Telling my gf about weird hentai tastes

Why tell her
Just tell her that you like hentai in general.

>>7192069 If there is no positive outcome don´t do it. And in your situation there is moust certainly no such outcome. Why do you feel the need to tell her anyways?

>>7192092
>>7192084

Intimacy.

>>7192069
Do you want her to know? Is this something you want to share? You don't have to get that suspicious. My GF and I joke about this stuff but I think thats as far as I'm going to have it go.

>>7192282
OP here. I like to be open to her on these subjects.

>>7192069
How long you been together?
Is it serious?
Do you know any of her weird turn-ons/fetishes/whatev?
Have you watched 'normal' hentai together?

>>7192443
Would you be willing to accept a sexual fetish that of her's that you do not understand? If she liked big black cock or shared her rape fantasies, would you want to know that?

>>7192460
It's serious. We've been together for almost 3 years. I know about her turn-ons, but they're pretty vanilla, and we've read "normal" hentai together before.
>>7192463
I would, but that's me. I'm super open to fetishes. It's not that she's not open, but she's much more vanilla than I am, so I may scare her with some content I like, you know.

>>7192473
I don't think her being weirded out by your weird porn is likely to end a three year relationship, unless it was on it's way out anyways. I'd go for it.
If you're still nervous about it maybe start with something relatively mild, or introduce it in a sort of casual way, liek
>haha, look at this weird video I found while I was browsing porn, haha

Do it tell her maybe she's into the same stuff or bondage of some sort. Tie her up with tentacles win win.

Some chicks are into that sort of stuff but just as embarrassed to bring it up.

>>7192555
I know she has no weird fetishes like mine. We've talked about it a lot, and she's pretty vanilla.

>>7192583
She probably thinks she knows the extent of your weird fetishes, since you've talked about it a lot.

>>7192583
I'll tell my bf if you tell your gf. For all I know you are him and your on 4chan at work?! That would actually be very convenient but wishful thinking.

With that in mind should I buy a bad dragon toy to tell him or show him a video? What would freak you out less?

>>7192673
Sorry, I'm not at work. But I plan telling her, I guess. Better than holding it in me. But I'll wait for the right time - when we're both horny and drunk.
About your situation, I don't know what you're into, but (surprisingly) I think a bad dragon dildo may be better than a video. Perhaps he'll find more normal, even hot, if it's his SO sitting on a centaur/werewolf/megalodon dildo than if it's a video with 3d characters or whatever. Unless you plan showing him a live action video involving a bad dragon dildo - in this case do this, and say something like "Hey, what do you think of it? I kinda like it. It would be hot to do this in front of you" or whatever. You know?
At least, that's what I would do. Anyway, good luck with that.

i joked about liking tentacles to see how she reacted, worked now, now she knows I have an ovipositor :^)

>>7192787
Does she let you use it during sex?

Just show her Monster Musume No Iru Nichijou. If she's fine with it, tell her. In the other case, don't go further

>>7192473
You could always pick something you think is somewhat vanilla (e.g. feet) and gauge her reaction before you dump tentacles and monstergirls on her.

Might be a good idea not to tell her all your kinks at once anyway.

>update
I asked my boyfriend what his fetishs are last night he said "idk doing it in public or like in the kitchen or a different room"
4chan Jesus take the wheel.

Needless to say I chickened out and mentioned nothing about buying a bad dragon toy or anything else

>>7192069
gf went through my pc a year ago, found THE FOLDER, trap, monster, you name it.dont think she really cared that much and i know she reads the occasional doujin but damn i wanted to hide my powerlevel. if you plan on staying with her long term id just let her know when/if the topic of porn ever came up.

>>7193707
My folder is called "porn".

I have nothing to hide.

>>7193569
Fuck. Does he know you're into hentai at least?

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To everyone in this thread wondering if they should tell their SO about their weird fetishes.

Do it. Especially if you've been dating for years. At the very least, have the guts to say to their face "hey I've got some pretty 'out there' fetishes." They deserve to be told at least that much, and you deserve to have it off of your chest.

Besides, if it's a potential deal-breaker for them that you have some weird kinks, why tf are you dating them to begin with?

I slowly introduced my gf to my kinks, still am actually. I let her ask questions, prefacing with "the only thing you can't ask is why, because desu, I don't know WHY some of these things are arousing, they just are."

Because of this, we BOTH discovered that she's into light bondage, being submissive, and "Daddy's Princess" play, and we now have a collection of sex toys, including some from Bad Dragon.

So take it from this anon, tell your bitch you have some kinks. They don't deserve you if they can't handle it anyway.

Either your relationship won't last long, in which case eh, whatever, just tell her; or it will last long, in which case you're going to tell her eventually, and then the sooner the better.

>>7194188
But did you tell her you like shitting dick nipples?

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>>7194234
I showed her some /d/, I gave her some d, she's down for giving me some d, and she calls me daddy.

To answer your question though, I'm sure we've stumbled across sitting dick nipples at least once. If it were something I was into she'd respect my right to fap to whatever I please. I doubt she'd want to attempt to bring such a fantasy to life.

Come to think of it, how would you even bring shitting dick nipples to life? Make strapons for boobs and poop on dildos?

I'm into like really rough sex and degredation and my bf told me I was disgusting.. He's into monster girls and mom incest.. So if you're gonna tell her then don't judge her fetishes either.

>>7194288
Well, of course. But still I fear she will judge mine.

>>7193386

>Implying that she isn't the one using it on him

You haven't been here very long have you?

>>7193569

>"idk doing it in public or like in the kitchen or a different room"

That could EASILY be him hiding his powerlevels though. Not saying it is, but it's how I'd do it.

I would suggest leading her to /d then letting her find the Fetishes that turn her on, then LOL about your fun together. as for the Anon with the BF and Bad Dragon toy SHOW Him the Website and let Him See Some of the Animals He Would like, Use the Velociraptor And play it like you had just stumbled across it on your travels through the web then have Him take a Moment to Browse the Inventory with you, Then PoP the Question Lustfully.

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>>7192092
>>7192084
Don't necessarily listen to these faggots. My last GF was bigger into tentacles than I am, but she 'came out' to me about them before I did. Opened up some interesting intimacy things for us.

But I also kind of knew/strongly suspected she was into them. She knew *of* tentacle porn, and didn't talk of it with any disapproval. Tentacles is one those things where you can't really hide your opinion of it. If she knows of it, and doesn't speak disapprovingly of it, then odds are she is into it, or at least won't be freaked out by it.

Feel it out, she if you can figure out a way to introduce her to it in 'neutral' way, and gauge her reaction.

>>7192069
>not dating a girl who's into tentacles, monsters, and weird shit even more than you are
Get gud m8

>>7194907
OP here. True. Well, that's what I've done until now.

>>7194933
I guess that would scare her even more.

>>7192069
Maybe try one of those fetish questionaire things, like http://mojoupgrade.com/

You might get a pleasant surprise!

>>7196358
OP here. I already did one of those with her like one year ago, but the result was kinda obvious. Perhaps we should do it again. The result may be different.

>>7195651
This. If you're going to be with her, she's gonna find out eventually anyway.

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>>7192069
Just watch Shokugeki no Soma together and gauge her interest that way. Perfect mix of kinky humour to open her up to new ideas.

I just told my GF about my want to be feminized and fucked by her. Took a week and a half of damage control but we're back to normal.

It's risk. I've done BDSM in a relationship before and it's like introducing fire if not handled correctly. Someone gets pushed to an end they don't want to go to and resents the other person. Tread very carefully if your partner isn't part of the fetish world.

I'm into monstergirls, tentacles, dickgirls/futa (not becoming one), bimbos, and some of the other more lax /d/ things. I've been thinking about spilling my guts in a slowish, controlled manner for a while now. Also rough sex and dominating, but I'd spill that one at the very end and only if the others went well.

The one thing I'm going to hold onto,at least until the time is right , is my impregnation/fertility fetish. I don't want her to get the idea that I want her to poke holes in my condoms and stop taking the pill. Or God forbid she thinks I want her to get knocked up by other people.

>>7192069
Well i mean how weird are your fetishes? Tenticles arent that crazy

my ex brought up vore once and I was like
uhhh.. yeah I like that.
after that she started sending me sexy photos of her inviting wide open mouth.

>>7192069

Its really easy.

You say, i like tentacles and monsters and chicks with dicks and being swallowed whole by large females.

If you have to pretend to be something you are not in your relationship, it isnt going to go far anyways. Lying about who you are will Never fix anything.

Furthermore, your tastes arent wierd. You are perfectly fucking normal, and you have had the time and drive to explore your sexuality.

Be you, anon.

>>7192069
Just make sure she knows that you know the difference between fantasy and reality. As long as she knows you won't try to re-enact the extremely unrealistic scenes you fap to, and that they're only things you fap to (or roleplay), you two should be fine.

If, however, you want to share the fetish because its something you want to do, you need to carefully consider what it is you're really doing. Are you trying to take advantage of your gf to fulfill your own desires? Bad idea, keep it to yourself in that case. Do they want to know how to turn you on, but answering them requires showing them the /d/ stuff? Let them know that you're into some weird shit, but be sure they can trust you to keep it sane, safe, and consensual. And remember that consent doesn't just mean agreeing to something.