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Role-Reversal and Gentle Femdom General - Smothered With Love Edition

ITT:
>related hentai
>greentext
>monster girls
>general lewdness
>dojinshi recommendations
>anime/manga recommendations
>preferably recommendations that are on-topic
>cuteposting
>vocaroos
>friendly discussion

Previous Thread: >>6525810

>What is Role Reversal?
http://rolereversalreader.tumblr.com/post/108492906077/finished-the-faq-for-relationship-role-reversal

New Map:
https://www.zeemaps.com/map?group=1618907

Old Role Reversal Map:
https://www.zeemaps.com/map?group=1239585#

FetLife Group
https://fetlife.com/groups/121948

irc channel: irc.irchighway.net , #gfd

/rr/ and /gfd/ megapastebins:
http://pastebin.com/7NfGfusP
http://pastebin.com/evbfjazh
http://pastebin.com/iQetqpH7
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So how is everyone doing today?
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Could somebody give me a source on >>6528565? It looks like Witch Craft Works but I'm not sure.
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>>6528622
I'm alright, just working out and playing vidya until I have to go to work. Yourself?
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>>6528625
Got homework n stuff lined up. Things I need to catch up on.
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Tfw still no gf to bake cookies for and give a massage when she comes home from work.
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There's a decent amazon position thread on /gif/ right now for those interested.

Spergs are arguing over whether penis vagina sex with a woman on top is homosexual or not.
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>>6528645
Like hell its homosexual
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>>6528645
Good to know! I just don't get peoples thought process with stuff like that tho. I've seen people call short hair and muscular women homosexual before. It's probably just bait, but you can never be sure.
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Tf when no gf into rr or gfd
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>>6528622
>So how is everyone doing today?
Not so great today. I had an interview for a job Friday that went really well, and was told to expect a call about scheduling a second interview yesterday or today. I hadn't heard back by 5, so I called them myself. Was told that they filled the positions they had open already, and would give me a call back this week if someone failed a drug test or background check.

So, I'm really bummed out now because I'm afraid I won't be able to find a job that isn't completely terrible... I only have a year of retail experience and no useful education to speak of. I'm decent at graphic design and have a small bit of skill at programming, but since I don't have any formal education to back them up, I feel like I can't get anywhere with that.

I'm not sure what else to do besides apply for everything I potentially qualify for, shitty or not, at this point.
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>>6528645
>is penis in vagina homosexual?
/gif/ is truly a great board.
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What are the elements of a good headpat?
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List time!

Animated films:
>Garden of Words
>Kiki's delivery service

Anime/Manga:
>Witch Craft Works
>Freezing
>Madan no Ou to Vanadis
>Morobito: Guardian of the Spirit
>Monster Musume no Iru Ichijou
>Soredemo Sekai wa Utsukushii (The world is still beautiful)
>Akame ga Kill*
>Infinite Stratos
>Accel World*
>The Pet Girl of Sakurasou*
>Danna ga Nani o Itteiru ka Wakaranai Ken
>Tasogare otome x Amnesia
>Tonari no Kaibutsu-kun
>Gekkan Shoujo Nozaki-kun
>Mysterious Girlfriend X
>Magic Saliva

Manga/Light Novel:
>Kono Onee-san wa fiction desu
>Unbalance x Unbalance
>Oyomegatari
>Sensei Lock-on
>Arakawa under the bridge
>Natsuyuki Rendezvous
>Otomen
>Tramps like us
>Hokago play
>Game Over
*/gfd/ is not the main focus of the story. Don't read/watch it purely for the /gfd/, make sure you enjoy it first and consider the /gfd/ a bonus.

Doujins: http://pastebin.com/5w7qgrM6
As usual, recommendations are welcome.
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>>6528672
Mahou Sensei Negima is more /ss/ than it is /gfd/, but like 90% of all /ss/ it's got some elements of /gfd/ in it. It's a shonen harem-turned-action series about shotawizard teaching at an all-girl junior high and inadvertantly getting his homeroom mixed up in all manner of supernatural shenanigans.
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>>6528665
Sodium acetate and water
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>>6528623
You're right, its Witch Craft Works.
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>>6528672
How is Kiki's delivery service gfd?
I'm confused.
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>>6528665
Hand + Head.
Hair ruffling is also good.
Lap pillow is amazing.

>tfw you roll down the window a little bit while driving and image that it's a person ruffling your hair.
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>>6528622
Do you ever think about how many /gfd/ threads there have been? Than think about how many people have probably killed themselves that used to post in these threads. How sad and depressing that seems. To know someone that posted yesterday will never post again. How many people have we talked to about different things that we can never talk to again.

So to answer your question. I'm not doing to good today.
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>>6528622
Decent
Wondering where I could find a gfd gf. Or where she could find me
Also, sauce on this? I can't seem to find anything
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>>6528696
I can honestly say that I've never thought, "I wonder how many people that used to post in /gfd/ have killed themselves." That's a bit morbid there, anon. Also, I would wager that it's in the range of 0-2. I'm hoping it's 0 at least, so that's what I'm going to believe. As for how many threads there have been, here's a list that some kind anon keeps up with:
pastebin.com/zwvLTcVG

[spoiler]also, i love you anon, feel better[/spoiler]
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>>6528700
The title is literally in the damn picture.
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>>6528636
this looks so familiar but I can't place it

what's it from?
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>>6528700
http://imgur.com/a/wHG29#oI3tsP3
It's called Hoping you remember me... by Hisasi
a-anon.
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>>6528705
>>6528711
Tf? I tried searching the title a few days ago and it came up with nothing. What changed? Thanks I guess. (a-a-anon)
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>>6528680
I would say /ss/ is almost /gfd/ by default, unless the boy makes a point of dominating and she of submitting. In the end the girl can still easily overpower him and take control. She has the more experience in the end, and it's naturally for her to guide him even if she's not an assertive person
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>>6528645
Holy fuck it's full retard.
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>>6528692
Don't ask me, I just copypasted the list from the last thread.
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>>6528645
What?
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>>6528735
there's so much stupid that it makes my brain hurt, and I was in /b/ not too many days ago
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>>6528645
As if we needed any more reason to consider that MGTOW's have loop-de-looped past legitimate grievances and been led into the same realm of insane troll logic as their Feminazi counter-parts.
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>>6528672

>no Shimoneta

Revise this list before Anna-senpai gets you.
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Hey, I'm really new to this kink and /d/ in general, I like these threads a lot
If you guys have any pointers for a newbie: pls, I'm just getting into this and have no idea how to even start
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>>6528781
Give up.
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>>6528784
That. Don't even think for a second that this is realistically possible. You need a miracle, or to have been born so attractive that women approach you.

Inb4 people replying saying "it's not impossible! I have a gf/bf who..."

You are in the tiny, tiny minority.
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>>6528781
Never give up!
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>>6528781
Get out while it's still idle curiosity and not full-on desire that will never be fulfilled.
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>>6528781
Just gotta put yourself out there and look for it. A relationship like this isn't easy to find, but its certainly possible.
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>>6528781
1. get a gf
2. do little things to encourage dom behavior, foot rubs and the like
3. slowly increase intensity, admit you like it when she takes charge

She might not be into full domming, but most people like to make their partners happy
Just remember that she might like to be the sub sometimes too
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>>6528786
I have a qt3.14 gf who I think is down
I could go into some detail if that helps

Thanks for warning me though, I appreciate the sentiment.
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>>6528806
Also these Google captcha's suck, switched to mobile and would demand I solve about 20 puzzles before it let me post
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>>6528781
rule n°1: someone that you haven't locked up with you will run away
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>>6528809
tried the audio ones? they work a lot better for me
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>>6528770
She's in a better place now
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I dunno, I made up a personality for me and my gf during our rp sessions of a fat old guy that wants her to domme him and she took to it like a fish to water, I'm so thankful for her!
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>>6528786
In fact my gf approached me

Look, lets assume the gf is here and she won't run screaming all of of a sudden. I don't think that'll happen, as she introduced me to pegging, which we've done three times now. We're just getting into stocking stuff, which we both seem to like, both ways. Prospects are good!

But I'm suddenly experiencing lots of new feelings which never happened before, wanting to be held, to be small, to serve, to be used... it's rather overwhelming, and I don't know where to start. I have no idea what to do. Should I be looking into clothes? Things to do? Ways to look at it, things to negotiate? Stuff to do while apart? Training stuff?

What do I do help
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>>6528770
Anna is anything but gentle.
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>>6528824
Gotta go sleep now but I'm glad I found this place
I'll be back!
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>>6528824
It would probably be best to talk to your girlfriend about it rather than us. See what her interests are and if they overlap with yours. It seems like she's interested in this kind of thing, so maybe she already has some ideas planned out. If your not sure about your interests, then yeah, look around and find what you like.
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>>6528692

People have asked that several times and no-one can answer. I've seen the movie and didn't notice anything.
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>>6528696
>think about how many people have probably killed themselves that used to post in these threads

Zero.
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>>6528835
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>>6528863
yea, if you take some of the scenes out of context as pictures, they could work. But in context, it's pretty much rape
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Same peeps postin the same pictures each day.
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>>6528889
well, by all means post new things and bring new people

we welcome all
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>>6528905
>all men are dogs anyway LOL
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>>6528922
>>6528905
>all men are dogs anyways
Ha! Some are wolves.
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We never have enough pictures, so I'll dump some.

It's called Kumo no Oyomesan Spider Bride.
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>working at a law firm gettin' mah articles
>boss is foisting a pain in the ass case on me
>"I call cases like this dogs. Like dogs, you think they'll be fine but they're always finding new ways to piss on your carpets. Not unrelated, my nickname for my husband is 'puppy dog'."
>actually do damage biting my tongue to not laugh

Semi-related, I'm the only girl in the firm who ever wears a dress or skirt to work (and unfortunately none of the guys seem game...). Not that I don't enjoy andro business formal as well, but what's the general opinion on doms in a sensible dress?
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>>6528696
That goes for everything though.

People you pass on the street, people you spoke with this morning, the people you went to school with, the friends you once trusted like own family, the people you share blood with...

It's easier to lose a person than it is to gain a person. Twenty or thirty( or even more) years of school, work, social molding and careful cultivation can be erased pretty easily; a rough day and a few pills can go a long way.
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>>6528974
Hroz is a god
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>>6528696
it doesn't help that none of them are being saved. I try not to think about it.
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>>6528706
Tasogare otome X amnesia
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>TFW spidergirl fetish
>TFW carelessly killed a spider this morning without realizing

I feel like shit, guys...
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>>6529020
I am a sad doggy. My thoughts have become overwhelmingly negative lately, I don't think it will be much longer for me. All I can do is be happy it'll be over soon.
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>>6529051
I hate to see you go but i can't stop you. It's not you're fault.
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>>6529051
Me too. I keep thinking someone will adopt me if I do my best to be qt and cheerful but no one ever does.
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>>6528934
A pleated/business dress with button up top and jacket can be very sexy if worn correctly. I know I'd be grinning like an idiot and following orders.
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>>6529066
Are you trying all possible means?
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>tfw always attract submissive girls
>tfw more or less a dom out of convenience
>see this thread

I

I want this so bad, man.
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>>6528797
What this guy says is true. I met my bf through 4chan in the /r9k/ gfd threads. He posted a pic of himself and what he is looking for in a gf and I approached him saying I thought he is cute
We've been together for around 7 months now and he plans to visit me this christmas vacation for the first time
Can't wait really :3
I'm not the most dominant woman out there and sometimes I'm afraid of disappointing him in that manner.
I was raised in a traditional and conservative family but I still want to be the major breadwinner and be spoiled by my future hubby
My bf is always surprised at how high my sex drive is compared to his. I'm almost always the one putting the moves on him
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>>6528934
I prefer a nice pantsuit, but any kind business/formal wear looks really good.
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>>6529061
I sometimes feel like it is my fault. I just stopped enjoying everything I used to enjoy and the only thing I really feel anymore is lonely. But even now I don't want to go outside and be with people. I can't even orgasm anymore.
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I can't sleep anons.

My days going ok im slowly escaping neetdom, I have a job for Christmas and close to passing my driving test even added myself to the map but no girls are around me haha.

I think I need to work on overcoming my shyness. Maybe try to break my habit of overthinking and freezing up.

Also need to work on getting friends or at least seeing myself as a friend. I'm also going to the gym but only when its empty.

Still no tomboy encounters but eh idm just better to slowly improve myself. Better than nothing.

I'm stuck thinking I don't deserve anyone. Not that im entitled to someone just what do I have to offer.

These threads are nice even if nothing happens its just nice to see a few others be happy. Nice to read really good.

I still can't sleep tho ugh its too warmthen too cold.
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>>6529145
I'm not going to pretend to have the answers i simply don't I'm really sorry to hear that and i wish there was something i could but i can't.I could tell you to keep the hope but what good would it do? you seem dead set on this their is thing nothing i can do. I respect whatever decision you make.

I don't want to see another brother fall i'm not just saying that i mean it. I believe the people on r9k did commit suicide and it's a dam shame and a fucking waste of a life
when that life could of been saved. i may not be able to but somebody could of.

Either way i hope and pray shit gets better for you even if it's hopeless in fact everybody shit sucks i know all to well but i don't have the courage to end it.
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>been trying to get femanon to come to creative writing club meeting, but shes been too busy
>tonight she finally came, said she liked the story i had written. cool.
>during the meeting, i catch another girl totally staring at me from across the room, lets call her fem2
>fem2 is ignoring her friends, listening to our conversation, looking at me the entire time, but doesnt come over
>fem2 tells me as we're leaving that she had stalked me on facebook
>"You play league? We should play some time" (but didnt give me her ign)
>femanon comes to eat with friend and i, we all talk for 3 hours
>shes a total nerd, its great
>might get her to play pathfinder with us some time
I thought my life was sounding like a romcom when I met femanon the way I did, but if fem2 were actually interested in me, then that would just be too much. Idk, maybe I'm just reading too much into it. Heck, maybe neither of em are interested in me. Idk.

>>6528696
>>6529051
I love you anons. I know this may seem cheesy, but, uh, please listen to this song. Or at least the chorus, which starts at ~0:26. It really helped me to hear it when I did, so maybe it'll help you guys.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IvMYDp_c66Q
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>>6529066
Oops, I missed linking >>6529189
to you too. Well, it applies to you too anon.
Hope all y'all feel better
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>>6529147

This post is sooo fucking relatable in every way. Seems like I always get stuck in that mentality that I don't deserve anyone, even when I'm taking steps to improve myself.

And I'm way too scared of putting myself out and talking to new people, like I'm going to be awkward and screw everything up somehow.

And it's like all of this stuff about being social and improving myself didn't happen soon enough. Like I'm 22 and just now barely starting to figure this out, while virtually everyone around me already has a bf/gf, already has a shit ton of friends and is always talking to people. It feels like I wasted the last 8 years of my life on video games and the internet, and I'm getting a really late start.

Last couple of days my thoughts have been an emotional rollercoaster. Constantly telling myself that I can't approach anyone and get into a relationship like a "normal" guy, telling myself that I'd be terrible at "normal" sex, reminding myself that I don't have anyone I'm comfortable talking to about all this (besides anon, of course), and on and on and on.

I keep telling myself that the past is the past and that I have a privileged life and a loving family and that shit will get better, but I feel like I just don't know what the fuck I'm doing with my life anymore. And all I'm doing is venting right now, holy fuck I need someone to talk to.
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>>6529198
So, are you me or what? Just hit 23, living alone, and no idea how to meet people post college
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>>6529198
Holy shit i know that feel. I'm only 20 but i wasted all my developmental years here, with vidya or anime. I have friends now but i feel so out of place and think i might've been better off staying alone at times. I try and put myself out there but whenever i do i mess it up somehow. And i feel like a bigger piece of shit for complaining because my life isn't bad.
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>>6529205

Fuck, I'm in college and still have no idea how to make friends, I just chat with people on campus and after that it's over. And I still live with my family, no idea how long that'll go on for. Plus I have a part-time job and between that, school, and fitting in time to exercise, pretty much my only free time is the weekend. And I have no idea what I'm gonna keep doing in college or where I really want my career to go. So really no idea what I'm doing with my life.
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>>6529198
>>6529198
>>6529207
find a hobby that involves socializing, or an interest that has meetups (you'd be surprised at how much there is)
regularly go somewhere
when in a long line or on a long trip, chat up the people next to you
step outside of your comfort zone every now and then. You might like the results

life tips:
learn not to give much of a fuck of what others think of you. just do your own thing
people can be very different from you, and your reality can be changed one day, so try to keep an open mind
be chill and nice to other people, because you never know how big a difference it can make to someone
don't get caught up in being angry at things that are really inconveniences at best. find a way to enjoy whatever the situation is
be patient dammit

sometimes i feel like an old man trying to say these things to people, even though i'm 19 and don't do these all the time myself. there are other ways to improve your life, but these are what i'm trying to do to better myself.
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>>6529213
Thanks for the advice but I've heard it time and time again. Putting it in practice is much harder, but baby steps right.
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>>6529213

>find a hobby that involves socializing, or an interest that has meetups
>regularly go somewhere

I really need to do these. Thing is I have no idea where to even start. Especially with all the free time I don't have.
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>>6529224
tabletop games are a good place to start, check your local game/comic/hobby shop
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>>6529213
>Go to random places
>Talk to random people
>They think it's creepy
Whatever back to my cave
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>>6528693
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR INTRODUCING ME TO THIS ARTIST. i love their stuff.
here's a couple i particularly liked.
...also it'd be cool if anyone could translate what he's saying.
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>>6529232
ewww i was shit posting on /h/ forgot to remove name lol
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>>6529238
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>>6529232
this. those advices are mostly worthless
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>>6529232
Not all will think it's creepy. Even if they do, who cares? The point is to get used to talking to strangers. You're not going to see them again, so their opinion of you doesn't matter.

>>6529267
They're better than staying home alone and never meeting people, then complaining about not being able to find a gf
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>>6529066
Why don't you try and attempt some actual non-sperg human interaction rather than waiting for someone to 'adopt' you?
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>>6529272
or get you even more traumatized and depressed than before
try your luck
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>>6529302
Speaking as somebody who literally just got her heart broken last week and spent a few days unable to eat or sleep and losing her hair... it's still worth it. Sometimes you roll a 20 and sometimes you roll a 1. That 20's gotta come around eventually, or at least some kind of decent roll.
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>>6529302
>doing something to make me happy could make me sadder
Or it could make you happy?

>>6529304
Man, wouldn't it be nice if we could just take 20 though? But yeah, this is the right way to look at it. Hope you feel better anon.
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>>6529304
do mind that life is not a game and you have no reset button if you fuck up. every choice you make permanently changes the outcome. one bad roll and you're fucked, sometimes for life and unfortunately the dice is weighted at all the small numbers
>>6529312
you have no guarantee for any success. all you usually do is amortizing the damage when stuff goes wrong
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>>6529323
Why so pessimistic anon?
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>>6529327
Why does everything give me an erection.
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>>6529329
Why would it be any different?
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>>6529327
i'm a realist. i calculate and make logical choices. if i was ever optimistic, i wouldn't have anything that i own today
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>>6529327
This is why
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>>6529338
Oh you're the glass half guy.

Everyone gets something in the end, of course there are females (50% of the species) and no doubt some of them are femdoms worrying about how they'll never find someone either.
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>>6529338
Pessimists always claim to be realists. The dice aren't weighted against you. Not having a guarantee for success doesn't mean you have a guarantee for failure.
But who cares anyway? If you want to calculate and make logical choices, then how about the calculation of "Is it worth it to have a negative outlook? Or would I gain more happiness from being optimistic, and assuming that things stand a reasonable chance for success?"
>inb4 "It's not a negative outlook, it's a realistic one"
>inb4 "Happiness isn't real" or similar edgelord spiel

>>6529341
I also enjoy using children's cartoons to arbitrarily decide that I'm screwed in life from the outset, and I stand no chance at being happy, if my happiness comes from being with others.
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Man I forgot that there are some really depressed people in this world, and how fortunate i am to still have my childhood friends.
To the pessimistic and depressed people out there, I hope you can remember how beautiful and wonderful life is.
Nature can be as harsh as it is let to be, but hope is not always lost and where there's a will there's a way.

On the more practical and tangible side, have you ever tried weed? How about mushrooms?
May as well try them from what I hear...
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>>6529352
The real question here is, why are you getting upset over other people's world views and beliefs?
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>>6529352
>I also enjoy using children's cartoons to arbitrarily decide that I'm screwed in life from the outset, and I stand no chance at being happy, if my happiness comes from being with others.
You to? sweet me to.
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>>6529304
crap, sounds like you had it rough...
are you feeling better now?
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>flirted with a thai /fit/ chick
>says she'd be more comfortable if it were'nt for our age gap (She's 5 yrs older)
>won't respond after her last message
>tfw you got agezoned
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>>6529356
Hey if you want to be a pessimist, go ahead. I have no problem with that. My problem is when you try to spread it. Spreading optimism isn't going to make someone's life worse. Spreading pessimism might. Especially when it's used to discourage people from trying to improve themselves or their situation.
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>>6529351
i'll get death in the end, that's for sure
>>6529352
no sir. most things in life don't go well, you have to kick the dice several times to see a satisfying result. and failure can easily become an absolute guarantee. just stop doing anything and see for yourself. and yes, i always take the worst case scenario as most probable because it can't get any worse so if anything goes well, it gives you this much more satisfaction
and don't give me this optimistic crap. your happiness is lying on someone else's unhappiness
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sure is /r9k/ in here. Post more pictures and have a smile instead!
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>>6529371
sure is angry for disagreeing in here.
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>>6529368
I don't really take either side of the optimism pessimism tripe. I just believe what I believe. There's no point in debating world view to the extent you're doing.
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>>6528622
So-so. Got a small headache and attending my first femdom-based munch in almost 3 weeks.

...or I'm trying to. I keep over thinking how it could go wrong or how I'll probably be looked down on because I'm young (22) and have no real experience outside of terribad relationships.
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Tell me /gfd/, what do ya'll like to do for fun?
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>>6529413
shitposting
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>>6529413
Writing, playing vidya...sleeping more than is what's considered healthy without being asked if everything's ok.
The standard schedule of a /d/eviant, I like to think.
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>>6529419
>The standard schedule of a /d/eviant, I like to think.
You forgot the tentacles.
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>>6529413
masterbating, listening to music (home or clubs), playing vidya and watching animu
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>>6529426
and of course collecting porn
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>>6529419
Yeah, that sounds pretty much exactly like me.
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>>6529413
I like to cook, hike, play vidya and I also practice martial arts.
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>>6528672
Listbro here, I've stumbled upon something on /tg/ that I'll be adding to the list from now on: Sword Princess Altina. From what I gather it's a Light Novel about a warrior-princess and her bookish but talented retainer.

>>6528692
I see, a lot of people have complained about it. Shall I remove it then? That would make the list look something like this in the future:

Animated films:
>Garden of Words

Anime/Manga:
>Witch Craft Works
>Freezing
>Madan no Ou to Vanadis
>Morobito: Guardian of the Spirit
>Monster Musume no Iru Ichijou
>Soredemo Sekai wa Utsukushii (The world is still beautiful)
>Akame ga Kill*
>Infinite Stratos
>Accel World*
>The Pet Girl of Sakurasou*
>Danna ga Nani o Itteiru ka Wakaranai Ken
>Tasogare otome x Amnesia
>Tonari no Kaibutsu-kun
>Gekkan Shoujo Nozaki-kun


Manga/Light Novel:
>Sword princess Altina
>Kono Onee-san wa fiction desu
>Unbalance x Unbalance
>Oyomegatari
>Sensei Lock-on
>Arakawa under the bridge
>Natsuyuki Rendezvous
>Otomen
>Tramps like us
>Hokago play
>Game Over

Doujins: http://pastebin.com/5w7qgrM6

*/gfd/ is not the main focus of the story. Don't read/watch it purely for the /gfd/, make sure you enjoy it first and consider the /gfd/ a bonus.

The animated movie section is looking a bit empty now. Let's hope we'll find something more suitable to add to it soon.
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>>6528694
The first half of your post made me happy but the second half made me sad again.
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>>6529449
Everybody is sad brah if a women touched me i probably cum haha
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Last of my pics. All I have left is a quote from Mr. Rogers

"Solitude is different from loneliness, and it doesn't have to be a lonely kind of thing."

Goodnight, neighbors.
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>>6529413
playing vidya, talking to my friends, watching youtube and twitch and school.
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>>6529355
I wish I could see life in the same way as you.
But some people just get fucked over from start to finish and no amount of 'life is beautiful, can't you see?' will make them understand when life has been kicking them in the teeth.
>>6529413
sleeping is fun. don't have to think about much for that.
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My migraine has gotten worse...my laptop for a loving madam to help keep my hands from shaking.
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>>6529466
>My hands from shaking
Your migraines sound pretty bad, anon. You should really consider seeing a doctor for this if you haven't already. My mom used to have migraines from time to time, but never this bad.
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>>6528617
any gentle femdom asmr?
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>>6529242
Who the hell puts light green speech bubbles on an even lighter green background? That was painful to try and read.
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>>6529474
>sexual asmr
just no
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>>6529471
It's pretty rare that it gets this bad. At work right now and the lights here...are brutal. Been working nights for nearly three years now so I'm becoming a true vampire. I think I might have photophobia or something since I never leave my place during the day without my shades on.

But when it gets to this point...I swear I'd give anything for a distraction.
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>>6529474
rusfem always does it for me.
https://soundgasm.net/u/Rusfemanon
been a while since shes posted a new one though
[spoiler]we miss you rusfem[/spoiler]
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>>6529474
I think HypnoSkates reuploaded her stuff recently. It's not asmr but it's pretty gfd from what I remember.
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>>6529490
Rusefemanom never fails to make me melt
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>>6529536
Oh god i seriously butchered her name
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>>6529536
>femanom
Something on your mind, anon?
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>>6528686
Kek
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>>6529541
Yeah, i should've gone to bed early since i had to get up early
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>>6528696
Dont be such a downer anon
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>>6528765
I agree comrade
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>>6529454
You might want to see a doctor for that mate
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>>6529490
She posted a new one last month, didn't she? I'm almost positive she's still around, probably just busy.
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>>6529413

>competitive shooting
>taking my dog to the park
>taking my oldest son to the "park" and then really going to get ice cream
>falling asleep on the couch with my wife
>reading
>exercising
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>>6529579
I think she mostly lurks now, after the /r9k/ threads exploded when people figured out she's switch/submissive/whatever. Personally I don't see why this matters, it doesn't retroactively change her vocaroos or anything.
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>>6529584

And just now, my wife called to tell me how cute I am in my 'little uniform'.
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>>6529632
Not a big fan of marriage, but it sounds like you lucked out here. Tell us more about your wife.
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>>6529224

Meetup.com?

There are usually local hiking groups, in the least.
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>>6529367

Girls don't want to be with guys fresh out of highschool. They're usually shit boyfriends.

5 years is nothing when you're both thirty, but if one of you is 18/19 it matters quite a bit.
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>>6529634
>Not a big fan of marriage
You are an odd guy, anon
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>>6529645

Lifetime commitment is good for me, but not marriage. I don't like the state being involved. I witnessed everything bad about marriage when my parents got divorced. My dad left my mom and I and the state wouldn't let her divorce him because she didn't know where he was and thus he couldn't sign the papers or be summoned. It took a long time and a lot of money we didn't have before she could.

I'm not a redpiller obsessed with women taking my stuff, either. I'm a woman.

I guess marriage is good if you want kids. I don't want kids personally. If I did though, I imagine I wouldn't want them to be born out of wedlock (though I guess that attitude is old-fashioned now).
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>>6529648
>I imagine I wouldn't want them to be born out of wedlock
If you are a guy like me and want children, marriage is a good idea because your rights to your kids are better protected. There is nothing "old fashioned" about wanting to have an extra level of commitment before marrying. Besides, its rather symbolic (and i think marriage is better manages in my country than in the USA)
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>>6529648
Never been a fan of the idea of marriage myself. I understand the benefits it brings though.

If I was with someone that wanted to get married I'd go ahead and do it.

I just cringe at the idea of dissolving a marriage. That shit can take years and is expensive and the guy usually gets the shaft if there's Kids involved.
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>>6529364
>>6529312

Yeah, I've got a good doctor and some good friends to look after me, and I'm starting to crawl out of the hole this week. Thanks for your concern. c:
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>>6529634

>Wife
>5'2"
>110lbs
>Skinny fit
>a few months ago got a pixie cut which i absolutely adore
>Cute, super happy out going person
>into lots of japanese things (anime, jpop, yaoi, reads, speaks and writes japanese)
>Very smart and talented, able to learn new things quickly

We've been together for over 10 years, but only married for 7. We never sat down and said "hey we're going to have a gentle femdom relationship". it just sort of evolved that way. A big turning point was after I got diagnosed with PTSD. She held me together when I was falling apart. I'm unbelievably lucky to have her, and I worry constantly about my anger issues driving her away.
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>>6529475
Need more bigger girls doing some gentle dom.
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>>6529799
Sounds nice anon, glad you're happy
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>>6529413
Lot's of intense exercise despite my body falling apart from doing nothing but intense workouts in my younger years. Also RPing if I have the time to do so.
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>>6529809
>Lot's of intense exercise despite my body falling apart from doing nothing but intense workouts in my younger years.
Saitama, is that you?
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>>6529645
For you
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>>6529814
I wish!
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>>6529431
who is the girl?
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>>6529490
>>6529579
>>6529588
She'll make more files. Just trust me. Before her last file everybody thought she left, and before that one, and before that one, and it just goes on.
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>tfw will never tower over any of the baras I hope to gfd
>tfw will probably never have a bara sub in the first place
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>>6529907
How tall are you, mind me asking?
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>>6529907
>>6529909
You can still tower over them if they're on their knees.
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>>6529909
5ft 2"
>>6529911
now that's true, but I like to give boob hugs even though I'm pretty flat chested
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>>6529912
>5ft 2
Jesus christ smurfette

Im sure there is a bara who would love to be dominated by a short domme. I will just take my 1.9m elsewhere.
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>>6529915
Pls no bully
Ugh but they're so rare, I just wanna give some damn snugs
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>>6529916
Sorry, im kind of braddy =3

Dont use me as a measurement, im Dutch
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>>6529912
Depends on how tall the guy is. I came up to my last girlfriend's chest while I was on my knees. I think she was only a couple inches shorter than you.

>rare
Nah. You hang around these threads and you'll see there's plenty of us tall guys that like it.
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>>6529915
don't be fucking rude anon
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>>6529919
true, but sometimes you just want to be sat or stood normally for a hug you know? a welcome home kinda thing (not saying I dislike guys down on their knees off course)
I hope some of you lift as well, it's the dream
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>>6529920
Yeah, seriously. Someone's gonna smurf his smurf one day.
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>>6529922
>tfw ex-fatty
>tfw still gaining muscle
I like the height differences, they're cute. I kind of get the hugging thing though. Kissing can be awkward when there's more than a foot between you and the girl too.
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>>6529915
go away Gargamel
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>>6529926
you actually sound like my type <3 I don't necessarily go for the full on cut look, i like just BIG
it can't be very awkward, but damn I will try so hard to make it work
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>>6529933
* can
oops!
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>>6529927
Can't a lonely man chat about his hopes and hobbies here?
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>>6529936
I was actually kinda worried nobody would know who that was.
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>>6529355
Weed definitely helps out if I'm having a shit day or I'm anxious and can't sleep etc. As for shrooms I wouldn't recommend it if you're already unstable.
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>>6529941
They're just a bunch of fucking casuals

-Posted from my crystal ball

But in all seriousness, do anglos really only know the smurfs from those new shitty movies? Cartoons were so good.
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>>6529912
Small doms are actually a huge turn on for me
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>>6529912
I think short and and petite dommes are the best
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>>6529941
>>6529946
Kids these days don't watch the Smurfs. Poor guys.

>>6529933
That's pretty awesome to hear - It's a work in progress. I'm kind of aiming for bear mode, just gonna take time. As for it being awkward, you can always pull him down to your level. He'll enjoy it.
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>>6529946
The cartoons were amazing. I hope the movies got them to watch the cartoons atleast. i've met almost nobody who used to watch the cartoons. Everybody just has that second hand knowledge of papa smurf and smurfette. Most can't name more than those two. Kinda sad was an amazing show.
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>>6529959
>>6529957
Well, i guess you cant have everything. Im going to go to sleep now. After I fed Azrael, of course.
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>power goes out last night in whole neighborhood
>decide to take the chance and stargaze
>climb up to the roof
>a crimson moon is up on horizon and loads of constellations also up even though I'm in a big city(could see Pleiades, Orion, Taurus, Perseus, Aries )
>fell asleep on roof in 3 degrees weather
>wake up sore all around

This was comfy as fuck but I think I'm getting sick.
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This might be dumb of me, but what is a 'bara?'
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>>6529981
Typical musclebeast guy who happens to also be a massive sub.

At least, thats what people told me.
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>>6529985
Thanks anon.
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>>6529985
Nah. Bara is just the body type. Being sub/dom has nothing to do with it.

They're pretty much the Japanese version of a typical Bear.
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>>6529999
Isn't a bear just a large, hairy man?
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>>6530004
Sort of? Bara is usually portrayed as being more muscular than large/fat.
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>>6529981
>pic related
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Thanks, anon.
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>>6530018

>tfw might have been this if I lost weight faster

Still good to know not everyone likes cutesy boy types.
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>>6529957
bear mode is very good, although i prefer a shaved man just overall big and broad just give me more to nurture and snuggle and kiss and stroke
That is also very true! just gotta find me a shortie lover
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>>6529981
>>6529999
>>6530010
Strictly speaking, bara refers to the genre -- it's gay manga that, unlike yaoi, is aimed at actual homosexual men rather than heterosexual women (there's some demographic overlap, of course, but that's the general trend). The word literally means "rose" -- the rose being a symbol of male homosexuality in Japan.
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>>6530062
I'm pretty sure most guys would be willing to shave if they were asked, especially if it led to being snuggled and stroked.
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>>6529916
>Implying anyone doesn't want to be pulled down by their tie and kissed by a short Dom
>Implying that a short Dom straddling you with a smirk is anything other than the best
>Implying that lap pillows aren't god tier with any height girl

...baka anon
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>>6530018
That's like a picture of me except I'm a little less hairy and I don't beard.
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>>6530136
>file deleted
Dang, what'd I miss?
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>>6530157

Someone thought he was on /soc/ probably.
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>>6530157
Posting 3DPD on /d/ is absolut verboten
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>>6530106
>Shaving body hair
I'd do this in a heartbeat but I worry that my skin would be very sensitive afterwards
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>>6530157
>>6530160
I deleted it because I realize it might not be allowed on this board and I don't want to get banned.
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>>6530165
All the better to be played with?

I dunno anon. I've never shaved my entire body before but I keep wanting to do it.
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>>6530165

A girl did a longpost in a previous thread all about taking care of the skin after shaving.
>>6524051
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So, it's been a while since I've seen anyone post these; here you go /gfd/!
1/2
[spoiler]inb4 >~[/spoiler]
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>>6530197
>fucked the spoilers
brb killan self

2/2
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>>6530199
spoilers don't work on /d/, my friend.
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>>6529954
>>6529953
where are you guys in my life god damn it
now if only you guys were buff and near me
>>6530106
trust me I'd be more than willing to do their after care, rub moisturisers on them and give them kisses if they get any little cuts
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>>6530118
you guys bring so much hope into my life god damn it
just all of you damn pile into my place and let me SNUG THE FUCK OUT OF YOU
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>>6530232
I'm pretty bara but I live in california,
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>>6530232
>now if only you guys were buff and near me
Check the map/put yourself on it.

You'll find someone.
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>>6530232
why dont u just import one
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>>6530242
Damn I wanna see you now my thirst is painful even though you're in another continent
>>6530244
I've just put my self down, there's like one guy nearish men who's bara, but I may contact some local guys hmn
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>>6530248
what's the import vat like on 1 large bara cutie pie
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>>6530202
I'll try and remember that next time
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>>6530255
>Britbong
Well shit. If these threads do anything, they motivate me to keep going to the gym.

>>6530257
Repayable via cuddles if he's got the right mindset.
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>>6530261
I'm confused does this mean you're a britbong bara-to-be ? if so hmu for serious
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>>6529327
source please?
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>>6530263
That's the plan, yeah. I'm the only person in the South West so my marker is easy to see if you want to get in contact, there's an email on there. Couldn't see one on your marker.
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>>6530272
>>6530263

oh gosh
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Same anon from before. God my sleep is messed its 2am and I feel wide awake.

My eyes are super red and I'm trying not to use any computes sor tv much.

I'm thinking of buying some clothes for running. Maybe get a small shuffle for music while I run. I looked into going to the gym and I've been at thisnnew job for a week now.

I'm the only guy but I'm quite shy not really sure how to talk so I make it mostly work related. Its silly to look for someone but I'd be glad if maybe a few said hello or started conversation.

I need to stop staring down so much too. How is everyone?
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My God, this fetish is so depressing.
Why?
Because it's NOT THAT HARD.
I mean, Futafags will never have a REAL futa, Vorefags will never ACTUALLY be eaten alive, and I hope to God that Incestfags can never play out their fantasies.
Meanwhile our fetish is so damn NORMAL. We just want confident chicks, that's it! We don't want any supernatural forces to move heaven and Earth to create a magical pleasure-being. What we want is so damn simple, so easy, we just want a girl to be pushier in bed! Where does it all break down?
Is it society's fault, like the SJWs say? Some outside force denying us? The goddamn Patriarchy?
Is it that women just have two settings, totally submissive and insanely sadistic? That this middle ground we seek can't exist?
Or... Is it us? Are we just too fucking autistic to reach out get what is right in front of us? Choosing instead to whine online to a bunch of other faggots who are in the same situation?
I don't fucking know, and I am starting to not care.
I swear, /gfd/ is ruining me, guys...
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>>6530255
Uh, how do I contact you? You didn't leave an email on the map thingy. Here's mine. [email protected]
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>>6530300
part of it might be that confident, assertive women are seen as "bitchy", "harpies" and/or butch or unfeminine. We're conditioned to think that submissive=feminine=attractive and it's hard to get over that block sometimes.

I've been called a bitch at least once when I refused to back down. (not anything to do with a bf, but still)
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>>6530300
Me personally, I need to lose weight before I have any chance of attracting anyone. It's not such a quick and easy thing. I suspect each person has their own roadblocks as well. I can reach out for what's in front of me as much as I want, but that won't make it reach back.

Nice dubs faggot.
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>>6530300
Well, it's kind of hard just to look at someone or be acquainted with them and judge what they must be like in the bedroom based on their personality.

A lot of shy and awkward guys can be really sadistic and forceful while a lot of assertive women can be really traditional and passive when it comes to this stuff. It's not like people telegraph their sexual interests in the first place.
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>>6530316
Shit, so it IS the patriarchy then?
...
Does that make me a feminist?
Dammit, if I'm going to be a feminist, I'll do it the 4chan way; that is, I'll be a feminist only so that I can realize my fetishes.

>>6530333
Nice trips, faggot.
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>>6530333
Same pov but I need to build muscle. Im pretty darn skinny.

But yea we all have our obstacles. Rather sort myself out than have anyone. Wouldn't be fair to use someone as a way to fix my problems.

Also however is mod of the map ty for deleting my embarrassing double post
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>>6530300
>Or... Is it us? Are we just too fucking autistic to reach out get what is right in front of us? Choosing instead to whine online to a bunch of other faggots

BINGBINGBING!

Just... Just talk to women. Normal fucking women. Just interact with them as normal human beings. There's a broad spectrum of women out there, and confident moderately-proactive ladies are a big contingent in any western nation. You probably want someone a little more take-charge than what is average, but they are not that hard to find.

You do have to put yourself out there though. Women who approach men are a more rare than the other way around, because of stuff like socialization and slut-shaming and all that SJW jazz, but there's no way in hell that a woman will approach you unless you actually spend time with women and make yourself available.

Best thing to do is to do both. Socialize with women. Don't limit your interest and social spheres to geeky autist shit where women are rare like unicorns. Be interested in people. Be friendly. Approach people who attract you, and be open to those who approach you.
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>>6530352
And none of this helps if you're ugly.

But I have faith that someday I'll find a woman who doesn't flinch when they look me in the face and maybe then I'll stand a chance. Until then though I'm just spinning wheels and working on myself.
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Enough whining and post porn.
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>>6530392
At least try posting something, you know, gentle?
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>>6530412
It's fucking candle wax, man. Don't be such a pussy.
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>>6530424
>Don't be such a pussy.

You sure you're in the right thread?
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whatever, might as well dump all my crap. Not like I have anything to post
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>>6530437
haven't seen this excess m pic before. those tentacles look comfy.
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>>6530432
Being into dominant girls =/= being a pussy who can't handle candle wax
I bet you don't even like pegging.
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>>6530300
Shut the fuck up please. I'm going to consider you
bait.
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>>6530371

Sure it does. If nothing else you'll realize that not all women are fucking 10s either, and that women, even the really pretty ones, don't care as much about looks as you might think. Hey, I won't bullshit you, being attractive is clearly better, but you can be ugly and find love/sex just fine. If not, America would be in a population nose-dive.
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>>6530449
Different anon, but no, I don't
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>>6530371
>And none of this helps if you're ugly
fuck it quit goodbye
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>>6530449
I meant that it's silly to look tough in a thread dedicated to being vulnerable.

Also candlewax is in no way gentle. It's not about the pain threshold but that she's doing that to you just to inflict pain... why? Sounds like regular BDSM to me. Pegging is fine if it's not meant to inflict pain and is done carefully with plenty of lube.
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>>6530457
"Wah! This post offends me! That makes it bait!"
And you didn't even post a picture.
You disgust me.
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>>6530472
He didn't say bait kiddo
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>>6530474
Sorry, meant for >>6530455
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>>6530267
do you like big girls?
Ookii Onnanoko wa Daisuki Desu ka?
its one of those where the sex is only ever half shown, iirc. its a bit of a harem manga
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>>6530462
don't they make low-heat candles for kinky fun now?
and a bit of pain can still be nice sometimes... who doesn't like getting their backs clawed, for example?
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>>6530462
It doesn't really hurt at all, though. I used to stick my fingers in the wax of burning candles when I was little because I liked when it cooled down and formed a little helmet on my finger.
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>>6530478
No thanks but i think BDSM is you're home
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>>6530478
Still doesn't belong in the thread. There are plenty of other places to go if you want BDSM.

And it's pretty much agreed that pain is never gentle. We've talked about this endlessly in these threads.

>>6530481
Did you read the post? It's not about your pain threshold. There's no reason to do that other than to inflict pain.
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>>6530472
Ok then. Cant tell if you linked the wrong anon or bait. Anyway, have more pictures.
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>>6530478
>who doesn't like getting their backs clawed, for example?
me. the most i can go for is having my hair pulled
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>>6530483
Well, the idea in BDSM is that it causes pleasure through pain; I don't think that it's the same with candle wax or other things like it. Those are mostly innocent, somewhat uncomfortable ways a dom can assert her control over her sub.
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>>6530476
I really wanted to like this. But it's just a huge turnoff whenever the guy acts thirsty and assertive like in that manga.
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>>6530232
I'm from the Great White North
If you're far, we could be penpals/skypepals I guess

I'm pretty fucking lonely so any kind of human interaction would make me happy as fuck
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>>6530503
I agree.
Although, I am okay with thirsty guys if it's a sort of mindbreak scenario.
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>>6530500
How the hell is candlewax innocent? There's nothing about it that shows dominance other than inflicting pain and discomfort.

Stuff like light bondage or whatever is ok because it shows dominance but is still meant to be kind of symbolic in the end. Restricting movement so that you can only submit to her. It's not pain for pain's sake.
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>>6530503
I don't remember it well anymore, so I can't vouch for my feelings on that one in particular, but yeah. I guess it's meant for a more vanilla audience who would maybe act that way themselves? Or those fake subs that want their doms to cater to their specific whims whenever they want, without having to do any work. Grrr. Hate that.
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>>6530514
>if it's a sort of mindbreak scenario.

Damn why is this so rare? Reverse mindbreak is great.

>She will never totally break down your resistances and make you absolutely dependent on her favor
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>>6530514
Oh yes. Love male mindbreak. Female mindbreak, not so much.
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>>6530522
>>6530524
My god, yes. I think my ultimate fantasy is to be kidnapped and slowly made into a submissive fuckboy.
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Not strictly thread related, but how do you people feel about gender-bending?

Would you ever want to be the opposite gender for a while?
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>>6530540
Yes, but strictly for masturbatory purposes.
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>>6530540
Maybe not BE a girl, but being forced to wear girly clothes (especially panties) would be hot.
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>>6530521
>Or those fake subs that want their doms to cater to their specific whims whenever they want, without having to do any work
But thats literally everybody in this thread
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>>6530524
I like both myself
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>>6530548
This is why i don't bother.
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>>6530548
Just because we know what we like doesn't mean we're not willing to work.

Hell, just look at all the stuff about eating her out. It would be a huge privilege to me to make her feel really good. I would do whatever it takes as long as she guides me.
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>>6530556
Also, I think that comic better describes traditional BDSM than /rr/ or /gfd/. I've always thought all this complicated latex stuff and mistress outfits were meant pretty much just to please the man. It's like, if you don't enjoy it why do it?
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>>6530548
Just to be that guy.

I don't see myself as a sub leaning switch looking to just get off and have my needs met.

For me I get enjoyment in making someone happy. Doing what they ask and pleasing them, I like knowing I did that.

There are thirsty subs and pathetic ones too but I don't see myself as one. The idea of even getting off as a sub should be for the one in charge to decide no?
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>>6530540
Perhaps. But I think I'd be the dominant one if I was a girl.

>>6530562
>For me I get enjoyment in making someone happy. Doing what they ask and pleasing them, I like knowing I did that.
Same desu senpai
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>>6530540
I think it would be cool to have a vagina. Way easier than using your butt anyway.

Still, I'd never want to be with a man. Men are just gross

>>6530545
Love that too.
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>>6530569
I'm sorry but i had no control over my gender i'll off myself because i am gross i can't win no matter how hard i try...
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>>6530556

lol, yeah, of course you would, it's a common fetish for submissive men.

I'd have taken you more seriously if you went to "dishes" rather than "pussy". protip: dommy and vanilla guys like pussy too.
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>>6530574
No shit. The point is most people here DO want to please her in return. It's not like we have access to many special submissive things that only we can do.

There's also little things like paying attention to her emotions and trying to anticipate what she's in the mood for. But considering your tone I sort of doubt you care about that.
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>>6530583

oh those pesky emotions
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>no guilt
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>>6530570
it's probably better to be a gross girl than a gross guy though. at least people still want you.
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>>6529907
Mfw muscular/thick and 5'11"
Mfw constant beard and chest hair
Mfw love short lovey dommes
Mfw
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>>6530605
Thanks see you on the other side...you proved life is not worth living that genetics are everything hope never was really there. Well i had enough of being toyed and played with.

Have my emotions fucked with and my dreams shattered by unloving cruel world..wait for me friend..i'll be there soon.
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>>6530540

Absolutely, finding a large dildo and going to town on my new vagina would be dope as fuck. Also, girl's clothes are the best.

I'd probably wanna back out once I start getting periods, though. Fuck that noise.

Realistically I'd rather just be male and dress up/pretend to be a girl anyway, as long as I was at least somewhat passable.
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>>6530614
Don't kill yourself. Call a suicide hotline.
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>>6530432
>>6530462
>>6530483
>>6530486
>any pain at all is not gentle
It really is just candlewax. Small painplay can be gentle. I get that ball busting and the likes aren't gentle but I think that tiny things like wax can be considered gentle.
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>>6530631

I can understand how this could be seen as gentle but for me, and probably most people out there, even any sort of pain stuff at all is a big turn-off.
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>>6530631
hitting to close to bdsm for me sorry just being honest.
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>>6530631
Not really convincing to me. I just don't see how going "hey, let me see if this causes you a little pain or discomfort, just for the heck of it" is gentle or shows how much she wants you.

Even if you could minimize pain in theory, all the porn involving candlewax still looks painful as hell on the guy. Just keep it in its own thread.
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>>6530634

who gives a shit what you think?
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>>6530638

Sorry, but unless we have some actual /d/ worthy content this thread is just /h/ for /r9k/ dwellers, in which case it should head to either of those boards.
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>>6530639
I could say the same about you.
>>6530642
BDSM is not welcome.
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>>6530639
Who gives a shit what you think?

>>6530642
/gfd/ and /rr/ are rare enough to be considered /d/. I wish it wasn't, but here we are.

Also, there is literally another BDSM thread. On this very board. Go there.
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>>6530650

>posting a collar and leash-play picture
>complaining about bdsm content

u wot m8?
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>>6530654
u bait m8?
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>>6530654
Light bondage is accepted. I encourage you to look at previous threads.
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>>6530316

There's some truth to this. The whole "resting bitch face" debacle that came up recently kind of touched on it.

A woman spacing off in her own thoughts has an expression on her face that isn't a pleasant smile? Definitely a bitch. But no-one would think that of a man with a neutral express or a slight frown.
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>Only post what I like

Oh, I see. Nah.
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>>6530371

I learned some tips and tricks from the spics at the gym.

Basically, there's this group of ugly, greasy, 30-something year old Hispanic guys at my gym who (judging from their cars) don't have money and yet all seem to attract young, pretty women as their girlfriends. I've concluded it's because these guys believe 100% that they're hot stuff. They're constantly strutting around and pausing to check themselves in every fucking mirror they pass (there's nothing to see, trust me), and they look at their reflections like they're goddamn Brad Pitt.

In other words, if you believe you're sexy hard enough, other people will somehow start to believe it.


That, or you can just be a metalhead or punk rocker like others have suggested.
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>>6530669
>i'm a troll i lilke being a cunt
ok >>>/b/
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>>6530669
Christ you're dull. I'm done replying
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>>6530371

Are you only interested in hot girls way out of your league? Then yeah, you're going to have a tough time.

It's like with fat guys who only want to date girls with swimsuit model physiques. If you have realistic expectations, you shouldn't have a problem.
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>>6530678
That's probably because they're being ultra-confident. Not really what /gfd/ guys are about.

I'm pretty sure there are other ways of being attractive than being in love with yourself.
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>>6530540

I like andro guys and am pretty androgynous myself.

I guess I'd try being a man if I could go on a magic one week test run. I want to know what having a penis is like.
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Wrong. It can be about sensation, not pain, as well as the humiliation of covering someone in wax and making them appear dirty. It can also fall under art, creating patterns on you in color for the dom/me's visual enjoyment. It can be about watching you squirm, not even in pain but just from the feeling. It can be about the fear, if you're blindfolded or sensory deprived. It can even be a lead up to making you a mess so the top can clean you up after, in a touching loving way. Or it might even just about seeing you submit to their dominance, and the dom/me being in control of you.

It's *how* you interpret and play. Seeing something from just one angle is limiting yourself and not thinking creatively.

I literally JUST had this conversation for an hour with a lovely switch I might be topping soon.
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>>6530695
Not at all
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>>6530605

On the plus side, society is more tolerant of ugly men than ugly women as long as the guy can do something useful or of note. Way more ugly male actors than female ones, for example. And people are more biting about women's looks, especially other women.
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>>6530686
This.
What's weird is that while I see finding myself someone who's into what I'm into...I almost never once imagine how they'll look. I don't see someone short or tall. I don't see someone skinny or too big to properly be intimate with (just saying, having a giant stomach big enough to be a bean bag chair kinda messes with logistics), and I don't see a certain ethnicity.

I just fantasize about the perfect woman who's perfect to me because we share the same interests and she can either be a sadist, masochist, slutty puppy, or most caring, possessive gfd. Switch master race.

Tl;dr don't cancel out someone by their looks. I can assure you shared kinks and interests trump whether or not she's (or he's for them femanons) your ideal size or stature.
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>>6530631

You don't need to prove anything.

Please continue posting light painplay to further assblast these contentious babies.
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>>6530702
Nice try champ try insulting better BDSM is a no go
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>>6530695
None of that comes through in the porn that people post. It always LOOKS painful, and for porn that's all that matters. It's just a slippery slope at that point. It's archetypically associated with pain, no matter how you interpret it. I don't see any reason to skirt around that and post it here when there's another thread dedicated to stuff like that.

Anyway, it's not like anyone can physically stop you from posting these things. But every time you post them you will get a lot of people irritated and object to it, so you'd have to be prepared to defend yourself every time. Why would you go through that instead of just posting it somehwere else?
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Because I feel like it's worth it. I'm happy to keep trying to help teach people what I can because I feel like it's right to do so. Not everyone here has HAD any experience and doesn't necessarily understand what kink and play entail. I don't even play that hard, but this is something you pick up from experience.

And I don't post much that's harder stuff. I specifically go through my 1000 image strong folder and hand pick the gentler kinder stuff so that it doesn't raise argument. I bring this up in discussion, and people are free to hide/ignore me. I even wear a trip to make it easy.

But if people are curious and willing to listen to me discuss kink? I hope I can help even one person learn more about the wonderful and terrible things that can be done to them, and maybe be that one last step to discovering what they do or do not want.

No one has to like any kinks. Your kink is not my kink. But respecting that we have different kinks is something I would hope the people here can understand.
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>>6530700
Society is more tolerant of different personalities in women as well. Women can have many different personality types and still be found attractive, whereas men are judged much more harshly for not being confident / not producing enough. So it's a bit of a double-edged sword to be judged mostly for your personality.
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>>6530722
>whereas men are judged much more harshly for not being confident / not producing enough

This is why i gave up tired of having to defend myself. i rather admit defeat and be left alone.
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That's fine. But the issue isn't about "respect" for other people's fetishes or whatever. Not everyone here is into straight traps but they still go in this thread anyway. Not everyone here is into mommy stuff but that's ok in this thread too. Everyone has different fetishes, but the point is to keep things distinct and keep the divisive stuff somewhere else so /gfd/ doesn't drift into harder territory.
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This artist's style is pretty qt.
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>>6530723

>i rather admit defeat and be left alone.

Or just stop giving a fuck and let those attacks bounce right off you. Part of finding the right person is being yourself, and you can't be yourself if you give too many fucks about other people's shitty, backwards opinions.
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It's not really so easy to just accept that you're a shy, submissive person who doesn't want to conquer anything. And when your entire society tells you that you're objectively defective for having that personality? I think this is what drives so many men crazy, they're told that their entire personhood is worthless unless they "fix it". Worse than just being called fat or ugly imo.

I agree that you should just go your own way, but that means facing a lot of loneliness and people acting 100% justified in rejecting you. But imo, it's better than forcing yourself to be something you're not and being loved superficially.
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I'm aware. If you look at the images I post, I stick to lighter femdom then I could go. But in discussion, I respond to what's going on. If it means discussing kink, then I'm gonna do it. I really enjoy the scene and talking about it.
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>>6530745

Shy and submissive are okay. Spinelessness IS in fact a personality flaw. You can be meek and deferent, but if you can't stand up for yourself when it counts the world and the people around you will eat you alive.
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>>6530758
>Spinelessness IS in fact a personality flaw.

Sure, but most people can't differentiate that from shyness. Men who don't want to compete and take the lead in what they do are treated like shit.
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>>6530767

Give examples that occur in your daily life past high school and college.
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>>6530745
>Not accepted
>rejection 100%
So be it accept me or bust i refuse to have half ass love. in my 34 years of life i decided to go my own way. I guess i'm choosing go away from society and live the rest of my life alone. I decided this 3 years ago after i gave myself a nasty friction burn

It has yet to heal skin color is gone skin is weak glands are fucked that area is hyper sensitive for the last 3 years. Putting myself out there means
i have to ask a women to not have sex...i'm not going to waste somebody's time and ask them wait for me i'm not worth the trouble.

I'm half a man now and depression hit me like a train. I almost committed suicide 1 year ago but i couldn't do it. It's funny...you never really appreciate something till it's gone.

Being my age it's over i doubt i will ever be the same and i tried to stay positive but there no going back to be normal. I hope you all find love in you're lives and never take anything for granted.
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>>6530745

>it's better than forcing yourself to be something you're not and being loved superficially.

That's absolutely true, and it kinda reinforces what I said.

I know it's really not all that fucking easy at all, and just saying shit like "jus be urself" might sound ridiculous. It even sounds crazy to me sometimes, because I'm dealing with the same thing. I wish I had the right words to tell you, but if you can just be yourself and let out some personality every now and then, you have a chance at finding people with common interests or worldviews. Dealing with this society's outdated and irrational worldviews sucks, and you'll inevitably come across people who fall for that same old bullshit, and give you shit for being "different" in some way. Again I don't really know the right thing to say, but fuck man, you can't just let society beat you down for being different. Some people will come around, as long as you're not a shitty person.
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>>6530782

>I'm half a man now because my dick doesn't work

There's your problem right there. You really need a new perspective. I mean, there are plenty of ways out there to pleasure someone without using your dick. I know it sucks that you have penile problems but trust me, you are so very far from being the only one.

And 34 years is, relatively speaking, still pretty young. You're not even over the hump yet, given you are in decent health. If not, hey, that's something you can work on.
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>>6530773
Is it not made explicit in virtually everything that society says men should be? Pretty much every single self-help guide for men, from attracting a partner to just being successful, will tell you to be assertive and confident instead of shy. Getting people to do anything requires being assertive, being shy will at best avoid conflict but you are ignored in pretty much everything you do. Living in such an individualistic culture it is made EXTREMELY clear that it's something to be fixed, not just another facet of personality.

And yes, I'm aware that no one is just going to hand you things if you don't make a point of asking. But that men are pretty much uniquely singled out for this (not that women can't be, but that it is entirely wrong for men), and told that it's totally undesirable and "unmanly" to be this way, is pretty absurd.
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>>6530782

You know there are tons forums and communities for asexuals looking for life partnerships now, right?
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>>6530816
It just goes back to the fact that men are valued only for what they produce (how they can provide for a family, what kind of work they do, what they can do for her, etc.)
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>>6530801

Also forgot to say, you're doing the same thing I already talked about. You're letting society beat you down and manipulate your thoughts. That whole "muh dick" thing that everyone is so obsessed over is pretty fucking shallow. I mean yeah, it's nice to have a nice penis, but basing your self-worth on that thing between your legs is short-sighted, and it's not healthy.

I had to deal with the same shit when I found out that I'm a quick shooter. Sometimes I don't even make it through 1 minute. It's something I'm working on and trying to fix, but I quickly figured out that it's not worth beating myself up over. The right kind of person is going to understand your problems and accept you for who & what you are. Plenty of women out there don't even care about sex period, see >>6530817.
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>>6530784
>Some people will come around, as long as you're not a shitty person.

That's the hope I have right now.
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>>6530816

That's nice, but you're not giving any examples of adult men being routinely treated like shit while going about their days because they're shy or submissive.

It looks to me that you're just rambling about your idea of how everyone sees you.

I'm a submissive, soft-spoken guy and no-one has given me shit about my behavior since highschool. In fact, most people find me "sweet" and are very well-disposed to and trusting of me. Call this condescending if you want, but they treat me well.
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>>6530820

If you're going to argue that, then you can very easily argue women are only valued for their pussies or what they can give to a man.

There is no greener grass. Both sexes endure tons of discrimination.
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>>6530816

Again, that's all bullshit that gets perpetuated by mass media that is more interested in keeping you busy and going out to buy their shit and keep their precious profits up. Just don't buy into it. Many people do, but you don't have to, and you can find other people who don't. Anything that tells you have to be a certain way based on biological characteristics is not worth your attention.
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>>6530826
I shouldn't have said "treat like shit" then, more like "don't respect at all". I'm rambling because I find that most people don't often think this way.

Of course there's no like, anti-shyness brigade or whatever who's going to give you shit, as long as you do your work. You'll just be seen as very disposable and have less worth to people as would a confident assertive men.

>>6530829
I wasn't arguing that it's better for one sex in the first place. Merely that men are judged pretty harshly for something they have little control over, or what their identity is.
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>>6530834

Being judged harshly by people is a fact of life, man. Lot of shallow, judgemental people out there. Doesn't mean you can't deal with it. Just ignore it and move on.
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>>6530834
>Of course there's no like, anti-shyness brigade or whatever who's going to give you shit, as long as you do your work. You'll just be seen as very disposable and have less worth to people as would a confident assertive men.

So you've admitted no one is actually giving you shit and this complex is all you talking to yourself internally? Okay good.

If no one is bothering you, stop obsessing over what they might be thinking or whether they may or may not respect you and live your fucking life.

>I wasn't arguing that it's better for one sex in the first place. Merely that men are judged pretty harshly for something they have little control over, or what their identity is.

What's the point of pointing it out when both sexes, thus everyone, face essentially the same "discrimination"? Everyone looks at everyone else for what they can give to them. People want to use each other and favor people who have what they want over those who don't. Breaking story.

You should see a counselor. You're being eaten up by a lot of smalltime issues that could be resolved within a month of talking to someone level-headed, most likely.
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>>6530801
It's hard to do that when my junk is in constant pain from moving it's probably why it hasn't healed. But i'll try. I guess it's time to go back to the doctors again to piss them off.
>>6530817
>>6530822
I understand that and appreciate it but i'm not asexual probably my last hope for love but it's either heal or nothing it may be a stupid and retarded choice but it's mine to make.

Seeing veins is never a good sign when the skin is to thin. I thought it wasn't that bad 2 years ago i was clearly wrong. i hope that i can be fixed some way in this next appointment.
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>>6530346
>Does that make me a feminist?
Feminism today is not the same stuff it used to be. I am just an egalitarian myself.

Also, you are probably male and of european/russian ethnicity, so you cant be a modern feminist. Modern feminism is about race issues, didnt you get the memo?
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>>6530837
I know, and I'm not complaining about that. I'm just responding to this idea that "well, you're not judged for your looks so it must be better"

>>6530841
>If no one is bothering you, stop obsessing over what they might be thinking or whether they may or may not respect you and live your fucking life.

Again, missing the point. It's not just "boohoo, they don't like me" it's that men with these personalities don't get the kind of validation for existing that women get. Presumably you want love and validation, well you won't get it (or at least be much less likely to get it) if you're like this. It DOES matter what society thinks of you when you're asking something from that society.

>Everyone looks at everyone else for what they can give to them. People want to use each other and favor people who have what they want over those who don't.

No shit. But what women give to other people is intrinsic to their being women, and being shy/submissive is often seen as a positive trait for them. They don't have to worry about competing with other women in the way that men compete with men. And obviously, that doesn't mean women don't have their problems with the way society treats them.

I really don't understand why you think this is some kind of personal vendetta on my part. Pointing out problems in gender expectations was literally all I was doing, not trying to get sympathy, I have literally nothing to do with it.
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>>6530693
Its incredibly annoying once you start having random boners.
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Distracting from the near Tumblr levels of arguing, for the femdomanons, what do you consider to be "prime" ages for someone who you'd want to be lovey and vaguely controlling with? What would you consider to be too young, and too old?

22 which is why I ask. Personally I expect to be ignored until I'm at least 27 or 30.
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>>6530871
Lets get some pics during chat so we don't piss off the mods, guys.
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>>6530880
Sorry about that. On my phone so my pic selection is minimal.
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>>6530884
Just be careful of it, dear anon.
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>>6530885
I need to transfer my monstergirl/dedicated soft femdom folders to here...didn't think I'd do more than lurk the thread except for a few small posts.
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>>6530889
Do what you feel is best, anon. Glad to have you in the threads.
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>>6530893
Bam, Tribal folder transferred. Graveyard shifts allow for a lot of free time. =w=
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>>6530899
That's good to hear. I could never do graveyard myself.
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>>6530901
It's actually pretty nice. Quiet, you get your work done at your pace (sooner the better), and it's just...calm. Been working nights for close to three years now, and I don't think I could easily swap to days.
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>>6530903
Yeah but the motivation is an issue, and I like having daytime waking hours. Plus, y'know, doing shit with friends is hard with a graveyard shift. And none of the girls I'm seeing would be able to work with a graveyard shift, sooooo, yeah.
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>>6530294
Get more sleep and make sure to eat breakfast, it helps your body find its day/night rhythm.
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>>6530911
Yeah...true, though thankfully(?) my group is often too busy to hang out much as is. But the awkward schedule does make a relationship harder but if I don't have one, it doesn't matter.
Plus dat shift diff tho.
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>>6530915
I mean, I don't spend too much time with a lot of my older friends, but hey, building new friendships, and kinky ones at that. As for relationships, it's harder when you're awake and they're asleep. Good luck on it.
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>>6530917
It'd be nice but I don't really expect to have one anytime soon. =w= both because of my age and I kinda did two years of a seriously...not great relationship of some sort. Massive trauma, serious emotional abuse, standard sob story that lasted two years.

So it's nice to fantasize and write, but on the whole? I've a lot of mental yarn to unwind before I think I'll even look half appealing to anyone. And I'm ok with that. Whoever I end up with deserves me at a more capable state, not as some goober who gets twitchy flashbacks.
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>>6530921
At least you recognize you need some self care. That's better then many. You take care of you, mate. I'm rackin' out.
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>>6530686
I'd rather ANY girl show any interest in me, but I'm ugly in a way you can't fix. My hope is that I'll get rich or far enough along in my career that perhaps someone will see that as attractive and overlook my glaring ugliness so I don't have to die alone.
>>6530456
It's anecdotal experience, I'll admit, but nearly every single woman I've ever met has found me appalling on the eyes even if we get along socially.
>>6530678
I'm not sure how I could ever see myself as sexy but I guess it's worth a shot.
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>>6530782

See a fucking doctor.
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>>6530871

If you are a guy, 22 can be a pretty bad time sex/romance-wise, but that has nothing to do with kink. Most guys in their early 20s are out of high school, but don't have much going on in their lives yet (no/shitty job, sharing an apartment with someone etc). If you are in university you can kind of make it work by dating others in uni, but generally guys who have gotten their shit together (25+) will have more to offer. Of course, if you are really pretty people might still play with you at parties and shit.

If you are a woman 22 is your prime and you should not have a any trouble
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>>6530302
sorry anon I fell asleep~
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Yeah, that's what I was thinking...but here's the odd thing: I already have an Associate's and working on my first (of many) IT Certificate, I have a decently paying job that allows me a lot of spare money at the end of the month after bills and I'm financially independent 100%. And I'm only turning 23 next month. I'd say I'm doing better than some my age but my close group is all over the place so I don't know if I'm actually doing alright for myself or if this is the norm.

That said, yeah, I'm not expecting anyone to be interested in me because I'm not making 40K a year (yet) and...well, mostly that.
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>>6531042
And I found my monstergirl folder that was previously advertised. Some's more gentle femdom than others.
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>>6530869
>Its incredibly annoying once you start having random boners.
I've never understood why people think this. I love my erections, like 95% of the time. I wear briefs, so I don't really have to worry about it being seen too much, so it's just a nice feeling of pressure. It's only ever a problem when I'm already nervous and therefore overthinking everything.

>>6530899
I hope I can get a job on a graveyard shift. Nighttime is besttime
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>>6531053
It is. Traffic is nonexistent, shift diff inflates the pay a small amount, and depending on the job itself you're more than free to spend all night playing Afterbirth and finally beating Suicide King.

Downside is what was said earlier, hard to be social.
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or just work in a server room, be a little eminence grise in the company, do almost nothing all day and get paid a lot for it
and you can even talk and socialize with people if you want (i don't)
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SOMA was great. My kind of existential theory.
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>>6531097
Oh trust me, I plan on getting to that point. Know and get paid a lot, do nothing. That's how the easy life is lived.
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>>6531026
If you still wanna get in contact with >>6530261 I'm at [email protected]

>>6531122
The CIO where I work is an insanely chilled out guy. First time I met him he told me "Be good at your job. The more you get paid and the higher up you are, the less work you'll actually do."
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>>6530072
That was exceptionally informative.

Nice to know my body type belongs here.
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>>6531127
Sounds like the right kind of guy to work for. Currently taking a basic introduction to programming, and webdesign class so I can get a college Tech Support certificate. After that I wanna get A+ Certified then move to Cisco and whatever else.

Right out of highschool I tried the Strata IT Fundamentals test and failed by 14 questions. Most of the ones I missed were revolving around server rooms and green IT...since then I've been too nervous to take it again.

What's the average age that someone actually gets into the IT field, as far as you've seen? I'm hoping next year I can bug the relevant people at my workplace to see about getting a new position or something. I'm all for a good paycheck for nothing, but I also want to learn enough to warrant such luxury.
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>>6531134
A+ is a good start. Look in to ITIL too if you plan on working for a big company. You can complete the entire ITIL qual in one day if your trainer is competent. If you want to work in IT in the UK having ITIL is a huge, huge thing. Unsure about the US but I know it's pretty big there too.

As for the average age that depends entirely on what you're trying to get in to. If you want to do Service Desk or End User Support you can do that straight out of high school if you can prove you've already got good knowledge. Server/Client/Application stuff usually requires a couple years of experience or time in Uni.

Most of the people I'm working with are in there mid twenties and management is mid thirties upwards save for one who just got promoted.
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>>6529911
>get pet on his knees for the first time
>his eyes are still level with mine
>get out shoe box to stand on
>shoe box collapses
I'm starting to see the appeal of heels.
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>>6528905
>tfw someone saved your collage
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>>6530899
Suace pls?
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>>6531384

Here: http://www.pixiv.net/member_illust.php?mode=medium&illust_id=14163681

Use this to find sources on fanart and weeaboo shit: http://saucenao.com/
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>>6530232
Sadly in a relationship. Who noes how long that'l last.


Hate doing this, but can i have some advice? What could a cute redheaded bara do to get a girl to grab him and shove him downstairs?

Been teasing her for days but she won't commit.
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>tfw no one to calm me down when I feel like I'm dying from panic attacks
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>>6531419
She's definitely domme mind you.
I even managed to make up an excuse of having her lead me around with a collar and leash on Halloween she loved it.

And when she is the big spoon it always leads to molestation and sweaty moans....but I've yet to see her really take charge of anything.
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Are there even any girls here?
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>>6531432

Quite a few more than you'd think, they post pretty often. Many are already in relationships, though.
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>>6531432

Yes. SoCal representing.
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>>6531419
My advice is ditch her and date me instead
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>>6531026
You didn't email me though.
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>>6531453
... because she fell asleep, anon.

Guys in this thread aren't too bright, are they?
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>>6531432
Yes but they are all in relationships
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>>6531432
no. There are no girls on the internet.
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>>6531428
this helped me a few days ago when I was going through some serious anxiety pangs and panic attacks
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N-hUtli68xg
just try to focus your mind and calm yourself

being in a state of panic doesn't actually solve anything, it just makes you feel miserable and thus it's the incorrect course of action that you should avoid
which I know sounds like complete fucking bullshit that doesn't help at all when you are in the middle of a panic attack but it's ultimately the truth

so either conquer the panic through your own will or hop on meds or something

what also helped me was not to focus on the cause of my anxiety and rather on the anxiety itself as being worried about stuff is perfectly reasonable but falling to uncontrollable panic is not and so that's the actual problem that you should focus on

hope this helps at least somehow

>>6531483
well to be fair she could have emailed him after she woke up instead of responding to him in the thread telling him that she fell asleep
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>>6531483
Do you know where most of our blood is in here? If our brains worked we wouldn't be such good goobers while being toyed with.

Not either of them btw, just trying to diffuse tension.

>>6531438
Ha, now that's advice i could get behind. But still, it would be cruel not to try and make it work for a time.

A compromise then? Give me a fantasy, i'll put it into play and post the results here, under a name.

That would tickle both our feathers.

I know things are mercurial on 4chan, but i think it could a fun game...corruption of innocents and all that.

Feel free not to respond if you like, i'm just glad to know there's girls like you out there...Were are you anyway? Florida here, far away from everything nice....
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>>6531498

Thanks I'll listen to it. I'm trying to get in to Zen since therapy and meds didn't worked for me but it's not going well. I'm just too negative, I can't flush out hate, envy, anger from my heart. I'm also deadly afraid of dying, slightest pain or discomfort in my chest triggers a panic attack for hours, I just can't stop it.
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>>6531505

Also I don't know why but I'm constantly in a state of fight or flight. Like I'm always fidgety, irritable, scared. There is this fucking thing in my chest that never goes away, it weighs me down, I can't expel it, it's always fucking there.
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>>6531508
I know that this is a fetish thread, but if i could take a moment.

There are lot's of tricks to dealing with anxiety. Google them.
Slowly over a period of months learn the skills and apply them.

The longer you go without doing this, the harder it will be to stop it.

Sometime's it doesn't stop. But that's what psychologists are for. No one should have to live with a curable aliment.
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>>6531508
Go look up cognitive behaviour therapy. Sounds like it'd be very useful for you.
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>>6531505
>>6531508
Try this one.
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Mindfulness-Plain-English-Anniversary-Edition/dp/0861719069

From what I was advised it's supposed to be pretty good and I plan to order it myself in a few weeks once I have the time and environment to actually read and practice.

I can kinda empathize only with the fear of death from what you have mentioned but you might find it of use to try reading some philosophy.
Either the existentialists or something slightly more pop-phil like this for example http://www.amazon.co.uk/Staring-The-Sun-mortality-Overcoming/dp/0749928786 cold be helpful in some way.

this is also a pretty cool website http://www.calmclinic.com
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>>6531483
>Guys in this thread aren't too bright, are they?
See that's why you got to keep them at home. Their brains are evolved for simpler stuff, like chopping firewood or guarding caves. They can't handle this social stuff.
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>>6531512
>>6531513

Sorry for shitting up the thread with this, I feel at east in these ones. I had this for over 8 years now, had treatment two times than the doc dropped me saying I'm okay now but it always comes back. This is the latest wave now started on April, sometimes I can't even calm down without getting tranquilizers from vein. I need to go to see a professional again but I have no money right now. I'll try finding someone for the cognitive therapy thing, you think it'll work? I'll google it but can you explain what does it entail shortly?

>>6531519

Thanks, I had Mindfulness sitting on my library for a while guess I'll start reading it tonight. I have nothing better to do anyways. Guess I need to get away from stress a bit, move out to my own place etc. My family is draining all my spirit literally.
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>>6531525

>hitting on cashiers

Jesus fuck, never do this.
People at this level are fired if they are ever rude to a customer, and that includes rejecting them romantically. Moreover, if they try to let them down gently and the rejected party goes apeshit, the employee is still fired.

I will not see you as attractive if my first impression of you is "oh shit I might lose my job."
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Honest question, why do so many guys here have all kinds of psychological and mental damage?

I mean, this being a chan, i would expect some stuff like being bullied and maybe a bit low self esteem but almost every guy here seems to either have severe autism (litteral) or shit like full on social anxiety or panic attacks.
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>>6531529
I'm not going to contradict you, but I am going to say that if it happened to me, it would make my day. Actually, scratch that, it would make my whole life.
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>>6531432
*waves from Michigan*
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>>6531532
I wonder this too. I think it's just that the normal people don't post as much, and/or when they post, their posts aren't crazy, so they don't get the extreme reactions that make people reply to them. They just get overlooked.
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>>6531532

I-I just have panic attacks once in a while because I'm afraid of some stuff, I'm not crazy ;_;
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Question for the guys in the thread:

How would you feel about being shared by two dommes who were also dating each other?
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>>6531538
Do they both pat my head and treat me lovingly?
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>>6531532
>>6531535
because it's an anonymous website
It's easier to talk about genuine personality flaws when you are just one of the many anons
like fuck I'd ever talk about dealing with anxiety and other private stuff in a public space if I had any sort of persistent identity attached to my posts


>>6531538
I'm not into poly so I'd pass even tho it would probably be hot during sex/play.
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>>6531532
Everyone has issues, but here you can say them without being worried that people you know will find out or make fun of you for them
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>>6531538
Sounds great. I could definitely go for that. I suspect a large chunk of this thread would be unhappy with that because they'd be too insecure though. That's what happens whenever somebody mentions polyamory.
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The thread's almost over. I'd just like to ask whoever makes the new one to please include the new recommendation list (the one that removes Kiki's delivery service, but adds Altina the Sword Princess).
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>>6531532
Par for the course on the internet isn't it?
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>>6531535
Anyway, do you have any good stuff/porn/whatever about teacher-student porn like in the pic you posted. I have a massive thing for women with short hair but all the "teacher porn" is submissive women with long hair shite.

>>6531537
What kind of stuff? From snowflakes to chainsaws, what kind of severity.

>>6531538
Interesting question. I am not too sure, i would probably say no because i cant see myself comitting to this because:
1. I won't commit to someone who does not fully commit herself to me
2. I cant commit to multiple people at the same time
3. Poly is shit
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>>6531532

Most guys in these threads are ignored emotionally for years or almost going insane from loneliness probably.

>>6531544

I mean it's sound hot and everything but I just don't like poly.
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>>6531538
Hmmm, might work. I'd try it, anyway.
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>>6531532
>but almost every guy here seems to either have severe autism (litteral)
/gfd/ probably appeals to autists (like myself) because it shifts the burden that we're saddled up with because of our gender but can't deal with because of our disorder.
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>>6531532
i'm a /d/eviant and i came here for pics. dc about others
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>>6531540
Yes. Though it might end up being a good cop bad cop kinda situation, one more strict domme and one mushier one.
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>>6531557
>the burden
the burden of initiative, I mean. Ideally, it's the /gfd/ grill who starts hitting on you in clear, unambiguous ways. Ideally...
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>>6531538
Is this two female dommes? Are they both gentle?

Regardless, answer is probably yes provided all three people could actually get along well with each other.

>>6531532
>tfw no diagnosed mental conditions
Fuck knows. I think people find comfort in feeling appreciated.
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>>6531549
>What kind of stuff? From snowflakes to chainsaws, what kind of severity.

I'm the guy posted about panic attacks. It's mostly not feeling secure when I go out(I got stabbed and nearly died in high school), darkness, death because I was really close to it. Sometimes I get too frustrated by loneliness and get one from anger, ah who am I kidding I'm fucking crazy.
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>>6531532

These threads started on /r9k/, think about it.

The real question is why the girls here seem comparatively normal.
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>>6531549
this is the only other one that has shortish hair
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>>6531532
Because guys with social anxiety are more likely to develop a fetish that involves girls initiating things?
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>>6531549
teacher, but not short hair
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>>6531559
I'd be okay with this, but I doubt most will be.
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>>6531557
That makes no sense at all.

Both sides have a burden. To use some swearwords, being an absolute spaz as a girl will still leave you with codwebs between your legs in the long run.

>>6531564
Dunno man, being almost killed is a good reason to be crazy.

Have you tried listening to metal? They say the best way to deal with a fear is to indulge in it.

>>6531566
aw
>>6531570
thanks anyway
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>>6531544
A relationship is about more than sex, anon.
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>>6531538

I actually think poly is fine, so I would accept living in an impossible fantasy world.
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>>6531538
If their personalities were right, that would be perfect.
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>>6531538
Kek. You make it sound like they're a piece of equipment.
>ah, fuck, driveway's all snowy. Honey, go fire up the sub!

What's two dommes doing dating one another, anyway?
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>>6531573
I didn't say anything about sex. But I have no problem sharing love between 3 people instead of just 2, as long as everyone feels the same about it. It's not like anyone is cheating on anyone else; all parties know exactly what the arrangement is. As long as nobody starts seeing things in a way that encourages jealousy, it would be a lot of fun.
Plus, I wouldn't have to worry about my affection being too much for one person to handle, because I could split it two ways, so that's nice. And just think about the fun things you can do with 3 people instead of just 2.
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>>6531587
>But I have no problem sharing love between 3 people instead of just 2
Well there would be my primary issue, it is incredibly hard for me to fall for someone. Im sure that if it somehow magically worked out, i would do it, but i doubt i will ever fall in love, so to speak, with two people and they with me and each other.

In addition to that, i want to be able to live a relatively normal life, i don't want to be "that guy that lives with two women". I want to have children some day and im not really looking to further increase my outcast status in society, im non-conformist enough already.
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>>6531591
dump limit
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>>6531593
says 246 here
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>>6531590
I think as long as you love one of them, and you don't dislike the other, you could probably grow to love both. Well, I think I could. Maybe you couldn't, I don't know how you work. But I probably could. As for being "that guy that lives with two women," yeah I might worry what my family thinks about that, but at the same time, I'd rather be happy being with people that make me happy than be sad and alone so others don't look down on me. All I could do is hope my family comes around, and if they don't, then that's their fault, not mine.
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>>6531597
That's images, not total posts. The italicized 498 is how many posts total the thread has. At 300 it goes into autosage mode.
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>>6531598
To each their own, i would never enter a polygamous relationship with pre-determined intentions. Maybe if it grows like that in a weird funky way.

I only have 2 friends in real life, i don't value many people, i doubt i could have an active relationship with 2 people on equal basis, one of them would get demoted to second place quickly. Its hard enough for me to manage it with my two friends, and that only works because one of them is really on his own. My 2 friends are really my friends and the rest is just "people i hang out with", they are relatively easily discarded, so to speak.

Just the idea of having to balance two people both in position of "girlfriend/partner" gives me headaches already, i don't see myself pulling it off.
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>>6531599
thanks cpt
>>
>>6531612
no, i take that back. with all the newfaggotry swarming around here, it's not so obvious
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>>6531606
>I only have 2 friends in real life, i don't value many people, i doubt i could have an active relationship with 2 people on equal basis, one of them would get demoted to second place quickly. Its hard enough for me to manage it with my two friends, and that only works because one of them is really on his own. My 2 friends are really my friends and the rest is just "people i hang out with", they are relatively easily discarded, so to speak.
This is me. Exactly me. But for some reason, I feel like it would still work for me. Being in a relationship is a totally different mode for me. I'm usually just the guy that gets called when my friends are already doing something and they just want to see if I want to come along (which is perfect for me), but in a relationship I get really clingy. So 2 people to alternate clinging to would probably be good for their sanity. But if they wanted to just treat me the same way my friends do and just call me when they want me, I could probably adjust to that easily enough.
>image limit reached
Didn't realize /d/ had an image limit. We've never reached it before
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>>6531569

This. As much as you all hate to admit it, this fetish is the result of a series of genetic disorders.

The men in this thread are lacking in testosterone, so their desire to have women do all the work for them sexually comes from the same place as their social anxiety (read: unwillingness to socialize), assorted mental diseases and weak facial features.

Conversely, the unusually high amounts of testosterone in the females gives them considerable strength of personality and drive, for women at least, but gives the lot of them unsightly manlike faces, acne breakouts, anger issues and tumblr-tier SJW ideology.

You can't fight biology, kids. Might as well accept it and find a compatible partner, fortunately most people in this thread won't have kids.
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>>6531635
wew lad, want to talk about it?
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>>6531635
>[citation needed]
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>>6531642
What that anon will give as a source will not be any better than the shitty race jpegs from pol
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>>6531532
for me it's just because of shit my exes did
still affected my sanity pretty badly, but hey, i'm still alive... somewhat
>>
>>6528696
Totally agreed. I will kill myself one day and I know it. Not only because of this. Maybe because I don't have any goal in life. Maybe because life just doesn't make sense. Or maybe because I went into drugs to forgot.
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>>6529189
Thanks for the music. Even if this is nightcore. Knowing that you posted it makes it a lot better
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>>6531532
I suppose this is just the sort of relationship that emotionally distraught men find comfort in.

>>6531538
If I got along well with both dommes then I would definitely give it a shot.
>>6531559
>good domme bad domme
Yes, yes, yes!

Also, I suppose a new thread should be made now that we've reached the image limit for the first time ever.
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>>6531538
I would not know how the relationship will remain stable. I will eventually learn to love one more than the other which may lead to complications down the road.
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>>6531698
<3 Glad I could help. Sorry if you don't like nightcore stuff. Here's the original, if you'd prefer it (although it's so agonizingly slow compared to the nightcore, I don't know how you could, but that's just my taste).
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lrg6Q7j7KjA

>>6531695
I love you anon. Please get help. Listen to the song I linked if that does it for you; it did for me.
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>>6531724
Samefag here. I wrote the two posts you answered. I'm not seeking true love or help anymore, I just want to have some happy moments before my death
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>>6531778
What is it that makes lonely men so dramatic and suicidal compared to lonely women?

I bet you're a young person too, don't kill yourself, happy life can start at any age.
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>>6531635
>lacking in testosterone
>ignoring all the baraposting from earlier

low quality bait
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>>6531538
Not a problem. Although at that point you'd be like a house boy
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>>6531635
Gr8 b8 m8

PAGE 10. New thread needed.
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>>6531538

It sounds like fun, I'd try it. I can imagine I'd get sick of it at some point though.
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NEW THREAD

>>6531956
>>6531956
>>6531956
>>
Sure, yeah. I can get slightly jealous around other guys but I don't seem to have the same problem as far as other women are concerned. As far as love and my needs I'm at my best when I receive a lot of physical reinforcement so in that regard having two partners would be a plus. I don't foresee any trouble on the sexual front as my libido is likewise high. However, I'm not great at planning/sticking to schedules, and I'll need a little bit of me-time after spending a lot of time socializing and seeing to emotional needs that I can't provide by fixing problems and cooking great meals. If both ladies were very demanding as far as emotional involvement juggling that with a job, and my own need for space could be an issue.
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