There's no best method, there are so many factors intervening into the way to the big-O, it would be easier to teach people individually So I only have a few advice:
It seems that some guys have a less sensitive prostate than others. In any case, masturbating numbs your prostate, so you have to stop all sexual activity for a few days before your anal session, it is ESSENTIAL
Using your fingers is the best way to find your prostate, to find the right spot. Everyone has a different "right spot"
Find the best position for you, the most comfortable and the most effective pleasure-wise. Everyone has a different best position Same thing for the toy you use
The idea is not to fuck your anus (even if this feels good) but to fuck your prostate. Angle your toy so you firmly rub and massage it. Don't hurt yourself though
Haste and impatience will ALWAYS cause failure Having something on your mind, a bad day, grief, stress, exams, nervousness, will most likely cause failure
You have to completely rewire your brain: you don't cum with your dick anymore, you cum with your ass. Literally. You don't even need to have an erection to cum anally. To use a gross comparison, just see your ass as a vagina, you have to fuck it til it cums and spasms. This is probably the most difficult part. Because of all the psychological barriers. You have to accept the idea (with its share of guilt, shame, fear) that you're going to cum extremely hard, with a different part of your body. You have to let go physically AND mentally. The amount of concentration it demands is pretty high
Just because your first anal orgasm was disappointing, it doesn't mean the next one will be
And finally: Practice makes perfect. It took me 5 years between my first finger and my first anal orgasm. And 7 years later I still have times where it just "doesn't happen" and I have to finish myself jerking off
Just curious, anal newbie here, but what should you do to prepare for a prostate massage? Would it be a good idea to lay down some towels or something in my "anal play area"? Also, what does an anal orgasm feel like in comparison to a normal male orgasm?
>>5750279 Of course you better put some towels around, it's gonna get messy believe me. There's gonna be precum, semen, lube and... maybe even some strange fluids from your ass you don't wanna know about...
Preparation: take a big dump, take a shower, relax, know that you'll have to devote a few hours to it, no disturbance, no interruption, stop thinking about the rest of the world
The normal male orgasm feels like this: a rush of pleasure in your dick, then it spasms a few times while pumping semen. The anal orgasm feels like this: the rush of pleasure is in your prostate and your ass, it's so strong and overwhelming you kinda blackout, then the pleasure radiates in your whole body as it loses its intensity. Your ass starts spasming a few times, making your dick (which at this point should be in a semi erection) gush semen hands-free.
>>5750283 how does it hurt? does it hurt your anus, or inside of your ass?
Done it once, but it was a combination of situation and stimulation. Wife and I were in Japan and had always wanted to do the love hotel thing. She was in a school girl costume with a strap on and the set up was so hot that I came just from her fucking me.
FUUUUCK! I just came for THE REAL first time! I had cum from anal estimulation before but this... im still cumming from the past 20 minutes. Even i already got dry, im still having involuntary and strong spasm. I think i had an attack at the beautifull moment but im still like a tremor jelly. So, now my bed is full of pee, cum and my sweat, now how do i stop this?
ok, it last long 30 mins. I had to jerk off myself to try to release again. Nothing came off untill a long 10 minutes. so, moral of the history: Do this while been alone or youre gonna mess up something. Well, now i cant move
>>5750179 wait... you're telling me you've HAD an anal orgasm without an erection? do you ejaculate? does your ass actually spasm? entirely free from your cock?
I always figured an "anal" orgasm was due to the indirect pressure to your cock. and I've had some pretty amazing orgasms from indirect pressure (most of which didn't involve my anus). if what you're saying is true, I can't even imagine how amazing it must feel.
>>5757184 Yes, technically (and from what I feel) an anal orgasm is my prostate orgasming from direct stimulation. I don't need to be in erection since all the pleasure is inside my ass. What happens is when my prostate starts orgasming and spasming, my cock gets in a semi erection really fast just before gushing semen. This ejaculation is caused by the anal spasms, not my cock.
I'm at my cabin right now making wooden spheres from oak trees which will later be strung together to make a chain of anal beads. Cant get enough of it, even though i have a girlfriend and socially capable in every way. Havent got the guts to tell her yet, dunno if i ever will. Anyone had any experience in making their own toys?
>>5760551 oh god you cannot imagine how many times I searched for a video like that, and how many times I thought of making one myself I want to show my little slutass having an orgasm so people can jerk off to me, I want to moan and beg like a sissy thinking about all these loads being shot just for me
Pay attention how at first there's a big leak, that's when his prostate start orgasming and stiffening and a lot of semen just leaks because of mere total relaxation of the body. Then the orgasm turns into anal spasms and more cum is shot out of the prostate in 2 or 3 spurts.
When I see him cumming like that I see myself, it's just so fucking hot, I need a cock in my ass so bad right now...
I feel like I could do it if I really tried, I've come close a few times. The thing is, from reading other people's experiences and seeing >>5760551 It might sound retarded, but I'm kinda scared of getting erectile dysfunction. The idea of being aroused and having a limp dick is sending off alarms in my head.
>>5764595 Believe it or not but I have bigger erections since I started anal stimulation (7 years and counting)
You know this special erection you get only once or twice a year? you're so hard you can actually see that your dick is bigger than usual? well I have those regularly now, and much more often than when I was an anal virgin teenager. It's like the prostate orgasm makes you more relaxed in the crotch area, more receptive to pleasure and sensations. Less anal if you will (pun not intended).
I had my first prostate orgasm today, and I didn't even intend on masturbating in the first place. I just thought about playing around a bit and got really fucking horny out of nowhere.
Last week I had discovered that sitting on a chair with my dildo in and just riding it worked really damn well to stimulate my prostate. So far that was the closest I had gotten to an anal orgasm. I have this glass dildo with an angled head on one end that I had inserted, since I figured the angle would work my prostate better. The problem was it kept flipping so it wasn't even pointed at my prostate. I was grinding the thing for at least an hour experiencing all sorts of different sensations I hadn't felt before until I grew tired and just jacked off to finish. I knew I was so fucking close though.
So back to today, I went and washed myself, then put on these long johns that are practically yoga pants. I put them on backwards though so I could just slide my dildo in through the hole. Makes less of a mess that way, no lube all over the place, plus wearing tight stuff makes me feel hornier during. I did the same technique as last week except I used the opposite end of my dildo, which is just a normal head, almost a ball.
I was riding it and it felt great. I was feeling the same sensations as before, these waves of pleasure deep in my groin, my thighs and ass were involuntarily twitching from time to time. My dick was oozing precum. A wave of pleasure similar to when you're about to climax washed over me and went away, same thing I have felt before. I think about 10 minutes passed when I started to grind the dildo. I would kinda press my ass down onto the chair and into the back of it, which really pressed on my prostate. I was grinding it like this for only a few minutes before I could feel the pressure start to build. I tried to keep my rhythm steady as best as I could before I got that "holy shit" moment I bet everyone who was about to have a prostate orgasm felt. I came real quick and tried to keep stimulating it but everything was so fucking sensitive I had to stop. There was less cum that I was expecting, and I wasn't reduced to a heaving mess that could barely move, but I definitely had to take a minute or 2 to gather myself. And it was no doubt the strongest orgasm I've ever had.
I took the dildo out and just chilled for a few minutes. I couldn't believe I actually had a prostate orgasm considering this was only my 3rd or 4th time trying to achieve one. I had fucked myself numerous times beforehand, but only tried to directly stimulate my prostate a few times. Makes me feel bad for the guys that take literally years to achieve one.
Now I'm excited as fuck to have another, since I got a whole technique down and whatnot. It's hard to keep a steady rhythm once your heart starts to beat harder and you have to breath deeper. Or at least that's what happens to me after direct stimulation after a few minutes.
>>5765284 Could you describe how it felt in your ass when you came? it's what turns me on the most...
Also may I suggest next time you try on all fours. We all have a favorite position but I observed that when I fuck my ass on all fours (I don't grind on the dildo, I use my hand) my orgasm is the most intense and I ejaculate more semen.
The only time I ever got even remotely close to having an anal orgasm I was using the handle of a knife (obviously without the blade) to stimulate myself. I found it very effective due to the upwards turn it made towards the end. I'm surprised to see it's possible to come using even just the fingers. Do you think a beginner would be able to do so as well or do you think using a toy of some sort is actually gonna make a big difference? If so, is there anything specific you feel like recomending?
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