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My new boyfriend is annoyed with me and wants me to stop cosplaying. Says it is "slutty" after looking at my plans for cosplaying someone from the new Tales game, said he's surprised there isn't more rape at conventions and that the girls who go to such places are a "bad influence".

What do?
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Tell him that you'll quit cosplay if he will quit a hobby of his.
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Dump his ass.
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>>9336104
"Bad influence"?
Is he your bf or you dad?
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Your boyfriend is an insecure manlet and you can do so much better. Dump him.
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Cosplays increasingly bad reputation among men is entirely deserved.

You will not find a hobby more chock full of daddy issues than cosplay. Kinda sad really if you're still doing it in your 20s lol.
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Congrats on your third parental figure, op
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It's literally dressing up as cartoons, you dicklet
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>>9336119
Whoops, meant to quote >>9336115
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>>9336119
>dicklet
>admitting you are a size queen

Smooth.
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>>9336104
>dating someone who won't at least try to like what you like

Dump him and never look back.
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Because if you see a girl in lingerie is probably because it's in a intimate situation and doesn't have that much confidence with you while in cosplay she's 100% aware what she's wearing and chooses to look like that.

Why not walk around in boxers anon, what's the matter, you go swimming in speedos, in the same thing.

what size is your trenchcoat? XXL?
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>>9336124
Sheesh, what's with quoting tonight, shit doesn't work.
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>>9336128
>what size is your trenchcoat? XXL?

What's the joke here?

I'm missing it.

>Why not walk around in boxers anon, what's the matter, you go swimming in speedos, in the same thing.

Uh, I'll happily take pictures with just my boxers on - It's not a big deal to me.

Maybe Yoko is in fact dressed like a complete whore, and you are dressing like a complete whore when you dress up as her?
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Taking consensual lingerie pics or sexy cosplay pics isn't the same of walking around in skimpy clothing.

Choosing isn't the same as being forced, really, I don't know how can you miss this.

>What's the joke here? I'm missing it.

Boy
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>>9336136
All I'm saying is that men have an image of you girls as promiscuous because usually it's true. There's a reason porn recruiters hit comic con and other cons hard, you girls tend to be quite... slutty.
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>>9336124
Dude are you by any chance a "nice guy"?
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>>9336144
No. I'm an asshole.
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>>9336142
I would lie if I say that cosplay sluts don't exist but anon, it's the other way around.
Porn actresses took cosplay and made porn out of it.
Please go to a con, don't stop at those "sexy supergirl" ads you see on pornhub.
You've just seen "slutty" cosplay and never bothered to look more? That would explain a lot.
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Get yourself a guy who cosplays with you instead of trying to tell you what to do with your life.
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>>9336104
This is written in a way that really makes me not believe that your boyfriend said this but you're just a dude trying to stir the pot.
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If your bf is trying control you he shouldn't be your bf.

Chances are he's just paranoid about you being promiscuous at cons. If you love him, you should sit down with him and have a talk, maybe reassure him that you aren't cheating but also hold him accountable for trying to butt into your life and tell you what you should and shouldn't do. If you don't love him, you should break up with him.
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I'll take "what is a trusting boyfriend" for $200
Because you need one, OP.
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>>9336104
dump him
there are plenty of guys who will find your cosplay sexy not slutty
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your bf is an ass. dump him ASAP
just do what you love and don't listen to anybody
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Try talking to him if u want but honestly just break up with him you deserve better.
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>>9336104
the key word here is new. get rid of him immediately. with that sort of rude start, who knows what other shit he has lurking in his head.
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>>9336104
OP, I agree with those "dump him" but
You've never talked with him about cosplay? Or just knew each other barely and go together?
That's a no-no.
Before any relationship, you should check what others think about what's important to you and if your ideas clash then it's no ground for a relationship.
If he didn't agree you to cosplay, you must have thought about it before the relationship
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>Gurenteed replies the thread

For real though, don't know what to tell you. Tell him to drop a hobby of his, work with him if you think you can.

How important is he to your life? Is he angry about it?

Do whatever you have to at the end of the day. On one hand, I can see where his concern comes from but again, it's your life.
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OP here.

His hobbies are all pretty normal stuff. He's into astronomy for example, I'm not sure how I could ask him to drop something like that because he'd just say it's not the same thing - that it's not explicitly sexual/pornographic in the same way cosplay is.
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>most cosplay girls are megasluts who get off on the attention and idea of being fawned over
>dump him!!!!! He's completely off base!!!!
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>>9336187
>it's not explicitly sexual/pornographic in the same way cosplay is.

Ok, you're definitely a dude.
7/10, nice bait.
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>>9336189

More like dump him, because he is being controlling and not bothering to trust you or accept your hobbies.
It isn't because he's implying you want to be a slut.
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>>9336192
His words, not mine.
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>>9336187

You're the same guy who has been posting about how it's slutty to cosplay.
B8'd by OP, I'm out.
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Sounds like a controlling shithead. Especially the rape thing. If you like cosplay that much, he has no right to take away your hobby, op.
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>>9336189
Most =/= All
And I personally believe that OP respects his bf to not to get guests in her hotel con room.
But like
If I dressed in the Horo furcoat outfit and my bf said to me "You're slutty! It's porn!" I'll kick him in the manliness and ask him if he's blind
Good thing he isn't a dickhead
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>>9336197
He's completely normal and passive in every other regard except this. Cosplay is some red line to him.

Oh, and funny pic. He doesn't like cats, that's another minor gripe of his as I took my two to live with him when we moved in together. 3
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>>9336195
Sorry then, misunderstood.
Then he's a chaddy dude, not really worth it.
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>>9336104
Sorry, but why is everyone ignoring the "he's surprised there isn't more rape" part?

Seriously, get rid. If he thinks that people are raped on what they're dressed as, then he's got more issues than just not liking cosplay.
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>>9336206
He meant it more in regards to other guys not being able to control themselves, he was genuinely surprised that there's not more rape given all the temptation.
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>>9336207
Ask him if he ever went to a con because in years of cons, the only guys I've ever met (even at Lucca, to give you an idea of how many people) were sweat neckbeards afraid of touching me.
Normie chads who fuck everything that breathes don't go to cons
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>>9336104
Dump him
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Dump him and get a cute cosplay gf instead
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Wow. Blaming rape on cosplay, that's a whole new level of awful. Cosplay Kill la Kill and watch him have an aneurism.

For real though, this guy sounds like bad news for more than just not liking your hobby.
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>>9336229
Dress however you want, just don't complain about rape.
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>>9336212
this
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>all this whining about rape
>almost all of you fantasize about it regularly

stay classy femanons.
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>>9336235
That is extremely fucked up, anon
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>>9336235
Yes, because the people that are whining about rape are the same people that fantasize about it and just not different posters.
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>>9336150
this

the thread is dickfunk and as usual, gulls gobble it up.
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>>9336104
how many men from conventions have you slept with?
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>>9336235
Pin point on this thread where someone says "Omg I totally fantasize about violence!"

Imo, a girl doesn't have to fantasize about rape when she can ask consensually to her bf :3
Stay classy, from your mom basement
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>>9336231
So you admit you're a fucking ape that can't keep his penis in their pants?
That's why nobody loves you, anon.
You're just like those black people who steal because "It was there"
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>>9336251
>"Omg I totally fantasize about violence!"

You're either lying or sheltered because violence is a huge part of rape fantasies for a lot of women with rape fantasies.
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>>9336201
>>9336187
wait so you guys are living together and dating. And he didn't know about you cosplaying until recently?
if you want to stay with him that bad then cosplay someone with less boobies showing. Idk what to tell you but it's weird that you moved in with someone without him knowing your hobbies
Also fuck him not liking cats baka.
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Try to reason with him.
If it doesn't work, dump him.

Girlfriend or boyfriend, cosplay or other. Don't give up something you enjoy because of someone else's opinion on it.
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I have a vagina and a healthy sex life.
I don't have those pleb sexual kinks, anon, it's your male brain that thinks so, so you can feel less guilty about rape.

If that's not consensual, in any form, you're still going to be put up on a sexual offender register and maybe some years in jail, you have no luck.
If you can't find a girl in other way over than rape I believe that you're the problem, not cosplay.
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>>9336255

Women who got raped for realsies generally don't have it as a fantasy, though.
Just a horrible nightmare.
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>>9336278
Women have orgasms from rape dude.
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>>9336282
That isn't necessarily true, bro.
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Sage this fucking atrocity of a thread
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>>9336282

>implying women always get off from penetration alone
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>>9336282
guys get erect when they're raped in the ass, doesn't mean they liked being raped
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>>9336104
I don't know why you needed a whole thread for people to tell you that your boyfriend's shitty. Obviously you already knew that are you wouldn't have made the thread in the first place
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>>9336282
Lets play a rousing game of "spot the virgin with the penis"
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Well done OP, bait worked tremendously.
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>>9336282
Orgasm is just a body function
You'll shoot your load even if it was your uncle who was touching your dick

>It's an "america fails its students once again" episode
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>>9336217
This
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>>9336295
Bullshit.

>>9336301
Haha. Absolutely bullshit. Face-saving bullshit.
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>>9336307
saging, but this bait is just too fucking good to ignore

you got a good kek out of me anon
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>>9336307
Aw sweetie
You're such an uneducated little boy, it's adorable

Don't worry
Don't girl will slip a pinkie up there someday
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>>9336307
>"I'll say bullshit to believe that girls who know their vagina functions are wrong"

What grade are you? 7th?
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>>9336313
I'm gonna laugh when he learns how dicks and asses really work
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>>9336266
>I have a vagina and a healthy sex life.
Whoa! tmi friend!
nice dubs.
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>>9336307
the sad part is, even if this is bait, most guys really believe this
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>>9336311
>>9336312
>>9336313
If it's involuntary women wouldn't have such problems cumming from normal consensual penetrative sex.

But when some guy rapes them, woah, suddenly they're gushing all over the place.
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>>9336104
>he's surprised there isn't more rape at conventions and that
Your bf sounds like a rapist.
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kill him
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You've never touched a girl, we already know that.

You still have to learn the difference between consensual and no consensual.
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>>9336320
wen will women stop trickking us!
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>>9336104
>he's surprised there isn't more rape at conventions
Makes you wonder how he came to that conclusion other than the honest.."anime convention? I've never been to one, sounds interesting if you are doing it :D".

>Perhaps he was one of "those" guys and just doesn't want to be seen or reminded of his evil past. >:S
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>>9336324
>>9336325
Why are cosplayers so promiscuous?
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>>9336320

Actually, a lot of women don't reach climax through penetration/penetration alone.
So yes, they would have problems coming from normal consensual penetrative sex.
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>>9336320

Don't worry though, you'll learn all about this in high school.
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>>9336330
>>9336331
see
>>9336329

Cosplayers are promiscuous. Change your behavior and we'll stop mocking you.
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>>9336332

You're quoting the wrong person
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>>9336332
>>9336335
when anonymous message boards get difficult to follow
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>>9336329

t. never slept with a cosplayer but on the internet they say so
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>>9336338
Girls who dress like Yoko do not have less than 5 sexual partners.
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Is this thread real?
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>>9336342
Yoko isn't relevant from like 2010, anon, why are you obsessed with her.
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>>9336347

This.
I haven't seen a Yoko cosplay in person in years.
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>>9336125
Not that anon, but no shame in liking size. Why? You afraid you don't measure up?
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my boyfriend is like that too but we've been together too long and i love him too much for me to dump him over it and he won't budge on it so i just wear things that aren't revealing
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>>9336373
probs he believes the "it depends on how you use it! uwu" bullshit
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>>9336345
Underrated post
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I feel the same but low-key, I don't expect a female to be honest or to not eventually get eyes for someone else. I don't project it but in my mind I think it, and if it happens oh well I was expecting it all along.
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>>9336389
You don't look other girls?
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>>9336104
>My new boyfriend is annoyed with me and wants me to stop cosplaying
Dump him
>Says it is "slutty" after looking at my plans for cosplaying someone from the new Tales game, said he's surprised there isn't more rape at conventions and that the girls who go to such places are a "bad influence".
Dump him
>What do?
DUMP HIM
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>move in with boyfriend of six months
>notice he has full Nazi uniform in his closet
>hey I didn't know you were into cosplaying
>I'm not
>oh so you're into larping
>wtf is larping
Help me /cgl/. I might have made a terrible mistake.
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>>9336406
>move in with boyfriend of six months
>six months
lol
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>>9336406
ask him what word comes after sieg
if he immediately shouts heil and sticks his arm out straight, you may have a problem
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>>9336406
>Moving in in a six months relationship

You're truly helpless
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>>9336406
Get out of there as quickly as you can wtf is wrong with you gulls
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>>9336104
sounds like my mom
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>>9336406
>six months
Top kek, you deserve every swastika that befalls you
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>>9336406
Ask him to join "your" group of friends by himself to the movies
>watch Precious and say how u loved the story
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>>9336406
classic case of cross board relationship between /cgl/ and /k/.
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>>9336406
Did you never talk about your political stances before? Like seriously, get to know people before you decide to share your life!
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Seeing as this is the "make up stupid bait stories" thread,

My boyfriend of 3 1/2 weeks is very important to me but he says that I can't crossplay because he doesn't want to be seen as gay and he doesn't want me to talk to other cosplaying people because I might transfer their homo to him. What should I do guys?

pic related is me uwu
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>>9336104
Why did you get with such a normie to begin with? Your own fault t b h
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>>9336104
Why is he your boyfriend if you are fighting

Why is he so prejudiced and judging of cosplayers
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Most people dont want their pieces on display. That really is a beta thing. Alpha's dont need you to see the goods. They want to be serviced and they know they are a catch.
Most men dont want to build a life with a whore. Assure him that this is just for self-esteem.
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>>9336142
and? in an ideal world, how many girls would you fuck? you would be the whoriest whore if you could. don't lie.

I don't understand this double-standard. guys pretend sex is just loveless sex but are secretly looking for wifey all the time and disdain any female interested in possibly fucking others.
you either find a monogamous partner or just screw around, fucking choose one and deal with it.

because of trauma I've dealt with I uncontrollably go in and out of a basically asexual state. I wish I could express my sexuality with people more freely, without fear, and have fun.
we are human beings. it's also 2017; why are you still seeing promiscuity as a bad thing?

these fucking mixed messages everywhere! "hey, women: be sexy and attractive, but also don't be whooores. and have sex with me when I want it but maintain your virginity." how the fuqqq?

I'm really trying not to wonder if all slut-shamers harbour a rape fetish. I don't get not wanting a girl who has desires and who expresses them, but wanting one who is indifferent to or even against sexuality. you sound like you are afraid of feeling inferior, much like op's bf.
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>>9336187
Might be b8, but I'll respond anyway. If he's this upset over you cosplaying, imagine how he'll be with other, more important facets of your life? Not to mention, he's trying to take away something you genuinely enjoy, and it's obviously important since you frequent cgl. No good significant other would take away something you like just because of their inferiority complex and possessiveness. If you guys are just dating, and he's already like this, this is a red flag for, at the very least, a toxic relationship.
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>>9336104
your bf is a wuss.
instead of going with you to protect your experience and what you love he'd rather stay at home and get you to quit.
I hope you're not fucking him.
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>>9336540
>and? in an ideal world, how many girls would you fuck? you would be the whoriest whore if you could. don't lie.

Sh-shut up. I'm pure by choice....
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>>9336104
>said he's surprised there isn't more rape at conventions
you mean, there isn't already rape at cons?

anyway, I guess the easiest solution is, that you dump him, even tough, I can understand him somehow as a man (and yes, I am an hypocrite cause of that)
anyway, who do you plan cosplay anyway?
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>>9336406
maybe, he is just into militaria, doesn't usually means, he is also a Nazi...
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>>9336373
So you admit you're a slut who likes big dicks?
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>>9336540
>unironically using a current year argument

Man cgl is really tumblr.

And we dislike you for LTRs because you're untrustworthy.
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your boyfriend obviously has some insecurities. dump him now to avoid a bullet
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Why are 90% of posters on this board 100% retard?
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>>9336918
cause, we are on 4chan, after all...
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why we always gotta pretend that size doesn't matter to protect the feelings of fuccbois like this?
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>>9336940
Unfortunately that's something we just have to do in general. Men feel insecure about it so we just shut up or pretend to like dicks regardless of size.

Why can't we just admit that big dicks feel fucking amazing?
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>>9336977
Sucks to be you. My bf gets off on me fucking well hung men.
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>>9336863
No one wants to get with a dicklet, you delusional male specimen
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>>9337034
What about all the claims that size is unimportant?
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>>9337040
Those are just girls that feel sorry for you.
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>>9337043
You don't even know how big I am... Why the assumptions
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>>9337044
If you were actually "big" you wouldnt worry about it
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>>9337046
I am unironically over seven inches. It's just that porn dicks are fucking massive so they make us all feel insecure.
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So, 17cm
I never took anything below 20cm, maybe that's "big" in America. And sometimes, even 20cm wasnt that good.
Anyway, I have to say that lenght itself its not important.
Even if you have a 7inch dick but looks like a long noodle, you're not getting anywhere.
Must be well proportioned
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>>9337054
You have to be trolling me. Over 7 isn't big enough for you? Stop trolling gull. It's bullshit.
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>>9337076
Stop feeding the troll.

>never had less than 8 inches

yeah right.
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>>9337044
Because fuck you.
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>>9337096
Fug off bitch. You can't be satisfied by anyone normal.
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>>9337188
I'm sorry your penis is the size of one of those cocktail weiners. Blame your parents that you have no hope of pleasing a woman. Not me.
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>>9337076
Sorry if I just live in a country where the medium size is over 17cm, stay mad, ameridicklet.
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>>9337381
Bullshit. And I'm not American. I have a big dick by any standard.
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My dock is 12 inches long and I'm fucked over 9000 lolitas

Ask me anything
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I'm a gril and I'd really like to weigh in on this size thing.
everyone's vajay is different.A lot of girls enjoy the stretching feeling that a girthy dick offers, but hate lengthy dicks because pressure on the cervix hurts them a lot and ruins the moments.

I am one of the I guess rare ones who does not like to be stretched but I fucking lose my mind with some good cervical smashing. that sounds like a nightmare to a lot of girls I talk to about it so I've come to the conclusion that I'm just a minority?
anyway, to me size doesn't matter. I kind of prefer them with an average thickness and length.
I once loved a dude who was gigantor but he was really selfish and lazy with foreplay. I pretended to like it but I was sad and unsatisfied.
dick size doesn't matter--it's all about chemistry and attention to each other's bodies.

anyway, this board is like 75% lez so op is barking up the wrong tree.

>>9336867
"we" as in robots?
why do you generalize men and women? if you had a strong character you wouldn't absorb the sociopathic conspiracies at the 4chan buffet.
take some responsibility for your actions and lifestyle. you either haven't tried to become relationship material, thinking some mahou shoujo is going to find and wife you, or you are specifically only letting yourself go for fuccgurls.

quit complaining and be proactive. if you are a negative person you won't find healthy love.
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>>9337408
Lolitas are really into daddy/daughter stuff, which is kind of hot but they're a pain to deal with.
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>>9336109
then call him a cuck and dump him
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lmao this thread. If /r9k/ betas are coal then cosplay betas are diamond.

U mad that girls get more attention? Bad news lads that's how the world works. We're stronger/bigger, and they get to choose from more suitors. The sooner you accept this the happier you will be.
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>>9337403
>Not american
>measuring in inches

Sure, Jan
Stay mad, robot
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>>9336104

real shit id say you should still cosplay but don't cosplay to be an attention whore. cosplay as a true fan. don't do it for the pictures and attention do it to just show your love.

probably just have to assure him your not being an attention whore and dressing slutty to thrive off the attention of men who dont have sex or really talk to women.

just dont be a whore
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>>9336104

Bah, as a man married to a cosplayer and having tons of cosplay friends. Even though I don't cosplay I appreciate the fandom and effort she makes at it. Does she show skin? if it's required yeah... But trust me I don't worry. she likes it, I like it and at the end of the day as long as nobody grabs her ass, touches her or does otherwise stupid ass shit to her I don't get tossed out and we go home happy. Fuck your insecure man.
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>>9336104
This looks like a troll post, but dump him.
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