>>739207666 If she sighs when you open a door for her, pull a chair put for her or pay for the meal. Leave. Not worth it. Must likely has her head shaved on the sides and hair dyed purple or blue as well.
Has has many partners/boyfriends in the past. A series of short back to back relationships. Issues with a father( not being there for her growing up abuse etc). Issues of over controlling parents, or emotionally detached mothers in the persons developing years 1-13.
Past Negros. All her friends are dudes. Lives with her parents. No job. No car. Owns a large dog. Has been in porn. Children. Any 3 are immediately a no for me. Any combination of the 2 could be acceptable.
No car is a huge one for anybody not living in a major city WITH adequate mass transit or who is in college and living on campus. I live just north of Atlanta, so chicks without cars are garbage because they are required to get around and work. Depending on how old you are, she may have an expansive dating history, I.e. dicks in her
I met a really nice and pretty girl, I don't meet too many around here. I found out why she was so nice pretty quickly, two female half black kids. I passed as most would. I still think of her from time to time because she knows why I passed. Two kids is too many and them being half black didn't help.
>>739208912 Problem with me is not the kids, but the damn STD issues with blacks. If she raw dogs a nig she is gonna end up with herpes, hpv, hiv and shit. Way too many nigs are infected and either do not know or simply do not care.
>>739207666 If shes not a boring dumb cunt and a slut - because then you understand her and you can be satisfied Btw red flags regarding one night stands - if you like her then you should fuck her (unless shes taken).. altho always use protection
I truly believe that most people are more or less equal by nature. Any person, given the right conditions, could be a very successful person.
But girls and especially attractive girls are treated very, very differently to men. You really cannot deny this. Between the cat calling and then genuine romantic advances, they are used to having inherent value where men are only as valuable as they are productive (passions, wealth, fitness, etc.). Years and years of this social conditioning naturally leads to a divergence of psyche. I can't know this for sure, but never having to struggle romantically in any serious way (I know very few attractive women who have *ever* hit on a guy, much less get rejected by a guy) would probably "spoil" me. Attractive women are intimidated by sexual harassment (punished for being outgoing and hardworking) and praised for their beauty (benefiting from their inherent value), so they generally tend to feel entitled to a certain lifestyle safety net (just become a housewife to a relatively wealthy man) while taking relatively few risks. A woman who does not take risks that benefit the team and instead coast on their inherent value is not a good partner.
>>739207666 If they post things to the effect of "When I'm single I sleep around, but when I'm taken I'm loyal as fuck"
Like, yeah, you're bragging about being a slut, and bragging about meeting the minimum standard for a relationship, ie. not cheating on your partner (blah blah, open relationships don't count, etc)
Every bad situation is always someone/something's fault that isn't her. Yeah, people have a habit of thinking they're in the right, but when you're constantly talking about how life is unfair I'm not interested.
Identifies as a feminist in conversations that have nothing to do with the topic.
Poor levels of reasoning. If she can't do basic critical reasoning, she'll never accept she's wrong.
If she can talk, she will lie. If she has good looks, she will lose them. If she is thin, she will some day get unbearably fat. If she is intelligent, she will exploit and manipulate you. She is not worth the work and she is not worth your resources.
>>739207666 Dunno man, anything that instantly make you think "uh" or "is she like that" in the first half year period pf relationship/dates is a red flag imho. Keeping that in mind, long term relationship is a bumpy road so being to precautious but not talking with her is actually red flag on you.
If she says I love you within 8 weeks. Girl I saw a while back said she was falling in love with me after 2 weeks of whirlwind romance. Noped the fuck out of there and got back with my previous girlfriend of 18 months and am happy. Who incidentally said I love you after about 3 months.
>Has Kids The biggest run for your fucking life; she's not actually into you, she's in full blown survival mindset to provide for her kids and will always place them ahead of of you. Run like hell, x100 if kids are niglets. >Party Girl Avoid her as her life is one big party, guaranteed she's been fucked by multiple Chads and nigs that she can't even remember their names. Also bad with money and responsibilities. >Liberal SJW Short dyed hair, fat, feminist, arts degree nuff said.... >Cut Marks Emotionally unstable, seeks attention in the worst ways. Typically batshit crazy as one of my neighbor girls was. >Raised Without Father Could still give her a chance but some that I met hate men and have emotional issues. >Super Attractive Run as she will never be able to resist a Chad, even late in marriage.
>>739207666 Wants lavish/extravagant things. Is unemployed. Grew up without a strong father figure. Has addictions. Nagging. Superficial in emotions (shallow expressions of caring, love, desire, ambition, etc.) Wants you to make more money. Has more than 10 sexual partners. There's a lot. This is what dating is for. So you can learn this shit yourself.
>>739217956 >claims she was almost raped in the past but has no evidence. what evidence, pray tell, can one hold onto that proves a rape? short of a giant scar? even then, you wouldn't believe her. you must be under the impression rape simply doesn't happen, because it's a near impossible thing to prove.
>>739218268 Thanks for typing what I was thinking, anon. Do chicks like about rape? Absolutely. But they also DO actually get raped or molested or whatever as well. My wife (who I've been with for 6 years) was molested by some asshole at a party when she got too drunk. No rape or anything, but he tried to crawl into bed with her and grope her tits and shit. This was before we got together.
>>739218488 it does to me. granted, i am absolutely insecure but taking my last relationship as an example.
they were together for 5 years (lived together for most). he was supposedly very controlling and she spent the first 2 months of our relationship bitching about him non-stop. she told me he was still in her life because they accrued a debt which i was okay with
some months after (6 or so) she decided to move out of her parents with her best friend, her ex and his friend and attempted to involve him in my and her life since out of nowhere they were "friends"
then she started lying about meeting him (had to snoop through facebook to discover this), claims i wouldve reacted badly (well no shit) and promptly dumped her
even if i believe she did nothing, she was gearing up to it. what i dont believe is how somebody who was a significant part of her life can stay involved without complicating things
>>739219197 I'm good friends with an ex of 2 years who now has a hold with my kindergarten friend. I have no interest in her and am happily married. It can be done, anon. Not all exes are cheating fuckwits.
>if she's dated black men >if she dresses like a slut >if she has guy friends >if she parties frequently >if she's had an abortion >if she has a kid(s) >if she's had a threesome >if she's amazing at sucking dick
>>739220142 >>739220292 i have actual beast lover experiences. nothing disgusts a normal man more than discovering that the woman he kissed or ate out sucks her dog's dick or fucks him. I outed one woman after her dog attacked me after she and I had sex.
>>739221137 no. I did tell the police about the attack as he took a big bite out of me. required stitches. had him put down. the truth came out about her from a previous boyfriend. I alerted her family and friends. end of story.
>>739221356 My wife has male friends. My wife dresses conservatively, but if we went to a club and she tried to look hot as hell, I'd understand. I'd even try to look my best too. Some girls are naturally good at sucking cock or only had like 1 boyfriend but he taught her well. You're overly controlling, and likely alone as a result. Am I wrong?
>>739221742 Married man here. That anon is right. If she's not a team player willing to help you when/how you need it, she's not a partner. She's a burden. Me and my wife both work full time, and today I had a migraine and she told me to stay home. I didn't. I'm not a pussy. But that's the kind of woman you want. Not the one who demands you do the yardwork with a 104° F fever.
>>739221580 >My wife dresses conservatively, Then you don't have a wife that dresses like a slut dumbass, I'm talking about 24/7
>Some girls are naturally good at sucking cock or only had like 1 boyfriend but he taught her well.
kek, is that what your wife told you? Get out of your dream world
>You're overly controlling, and likely alone as a result. Am I wrong?
You seem to misunderstand what a red flag is. These are things to consider not set in stone condition. If you think not wanting a whore for a girlfriend is "overly controlling" I can't imagine what your wife is like
>My wife has male friends.
Congratulations. Like I said, things to consider. If you meet a girl with 5 guys she hangs out with a lot, it's not a good sign
>>739222137 First point: Fair enough, but a woman who tries to look good is not necessarily a red flag. Painted toes. Clean, styled hair. Hot, well fitting clothes. You WANT that shit, unless you want to marry a frumpy fucking soccer mom who eats like shit, doesn't exercise and smells like a fucking buffet. Second point: I actually took my wife's V-Card and had 6 sexual partners before her. You're full of shit. You can just understand the mechanics of shit, anon. "Keep suction, slow but steady, tongue on undershaft, etc." It doesn't mean you moonlight under a fucking pornstar.
Third point: No. I get it. But you have some loose ass definitions on what should be a red flag. For instance: say she had one boyfriend for 5 years, he got her pregnant, they decided to abort because it wasn't the right move at the time, then they split and you get her like 4 years later. You think that abortion lowers her value? Well, you're full of shit. Same for having a couple kids so long as they have the same father.
Fourth point: I agree. Too many guy friends is certainly a prelude to some other kind of issue. But you just said "has guy friends." Not "is drowning in dick."
>>739209806 > This man speaks the truth Had a girlfriend with a pit bull that she never bothered to train. It was friendly but way too energetic and she couldn't control it. Her past 2 pit bulls had been euthanized because they bit people and she still didn't bother to train it. Thought of it too much like a child and coddled it instead.
>>739222933 It's kind of funny, I've never had an ex cheat on me, they've done plenty of other fucked up shit, but never cheated. This was with girls who had exes they were friendly with as well as platonic male friends.
>>739222651 >First point: Fair enough, but a woman who tries to look good is not necessarily a red flag. Painted toes. Clean, styled hair. Hot, well fitting clothes. You WANT that shit, unless you want to marry a frumpy fucking soccer mom who eats like shit, doesn't exercise and smells like a fucking buffet.
No fucking shit. I said dresses like a slut, not puts effort into her appearance.
>Second point: I actually took my wife's V-Card and had 6 sexual partners before her. You're full of shit. You can just understand the mechanics of shit, anon. "Keep suction, slow but steady, tongue on undershaft, etc." It doesn't mean you moonlight under a fucking pornstar.
And I can understand the theory behind hitting a golf ball, doesn't mean I'll do it very well without a good amount of practice.
>Third point: No. I get it. But you have some loose ass definitions on what should be a red flag. For instance: say she had one boyfriend for 5 years, he got her pregnant, they decided to abort because it wasn't the right move at the time, then they split and you get her like 4 years later. You think that abortion lowers her value? Well, you're full of shit. Same for having a couple kids so long as they have the same father.
Yeah I do think it lowers her value, if you're irresponsible enough to get pregnant and then can't even take responsibility for the kid and decide to abort it instead, that speaks to the values and maturity of the person. Different strokes for different folks I guess.
For the kid thing, it's generally not a good idea to get involved with someone who has kids, it depends on the situation though. Hence why it's a red flag.
>>739223402 I think we'd get along. I just changed my red flag priorities over the 26 cunts it took me to find my wife. Instead of bickering with you, I'll add more red flags you can probably agree with: >Believes in/follows astrology, psychics or any of the like. Unless you love stupid, vapid girls. >Has a massive sex toy/porn collection. If she's hard to satiate as a teen/young adult, good luck when she hits her prime in her 30s-40s. >Is highly religious when you're not. Spirituality is ok in small doses if you're not a believer, but if you're an atheist, marrying a 4th generation Orthodox Jew is a stupid fucking move. >Is easily bored/uninterested "Let's go do something. We watched TV last night. Etc." Sometimes, just sitting in silence doing your own shit is the best part of a relationship. >Refuses to cook or clean.
>>739224143 I agree. But even for a dude, 10 is a little high and free spirited. Plus, it's been shown the less sexual partners a wife had before her husband, the happier they are in the relationship. If you want, I can try to find the infographic.
Once again, depends on the age you meet her and circumstances. If you meet her at 29 and she has become sexually active at 17, thats 12 years of being sexually active and it works out to 1.2 partners a years, that's not much at all since dudes who are single in their 30s can easily sleep with at least one woman a year if they're not fucking retarded.
It also depends on the length of her relationships. I can understand having 5-6 partners in early 20s and then sorta settling down with relationships that are 2-3 years. Relationships are learned just like much of everything else, you don't know what you want until you know what you don't want.
I think putting yourself in her shoes and seeing if your feet smell like shit after is a good test for red flags. Speaking metaphorically for all you retarded fags out there.
>>739217956 >>739218268 I laughed at this too. This is basically a bullet point for the red flags for dudes > thinks you'll keep a baggy of your rapists semen around for him to sniff so he can determine if it smells rapey or not > thinks being red pilled on anything is something other than requesting bullshit indoctrination > thinks in memes from too much /b/ > NEETs > bangs your eleven year old sister after he promised it wouldn't happen a third time
>>739225959 >thinking anything good comes from trying to form a genuine human connection with a woman >thinking she won't take the vulnerability you show her and step on it without a care in the world If only I was this naive
Everything in this thread is retarded The only red flag you should note when talking to a woman is whether or not she may possibly be fucking crazy. Not like you perceive her to be crazy, I mean if she's actually bat shit fucking nuts. Like if she says irrational shit or is extremely paranoid for bizarre reasons. Other than that who gives a fuck. Who she's been with before doesn't matter as long as you're taking care of yourself, if you're working out and making sure you're as healthy as you can possibly be, you don't have to worry about who's in her past so long as you make sure you see her STD test results. If she's clean you've got nothing to worry about so long as you're not a "manlet" and I hate using that word because it really is such a piece of shit entitled thing to say but if you're doing nothing to improve yourself then that's exactly what you are (I don't go by height or weight, I go by fitness level). Also, the real biggest red flag is that she's a fuckin woman. You should be on your toes about the bitch in the first place because where as men once clubbed them over the head and dragged them back to their cave to fuck, the women of today have not only eliminated that behavior but turned it into a competition for their affection and companionship. The world is a big place and there's now a plethora of options, even after they've supposedly "settled down" so you know to never get too comfortable. it's an up hill battle that will never improve because the world is chaotic and savage. You want someone worthy of you? Want more for yourself, because nobody is going to want more FOR YOU.
>>739225059 anyone that doesn't have a public profile on instagram is either a troll, or too ashamed to be viewed by the public. Which one are you anon? There's no shame in wanting to show off cool pictures you've taken.
That said, if that profile is completely filled with selfies or motivational bullshit, then I would classify it as a red flag.
>>739227139 This does happen to girls that have strong relationships with their fathers, because they can't connect with the backstabbing emotionaly bullshit they get from females they try to befriend. It's why they want nerd friends. Dudes that will beta for them and be friends without having to worry about them trying to bang her.
>Black exes >Active/posts alot on Social media >Has a PhD+ in gender, socioeconomics or equality >Vegan >Spends most of her time talking about training and/or exerciseing more than an hour daily without participating in a sport
>>739207666 If her family is white trash, eventually she will become white trash. Don't fall in love with any bitch no matter how innocent and stupid she seems. They are definitely stupid, but will use you up and leave you worse off. Make them fall for you then keep dating hotter women on the side, dumping dumb ugos as you progress. This is the key to success.
>>739233590 Haha nice try. I speak from experience, being honest gets you nowhere. You are still under the temporary insanity known as infatuation. Eventually you will realize only wealth, family, and friends matter. You can always get a hotter younger woman if you have wealth. >>739233700 Women are worse scumbags. I'm not worried about being physically hurt by the weaker sex.
>>739234340 Not the same guy. I'm sure your wife would fuck me and leave you with minimal effort on my part. Im in my 20s, lived with an ex for over five years. Definitely better looking and more ripped than you, married pussy. You are too comfortable. She only married you to secure your assets when you two split. Nice job conforming to an antiquated institution created by religions to immasculate men.
>>739235285 Holy fucking shit, you're neurotic. I'm 27. We've been together almost a decade. She'd turn your childish ass down and tell me about the "fuccboi" she met today. You could never get a wife as high quality as mine. We're both atheist and have everything we want. I'm 6' and trained in Kickboxing and Tae Kwondo with some ground fighting and MMA. Come take her, manlet.
>>739235716 Lol all you just brought to light is that she never experienced other men as an adult. (unless she cheated on your stupid fake macho ass). My friends and i do mma, some are pro. You wouldn't come near me, we have created coma patients taller and stronger than you. I love violence of all forms except sex. Your wife is probably fucking other guys when you are "training". I'm a few years younger than you and guarantee i have more of everything. Enjoy your dwindling macho attitude, pussy.
>>739207666 Kids Unnatural hair colour Them ones that post shit like "what a real man does" No father figure in her life Damaged goods/Raped Puts out on the first date All her friends are guys White bitchs in general
>>739237148 What in the literal fuck are you talking about? I own a house, faggot. You may be the spergiest Sperg Lord I've ever met. You planning on destroying America's infrastructure? Because that's the only way your doing shit to my financial security, faggot. Look at you talk big from mommy's house with a double digit credit score. Sad life you lead, anon.
>>739237698 >>739237698 Which of us is naive? The one on the path to successful procreation and legacy with multiple grand in the bank, or the one claiming all da wymyn r ebul and no smart man would marry one? Hint. You know deep down it's you, faggot.
Red flags for a bitch you're thinking about dating are bad teeth, bad feet, bad hygiene, has kids, has had more then three sexual partners, can barely fry an egg, also any pubic hair is a no go unless you like that.
Obesity Sweat without exertion or extreme temperature Being skinny Being Vegan, Meatatarian, Disliking Vegetables, disliking meat, disliking any particular foodstuff category for no other reason than artifice or affect or reasons supported by pseudo science. Having zero interest in or zero ability in more than two of the following, art, music, science, mathematics A degree in gender studies A degree in health education, physical education, a degree of any kind including doctorate in religion More than 27 Photos of herself with her friends or strangers on her Wall, her FB wall, a collection of ex's that live nearby More than 6 sexual partners per decade of sexual activity Missing teeth, poor oral hygiene Granny panties with holes in them A potbelly that hangs down over her belt or is retained in place only by her suspenders A parent with any of the previously listed faults Daddy issues A collection of useless mass-produced objects Is learning a language because she is a fan of a culture Cannot or will not spell, punctuate, pronounce, enunciate, or conjugate English if it her first language Has an Unattractive feminine penis, if she has a femenine penis. Has a pot belly with skinny legs Has an odor of aldehydes, ketones, or acetone emanating from her hair, finger or toe nails, or her skin Is an alcohol Claims to be a girl gamer Uses operant conditioning or other psychological means to gain your trust and then withholds sex for compliance with small to large demands. Is willing to accept your marriage proposal when you are still a malformed proto man, and has more tattoos than years of experience at any particular job. Has a neck or face tattoo Claims artist status for her collection activities (Continued)
>>739238862 Sluts are immutable Once a female has had more than 6 sexual partners per decade of sexual activity the pattern continues.
A male with more sexual partners than 3 bevorw the age of 15, 5 at 17, 8 at 20, or 12 at 25 will most likely continue or attempt to continue the lifestyle of non monogamy despite failing at it once he is past his prime. Monogamy for female or males with this behavioral pattern is nearly impossible to achieve.
>>739208038 >>739208021 These two posts here are really the only posts that need reading. Honestly, just this. /thread/ These fucking hammer the nails into the coffin. If this thread is on page one rn or whatever page someone is browsing and they see this thread, look no further than here. This is the way, the truth, and the life my sons.
Excessive use of Instagram or Snapchat. Not because it's irritating or I'm a "muh anti-social media" faggot, but because that means she's likely an unfaithful whore who has exposed her body to other men, and can and will expose her body to other men behind your back during a relationship. Coming from experience here.
Discharge Smells like baby powder drives a jeep, wears plaid, the manual stick shift of the Jeep is a buttplug She pegs you mercilessly on the first date and laughs when you pout about your sore bottom making you unable to sit She suggests hers is bigger
>Takes multiple meds >has a kid (no father) >Hates her dad >Dad doesn't want to see her >has more than one cat >Is very influenced by mother,sister,girlfriends, basically anyone who is female, or anyone more than herself >Eats like a pig (even though currently thin) and drinks diet coke >Has a heifer mom >Talks about ex bf(s) sexual escapades, etc. as casual and constant conversation topic >Drinks excessively >Watches Grey's Anatomy religiously. >
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