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>>6557611 Are these threads not normally in /d/? On the one hand it seems as good a fit as gfd/rr, but on the other I guess yandere isn't inherently sexual and it's harder to find sexual acts that are decidedly yandere. The real question is how well are the /r9k/ threads surviving...
>>6557611 It appears there is a woman who has grown a bit of an annoying, yet, pleasing attachment to me. However, the degree of spacial violation makes me a tad bit uncomfortable seeing as using my hands as toys while ontop of me is proving to be making me feel weak.
Also; where else is /yg/ posted? From what I see, shit posting here is only near the end of the threads. There's only so much yan to post before we just start posting doujins and reposting. What all we talk about here seems much...fluid than whatever we talk about on the yan site.
All of this said I don't bother with IRC so maybe I'm just missing out.
I'm going to be dissapointed if this character turns out to not be yan, and doesn't use hexes and curses to affect her love('s) life.
>>6558262 Exactly. Imagine a pair of eyes gazing at you as if you were an apparition...so beautiful to then yet from the way they look, they can hardly believe they're still awake and sober.
The type who owned those eyes would rather read and listen to audio books with you in arm's length. They'd no doubt be capable of staying up at all hours to talk to you, but no matter how tired or energized they would be, laying near you, drowning in your presence and scent...well, it wouldn't be rare if they spent a lot of their time sleeping when near you. No one could possibly be so dreamy in the waking world...
But for them, when they awaken, they'll have a long, warm smile for you. Their dreams came true.
>>6558315 Yan mistress is best yan and mistress. I do believe I still have a dom side to myself (that hasn't been blasted away by horrible experiences), but a yan domme... I can't see how that could ever be bad.
Aside from such possessiveness eventually ending in being given a tight schedule to keep to, lest I risk getting a few new marks...bites, scratches or otherwise. Good thing I'm good at keeping a schedule...writing aside.
>>6558353 >tfw horrible, horrible shut-in I'm trying to think what would entice me to participate in discussion and I'm not really sure. I feel like maybe I'm not yandere enough for my thoughts and views to be a good fit.
>>6558411 Being a yandere involves having a personality disorder. A large number do, anyhow. Wanting a yandere means you're ready to at least help see the positive sides of said disorder. Which sounds goofy but remember what yanderes tend to do...
Share with us; what is the disorder? You're anon so there's nothing wrong with being just the tiniest bit open. You may find out someone's the same, and knows what it's like.
>>6558417 I don't really mind talking about it. It was diagnosed as "avoidant personality disorder with schizoid features," although I know I've had pretty strong dependent features too and I doubt if they're completely gone. It's a little hard to explain because on the one hand I seem pretty normal, but on the other I also can't do things like work or get an education or even drive. There's a certain degree of detachment that I maintain, and in some situations it's to such a degree that I can't function. I'm pretty sure it would be a problem when it comes to genuine emotional intimacy, too. Basically I have to keep part of myself buried or disconnected in order to face the world, and the more responsible I have to be the more detached from some part of myself I grow.
>>6558422 I won't fetishize that (Though we both know many will and do because disorders are actually kinda sexy), but what have you been told can help alleviate the level of detachment you go to? Of course, if it was as simple as "just do it" there'd be no disorders or conditions.
For example, what makes you come out of your shell? Rather, what do you think would it take for you to feel both comfortable and in the moment with someone?
Apologies if I'm prodding too much but(t) fuck it, it's /d/ / /yg/ and we're all fucked in the head in at least one way.
>>6558428 I'm honestly not sure how that could be sexy. I think it makes me a pretty useless burden. I haven't been told anything could help alleviate it, and I'm not sure I'd believe anything could. I've read that people sometimes age out of AvPD once they hit middle age but the thought of wasting my life waiting for that to happen somehow does little to inspire enthusiasm in me, and I don't even know if it would happen for me anyway.
I'm never really comfortable or in the moment with myself, much less with someone else. It's been years since I really felt that way, probably going on a decade, back when I just didn't worry about anything because my parents still felt obligated to take responsibility for my existence. Even under those same circumstances I don't think I could regress to the way I was because I no longer feel like I still have all the time in the world to make something of myself or experience life.
>>6558353 >abathur Man, I loved the HotS campaign so much, Abathur included. I love my cute little zergy-zergs. Not sure how a female Abathur would go though. His voice was so great; a gender-swapped version of it would be hard to pull off.
>>6558432 Take solace in the fact that someone's fetish is your disorder. Just like how I know I'm someone's fetish...and I can't imagine anyone genuinely being into me unless they were mental and possessive. Like that one chick from NHK who *needs* someone who she feels is more useless than herself.
If you don't mind sharing, how old are you then? If it's been that long, have you possibly looked into ageplay of a sort of relationship dynamic that'd involve you being taken care or? That's not exactly a negative thing when you realize how many out there prefer to take care of someone else on such a level...though that's also something that has to be built up.
But back to me asking, what do you think might help? If you never thought about it much, why not brainstorm what would sounds legitimately nice to you? If you have thought of it, what has come up?
Pic isn't too yan but I imagine a depressive, masochistic milf obsessing over someone she believes is a God compared to herself.
>>6558439 >Like that one chick from NHK who *needs* someone who she feels is more useless than herself. Contempt is the single most destructive emotion in any relationship, and at least in the manga I'm pretty sure Misaki had her share of it. I can't see that working.
I'm 30, and also male and straight. I might actually enjoy having a mommy gf and being treated like a kid but I think women who are into that are vanishingly rare, while there are a lot more men so I'd have a lot of competition. Not that I even know where to look.
I'm not sure if I know what would help. Being taken care of and not having any responsibilities makes life easier and more enjoyable for me though I don't know if it could ever be as good as it used to be. From my earliest memories I've only wanted to get as far away from everyone and everything as possible, but I've also wanted just as strongly to have someone complete me. I'm not sure if I even know what that would look like, although I recall reading about a couple in an /r9k/ thread a while back that were basically shut-ins together and described themselves as autistic aliens that were adapted to each other and not the outside world. That sounded strangely appealing to me. As have other very dependent relationships.
>>6558448 I never said it'd work well...but I can see the appeal. But then again I can also see the appeal of eating nothing but Wendy's for the rest of my life, despite that probably being a bad idea.
The ideal of being a social shut-in with your dependant other relying on you as much as does sound nice. A yan/yan pairing where masturbation is a dirty word. As for finding someone, have you tried actively looking? Stupid question but redundancy has its use. Not saying you should've already found someone, but it's probably a bit harder to connect with someone if you choose to shut everyone out.
>>6558452 >A yan/yan pairing where masturbation is a dirty word. I like the sound of that: devoting one's orgasms to the other.
>As for finding someone, have you tried actively looking? Not really, no. I've thought about making a dating profile many times but the prospect of putting myself out there to be judged by the public at large is... well, it's one more situation where my mind freezes up on me, and I can't even will myself to write anything coherent. I can't imagine it would be well received by the denizens of OkCupid. I've thought about NoLongerLonely but I don't know if my prospects would be any better there, though at least it seems like it would be less judgmental. As for real life, I don't even know how to meet people, particularly because I'm a NEET. I guess taking general interest classes and talking to people there but I'm terrible at striking up conversations with total strangers.
It's really getting late here and I need to get to bed. Thanks for taking an interest in me: it's been nice to be able to talk about myself with someone understanding. I'll check back in on the thread within the day.
>>6558462 Well, the only way to overcome that worry of being judged is to...well, again, go for it. As soon as I turned 18 I made a Fetlife profile. Have I gotten any attention on it? Aside from my writings, fuck no! But I at least did it. And that by itself made me feel a bit more confident in my kinks and who I am because of them. I eventually made an OKcupid profile and that turned out...kinda ok? One small relationship from it, but that kinda made me even more cautious about who I let myself get emotionally close to. I tell you, I would kill for someone who was a master at emotional manipulation solely to have me to herself...just...not abusive. Sounds like a paradox, probably.
Why not start with a profile at the Yan site if you haven't already? You probably won't be bothered much...if at all...but it'll be a way to open up a bit. Then maybe go to other sites and make profiles, so you can get more comfortable with putting who you are into words. Only you can tell if they're the right words to describe you. As for classes...no clue. I sing while driving because otherwise I go days without saying more than a handful of words.
Sounds like a plan. ~w~ by then let's pray I upload my weekly crap before I sleep.
>>6558185 Razmi seems more like she's just shaping up to be a reclusive hiki hermit rather than full-blown Tharja Yandere. Plus she invokes a tiger spirit, so no hexes. Gotta say though, that pic cute as fuck.
>>6558469 It's not so much a worry as a personality feature, and I don't so much overcome it as have my mind shut down on me. I really can't produce anything when I sit down and try to write ideas for an OkC/PoF profile. Had the same problem with term papers.
I thought about Fetlife but my understanding is that it's not really for serious relationships so much as purely sexual ones. I've already made a YanOrg profile and didn't have much trouble with that, mostly because it's the sort of community that isn't going to look askance at the likes of me, and also because I really didn't have to say much about being a NEET and all that or post a photo of myself. Of course I've gotten zero response from it and, well, I've been looking at others' profiles but particularly thanks to the age gap it's hard to imagine any of them would be interested in me. I don't think it's going to serve as a stepping stone, either, because it's not really that different than posting on 4chan and I've said much more personal and revealing things here and it hasn't helped in that regard. When I try to write something for a more 'normie' site's profile the words I come up with are definitely not the right words to describe me because I lose touch with the concept of who I am.
I've thought about making an entry on the gfd/rr map but feels weirdly exposed to me, maybe because I live in such a sparsely populated area that anyone who knows me at all and saw it would immediately know that was my marker. The lack of people around here also makes a map-based site seem like a bad choice, too.
Partially because I spent a few hours doing homework and teaching my supervisor at work how to reliably use a printer and use a dual-monitor setup. And partially because neither bits of writing are YanDan so they don't matter as much.
>>6559238 He literally does nothing but make the schedules.
It takes me around 2-3 hours to finish my work for the night. He'll come in, see me playing Fallout 4 on my laptop with wired controller, and not mind. Granted, he also sees me doing my work pretty damn fast if I have what I need.
>>6559463 >implying anyone reads what I write Doho. But it's this weekend we'll have more YanDan. This past weekend I wanted to goof around with some other stuff, but...well, I've been lazy with uploading them.
>>6559511 I thought about that but there's pretty much one major city in this whole damn state and it's a couple hours away, so it kind of feels like a lie to put it there and maybe get someone's hopes up in vain.
>>6559527 Yeah but already out of the 200 members only 22 are girls looking for guys in my country. On top of that I would say 5 are dead accounts and another 10 are fundamentally incompatible since they are subs.
I'll definitely keep it in mind but I don't see the community being much bigger then 200ish.
I ran into pretty much the same problem I found everywhere. Not many people wants a submissive guy. The ones that did respond responded well but it all kinda petered out. It was pretty obvious for all but one that I was the one keeping the conversations going. Then that one I thought had the best chance turns out to be 5 years younger than me. I don't know why I thought that her age was right there but it still sucked.
>>6559611 I'm sociable out of necessity. I desperately crave finding someone I can share my soul with. If I don't put myself out there I will never find them. Unfortunately it normally only leads to crushing depression like tonight! Wooo! At least I got M83 'Midnight City' to drown out my woes.
As for dreams I had a very "involved" one last night that woke me up and left me gasping. That was nice. Then I realized I was in love with a figment of my imagination! Wooo!
>>6559694 There is this girl I dream of a lot. Don't know where I saw her but its always her. She grabbed me from behind pushing me down agaisnt the bed. She nibbled my ear before whispering "I've got so many plans for you Anon~." She quickly tied my hands then told me to get up on my feet. When I did she collared me with a choke chain. She then kicked me hard in the chest forcing me back down on the bed and tightening the chain hard. She kept me there with her foot while keeping the chain tight. She pulled out a sounding rod and gently toyed with my dick with it while I squirmed before forcing it in hard. She slid it in and out of me dick hard and fast as my vision faded from lack of oxygen.
I woke up before I passed out in the dream though.
I've been thinking of writing out my own dreams since most involve monstergirls or yans. It's odd that you recognize the girl in your dream because those in mine are...always murky. I can remember a few specifics, sensations, voices...but the whole picture, I never get. Probably has something to with not being too sure who'd end up doing those things.
>>6559721 Ive always had really vivid dreams. I can remember most of them pretty damn good for the first few days.
Nowadays they are all like that. Some more extreme some less. In one I was pushed into a machine that cut me apart and put me back together as a girl. Then my long term memory was switched off so I would be the perfect fuck slut.
>>6559731 Same, that's why I've been trying to be a better writer. Being asleep and dreaming is much more preferable to being awake...but since staying that was is called a coma, I'd rather focus on keeping that dreamy state alive while being awake through writing dreams and whatever thoughts cling.
>>6559745 I'm a bit more hopeful; I like to think that I'm dreaming about someone. Someone I've yet to meet yet...someone who's maybe had the same dreams as me, with the same events.
It'll be near impossible for it to happen...but that's also why I'd love someone who'd good at mental manipulation. Before I know it, she'd help convince me that I've been dreaming of her. Too many details would match up to make me question it.
It's entirely possible that many people wouldn't have ever found them if they stayed predominantly there. /r9k/ is rightfully known as the pit of the damned. I think /d/ might be, but it doesn't have that reputation from the outside as /r9k/ does. /d/ seems like social misfits while /r9k/ is like Elliot Rodger's Echo Chamber, and they are not the same.
>>6559068 I just discovered that my union coverage at my job doesn't actually start today, as I thought it did. It starts two weeks or so from now. They said 30 days but they meant 30 work days, 6 weeks not 4. I feel dumb. But more than that, I'm worried they're working on firing me for no real reason... Not that it would be that bad because I'd just give up on uni and working more than 25 hours a week alltogether, work half time and game/vidya/read/write the rest of my life...
I don't wanna be fired though. :( I smacked my head like an idiot and had to report it but otherwise they all say I'm fine... and then I feel it's nothing but lies and deciet to fool me. Where is my cute yan to hold my hand and sit on my face to tell me it'll all be ok? :(
>>6559884 >>6559883 What kind of reputation could I even have! I know what I said. In every case I was polite and tired to establish common interests. No one has flagged me. No one told me to fuck off. No one unfriended me. This is what I mean by they cant even converse. If they had a problem they should of done something about it.
>>6559889 >mentally unfit to live >If they had a problem they should of done something about it. >/YG/ Good Idea man
it's not like you could be way to clingy to people you don't know or anything.
If I saw what you said, I could point it out in seconds, but you might want to stop blaming everyone for your problems...
If ten out of ten people don't talk to you, it's on you, trust me. the only reason you get no response instead of as negative one is because you'd probably argue back as much as you did here, and no one wants to deal with that extra drama
>>6559894 I just don't believe you because I have yet to be pushy. I've even not responded to people because I got the feeling they weren't interested. The other thing is why would you be talking about me? That doesn't make sense to me at all.
>>6559898 The reason I'm arguing back is because I don't understand any of it. None of it makes sense to me at all. They claim I was rude and pushy. If I was rude and pushy than yeah they are unfit to live. Because a "Hello, How are you?" Is not pushy. A "tell me about yourself" is not pushy.
As I just said if they seemed disinterested I stopped talking to them. None of them said anything negative to me.
and no its not 10 out of 10 people. I've made 7 friends from that site that I've been talking to. About 5 more we both agreed we weren't compatible. I would say only 5iash maybe 6 have just flat stopped talking to me.
Is there an issue with the site sending emails to AOL? I haven't gotten anything in my inbox for password reset or username reminder (I remember my username but I tried it out to see if it'd send an email...)
>>6560555 I see you're a fan! Of aforementioned yan man who's name has been shortened to Dan.
I'm thinking more on the direction and I kinda wanna keep it out of being too smutty. Mostly for the same reason I keep physical descriptions to a minimal: the reader can use their own imagination to put their spin on it. I shudder to think I'm using the same tactic as Twilight...but at least my writing is a hair better?
Actually I now imagine myself as Meyer. #YanDanisdead ... #bodyswapawyis
>>6561424 I had nowhere to go so i ended up at my bosses house eating thanksgiving with him and his large family. It was actually really sweet and made me feel like part of the family. Last thanksgiving i didn't do anything and just browsed 4chan all day and cried so this is a great change. Good feels all around, today's a good day.
>>6562219 Welp, I bought some Neptunia because when in doubt, buy games on Steam.
I tore over every detail of what happened and...the only real answer that I have is that I'm shell-shocked. Or still am, rather. I was doing fine until who I was talking to said they were stupid/worthless. After that it just went downhill.
What's weird is that I know I'm fine with other people. I know I'm good and normally quite content with being chill and pervy (at least to those I'm close enough to), but with that one... just been screwed over so badly that it's just a snap reaction.
>>6562541 I dunno we're talking hopefully we do. She's a really great person.
Especially since she has actually put up with me so far even after sending a bunch of cringy sperglord messages to her and her seeing that message to the girl who I ended up scaring her to deleting her account
Would a Yanere conceivably kill her senpai if she knew that's what he wanted? Would she kill him and spend the rest of her days in prison, happy in the knowledge that she gave him what he truly wanted?
>>6564765 It being advertised on reddit was sort of a bad thing as well.
Having dating sites like that on 4chan is already bad, let alone on /r9k/. A lot of the guys on the site/in the threads aren't yandere and don't really want a yandere gf, they're just trying to open up more possibilities of getting a gf. There's also a problem with calling it yandere imo, that alone brands the idea of the threads as anime yandere and not real life obsessive which is what people will get.
>Pic unrelated (googled yandere hentai); just doing my part. >>6564761 Op here; like I have pointed before, drama only proliferates when people add fuel to the fire. I'm just catching up on the /r9k/ thread, but from the peek I took from a down-to-up-order it seems a third of it is mostly people whining about Doj and him arguing back.
/yg/ is only in the state it is because people can't let go of free bait, regardless of the source. And >>6564735, if you are actually from the /gfd/ generals (I read that on a /r9k/ comment, never visited), then shame on you for stirring crap in that thread... you are supposed to be better, considering what I read had happened on your home thread (something about diaper fetishists?). If you don't like the threads, at least please have the common courtesy not to make it worse.
>>6564765 Yeah...that too, I guess. You get clingy attention whores who "go yan" over someone they talked to strictly through text for a handful of hours. I already heard of three different instances of autists harassing people because they met their soul mate of the day. Who knows how many women left the site because they got mouth breathers claiming that they would track them down and sniff their shoes or something.
You would think this kinda could have gone better.
>>6564771 That's true. All the same, it's not that great.
That said, I'll still do my part of creating questionable content. When I have writing done, I'll upload it and...probably post it here. I know I'll post it on the forums. Otherwise I'll probably see how things are here after a few threads come and go.
>>6564751 >>6564771 Why am I aligned to /gfd/? I don't even like either the concept or the general. I just shitposted in the general on /r9k/ for the same reason I shitposted in /yg/ on /r9k, which is because of this: >>6564770
That said, I thought this was the /r9k/ general for a moment. My bad.
>>6564775 It's only the romanticized anime yandere that most people think about, even if they claim they don't.
No one actually understands that it's not just a one sided obsession, there's usually A LOT of self esteem, trust, and abandonment issues that are packaged into having someone obsessed with you. It's not something you can really just say you want, it's more that it should be a mutual relationships where both sides can help satisfy each others issues and truly commit to that person.
>>6564780 Ah, sorry then, I remember reading in a previous thread either here or /r9k/ about you being a regular from the gentle fendom generals. Mostly reinforced from comments like >>6564751. My bad then, disregard my previous post please.
Changing subject somewhat, that's why I'm naming these threads "Alternate Edition" and proposed the subject "Should this be the last alternate thread in /d/?" in the OP. The general consensus seems to be that /yg/ belongs in the other board of the "robot" nature of the tendencies and the spaghetti-dropping antics it provides, but on the other hand... these threads in here take a week or more to die and gave garnered a few nice users and even content creators, so I guess the "community" is pretty split at the moment.
Anyway... I've been thinking of making a thread in /adv/ to test, and see what happens... but I have this feeling in my gut that would be a massive mistake, the same as making one in /soc/, /a/ or even /cgl/ (several people have suggested it).
>>6564820 >/adv/ I don't think the mods will even let it exist there. The only options seem to be /a/, /b/, /r9k/, [s4s] and /soc/.
/b/ and /soc/ are no-goes for obvious reasons. /r9k/ is still infested with people whose nature simply deteriorates the overall quality of the general. [s4s] is actually a better option than the previous 3 simply because it's all happy funposting. At most there'll be ses or snekposters being off topic in the thread, but offtopic posting is much more desirable than having people who try to turn it into a desperation dating thread.
Lastly, /a/. I'm not sure at all what the mods will think of it, or how receiving the userbase would be. I know very little about /a/. I've posted a few times there and the moderators on the board seem to be extremely aggressive, and will go to great lengths to try and get posters banned.
I think the best course of action is to keep the general on /d/, where it's coming along just fine, and have patience regarding /r9k/. The autistic frogposting manchildren will not remain there forever as long as the robot's database won't get cleared, like moot used to do. In due time, the effort of making original posts will become too much for these people, which would pave the way for an enjoyable /yg/ on /r9k/.
>>6564837 Dear anon, the /r9k/ thread was already ruined the moment it was made on the board's current state. All I did was put emphasis on the necessity of migrating the general to a different board, free from thirstlords.
>>6565659 Aww, poor delusional Naruta-san. I hope she's motivated to actually do things herself and get a qt3.14 bf, though it probably won't be that easy or that simple.
>>6565822 It might. Apparently the /d/ mods are pretty strict. I just search yandere and rating:explicit on dan/gelbooru and pick an image to add to my post. There aren't a whole lot of them but it's enough to fill a thread without duplicates. It's like a toll I pay to the /d/ gatekeepers to post.
>>6558452 That sounds great to me at least in theory.
The site and these threads have made me aware that there are others like me and that someone might appreciate me for who I am, which is reassuring.
What I want ultimately, because the world and SJWs who ironically hate autists have screwed me over too many times, is to be a social recluse who gets ever closer romantically to his beloved and tries to become one with her. So that everything goes through the other.
Maybe if Yan-San moves to the Midwest then it will work. Lots of cold to snuggle through.
>>6565822 >>6565889 Well, /d/ isn't exactly the best place for a yandere general. It'd say it might be alright to just say "fuck it" and do it on [s4s]. It'll have the same "no theme" thing as /r9k/ and I'd be surprised if it has half as much shitposters. They've already made some serious threads there, some of them keep their peculiar way of typing, and will always check dubs, but they can easily focus on a subject and have "don't be mean" as a board culture.
>>6566285 THESE are the people who think they know best and think they can dictate what's best for /yg/. people who seriously consider having the thread on fucking /s4s/. Jesus Christ.
why can't that annoying little fucker Doj IGNORE /r9k/, stay off there if he hates it so much, and let them have their yandere threads the way they've been having them for fucking years, and he can stay on here and run this place however the hell he likes.
but no, humans always have to be poking their noses into other's business, changing shit and telling people what they can and can't do. fucking kill yourselves.
/yg/ means a lot to me and now fucking cunts like you are destroying it.
"i don't like /r9k/ so im going to kill their thread with shitposting every time it gets made"
Fucking cunt what kind of attitude is that. there have always been a few thirsty idiots but for the most part it's been really nice community. not that doj would know since he only found it this year or whatever. fucking hell. just die
>>6566314 He knows that, he did it on purpose because he wanted it elsewhere, he's a meanie.
>>6566319 Hey, it's still better than /d/. I'm just throwing ideas around. Though I guess you may be a bit too be mean for [s4s], even in a serious thread.
There's no reason not to have both threads, both on /d/ and /r9k/, and just have the annoying tripfags stop raging over the existence of the chill thread that doesn't need to keep posting porn it's not even that interested in to protect it's existence.
>>6566323 literally having the thread on dedicated shitpost memery board
great fucking idea genius
I was fine with having it on /d/ and /r9k/, i dont have a problem, i do have a problem when people decide they have the right to start policing shit and intentionally destroying a long-running thread that they were never even a part of.
>>6566326 It's almost as if anonyminity and the fact that you're never seeing physical humans who can physically kick your ass makes people think they can do stupid things. Especially people who didn't care for what they're ruining.
My point still stands... I think there needs to be another board for these sorts of things with it's own mods. It could be helpful, anyway.
This thread looks like it's getting dangerously low on image content. Don't forget that these threads will get deleted if there isn't enough posting of related, /d/-type images going on. You can always find something on danbooru or gelbooru if you don't have much in the way of pictures, so try to make a point of posting an image at least half the time.
>>6564910 >Maybe they could make a new board for it and other such general niche hentai/discussions. That's a perfect idea. I feel it'd be even better if we'd just remove /vg/ and merge it with that idea into a /generals/ board. It'd take care of a lot of generals with the same identity issue.
>>6566314 I don't think I can dictate the existence of /yg/. Take a step back, please. All I'm doing is voicing my opinion, not trying to dictate. I have yet to see good counterarguments to prove the existence of /yg/ in /r9k/ to be a good thing, and it seems to be a unanimous opinion that the /d/ version was created to avoid the /r9k/ shitposters.
>>6566319 What's so bad about [s4s]? >stay off there if he hates it so much I don't hate it. I try to spread the word of the /d/ /yg/'s existence so that valued members can reposition themselves while leaving the frogposters behind. Last time I posted in /r9k/'s /yg/, it accidentally turned into a massive shitfest after a friend of mine saw me posting in there. Please don't misinterpret her affection as me trying to shitpost.
I somewhat feel like you're the exact kind of person who I'm trying to avoid when saying /yg/ shouldn't be on /r9k/. All you're doing is flaming.
>>6568039 >I don't think I can dictate the existence >not trying to dictate >/d/ version was created to avoid the /r9k/ shitposters >so that valued members can reposition themselves are you serious? you and your noxiousness >it accidentally turned into a massive shitfest this is enough, i didn't want to antagonize you before because I thought it would accomplish nothing but I can't take it anymore... you are one of the worst posters I have ever seen post in any /yg/ thread I have come across so far... you completely obliterated that last r9k thread single-handedly and you come here acting like you did nothing wrong
I dislike tripping beyond sharing stories or using it to give advice (so they can follow up if the choose to). But I hope that maybe using it this time will add some degree of strength to my plea. Sorry if it bothers anyone. >>6566319 >>6566323 >>6568074 Just let it go, everyone. Right now there is no thread in /r9k/ and I suggest we wait a bit until making a new one so the predominantly toxic people get distracted by other things. I made these and /r9k/'s last thread that died and I just feel disheartened about making more for a while (I least I won't for a few days) because I'm bummed out that everyone keeps falling for the same baits every damn time.
Please understand, people that defecate over threads have no interest of being proven wrong, and even worse being coerced / bullied out of them; it's a power trip for for them, and you are literally wasting your time. So please stop taking the free bait and getting riled over people's comments. Just read them, laugh or rage, then keep going, don't answer to them. >>6566645 >>6567530 Penwy, why did you disappear? >>6567413 I didn't make that post, but I definitely care. I started posting that "/yg/chan" as the op picture while making some of the threads and it bothers me immensely that the anon that made the "fanart" did so; the character is meant to symbolize the shy, often anonymous shadow a yandere tends to be towards their beloved, completely pure in their determination. A trap, by definition, shatters that purity, because it shifts its use towards narcissistic manipulation. As the one who originally posted her, that's just my take on it. I can't do it anything about it, so I try not to complain, but if it was never reposted in a yandere thread, that would be nice.
>>6568455 >>6568453 What frustrates me the most is that this is the attitude of the majority of the women on that site. They aren't looking for love, they aren't even really clingy, they just want your attention to give their self esteem a boost. It's incredibly depressing when you think of how many guys are on that site and actively looking for love.
What is wrong with modern women that this is the norm?
>>6568456 >aren't looking for love >aren't clingy Yeah thank you. No seriously thank you I didn't know if it was just me. Like I went on that site to give affection and receive romantic or not. I ended up texting two girls as a friend and the conversations would go great, but I'd have to initiate it all the time. If I didn't message first it'd be nothing from the time I work up til bed. You're just making them feel wanted and there's not even any benefits.
Oh wow seriously? get fucked. Look at the fucking worthless attitude on this one.
>"looking for love is retarded" >immediately takes the attitude that men are trying to "force" women to love them just by being present on the DATING site at all >"I just want to meet friends and if i like them in that 'special' way, I'll date them" so don't hit on me if you're not a fucking millionare chad silly boys, just keep feeding me attention while I contribute ABSOLUTELY FUCKING NOTHING
This is the attitude of 95% of the disinterested, not in any way clingy, 'yandere' girls on the site. It's fucking disheartening! And my favorite part?
>"Implying men can into love"
FUCK YOU, seriously just fuck off and die. The only way that statement can be in any way true, especially considering the source, is if your definition of love is as shallow, banal, trite, and sycophantic as you are; which isn't love at all, but some abusive and selfish bipolar cunt's wet dream.
I think the better question is:
>considering the website, and the behavior of the women therein, can women truly 'into' love at all?
>>6568327 >>6568385 I kinda get it... I used to most fanfic because it bothered me to see characters I liked being changed or driven so far from how they were originally written... idc anymore but I get it >>6568443 I read in that web chat people bashing her about being selfish or something like that... after seeing shes adding everyone it seems kinda obvious shes not really looking for friends nor lovers >>6568450 also this >>6568456 maybe you are just boring? >>6568621 people dont owe you their love because you write to them
>>6568670 >people dont owe you their love because you write to them
Never said that they did, nor did I imply it, kindly take your white knight inferences elsewhere.
>>6568784 and the one I'm responding to basically say the same thing >maybe you are just boring/they're not interested in you?
When i made the statement you're referring to I wasn't referring to women's responses to me, I was referring to the attitude of the women, as a whole, on that website based on their profiles and interactions that I've witnessed on both this and the r9k threads. Nice assumption, but utterly unfounded.
>>6568687 The constructive criticisms are implied in the condemnation, and it should be obvious to anyone with the cognitive reasoning abilities inbred into most humans: This is bad, be the opposite of this. Defending their behavior by attacking the only person speaking out against it only reinforces their behavior. Stop being an apologist for such selfish narcissism.
I wouldn't even have written anything here if tarantula aka Lorna Morello didn't attempt to use me as a disposable +1 to his/her e-peen friend collection. Heck I've only messaged one girl on the site and she never responded, but I didn't go on a rant about it because it was inconsequential. Swing and a miss
By the way, if you click on his/her profile and look next to his/her picture, there is a button to remove them from your friends list. I would suggest doing so if you haven't already. The friend removal interface isn't explicitly explained and I had to ask spooks about it.
>>6568443 >a girl on this community/dating site doesn't want to be my gf, what a bitch! I understand getting your hopes up and feeling disappointed, but come on. I added her and talked to her a bit. Not sure why she's bothering to friend everyone but she's just looking for friends and a community.
>>6568968 Since you won't read the FAQ, ill spoon feed a part of it to you. "I think I should delete my account... Every single time I come here people are always talking about me complaining about how Im never on and I never reply. ITS NOT MY FAULT MY INTERNET IS SO SHIT! I can't help that I'm hardly ever on and every time I do I have 30 new messages from people. That's the other thing. In FLOODED with message after message from all of you. It's just so hard to keep up with the constant stream of messaging." >The constructive criticisms are implied in the condemnation, and it should be obvious to anyone with the cognitive reasoning abilities inbred into most humans I see, get fucked, fucking worthless attitude, 95% of women are disinterested, fuck you, fuck off and die, women can't love and I probably missed some but fill in the blanks. >Defending their behavior by attacking the only person speaking out I'm not defending their behavior, I disagree completely with what Lorna did but complaining about it wont make it go away and certainly telling an anon to fuck off and die inst going to either.
>>6568975 incorrect, you are stating falsely that I somehow expect and demand that by virtue of putting my profile on that site I am entitled to a 'gf', which isn't the case at all. Neither is it the case that I think anyone is a 'bitch' for not being interested in me. Your argument reads like something that should go in the #niceguysbelike section of tumblr.
And the only 'obvious' thing is that I find it disgusting and distasteful, given the fact that a site dedicated to 'yandere' love and people finding said love is so utterly infested with attention whoring narcissistic women who wouldn't know love if it tied them up and threatened to kill them. (not that I'm saying that is love, but a little joke about the topic at hand seemed apropos.)
also thank you >>6568979 for stating exactly what I had in mind.
>>6568978 >cherrypicking not going to spoon feed you.
Also your quote from the FAQ has nothing to do with anything I said whatsoever, as it has nothing to do with the reason why I wrote what I did in the first place. I wasn't complaining about people not responding, not once. Your argument is completely incoherent.
>>6568986 You're right, what you've been doing doesn't come close to a coherent argument.
It isn't pointless at all, in fact it serves as a fine warning for men joining the site to know exactly what they're in for. If you had any kind of solidarity with the average guy here, rather than some selfish self serving attitude towards the situation, you'd understand that.
>>6568983 >a site dedicated to 'yandere' love and people finding said love is so utterly infested with attention whoring narcissistic women You may have a point. On the one hand, it's really no skin off my ass if someone who I don't think quite fits the site decides to use it to make friends. But on the other, it's precisely that kind of thing that leads to the repurposing and derailing of websites or threads. And the fact that she made a forum post about these threads, inviting people who use the site but don't know about the threads already (i.e. reddit) to come to them, does not sit well with me either. Still, how do you decide who is or isn't yandere enough for the site? And, like >>6568986 says, what on earth do you do about it?
>>6568590 >blatantly wrong and offensive comment >>6568621 >some guy overreacts to what we should expect from 4chan, ie said comment >>6568670 >>6568683 >>6568687 >>6568784 >>6568978 >>6568986 >this many stupid as fuck comments with no pictures or purpose shitting up the thread in response to this shit guys/ladies pls, just because you haven't found your yanderoo doesn't mean you should shitpost all over the thread. we're trying to build a friendly community on a 4chan board and that's hard enough as it is. in fact you should do your best to be friendly and welcoming to new people so there's more on the site. >>6568996 >what on earth do you do about it? invite everyone regardless of yanness, by the nature of the site people looking to date will be more yan/looking for yan, and the people looking for friends will be decidedly less so. it's ok to have a larger pool of both.
>>6569047 oh i'm not any of them, i was just telling them off for bitching for no reason. i actually like both the site and community(mostly). no problem here, lets just all be friends instead of complaining needlessly.
They were a lot of what I wanted in a partner and I ended up falling for them, my feelings were one-sided and probably would have never worked out even if they weren't. I woke up every morning telling myself that my feelings for her are pointless and I guess it worked, because they've legitimately gone away.
>>6571085 actualy really well, i've been talking to a yan grill from the yandere site for quite a while and its going well. i noticed she'd deleted her yanderoo profile and when i asked her about it she said and i quote "Yeah I deleted it cause I found you :3", so that's nice. oh and im not getting evicted which is also great.
>>6571103 Well, I search all over the internet for animes or series about yanderes but there really aren't that much. I look now for romances with the guy and the girl already in a couple to avoid those shitty harem things. I fell on this one, It looked like the 2 main characters are almost already in couple but there is a fucking bastard that needs to burn in hell that shows up.
If you know a good animuh that looks like golden time I'd really like it :D
>>6571193 not salty yuo seem nice and haveb enen polite to me he few times I hve been there so I dont wish you bad but if you are unable to see how much scared behaves like your ex you will regre it int he future
>>6571272 Honestly I'm not. I just recently joined the site, and heard about the drama on the irc and in here and was wondering what the similarities were. Also, his ex already emailed me and I'm not scared.
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