Choking, drowning, smothering, etc. Bonus points if the choke-e is visibly enjoying it.
I love choking. That half-lidded look in their eyes turns me on like nothing else. I also love casual choking where they're choked just because they can be, like pic related.
Bagging is nice, but I really like stuff that involves breathplay hoods, rebreathing bags, and the like. I haven't really seen anything like that in hentai though. Link is an example of something I have for my own use. I also bought a larger bag and a y connector for longer play before clearing and starting again.
yeah, a lot of nerdy girls are into it.
I don't think I've ever met a guy that was into it. Always girls. Hell, I figured this thread was made by girls.
Women, why do you like this weird shit?
Yes, hello. I made the thread.
When you run out of air your mind goes blank. There's nothing left to focus on but the pleasure. It's wonderful. The desperation to breathe becomes the desperation to cum. I've only ever done it on myself, though, not with a partner.
>When you run out of air your mind goes blank. There's nothing left to focus on but the pleasure. It's wonderful. The desperation to breathe becomes the desperation to cum. I've only ever done it on myself, though, not with a partner.
how on earth do you run across this?
I'm a masochist so pain feels amazing. Being choked makes me feel submissive too, not being allowed control over something so simple makes my heart race.
I choke myself in private with belts and leashes and stuff. I've only asked one other person to strangle me but they said they didn't want to hurt me.
Basically what the other guys said, when you choke yourself or get choked your mind goes blank and the only thing you can think about is cumming, and giving someone control over my body is the best feeling so,
Followup: I love binding myself with belts and stuff for the same reason.
When I can´t even exert control over your own body movements I feel like a property for someone to use and that´s the best feeling.
You'd be surprised how many girls are into being choked. It's obviously not a first date kind of thing to explore (unless they're down af), but once you're in a relationship who knows?
Obvious tips would be to establish an easily recognisable safe-word, motion or sign that the 'victim' can make whilst being throttled - if they're still lucid - and establish an ultimate cut-off where you will stop after a certain amount of time in case they're incapable of functioning for whatever reason. Learn basic biology, like where it is safer to choke and where the major arteries are, stuff like that. A first aid kit and some basic medical training couldn't hurt either if you're thinking of going heavy. If you're using extra kit like leashes, collars and the like, get something with an easy release or if not, make sure it works completely before using it - nothing quite ruins a sexy night like choking out because your partner couldn't undo the buckle around your neck.
This is all assuming you have brain damage and can't work out the basics of a relationship, of course, but it can't hurt to say it just in case, I suppose.
How soon after taking someone's virginity would it be acceptable to ask for this? Do you have to wait until he's completely used to being with you in a vanilla way before you talk about playing rough or can you gradually introduce it as you're getting acclimated to one another?
"Hey Hun? Want to try something different?"
You can use it as soon as you meet them, just depends on how comfortable you are in general. I made a request to my gf and she agreed, so the play got generally rougher from then on in.
>Obvious tips would be to establish an easily recognisable safe-word, motion or sign that the 'victim' can make whilst being throttled - if they're still lucid - and establish an ultimate cut-off where you will stop after a certain amount of time in case they're incapable of functioning for whatever reason. Learn basic biology, like where it is safer to choke and where the major arteries are, stuff like that. A first aid kit and some basic medical training couldn't hurt either if you're thinking of going heavy. If you're using extra kit like leashes, collars and the like, get something with an easy release or if not, make sure it works completely before using it - nothing quite ruins a sexy night like choking out because your partner couldn't undo the buckle around your neck.
>This is all assuming you have brain damage and can't work out the basics of a relationship, of course, but it can't hurt to say it just in case, I suppose.
some of you are too complicated.
And here I thought making jell eggs to stick up my ass was a lot of work.
Well, not sure about the enjoyance part, but whatever.
The older I get, the more I realize just how common it is in women. Both long-term girlfriends I have had loved to be choked - hard. A couple randoms too.
I have gotten stories from friends, too, saying that they were weirded out when girls asked them about choking. My friends are pussies.
hold your breath or put your hands around your throat. It's nearly impossible to choke yourself to death, because once you start gettig faint you pull your hands away from your throat, allowing you to start breathing again.
source: I haven't died yet mang
Me too, was talking with a sadist yesterday and they mentioned they always wanted to climb on top of someone and choke them to hear the sounds of moaning and guttering.
And god that turned me on, it would be amazing to find a real sadist, preferably one that gets turned on from my pain and making me submit so much that I just let him do whatever he wants with me. One that loves to abuse me and gets off on my pain or suffering
I would give myself to him, I'd be his pet to do whatever he likes to.
For some reason, sadists getting off and getting so excited at my pain turned me on so much, I've never been so horny. And their enjoyment of my abuse would just encourage them more.
I'd be treated like a piece of trash to choke and smack, slapped or spat on, my submission and scared whimpering only turning them on even more. God, I dont know why I want it so bad but I suddenly crave being abused so much.
I love hurting people and everything, but, uh, that's kind of a bit much
How would a sadist mistreat me?
I can't think of any way to be treated like a piece of trash other than basic choking / slapping / spitting on me. If you get sexual pleasure from my pain, what would you use to treat me like the bitch that I am? Would ramming a cock down my throat and making me choke and worship it do anything for you?
Anything more extreme like needles or anything, or what makes a sadist happy?
For me, being sadistic is less about sexual pleasure and more about emotional satisfaction. I might not necessarily be getting off on hurting somebody, but that doesn't mean I don't enjoy it. Without getting into anything too fancy, I think my favorite is stuff that causes lasting pain. Canings are good for that; they're really simple to do, they hurt like nothing else, the person will be sore for the next few days, and I can enjoy the sound of them counting off each stroke. The ass is the most obvious target, but I think doing it to the feet is great too. Not only are they really sensitive, but the person is reminded of their place every time they try to walk around like a normal person afterwards.
Apart from that, making them do something uncomfortable/painful for an unknown length of time is also good. Having the person kneel on a handful of rice with their nose pressed up against the corner is good, for example. The longer they stay there the more it hurts and they know they're not allowed to move an inch until I tell them to, whenever that may be.
Somebody's fishing for fapping material.
There's a lot of things you can do that go beyond the basics you listed. And a lot of little things that can make them much more intense. Getting spanked can hurt a lot, especially if you use a paddle or a belt. Getting spanked while you have to be bent over and hold yourself up is even worse, you have to struggle through the pain and you have to struggle to even keep yourself in the proper position. I set up a restraint point in the ceiling I like to use a lot, and its very fun to tie the back of my pet's collar to it and leave it just high enough that if they stand on their tiptoes they can breathe a little bit. Things like that which require less contact on my part, where I can just sit down and enjoy their suffering with a glass of Chambord and some relaxing music, is just perfect. I could honestly fall asleep it calms me so much, though as much as the idea of falling asleep to somebody's struggles and then waking up to find out their dead turns me on I do make sure to at least stay awake.
The thing that makes me happy with sadism is other people suffering for my pleasure. It's trust and devotions\ and pleasure all wrapped in one.
Thanks that helps. So you are satisfied more so by the domination/submission dynamic and the control you have more so than anything?
Not so much, but it does make me incredibly aroused.
Thanks, I was wondering more so without any specific items or tools, and more so on better ways to mistreat me without any BDSM or other dynamic. Instead, something that I love is sitting on top of me and pinning my arms so I'm helpless, choking me just to hear me moan and sputter underneath him. Or choking me again and taking great pleasure in making me feel as worthless as possible by slapping and spitting on me. Although having to stay in an uncomfortable position like on my tip toes sounds great as well, thanks anon.
Oh yeah, it's definitely the dynamics involved and having control that do it for me.I love having all the power in the relationship, I love being able to do whatever I want, and I love being able to make myself feel better by making the other person feel worse.
Since you mentioned it, what I think is even better than spitting on somebody is spitting in their mouth and telling them to swallow. Really makes me feel good to do that.
I didn't even consider that, thank you, that's a lot more humiliating.
With sadists I get oddly excited, as well as content and happy that I can cheer them up by letting him mistreat and abuse me, especially for choking. Knowing he's enjoying choking me makes me feel so content.
I could beg for him to use me, if he needs some cheering up maybe I could beg or whimper him to treat me as his worthless cumdumpster, that might make him feel more dominant or controlling, and happy, I hope.
Would that work for you? How would you feel if your sub did that?
Oh yeah, enthusiastic subs are great. I really love attention, so having somebody who's eager to serve me would be perfect.
I'm not super huge into choking, though I've never actually tried it. My favorite form of breathplay is definitely facesitting. Not only do I get to control the person's breathing, but I get to be pleasured while I do it too. I remember one time with my ex where I mummified him in saran wrap so he was hot, sweaty, and completely immobile, blindfolded him so he couldn't see, and then just sat on his face for a while. I sorta alternated between having him lick my asshole, where he could mostly breath through his nose, and having him suck on my balls, with him being firmly suffocated by my butt. It felt good enough that I couldn't help but jerk off while I did it, and I surprised him by sticking my cock in his mouth while I finished up.
My and my gf both love it. She always comes before me so if we are in that kind of mood I choke her while she comes, then she does me when I do.
Again, not all the time, but if it is that kind of sex, it is pretty amazing.
If you've got a fetlife account you can send me a message there, I have the same username. Fair warning, I'm not looking for a long distance relationship or anything.
Here's a favorite. Need more with women pissing themselves while being strangled.
Though Kurumi is the shit, it doesn't do it for me. No disrespect but I personally find it more satisfying to see the life being squeezed from their faces with nothing getting in the way.
Do you really think you had control over your sub?
I'm genuinely interested.
I have submissive tendencies myself. It just sometimes all seems fake.
Your domination, my submission. It's always limited to being a game.
It doesn't feel authentic.
What I mean is this. I can play slut all I want, knowing that I could potentially just end it all and walk away diminishes the relationship. Does real control even exist within western societies nowadays?
I seriously doubt it and it's one of the mature unresolved issues I experience with my sexuality.
Well if you're just sorta playing around with somebody, then yeah, it's only a game. But have you ever been in a dedicated relationship where you felt you truly loved the other person? Have you ever been so devoted to somebody that you started mentally referring to them as master or mistress, instead of their actual name? Have you ever felt the sense of satisfaction that comes from knowing you're right where you belong, at the other person's side? Once you reach that point the fact that you could simply walk away doesn't matter at all, because why would you ever want to.
Reading this caused literal pain in my stomach.
Most likely I'm just very jealous because I actually never experienced what you describe.
I think my sexuality is more of a mental issue than something I can have fun with.
I've been single for way too long too, I know your pain.
It sounds to me like you just need to find the right person. Once you do, you'll learn that it's not so complicated and that there's a lot of joy to be found in doing your best to make them happy. What makes you say that it's a mental issue?
Whenever I think about this fetish I get more emotional pain than joy out of it.
BDSM amplifys this in an extreme way. I start feeling physical pain and strongly tremble.
I think it's called sub frenzy.
Always try determining what causes it and what exactly this feeling even is, but could never conclude anything.
Is it the sort of pain that you want, or feel drawn to in some way?
This could just be it. I do sense some sort of romantic connotation.
It's a plain yes actually. Being in scarcity and knowing people are happier than I am is arousing.
This is a pretty horrible realization. I actively seek out being depressed. Which again probably makes it more of a mental illness than anything else.
It sounds to me like you just have a lot of worry and anxiety over the whole thing in general, really. Some people certainly do get off on being made to feel like shit, but I think that might only be a thing with you because you've just gotten used to it and don't really know anything else. You're still clearly learning about yourself, but once you get more experience I think it'll all come together and you'll be able to figure out what it is that gives you happiness.