/rr + gfd/

>>7122088
There are already threads for this.
>>7116379
>>7115775

Stop remaking threads when your threads get deleted.

>>7122088
post more than one image when you make a thread please

people hate us enough as it is

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>>7122118
Neither of those threads are gfd related. Go back to your 10,000th dickgirl thread you dumb newfag.

How about some music to set the mood?
http://pastebin.com/ny1nGfhQ

If anyone has more, please share.

Would be even more awesome if someone could curate it or it could be added to the OP again in the future.

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>>7122361
>no lola
>no laid
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LemG0cvc4oU
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5yXqRiXMru0

>>7122485
I honestly only like the first 4 on that list personally, but people suggested the other 13 in previous threads so I decided to include them, as not everyone has the same taste. As better songs get suggested I think a couple of them should probably be thrown out.

Yours have very good lyrics and should definitely be included. (Although personally I prefer when the song is from the female prespective so it's like she actually says those things to me)

https://discord.gg/pMZVDRr

for anyone wanting to join the discord

>>7122088
What does that sfw image have to do with BDSM?
>>>/e/

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>>7122666
Satan trips never lie.
>>7122088
>>7122666
It's not even remotely on topic either.
It's a fucking stay at home mom with a bunch of pretty pink decorations cooking some shit.
OP you fucked up you dumb nig nog.

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>>7122734
>It's a fucking stay at home mom with a bunch of pretty pink decorations cooking some shit.
That's not incompatible with gentle femdom, though.

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>>7122771
should i start posting pictures of lizards with guns, as it's not incompatible with gfd?

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>>7122777
No, because it's not related to gfd at all.
A woman who loves and cares for her man, and likes to do nice things for him, is very gfd.

>>7122788
no, that's just a normal gf

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>>7122795
The gun, or the lizard?

>>7122797
you know what i was referring to

a housewife is not gfd, its just a normal gf

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>>7122800
Explain why.

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>>7122807
confirmed bait memer

>>7122807
are you serious nigga

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>>7122812
A housewife has more authority over her husband than you might think. gfd doesn't always imply rr.

>>7122818
except there's nothing to imply in your op image th\ats anything other than a regular housewife, who are stereotyped as submissive to husbands, and you know this. you're in full damage control

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pls remember to post images famborghinis

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>>7122823
Well, if you're going to talk about hypotheticals and implications, there is, in fact, nothing implying the woman in the picture is a housewife. Maybe she's a billionaire CEO who likes to cook as a hobby. Maybe she's working in a commercial kitchen. There's no need to get all worked up and act silly about this, anon. :) If you don't like the images I post, feel free to post images that are more to your taste.

>>7122839
Maybe she's a he

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>>7122839
it's an image without context and the only thing that matters is its aesthetic and the feeling it exudes
>>7122853
holy shit post pics at least the person who's wrong is posting pics and that makes them a more valuable poster

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>>7122929
To me, the feeling and aesthetic of that image epitomizes gfd.
A woman who loves and cares for her boyfriend/husband in an authoritative and parental way, the way men are expected to act towards women.

>>7122969
There's nothing authoritative about that image. It's straight out of Leave it to Beaver lmao.
She's literally just fitting into a feminine stereotype.

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>>7122998
forgot the image fucc

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>>7122998
And the woman in your image is fitting into feminine stereotypes by having long hair and wearing a skirt. What's your point?

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>>7123003
What I'm saying is that NOTHING distinguished the OP image as even remotely dominant. It gives off literally no role reversal vibe and instead gives off a "Hey mom what's for dinner?" vibe. By saying it looks straight out of Leave it to Beaver, I mean it literally looks in almost every way possible like the stereotypical ideal home-sphere housewife.

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>>7123079
> It gives off literally no role reversal vibe
True. But it gives off a gfd vibe and this thread is about gfd, not just rr.

>>7122788
Mommyfag detected.

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Am I the only guy here who's not into /gfd/ or /rr/ as far as the ''kink'' goes per say but mainly comes here for the (occasionally) cute pictures?

I mean I don't like women who are dominant in the traditional sense of the word. In any way. Assertive, actively affectionate, sure, and iniative towards sex, but not all the time. I mean just 20-35 percent of the time for her to iniatiate sex is perfectly fine.

Being all cutesy-cuddly and nurturing is also fine because it's incredibly feminine. I just hate the word (not the activity) ''nurturing'' because it's a bit too closely associated with the whole Mommydom-babyboysub subkink or whatnot.

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>>7123515
So something like this?

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>>7123539

Nah I love titfucking/paizuri and got nothing again't size difference - physically overcoming women larger than me during sex and snuggling with is hot as fuck.

My point is that though I enjoy cuddles, teasing etc from girls, I enjoy way more TO cuddle, tease, finger etc. girls. I'm more active than merely receptive.

>>7123110
It gives off no vibe. It is not /d/ related.

This is why people hate you guys.

>>7122818

Why is she using a rag to do that?

>>7123515
You're what's ruining these threads Go back to facebook.

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>>7122641
hahaha this is terminal autism

>>7123657
>asking questions ruins things

Go home CIA you're drunk

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>>7122088
How is this image related to gfd or rr?

>>7123856
How is your image related to gfd or rr? A girl hugging a guy isn't femdom

TL;DR OP made a successful bait thread

My kink is exhausted male x larger female (futa optional). Is that this?

>>7123857
>girl is taller
>guy is shy and nervous

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I'm going to try to find someone once I move and start my new job. What should I be doing to make myself attractive to /rr/ girls?

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>>7123977
>girl is taller
That isn't femdom though. Lots of porn stars and models are very tall but that doesn't mean they're not considered sex objects.


>guy is shy and nervous
He just looks happy and confident to me.

>>7124019
>confident
yeah, right.

There's also the obvious fact that she's a shepherd's dog who is dominant over the sheep

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Do dom girls actually exist?
I'm considering going gay at this point.

>>7124255
>midna with huge boobs
>not her delicious pear shape
>not a shortstack
absolutely fucking disgusting
go gay

The google doc in the pastebin seems to be locked.

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>>7123515
>Am I the only guy here who's not into /gfd/ or /rr/ as far as the ''kink'' goes per say but mainly comes here for the (occasionally) cute pictures?
Nah. I just come here to beat my meat to this stuff. I wouldn't want it for real.

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Dumping some old stuff.
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>>7124255
>Do dom girls actually exist?

Yes, they do. They're older than you, taller than you and have more experience in life than you.

>I'm considering going gay at this point

So you're gonna let all the narrow-minded tradcons and conformists win and become just another gear in the system? Because I didn't.

Don't give up hope. Even I've had my doubts, but I always believed no matter what.

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10/10
There you go.

>>7124468
>Don't give up hope. Even I've had my doubts, but I always believed no matter what.

And where did that get you?

Newfag here, can someone explain to me the split between /d/ and /r9k/? Why did it get moved and then moved back?

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>>7122088

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>>7124664
Is this supposed to be mocking of OP's faggotry?
Because it's working.

>>7124681
Source: https://nhentai.net/g/104984/

>>7124454

Damn I've been looking for that pic for some time

>>7124468
>Shion
That's a high tier waifu right there

>>7125303
hey look its me.

>>7124630
souce?

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>>7124468
>So you're gonna let all the narrow-minded tradcons and conformists win
I'm literally tradcon myself, with the only real difference being my submissiveness. Hell, I'd even be okay with marriage and kids if I lived in a country that made these things financially viable.

I feel like I'm caught between things I can't resolve.

>>7125808
>this strapon feels awkward
>he's jizzing on my carpet for some reason
>the leash hurts my hand
>I wish I was on /d/ arguing about gender roles

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>>7123717
I mean, CIA did ask a few questions about Bane, and his plane ended up crashing with no survivors.

>>7125865
I've read that twice on /soc/ and once on /r9k/ I think. Some cute stuff, especially the teasing. Tall and fit dom girls are the best IMO.

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>>7125861

can i please get a source?

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>>7125872
Don't have it, sorry.

>>7123660
Never fall for the group discord meme
If it's bad in public, it's even worse in private.

>>7125899
so far other then some trolls the discord has been pretty nice.

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Would you enjoy being in male harem owned by a gentle domme?

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>>7125987
Probably not. I think I'd be too concerned with getting enough uninterrupted cuddle time in that situation.

>>7126094
What if she'd cuddle two boys at the same time?

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>>7126204
What are you, crazy?

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>>7126204
I feel like that's pretty small to be considered a harem, in that case would probably depend on how often would I have to fight to be the small spoon.

In principle I'm not opposed to polyamory, but I know at heart I'm a highly competitive attention-seeking cuddle slut, and I can't really see that working out well in a harem situation.

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/gfd/ is insidious. I've tried to leave it behind to get a vanilla GF, but every time I do I get a reminder of how badly I really want it.

>Inna Army
>Attending BLC
>One instructor is qt3.14 /fit/ female.
>Do really well on drill and ceremony instruction
>She grins and tell's me she's very impressed
>Oh god that grin.
>Attempt not to crush on instructor
>Fail
>Find out she's the sexual assault rep for the course
>FUCK FUCK FUCK
>If I slip up my career is over
>She gives powerpoint presentation on sexual harassment
>5 years of work flashing before my eyes
>Make it through the presentation
>Decide to channel feels into professionalism, military bearing
>Start passing everything with 90% or above
>MakeSSGproud.jpg

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>>7126397
Cont.

>Return to classroom after class to study one day
>Pass instructor on her way out
>She's just changed into her civilian running gear
>Pink Tracksuit Top
>Black Leggings
>Everything is skin tight
>That amazing smile
>Those hips
>"Hey SPC Anon, how's it going"
>Feel my eyes go as big as saucers
>trying to find breath to speak
>"uh... great Seargent"
>Try to use study time productively
>Give up, go out to POV, find dirt road, masturbate furiously

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>>7126400
Cont.
>Some days later
>Suicide prevention class
>She encourages people to share past experiences dealing with suicidal thoughts
>Class is hesitant at first, but becomes surprisingly forthcoming, especially the hard-ass infantry guys
>Eventually share my own story of a particularly dark point in my life.
>After everyone is done she makes an observation that it's especially hard for men in our society to open up
>She thanks us all for sharing
>My heart is fucking melting
>Eventually make it through the rest of the course
>Find out we're her last class before she changes units
>She thanks us for being one of the best classes she's taught
>Nervewracking graduation ceremony
>Almost too tense to shake her hand as I get my paperwork
>Home unit super impressed with how well I did
>Promotion incoming
>Secretly embarrassed because I know it was all from having a huge crush on her
>Know full well that despite the desire to get a regular relationship I can't ever go vanilla
>Always gonna be pining for an attractive woman in a position of power over me.

>>7126397
I should probably also clarify for those not in the know. Army SHARP (sexual harassment/assault response prevention) reps are one of the people you'd go to report any cross-ranks fraternization.

Any perceived flirting at all with people in your chain of command could potentially be bad for your career, depending on how the SHARP and JAG see it.

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>>7122088
Have some implied non-human on non-human femdom...

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>>7122823
>joining a thread you hate just to argue over why you think it's dumb
Just hide it and ignore it, if it's really a problem then filter out /gfd/, but you gain nothing but starting meaningless arguments ITT

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>>7124556
Mainly, people are writing blogposts, starting arguments and posting things that don't belong, so /gfd/ is now a big target for getting 404'd. It moves a lot between the two boards, but there is no strong difference between the content posted in each (generally, more lewd is found in the /d/ one however)

>>7125865
Anymore?

>>7125987
No. I'd like it if it were me and a bi sub girl owned by a bisexual gentle domme, but I don't want other guys involved.

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>>7124017
Get fit. Dress better. Improve the mind.

Basically same things as normal girls.

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>>7127337
>Get fit

Fuck off, I'm not a dom guy.

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>>7127386
Muscles are not necessarily a sign of dominance

They are definitely a sign of good health, long-term commitment and the desire for self-improvement.

They're universally attractive. Or at least they should be. I don't know why muscle girls are a fetish. Should be the standard of female beauty if you ask me.

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>>7127415
>Muscles are not necessarily a sign of dominance

The reason why most women prefer muscles is because they are a display of a man's capability to protect her and her family, as well as to submit to. These women are often skinny and shorter as well.

So it makes perfect sense for male subs to be skinny, cute twinks while the women are fitter and taller than them. It's also a lot more genuine than some 6'2 barasub because the twink cannot (and certainly will not) turn the tables on her as easily as he can.

>>7127467
Reminder to not give replies to this guy. He posts same bait in every thread.

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>>7127467
>The reason why most women prefer muscles is because they are a display of a man's capability to protect her and her family, as well as to submit to.
When did you become the spokesperson for most women? A lot of girls just think muscular dudes are hot because that's what the media tells them is conventional male attractiveness, and for good reason.

>So it makes perfect sense for male subs to be skinny, cute twinks while the women are fitter and taller than them
Not everyone has the body type for that. I'm not gonna look twinkish no matter how I try. Don't know about you, but you should be reasonable.

>It's also a lot more genuine than some 6'2 barasub because the twink cannot (and certainly will not) turn the tables on her as easily as he can.
You have to leave ideas like this at the door if you're into this fetish. Most girls cannot realistically overpower any male, no matter how hard they train

Anyway, you should train, become a guy that your mistress would be proud of showing off. Be a trophy husband that she can objectify and use as arm candy. Even the sex will be better; you will have more endurance so she can tease you more.

>>7127484
He is right and it's not bait. Some muscular guy can easily turn the tables against some woman. This is why femdom videos with some muscular guy in them piss me off.

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>>7127590
I think either aesthetic could work, depending on the woman's taste, but why would she be worried about tables being turned if he's submitting willingly?

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>>7127620
see
>>7127484

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>>7127620
Because sometimes, it's fun to do forcible rape roleplay

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>>7127508
>Anyway, you should train

You're not gonna be making an alpha douchebag out of me, tradcon. Sub girls don't train, so why should I?

>When did you become the spokesperson for most women?

I said most. The vocal / represented majority. That means the rest of them who go unreported either don't care for it or aren't even attracted, as strange as that sounds.

>You have to leave ideas like this at the door if you're into this fetish

Alright then nigger, go tell all the girls with dd/lg fetishes to leave their "ideas" at the door when seeking a daddy dom. There's a fucking reason why sub ladies prefer tall guys and truly sub guys prefer taller women. Can you imagine a sub lady preferring a shorter dom?

>Most girls cannot realistically overpower any male, no matter how hard they train

And when did you become the spokesperson for /all/ males, eh?

>>7127620
Submissives generally get off on being completely helpless against their dom, allowing them to do whatever they want with them.

Or basically what he said >>7127646

>>7125872
>>7125874

Sadistic Beauty

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>>7127656
>You're not gonna be making an alpha douchebag
Fitness has nothing to do with personality other than potentially making you more optimistic and confident, which, again, are huge positives in any relationship.

And you don't have to bulk up. You can be a cardio bunny too. Just don't expect the results of such to be immediately apparent or as appreciated.

>Sub girls don't train, so why should I?
Because you're better than them?

>go tell all the girls with dd/lg fetishes to leave their "ideas" at the door when seeking a daddy dom
I don't know what you're getting at here.

>Can you imagine a sub lady preferring a shorter dom?
Yes, actually. Fact is that most people into BDSM are shit, as with anything, so if there's a short guy that knows what he's doing, he'd be a diamond in the rough.

>And when did you become the spokesperson for /all/ males
I never did, it's simply biology. The strength limit for girls that don't take steroids is around half of what the limit is for most males.

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>>7127656
>Sub girls don't train, so why should I

That's not really saying much. Most of the sub girls who come to the local play parties and munches are chubbers who are glad for any attention they get, even if it's by guys old enough to be their grandfathers.

That said, there are many ways to train besides trying to look like he-man. This is probably close to what >>7124017 is looking for.

>>7127691
>>7127692
Stop replying to him, newfags.

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>>7127656

>Sub girls don't train, so why should I?

Lazy, entitled sub girls don't train.

Good girls who want to look good for Master, do train. They train a lot in fact, because bubble butts and the flexibility to do elaborate shibari poses takes work, believe it or not.

>>7127656
>Sub girls don't train, so why should I?
They do though. I mean the human trainwrecks begging for daddy's cummies on fetlife might not, but they only attract people as repulsive as they are. Trophy wives and sugar babies work out and take care of their body.

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>>7127386
>>7127415
>>7127467
>>7127508
>>7127656
>>7127691
>6ft. Kickboxer
>can beat the shit out of most plebs
>adorable 4'11 gf
>pushes me up against the wall whenever she wants to and shoves her tongue down my throat
>takes cock out of pants in her tiny hand and leads me to the bedroom
>teases me and plays with me until I'm begging and on the verge of crying and makes me her good little bitch boy
>cum 5 times, she cums so many times she's on the verge of passing out
>kisses me with a smiles running her hands across my muscles as we cuddle
>she falls asleep in my lap while I game

The whole point of domination is emotional control you dumb fucking nigger. If you're someone other than the troll and muscles break your immersion just find stuff with the guy tied up. It's easy for a chick to date rape a guy if you really need a whole fucking backstory and analysis review of your fuckin porn. But personally tiny girls emotionally taking emotional advantage of fit guys to turn them into their big funtoy is hot as fuck, would reccomend turning yourself into your gf's fit armcandy

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>>7127386
What did I Fucking start... last time I try to help a poster 50 posts back with 0 replies.

What I meant by 'get fit' is don't be fat and get healthier. Being buff is optional.
Strong arm muscles and being lean will go a long way. Some dom women prefer barasub and some don't. What's more dominant than knowing your boyfriend slaves over his body just for you to look at?

You don't have the privilege of not trying. You were born a male, that's part of the contract. You need to fight for everything you want.

>>7127415
This.

>>7127646
That's what pepper spray and handcuffs are for.

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So I realize that a lot of it is personal preference, but I'm going to be shopping for glasses soon and will probably be picking up several pairs.

Has anyone noticed any particular frame type that gives off subby-vibes I could try out?

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>"I don't want to be healthy, I'm a sub, so I have a reason to be lazy!"
this thread gets worse every day.

>>7127899
well, my dom likes me to wear small dainty glasses, but I am a clutz so she just lets me use whatever the smallest pare of glasses I can find in the 'safety glasses' section is, I know this doesn't help you much though, sorry.

>>7123543
I wish there was more of this.

>>7127936
I don't get this. If I were owned, I'd do all I could to please my ma'am.

>>7128122
You deserve a headpat. Good boy.

>>7127885
>You were born a male, that's part of the contract.
Contracts are things people enter into willingly, for some kind of mutual advantage. No one asked me if I wanted to be born as the gender that society considers to have no inherent value. I never agreed to be considered inherently worthless and told I have to fight for everything. I never signed up to get all the downsides and none of the upsides. Seriously, what do I get out of this "contract"? The "privilege" of having to work my ass off and being cut off from all love or compassion if I don't constantly keep fighting?

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>>7128179
It's greatly appreciated.

Maybe it's my military family but I always thought that if you were going to be owned, you were going to excel at doing whatever was wanted. I've seen lazy subs and they make me feel ill. If someone loves you enough to claim you as theirs in most (if not all) ways, you give them your everything and beyond. You keep going until she says to stop, and you go above and beyond what is asked. Leave it to your owner when it comes to support and healing.

Just have pride in being owned.

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>>7128211
Irrelevant. Either work and improve yourself or take your "woe is me" bullshit over to >>>/r9k/

>>7127691
>I don't know what you're getting at here.
What he's getting at is that you might as well be telling a girl who's into the dd/lg lifestyle to become a fiercely independent career woman who refuses to have any man take care of her and despises anything one might consider childish, and who might even be a lesbian with no interest in men at all. You're removing the defining characteristics of a lifestyle while still keeping the name of the lifestyle and insisting that not only have you not changed it, but you've actually made it more true to the spirit of it.

You wouldn't tell a submissive woman that if she wants a dominant man, she should work out enough to be able to overpower a lot of men and/or look for a man who's shorter and weaker than her.

I really don't know why you need this spelled out for you: Guys who are into this often want to just completely reverse the standard, traditional gender roles in every way. Take any given romance novel or female ravishment fantasy, and then switch the sexes. It's really that simple.

>>7128221
I see no actual response to my questions.

>>7127885
>What did I Fucking start... last time I try to help a poster 50 posts back with 0 replies.
For the record, I'm the poster you responded to. I fully plan on getting more fit, as it's good for the body and mind.

Thanks for the reply.

>>7128221
>>7128227


I think a more apt response is...that it sucks, but it's up to you to improve. Complaining doesn't help. You can bitch and whine every step, but as long as you move forward.

All this said, I don't believe I'm all that valuable outside of my servitude and duty boner, but only I can change my perception of myself. For all I know I'm already some ma'am's ideal.

>>7128218
Not from a military family here, but I am with you on this too. My girlfriend isn't weak by any means, but that doesn't mean I have to be. If I'm going to work for/with her, I am going to be at my best when I do.

My advice for anyone wanting advice from one sub to another, learn to cook and clean, but learn to be helpful in other ways too. Be fit, you don't have to be a meathead, but have a lean body, go running, do yoga, whatever works for you, but be varied! Be the sub that she needs, whatever those needs are.

>>7128231
I honestly don't want my domme to be someone who believes in that system, because even if I did succeed in working within it, I would never *like* it. It would always feel wrong and fake in some way. And frankly, I think that part of being a /gfd/ domme should be challenging that whole system and telling boys that the system is wrong. I dislike the idea that it's still all on the guy to put in the bulk of the effort to "earn" a woman.

>>7128239
I also see your point in that, especially as I've seen more female subs simply send their pics out on a site than actively try to be...useful. From the submissive women I've talked to and such, they also see sex as their main gift.

Now /rr/ should challenge that but I'm only speaking for myself with this. I want to be a useful lapdog. In a normal relationship, I'd want to be the one working and providing for someone else so their life would be much easier.

Different strokes and all.

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>>7128225
>he's
You don't have to pretend to be a different person; I don't give a shit.

>You're removing the defining characteristics of a lifestyle
Physical body types are not a defining characteristic of femdom. At all. They can't be, given how men are mostly taller and stronger than women.

>You wouldn't tell a submissive woman that if she wants a dominant man, she should work out enough to be able to overpower a lot of men and/or look for a man who's shorter and weaker than her.
No, but I would tell her to work out if she wanted to look more attractive for her partner, which is the same shit we've all been trying to tell you. Don't look at everything through the lens of D/s, it's unhealthy.

>>7128239
Listen, self-improvement stuff is not just for women. Mostly, it should be for you, to make you a more well-rounded individual. This type of self-motivated person is just more likely to attract partners in general. Not to mention that you should set these kind of goals for yourself because you have enough self-respect to want to become the ideal you and to believe that you can get there.

And if it still feels off, then do what I do and expect just as much from your dom as she does from you, and as you do from yourself. Don't let your dom be a lazy NEET either. You should both contribute to the relationship and work to become better people together.

>>7128211
How do you think women should show compassion to men? Do you think they should show it to all male friends or just their boyfriend?

>>7128243
>I also see your point in that, especially as I've seen more female subs simply send their pics out on a site than actively try to be...useful. From the submissive women I've talked to and such, they also see sex as their main gift.
Yes, and that's another thing: I think part of /gfd/ should be valuing male sexuality a hell of a lot more than the mainstream does, and viewing male sexuality as the same kind of "gift" as female sexuality.

>Now /rr/ should challenge that but I'm only speaking for myself with this. I want to be a useful lapdog. In a normal relationship, I'd want to be the one working and providing for someone else so their life would be much easier.
Okay, but I don't think it's unreasonable for someone else to think that that's basically just a traditional normie relationship, only with more headpats.

>>7128249
>traditional normie relationship

Are you saying there's a kink count needed? You know full well that there's no one single standard for ownership of any sort. When it comes to what I said my normal relationship would be like, there's that aspect of taking care of someone because that's what I'd do to someone I loved. That's independent of what gets me to start drooling.

As for the "gift", that's why men and women are different. The sense of duty I'd have towards my ma'am is probably more attractive than a more...feminine stance of wanting to be taken care of. I'm sure there are some out there that don't agree with me for whatever reason, and that's ok.

But keep in mind I'm focusing on the /gfd/ aspect, not /rr/. They don't need to fuse together.

>>7128247
>Physical body types are not a defining characteristic of femdom. At all.
Yes they are. For me, and others, the whole thing is more authentic if the boy is shorter, younger, weaker, etc. than the woman is. Wouldn't you find it absurd if Conan were suddenly 5'4" with no muscles, and the various slave girls were suddenly 6' Amazons, but they were still treated as submissive objects and spoils of war? That's how a guy into /rr/ views what you're talking about.

>Listen, self-improvement stuff is not just for women. Mostly, it should be for you, to make you a more well-rounded individual. This type of self-motivated person is just more likely to attract partners in general. Not to mention that you should set these kind of goals for yourself because you have enough self-respect to want to become the ideal you and to believe that you can get there.

>And if it still feels off, then do what I do and expect just as much from your dom as she does from you, and as you do from yourself. Don't let your dom be a lazy NEET either. You should both contribute to the relationship and work to become better people together.
I won't say this is *completely* wrong, but not everyone is a Type A go-getter on a constant quest for "self-improvement", and relationships between two such people don't work out so well anyway.

>>7128248
>How do you think women should show compassion to men?
In the same way men show it to women. Basically, I'd like women to treat men the same way men treat women.

>Do you think they should show it to all male friends or just their boyfriend?
They should show it to men in general, because the idea is to see men in general as having inherent worth and desirability, like we currently do for women.

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>>7128258
>more authentic
Than what? Do you have some sort of basis of comparison here?
I do. And it's the second half of my statement that you omitted. Real life does not cater to your fantasies, and the women you're after may be the same way. You should simply focus on trying to find a mistress who loves you rather than trying to turn your life into a shotacon doujin. If you do find an older, taller, stronger girl, by all means, go for her. But these things should be tertiary preferences and not "defining characteristics" or else you'll just be chasing after an ideal that you'll probably never find.

>not everyone is a Type A go-getter on a constant quest for "self-improvement"
I'm not one myself. I'm a job-hopping, scrawny, kissless virgin who currently lives with his parents and is drifting through life. But I've made sure to keep the mindset of a successful person. I don't have another choice, and neither do you. You have to believe that you can get yourself where you want to be, or else you're living for nothing and you may as well kill yourself.

>relationships between two such people don't work out so well anyway.
You wouldn't know, but then again, neither would I.

...maybe it's the thread but I feel tired. Time for some more Rimworld.

This thread was comfy. Made me think of eventually meeting a lovely ma'am.

>>7128249
>viewing male sexuality as the same kind of "gift" as female sexuality

If this happened women would accept almost all guys and have harems.

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Look at all these blocks of text no one cares about. Post porn.

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>>7128271
I dunno, you sound like a typical heavily attached [tm] liberal. On the one hand: self-improvement. On the other hand: body-type doesn't mean anything. You can't just latch on to bits of common advice and treat them as gospel, especially when they contradict each other. The right hand needs to know what the left hand is doing.

The mind of a successful person is many things, but above all healthy.

Fact is, you walk into this fetish, you're stepping into the "objectified" role. A relationship may be more than a trade in social capital, but it certainly isn't less. So if you want to play that role, you have to put time and effort into being sexy. It's the nature of the game. That's what you bring to the table, instead of, y'know, volition.

It also is true that it's hard for a woman to become stronger than a guy who's trying to fulfill a typical male body type, but it also happens to be easy for a guy to reach the level of "thin-ness" at which it's no longer unachievable or even hard for a woman to be stronger than him. Of course, actually carrying through with it in a relationship requires, y'know, trust, and the ability to accept the inherent vulnerability that comes with being physically weaker than average, and trustworthiness, which is different from trust, and none of these things are very common these days. However, it's not necessarily the most desirable body type; consult your partner for details.

scythe's lazy guide to dieting: eat fiber, stay hydrated, avoid calorie-dense foods (literally calories divided by mass), and consider marijuana (if you smoke before eating healthy meals, you're less likely to snack on unhealthy food, and cannabis is correlated with lower bmi).

but seriously it's just silly that this whole thread full of boys who want to be desirable actually manages to be not sure of whether looking sexy would be a useful step forward in that department. i mean come on.

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>>7128211
Dubs of retardation.

Honey tastes the sweetest after you've had nothing but vinegar and lemon juice your whole life.

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>>7127885
>You don't have the privilege of not trying. You were born a male, that's part of the contract

Says who, nigger? I am who I am and I am my own person. No one has any authority to try and change that.

Man, thank fuck I paid an escort to skip all this bullshit.

>You need to fight for everything you want

Maybe, but that applies to pretty much everyone. You can't expect to force unfair obligations on people over something they had no control over. Especially while giving the other gender a free pass to be / do whatever they want.


Your retarded ideas are why schools get shot up, men opt out of society and why places like this one even exist. Just fuck off and let people be who they want to be.

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>tfw short and light, and could easily be carried like this

>>7125872
I think the quote he was talking about is from a movie called Banes on a a plane.

>>7128318
>it also happens to be easy for a guy to reach the level of "thin-ness" at which it's no longer unachievable or even hard for a woman to be stronger than him
It really isn't. I'm 5'8/95 pounds and I can easily overpower my muscular GF who is around my height. It's very difficult for a woman to be stronger than any man.

>>7128418
That's ludicrous anon, eat more please. 5'7 120 here, most of my girlfriends have overpowered me, you must have crazy genes

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I'm waiting for that 4 04...

Once and for all~

The idiots won't shut the fuck up

So let's just admit we dropped the ball

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>>7128318
>On the other hand: body-type doesn't mean anything.
I was more saying this because the anon I was speaking to seemed to be sweating the small things; stuff he couldn't control like his height or the fact that he was probably stronger as he was than any girl he might end up with, training aside.

I suppose my whole point was to put effort into things that it made sense to put effort into, and for the love of god, actually make the effort.

>>7128494
Just trying to do my part to shoo away an autist. I figured he'd get tired of replying to every part of every one of my very long posts.

>>7128487
No thanks. I like to be slim.
Unless your gfs were literal amazons, you were probably letting them overpower you.

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>>7127415
>Muscles are not necessarily a sign of dominance
They're a sign of it, but they're not PROOF of it. Part of the charm of big subs is they make you feel like you've defied the odds, like you're standing on top of the pile. Or perhaps like you're riding a tiger.

>>7128531
At 120 I'm often mistaken for a girl, what's it like being so slim? And eh, they usually cheated by tickling me or biting me anyway

>>7124267

Fuck off this is best midna.

>>7128218

No homo.
I love you man!
You're the kind of man that men are supposed to be : the type to choose to excel in whatever we do, wether it's in our jobs, our relationships, or anything else. Do the best you can, then try to do even better. The only time we fail is when we do less than we could, and then we fail ourselves.
Anyone who has you in their life will be damned lucky to have ya.

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>>7128391
Lucky. Going to the gym more I've actually gained weight. Should focus on cardio instead of weight training

>>7128555
Roseanne Barr

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So what are your gfd/rr related fantasies?


I have this one of a girl dressing me up in cat ears and making me do all types of lewd things. She makes me wear a collar with a lesh in the bedroom and pulls on it while I lick her. Outward I actually like I hate it because I'm stubborn but she knows how much I love it. Most of all she loves breaking past my stubbornness and make me admit how I actually feel and even beg for. Maybe she even makes me wear something in public that shows image hers.

>>7128559
Sounds like you enjoy petplay friend.

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>>7128211
This.

>>7128363
In that case we should all go live in Ethiopia or some other African shithole, after all food is more satisfying when you're constantly starving.

>>7128569
Maybe I'm wrong but when I think of pet play images of people walking on all fours and making animal noises comes to mind. I don't want to do all that I just want to be a cute obedient boy with a theme

>>7128604
Thats still "pet" play, just light. Not very intense.

>>7128559
We need more cute Catboys/male anime catfolk being dommed via femdom.

>go on fetlife gfd group.
>go through all 40 or so pages of members
>Only 5 of them are in Las Vegas and they are all male.

Life is suffering

>>7128287
Yeah, and? You seem to be implying that would be a bad thing. I could do without the harems, but more acceptance would be good.

>>7128318
>but seriously it's just silly that this whole thread full of boys who want to be desirable actually manages to be not sure of whether looking sexy would be a useful step forward in that department.
I think the debate is more about whether or not "looking sexy" necessarily means getting /fit/ or if a boy can look sexy just by dieting and becoming thin.

I'm okay with dieting to lose the weight I've gained from depression-induced compulsive eating. What I'm not okay with is being told I'm supposed to do all the work to get traditionally muscular and shit even if I don't actually want to look that way.

To the people who have found there gfd waifus how did you guys do it.

Should I try my luck out at a munch even tho I've never been to one

>>7129203
Not implying it's a bad thing, but that would mean you'd be picked up by women who already have 10 boyfriends because they see you as a collectable prize rather than as a person.

This is why rr conflicts with gfd. Woman appreciating man's feelings is important in gfd.

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>>7128690

>>7129208
Let them come to you. If you maintain a fairly cute aesthetic, they ask you out. At least, that's my experience.

>>7129222
>Not implying it's a bad thing, but that would mean you'd be picked up by women who already have 10 boyfriends because they see you as a collectable prize rather than as a person.
As opposed to the way things are now, where you have to *make* the approach to women who have 10 boyfriends and make a sales pitch about why she should either make you the 11th or replace one of them with you, and they see you as a disposable tool rather than a person? I'd rather be a prize than an appliance.

I really don't think that's what would happen. Men don't treat women like that, despite what feminists say. I think what we'd end up with is women appreciating men just for being there, like men do for women. It would be all positive.

>>7129236
If men didn't have to prove themselves at all they wouldn't get jobs anymore.

>>7129245
So?

>>7129208
Found mine through these threads actually when they were relatively new. I'd say no hope on finding one now with the current state of these threads

>>7129251
yeah when i came here looking for a cute boy i was cast out

>>7123539
Does anyone have the full list of that?

>>7129273
>cute boys on /d/
Be reasonable, now.

>>7129224

It's hard to be cute when you're hairy as fuck. Like I'm decently fit. But I grow hair out so fast

>>7129273

Wait wtf. When

>>7129301
I'm pretty hairy from the ass down and on my arms. Didn't stop 3 qt doms from wanting my ass.

>>7129326

But how did you look cute.

Do you clean shave your face.

>>7129335
Usually, yeah. Sometimes I have some light shadow but besides that clean. Nothing stopping you from shaving lol. Also, that hardly has anything to do with it either. It's about personality.

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>>7128546
I believe in that because it's what makes a man. There will always be someone better but it shouldn't stop you. I've been through far worse for far less, and if I'm stuck on this planet for a few more decades, I might as well make something of myself. Be useful as it were.

When it comes to who I have in my life...well, maybe. Personal details aside, I've been told something like that. But I don't feel great in blowing my own horn, nor do I particularly believe it yet.


Remember, everyone who runs is both running towards something...and running away from something.

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I'm also surprised this thread is still up. Lot of drama seems to come here, even after that /r9k/ purge.

I wonder what would be the most wanted chore...when it comes to housework I can do whatever but seeing as I'm on my own, I'm lazier than I should be.

I also don't get that financial domination bullshit. I love the idea of supporting someone fully as a house wifey, but I don't think that's necessarily tied to my dom side. I guess it's the details and context and such.

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I wonder what the prime age is, as well...when I was 18, I recall most kink groups shooing me away. That eventually turned to...apathy. A number of older women have historically been interested in me though. I almost submitted myself to a 49 year old woman (currently 23) but she had some...iffy thing going on with her ex husband or something, so I turned that drama bomb down before it started. She said I had the heart of a servant/slave, and that made me feel proud.

Oh well, last one for now. We need more masculine male subs. I couldn't be physically feminine to save my life.

Does anyone have the discord? I feel like talking to people while wrapped up in my warm blanket.

How common do you think gentle femdom fantasies are among men? This is the only thing I'm turned on by and I'm put off by men because of the submissiveness I'm assumed to enjoy being because I'm a girl

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>>7129417
I enjoy a number if gentle femdom fantasies. There's a lot of ways you can work with it: seductive and obviously bad woman worming her way into my head to the point that her voice is hypnotizing.
Stalker who poisons me and nurses me back to health while taking the time to show why I need her,
A friend who becomes aggressive in her own way: going from hanging out to surprise/forceful footjob, followed by face riding and intense breeding.

I actually enjoy the idea of being drugged or otherwise incompacitated. It allows the focus to go on how she can be both loving...and forceful, because drinking medicine from her mouth really is the only way to make sure I have all of it. If it happens to make me so disoriented I can't speak and harder than steel...side effects.

Of course there are a ton of other ways to enjoy it but that's a rant in of itself.

>>7129433
Posting from phone so I know there's a few autocorrect mistakes.

I'm not much of a drinker and don't do anything fun (outside of whenever I get hurt and require delicious codeine), but I swear I'd be happy if I had someone who'd dope me up just so she could do whatever she liked to me. Something about being out of it and being convinced to do nearly anything. Plus I couldn't tell if that musky fluffy muff I've been sucking on had been on my face for five minutes or five hours.

Not sure how much it counts but...well, it'd be a helluva way to pass a weekend.

>>7129417
I suspect that there's a sadly small amount who would be into it as the rule rather than the exception to the rule. Just thinking of my friends, I know of only one other guy would I think would want that as a relationship and not just a "we'll switch but I'm still the dom in the relationship" thing.

Still, we're definitely out there. Just have to look for the more demure people I guess.

>>7129433
>>7129444
Sup guys, I have a bit of a story on being doped and fucked by a qt dom if you wanna hear

>>7129461
Both were me but I'm all ears for it for sure.

>>7129466
Oops, my bad

>be me
>17
>recently broken up with dom gf because she was abusive
>lonely af and need attention so get tinder
>meet cool grill on there
>about my age, Hella cute punk style, green hair so let's call her broccoli
>eventually find out she's a dom and explain to her I'm a sub
>she said she could tell from just my pic and bio
>meet up twice and have fun hanging out and doing shit, she totally covers me in hickeys and I'm totally entranced by her
>third time we meet up just watch netflix til late night
>she's an avid stoner and I've never done anything in my life
>asks if I wanna try smoking with a sly grin
>whynot.jpg
>go out to nearby park and smoke
>she's used to it so she doesn't change much
>it hits me like a fucking truck
>can barely walk straight and have no clue what's going on or where I am or who I'm with
>takes me home
>takes off my shoes for me because I can't function
>leads me back to her room
>"let's sleep anon"
>ok
>I don't move so she pushes me onto her bed and snuggles up
>"I think you wanna slept naked"
>undresses me
>I can still hardly function so dont/can't resist
>proceed to have probably the best night of my life
>does a ton of bondage, pet play, and general femdom, making me cum several times over
>I'm compliant with all of it since I can't really resist
>wake up to her caressing my naked body, still bound
>"what a good boy"
>hnnnnnnnggggg

Sadly had one or two more nights with her and haven't seen her since. She was a fucking rad person so I really miss her, but I guess she just got bored of my personality or I distanced myself from her too much. She sometimes comes to 4chan, so if she sees this, I hope she befriends me again.

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>>7129417
I'm gonna go out on a limb and say it's about as common as it is among women.

The majority of "submissive" guys are into the extreme shit you see in femdom porn and one glance at fetlife will tell you this. Most of them are probably just power bottoms who never bothered to look up the terminology. They see submissiveness as a category of sex acts rather than a form of behavior.

And that's why the same advice that is commonly give to male subs applies here. A lot of perfectly normal guys wouldn't want to be associated with the popular image of femdom, but would be totally open to a female-led relationship. The difference here is that you are probably going to have to prove your trustworthiness quite a bit. You are the one asking for power, so you'll have to show your guy that you're not going to abuse it by cheating on him or taking advantage of him or anything like that.

>>7129474
Sounds pretty close to exactly what I'd like. Never smoked anything but I think I could be talked into it. I know when I was on painkillers I'd be rather amorous and affectionate. Just never managed to do that with anyone.

8/10 story, would be jelly of.

>>7129477
Thanks man, I wish I could go into more detail of what happened but all I remember was restraint, me being positioned a bunch of times, and pleasure.

>>7129474
That sounds quite non-gentle for a first time with someone. Are you sure you didn't get sexually assaulted? Her disappearing afterwards makes it suspicious.

>>7129485
It's something to always remember. I could only dream of that.

>>7129505
To be honest, the idea of it being assault makes it hotter to me. Get cool friend, get talked into weed, get fucked to the point of losing mental capacity.

Bonus points for said assault involving affectionate words to encourage. But that's just me.

>>7129485
Nah, I told her beforehand that I was into having sex against my own will. She didn't disappear either, I still have her on social media, we just don't talk anymore. And we had good relations for the period after, so it's all good.

Also, thought it's vague, I remember her being gentle. Everything that happened involved a lot of affection and she spoke encouragingly and kindly to me, of course being demeaning as well because I liked being spoken down to, but not to the point where i didn't see it as pretty gentle.

Again thought, my memory is really fuzzy, so I might be remembering it differently

>>7129512
Did she penetrate you?

>>7129513
>unconsensual penetration required for it to be rape meme
But no, she didn't.

You guys have such awesome fantasies and stories. Everyone should share more of their stories and fantasies, real or fake.

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>>7129208
do what the first anon did and hope they come to you, but also put yourself out there too, do what you enjoy in life, you might find a girl with the same interests, for me and mine it was videogames. good luck out there anon!

that said a part of it is just in behavior, I'm tall and wide, and hairy enough highschool bullies all called me sasquatch, and yet when I moved to the big city for my last year of highschool, several girls hit on me and said things like they were were "worried a nice boy like me might get himself stolen off the street walking home" I suppose they just noticed I was shy, or something similar. who knows really, but just be yourself is the main thing!

oh and have a pic so I am not just wasting everyone's time

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>>7129515
I wasn't implying that, just curious.

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>>7129343
And mannerisms. there are certain guys i meet that just immediately fall into that category in my mind, and i've noticed it to be more about their personality, mannerisms and the seemingly unconscious things about them - like, do they blush a lot, are they inherently submissive in the way the talk or sound, can i easily find ways to make them flustered, do they act in ways i find cute?

i might not be the norm of dom girls for sure, but i do find at least in my experience the pure physicality of somone while it does help, tends to take a major backseat in my desires to their actual nature - and if i had to pick one thing, physically - it'd be the face.

for instance, the whole reason i even was interested in my bf when i first met him was the cute ways he would detach and get embarrassed when i talked about lewd things, or how obsessive he is over silly little things, he's very emotionally immature, for sure - but i guess it comes off in this very "little" way, and it makes me simultaneously adore him, and want to take control, and have fun with him.

>>7123515
>I mean I don't like women who are dominant in the traditional sense of the word. In any way. Assertive, actively affectionate, sure, and iniative towards sex, but not all the time. I mean just 20-35 percent of the time for her to iniatiate sex is perfectly fine.
so, normal girls?

>Being all cutesy-cuddly and nurturing is also fine because it's incredibly feminine. I just hate the word (not the activity) ''nurturing'' because it's a bit too closely associated with the whole Mommydom-babyboysub subkink or whatnot.
just ignore hyperbolic idiots that scream mommy complex the moment you mention such a trait, this sounds insecure.

>>7129547
"lol"

>>7129547
why do all of you dumb bitches have the same typing style?

>>7122088
What in the fuck happened to the map?
>see a purple marked put up near me
>it's a guy
>purple markers are now apparently males while blue ones are now females
>now they are all messed up
Whoever did that can go fuck themselves. We need to create a new proper map.

I want to hold a boy so badly but I'm "scared" of being held. It's strange I guess. I don't want to be held at all, I just want to hold ffs

>>7129715
I don't want to burst your bubble or anything, but this whole concept of putting ourselves on maps - or anything for that matter - is pretty silly. We shouldn't have to go through all that just to find love.

>>7129754
Why is it silly? What should happen then instead? You think a girl will magically appear here and you'll find love? The map and that dating tumblr is the closest we get.

>>7126402
>ywn lick your own cum off her shoes

why even live

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>>7129755
Personally I think it's because the less you talk about / note something about your relationship or interaction with someone, the more meaningful it seems. I learned for example that you should never comment on a tall girl's height since it makes her height the one trivial / superficial thing, if you know what I'm saying.

>What should happen then instead?

Get out there and hope to be approached, really. Gives you a reason to look after yourself (hair, skin, face, body, diet, social etc) and makes the whole thing seem less shallow or materialistic.

Then again though I've got great aesthetics for a sub. I'm shit at starting conversations and I'm generally awkward / shy at times, so I kind of expect dom or "imposing" women to notice and see if they want to make me theirs.

What is you guys' experience with shorter guys and taller girls.

I'm short and I wanna know what it's like having a tall dom

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>>7129800
The true and most genuine form of female domination.

>>7123625
preeeeety sure those are her panties

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>>7129762
>never comment on a tall girl's height since it makes her height the one trivial / superficial thing, if you know what I'm saying.
no, I have no idea what the fuck you're saying
is this related to the theory that you should never compliment anything unless she fishes for compliments? because if you compliment any trait that's conventionally considered attractive than you sound shallow, and if you compliment anything else she'll think you're a weirdo?

>>7122998
>>7123079
>>7123555
>>7123110
I can't resist weighing in, Something about the look on her face seems to be saying "you're gonna eat these cookies or else, you little shit"

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>>7129547
I don't necessarily think it's a good idea to go by that alone. I'd never display any of the same behaviors in a relationship that I would to the general public, and I'm pretty sure most guys are the same way

For every one stuttering androgynous manlet out there, there's around 20 average joes with a weakness for their girlfriends.

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>>7130103
The implication is that you "don't care" about it (not at first, anyway) and are more about who she is, and not what she is.

>>7129417
I wouldn't be surprised if there were just as many guys into gentle femdom as there are girls into gentle maledom.

You might find this article interesting:
http://www.feministcritics.org/blog/2010/11/20/do-men-or-women-have-fantasies-of-dominance-and-submission-the-results-noh/

One of the things that struck me the most about the results of that study was that women want men to be dominant more than men themselves want to be dominant.

Anyone here have gfd fantasies involving vampires? There's something really cute about a powerful, dangerous creature refusing to hurt you because you're just so adorable.

>>7129417
>I'm assumed to enjoy because I'm a girl

Do you actually experience that in real life or just in 4chan? I'm a european woman and never had my sexual preferences assumed by men. Almost all social issues in these threads seem to be american things.

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>>7130188
I certainly do. Me and my gf have played out/done a little roleplay with the idea. Myself in particular, I'm in love with the concept of the innate power they can hold to bend their victims to their will. Be it their hypnotic charm, or their power to directly command and control those fed/turned with their blood against their will.

>>7130188
Oh yes, plenty. The intimacy of having your blood sucked by a domineering vampire woman really gets me going.

>>7130188
I like that sort of thing because in puts me in a position where i'm totally at their mercy

i hate muscle girls, it's gross, but i love the idea of my partner effortlessly overpowering me.

>>7129505
this is politically incorrect but i'll just say it

if you enjoyed being sexually assaulted, you aren't obliged to hate the experience and it's totally cool to look back at it fondly

>>7130296
This. Vampire doms are best doms, imagine having one hold you down and toying with you, running their teeth over your neck and smiling as you flinch away even though you know they wouldn't hurt you.

>>7130334
Don't post off-topic /pol/ garbage here.

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>>7130342
It's not off topic just because you don't like it.

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>>7130334
>this autistic rant unironically using terms like beta

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>>7130346
And it's not on topic just because it's tangentially related.

No one cares if you or anyone else thinks femdom doesn't exist. Go away.

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>>7130357
You seem to care quite a lot about it, actually.
If it truly didn't bother you, you wouldn't care enough to reply.
You should try being honest about your beliefs and your fears, anon. It'll make you happier in the end.

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>>7130346
Lurk more, newfag. Text pics are only allowed if they have fetish porn in them.

>>7130367
>picture of scantily clad women attacking a man
>not fetish porn

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>>7130372
This board is for anime art and the text itself should be sexual.

>>7130378
Thanks, dorkus.

>>7124630

succ

>>7129433
>>7129461
Not as fun as it seems. I got really high with my girlfriend, (I had never smoked before) and had a panic attack. Left me unable to think clearly and question if I was real and alive for four hours. The cuddling and reassurance that I was okay was nice though

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>>7128559
i'm generally into getting stalked, kidnapped, drugged, raped, whatever. i guess i'm just very turned on by psychological horror

recurring fantasy of mine is a friend doing all that shit to me. them breaking into my house while i'm gone, following me, etc
eventually i end up hanging out at her house. she ties me to a chair as a """prank""" but then never actually lets me go, and obviously it all goes downhill (or uphill i guess) from there. just the idea of your best friend doing all that creepy shit behind your back and then completely betraying your trust like that is really hot in a fucked up way

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>>7128559
I have this fantasy of someone becoming my friend and slowly gaining my trust,but I wouldn't know that they were stalking me and going behind my back to try to get close to me.
Then one day she would invite me to her house and use medicine or something along those lines to knock me out and tie me up and do lewd things to me.

>>7130613
wow we have like the exact same fantasy
and i approve of ur hex maniac pic

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>>7130614
I was just about to comment on that anon.I hope one day you can achieve your goal just like I do.

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>>7130615
thanks anon
she'll find us someday

>>7129474
What the hell was your bio that someone could find out that easily

>>7130221
irl of course. Men have pulled my hair and spanked me during sex

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>>7129474
>>7130739

Yeah, I've used tinder for the longest time but I never get any matches, I have recently been stating that I'm a sub in the bio but it doesnt seem to change anything.

What am I missing?

>>7130592
>I had a panic attack
That sounds like a personal problem.

>>7130743
I'd say avoid stating that you're a sub. Avoid saying anything about your sexual preferences (except obvs genders or whatever). Just make sure your photos look cute but not spergy, your description is short and sweet, and swipe right for /alt/ looking grills.

>>7130741
Didn't you tell them beforehand what you want?

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I'm short (5'11)
been called cute, I guess I look pretty young for my age...I'm a shy, KV at age 22
there are no qt doms in the midwest
I want off this ride

>>7130762
>I'm short (5'11)
>short
>5'11
that's 2-3 inches above average hight...

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>>7130770
I understand that I could be worse off, but I still feel like most people tower over me... I wish a tall girl would put the moves on me, god knows I'm too scared to make the first move

>>7130780
Worse off? Height only matter to girls who wanna dominate a bigger guy and Stacys. I'm 5'8 and it literally hasn't affected my dating life at all. Being anal over such unimportant aspects of yourself such as height is probably what makes you less attractive personality wise. Be confident with what you have, whether you're tall or short, skinny or chubby. There will always be a girl who wants that, and exhibiting confidence in yourself us key, even as a sub.

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>>7130801
well shoot man, thank you for the encouragement....

>>7130770
That's some /r9k/ logic.

My old man is I think 5'7". He's had a few wives and plenty of girlfriends. It's the personality that makes and breaks, not how you're built.

https://discord.gg/Zft8N
We're pretty decent. We've got a few autists we keep around to fuck with. Don't bring any bullshit "trans" or "lgbt pride!!!111" in with you.
Mainly shitposting but we'll talk about gfd all day if you bring it up.

>>7130760
why is being spanked the default?

>>7130829
It's not.

>Girl broke up with her boyfriend and wants to dom me now
>Her boyfriend was a good friend

What do you think guys?

>>7130858
>wants to dom me
>to dom me
>dom me
>dom
>me

Why aren't you tied up yet

>>7130858
let her. if she broke up with him then the relationship wasn't meant to be

>>7130871
She's been messaging me a lot and bought a collar for Christmas so I think it'll happen

>>7130875
Yeah i agree, just wanted to hear some other perspectives.

>>7130858
I'd feel awkward banging my friend's ex, kinky or no.

Thread lightly.

>>7130858
Not now

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>>7128559
I love the idea of not just being dominated physically, but psychologically too, and i struggle more with it the more i resist.

i have this fantasy of rejecting a girl, only for her to not take no for an answer. she starts stalking me, spreading rumors about me, and publicly humiliating me, maybe through cornering me and forcing me to kiss her, or something light like that, nothing too degrading. and when i'm all worn down by this constant psychological torment, i just accept her and become her bf. after that she's now far less mean and bullying but still totally dominant in the relationship, and i eventually grow to love her back

>>7130858
If she Just broke up with him and is now onto you
I wouldn't get hemmed up in it.
She's probably a crazy bitch and is just trying to start trouble. Speak from experience.

>>7130910
That's not gentle.

>>7130917
that's a big assumption

just because people aren't totally emotionally ruined by break ups doesn't mean they're crazy

>>7130934
Yeah it is

it's just light bullying and stalking

>>7130942
Public humiliation and psychological torment is not.

>>7130953
yeah, but i tried to phrase it to imply a light level in both

when i say public humiliation, i mean cute stuff like having to hold her hand and kiss her, nothing overly extreme

And when I said psychological torment, i just meant she makes me scared to be around. i probably used too extreme words

>>7130936
Like I said, if she *just* broke up and is going for him, there's something up.
And if she wasn't emotionally effected by the breakup enough to even take a break between boys, then she obviously didn't get attached in a healthy way to the first nig.

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>Recently had first experience with mommy dom
>Just over text
> She uses lots of cutesy pet names
>I melt and my eyes roll back in my head every time.

If this continues I don't know if I'll be able to survive.

>>7131005

>that gif

my fucking sides

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>>7122088

>>7130752
It actually happens to a lot of people who do way more than they should. For me it was because I took a huge ass hit and stopped being able to breathe, lol

>>7131171
Never gets old. Template jokes a best.

I remember a few years ago (2011, I think) someone posted the story of how his sister raped him and now they are a couple. His sister was super clingy growing up and when he moved away, one Christmas she tied him up and fucked his brains out, This was a few years prior. Then he said that some dickhead crashed into her and she was in a critical condition.
Somebody screencapped it. Does anybody have the screencap? And did he ever return and say whether his sister is okay? Assuming the story wasn't just a sexy, sexy heap of bullshit.

So this is pretty non-fetishy, but I just found out that my mother and step-dad had an agreement when they got married - that he would do literally all the housework in the place, in exchange for her...I dunno, marrying him.

Now, I'm a guy who likes his dominant women, but I like them dominant in bed, not treated as fucking overbearing princesses. Their relationship probably rubbed off on me a bit, but god knows I'm not going to ever get into something like that.

I just...have no idea what to think about this.

>>7131171
kek

>>7128767
You say that like its a bad thing.

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Reminder that the most dominant thing a woman can do is bear your children.

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>>7131200

>2011

Jesus have these threads been around that long.

Fuck, I wasted my 20s.

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>>7131200
Might be it, might not, haven't read this cap in years.

>>7130829
>>7130835
Think what she's saying is that because she didn't explicitly say "hey do not spank me" before sex, wanting spanking was assumed of her without ever being actually asked for, which would make it a default.

Anyway I agree w the anon, it's very true to my experience as well, I stopped looking for a relationship for the time being but only ever found one guy among real life people that was interested in this dynamic more than "normal" male dom.

>>7130829
I wouldn't consider ass slapping/light spanking to be abnormal by either party in a relationship, but unless pegging is involved the sex positions women tend to be in don't lend themselves to spanking the guy's ass.

>>7132190
It's pretty easy in missionary, if she isn't lying there like a starfish.

>>7128211
Why don't become a fucking tranny then?

>>7132255
Because there's no need to. I can deny gender roles when there's clear fucking evidence against them, but I can't deny chromosomes.

>>7131783
>2012

Wonder what happened to them and what they're doing now...

>>7122637
moar!

>>7131775
Gfd was not around for 5 years bro.

>>7132259
>I can deny gender roles when there's clear fucking evidence against them,

But there isn't. There's a reason why almost all societies evolved a similar set of gender roles. The few that have matriarchal or gender equitable cultures never made it past living it mud huts.

>>7132335
>But there isn't

Explain how feminism, or whatever bogeyman you tradcons like to blame, managed to decline men to where most of them are today.

>>7132339
I guess you're trying to argue against the idea that gender roles are innate? They aren't entirely innate, which is why they need to be enforced in the first place. Men and women innately have different preferences and abilities but they need social technology - gender roles - to guide them on the path to personal satisfaction and to help them better serve society. When you don't enforce those roles you end up with simpering weak men who kill themselves because they can't get a girlfriend, or childless 25 year old career women on expressing their bitterness and lack of fulfilment as a hatred of men

>>7132515
>which is why they need to be enforced in the first place

Need? More like want by one-sided, unfair and biased people. Why the fuck are you keeping up this unfair system? There will always be people who'll see past all your drivel and not conform. You're effectively justifying the decline.

>but they need social technology - gender roles - to guide them on the path to personal satisfaction and to help them better serve society

So basically upholding a cycle which clearly doesn't work in the long run? What a bunch of fucking garbage.

Those men killed themselves because they'd rather do that than just be another superficial Chad. To be just another gear in the system. Clearly it's not for everyone and as long as you keep holding it up, don't be surprised when schools get shot up or other bad shit happens.


Stop caring about other people. Focus on your own shit. If you find a shallow bitch and have your tradcon wet dream then good for you, but interfering with the pursuits of other people is justifying your own downfall.

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Fucking hell, I want this in my life but I don't think I'll ever get it.

I had a chance, but at the time I wasn't interested. A girl tried to force herself on me at a party and I just held her off. She wasn't that attractive but maybe that was my one chance.

I've been told I'm pretty attractive, but it's in a traditionally masculine way that probably doesn't attract dominant women; I'm semi-fit, and tall. The best I'll ever get is forcing myself to act dominant to some girl most of the time and occasionally ask her to take charge, which she probably won't enjoy. And that's assuming I can get over being a giant social fuckup long enough to pursue someone.