girlfriend of the last 12 years told me last night that while

>>741750265
lmao, should have trained your bitch to ignore all social interactions

Is that normal? Yes
Are you an insecure faggot? Yes
Should you dump her? Yes

>>741750265
>i'm being an insecure asshole or should i dump her?
The fact that you asked the latter makes the former true.

Email guy is a loser
Girlfriend is a good person
OP is a stupid asshole

Break up with her.

>>741750265
Dump her. She is going to at least have that guy as some sort of beta friendzone biatch who will cock block you in the future somehow.

>>741750428
Yup.

>>741750329
b-but that would be so time consuming

>>741750456
investing time and psychological resources on a girl you are interesting in is a waste? no

that's why you don't do it on random bitches.
anyway it takes me from 2 to a week to turn them into that, at the end of the week they will know that talking to another dude will have consequences and they just stop doing so.

>>741750576
Why would you do that

>>741750430
meh. would i be a double stupid asshole if accessed her email and forwarded their conversation to the maximum number of people possible? it's a work email of a national communications company with a few thousand users. worked there, have the password.

>>741750628
does anyone else have the password as well?

>>741750576
See, if you have to beat someone to get their obedience, you may be better off alone.

>>741750628
Triple.

>>741750606
why not? worth it. bitch will be scared of getting you mad and will be extra careful.

>>741750628
you are retarded.

>>741750655
i don't beat anyone. they just have to understand that if "A" leads to "B" they just need to stop doing "A" to prever "B"

>>741750576
man, i did it, or tried to.
i even pulled away her abusive father to whom she had a strange "love-hate" thing in the beginning..
but truth is, it's probably impossible to succeed always at that.

>girlfriend of 12 years

string her along a little more homo

>>741750628
only herself that i know of.

>>741750732
you did it wrong.

don't you ever manipulated your dad when you were a kid? well this is like that but you use "feelings" to boost the manipulation

>>741750707
Eh. Idk but being single and maybe hooking up occasionally sounds way easier.

>>741750707
You're actual garbage.

>>741750265

You're an insecure asshole.

She either wants to be with you, and will be, or she doesn't want to be and will dump you.

Now grow up and be happy that your girlfriend is a caring type, and hope that she doesn't realise what a jerk you are and dumps you.

>>741750362
This

>>741750628
You wouldn't do it you pussy.

>>741750265
This is complete bullshit. How do you sleep at night knowing you make up shit on an anonymous site?

>>741750265
Christ you're insecure as all hell Anon.
>Grow some fucking balls

>>741750825
Mental manipulation isn't an abuse, just a prevention.

What she gonna do? Show scars on her mind to the judges?

They can always quit, however they choose to leave their social lifes instead because "I love them and want the best for them".

>is that normal
Yes.

>i'm being an insecure asshole
Yes.

>should i dump her?
Yes, she deserves someone better.

>>741750265
You're being incredibly insecure. Do you think she's going to cheat on you with this fat goon from her work? There's literally no rational reason for you to be upset about this. Start worrying when starts fucking other people.

>>741750805
>>741750903
it's not. now, go back to the trap or shit log thread, fuckwad.

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It'll be fine. Just get her to poop herself and clean her up. Do it.

>>741750952
>Implying manipulating people is wrong.
Enjoying your morals buddy?

>>741750946
>Start worrying when she starts fucking other people.
That's probably a little too late to worry, don't you think?

>>741750918
>she can't prove it in court so I'm not doing anything wrong

>>741750946
i tend to agree, but would like more anon opinions.

digging for gold.

It depends were you turned on at all by the situation

>>741751026
Again, they can quit and break up with me if they want.

They don't do it so it's not my fault.

>>741750999
no, replying to the wrong post, lol

She's aware of her double standard and will wield it.

If my old lady of 5 years herd that I was talking with another women to help her with her problems she would have a huge fucking problem with it.

Just give her the benefit of the doubt in this, she's looking for a reaction.

Don't give her the one she wants. One of two things will happen, she will it doesn't bother you and cling to you out of fear of losing you.

Or she will do something stupid like a fucking spiteful chick.

In any event, you want to come out on top.

If you break up, at least you won't be the crybaby beta faggot who played into her stupid drama.

You could walk away dominate and guilt free.

>>741750265
>12 years
>Girlfriend
>Implying this isn't a ploy to make you jealous and propose

>>741750913
I agree
Anon should let the guy dominate him and leave his Gf so he can be the little bitch he's always dreamed of being.
If one beta can make him spiral out of control like this then he's the beta and needs to accept his role in the grander scheme of it all, by being a cum dumpster to daddy's cock.

>>741750265
You're being insecure and showing her that you have trust issues, and worse, that you have no faith in her. She will start to resent you if you try to restrict her freedom as far as who she's allowed to talk to. Why should she spend time with an insecure guy with trust issues? If you feel confident in your relationship, there's no reason to suspect her of cheating. And if she does end up cheating, then you're better off without her anyway.

>>741751058
no. maybe i'm an insecure faggot, but not a cuck

>>741751114
This

>>741751062
That's not how a normal human brain works

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>>741750265
Most great relationships involve calling your girlfriend pathetic.

You'll go far my friend.

>>741751107
interesting. thanks.

>>741751148
Good.

I don't want people doing the same and stealing my methods.

>>741750942
Agreed
>100%

Manipulated women stay in the relationship but always end up cheating with some boytoy
>It's nature

>>741751201
>Manipulated women stay in the relationship but always end up cheating with some boytoy

Manipulated=/=Controlled

>>741751108
here, a girlfriend of many years that lives and pays taxes together with you isn't much different from a wife.

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>>741751148
>a normal human brain

Are you lost friend?

>>741750265
>actually worried about being cucked by a beta
What does this say about YOU though, OP?

If hes a beta why the fuck are you worried?

Unless you are also a beta in which case this guy is genuine competition.

>>741751276
I was referring to whoever the poor girl is that this anon is manipulating

>>741751062
>literally Stockholm Syndrome levels of gaslighting someone is perfectly acceptable
Sociopath, Psychopath, or just extremely narcissistic?

>>741751251
Manipulation is a form of control Anon...

>>741750265
I have a ton of real life experiences with many different types of females.

Honestly you are over thinking it, I would just go take her somewhere fun and make occupy her time so she doesnt wana message that loser.

Benefit of the doubt unless shes done something bad before.

Also you referred to the guy she emails a beta but you have yet to confront him and hes talking to your girl.. isn't he the alpha in this situation? Tell him to fuck off.

My Gf had some stalker creep calling her and texting her. she was getting annoyed so i called him up and told him to fuck off. It worked.

>>741751357
This

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>>741751285
Stop being 14 years old.

>>741750265
What are you, autistic? You shouldn't look to control her life. And how much do yoy actually care about her if you're considering dumping her over THIS?

>>741751357
Do get a bigger trophy for the triple threat?

>>741751365
Not if done right, passive manipulation has no damage on the relationship and you are able to make it look like you really want the best for them without bein pushy or rude.

>>741751285
>>741751328
maybe i'm not a pure alpha, but not a poor, fat crybaby trying to hit co-workers. that said, i don't believe that dude to be serious competition. but it fucks me a bit to know shit like this happens and she's ok with it.

>>741750767
This.

What the fuck are you doing, OP? I would say marry her already, but you seem like a fag that honestly isn't mature enough for that.

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>>741751463
>Not if done right
>done right
>right

Why "Dump her"? WTF dude. You've been together 12 years. And because of one betaboy who needs some encouragement. And your GF actually being sweet enough to give him that. You are thinking of dumping? That sounds so childish man! Is this kek or are you seriously such jealous manchild?

>>741751473
chill dude, you can always play with her mind and go with the "hey babe, so I was thinking about yesterday and I'm sorry for overreacting" then play the "but how would you react if I were in your shoes and some random girl texted me about how insecure she's with her weight and looking for my approval"

>>741751409
i don't even know the dude irl,
we moved recently to this town and she is the "new" colleague here. also, she told it to me last night.

anyway, the fat ass that tries to hit on the new chick by telling her, by email, when they are physically pretty close, that he has issues with his past fat and present belly... fuck lol

>>741751463
OP stop samefagging
>Also are you retarded enough to rely on an anecdote?

>>741751409
me

>>741751606
This guy is pretty good. Just do this faggot

>>741751606
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/how_to_be_a_cunt

Been in the same situation but I handled it differently OP.

>In relationship with girl for a few years
>One day she comes home to tell me
>" Hey Anon there is this Anon who is having a rough time and I figured I'd be a shoulder for them "
>" Okay babe, call me on your way home, be safe, let me know how it went "
>Go back to doing what I was doing
>She's stares at me
>" Soooo..you don't care Anon?
>" Care about what anonette? "
>" Me going to see this guy "
>" Sure you said you were going to help him with issues "
>" What if I was going to sleep with him "
>Stare blankly at her
>" Is that what you are going to do anonette? "
>" No! But it just seems like you don't care ! "
>" I didn't think I needed to anonette "
>" You don't but at least act jealous or something Anon good! "
>" That's stupid anonette because you would be pissed if I told you couldn't go also "
>She crosses her arms throws her purse down and sits in the couch
>" Forget it I don't want to go now "
>" Okay babe, hungry? "

She kept playing her games until she left me for some other bitch boy who would.

Shes still comes to fuck me every now and again.

They want a reaction from you, good or bad, it doesn't matter what you choose.

So remain stoic and make her think she shes better off with you by acting like her shit doesn't bother you and you have options.

>>741750942
so you suggest me to keep her, no matter what.. revenge?

>>741750265
GR8 B8 M80
/Thread

>>741751670
Okay dude just chill out and play it cool. Best thing to do is go on Rubmaps.com make an account and find a asian whore to get sucked off or fuck. That way you win either way. she has like a .05% chance of fucking that fat dude... way i see it if she cheats emotional u can do it physically. This is something i personally wouldnt do because i love my gf, but u know since u mentioned breaking up with her over this you have nothing to lose my friend!

>>741751680
that wasn't my reply.

>>741750265
You went about it wrong. Its not her place or job to be there for him. You are correct. But, its all about phrasing. It sounds innocent. But, she should avoid even the appearance of it not being. She was open and didn't keep it from you. But in the end, it should stop.

>>741751790
Leave, summerfag

>>741751708
>>741751748
Thanks I've been doing these since I was 15. (Only lost control over the brainwashing 2 times causing them to kill themselves when I started).

>>741751783
>Revenge
Haha, you are dumb.
If you take any personal action with the guy you will fuck it and turn into the bad guy inmediately.

Just go with the shit i said, then play the "i'm not telling you what to do babe, but i would always listen to you because i really really love over anybody else... but maybe i love you more than you do"

>>741751773
op here, this looks solid, but i'm not convinced would work out this way with my gf.

anyway, acting blasé while keeping a lot of options looks ok.

also, i had that sweet sweet fuckfriend i stopping seeing "for her" that still lives here.

>>741751773

>They want a reaction from you, good or bad, it >doesn't matter what you choose.

Only insecure girls do this. Get yourself a real woman who will appreciate the freedom you allow her, and you won't have to deal with that crap.

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>>741751773
Hands down the best advice here. It's alpha, it shows confidence and it will make her want you because she will be afraid of loosing you.
>>741750265
OP do this.

>>741752154
yes, it's interesting, but she will friendzone the fat ass and, who knows, there will come the day for him to visit us. yuck.

>>741752403
Don't have that fat fuck over to your house unless he is gay. It will be awkward as hell

>>741752403
visit your gf on her workplace.
pee on the doors
show your dominance

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>>741750265
You should date the beta

>>741752511
Yeah and piss in the fat guys face to... Fucking inbred

>>741751463
Triple threat isn't possible, while narcissism is a given in either of the first two.

Catfish him

Make him fall in love with you

Leave girlfriend

Go gay with him

>>741752537
>>741752561
but that would make me look even a bigger douche than forwarding their conversation to "everyone" or simply beating the fuck out of that acorn.

>>741752612
Well I get the three because I'm special.

>>741750265
get the whole email conversation and pictures of the faggot and post everything here

>>741752764
THISSSSSS

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>>741750707
You, sir are fucking insecure. Never breed

>>741752764
not in english. also, if i happen to cross that path, it will be better to expose his faggotry to his co-workers while making her liable of getting her corporate email "compromised".

it would be a shit storm, but the keks.. the keks..

>>741752930
my girls have got 5 abortions because I told them to.

maybe I should stop aborting them

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>>741750265

Well clearly you're an insecure controlling douche.

Ypu like your gf because you feel she's inferior and like her being dependent on you, but the moment she begins to feel some self worth you piss your panties and try to crush her spirit.

Obviously the best thing for all parties is to take out a million dollar insurance policy that leaves the crux to your gf and then take a bath with a plugged in toaster or high dive off the top floor of a building with at least 12 stories.

However, if you were to man up and fix yourself a nice bleach & ammonia cocktail, it would show at least that you weren't a totally faggot and that you took into consideration the mess people would have to clean up after you when you were gone.

The plus side here is your gf would see you in a completely different light and that my faggot friend, would last forever.

>>741752561
>>741752154
>>741752465
This is me.
>>741752711
I was joking..
First, don't forward the conversation, that's a horrible idea, it will make you look like a little angry child with his computer.
Second, don't fight the guy for no reason that's just stupid and might get you jail time, in which case she will leave. Just follow what anon told you earlier. >>741751773
Done deal, have fun.

>>741750265
You're insecure

>>741752998
no, she would move on and remember me with pitty.
also, i'm not fat, poor or impotent. why the fuck a hero?

>>741751114
The perfect state of mind

>>741751463
>are able to make it look like you really want the best for them without bein pushy or rude.

So you don't even mean it when you say you want the best for them?

First off you sound like a weapons grade autist.
Second, how'd you do it?

>>741753007
based, thanks

>>741753133
she's probably mailing him right now.
he sent him a good morning message after getting her number yesterday via mail
she said shes feeling sad because you both fight
and he told her she can trusthim

checkmate soldier

>>741753219
>So you don't even mean it when you say you want the best for them?
Of course I don't. I couldn't care less about them.
If I get bored I just ditch them and move ahead no fucks given. People are just an investment, when I feel that the pork is out of bacon I just throw it away and move to the next one

>>741750265
>is that normal and i'm being an insecure asshole or should i dump her?
why is this a question?
you are an insecure asshole and that is normal, she's not a muslim hijab wearing whore. she's trying to be nice.
you just don't want her to do anything weird.
go get yourself a muslim cunt. they like to be told what to do.
you should dump her because you're a fucking idiot.
god damn you're a fucking beta.

>>741750265
Youre acting insecure
Women love little projects like that but theyre hardly ever (if ever) attracted to them

If he cant even talk to her face to face then well what the fuck are you scared of

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>>741752511

>>741753286
true vs 2 months of fucking, maybe no do against 12 years.

folks, you helped me to calm down and see i 'm being a needy little kid. will tell her i overreacted, reassure her of my love, then start playing.

right now i feel like she's dead to me, but i enjoy the sex and, more important, want to win this - against her; the fat ass is losing as long as still breathing.

anyway, her emails, with full headers, will be kept. for the future.

the fact she told you is legit. hes trying to use her as an emotional dumpster thinking it will get in her panties. If she ignores it/brushes it off, you're gold

>>741753509
beta, gamma, delta..
but i don't like brown girls.

>>741750628
Post pics, do it for lulz.
>>741750265
Kinda, yes/no, yes.
Hope that helps.

Dump her. Solely because she deserves better than you jesus man.

How insecure are you??

>>741753642
that was what i expected, but since she got into osho, tolle, buddhist mumbojumbo, she acts like she wants to be fuckin gandhi. do i miss the selfish spoiled brat... fuck.

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>>741753133

Well you are an ignorant, potentially inbred, moron who doesn't feel any self worth unless he perceives (and that is a key word that you should really look up) that there is someone/people beneath him.

Now the fact that you have at least considered the possibility that you did something wrong and the fault might be with you, tells me you could potentially evolve from what ever lowly state of sludge you were when you selected to raise yourself up on the back of some insecure mentally unstable girl, BUT the realization you may very well come do during this "evolutionary" period in your life might lead to to a more disturbing realization that would likely send you to the same end.

I'm really just trying to save you some time.
As well as help your gf get a real life going for her with someone who gives a fuck.
What's her name again?

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>>741754250
hey, alice, why aren't you stuttering?
enjoy a classic dick i saved from here.

>>741750265
She should dump you

>>741754575
perhaps, or i should dump her. but, even if a bit hurt, i have to win this. are you fat?

>>741750362
Yep

>>741753412
Damn dude, you sound broken.

Still doesn't explain how you do it tho.

>>741750265
9/10 psychiatrists agree that you are being not only an insecure asshole, but asshole in general, and your GF will drop you as soon as she realizes how little self-reflection you posess.

Just reading your post made me feel antipathy towards you.

>>741757009
Did you spend the last two hours reading the entire thread or did you just post that shit?
/b has already helped OP and OP approved the advice, it's done. Maybe next time you can help.

>>741757138
ups you first guess is right, thread tldr mon :)

Lets see if I am in accordance with the general opinion of /b/ then.

>>741750265
You are being an insecure asshole. Dont decree to her. Talk it out. If she cant handle your feelings thats another thing all together but as it stands you are acting like a controlling douchenozzle.

You insecure. Women can have friends and not want to fuck em. You've been together for a long time, so she'd probably straight up with you.

>>741757138
Eh, it seems more and more like a bait anyways as I read through the thread. Seems like normal people were more numbered than psychopaths today though.

>>741757579
*numerous lol

Correcting myself on anonymous board, hmm... something went wrong with me.

>>741757579
Ha well that might be. There was some solid advice and there and as always a lot of crazy dumb shit.

shit on her fucking face when shes sleeping that will teach her a lesson

>>741750265
Watch out for those kind of dudes who talks to girl privately even though she already has a bf. Those kind of dudes are the ones who will snatch your gf when things between the two of you goes wrong, and women are passionately liars.

If I were you, give it to her straight of what you feel, don't hold back (just don't hurt her physically that's fucked up).

If she agrees to end the conversation, she loves you, but if she don't, she will eventually surely cheat on you.

Yes, you should definitely dump your girlfriend of 12 years because she sent an email to a coworker.

>>741750362
This.

>I'll never stop talking to my new found friend
What the fuck? Some random dude emailed you and has a heart to heart, your boyfriend of 12 years(why aren't you married you faggot) expressed his disdain of the situation and you basically tell him to fuck off? See ya scrub

You're a faggot if you dump her after 12 years without any proof or signs that she's cheating.

>>741759555
Trips dont lie you op nigger

>>741750265
leave her, you dont deserve her

OP, jealousy is natural, no problem with that.

Yes OP has accurately identified the intentions of the coworker.

Now it's up top the intentions of his girl.


First, you need to calm down OP. secondly, you have the password, so you can monitor their conversations.

Third, talk to your girl, tell her that she's a good soul and that she might be a little naive, but that you love her for exactly that. Tell her you think that the guy is more interested in her than in free therapy sessions, because that's how guys work. Add that you find his way of approaching her pretty pathetic.

As the other anon said, you might ask her how she would feel in your shoes - while she'd probably say she'd be completely okay with that.

You have different options:

1) Monitor their communications, and if he tries to make a move, discourage him vehemently.

2) Trust your girl - dunno about that. But she freely told you about that stuff, so she probably has no second thoughts atm.

3) go apeshit and make a scene

4) ignore it.

>>741750265
Why should you dump her because some loser likes her?

>>741750265
Let it go. Give her good d and treat her well.youve got nothing to worry about

Post pics of her

Your insecurity is pretty beta bro, so bad news she's attracted to betas. Should probably dump her now just in case she decides to leave you for a more beta beta. Then kill yourself before you potentially have a fatal accident.