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To the older people on this board.
Is it worth spending your 20's:

1. Enjoying youth
2. Working your ass off
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>>1737085
I did/do both, I don't consider them mutually exclusive. I think doing nothing but partying will mean you end up one of those rainbow hippie street kids you see downtown, doing nothing but working makes you an Asian and I patently reject both of these outcomes.
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Work your ass off until you're 25/26, enjoy yourself from 27 - 32/33, have kids and work your ass off again to provide for them in the future
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>>1737085
work your ass off. Life will look a lot brighter in your mid thirties
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>>1737085
do both
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Do both.

It is the hours spent being stoned watching TV-series that are wasted. There is a time and place for everything.

Also, stay away from shit relationships. If you are NEET during your teens, anyone that throws their heart on you when you reach your 20s, you probably want to hang on to. Constantly dump and upgrade.
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>>1737085
I did 1. and had a wild carefree sexy existence and recommend you do the same.

however, i had a loooonger climb with a lot of poverty as a result

t.36
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>>1737085
Work like fuck, get rich or die trying
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Everyone i know who did both where able to because they did good in highschool, got a scholarship, and didnt have to worry about maintaining a job while in college to pay for rent and food.

I mostly just work and school (since i was a shit student in HS) but im not full asian i occasionally go to parties. Will graduate with a degree in compsci in fall.
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>>1737085
If I could go back to my early 20s I would work harder AND play harder.

I would definitely have started saving regularly, even if just a small amount monthly.
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People say "work hard play hard" which is not my style, but there is something in not second guessing yourself, worrying about whether you're doing the right thing. I think most people have to go through their 20s before they are confident enough in their own skin. If you can accelerate that process then that would be a big advantage.
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>>1737085
Same situation bro. I'm currently studying an economics degree in a top Spanish university and I spend all day studying and at the gym. Also having a distance relationship and working 2 hours everyday. Organization is the key; I manage to fit in accurately all my activities and keep partying with friends as much as I can.
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i did neither and am still well off
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If I could start over from being 18 I would have done the exact same as I have now. I mean, besides the obvious like investing in Amazon or Wal-mart or Northrop Grumman or whatever I know now succeeded wildly since then. I'd have shorted the fuck out of Sears or whatever.
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i can't enjoy life so i guess i will work my ass off.
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>>1737444
aint that the truth
>work up the job ladder
>fucking hate parties
>only interest is fish
>no one likes fish anymore
>stuck alone with a tank of piranhas that literally dont do anything ever
guess the moral is dont buy piranhas, get something interesting like a cuttlefish
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You need money to have fun.
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Work hard play hard imo. Life needs balance. Too much of either is boring.
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The only people not enjoying their life in their 20's are coping with the fact they are not good looking.
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>>1737522
no you dont. you can be broke and have a good bunch of friends and have cheap house parties and it cost no more than a crate of beer
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>>1737085
I amam 34 now, when I was in my 20s I did both, but times where way different .
I did telemarketing then sales and advertising and then worked for invention technologies. Lots of money, drugs, sex. But honestly it gets old.
Things now, i guess it depends on your job really. In (like pre 2006s) being in sales everyone was on drugs or drunk and chain smoking . But like I said, stuff was different
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>>1737535
Me desu senpai
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>>1737220
Balance is key, but in an academic bubble you're missing half the shit of the real world that doesn't fit in 24 hour cycles.mbest of luck to you though
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>>1737535
That's some serious coping you've got there.
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>>1737535
Lmao. All of the good looks in the world won't give those guys btc. They're coping pretty hard with muscles and shit, tho...
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I don't get why people seem to just blindly accept that you can only have one or the other. There is plenty of time for both, you just have to be real with yourself and set your priorities for your free time
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>>1738232
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>>1737085
I think these are wrong options to start with. Working your ass off implies jumping on a shit job while you could use your time living with your parents to hunt for a good, lucrative gig. That's what I did, I was frugal and responsible with money, learned a lot. Now, at 29 I'm nearly completely financially independent (completely if I was to live a frugal rest of my life).
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depends on how disadvantaged you are to begin with.

i was actaully pretty advantaged, and hence was able to do both

after having both, here are my thoughts on it:

1. you 100% need to balance it.
2. if you want to be rich, you have to be extremely selfless with your time. it could feel like you only have time to get your shit done, but never any time for yourself
3. Everyone has a certain "natural" ability. With your time, you disperse this ability.
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You don't have to make an ultimate decision and stick to it all the way through your twenties. You just need to be aware of the consequences of your actions and decisions before you make them. How will it affect work if I spend the night in a bar instead of working on my project? How will it affect my personal life if I spend the whole night working instead of doing y with friends/family? To me this is really just a matter of proper time management and setting priorities - you just have to remember that just because work is more important to you than your personal life this doesn't mean you should not allocate any time to cultivating friendships and enjoying yourself. Time is a limited resource, manage it wisely.
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>>1737085
Im 40 yes 40, ill give you my advice
work, be responsible, save money
hope you have a good background in being a good person, dont be a fuck up, dont feel sorry for yourself
time is ticking for everyone so be ruthless, but that doesnt mean be cruel, just be firm
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>>1737085
You can do both son. More work than play but both is the healthy way.
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>>1738203
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>>1737085
If you can make great money work
If you can fuck supermodels or travel to cool places do that

DON'T turn down money to sit around and watch tv
T.old person
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>>1737085
Why not moderation?

I spent ages 15 to 25 drunk and raving and I can definitely say that end of the spectrum was a waste - I certaintly wont be fondly remembering some kegger on my deathbed

But the other end is stupid too because even if you "make it" and become financially independant in your mid 30's using that strategy youd be an emotionally stunted person the rest of your life
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>>1738693
getting rich is at least a decent goal that autists like us can reach, we can't enjoy life, so if we've made it and can't take it anymore we can still always end it
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>>1737085
I'd say both. I'm 31 and in my 20's I

>worked hard
>played hard
>made a lifetimes worth of memories
>was crippled for life
>made and lost more money then I will for the next 30 years

Have very few regrets.

Don't take your friends for granted OP.

I lost several friends in my 20s, drifted apart from others with the wife and kids shit.

And my best friend killed himself almost a year ago.


Plan smart and work hard and have fun. Just ride the line and don't stress about future shit that may never happen.
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>>1737444
And then you become me
>Mfw 31
>Mfw crippling depression
>Mfw sleep 2 hours a night and chug coffee because fuck anxiety I do wtf I want
>Mfw this is life until my heart attache and sweet release of death...
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>>1737537
Mfw got to gold course surround and get bucket of golf balls.

Literally walk the ditches and find glass bottles to break while screaming "bottle kids" as a grown asso man.

Spend 20 bucks on beer.
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>>1738357
31.

This is pretty solid. I used to let people push me around some so I wasn't a dick.

Fuck that. Never selling shit on payments again.

It's not my fault you were a junkie and you will live walking 3 blocks to the gas station for your smokes. Fuckoff
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>>1738716
This is the saddest truth this of us with mental illnesses face.

Happily married.

Cut my sacrifice so no whiney shitheads.

Fighting the booze is a tough but necessary battle.

If I get rich I can hire a hit man on myself and leave my family at peace instead of hanging in the back yard because I live in a shitty trailer and hate myself for no real good reason...
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>>1737085
1 and 2 work together.

Networking is vastly more important than your grades in school. You should still try to do above average, but when you graduate you're going to be given another degree that means all of dick or shit. It's just a slip of paper that lets an HR department know you're a good goy that can handle a few years of bullshit.

Real success comes from knowing people. You get to know people in college by partying, getting into the best frats, etc. It's a very small and exclusive club being successful, and to get in you need to know someone.

Snorting coke off the dick of a thai tranny with the future CEO of a Fortune 100 is worth more than any degree.
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>>1738680
Just keep telling yourself that you'll cope, somehow.
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>>1737535
>tfw this is true
>tfw have enough money to not care anymore
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>>1737085
youll forget about most of the fun you had unless it was symbolic. its best to work. it doesnt feel fun now to just work, but in the future it wont matter that the fun happened.
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>>1737085
I'm 32. I'd say do both while saving aggressively and making smart investments. After college, I got a decent job and lived well below my means. I saved as much as possible while still enjoying life. Now I have a kid and a lot less free time. I'm really glad I bought a house in my mid-20s (not saying you need to buy a house - it doesn't make sense for everyone) and started saving for retirement early.
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>>1737085
Both but work for yourself, not others. If you have a job, and you aren't learning anything, quit. It won't get you rich.
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>>1739114
Also,

40-60 hrs working
10 hrs reading/lifting
5 hrs shitposting
5 hrs partying (1-2 social events a week)
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>>1738941

Ah, the classic "degrees mean nothing it's all about who you know" bullshit. This always, without fail, comes from the mouth of someone who got an increasingly worthless degree. Let me guess, you were in some business or finance related field? Or worse yet, a really low tier shit like psych or sociology? Even for business, finance, accounting, etc you don't even remotely need to network if you actually put effort in and your grades and resume experiences were good. STEM stuff you most definitely don't have to know people at all.

True successful people don't leech off the networks of others. They go out, work hard, and then others build a network around them after being drawn to their leadership and success.
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>>1737085
work your ass off, invest 20% of your income . dividend paying stocks and real estate.
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>>1737085

It depends.

Thing is, money can be earned at any time, and at any possible rate, but time and youth can never be recovered.

So I'd say only waste your teens/twenties working if you happen to be in something that is ungodly lucrative and you will be a multi-millionaire by 30.

Otherwise, enjoy 18 - 25, it's one of the funnest freeist times of your life and you will never get it back.
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>>1737103
This is where I ended up. A pretty good plan. Paid off the mortgage at 33
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>>1737085
do BOTH, but you have to have a friend or friends to do it with and you guys will do good.

there is no more competition in todays youth, there needs to be more healthy competition.
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>women working
This is the dumbest meme. If you want cash then marry a millionaire, use your youth to charm some millionaire and get children. Women have the best low cost high return opportunity than any other group and they waste it on lower tier pursuits.

Most 18 year old girls can be a millionaire in a year by just fawning over some rich guy who wasted his youth working.
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>>1737103
Agree with the first part. Going out is much more fun in your late 20s than early 20s. But having kids is stupid unless your spouse makes as much as you. Its a pity beta accountants making $70k a year knock up easy whores that make minimum wage at a movie theater then pay child support.
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Both are important just don't waste your youth having too much fun and no enough work and the other way around as well.

I fucked up in my 20s

Focus on connections and having good friends and it will change you. Also don't hang out with losers even if you feel like one''

Worst thing about my 20s is I focused to much on work, and for the first 20-25 i focused on a shit career that didn't get me anywhere. tfw. didn't have smart/rich parents

Now 28, rich, have a career, but no family nearby, no friends, and live alone counting my money
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>>1737100
Asian here. I don't think I've had a childhood. My parents are fucking cocksuckers.
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I'm 18, HS Senior, I'm going to Brandeis and majoring in management.

Should I just focus only on academics and not worry about parties? I have no social life in HS, and I'm constantly mocked for it. The same won't happen in college?
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>>1740124

you're in for a rough ride pal

go make your money while you can
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>>1740124
I would switch to accounting, finance, supply chain, or information technology over management...
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>>1740066
a-fucking-greed
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>>1740124
Do not major in management, there is literally no point and you won't be fluent with the kinds of skills that employers are looking for in new business hires.

What are you going to do after your degree in management? -- apply to be a manager even though you have no practical knowledge?

>well hurr durr I studied it in college
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>>1739165

This

People who rely on their network for jobs and other career opportunities are little more than beggars.
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>>1740307

Management is typically business school speak for HR jobs. They're not going to call it a Human Resources degree because then only chicks would sign up. I'm guessing they're trying to trick unaware dudes into signing up and then hoping they like it.

Actual managers get their MBA, where they study Business Strategy
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>>1737085

I work full time as a wage cuck and still make time to party. you have to balance it or you'll become a dirt bag or robot. even if you got out once a week it helps to break it up.
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>>1737516
rescue a turtle from a pet store, way more satisfying and you can put certain fish in with it
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>>1737085
Life is more enjoyable when you're working your ass off.. You can have your cake and eat it too.. Can't do nuffin when you're broke, remember that.
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>>1740314
This sounds like something someone with no useful network would say
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I'm currently completing my third degree, but it is on the path that I wanted.

Here's my path till now:

Bachelor of Science: Physics - 4 years.
Bachelor of Science (honours): Mathematics - 1 year

Gap year to find what I wanted to do and get a job in that area - I found what I wanted to do and failed at getting a job which lead to:

Travelling overseas to teach english for a year.

However realised that I would be happy teaching,

So I am now currently doing:

Masters of Teaching: Science and mathematics. - 1.5 years.

This has been from 2010 till now. It is a little sad to know how long it took, however teaching is something that I can see myself doing until I am ready to retire.
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>tfw 24
>tfw already feel like i missed out on everything
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>>1740427

Currently 25 btw.
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>27
>still at uni

kill me
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>>1740124
Majoring in management is retarded. Get a degree that lets you work in a field that requires a degree. A manager doesn't need a management degree.
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>>1737085
I'm 23, graduated, studying for the MCAT. All my friends are getting smashed over winter break, having fun, enjoying life. I'm just studying... hold me
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>>1737085
>1. Enjoying youth
>2. Working your ass off
Who else here didn't do either of these? I just sort of did nothing. I'm about to graduate in May and still don't know what I want or am qualified to do as a career. I am currently working on changing the garbage mindset that I've had for the past several years. But I am still baffled that people know that they want to work in ibanking, consulting, tech, or whatever. How the fuck do you know you will like it if you haven't done it?
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>>1740427
Those who can't do, teach
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Life sucks bro, it is hard to get somewhere even if you do work your ass off. So if you can find a girl or good times please for the love of God do that.
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>>1740504
>How the fuck do you know you will like it if you haven't done it?
You don't. You can test it a bit with internship.
But mostly people just chose something they think they could be interested in. Like "woo planes are cool, I want to build planes!" Or seems not hard to do, like controlling the work of someone else instead of actually doing something. Or something that just earn good money.
Then they hate their lifes for 40 years, because they don't have the gut to change.
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>>1737085
Neither
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>>1737085
The guys who lived it up through their 20s will tell you to work hard because they regret not having a better job and finances now.

The guys who worked hard will tell you to live it up since they regret having wasted their youth focusing on their career and money.

Like most people here, I'd say there's a happy medium.
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>>1737516
i love fish and actually came on this board to find a flexible but well paying job so i could dive deeper into the hobby
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>>1738291
details!
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I say do 2.
You're going to have a shit life after your 20's if you don't have anything to show for yourself by 30.

However, just because you're working hard doesn't mean you can't enjoy life. Just make sure it's meaningful, fulfilling work.
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>>1740780
what work is actually fulfilling in the long run though unless you're a researcher or something
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31 year old here. Spent the last ten years in a cubicle. Now worth $200k while the people that yolo'd are drowning in debt with a side of DUI.
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>>1740831
how does it make you feel knowing you put money over other endeavors?
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>>1740831
I'm this guy but worth half that and the people around me are worth much, much more.

Everyday I pray I get laid off. I have no other goals or ambitions other to come home and drink. I just want a respectable way off this ride.
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>>1740843
get a hobby and start spending your money on that hobby until it flourishes and you make money off that instead
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>>1740850
I'm aggressively paying off my mortgage, so I only have about $200/wk for necessities (gas, beer, etc) and 'fun' money.

I do have hobbies, but I'm too mentally exhaused at the end of a work day to do anything but sit in front of the jewtube. Then I drink b/c physically I've done nothing and can't fall asleep.

I was working out in the mornings and making some improvement, but got the flu. Trying to get back on that routine.

That pic embodies me way too much. Fuckin sucks, man.
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>>1740864
my biggest thing since im young is not to get stuck in a 9-5 and then get stuck with credit cards and things which would make me have to keep that 9-5 until i retire. Maybe get a job that you like more or try to get into things that are cheap af
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>>1737085
>dude just do both lmao

don't listen to these normies, if you don't have a cushy job in private equity you have nothing to party about
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>>1740864
Time to force yourself to hit the gym fatty
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You can enjoy yourself and still save some for the future.

I didn't save at all (aside from 401k at work) until I hit 30, really regret it now. I'd probably be a quarter of a million dollars richer at this point.
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>>1737085
>1. Enjoying youth
>2. Working your ass off

How about both? You don't have to be 100% degenerate to enjoy yourself.
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>>1740864
People that pay their mortgages asap are the biggest goys of all. With interest rates so low your money could be making you money. Instead you're throwing it at the bank like an idiot
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>>1737085
The fact that you are asking means you want support for your laziness. Understand that however you spend your 20s is exactly how your 30s and 40s will probably be spent. You can't compartmentalize by age. You are who you are.
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>>1741279
> "Your money could be making you money"

Whimpers the man who didn't understand that Stocks have inherit risk involved as he slides his head into the noose, glancing at a picture of his family one last time before he kicks the chair out from under.
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> Party through Highschool
> Graduate with 2.2 gpa but get 33 ACT effortlessly
> College pays for itself because of ACT
> Choose easy major: Psychology
> Party through college
> Graduate with 3.8 GPA and extra curriculars (Anthropology Club, which I was the president of and got pussy through)
> Apply to grad school for I/O Psych
> Very sociable and 7/10 so I'm leagues ahead of these boring losers
> Get in first try with a TA position
> Fuck undergrad QTs
> Graduate 5 years later with a PhD and 0 debt
> Last 9 years were poverty, but I had fun
> Just got a job as a Statistician (I/O is heavy stats)
> All of my competition was literally Math Majors + Autists
> I'll begin making 98k + immediate 7% match February 6th

I would change nothing. Not for $200 mill. I love my life, if I died now I'd have no regrets.
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>>1741380
So you're the man who doesn't realize the risk of putting a huge chunk of your net worth into a home just so that you own it free and clear?
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>>1737104
I mostly agree with this.
Their is still room for balance of course.

I did mostly live my balls off in my early 20s, shit got dark around 25, then I got my shit together and now (about to turn 32) things are looking fine.

A bunch of my friends who refused to grow up and kept acting like a child through their late 20s are now hitting the wall and it's really depressing.

I know many here will disagree, but I do think it's ok to sew your wild oats early in life, so long as you use it as a learning experiance. Sure it could impede your development, but it's also pretty much your only chance to have those experiences and those experiences can be valuable later.

My wild early lifestyle left me with a disciplined attitude towards finance, depth, earing, and workplace politics that I find many of my contemporaries lack.
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I'm 27 @nd graduated with a degree in English with little idea of what I wanted to do afterwards. I kind of floundered around a bit with low skilled jobs, ended up moving back in with my dad for a year. Finally got my foot in the door in my industry and was able to move back out again to the city and I'm still here. Got fired from one job, but found another one that's a lot better. Still not too highly paid, but I enjoy the work I do. I party a lot more now than I ever did in college though where I just focused on my studies, even though I was too stupid to take advantage of any internships.
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>>1738906
i dont know about you but my fear of cancer kinda motivated me to get up and do something
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>>1737535
they look like actual faggots tho. would rather be a bad-ass than a pretty boy who shops at h&m and browses r/skincareaddiction
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I can tell you what you shouldn't do

buy meme coins and try to beat the market based off 4chan pump and dump suggestions
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>>1741602
>bad-ass

are you living through your midlife crisis lmao
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>>1741612
you don't think they exist?
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>>1741617
"bad-ass" is what a 40 year old man thinks leather jackets and Lara Croft are
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>>1741623
regardless of what term you use, the dichotomy does exist. faggots who do nothing and preen themselves and post on instagram and in general go out for a few beers and are boring as fuck vs. guys who could literally wreck shit if they wanted from having pure smarts or power to make whatever happen they choose, who actually lead exciting lives and create new shit and don't in general fall prey to the million traps set out for you being born in these times
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>>1737085
enjoy your youth but start saving as early on as possible!
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>>1740314
>he thinks that the elite are hired based on their college grades and not exclusively through nepotism and the favors of friends

Spoken like a true wagecuck. Don't worry. Work a little bit harder next quarter and surely your bosses will reward you!
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>>1741591
Been ina quarry for years. Silicosis is essentially cancer. If that doent get me its shitty diet and horrible family history of heart desease.

My dad has 12 heart stints.

Some are inside ....other stints.

I think i will try and race him.
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>>1741279
I see it as I paid Wells Fargo over $4,000 in interest last year and I'd rather not do that this year.

My measly
401 didn't yield that last year and if I had a crystal ball, they won't yield that this year either.

>>1740878
Pretty much my mindset. In my early 20's I was a paramedic and worked 24/48. The office life leaves litter to be desired.

>>1740992
6' 180, bro.
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>>1740539
it sadly applies to many teachers but i disagree - being good at teaching isn't simple and it takes a lot of work and finesse
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>>1740066
Lol I pretty much am one of those beta accountants but I didn't know it was such a meme. One thing I regret about my wife is she's very dumb, I can't have a conversation about anything with her, I just hope our sons not a retard
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>>1742129
Is she a strong swimmer?
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>>1742039

Teaching is definitely a skill, especially at levels higher than middle school. There's a reason we still all remember the best teachers / professors we had. A lot of it is personality, but still a marketable skill.
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>>1737085
>Work 6am-4pm / play 4pm - 12am / sleep 12am - 6am / travel on weekends
>18yr to 34yr (current)
>Own home/car/boat
>Been to Amsterdam, Monaco, France, Italy, Canada, Mexico, Australia, Thailand
>Been to all lower 48

All this while gambling, shitposting and whoremongering
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>>1741465
Are you me? This guy totally, although I wish I smartened up a little younger. I'm definitely a financial late bloomer(33 and only about 5 years). Wish I knew 12 years ago what I know now. They don't teach you this shit in high school.
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>>1737100
>>1737187
>>1740109

What kind of asian because as a hmong person I got shitface bowling/karaoke, fishing, drag racing, hunting, etc... pretty much every weekend while still working and going to school full time.
Though we really didn't do the whole house party thing too often unless it was for J4/New years.
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>>1737187
I got a full ride and still worked full-time.

I bought my house before even leaving college.
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>>1737522
False
t. Former homeless man who had more fun then than now with a 75k job
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>>1742657
right?
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>>1737085

source on the chick tho
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>>1742555
That's fucked up.
But I love it.
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>>1742688

a slut
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why are so many idiots obsessed with "making the most" out of their 20s?

here's a tip, you will likely live another 40 or 50 years after your 20s. making retarded career or financial decisions, or generally just fucking around and failing to develop skills, during this period of time will fuck you over for the remainder of your life.

not to even mention you can still "enjoy your youth" while working like a normal person and holding a decent job. it's not like you people are working 80+ hours per week and don't have time to do anything enjoyable. most jobs are easy as hell.
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>>1742744
>making retarded career or financial decisions, or generally just fucking around and failing to develop skills, during this period of time will fuck you over for the remainder of your life.
it actually doesn't matter much what you do between 16 and 20, work-wise.

most people change careers at least once after that, and most people make most of their money in their 40's and beyond anyways.

Millionaires have on average more than three bankruptcies done by the time they get rich, so in reality making wise financial decisions and such is probably really bad advice unless a person happens to be particularly mediocre.
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Easy.

1. Work smarter, not harder. When you see an opportunity, jump on it. School is for average furlture middle class wagecucks. If you geta great job offer, get it for at least the experience.

2. Partying gets boring. Bang a bunch of girls and do some drugs to get that out of the way, then focus on partying just for celebration of success.
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>>1742626
How small is your tiny Asian benis
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>>1737535
lmfao these cunts are male models?

>>1737085
she looks like a bug
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>>1740836

Feels good man because those other endeavors are usually degenerate acts like getting fucked up and banging bar sleeze.
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>>1737085
Why not both?
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>>1741402
> Choose easy major: Psychology
Tell me about it, sounds interesting.

Bu mt myain question is about being a Statistician, i found out this was a profession about 2 months ago and it sounds interesting as fuck. What do you actually do? And how to the pay SOOOO good everywhere, is it stressful?
What do you need a major in to be a statistician?

Appreciate any answer.
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>>1737085
working your ass off

I am over 50 and did nothing in my 20's and half of my 30's

I reasoned that i was living my retirement while i could enjoy it fully..

Now i am poor and may very well be destitue when I can no longer work

I recently heard a story about a 105 year old woman who was at a nursing home and ran out of money

Someone set up a go fund me page which helped her afford to stay but can you imagine being that old and being evicted from your nursing home?

You never expected to live so long and you didn't save enough.

make enough money while you can so when you can no longer you will have what it takes to aavoid destitution

Nobody ever impressed this concept on me when it mattered.

I was allowed to flout convention and do my thing and I am in grave trouble now

Literally hitting the lottery is probably my only hope.
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>have kids and work your ass off again to provide for them in the future

this sounds awful. Wouldn't you want to try to retire and have some kind of passive income before having kids? I fucking hate work but maybe you guys are different. Maybe I'm just not meant for this world.
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>>1737103
>tfw 27 and just made the transition out of my high stress environment i hated
truly best timeline
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>>1743717
This is sobering. I've been slacking and i turn 25 in a month. having a quarter life crisis. This is going to be the year i start getting my ass in gear, working out and diversifying/multiplying my income
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>>1743717
What do you do now?
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>>1737085
definitely 1..

this time never comes back, trust me.. enjoy the fuck out of your youth. the kind fun you have in your youth, you can never buy with money..
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>>1737085
Spent my early 20s pissing around.

During my mid 20s I lived in and traveled around cheap countries while building my online business.

Now in my late 20s I'm full work-mode hopefully continuing into my 30s and beyond.
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>>1738941
>>1739165
I think both of you represent two extremes, and that the truth lies in the middle.
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>>1737535
i'm good looking and dgaf about parties
also, yeah, they look like faggots, and fake-ish
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>>1743656
It's good because most burgers can't into math nigger.
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