this soft, but commanding tone.
>I hesitate
>NotOptional.gif
>She puts her hand on the back of my neck and lays me down face up in her lap
>Begins playing with my hair while we talk
>WhatIsThisFeeling
>Can no longer keep my eyes open
>I feel her play with my hair, hand on my stomach
>Slowly, she stops running her finger through my hair, and instead pulls on it a little
>Second kiss ever
>"Come on Anon" Liz says to me as she gets up and leads me back to her room
>Her roommate is asleep in the bed across the room
>"She brings boy back all the time when she thinks I'm asleep. I need to make a point"
>Pushes me back onto her bed and crawls into my lap
>"What if she wakes up?" I dumbly ask
>"I hope she does"
>Liz spends the entire time trying her damnedest to make me moan, grunt, just be as noisy as possible while I tried desperately to keep from waking her roommate up
>I do not succeed
>Liz's roommate turned over after what felt like forever, but was probably just 10-15 minutes of fooling around.
>She watches for a little, pretending to be asleep
>TheMainEvent
>Roommate leaves after just a few moments
>"No, stay. You could learn a thing or two. Being an easy slut only gets you so far" chastises Liz as the Roommate quickly leaves.
>Door still open
>"Well, at least she can still listen"

cont'd
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>>7439311
cont.

>I don't know if it was the alcohol or shear force of will, but I don't nut in the first few milliseconds
>I do still finish quickly
>Liz takes that as an invite to just keep teasing me until I'm back at full mast
>Sensitivity overload, try to get away
>She was fucking strong, nothing I could do to stop her
>The couple times I got close to getting away, she would grab my hair, pull my head back, and give me a hickey on my neck. All resistance melted away when she did.
>After what was probably a half hour, my dick finally cooperates with her will and I'm back in the game
>"Now the real fun begins"
>gets us into the lotus position, with my arms trapped by her legs at my side, and just begins rocking and lifting her hips.
>She spends the next two hours going painfully slow
>Too slow to cum
>"I can hold you here, right on the edge, and there is nothing you can do about it"
>She is absolutely fucking right
>Its this blindingly brilliant agony that is this mixture of already drained balls, over stimulation, exhaustion, and just beginning to sober up. Would recommend.
>Its 3am, I'm pretty much this whimpering, mewling mess, tangled in her arms and legs.
>My head is rolled onto her shoulder, I'm just trying to breath at this point, never mind think.
>She grabs my hair again, and pull my ear to her mouth
>After a quick nibble, "It's pretty late hun, I've gotten what I wanted, and you need your rest."

cont'd
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>>7439370
cont.

>MaximumOverdrive
>I think the only reason I didn't cum right away at this point was simple exhaustion, but after a few minutes, I fucking emptied buckets of cum
>I honestly didn't think it was possible to cum that much, condom overflowed
>I pretty much pass out as soon as I finish

>Wake up the next morning
>I'm still naked, wrapped up in her arms and legs. Door still wide open.
>Manage to untangle myself without waking Liz up. In fear of round two.
>Manage to find my boxers, leave the room.
>Roommate curled up on the couch on a pile of her clothes and costume
>Sarah and her lady-friend are standing in the kitchen, making a pot of tea and she gives me a cup
>"Heard you had fun last night Anon"
>I can FEEL the heat in my face I blush so hard
>"He sure did" chimes Liz, emphasizing her words with a quick smack on my butt. Not the last time she would sneak up on me like that
>I somehow find the blood to both blush even harder and get a semi
>"Come on. I owe you breakfast"

That was how I discovered I liked gentle femdom, and was the start of a beautiful college relationship. Honestly, one of our more mild nights.
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>>7439188
Push him gently and teach him everything
You'll have to be patient but I'm sure he would enjoy to do these things with you a lot
He will probably grow up a lot too
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>>7439188
He's not a sub, just lazy. You can do better.
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>>7438270
"I don't do much community stuff, I have my own way of dominating"
calling you "pig, bitch, slave, pet," before you have negotiated any protocol
"I don't want to meet somewhere public"
"You need to do (x, y, and z) for me before I agree to consider meeting you"
"You need to prove your loyalty before we meet in person"
"TRIBUTING PIGS ONLY" (findom = cancer)

There are predators out there, doesn't matter your genetic makeup. The reason most people think participation in the kink scene is important is because there's accountability there.

It may help to ask past play partners of that Domme how she plays, or people on the local scene who might have seen her. Or, ask Dommes to send you people who will provide a reference.
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>>7438270
>Findom
>Super strong political leanings (left or right), as in to be intolerant of dissenting opinions.
>Using dating sites at all
>Wanting to be called "goddess", "Mistress", etc, outside of scenes at all times
>Cucking outside of scenes

I would consider things like poly, pan/fluid, switches, and short hair to all be yellow flag. Not hard pass, but proceed with caution. I've had negative and positive experiences.

Right now, I'm dating a bi, poly girl, its pretty good. Low commitment, and she is the best wingman under the sun. We're also both switches. Neither of us like the SM part of BDSM, and we're pretty evenly balanced. But I admit there are a lot of switches who aren't really - they just like the idea and haven't a clue about how to dominate a person.

Being a part of the BDSM scene is usually a red flag, but avoiding other people who practice BDSM is an even bigger red flag. Having a small group of 'initiated' friends who all conscientiously practice is a big green flag.
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Is using tindr or something good to find dommes with big butts willing to indulge my need to be comfortably owned?
>>
>>7439668
>Is using tindr or something good
no
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>>7439689
Then what should I do?
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>>7438635
>The femdom-anons on /d/ were these infamous "gentle femdom" faggots.
What did he mean by this?
>>7438755
Where did I say that? I never even mentioned in my post about women not having personalities or autonomy? You seem a bit retarded, friend.
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>>7439695
I don't know how to get a dom, but going on a site where any and all 2+/10 women get a buffet selection of men to choose from probably isn't the place to find a dom, because being a dom requires effort
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>>7439695
At the very least Bumble, where the women have to message first.
>Get ready to get ghosted a lot.
>Get ready for it to be exactly like Tinder after the first message.

To find a dom, you need to find the weirdos first. And not the online ones. Find the hippies, the circus freaks, the people who look like they're never worn Gap, American Apparel, or really any 'upper-middle-class' designer in their life.

I find a local fire jugglers group. No shortage of BDSM in there - but also a ton of toxic people and drama too. Tread lightly.
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>>7438733
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>>7439738
>fire jugglers group
Wat
Am I being memes here?
>>
Any good music for this thread?
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>>7435357
i never played the dating game. We all signed yes to all girls on tinder and made fun of matches that were weirdos.
She just happened to talk to me first, that's the only reason i replied. if we hadn't hit it off immensely and then she asked to go bowling lol
There was never a moment i tried. I showed up the first date in old shoes, basketball shorts and a t shirt.
If you're making it all about a fetish, consider an escort, not a relationship.
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>>7435936
okay where the fuck is that from? is it a one shot or a comic?
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>>7439738
>At the very least Bumble
Literally "Wow it's fucking nothing" the app.
>Make profile
>Swipe right until the girls run out
>Do this every day for three months
>0 matches

>>7439893
A classic:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8S8Iz0mGs_U
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>>7439855
I swear to which ever god you want me to swear to. Fire jugglers. Also called "spinners". Same kind of people who started Burning Man - only BM isn't the only one, it was just the first.

College was a strange time of taking risks and hanging out with people who took even larger risks (Fire double dutch jump rope anyone?). Some even do it as their day job.
>>7440014
Yeah, if you aren't 6-7/10, you aren't going to get many matches. Even when you do, you get ghosted a lot... or figure out that she is mad creepy/probably autistic. Been using it for a year, I've had a grand total of one actual conversation and zero date.

"Instant sexual gratification: The App" is not where you should go to look for any kind of meaningful connection.
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>>7439188
There's tons of subs. We almost unanimously know this. And we know that we need to be marketable and make ourselves worth it (This goes for anybody looking for somebody, but I feel like male subs should be especially aware)

I'm in a state of depression and my life sounds like not a total parallel to his but there's some similarities. Thing is it doesn't sound like he's in therapy or working on finding a therapist. Even then I keep away from relationships when I'm bad off and need to get better.

If you want to try to work it out with him because you like him sit him down and tell him all of this. Tell him he needs to get his shit together, I'd recommend encouraging or suggesting therapy even if he doesn't have anything mental going on, therapy can be good for everyone.
Iron out a plan with him, like this week he should get the kitchen clean, shower daily, look for a therapist. Next week include those things and build on that, bring cooking into it, maybe teach him how to cook with you.

Even if you're in a 24/7 dom/sub thing with somebody everyone needs to become real people again and talk it out like any normal sex having adult when there's relationship issues

If he doesn't seem like he wants to work things out just let him go and don't try to "save" him or anything like that. Life's too short to spend with someone who doesn't appreciate you in theirs.
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>>7437226
It's pretty shit, I'm sorry that you have to feel this way too.
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>>7438856
You'll notice that there is a much higher poll result for those who think that men and women should be considered equal... They just do not think this either equates to feminist or they simply think of feminist as a swearword like zionist or liberal. It's an issue with language and context rather than a difference in values.

This has been noted before when it comes to both Americans and Britons voting for certain things only to learn what they really mean later.
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>>7440071
>taking the bait this hard
how pathetic desu, stop posting
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>>7429733
I'll bite just to bump the thread, Anon.
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>>7433489
Not at all. It's just everybody's responsibility to figure out what they want and be honest (not necessarily some spergy tl;dr infodump on teh first date) about it.
And for the "pure" GFD folks, I realize finding a suitable partner can be hard but I've dated a dominant masochist - she had a _proper_ hard time finding partners.
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>>7440485
>They just do not think this equates to feminist
And they would be correct.
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>>7440071
You need to step down senpai. There's nothing wrong with subs wanting a woman to take care of their financial, emotional and physical needs. That's why 90% of us are into gfd. Real life is too damn hard and demanding. Personally, I've been a NEET for 7 years and my parents won't live forever. We need dominant, strong, high earning women to be OUR disposible provider. Her sub is just making it clear what he wants and she should comply. Us men have been doing it for centuries.
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>>7435799
Look up that trap exercise and diet pic, I recall looking it over and that it made a reasonable amount of sense.
Now, if you're built like a fucking locomotive with a massive upper body you will obviously not be as strong as you are now after training down to trap mode or as close to it as you want... but you'll be in great shape and strong for your size.
Strategies for being hairless are more obvious, I'd think long and hard without doing anything permanent.
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>>7439893
FUCKING MANDATORY
U
C
K
I
N
G

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0IhJnkVBzlk
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>>7439893
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3EyDyxGZn_Y
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