New Online Comm thread! Let's talk about the girl who is

who caught caps of the 15-y.o. pitching a fit to that indie brand owner about her $40 cutsew being "ridiculously expensive"

>>9149992
damn, I missed this too!

>>9149992
> $40 cutsew
Bitch, I've bought blouses from Western stores that were more expensive.

>>9150004
When the ita in your comm wants to buy a blouse for ~10 usd

>>9149978
Thank you for making this banner the OP pic, people in these threads always ask what RCU is

>>9149992
But a 40$ cutsew IS ridiculously expensive when said cutsew is basically a t shirt with a print on it. Let's be honest

>>9151770
It wasn't a print cutsew, it had a fancy collar.
And the thing is, even if you think something is too expensive, it's really rude to say that to the creator on their post. She can think that to herself and she is welcome to not buy it, but if that's all she has to say, what's the point?

>>9151777
I realize after typing that it sounds really defensive. I am not the designer who made that cutsew but I do make things I sell at cons etc. and "this is too expensive/I can make it myself" is just such a crappy thing to say to a person selling stuff they made.

>>9151770
Walk into a department store and you'll find $90 plain shirts. Look up James Perse. Look up Wildfox. Just because it's expensive for YOU doesn't mean it's overpriced.

>>9151770

There are more overpriced shirts. My bf just bought a bunch of plain t-shirts at banana republic for around that much. And this does not have 'just a logo' on it. It's a cutsew made for more formal lolita with a nice collar. You'd be hard pressed to find a good cutsew like that in any western store. Even Axes Femme tends to sell these types of cutsews for ~3500 yen at the cheapest, and they mass produce these with sometimes questionable lace.

>>9151770
Brand cutsews start at ¥10k new, regardless of how fancy they are, and every one I've encountered has been made in China. The ones from that indie brand are made in the USA, where manufacturing costs are much higher.

And for fuck's sake, if $40 is too much for you in lolita fashion, you're gonna have a bad time.

They let Frances into RC:U

>>9153524
Is that thread getting deleted? I could've swore I saw it go from 123 comments to 33...

>>9153558
Right now it's still there. My dumbass comments are still up too.

>>9153559
I can see it but the number keeps changing its crazy. Or maybe I'm just high out of my mind. The comments are only mildly funny though.

>>9152384
Nah, some are as cheap as 4000.

My problem with it is that it looked like a normal tshirt was bought and she added a handmade poorly done bat collar that didn't match it.

>>9153524
Does anybody here know this Frances outside of fb? How is she in real life

>>9154076
She's not a lolita so I doubt it. Not like she goes to meets or anything

>>9154076
It's highly unlikely, people are still debating on whether she's just an elaborate troll, and whether she's a woman or actually a sissy acting out a fantasy/fetish. It could even be some combination of all of the above: It's possible that Frances was an actual person (whether a woman or a sissy is again debatable) way back when on LJ and this current incarnation of her is a troll that picked up her act. Who knows?

>>9153524
She's been a member for 3 weeks now before posting
That makes me think its not a troll

>>9154287
sissy confirmed

>>9153562
Pretty normal to Fb nowadays. I guess it can't decide wether or not to count the replies in the total amount of comments.

>>9153690
Can you post it here? I'm not on fb but I'm curious.

>>9154281
Considering how much they go on about pantyhose and high heels, my vote is on sissy.

>>9154903
That makes sense.
What a shit site.

>>9153690
The whole thing, shirt and bat collar, are factory produced so I don't know what you're on about

Really nice girl in my comm. But sometimes she can't make it to events, and the reason will be because her parents won't let her. This time she said "I can't justify to my parents going to an event so soon after another one"
She's in her 20s
The previous event is a whole month earlier.
I don't understand how you can legally be an adult and still having to ask your parents to do things. And being told no because an entire month is way to soon to go and do anything else.

>>9155402
Well, does she work? Shes lives at her parents house?
No, yes? My house and money, my rules.
If you want to have your things, work for them.

>>9155433
Why are you assuming she doesn't work?

>>9155461
Why are you assuming she does?
I only gave an example of a reason some parents have.

>>9149992
You mean non lolita appropriate literal t-shirt with a bat collar? Who thought having tee sleeves was OK?

>>9155433
Still, not being allowed to leave the house? You have to admit that's weird that a grown woman isn't allowed to make the decision to leave the house to see friends for a few house more than once a month.

>>9155402
Why does it matter? Mind your own business.

>>9155518
I think anon's post was meant for this underage girls + parents thread.

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maybe I'm being a judgmental bitch but this person's pic just tells me that they'll look awful in any sort of j-fashion

>>9155513
Sounds like when I used to live with my dad. I was 20 and had a job. Her parents are just shitty.

>>9155562
Lol this bitch rage quit RC:U recently

>>9155402
This is my comm, are you new? Literally everyone knows about her situation....
she has health issues and has to live at home due to her circumstances (financial and health related) she also doesn't have a license. She literally can't leave her house unless her parents drive her to an event and given she lives all the way in the middle of nowhere, hardly anyone is willing to go pick her up.

>>9155562
>am I correct in this conclusion?

I already want to punch her in the throat

>>9155631
Damn, why do I always miss the fun? Any caps of that shit?

>>9156709
Her post should still be up

>>9157621
Do you know what post it was in by chance?

Frances posted a new thread in RC:U.

>>9158108
People are actually being assholes, gotta feel bad for the woman if she is real.

>>9158108
Caps?

>>9158173
Lolwut? No...

>>9158196
How are they not?

>>9158200
Probably no to she is real.
She used to be a real person, like a decade ago probably. The person posting now is a troll.

>>9158080
>search for 'I am an 38 y.o'

>>9158272
thanks, I thought she was in my comm but she's not.

>>9158173
>gotta feel bad for the woman if she is real
It's not, so.

>>9158200
I'm saying no to feeling bad for her if she is real. Big 'if' there though. If she is real and really believes the garbage she posts than she deserves the shit she gets.

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Yo Pennsylvania! Good luck with this girl.

>>9159409
Is she a troll or???

>>9159424
From her profile and post directly after this one, she seemed serious to me.

>>9159424
I don't think so. She kinda looks like one of those cringy overly stimulated weeb cows that try to make cosplayers kiss for their sick yaoi fantasy. I try and stay away from people with anime art as their icons and banners.

>>9159424

Unfortunately, she is not. If you look at her profile you can see that she is not trolling at all.

>>9159409
what in the absolute fuck is that thread
i am so confused lol

>>9159491
If someone has caps, she tried it again and failed horribly.

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Here's another post from her today. Pretty sure it's gone now. The comments were hilarious.

>>9159550
Names, anon. Come on now.

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>>9159554
Whoops, apologies

>>9159547
I'm more irritated she uses no punctuation. Everything is one fucking sentence connected by and.

>>9159562
This is so off-topic, but even if that girl that started lolita at 26 is good at it or not I feel happy, I just started now at 25.

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>>9159706
Same, 21 over here

We'll be lolita grannies together anon

>>9159911
>21
>Granny

>>9159911
Get out

>>9159547
wtf is sayuri/yume lolita, or rather wtf does she think it is?

>>9160353
I just googled "yume lolita" and the first result was a facebook page for "Sayuri Yume Lolita Sweet Dream Store".

It honest to god looks like a milanoo reseller.

>>9160365
Ah, well, I guess that person must've found that and assumed it was a type of lolita.

>>9160353
I don't even know what it is. But by her page and weeb posts, I think she things it's like magical girl sailor Lolita or some shit? You can love sailor moon and Lolita without having to come up with a name you saw once. Fandom Lolita is a thing, but when you're that hardcore weeb you won't make it work when you probably won't fork out more then 40 dollars for a dress.

>>9159547
It's almost impressive how wrong this is.

Why the fuck is it so difficult to post secrets on time? Then the mods wonder why it's losing popularity. What a joke.

>>9160353
Actually I think yume lolita is a real thing. I was fortunate enough to have it explained to me at Rufflecon by the Triple Fortune designers. It's the kind of OTT sweet or classic lolita that features a lot of longer silhouettes, lacy textures, props like crowns and scepters, wings, elaborate hairstyles or headpieces, so on and so forth.

>>9159706
I'm a 23 year old baby in my comm because most of my comm is around 30. Dont feel bad about your age.

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Is she intellectually disabled or ESL? This was kind of painful to read. Fun thread though.

>>9161457
So, OTT in a way that would be acceptable to put on a shoujo heroine in a publication like Hana to Yume?

>>9162442
She makes a lot of posts like this. Pretty annoying.

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>>9159558

I'm pretty sure her age was never an issue...

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Is this girl serious? 1000€ for Holy Lantern. I think she doesn't know that the market price has dropped hugely since the two MTO.

>>9163821

Having waded through her garbled message, she doesn't seem to be asking 1000euroes for it, rather she seems to be saying she paid 1000 euroes for first edition Holy Lantern, which would mean she bought it before the re-release and MTOs, which makes sense. Seems like she's asking for offers from buyers.

>>9163821
>I paid 1000 euros for the whole set
>I don't want 1000 euros back

Her phrasing is horrendous but jfc anon she outright said she wasn't asking 1000.
~~Reading comprehension~~

There's a girl in my local comm who's extremely annoying on FB. I understand why she was kicked from the last comm she was in

>>9160365
i just looked it up for myself. have to say anon, im really disappointed you didnt post caps of this lovely page for everyone to see.

>>9162974
Real talk tho, anyone have a source on the image? Obviously not lolita, but it's inspiring for general cute wear.

>>9161457
That sounds like hime

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>>9164516
It links to a 404 storenvy page. I tried reverse searching it in taobao bu to no avail. I'm guessing it's from taobao though. Here's the pic so you can reverse search it in your own time.

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>>9164673
This isn't even a "sailor moon version" of lolita like she claims, it's just like, a frilly Sailor Moon dress...

>>9164514
Neither did you! So pic related is the FB page.

>>9164359
I know this girl and she is asking 1000€ for it. She sells all her stuff for the same price that she paid for it. Oh and her English is just as worst as her Dutch is.

>>9164673
Thanks, anon!

>>9163821
>>9165135
>Belgium

Based on this sad attempt at English I doubt either her French/Dutch is very comprehensible either.

>>9165135
The BIN is 650 usd on lm..so no she isn't. At least fact check before lying.

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>I know, no personal posts

>>9167542
This is hysterical. Into Lolita enough to commit to wearing it for her wedding, but not enough to know where the fuck is appropriate to post a wtb, however desperate.

>>9167542
>I need two, because the original was to small anyway

So is she planning on buying two and Frankensteining them together to make a bigger one?

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>>9167542
>I don't want to ignore rules!

>>9167542
Came here to post this. This is the most pants-on-head retarded thing I've ever seen.

I refreshed my newsfeed and saw that she posted this in another sales group - if she's smart enough to post it in real sales groups I don't know why she's fucking dumb enough to post it in this group that has nothing to do with sales. She admits that she's ignoring one of the rules. WTF does she think is gonna happen? Does she think the mods are gonna make an exception for her because she's getting ~married~? I just want to know why people are so entitled.

Also, this is just tacky as fuck. I'm a believer in that people should be free to wear whatever they'd like to their own wedding but - and with all respect to Pumpkin Cat, it's a nice taobao brand - why would you want to wear a halloween taobao dress to your own wedding?

>>9167542
Lol.. which dress was it?

>>9167550
I'm batshit crazy about Halloween and even I wouldn't wear a halloween dress for my wedding. I hope she gets sick of Lolita like two months after her wedding and has to have those photos forever.

>>9167549
>I'm so shocked that you're all mad at me for blatantly disregarding the rules and admitting to that!

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>>9167548
I'm assuming that's her intention since she says she wants two and the original is too small.

>>9167550
Idk something about her post gives off the feeling that she's one of those people who are in the mid-to-late twenties and is still a weeb. I know a couple of weebs who are well into their 40's even and have kids.

>>9167552
See pic

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>>9167542
She is very special snowflake. I was trying to explain to my boyfriend how people can "look annoying" because he thought that I was just being a bitch. I'm going to show him this pic

>>9167557
That is a pretty great dress. Who the fuck wants a halloween wedding though? Like ~maybe~ if it was more classical-gothic-scary (think Adams Family) it could be pulled off, but this would just look tacky AF

>>9167542
I thought I saw her post in a sales group but I can't seem to find it. Maybe she got turned off by the horrible mean lawlituhz. One can only hope.

>>9167542
>getting married in a month
>waiting this long to get a dress or any alternative
Not the mention i doubt she coukd get two dresses that woukd arrive not only at the same time but the time it would take to alter it into fitting her.
And god she sounds annonying as fuck.

>>9167557
This dress is cute but for your wedding?? Really???

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So this just happened.
She clearly knows better, I should have known that she's been training since she was a baby.

>>9167620
>I have been a lolita since I was a child

The ita's mantra

>>9167620
"its lolita, its just not cupcake lolita (LOL wtf is cupcake lolita?) or victorian lolita or harajuku lolita".
What this bitch is trying to say is that it's nymphet.
They should just ban this stupid ita fom sales comms.

>>9167650
Yep, that's the ita mantra.

>>9167620
Bless you for numbering these otherwise I'd just think she was a rambling jumbled mess of ita and not make any sense of it.

>>9167662
I assume she just meant cupcake shaped but idk. Either way its hilarious.

>>9151770
Not unless you're an entitled poorfag. Don't want to buy it? Just skip past it, don't bitch about it being too expensive because the person wants some semblance of a profit off of it. It's not like she's trying to charge $400 for some basic black skirt made out of shitty costume fabric or something actually worth calling out.

>>9151777
Yeah, this mentality is why I'm scared to sell things I make. There are so many people who don't understand that they're not just paying for the materials, they're paying for the work you put into making the product. It's like... you do realize I'm not a slave in a sweatshop and I'm doing this to make money, right?

>>9167557
I need this dress in my life, but it would be an atrocious thing to wear to your wedding.

Are you guys reading that replica thread in RC:U

>>9170737
yep.

>>9170737
You mean more of richie rich's shit-stirring? He sure knows how to pick a controversial topic and then never contribute to it

>>9170804
what's weird is the thread was fading away into obscurity (it's like a month old) because everyone agreed it was in poor taste to post that replica request to RC and that was the end of it, but some butthurt poorfags decided to bump it and start that huge argument

>>9170806
You'd think after this many responses, the two morons that are arguing for replicas would bail out, but I guess they've just got to show the "meanie classist bullies" that they're right.

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I don't understand how this got past the mod.

>>9171641
If I wore that out in public I'd hide my face too.

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How in the he'll is this getting past lace market mods?

>>9172031
I went ahead and reported the listing. The mods will do something about it...eventually.

>>9164516
not sure if it's the original source, but here's a taobao shop selling it!
https://world.taobao.com/item/39576118428.htm?fromSite=main&spm=a1z10.5.w4002-935438349.56.lIrjM3

Anyone saw that girl in RC:UC boasting about the button and wrong lace?

>>9175949
Yeah, mixed feelings on that one. On one hand it probably was a genuine mistake on the sellers part and this is the risk that comes with buying secondhand. On the other hand, paying a lot of money for something and then finding out it's damaged or not as described is the worst feeling ever. Personally I think a partial refund should happen but only enough to get the button "professionally" fixed.

>>9175966
To be honest, it seemed like she was a vit too eager to get money back. It was a generic white AP blouse with not much wrong with it. Replace the thread in the button and it's in perfect condition. Honestly I doubt it was that expensive, her attitude towards the button kinda makes me assume that she is not used to brand pieces and their prices. I agree the seller should have mentioned about the button and even replaced it but it's not that big deal.

>>9175975
>This

Seemed like a noob who wasn't comfortable paying the price and was looking for ways to justify the cost. If she's smart she'll drop it and not make a huge deal out of it.

>>9175949
Yeah, I have a feeling that she was expecting different answers because she was leading the conversation in a certain direction

> I know that it was a factory default and that they are not at wrong, but I still feel that it should have been mentioned
>Yes, I agree that it's not her fault, however I've gotten a defective product. In my mind, it's the sellers responsibility to check the item for any faults before they ship it.
> I'm just afraid that since this fault was so obvious and they decided to not say anything, that they knew about the factory damage and overcharged me.

Kinda annoyed me that they decided to freeze the thread themselves after a while, this is still a chat group...

>>9175949
Yeah, I don't know what to think of it if honest.
I know what it feels like when something you buy doesn't come in the state it was labeled as but she needs to be more patient.
Why even make that thread?
Why not wait for a reply from the seller first.
Just because the seller read her pm and didn't reply right away doesn't mean they won't reply at all.
Maybe they only had the time to read and wanted to reply when they got home from work?
But I do think it's a bit neglecting of the seller not to state the button was reattached.
They might not have noticed the lace was sown on backwards though.
Why is the buyer stating it's not as good as new though?
Just because the button was reattached doesn't mean it was worn at all or worn a lot.
I think the best solution is that the buyer sends the blouse back and is refunded, since it appears she's never going to be satisfied anyway.
She seems bit too eager on a refund, I agree with >>9175975 on that.

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Girl in the sales comm posted a WTB for lolita dresses for her new job? Girl, just suck it up and buy some office clothes.

>>9176138
Hold up, she thinks she fits 86~89cm?
Lol no.

>>9176148
I hope that was a typo.

>>9176148
>>9176152
Waist?

>>9149978
I think some of the people who post on rufflechat often don't have friends. Things you would normally tell friends, they tell rufflechat. It's sad, and it's good to at least socialize online instead of not at all, so I don't hate them.

>>9176012
I think people shouldn't be allowed to freeze their own threads. It's kinda similar to deleting their own threads.

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She fucking did it again

>>9177006
Oh man it just gets better

>>9177006
How dumb do you have to be to make the same bad decision again and again like this?

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This chick is constantly spamming herself in a fb group I'm in. The group is for goddamn bird pictures.

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>>9177797

>>9176138
>picture for attention
damn she's blunt about it.

>>9177801
This is one of the worst outfits ive ever seen

>>9177006
She's apparently been trying to join literally every Facebook community even vaguely related to lolita just to post this and run - including regiona/local comms. Fucking annoying.

>>9178064
>including regiona/local comms.
Am admin of a few of these and can confirm. Luckily I checked out her other behaviours before adding her to the groups she requested to join.

>>9171641
This reads like an ita dress-up thread/gag post, holy fuck.

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Thought I'd share this gem with you guys

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>>9178587
>"JM STOLE MY GENERIC DESIGN!!!!11!one1!!"

>>9178589
How embarrassing. Reminds me of when that Violet Fane girl thought Alice and the Pirates stole her sooper yooneek detective print.

>>9178587
Did she at least design the fabric herself?

>>9178589
Anon pls, it's ETC that totally stole her design!

>>9178601
I mistyped lol. And I don't think she did as she didn't mention it in the post comments or on her Etsy.

Lol, did anyone see the gal who posted someone's handmade thing on Rufflechat? Was all 'ugly prints! this one is from taobao I think lol'

>>9178617
Caps? I can't into rufflechat

>>9178622
It was almost immediately deleted since it was 'an attack on a member'

>>9175949
Wait, what post are you talking about? Did she delete it?

>>9175975
I'm waiting for it to be revealed that the blouse was less than $50. She was definitely overreacting. No one would ever notice the backwards lace when it's worn.

>>9176358
If this is in RC:U then yes people shouldn't be allowed to freeze their posts, that's not much different from deleting it.
I don't know what post this is about but if you see people doing this please pm me (Victoria) because that's just getting around the intention behind the rule

>>9178644
maybe update the rules? cus the girl in question deleted it too.

>>9178673
What was her name? I unfortunately missed this. It hasn't come up as an issue before.

>>9178677
>Jenny Draco

>>9178587
>>9178589
She deleted the post because people called her out for being a whiny bitch. Welp there goes her reputation.

>>9154287
>nobody is buying your troll account, please stop trying to make this happen, it didn't happen years ago and it won't happen now and it was really not that amusing to anybody except (you)

>>9183570
The urgency of this scene was ruined because it made me think of cgl right when it happened

Wonderfuck and a few other crazies are piling on a girl on RC for saying that any hair style works as long as it's clean and neatly styled because of course OP is black so this statement is racist. Then they insist white girl's would not be told the same. Can we please get caps of white girls being told this? I'm mad. This race baiting bullying bullshit has to stop.

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This SJW on tumblr decided that Hello Battys ugly fetish necklace was worth "doxxing" her for

>Dont know which is funnier
>Hermaphrodite is a SLUR
>but futa is my fetish desu!

>>9184409
>when you aren't sure who's side to take because both are nasty people

>>9184409
I detest the sjws, but as a (former) lolita Batty should know how people clinging to a certain fetish/word are actually a nuisance.
It's like those porn blogs that insist on tagging kinky fashion as lolita fashion despite nymphet being a thing.

>>9184321
I think the most hilarious part is that 2 of the 3 people who said "as long as it's clean" are black.

>>9184409
I found the person who was messaging HB's url and their about is pretty amusing if you want to look. I don't like HB but I do love that cringy 16 year old lecturing her lmao

>sheisalreadyhere

>>9184321
I don't understand this because if anything it's white girls that are the most often guilty of wearing nasty greasy messy hair with their lolita

>>9184409
Futanaru isn't even trans women though? They really don't exist in nature if she's talking about the traditional ones (ball-less with vag). I can really relate to her as I love trap porn but trans women have jumped onto that word thinking it means them but actually 2D traps are just cute crossdressing boys. I just gave up defending the word as it was pointless.

She probably should just keep to herself about her fetishes though.

>>9184487
I'm debating whether or not to point that out.

>>9184505
If you're black do it. If you're white though, you'll be next in the racist dog pile for daring to point that out.

>>9184516
I'm biracial. Is it worth the risk of being called out for priviledge?

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>I'm a 16 y/o with too much free time. Genderfluid, fae/faer/faer/faers/faerself OR them/they/theirs
Fucking what?
>gender stands somewhere between angel and fae-creature, and they are derived from the word “fae” as in fairy
Oh....okay...

>>9184521
Depends, do you look white? Though it would add another level of beautiful if they started shitting on you for being white and you pointed out that you're biracial. Depends on if you want to open that can of worms. They don't seem to hold grudges online so as soon as another perceived injustice comes along you'll be forgotten.

>>9184521
That was a really clear and concise comment without it sounding like a direct attack. Good job anon!

>>9184525
Also their FAQ said something about how people shouldn't bother them when they like something problematic. Hypocrite much?

>>9184528
Ironically that discussion made me remember that there were black specific groups out there that I could look to for hair inspo. I sent a pending request to join one before I scrolled down and saw the inevitable debate brewing. Not super related, just thought it was funny.

>>9184321
I've seen enough limp oily white girl hair in coords to know that that's not true

>>9184505
I considered saying something (also mixed race) but I I think several people look for things to take offence to. Dirty hair comments are usually directed at people with straight hair as it easily looks greasy so why end up having to discuss the oppression of POC and standard of beauty EVERYTIME an even remotely race related topic comes up. emporium

>>9184321
I like that the first person to call the girl in question out was white and blonde

>>9184321
I have seen white girls called out multiple times because their hair is flat, thin, greasy looking etc. Many of the girls weren't especially sayin black girls should make sure their hair is clean, it was more a general statement that any hairstyle can work if it's clean and nice, wheter the person wearing it is black or white. I also wonder how they think all white people are aware of the racist stereotypes related to africanamerican people. I live so far away in a society which has been very mildly informed about those and would have absolutely no idea what that kind of comment could refer. Of course that's not an excuse on everything but damn that just seems like a harmless general comment.

>>9176138
God I hate when people give their american dress size to try and find a dress that fits. Those measurements mean nothing.
also
>my husband gets paid saturday
That poor man, his paycheck he worked hard for going towards a most likely ita wardrobe.
And dat cleavage yikes. Everything about this is a disaster.

>>9184498
Fucking this. Fuck WF for saying white girls rarely get lectured about their hair hygiene. That's beyond false. White girls let their hair get so oily and nasty from not washing it. Maybe no one tells them about it to save face but their hair can get really dingy.

>>9184487
Please do. I'm ready to jump into the thread and I'm white. I'm sick and tired of wonderfuck being a racist cunt.

The girl with the Initals MB was also a massive fucking twat to that poor Korean girl. She always comes off like that though. Ending the conversation with "These discussions are important". No they aren't. Jumping on someone for an opinion or an obviously not racist comment is not important or making anything better. They are literally killing western society. We're going to rip ourselves into two separate groups again and it's really disappointing. That and all of these events that are suddenly popping up that are "PoC only please safe space UwU" holy hell if white people did that would there ever be an uproar.

>>9185426
It's like a game at this point. Call someone out for being "problematic", educate them with walls of text on why they are problematic, virtual high five the people who agree with you. It's uncalled for and unbearable. Trust me, I used to be part of it.

>>9185332
I love how that basically implies they currently have no money also. There are so many poor life choices here.

>>9185411
Wondercunt is a fucking stain on the entire community. How has she not been chased out, she's pulled so much horrible shit since the LJ days and everyone hates her

>>9185411
>>9185659
WF is so awful. I'm pretty sure she's still just around because she's from Sac which has a small comm of mostly itas who wear Taobao/Bodyline and WF has shit tons of brand so they look up to her even though she's ita as fuck. She also hosts most of their meets (iirc) because soccer mom wants to be ~lolita famous~ in San Fran instead.

>>9185464
I wish they would try to educate someone who could actually learn from it, though.

I hate having to "qualify" myself, but I teach in the hood at a very social justice-oriented school in a very liberal part of the United States. There is nothing that they're trying to tell me that I can't easily experience first hand from my students or confer with a peer about.

Meanwhile, people in other parts of the country still don't see a problem with lynching or the n-word and will continue to do so until someone sets them straight. We can argue semantics and cultural degradation all we want, but while they're arguing with someone who by and large is trying to support people like them, others still think it's okay to kill people because of the color of their skin. It's so infuriatingly counterproductive and pointless-- you're right, it feels much more like a game than an actual desire to address actual problems.

Please reply to my post!!!!
>>9184493

>>9185770
I want to see a wondercunt vs. soccermom fight. The dramu would be delicious.

>>9185815
I doubt that the kind of people who see no problem with murdering someone for the color of their skin would be convinced by these SJW types, though. Plus, WF and co. are internet tough guy bullies who get their jollies from lecturing people with weaker convictions than themselves online. Put one of them in a room with an actual racist and they wouldn't dare to say a word.

>>9186053
>>9185815
A conversation with an actual racist would take much more patience and effort. Too risky I guess. It's a lot easier to "call out" people who're already willing to listen to you and fear social recourse. Part of the reason slacktivism is so popular is because it gives a feeling of a accomplishment with minimal risk or effort. You've changed society for the better and all you had to do was pick apart a normal conversation to find something that could somehow be interpreted as problematic!
Not to mention fellow sjws who will cheer you on for trashing the poor sucker that unintentionally said something wrong.

>>9184321
The girl that started the debate got weirdly defensive by the end. Why? I thought she and WF decided that they won.

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What is this

>>9187500
Jar Jar Binks' niece, who is called Lolita and loves horses, has landed on Earth and figured out how to use Facebook but has not quite figured out that Lolita Updates is not actually about updates on her personal life.
>Idk man I got nothin'

>>9187500
This wouldn't even make to me if it was posted to her personal page.

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I swear this bitch asks the most inane questions and butchers the English language while doing so.

>>9187815
I wish V would PM her and ask her to take it to Rufflechat. This isn't really what RC:U is for.

>>9185815
Could you make it any more obvious who you are... You aren't hip nor hood nor cute and you'll never be.

>>9185815
Lmao do you miss your lolcow thread that much tim?

>>9159706
I started at 32. No regrets because I can afford it now.

>>9187836
Rc:u is for whatever the fuck people want it to be. That's why it was created. If you have an issue with her posting there, tell her yourself. Nobody is stopping you.

>>9187815
god I hate that too. Maybe it's due to her bad English, maybe it's due to some really weird way of thinking, but all her posts are so horrible to read and make next to no sense.

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Christ the thread in RC:U about kids' shows is a mess. It's basically adults getting super heated over cartoons.

>>9194592
link? i don't see it.

>>9194592
this looks like total gibberish to me. I only recognized L'arc~en~ciel and I am so confused how that is related to cartoons.

>>9194629
It's in the thread about Gwen Stefani and Nickelodeon's new show.

>>9194763
My interpretation is that she's trying to say that Hi Hi Puffy was just Puffy's two minutes of fame and that while Puffy and L'arc En Ciel were both featured in mainstream media, they never caught on.

>>9194592
You know what /co/ is, right?

>>9194889
/co/ is a board dedicated to cartoons though. Hi Hi Puffy Ami Yumi and upcoming cartoons have nothing to do with lolita. The particular Nick show that was being "discussed" just had the word Harajuku in the title and nothing was claimed as "lolita"/"lolita style".

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Shots fired. We all know who she's parodying right?

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No one cares about your Patreon, that's why .___.

>>9195144
This made me laugh really hard considering she adds anyone who posts on CoF frequently. I accepted her request because I think she's hilarious to watch.

>>9195144
Crikey, who is this?

>>9196015
blue hair aspie girl, her name escapes me at the moment

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>>9195115

>>9195115
That thread was pretty obnoxious but heh this post is hilarious.

>>9194592
Wtf is with this screenshot?

>>9194592
I love that some girl ragequit over this post lmao

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>>9195144
Exactly what I was thinking. Seriously, making a Patreon, without having some serious skills that people adore and will actually pay for, is a stupid idea by itself, but whining online that people are not interested in your shitty art and won't pay for you doing your hobby is really embarrassing.

>>9196500
What's wrong with it? It's wonky with the cropping but still readable.

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You're selling overpriced Bodyline shit on LM.

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Anyone else see this?

>>9195115
I'm not sure who she's parodying, can you enlighten me?

>>9197187
Different anon with only a basic understanding but it's some chick that claims she was born into lolita through her weeb parents and her nickname from a young age was Loli so this makes her Queen of Lolita with all her knowledge.

>>9196025
Minty or Mintyfrills.

>>9197435
Damn, I'll have to check the archives that sounds hilarious

>>9196849
It's still rude.

>>9197677
She's the one that was posted here for saying her mother abused her by washing her Misty Sky dress without her permission.

"You stole my coord" chick (secret #15) is so ridiculous...
Feel bad for the chick who she's mad at.

>>9195144
Loving the secrets about this

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did this girl seriously plug her own blog post on RC to try and farm sympathy points?

>>9197785
>>How to lolita good while on the spectrum 101
-shut up about your autism
-no, really, don't do it
-go on your phone if you need a break from social interaction at meets
-seriously, nobody cares

Source - diagnosed by an actual medical professional, doesn't appreciate special snowflakes like you making it hard for the rest of us. Just go back to tumblr, please, they might have patience for your transtrender autism anxiety~~, but you're trying mine.

>>9197997
fucking this. one thing I know about being an aspie in lolita is to shut the fuck up about being an aspie in lolita

>>9197785
I really hate "I'm an X in Lolita!" posts because 99.9% of the time no one will fucking know unless you make a big production of it. And once you make a big production of it, people will start avoiding you because no one has time for that.

>>9198014
This. I have some mental health issues and literally no one in my comm knows about it except a few close friends. If you need to back out of a meet or excuse yourself you don't need to tell people the reason why.

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>>9197997
>>9198014
Lolita is a hindrance to autistic lolitas, y'all. Don't be so judgemental. /s

>>9198073
At least it's a conversation topic that might get actual replies and actual conversation instead of the usual "WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT AGEPLAY!?" bait.

>>9197785
I love how they're all buttmad at the person who told them to put it in the blog thread lol. I almost said something too, but I'm too chicken shit.

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So this happened. After people (pretty politely, desu) informed her of how much of a dumbass she was being, this obvious noob made a dramatic post about how she was leaving because we were all rude bitches and "lolitas are supposed to be lovelies!!!!1111".

Black is OP, purple is the dumbass

>>9198250
Slightly related but it reminds me of when I was selling a bunch of my lolita wigs for $15 each so I put $15 as the price with information in the post saying it was $15 each and someone messaged me saying they'd buy all of them. I was pretty shocked because I had almost ten listed so I totaled it up for them. They replied back "No, it said $15 for all of them" and I had to actually copy and paste my post that they didn't read saying $15 per wig and they blocked me.

>>9198079
I'm so tired of seeing people on facebook get upset that normies think they're ageplayers but these same people post pictures of kids clothes from target and cry that they're not adult sizes. You just know they're trying to cover their own diapered asses.

>>9198250
I'm still dying of laughter

>>9198250
>>9198250
Ngl, first time I saw a sales post on fb I was like whaaa, 1,000,000??? But shadow dream carnival isn't worth that much ...

>>9198178
Naw aspies shouldn't have to play by the same rules obv

>>9198286
KEK what a dumbass.

Something similar happened to me. Said I was open to trades but not price offers. Person misread it and offered like half the price and got mad when I declined. Tried to report me to the mods.

>>9173540
Nothing like Taobao clothing based off stolen artwork!

>>9155402
>>9155433
If the events are far enough from her house that her parents possibly either driver her there or pay for her gas, then it might be putting a strain. It's possible she either doesn't work or doesn't make enough to really cover all expenses, hence why she lives at home. It's common for people up to age 28 to still live at home today because it's just too expensive and unviable to move out. It's easier usually to double up and still live with your parent while working, and if they're in bad enough shape (especially considering from an outsider's pov like mine and her parents, Lolita is unnecessarily expensive anyway) that might explain why they're so tight on it, especially if most of her money ends up gong to her hobby instead of helping pay bills or saving up to eventually move yknow?

I don't know. I don't know this girl but this is how I can see it from her parent's perspective, especially if they happen to have an older fashioned view about work ethic like a lot of people past their 40s think.

>>9155513
If she was walking to and from the event, sure, but if they in any way contribute to her transportation (such as paying for the car, gas, or flat out driving her there) then it's not unreasonable for them to put a restriction on it, especially if it's a far distance.

Is anyone watching the thread in Rufflechat about the black lolita upset her boyfriend's mother wanting her to wear a skimpy red dress for a wedding?

>>9199980
Total crap, screams the typical special snowflake I'm not a whore like those other lemming girls-type

>>9199980
the mother sounds pretty crazy, but the girl should not care so much about her opinion. If your boyfriend's mother doesn't like your clothes, so what? As long as you're dressed somewhat conforming to general standards of what's acceptable, people will see the bitching mother as the crazy one, not you.

>>9200026
I think the problem is she's an aspie and black in a white in-law's family. She's trying to be a "good black girl" and brushing off this batshit craziness.

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>>9197785
>thinking about telling some girls in my comm about my assburgers so they'll know what's up when I distance myself during a meet
>see this
>see response to this
>okay nevermind

>>9200037
Yeah, I can see that. But with a family member that crazy you can never "do the right thing". It's better to just ignore it.

>>9200041
Just tell them if they ask if you are ok, or if they are throwing weird looks.

>>9199980
Have you seen the fucking dress though?
completely innapropriate for going anywhere in public, unless you are a stripper.

>>9200496

Dude pics.

I get unnecessarily upset when my mom chooses my clothing. I know she means well but it's invariably two sizes too big for me and sort of dumpy. And then she makes as if I chose it. I can understand the girl being upset especially since this isn't even her own mom.

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>>9200519

>>9200523

Wow what the actual fresh fuck.

This girl has every right to be upset if she's telling the truth.

>>9199980
I'm finding some of it hard to believe. Like the mom forcing her to stay in her room for days just because she didn't talk at dinner. Like wat?

>>9200532
Its okay, I"m sure she'll show up later to repost her whole life's story.

>>9199980
There's something about attending weddings that make narcissists go nuts. Go to any wedding planning board and you'll see shit like this is not uncommon.

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>>9199980
Which one of you fuckers did this.

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>>9200523
I don't think either dress is wedding appropriate desu. Just buy a simple sheath dress that suits your figure and wear it with a cardigan or blazer. It will be used for more than just weddings and you can find them for less expensive prices at store outlets.

>>9200586

Weddings seem to be a great battleground for narcissists.

>>9159409
Which PA comm?

>>9199980
>>9200523
Did this thread get deleted?

>>9201763
It did. A screenshot got reposted on RC:U.

>>9199980
>>9200523
isn't she that girl who blogposted some sob story about her life here the other week when someone suggested she take better quality photos?

she seems like an attentionwhore

>>9202691
>>9202691
Oh my god yes, you're right! Ugh. Then is any of this even real? She could just be posting bullshit.

>>9202691
She's apparently and aspie but I'm thinking more that she isn't properly diagnosed. She probably is just a jerk and uses the aspie excuse to get away with being ignorant and stupid.

>>9200523
I soo badly wanted to say that this looks like the trash Hispanic girls wear to weddings. Too many times have I seen girls wearing this type of dress to weddings or some other formal gatherings and really tall strappy heels they can't walk in. I'm glad my Hispanic friends have more class then those girls.

>>9198079
>>9198073
Yeah even though it is a legit topic it feels cringy and will inevitably devolve into a tumblr -like hug box. And this is as someone who was actually diagnosed with autism. I keep my lolita and my 'tism separate from each other

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>>9198250
>calling Wonder Queen "cheap cotton"

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No only is this post embarrassing as fuck for the poor newbie (though, Nina and Kate aren't THAT different personality-vise), but Choke's reaction is making things even more cringey.

>>9203482
lol I came here to post this as well

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>>9203482
Choke seriously needs to get that stick out of her ass

>>9203485

Holy fucking shit could she be ruder to a newbie? Does she forget she's not anon off cgl?

>>9203482
This was an entertaining thread.

>>9203485
>"prospective kawaii leader"
>pulls childish shit like this

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>>9203482
>>9203485
literally laughed the entire time, must be really embarrassing for OP

>>9203485
You missed censoring a nina

>>9203485
>calls someone put for trying to stir shit
>was caught trying to stir shit on lolcow in Kate's thread

ok.jpg

Seriously I cannot stand choke and how much people lick her asshole.

>>9203930
My favorite part of that thread is when they try to act like Kate is the only infamous one

>>9203482
>>9203485
I like how Choke's trying to pretend she's better than Kate when they're both the same kind of bitter, scamming bitches who can't take any criticism.

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>>9203930
Looks like at least a few people remember that fiasco...

>>9203485
I don't like Kate, but can you imagine the shitstorm if she started behaving like this? Yet choke gets a free pass because....?

>>9205147
She claims to have assburgers or some shit and a lot of people think she's pretty for whatever reason. Honestly though a lot of people are fed up with her shit too, but are probably too jaded/tired from Kate to bother.

>>9203482
imo i think there's a chance that OP was trying to make a snide remark, but regardless all of the comments on here were cringey as fuck. all of the wannabe efamous lolitas coming out on the "omg so controversial xD" post leaving comments that contribute nothing just to get themselves involved

>>9205205
Kate, choke clair, and batty are the ones that do that whom I enjoy watching cry on the internet. I wonder if they are all secretly friends and just do this shit to ego stroke them selves. Although batty has kept her fat mouth quiet for a while.

>>9205149
I have assburgers and I manage to not go full retard online every week or scam people so yeah, no sympathy there.

>>9205411
There's people like you who live with it then there's people who probably don't have it and use it as an excuse to be an ass publicly. It's a way to back peddle when you fuck up.

>>9161457
Is this what Kate and Chanel wear

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Here we go!

>>9208744
>chess chocolate
>old
I see it pop up on closet child all the time. Is she even trying?

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>>9208744
my first thought

>>9208744
I think it's a size issue than the frequency of the dress popping up

>>9208990
>it's old
>you can't find the specific cut and colorway you want
Doesn't sound like a size issue.
Side note: People referring to these prints as old trips me out. It could've been that long ago, could it?

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Does anyone know the story behind this? I absolutely never want to use this SS whoever they are.

>>9209005
She probably bought it and then didn't pay for shipping for a long time. Some shopping services require you to pay shipping within a certain time frame (ex: Buyee gives you 90 days) or else they'll return/toss the product.

>>9209013
It seems like if she needed it for Rufflecon she would have paid it though right? That seems so crazy to not pay $30 in shipping and lose a $150-$200ish purchase.

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>>9208760
>>9208990
>>9209002
OP is just being dumb and doing that passive aggressive ~wistful~ posting in hopes we'll condone replicas in her case.

>>9203494
>>9203503
Choke has aspergers

>>9202691
She's a gull, so yes of course she is.

>>9210518
That is not an excuse to act like a dick time and time again

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What's going on in the Lolita Updates group? Someone just trying to be funny?
I can't take a better screenshot on my phone but people keep tagging that "Lolita since birth" girl

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>>9210852
Immature kids from RC:U trying to be 2edgy and troll. Wish they would keep their stupid out of lolita updates; we have lolita humor, rufflechat and RC:U. Don't post stupid shit in the only useful FB group.

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Edgy babies on amino