Closet of frills thread: March Edition

>>9373670
can the oversized round fake glasses trend please die already

>>9373662
That crown is too big to be cute and damn do I hate those shitty eyebrows

>>9373662
I think with a more OTT hairstyle the crown could be more balanced out. I dont hate this coord but the turquoise brooch is very out of place

>>9373674
Seconding this. Can't stand the look, it just looks dumb, and they're clearly fake rather than real glasses.

>>9373664
sauce on dress?

>>9373766
Surface Spell

>>9373660
The fuck is that hair. It ruined everything.

>>9373766
>>9373783
>sauce on dress
>not Surface Spill

anon pls

>>9373660
Was a commenter trying to imply that she took the photo without shop staff permission or something?

Otherwise it looks nice. Could use some wig polishing and her face reminds me of that one Bodyline model.

>>9373660
>gold shoes
>silver wig
I'm triggered

>>9373668
Those shoes are so nostalgic! I miss seeing those types of shoes worn with coords. Also love seeing old school in navy.

>>9373805
Why would you need permission to take a photo in the store?

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>>9373831
Because in Japan, that's considered normal. You generally aren't allowed to take pictures inside stores. I assume it's the same for Japanese brand shops in other countries.

>>9373831
Lots of reasons. Many retail stores, especially higher-end ones like Louis Vuitton, do it so that it's more difficult for people who sell knock offs to duplicate wall displays, products, and other store features. Basically, to help prevent misrepresentation of the brand.

>>9373831
Brand stores in Japan often have a no photos policy, so the same rule might be extended to the overseas stores.

>>9373842
True. I hate how Japanese brand shops refuse to adapt in other countries in every way possible. No wonder they don't manage to stay

>>9373840
this is old... and zzZZZ again with the glasses, stahp

>>9373851
Plenty of Western stores don't allow photos either. Tati Westbrook mentioned that Sephora or some other large beauty retailer does like her to film in there.

>>9373856
We didn't have an active CoF thread for several days, so some of the photos I have saved up are a few days old- or do you mean she's posted this before?

>>9373857
What a sorry attempt at guro.

>>9373848
i... dont hate the turtleneck?? my gut says i should but idk its not killing me. love the hair 100%

>>9373860
i meant it was posted before, sry! quite a few of these were iirc but nbd

>>9373843
>repping Ikemen Mode
this pleases me

>>9373838
finally "the end" of this shit. mods plzzzzz no moar of these type of posts.

>>9373873
needs legwear & underskirt. too. much. LEG, i feel scandalized. also when will people understand that sheer pantyhose =/= lolita hosiery...?

>>9373783
thanks anon.

>>9373853
I love this girl's coords in the sewing group, but I would really love to see her wearing them! Has anyone seen a picture of her wearing the jsks she makes?

>>9373662
Is that a way to small and long cage skirt? Did she do this on purpose?

>>9373859
If some youtuber was filming in a shop I'd leave

>>9373873
This looks like the wig my boyfriend wore for carnival. I don't dislike the tights.

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>>9373899
reminds me of this

>>9373842
>>9373847
God forbid people get exposed to our stock!!!

>>9373873
>long(ish) sleeves but bare legs
>cheap cosplay wig
I'm triggered.

>>9373894
same. people film too much shit without checking how others around them feel, so tired of having a heart attack whenever someone holds up their phone at a meet.

>>9373859
Okay but there's a difference between filming and just taking a picture somewhere. I'd always ask before filming somewhere but with taking photos I generally assume it's okay unless otherwise mentioned.

>>9373850
I love this

>>9373805
She works there baka

Some coords from February were missed, probably because of the shitposting in the last thread.

>>9373831
Anyone who knows how to pattern make from scratch can turn a dress inside out, take photos of the seams and draft a pattern from that. Replica makers would probably also take photos of the custom lace and stuff, it makes it easier to replicate elsewhere.

>>9373953
Feel free to post any that were missed, it would have been a lost cause trying to post them in the last thread anyway.

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>>9373992

>>9373990
I love this, it's so cute and simple.

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>>9373996

>>9373954
You'd do that in a fitting room though, not from a large distance posing in front of some racks.

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>>9374012

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>>9374014

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>>9374015

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>>9374018

>>9373991
I feel like this isn't too too bad as far as ero tends to go.

>>9374018
Why would you coord a Peter rabbit print like this?

>>9374022
Maybe a spin on march hare? As in changing March to marching band. Also, rabbit in uniform.

>>9374018
The dumb thing is that with a different main piece/print, this could be a really nice coord but instead everything looks really shoehorned. With a more solid or gothic-themed skirt it could be nice.

>>9373670
they gave the weirdest fucking smile

>>9373990
does she only own like three dresses or something? I feel like she wears the same coord over and over again.
>inb4 thread derailment

>>9374019
Why hat so big?

>>9373985
This would be so much better if she wore a blouse instead of that fuzzy monstrosity. She also really needs to find a more flattering haircut, that bob isn't helping with her man face.

>>9373933
Silly me. I didn't know.

>>9373660
I don't care much for the coord but I love to see the inside of brand shops

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>>9373996
I'm bout to block this dude.

>>9373996
That dress looks enormous.

>>9373863
Very pretty! I think she needs more ott accessories below the neck to balance out the giant headpiece or remove a thing or two from the head. It just looks outrageous compared to the delicate dress

>>9373660
Oh is this picture recent? I'm going to NYC soon and I want one of those usakumya/kumakumya backpacks that are on the shelf behind her lol

>>9374136
whats the deal with him again? I could have sworn someone said he was annoying but I don't remember what happened.

>>9373831
Lots of alt fashion stores are no photo allowed. I presume it's to discourage normies from playing dress-up in clothes they have no intention of buying.
>>9374152
Well, have you seen the size of the man who owns it?

>>9374277
mostly ppl are upset that hes using the closet of frills page like his personal blog but thats about it.. so yea hes just annoying

>>9374123

Considering they use gender neutral pronouns I doubt they care whether they fit your ideal look of feminine or masculine

>>9374290
tumblr pls leave

>>9373996
oh my god is the nightmare over? didn't he say only for a month?

please no more mediocre daily flatlays and details shots no one cares about

>>9374055
That's because that's an old pic that's already been posted.

>>9373666
>when u blow all ur money on ur main piece

>>9374015
I love the concept, but feel like the top hat could have been executed much better.

>>9374290
oopsies, my bad, didn't realize a bio female wearing a hyper feminine clothing style is actually a boi, silly me for assuming their gender when they're wearing a dress whoops

>>9374290
Kris please stop defending yourself both here and in the ita thread

>>9373808
that's her real hair lol

>>9373837
I really want to like this dress but I just can't.

>>9373873
I just hate this and the lav/mint colorway of this dress so much.

>>9373991
Such mixed feels on her coords. Basically I love most of them but I also feel like they aren't lolita typically.

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>>9373785
Really? Her hair is great which is impressive considering most people use ratty wigs

>>9373848
I feel like this could be improved mostly by a smaller petti. Otherwise it's not bad

>>9373840
I feel like someone is purposefully digging up old posts for dramu

>>9373662
I kind of like where she was going with this. the random turquoise brooch needs to go. much bigger hair and either adding an underskirt, or taking that ridiculous hoop skirt off.
looking at that middle photo, posing really makes a difference. middle photo alone would have been best.
this is so different that it surprisingly lifted my spirits! I'm hoping she wears this coord again with those few adjustments

>>9373874
oh honey no.
you'd have to work really hard to make those Tims work. maybe a pastel winter coord, with big fuzzy socks, coat, lots of poof, and big hair. layers and soft colors would even out how fucking chunky they are lol

as a person who has died her hair several times, I wonder why girls don't include accessories to match. especially in a two-colored coord. some red here and there would have been nice.

>>9373991
she's definitely improved.
some of her first coords were ita af and very LG if you know what I mean.
I like this more mature look. unfortunately, with such detailed main pieces, the potato quality does this an injustice.

>>9374459
Absolutely this. Last thread someone tried to start racial drama but they were ignored like the massive faggots they are.
And what do we have here? Yes, another black girl ... and Voldie. Totally not on purpose.

>>9374477
>very LG
what? All I've seen from her past is goth stuff...

>>9374290
"They" still look like shit regardless of what they identify as, go back to Tumblr pls.

>>9373660
This one looks nice.

>>9374290
There is only one of him or her.

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>>9374621

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>>9374622

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>>9374623

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>>9374625

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>>9374626

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>>9374627
Why this looks so weird even she isnt showing her face?

>>9374622
This is cute AF

>>9373668
I kinda feel sorry for this guys unfortunate face. He coords pretty decently.

>>9373660
>'oops i forgot to blur the background! Tee hee! I work there :3333333'
Shoot me in the fucking face.

>>9374622
Why are those curls sticking out so much? They look like dreads

>>9374622
It makes me cringe that she stated in her description she is selling that dress and yet still is wearing it around.

>>9374643
>>9374659
>Coord doesn't look like shit as usual, better find something else to complain about.

>>9374622
not a big fan of the striped socks, but she's pretty cute here. dunno how to feel about that blonde on her- i feel like it makes her skintone look washed out.

my other feeling is that she's copying bububun's way of taking pics and posing. exact same kind of background.

>>9374630
hair is flat and her feet are awkwardly spaced apart.

>>9373852
my heart. she's so cute!

>>9373831
I've seen stores bitch about taking pictures even in front of the store. Had an employee at a Victoria Secret come out and demand we delete the photo we took of a friend posing in front of the shop.

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>>9373992
>look at muh boobz

What is even significant about her boobs? I hope she is not directing our attention to that poorly tassel fringe

>>9374768
Either you have low standards, this is bait, or you are/know her/him

>>9374824
Not that anon but it's a cute coord, calm down.

>>9374622
No bindhi? Praise Mana

>>9374123
Advice for more flattering wig choice?

>>9374620
"they" is officially acceptable to apply to 3rd person singular in many reputable style guides, and has been used off and on as such at least since the 16th century. singular they is here to stay.

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>>9374909
>ill fitting clothes
>that collar
>those expressions

>>9374909

I am cum

>>9374621
I see this girl's posts and have to wonder just how bad those shoes smell - they're all she ever seems to wear.

>>9373863
This girl has always amazing outfits!

>>9374909
DDLG
D
L
G

>>9374846
Something with a gentle wave that goes past your shoulders.

>>9374909
Well, I must say I like this, except maybe for the necklace. Not a big fan of mixing this type of soft fetish with Lolita.
For the rest it's nice for casual.

>>9374909
She doesn't deserve that skirt if she's using it for this kind of fetishy garbage.

>>9374909
This coord is ugly af, she looks awful in it, and with the fetish vibe I don't understand why this hasn't been taken down. If I wanted to see fat ddlg chicks I would go to tumblr.

>>9374029
Except this was from Katsucon in February

>>9374999
Is the fact she looks like a stuffed sausage also one of the things you like about this?

>>9374622
i definitely like this look better than her other hot topic/tumblr coords.

>>9374909
why the fug is she wearing that collar with that outfit. no no no stop

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>>9375037

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>>9374022
i think it's because of the letters. like she's supposed to be the postmaster or something.
also iirc this print sold on lacemarket for like a CRAZY high price. so i kind of suspect that she wanted to do a really attention-grabbing coordinate like 'oh, look at this very rare, expensive print that i own' but it looks way better in a coord like pic related, which accentuates the print with simpler accessories and seems to 'flow' much better as a result.

>>9375049
This is adorable.

>>9375049
What's the name of this print? Holy shit, it's the most precious thing ever.

>>9373860
It was actually from a month or two ago iirc

>>9375049
I'm talking this, plus the fact the favorite coords thread is full of basic coords, as a sign that OTT is finally dying

>>9375063
Rabbit Letter, I believe. From IW. It was recently rereleased.

>>9374909
things that would help this coord:
a) different hairstyle or head accessories. You could clip the bows on your braids onto the band of a hat. it looks like you have pretty nice natural hair, so either a more voluminous style or even just leaving it loose would look better than the braids.
b) get rid of the choker and the rose clips. fetish accessories are usually never appropriate for lolita unless you're doing like an edgelord ero coordinate maybe.
i don't *hate* the idea of the rose shoe clips, they're just not right for this coordinate. bows would have been better.
c) get a wide belt or a waist cincher. rn, the spot where your top hits the band of the skirt looks sort of underdone and strange. something in pink or cream would draw attention to the narrowest part of your waist while adding some detail and interest as well.
pink, red or brown shoes would be cute, and look into maybe purchasing some white or pink wristcuffs and some jewelry. the choker on top of the lacy collar is ng, but either a longer necklace or some cute rings wouldn't go amiss.

>>9375032
Yes, and the fact that she has guts to accept concrit and not being an asshole; not like you or lots of drama-chans I see around here and CoF, dear anon <3
Stop giving shitty concrit and saying shit about people's bodies. Except for the choker, she's not looking bad at all. I've seen thinner people doing worst things. Your weight doesn't determinate how good you're into Lolita.

>>9375072
THIS is good concrit. Learn from this anon.

>>9375073
Wearing ill fitting clothes looks horrible and unfashionable no matter what your weight is.

>>9375073
She got told that the expressions were bad and was like oh I can't help who I am! So no, she doesn't have the guts.

>>9375072
It's a wig not her hair btw, and her fb is filled with her using shitty normie tops and harnesses with skirts. She is an edge lord.

>>9375065
OTT has always been really hard to pull off but i think people have just gotten sick of it 'cause most of the time it comes across as real tryhard.
i know that it lost a lot of the magic for me when it started being about, like...carrying around giant fucking scepters and spoons, the most impractical accessories in the world. it was cute the first time I saw it, not the 22nd.
or wearing wings, jfc. all i can imagine is turning around too quickly and batting a total stranger in the face with those things.

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>>9374909

>>9375080
Well so for you "having guts" is accepting the concrit like YES MADAM and keep your head down instead of saying thank you, I'll take your advise, this is my face, and so. I see what type of person you are then. Good luck.

>>9375080
ah, i see it now. should have paid more attention to the part. is her real hair shaved or something? even short hair would look okay with this coord as long as it had some fluff to it.
she might be an edgelord, but maybe she can be taught. my normie wardrobe looks totally different from my lolita wardrobe, but i remember trying to mix the two when I was first starting out because broke af. i'm crossing my fingers hoping that's the case here.

>>9374630
Is that a navy dress with a black blouse and shoes? Why?

>>9375088
I didn't realize her face was stuck as a duck face pose.

>>9375089
It is generic Tumblr looking hair. Shoulder length and dyed purple ombré.

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>>9375073
>your weight doesn't determine how hood you're into Lolita
Yes it fucking does. This is a fashion hobby and obesity is unattractive. It's not like she's playing the fucking violin or something that doesn't involve weight. I'm so fucking tired of people who act like aesthetics and appearance don't matter in lolita.

>>9375103
Why the fuck not? That's hardly the worst thing about this coord.

>>9375136
Of course it matters in terms that you should be healthy (and sometimes people who looks more fat than you is healthier than you, too), but I've seen obese people doing EXCELLENT coords and skinny people doing shit. So maybe it's time for all you salty-chans to think about this better (ﾉヮ)ﾉ*:･ﾟ

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>>9374909

Btw OMG LOLITAS WITH CHOKERS SO 2003 (or so). Seriously people, take it easy. I don't like the choker either and I told her, no need for being nasty. Take the sticks out of your asses.

>>9375080
>oh I can't help being a cum guzzling whore! ^____^

>>9375149
Show me which one of those is wearing a Slave collar that came from bdsm wear and now is connected to ddlg stuff.

>>9375123
I don't think that anon is the one who's bawwwing, sis.

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>>9373996
HE SAID ONLY A MONTH. STOP ASAP, PLZ.

>>9375149
>comparing ribbon, lace, and velvet chokers to a fetishy faux leather collar with an o-ring
gurl

Not gonna comment on the duckface, it's your choice to look terrible in photos I guess, but the detail shot of the collar and her tongue out just looks necessarily sexual. Not inherently wrong, but totally out of place with a coord like that.

>>9375146
You're not wrong but that doesn't change the fact the clothes don't fit her and she looks terrible.

>>9374622
That wig doesn't suit her and it clashes badly with her black eyebrows and the instaho makeup needs to go.
Nice coord tho.

>>9375149
It's the combination of the expressions with that particular type of choker that's setting those of us commenting off. I don't give a fuck what she's into, the minute you post that shit to a semi-public forum where a majority of people hate any sort of fetish association you're gonna get wrecked.

And yeah her clothes fit like rubbish overall. There are plenty of larger lolitas who look great in their clothes because they know how fit works, this person clearly does not.

>>9375187
Repeat one, Anon.

>>9375187
if you click on the "photos" section in the group rather than just snagging all the pics as they come up in the discussion, you can see the pictures by date posted. clearly no one is aware of this bc this thread has so many reposts from the last one...

>>9373996
These shoes....why?

>>9375031
? What does that have to do with anything? I said March Hare as in the fictional character. He's not exclusively recognized in March.

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>>9375281

>>9375149
the difference in these and the above coordinate is the neckline. every girl wearing a choker is also wearing either a dress or a bodice that exposes their collarbone. notice how the girls wearing peter-pan collars have foregone necklaces completely. a choker above a detailed, high-necked blouse is too much.

>>9375252
I'm thankful for it cuz my coord post got skipped over in the past 2 threads. But yeah whoever's been dumping here doesn't seem that bright.

>>9375281
this is really well-done. her hairstyle is especially cute.

>>9375277
this fabric...that oversized waist bow...just why...?
also, I've never seen solid, bold tights that work in lolita. :/

>>9374672
Genuinely asking why, I'm not shirting on her for it. It's an odd shape for a wig, that's all

>>9374621
She should have picked a tighter blouse or cutsew

>>9374622
I don't know. This coord is cute but it looks unbalanced. It lacks some black in my opinion...

>>9375328
Agreed. The main piece is the only thing that has any black (aside from her eyebrows), so it's just kind of floating there. It's not the worst but I think this coord would benefit from some black accessories and maybe black shoes.

>>9375281
i love it, but the poofy sleeves and large mass of the cape make her waist look almost comically tiny?

>>9375310
What ifis it's black or white?

>>9375146
christ, it's so painfully obvious that you're new and that you're the girl in the pic. stop samefagging and remind me to shit on every single one of your coordinates because your hissyfit is hilarious

>>9374704
The IKEA shelf & average pose drama continues.

>>9375146
Even if their coord is flawless, they're still obese and, consequently, look like shit.

>>9374909
Ew. I don't love the choker but it wouldn't bother me so much if she wasn't making that gross face in the detail shot.

>>9375374
>choker
*collar

>>9375374
Seconding this, her expression in both pictures looks pretty dopey, but the tongue-out especially is just so weirdly gross to me. Like, girl, I don't want to see your tongue. Save that for your sleazy tinder match.

>>9375336
wait.. so now we're complaining about someone looking too skinny?

>>9375152
The girl people are originally talking about fits what you're talking about and doesn't look good. However.. I'm from the bible belt in America and moved far away because down there if you wear a choker, people will just assume it's sexual regardless of what you wear it with or what kind of choker it is.

>>9375358
>it's so painfully obvious that you're new and that you're the girl in the pic
Everyone here is anon. Nothing like that is obvious at all, stupid.

I've given up on wishing people used better lighting(horrid grain). But at least, I really wish people would hold their camera straight OR edit the image so that it is portrait. There's even a way

A lot of these are making my eyes hurt.

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>>9375389
the Bible belt makes lots of assumptions. a lolita outfit with a legit choker would get as much speculation as a lolita outfit without one.

and anyway, she's wearing a fucking collar not a choker.

plus, in the Carolinas we associated nice chokers with Civil War reenactors more than anything else

>>9375088
>"having guts" is accepting the concrit
Seriously. Not even a newfag, but why is this a thing here or in this fashion? I guess I haven't been here for a decade like most old fags but... fucking how does this make sense to people?
Like they gotta do what you say or they're shitty? Sounds like fucking hazing or something. You have to endure bullshit to be one of us type shit.

>>9375400
>collar not a choker.
Hmm. No. I know the difference but what she is wearing is not something I would put on my dog.
I used to date a furry and wear a dog collar, like a legit collar.
The only reason what she is wearing gets refereed to as a collar is because of a lame ass connotation that cgl and tumblr has attached to them.
Those are extremely popular too. In passing no one would care. They only reason it's even up for debate is because of these kinds of connotations and the fact that is got posted online.

>>9375410
It's a fucking collar. Stop trying to defend this shit.

>>9375410
It's a collar, it is based off of fetish collars. Pls stop embarrassing yourself.

>>9375419
>Stop trying to defend this shit.
Read the thread. I said in another comment she doesn't look good. I'm not defending her. She looks like trash.

>>9375422
Like I said. The only reason it's even up for debate is because it got posted online.

>>9375410
>I used to date a furry and wear a dog collar, like a legit collar.
He's a classless piece of shit furry

>The only reason what she is wearing gets refereed to as a collar is because of a lame ass connotation that cgl and tumblr has attached to them.
No it's because the BDSM community uses collars similar to these, usually made out of high grade leather, but cheap ass motherfuckers like to use the cheapass versions. 24/7 roleplayers (who are pretty frowned upon by the rest of the community) like to use these types of collars for public display you charmingly naive twit.

>>9375410
>Hmm. No. I know the difference but what she is wearing is not something I would put on my dog.
fashion collars have existed for a long time. fetish collars have also existed. no one in their right mind would put them on a dog.

the O-ring and leather/pleather material are distinct designs of the fetishwear collar. this design is a tradition that has NOTHING to do with the internet. it's been a staple of fetish scenes, and subsequently fashion with edgy elements, for decades.

get over yourself.

>>9375430
>He's a classless piece of shit furry
They all are.

>No it's because the BDSM community uses collars similar to these
Yeah but they usually don't wear them casually. In fact, all the people I know from fetlife DON'T DO SHIT LIKE THIS. Because they'll come off like the girl in the picture did.
Again. I'm not defending her. She's wearing it as a choker and is probably not actually into BDSM. She's taking part of a dumb trend. That's all.

>>9375432
>no one in their right mind would put them on a dog.
When I wore a collar, it's one I got from a pet store. Most people I've met that wear collars did not get them online. This was also like over a decade ago, though. I don't do furry stuff anymore.

>get over yourself.
No. I've been apart of the fetish comm for a long time. Wearing what she has is a joke compared to wearing an actual collar.
She doesn't even have a fucking leash!

>>9375281
This is really beautiful!

>>9374909
I have her on my fb, and she's lurking here, I can assure you that.
People defending her are her friends.

>>9375424
>The only reason it's even up for debate is because it got posted online.
What does this even mean? She intentionally posted it to a large group for people to see, yes, that is the reason it is getting discussed. It's a fetish collar that you could pass off in a larme coord, it's not appropriate in her lolita coord even ignoring the fetish connotations because it looks out of place.

>>9375279
I love how puffy the skirt looks, but I wish she would have done something different with her hair, also with volume. For the rest, it's cute!

>>9375438

Is she the girl who reviewed a similar looking collar 'made of foam' in the mail thread?

>>9375439
That's me going "oh god you guys are actually trying specify if something is a collar or a choker like that fucking matters when she looks garbage and the only reason people are focusing on it is because HURR DDLG connotation".

Never said it was appropriate for lolita, in fact I said the opposite.

CoF threads are all about the god damn cherry picking I see.

>>9375358
FYI, cutie, I'm not XD she's another anon in here, but it's not me.

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>>9375283
This looks more like an old lady than lolita, lol

>>9375435
>>9375436
your thought process is so isolated from reality that it is pointless to engage with you 2bh

>>9375438
Collar asshole here. For the millionth time. Not defending her and thinks she looks like trash.
Don't lump me in with your wild assumptions and need to trash someone. Don't worry, I'm kind of on your side.
However don't feed into the stupid "SHES HERE YOU GUYS SHE IS DEFENDING HERSELF QUICK JUMP HER ASS" cgl mentality pls. It's overplayed as fuck.

>>9375382
Nobody is ever happy in here, for God's Sake XD

>>9375448
>XD
newfag af

>>9375450
is that Agnes? Anytime I see those eyelashes on a slightly bigger girl I just think its her now..

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>>9375450

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>>9375459

>>9375450
Wow I actually really love this

>>9375450
granny-kei is adorbs though

>>9375453
>uses emoticons
>random capitalization
>generalizes an entire website based on a few posts
this is an 18+ website

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>>9375461
I would like to see that headwear with another kind of dress

>>9375382
I don't think they're complaining, it's just that proportions look a bit off.
It's like when a girl has a giant body and her head looks tiny. This girl has a small waist and her arms and head look massive.

>>9375452
Fetishists like you jumping in here to defend kink shit is overplayed as fuck
Fucking leave already

>>9375461

Coord is ok, but I do absolutely love her makeup. Taking notes as an asian.

>>9375464
i like the spider+flower concept but not all necklace chains work as headwear.

also thanks for dumping new posts

>>9375382
She looks fine

>>9375470
Not defending fetish stuff either. Also, I don't take part in it anymore and am discussing it anonymously. Not like I go on normiebook posting pictures of myself using cheap ebay poseur fetish wear.
I do know people in real life who are open about their fetishes however. But I was merely using them as an example, not to defend their honor or whatever.

I really hate the whole "you must be defending the thing we don't like" mentality all the boring trolls here have. Come up with something else already.

>>9375446
If it's a popular, widely-known fetish item being worn in a picture she's posting for public viewing, of course people will associate it with the fetish and comment on that fact, and it shouldn't be a shock that it is a distracting feature of a coord.

The part I quoted from you was just completely absurd in any context. I think you are going loopy trying to argue with multiple anons at once and chalking all these different people chiming in up to "durr cof threads cherrypicking hurr". (For the record, this is my 2nd reply to you.) Maybe everyone should just move on and let you rest.

>>9375450
The shawl and her weird double-chinned hunchbacked mouthbreather pose is not helping the grandma kei look here.

>>9375459
It's not exactly an offensive looking coord but this photo sucks balls.

>>9375474
Oh, you're welcome, i love to see what its okay and whats isnt, that's why i keep dumping pics

>>9374623
She needs a petticoat if she's calling this lolita.

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>>9375479
Please don't act like typing stuff into a box is serious or tiring for someone. Especially not me. Yes people are agitated but now it's like you're exaggerating the reactions.

And sorry but taking a comment from another reply and ignoring the rest of the statement is cherry picking. Yes I know how the reply function works, but you guys weren't just trying to reply to something. You looked for keywords in a post to isolate and then replied to that alone and people threw in stuff like "defending" to drive home their point even though I was never defending anyone. The reason I said cherry picking is because that's what it came off as.

And yes, not every anon is the same person. I know.

Sage cause now it's OT.

>>9374909
The definition of disgusting

>>9375475
My point exactly. She doesn't warrant any kind of fucking comment.

>>9375336
OP here. I'll be looking for a blouse with more fitted arms, thanks for the suggestion.

>>9375382
no.
instead of looking petite and slender like she obviously is, her outfit is kind of off balance and it makes her look like a bit of a caricature.
it's a minor crit though and i still think she looks lovely.

>>9375491
You seem to think that your past experiences with a fashion item should divorce it from the reputation it has now. The context of the item is that most people associate it with DDLG, I'm sorry this offends your oldfag BDSM sensibilities, but that's how things are now.

>>9375536
>The context of the item is that most people associate it with DDLG
Does that make it any less phoney and poseur like? no.

>I'm sorry this offends your oldfag BDSM sensibilities, but that's how things are now.
Already said I don't have any.

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>>9375518
>instead of looking petite and slender like she obviously is, her outfit is kind of off balance and it makes her look like a bit of a caricature.
Looks slender and fine to me.

Fucking capelets. Doing what they're supposed to.

>>9375536
can you stop picking on the autist and also not associate her with BDSM oldfags

it's just mean to everyone involved

>>9375555
>picking on the autist
I bet you think you're hilarious.

>>9374622
She looks cute here but why the fuck is she wearing the dress when its up for sale.

>>9375578
Why are people so enraged by this?
Are you guys worried she's not gonna wash it before shipping it out?

>>9374009
This is fucking gross looking. Like infant shit.

>>9374018
Looks like a well styled PT

>>9374625
This skirt is gorgeous! Even if she isn't the prettiest thing, she almost always has the best coords! This is probably my favorite I've seen from her!

>>9375555
NICE QUADS

>>9375639
>Even if she isn't the prettiest thing
Are you being passive-aggressive? your comment seems like an excuse to say that you find her ugly.

>>9375703
That isn't what I meant at all. Lots of girls get their coords ripped to shreds only for the fact that they are average looking. If anything for me personally, I think it's her chin area-the way she smiles close mouthed all the time it makes her/her photos look really awkward. I've never bought from her shop unfortunately. Any time she releases something I want I never have money and when I have a thousand or so to blow she never uploads anything that I could add to my wardrobe so I blow it on Japanese brand instead.

>>9375391
except they're using emoticons and nobody but the OP would defend a garbage coordinate so hard

sorry you got posted

>>9375627
What is sweet lolita

>>9375464
A headpiece that OTT makes no sense in such a casual coord.

>>9375708
Oh god, this.

I can't smile in photos. It's like I forget how. I hated photography growing up for reasons and now I get anxious as fuck if I'm within 10 feet of a camera lens. Not so much with phones.

I also have fucking lily white skin and in good lighting my face loses all depth and detail because I become a fucking glowworm.

Subsequently I look like shit in 90% of photos taken of me. I worry that if I post my face the way some of these girls do, I will get treated this way. :c

>>9375832
On the off chance this is actually the person in the photo:
You look fine. Ignore the anon, they're just nitpicking stupid shit.

>>9375450
She achieved her goal then. On the post she said she was going for an old lady vibe with this outfit.

>>9375893
Not me, I don't put my face where people can see it. But I feel for her. TY anon.

>>9375620
The condition between the time of listing and the time of sale can easily change because the owner is continuing to use the product.

Not saying she won't but many girls don't wash their dresses.

>>9375711
>sorry you got posted
but that's wishful thinking on your part.

>>9375922
please keep on defending yourself/"your friend"

it just makes her look worse honestly

>>9375920
>The condition between the time of listing and the time of sale can easily change because the owner is continuing to use the product.
This is true and I usually don't pay attention to the posts that go with photos on CoF but I went and looked up her post and she doesn't say she wore it to a meet or anything. I feel like if you just want to coord it one last time and take pictures, it should be okay as long as you wash, make sure it's intact, etc. And if for some reason in your room where you try it on again something tears or whatever, just let the buyer know what happened.

Unless there's hard evidence of her fucking someone over by doing this, why is it being discussed? Because it MIGHT happen?
Let's all just live hypothetical land, why don't we?

>>9375754
Sorry you coord with all the colors of baby excrement
Xoxo
2011 ott sweet Lolita

>Even if the colors were different, the coord itself is mediocre at best

>>9375923
I don't even know what the original comment was. I just jumped in because I'm tired of this fucking bullshit meme. It is so rarely the case that the person in the photo is actually here responding. Unless it says something other than anon or there are pictures, you don't know shit and are making assumptions.

But go on. Keep saying I'm who ever this person is. The more you say it the more true it will be right?

I should just post about how I have a million dollars and own 100 brand dresses because if I keep telling everyone, it'll be real, right?

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>>9375934

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That's it. I'm about to lose my shit. If I see another post from this girl I'm personally messaging the mods about her.

>>9375937
What's with the recent influx of one lolita outfits being posted on COF?

>>9375939
None lolita**
Jeez

>>9375435
>people i know from fetlife

get the fuck outta here you nasty

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>>9375935
All you have to respond with is an image macro that's been reposted about a million times?

Doing a dump now because I took a break from cgl for a month and there are still the same responses when I return.
You don't even have to tell cgl "never change" cause they fucking won't.

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>>9375943

>>9375941
>degenerate meme

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>>9375073
>Your weight doesn't determinate how good you're into Lolita.
Keep telling yourself that, honey

>>9375934

>>9375448

>>9375450
shes so cute

>>9375501
Sorry that wasn't meant for you but for the anon who said she looked too skinny, I'm stupid.

>>9375950
She's so fat

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>photo taken as part if that vice shoot
Good God. Burn this coord.

>>9375988
>this is what represents our community

>>9375988
This is so bad looking, and of course it's chosen for a photoshoot. Why is it so hard for these people to pick good looking coords that actually represent the fashion?

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>>9375988
Classy

>>9375988
SJW kei

>>9375997
Because they're picking the ones that look crazy on purpose. They don't want to portray us accurately, they want to make us look like freaks.

>>9375997

>>9376010 is right. Just look at the My Strange Addiction "Living Doll" episode. Emily makes us look like fucking psychopaths.

>>9375948
Anonymous claims are still not proof.

>>9375946
That wig heavily distracts from the coord. It looks so plastic and those blunt bangs were obviously cut straight across. Otherwise I like what I can see of the coord.

>>9376110
On the left it looks fine, then on the right she loses the glasses and it looks terrible.

>>9375988
I want the skirt but it's not put together well at all :c

>>9375461
...is that a necklace made out of a lamp crystal and giftwrapping ribbon?

>>9374826
The coord is fine, they were talking about the girl though, not the coord

>>9375464
I don't think this is working; I mean, the headpiece doesn't make sense with the rest of the outfit (and it's a shame because I like it); it's like an OTT punk but not well done.
Maybe without the ribbon and another legwear/shoes would look better in my humble opinion. But I see her idea and it could look good with some more work.

>>9375310
like she clearly knows the silhouette, but the colorblocking/colorway here is just too bold, would like to see other coords from her that print + colorwise work better for lolita

>>9375450
or just looks more cpk x lolita

>>9375461
ahh one of my fave dresses but not adoring this coord ... hmmm maybe its the white boots that are throwing me off. needs moar gold

>>9375487
seems more otome which is fine, she looks good overall but yeah needs poof

>>9375937
aw honey no... more poof and NEVER TINY HATS NO NO NO

>>9375943
why the horrified face??

>>9376141
I think it is. I've done similar stuff when I know I'll only want an accessory for a one time coord so I'm not gonna judge.

>>9375347
solid neutrals are fine.
but bright colors like red or blue are usually really jarring and command attention to the legs. even if you've got great gams, it'll overwhelm the rest of your coordinate.
the one thing that can help mitigate the effect is layering some white or black lace/crochet tights over them so the color isn't as solid tho

>>9375402
when everyone itt can agree 'you're doing something wrong here', then yes, meekly bowing your head and acknowledging that you might have fucked up is usually the best way to go. responding defensively or aggressively will just make you look like oversensitive. come on, man, lolita is a weird, niche fashion. you have to have a thicker skin than this. if this is how she responds to her peers, what is she going to do if/when she gets harassed by normies? learning how to take criticism gracefully (or at least shrug it off like 'well that is your opinion') is pretty vital if you're going to go out dressed in any alternative style. plus, the online community is pretty small, so people remember it when girls throw a shitfit over hearing that their outfit looks bad. even if you're not the girl in the picture, defending her by calling seagulls salty or elitist will immediately make people suspect that she's samefagging because butthurt. overall, it's better just to put up with it.

>>9376022
from what i heard she's gotten surgery and is doing cosplay/fetish modelling.
not to say that she wasn't cringy af at the time but you know how tlc takes shit out of context so that it sounds absolutely batshit insane.

>>9376126
Either way, not a good look. The glasses hide how horrid the blunt edge is on the bangs. But it still has the sheen of plastic.

>>9375953
yeah but shes actually working on fixing it and her progress has been so fast, this is coming from a skelly chan who hates fatties

>>9376452
Girl in pic here, you guys caught me. I rarely wear wigs and I probably won't be going back to it. Thanks for the confirmation anyway.

>>9373845
>stark white with cream/ivory

REEEEEEEEEEEE

>>9376548
Maybe just invest in better wigs if you do go that route. But I tend to prefer natural hair with hairpieces if you need more volume. Your coordinate is pretty nice though. Maybe next time try better lighting as it is difficult to see (all black problems). Keep at it though anon, you still look cute.

>>9373991
Wtf is going on with her hairline? Is the wig just too far back or something?

>>9375283
Tracy Ullman wears lolita now?

>>9376586
i think it's the dark roots of her hair starting to show? idk who that girl is but if that's not her real hair, she needs to take better care of that wig.

>>9375930
>someone disgrees with me
>must be the person in the pic

What are opinions

>>9375947
Great b8 m8.

>>9376605
Here for the Tracy Ulman jokes

>>9375639
whoa, I totally disagree.
she's a woodland goddess imo
I get that we all have different preferences but I couldn't abide you implying she *isn't* pretty.

>>9376850
oh man are you that girl with the super irritating face who insists on wearing salopettes that don't fit? Literally nobody else in COF says 'm8'

>>9377185
Are you actually serious? You need to lurk more. That's like when someone said Voldie was the only one who used :^)

>>9377219
It's pretty logical considering she obviously goes on cgl
And yes, she's the only Lolita I've seen that uses that annoying as fuck abbreviation

>>9377185
I have never worn a salopette in my life, dear anon. I think they're real fucking ugly m8.

>>9377227
>when newfags think they know who everyone on cgl is
I'm sure that voldie is not the ~*~only lolita ever in the whole world DESU~*~ who has used :^)

>>9375940
None Lolita Left Beef

>>9377243
I think it's more autists than newfags though.

>>9377185
gr8 b8 m8 i r8 it 8/8

>>9376414
>if this is how she responds to her peers, what is she going to do if/when she gets harassed by normies?
Not the person in question but I have no problem wearing lolita with normies or out in public as in I don't get flack for it in person ever.

Online though. Hell yeah cgl has tried to eat me alive. Did it do anything? No. Did it help me improve? Nope, I had to leave and look at inspo photos. That's how I improved. Not by listening to anons giving their harshest "best" critique or people that just clearly wanted to argue with me cause they felt like they "caught a live one!" So the only thing you guys can take credit for is driving people to other sources. You yourselves aren't great and literally NEVER have anything new to say.

>when everyone itt can agree 'you're doing something wrong here'
And how can you tell when a stranger online isn't just jumping on a bandwagon? Because you just know the fashion so well? Nothing can ever be different or a little off skew because we only strive for unrealistic perfection?

I get that part of the hobby is living in some kind of fantasy world but this place is out of control with the amount of delusion some of you have.

Like that one anon in another thread who did not even reply to anyone but the tone of their reply was that they were talking to someone, and they used words like "you did this" as if they were just hoping the person would happen to come across it.

Every time I have taken a break from cgl, I always come back to the same shit. And every time I leave - I never see any of the snark that's here. All the snark is here and is contained here. BTB is like cgl2electricboogaloo.

And can I just say that this place reminds me of all those old anon comms on livejournal before tumblr showed up. Just a ton of assholes who can say whatever they want because the worst possible outcome is a ban.

>>9376605
>>9377055
>>9375283
Also here for Tracey Ullman jokes.

>>9377335
oh my god, you are so flustered by the idea that if 99% of the population tells you 'this looks bad' it's because it actually looks bad
not because they're ALL damaged people who are 'just jumping on the bandwagon' or 'striving for unrealistic perfection'
wtf is this projection

/cgl/ is actually a really great source, though, if you can get over your ego long enough to make the most of it.
as long as you're not straight-up begging to be spoonfed (or throwing a tantrum because someone tells you your outfit isn't the most kawaii desu~) then generally gulls can be counted on to be honest and straight-forward, since nobody gets brownie points for doling out the compliments. and yeah, the criticism is way harsher than any you'll receive in a setting where someone's identity is associated with their opinion, but trust me when i say this is nowhere near as bad as /cgl/ used to be pre-moot-crackdown, so your reasons for outrage sound real petty rn. fetish-collar-chan would have been roasted alive in the olden days.
maybe just stick to resource threads if you hate this kind of thing so much, but don't tar and feather the whole board because you've had bad experiences before.
protip: making these kind of sweeping generalizations about how we're all bitches only makes people want to bait you further because you're coming across as kind of hysterical and oversensitive rn u dig?

>>9377712
>oh my god, you are so flustered by the idea that if 99% of the population tells you 'this looks bad' it's because it actually looks bad
Agree with the rest of what you said (collar-chan is being creepy as fuck), but surely by this logic all lolitas look bad? 99% of the population thinks lolita looks fucking weird.

>>9375993
Im gonna cringe so hard when that Vice documentary comes out...

>>9377909
You can dress 'weird' and still look good. Like goths. Cybergoth in general looks doofy af to me, but I respect the people who work at it to make a cool outfit.
But if you're inexperienced, and even the people within your niche substyle are being critical, swallowing your pride and taking some advice isn't a bad way to go.

>>9377712
>projection
No, I said that because I've seen it. People do stuff like that all the time. One of my co-workers was talking about how he hates google and then some other guy was like, oh yeah, I hate them too! I know for a fact that the guy who chimed in uses chrome. He's a retard that just wanted to join in. The same kind of shit happens here.

One person has a legit opinion. Everyone else leaches off.

Also, I am not the kind of person to just think "oh it must be because everyone says so". If I was I wouldn't be so hesitant to watch whatever movie is being touted by everyone as the most amazing thing at the moment. Just because everyone says something doesn't make it so. Which is the part of cgl I have an issue with.
>>9376414 This person says so themselves with
>when everyone itt can agree 'you're doing something wrong here', then yes, meekly bowing your head and acknowledging that you might have fucked up

That is the cgl way. That is why I make the sweeping generalizations. Because it is so consistent. If there was actually a change in format around here, there wouldn't be a fucking hivemind presence.

Because I had some bad experiences?
Well I'm still here. Sounds like my skin is thick enough to come back. Just because someone is responding or has something to say doesn't mean they are defeated. Why do you guys think that way? And yes. More than one of you thinks that way.

I always see all this talk about how the olden days were much worse. Maybe? Livejournal was pretty much on par though. Especially with their anon comms.

Can we please stop with the "you're just being hysterical/you need to calm down" shit too? It's a discussion/image board. I am discussing things. Do not attach some made up tone to my posts because you are reading them a certain way in your head. Read them in a calm, hey, we're just talkin here tone. Because that's what I'm doing. I am not hysterical or upset or whatever other emotion you are trying to project on to me.

>>9378601
damn, you really are batshit
>only one person has an opinion and the rest of you are just sheeple!!
except for you, right? you're the one person who's actually ~*true to themselves*~ in this whole wide world. yeah, ok.
look, when people are not anonymous, sure, maybe they agree with the people they want to suck up to on the basis that they want to win their approval or be accepted into their peer group or whatever. that simply doesn't happen on anonymous forums. there's no reason to make a post unless it's what you actually believe...or because you're trolling.
so yeah, when a group of individuals who usually don't know each other and for whom there is no 'payoff' to align their opinons alongside one another, they all reach a consensus on a subject, that should be reason enough for you to take their opinions into account. i can't believe that i actually have to explain this to you. cognitive dissonance is a real struggle, huh?

>>9378601
omfg
>i always see all this talk about how the olden days were much worse. maybe?

considering how /cgl/ was constantly actively stalking cosplayers and lolitas, shitposting was rampant, we were riddled by trolls, and do you even see anything remotely resembling a pixyteri thread on the first page? yes, we have changed. lolita secrets was just cgl on lj.

> "Hell yeah cgl has tried to eat me alive. Did it do anything? No. Did it help me improve? Nope, I had to leave and look at inspo photos. That's how I improved."
and yet you keep coming back to this cesspool of degeneracy