A series of events led me to land a job selling offshore oil production safety supplies. This is normally a 30k or so a year job. It just so happened right after I started the US passed a bunch of new safety rules because of the Deep Water Horizon accident. I ended up making almost 80k at the end of 2013. In 2014 i made almost 200k. 2015 down to 80k for the whole year. Last year I made only 30k and this year looks to be even less then that.
In 2014 I met the most amazing girl. She is honestly the hottest girl I have ever seen in my life. 2014 I was killing it I leased a brand new Corvette when I met her. Lease ran out and I bought a Range Rover. I am renting a really nice condo.
Problem with my girl I am worried she is only with me for the money she THINKS I have. I am right on the verge of going into debt to keep up with her lifestyle. We are talking about getting married even.
I need to decide if 1. I tell her my true financial state I hope she does not leave. 2. Just dump her because I almost am sure she would leave. or 3. What I am really considering doing is going in debt and doing whatever it takes to make things last as long as they can and deal with all then. I am ashamed to ask anyone in my real life what I should do so I am asking you guys. Pic is her.
There is only one solution here. Tell her. If she leaves then fuck her. It's much better she left before you got married because trust me you don't want to deal with her leaving after. If she stays then great. Find a new source of income and move on.
>>739064482 Yeah she went to a private college on student loans and has a degree in fucking FRENCH and works at a little clothes shop making 10 bucks an hour. >>739064538 yeah but the pros list is strong as fuck for mean her body is just AWESOME
If this girl wasn't able to provide the lifestyle she has till you showed up and you are the only one holding it down you tell her the deal. A hoe will think you owe them. A woman will understand and move forward with you. Be honest. If she can't handle it then It was never real to begin with and you should stop risking your financial future and emotional well being.
>>739064694 Dude... wake the fuck up. Dream pussy or not, do you really want to fuck yourself over with a materialistic gold digger who is almost a quarter of a million dollars in debt? What the fuck are you doing/ thinking? I was all for you telling her the truth and hoping she stays until you showed that cons list. Run while you can.
>>739064790 That is what any rational person would do. I am just so scared to lose her. I actually thought of robbing banks. >>739064841 Yeah all my money is pretty much gone I a few more months of being able to cover my bills
Inny vagina is so fucking cash!!!! How can you lose that?
>>739063930 >>739064393 >over 200k in debt nigga how anyway, way too many con's (very specific to her personality) while her pros are very broad (any girl can be like that) also from >>739064314 that's a gold digging smile if I've ever seen one pretend something happened that sent you down into a deep state of debt (rounding the 200k, see if it rings anything with her) and see her reaction
Fuck her one night and give it your all. Get a pill if you need to. After that, tell her your job is not paying you as much money and that you need to adjust your life style for some time. "keyword is for a time". See her reaction. If shes genuinely understand and support you, stay with her. Maybe her lifestyle is like that because you both could have it. If she gets uncomfortable or act like a bitch, you will know it when you see it, dump her in a week.
You may think you love her but my man, love is a chemical reaction. You can love again and have serious feels for many women out there. Either find one that will stick on your hard times or stay with a gold digger who will divorce you when times get fucked up and will leave you for a dick with more money.
>>739065180 She went to a private college that cost 50k a year for 4 years. Her dad payed her living expenses, thats how she is 200k in debt. Her dad still pays most of her expenses matter of fact. I like the idea of a test scenario to test her reaction. But would it be a legit reaction or just what she thinks she say?
She's a classic gold digger most likely. I'd use her up if I were you anon. Fuck her in every hole and then stop providing for her. If she leaves you know she only loved the money, if she stays she loves you. Just make you you pound that shit real good one last time before you end it.
>>739065069 Understand that you are emotionally invested in something that will offer little reciprocation. Save the money and buy quality hookers. Be stronger then a useless bitches sexual manipulation. Bring up the possibility of making less money in casual conversation. If she is instantly repulsed at the concept, change locks, passwords, pin numbers and your social media. Then dump her far from any of your property. Be strong, don't fail yourself.
>>739065382 legit reaction, if she leaves move on if she stays, marry her >private college what degree? another piece of advice, get into a different line of work - if you're good with your hands, avoid college and get into a trade
>>739065801 You would think she would ask you about your day at work... When she does, remark that someone fucked up or rules changing or OSHA bullshit that potentially you might not be making as much as you do but it's a long shot so your not to worried, but remark that if it was to happen the basics of your lifestyle won't change, just most luxury. See how that goes.
>>739065585 Your rationality is being clouded by the fact that you love her. Look again at your pro/con list. Your pros are full of juvenile ideas like how she is silly and goofy and your mom loves her. We tend to idealize the people we a re in love with. Deep down, you know that the lifestyle you provide her with is a big part of why she is with you. Your refusal to discuss this with those that actually know you both is nothing more than a defense mechanism and you post here looking for some sort of validation.
Remember. When there is doubt, then there is no doubt. Dump her as soon as possible so you can move on with your life.
>>739066135 I might have slightly stretched the truth with her about how much money I have. Even if I told her I lost my job from what I have told her she was assume we would have a few years of being able to keep the lifestyle.
>>739066365 You're fucked, dude. Seriously, end it now before she wrecks your life. If you tell her about your money situation, there is a 100% she is going to find someone else that can give her what she wants. If you are freaking out about losing her now, her cheating on you is going to destroy you.
>>739066365 Well my friend... That voice you hear in your head. That's pride. Fuck pride. Tell her the truth. How you go about it, I recommend gently letting her know you will have cut out a small luxury, fine dining, expeditions, services. Something to say hey, I need to manage my money better if I'm to still have some.
second part. with the price of oil the US is not producing oil there is no money to be made at 45 dollars a barrel. We just buy from other countries. So if we are not pumping oil, why would people need saftey equipment for rigs with no one on them?!?
Wrong. You are giving her the chance to stay with you until she finds someone better. If you do that, she is going to say "don't worry about it, anon. I love you." and your mind is going to be filled with pink clouds and popping hearts. Then, one day you're going to find out she has been fucking some Chad with actual money.
>>739067084 Well fuck dude, that was really a kick in the dick when I was actually feeling good about talking to her. This also makes sense...FUCK ME this sucks, i actually teared up a little bit when i read that...
Just tell her faggot, don't be an idiot and fuck the rest of your life with debt just to keep her a few more months. If she loves you she'll stay. If she doesn't she'll bail. You win either way. Can't believe how immature you're being, pussy doesn't fucking matter there's billions of them. Grow the fuck up and be an adult jesus christ
>>739067327 Stop being a fucking pussy. You bought the fucking Vette. You rented the fucking condo. You gave her all that fucking money. Were you expecting to attract anything other than a money-grabbing whore?
OK I clicked it. OK so getting oil from offshore cost more to produce. If you have a derrick in a field in texas you keep on pumping out oil. If you are not going to make a profit with low oil prices you mothballl the rigs until the prices rises so you will make a profit.
>>739063930 >She is honestly the hottest girl I have ever seen in my life. 2014 I was killing it I leased a brand new Corvette when I met her. Lease ran out and I bought a Range Rover. I am renting a really nice condo.
If you can't live within your means, then you can't live with a partner, pet or children. You shouldn't have spent money on the most expensive things you could afford when you didn't have a stable income, you didn't save anything and you are pretty much paying her to keep her around, on top of that you have been lying to her about what you have.
Come clean to her, you shouldn't have been paying for shit to impress her to start with, if she isn't interested then enjoy the memories of her.
>>739068880 So no he hasn't been making good money these past few years, there is no dream girl, all this is is some loser faggot who is so bored he will make up all this shit to make his sunday morning slightly exciting
>>739063930 I know a couple hookers you could have over every night for much cheaper than 200k lifestyle bro guarantee this infatuation is not worth it. If she is really that focused on living high lifestyle bounce out. End of story.
Replying to my own post to tell my story because I was in a similar situation to you OP.
>be me, oilfag just like OP >2013 fukken bank that money >2014 FUKKEN BANK THAT MONEY NIGGA >2015 FUKKEN BANK THA-oh shit nigga wait hold on >2016 go from 6 figures to 40k >up to this point my wife and I are living the life, nice vehicles, nice house, two great kids in dance and karate and soccer and what the fuck ever else I don't even know because I'm always working >carry on through 16 as long as I can, my family deserves the best and I will give it to them god damn it >I just can't anymore >struggle for months pulling money from savings to cover the karate and dance lessons, the vehicle payments >I'm strong in front of my family but I literally cry in the shower because I know the end is near >tell my wife we need to talk >"baby, I'm sorry but I just don't have the money anymore, I feel like I've failed you." >paraphrased but you get the point >she cries, I cry, but at the end she hugs me and tells me she will help me figure this out >3 days later she tells me she got a job, she's never worked anything but part time and hasn't worked since the kids >daycare job dealing with little shit children all day >she starts cooking more (she fucking hates cooking) >she still takes care of the kids despite being exhausted all of the time >I soldier on at work doing whatever I can, working days off, working even longer shifts than I used to >we shave costs where we can but make sure the kids have the best >we even cut Netflix >nigga it's only like 8 bucks a month and we cut it >we survive 2016 >2017 eyyyyy oil price good to see you again >things are returning to normal once again, we've done it, we survived.
Swear to god I'll be with this bitch until the day I die. I had the same worries you did, she'd bail and collect the child support and leave me fucked. You don't even have kids OP, you have literally no consequences besides a lost pussy.
>>739063930 Op, if you would rather keep a gold digger than live a life that you want, your retarded and deserve all the debt and crippling depression you get. >when crippling depression hits you and you want to kill yourself and ask 4chan for tips, plz tell us it's you so I can get my kek.
>>739069880 I fucking know dude. Its just sucks to be at this point. I kinda knew it would come. I just hoped more people would be saying. FUCK IT JUST KEEP IT GOING AS LONG AS YOU CAN! Wishful thinking on my part. Fuck this sucks
>>739070097 >>739070097 Why post this if you already answered you own question. Is your hobby to just try and punch holes on every thread? And it wasnt right before she made it to college it was gradual through her childhood.
>>739069485 Not even close to being the same situation. You were married with 2 kids and had established a life project together. This lying retard is talking about a whore she has been banging for a couple years.
>>739070279 Dude, you are asking retarded questions, posting fake pics and you story if full of holes. Just accept you got caught on your bullshit story and be happy that some morons actually believed you. Just leave with some dignity.
>>739063930 You fucking faggot >being in a relationship isn't about money >if it is it isn't a proper relationship >tell her the truth if she dumps you >you've dodged the bullet >you don't work just to give someone else everything >before you tell her though >do something romantic and fuck her in every hole >make sure you either video it or take plenty of pics > in the event of her dumping you >make thread on be and expose the money grabbing slut. I'm an oldfag been there seen it done it bought the t shirt went back and bought another 6 t shirts then done it all over again many times. Really old oldfag by the way
What the hell are you talking about? A guy that manages to make money will stay trash. A young girl whose daddy makes it big is a far different story. Those tend to become sorority bimbo bitches in college. Not classy, but definitely not white trash. This nigga is lying
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