Feminist, colored hair, colored ex boyfriends, smokes, can chug three beers, uses drugs, likes the color pink and wears it frequently, eats fast food, is jewish, has a kid with someone she still talks to,
1: Bitch has a host of guy friends 2: She takes calls and texts when you're out on a date and eating. 3: She starts discussing gender relations and feminist BS. 4: Tells up up front that she no longer requires sex and is Asexual of some other fucked up reason. 5: Shares house or apt with guys and tries to tell you they're just friends. 6: Expects you to open doors, pay for everything but still speaks about equality for women. I could go on for many pages.
I have been with dozens of women. Maybe even into the low triple digits. I'm not sure. I'm a fucking old fag at this point. (34).
I'm now happily married and have been for years.
My wife is a submissive, sweet, extremely intelligent, attractive, and overall impressive woman.
My advise from many years of trial and error?
Date women who are 25 and younger. That's fine, and by date, I mean fuck and never get emotionally attached to them for any reason.
When you get ready to settle down/get a serious woman, make sure she is at least 30.
Even the most sane, loving, "keep" who is now 30 was a crazy fucking cunt when she was 22. That is just the reality of how women work.
I also recommend NOT trying to marry an American girl. I'm not saying all of them are bad, but we are producing a culture more and more (SJW) that promotes and creates a woman that no real man will ever want to tolerate for any reason unless he is a sad little bitch cuck.
My wife is Canadian, and their culture still values for the most part real values. I love visiting Canada, they manage to be progressive and liberal WITHOUT shitting on conservative values somehow. In America we shit on conservative values as a way of promoting being progressive and modern. In Canada they basically say, "Be gay, or feminist, or whatever you want eh, but respect my right to be conservative too eh?"....and they actually do.
Anyways back to my main point. Make sure she is at least 30, make sure she is fine with you setting her rules, and make sure she doesn't identify as a feminist, SJW, or anything even remotely similar.
Before I married my wife I had a serious conversation with her, like an adult, where I told her, "Look, I'm a man, I like being a man, and in my opinion this is what being a man means in a relationship. A, B, C, D. Also, I like women, and I like my women to act like women, and this is what I expect. A, B, C, D. If you aren't on board that ship, that's fine, get out.
There's no guarantee of that. Even if she does have money it's because she's likely incredibly frugal. That may or may not be a bad thing depending on how you want to live. I'd avoid anyone who acts like a Jewish American Princess though.
Not OP, but some people really do want those hardcore traditional roles. The real takeaway from his post is the importance of open and honest communication when it comes to desires and expectations. If she wasn't OK with the arrangement that he was looking for she could've just walked away.
Or maybe, in her 30's, she was terrified she wouldn't find anyone else and shes got so much pressure from friends and family to pin someone down that she's settled for someone who is actively crushing her dreams. Poor woman.
1. They always seem to be complaining about something, whether it's their job or people. They don't seem happy. Why this is bad: they've trained themselves to blame others for their own inner angst and they're already not happy. It won't take much of a push to start including you (or things you do) in the list of stuff they dislike. Bonus points: they're bitch about you to other people until all their friends know what a lousy BF you are.
2. They lie about the little, inconsequential things. "Oh sorry mom, Anon and I were late because we thought we heard 2PM and not 1PM" Why this is bad: Besides tat they can't be trusted, it means they're lazy with morality and take advantage of people through misinformation. If they're doing it to cover up their inadequacies of being a decent, responsible adult, even worse. It's the "my feelings are more important than you" bullshit and its a pattern.
3. They can't take care of themselves. Bad job, can't pay rent, people bailing them out, always talking about how they're eventually go back to school or stop drinking, smoking, etc.
If they can't take care of themselves, how the fuck are they going to take care of you. And I mean basic things like emotional support or not weighing you down with their bullshit
>If every past relationship she had was 'abusive' >If her place is a filthy mess don't let her blame it on her roommate >If she doesn't wrap tampons/ pads before throwing them away >Hair dyed a color/ piercings/ tattoos that prevent her from getting any kind of decent job >if she's ever cheated before usually goes hand in hand with 'abusive' relationships related >if she's in a relationship, but needs you to save her/ steal her/ etc
Some feminist views aren't inherently a red flag, but >intersectional >patriarchy >rape culture run, son
>drinking and drugs Yellow flag if she does them a lot, red flag if she shows zero self control (e.g. regularly getting blackout drunk)
I donT know your situation but here is mine... I'm 24 yo male. And Im talking to this 20 yo Female. She is asian, docile, shy, and likes everything to do with me. I already had 3 sex partners before, but she had none. She has been strictly taught to keep her virginity till marriage, becuase she is also a muslim. And I have to convert to be a muslim, and she is completely into me. Is it a deal Anons?
I also want to echo the "don't seriously date anyone under 30". And only fool around with a girl under 30 if its extremely obvious that she's a slut who has zero desire (and I mean ZERO) to want a loving relationship. If you break those 3 rules, you're going to have a shitty 6-12 mo that you can't get back.
A women under 35-36 has a shit ton of options with men. She's five deep with suitors in all departments: sex, love, etc. As long as she feels she can trade up even with ONE characteristic, she'll always have one foot out of the door.
Its that sweet spot in the early 30s where, if she wants to have kids and a family, she'll really feel she needs to settle down and will pick the best guy that can give her that. No woman wants to be 50 when her kids are just getting to high school.
Lies are #1. If she lies about little things without batting an eye she'll have no problem doing it with stuff that matters.
Hard drugs. Most people who get into them end up with a problem somewhere down the line. Opiates/opioids being the reddest. Do not under any circumstances get involved with someone who has had a problem with heroin no matter how much sobriety they've had.
Caught feelings for a one night stand who approached me, being beta i started to hope for more.
Came by once and some dude was standing in her room. Told me he was cool met him at the mailbox and they were just talking.
Hmm, a few days later i came by skipping class and her and a female friend was doing hair. Next to her trash bag like it fell off the top was a Magnum condom wrapper...inside there was another.
I got real quiet and told her i had to go. She called me a few times and i was just sitting in the car a few blocks down feeling angry. I asked her about the condoms and she told me "her and her friends use them as water ballons for fun." I spend one more night with her and she tells me dont bail in the middle of the night. Said she has had a guy leave in the night door unlocked while she was sleep.
Take her to the store in the morning. I never call her or see her again after that.
>>739067526 >And only fool around with a girl under 30 if its extremely obvious that she's a slut who has zero desire (and I mean ZERO) to want a loving relationship.
This doesn't work if you also have zero desire for a relationship. She has to feel like you (at some level) want one, else she'll become intrigued and start wanting one.
>"Don't get the wrong idea, this is just sex. I have no desire to date you" >Perfect, I feel the same way. I don't want to date you either >"Why not" >"What are you doing tomorrow?" >"I want you to meet my parents" >"pls respond"
>>739062262 look up "how to spot a narcissist", and you'll find plenty of red flags there. as most women are raw narcissists nowadays.
getting tired of social media now because it's basically just woman worship. women constantly flooding feeds with selfies, suggestive photos and other similar shit and both men and other women literally worshipping them for it.
even ugly bitches are doing it, and being worshipped for it. it's actually insane.
>>739064555 30 is important. Most mental issues will appear and manifest before 30. If you pick a long term partner in her early 20's you are playing roulette. Many (most) women have some kind of mental problem/damage.
>>739064555 Yeah, your wife is faithful......she sounds like my friends wife, sweet, petite, soft spoken and unassuming. Until we bugged her home phone and heard her telling her boss how she loves to eat his cum.
Have plenty of guy friends and spend your money on hookers. Trust me kids, as an Oldfag (46), i speak from experience. Women well just suck your soul from you and your money/house/pension.
>>739069035 nah exactly man. they crave male attention but they hate men who give them attention because they consider them thirsty. but then they also hate men who don't give them attention because apparently they're entitled to it.
smh. better off just avoiding women altogether, doing your own thing, bettering yourself, and pumping + dumping any bitch that makes a move on you.
don't date a girl who can't just relax and stay in every now and then and be comfortable with themselves.
To put it in perspective, I dated a college slut who was into light BDSM and stuff for 3 years (pussy blinds you), and the day we broke up, she basically showed zero emotion. She was one of those people that needed to be constantly "out with friends" or doing something to be happy, and would mindfuck you if she didn't get her way.
she met a guy the day we broke up, after 3 years. don't ever date young, immature college slut with past sexual trauma. And definitely don't assume or think you can help them grow as a person.
I'd go as far as to say, truly mature, truly intelligent, truly independent thinking females that will make good partners won't even drink unless it's in very controlled circumstances, in a very controlled environment, e.g. with a long-term group of friends or family. or both.
so pretty much all females who go out drinking to random places or find any excuse to drink at any given opportunity, which are a good majority as I see it, are swere-worthy to say the least.
>>739070853 so it's obvious that she felt in control because she had other options lined up for the eventuality of you breaking up. I'm gonna assume she broke up with you. probably because you weren't enough of a simp to trade in your freedom for her pussy and be her personal slave.
>>739065845 >If she's in any way into horses, run. Can't explain it, just trust me.
Hahaha, fuck, you are right. Also, ask about her father. A broken relationship with her father almost always results in a broken relationship to other men. Either she will cheat or she will be clingy af.
oh yeah, another major red flag as well is, her knowing you or at least knowing of you for a while. never showing you interest at all, but then all of a sudden doing so.
something's changed and all of a sudden she wants something from you, and whatever it is, you'll end up worse off for it no matter how charming she might seem and how much you might seem to gain from whatever might happen.
chances are if this happens, you're just a stepping stone or a stand-in until something better comes along, or she sees you as easy and thinks she can claim you at the drop of a hat while she's having difficulty with another guy.
>>739071321 yeeeeee, same thing happened with my ex. haven't been together for over six months now. still get random phone calls from her at like 5-6-7 in the morning on weekends (probably drunk). it's hilarious as well because she left me (because I left her due to some female bullshit she put me through, but then I gave her a second chance, dumb move, just gave her the opportunity to leave me lol). and since she left me she hasn't left me alone for more than a couple of weeks, but I've ignored every text and every phone call. haven't even bothered to block her on anything.
she was also on antidepressants, smoked quite a bit of weed and drinks a lot too (works in a pub as well and always drinks after work). always used to harp on about her mental health, her self-destructive ways etc. that was her excuse for leaving me lol, said she was doing me a favour because she doesn't wanna drag me down with herself.
>>739071479 same thing mate, she wanted you to give up your life for hers in a trade-off for pussy, you said no so she went elsewhere. good move on your part though, respect man.
I actually think it's hilarious when these bitches think their pussy is worth so much. it's not even as if we get it for life. even if they're 18 and they stuck around for life, we'd only really get about 10 years of good pussy then it's all downhill from there. so it's not really worth much at all.
even if it's something as small as tryin to change your style. fuck her right off. she's trying to convert you into a status symbol that suits her, like a fashion accessory that'll make her look a certain way to other people.
>met church girl >she's really shy >1st date we eat together >2nd date we hang out in beautiful place and we kissed/hug for 1 hour. >3rd date we kissed in her place >4th we kissed and became hot (touched her boobs/ass) innawoods after a motorcycle ride
She tells me that it goes too fast for her, she is not sure about her feelings i guess.
I dont want to miss her she is wife material, and i think i did a good job on the romantic "escapade".
Tomorow ill see her and talk about it, wish me luck
Scars, cuts, makeup (If too much), a dick, a self centered attitude (Meaning "Everything is about me, serve me, etc), fake breasts or fake butt, anorexic, land whale (250+ lbs), doesn't love me back. That's pretty much it, I'm desperate
Well, this is just from experience, even though it sounds like straight from Freud or something. From a psychological perspective it seems like people tend to search for partners that are in some sense similar to their parents. Their partners represent emotional safety and and a feeling of "family", so you are bound to compare them to the people that provided these things when you were growing up. Potential partners who have a damaged relationship with their parents (for women the father is important especially, for men it's the mother) just can't connect a relationship to a partner to a feeling of "family". Often, they don't believe that relationships can work out and provide them with the emotional safety they need, simply because their own parents failed to demonstrate this to them when they were young. So in short, ask them about their father. If her relationship to her father is disturbed in some way I would suggest you stay away from her. Most of the time this is a hint that theres a psychological defect that you as a potential partner have to deal with.
for a year and a fuckin half I dated a stripper. unbeknownst to me was a legit dental hygienist when we started seeing each other. Im a painting contractor btw . mother fuck, I still paid for everything. I found out this after we broke up, man i thought i was going to marry this chick. anyway, i guess what im really trying to say is that just because you think something is legit you never know. im not an idiot , but man talk about the wool being pulled over my eyes. you never know man. trust is highly important once that is lost...you are fucked
Haha, I see... Well, I can't really elaborate on this, it just seems that women who are really into horses are prone to being damaged psychologically... At least if they are older than maybe 22 or something. I don't know why thought
>posts anything on any social media platform with the caption (dm me / message me), chances are, she's just doing it to see how many lads message her and she won't reply unless you're a perfect 10 who splashes out on shit you don't need and constantly show off your materalistic lifestyle and chiseled abs on your social media
>>739070452 Every culture for thousands of years had traditional roles and the equality that has been achieved has been a result from building civilization, which is inadvertently unnatural. It wasn't until chicken and cows could be purchased in a Wal-Mart where women could evade traditionalism. So yeah it's biological dumbass.
apparently there is quite an interesting correlation between IQ and homosexuality in men.
apparently, men that are more than above average in IQ are much more likely to be homosexual, or at least become homosexual at some point in their life.
to me this suggests that, the more intelligent a man is, the more he can understand women, thus, the more repulsed he is by them, and most specifically their behaviour. and he tends to become so repulsed by them that he seeks other means to fulfill his sexual urges. e.g. other men.
so basically, it could be that women are actually turning men gay with their bullshit.
>>739068842 This is absolutely correct. My ex wife went bat shit crazy when she got pregnant at age 28. It completely fucking broke her, mentally. She went from a sweet, submissive but hilarious and intelligent woman who let me do literally anything I wanted to her at any time...into this yelling, cheating, abusive, neglectful, and cold hearted bitch. She did so many things just to spite me. She had 3 affairs that I know of, drained our savings account, neglected our son from the moment he was born, lied about nearly everything, and often told me she didn't love me.
If anyone's interested in the story, I am going to make another thread about it.
when a woman meets a man she wants to keep around as a utility, if he has enough of what she perceives as benefits, she'll use pregnancy to get him on lockdown so he's pretty much always there for her use.
she'll be the perfect woman up until the moment she's pregnant, then you'll see the true demon behind that sweet face of hers.
had this happen to me many times. well, had lots of women claim to be pregnant, or say that may be, and it's all been leading up to them wanting to basically have an eternal claim on me and my resources. it's always the same. around the time of these possible pregnancies they want me to splash out on them even more than usual (shit test to see if I'm worth keeping around), as soon as I use the excuse (well if you're pregnant I need to start saving so the baby has everything he / she needs), they run a mile because it's clear I'm actually a responsible adult and not just somebody who's ready and willing to unquestionably be their serf.
women are monsters mate. let this be a lesson learned.
>>739078403 I always thought that women never really changed, that they never really matured past the age of 16-18, that they just basically got better at hiding their immaturity and sneakiness because the older they get, the need to if they want to attract a mate that's actually going to be beneficial for them in the long run.
>>739076066 I actually did exactly this. My last female relationship made me so disgusted by women that I decided to exclusively see guys. I started by going out with more men as friends, and letting them have their way with me. you can condition yourself by fapping to exclusively gay porn as well. Men are so much easier to deal with and don't deceive you the way women do.
I believe this is partly what's referred to as sexual confusion as well.
the sexual urges are still there, but to whom they're directed is all fucked up because of the repulsivity towards the opposite sex and their behaviour, so naturally the mind diverts that attention elsewhere to compensate.
instead of letting our men turn we need to start putting these women in their place.
Yup. Totally fucked. Its a sign they are either on drugs, or that they are currently in a state of mania as the result of bipolar/BPD disorder. These are the kinds of girls who are batshit NUTS and you do not want them in your life. Bad fucking news, take it from me.
>>739080419 good choice man. it's a shame that men have to go to these lengths (pun kinda intended), just to play it safe.
it pisses me off that there was nobody around to teach us about this shit. no male role models. I'm willing to bet you're in the same boat as me. nobody taught you about this shit, or even warned you about it, you were forced to learn on your own.
she wants you to be like "I'm not like the others" and go-all-out in an attempt to treat her better than all your predecessors. but she does the exact same thing to every male she's involved with 'cause she's in it for the goodies and the attention and that's it.
>>739080878 Yeah. Thing is, she freaked out when she found out she was pregnant, even though she purposefully stopped taking her birth control and wouldn't let me pull out.
And yup, absent father. I saw him maybe 10 times between when my parents divorced until I was an adult. Then I saw him less. So I have been on my own in many ways. I separated from my wife a year ago and haven't had the balls to be with another woman yet.
>>739081670 Dear God I learned this the hard way. Treated the girl like gold and said "the only history that matters is the history between us". Got cucked to high oblivion for a guy she got drunk with. And guess what? "She wanted to be happy", after everything that I did. Traded me in for a guy she fucked the same night she met him. Don't try and "save" women, they'll play on your protective instinct to get you to treat them well, but it's only about them and not about you.
>>739082029 freaked out how exactly? I mean if she purposefully got pregnant to trap you then I can only assume the freak out was fake and was to make you think she never intended it to happen (even though it was blatantly obvious she did).
yeah same kinda. wasn't really absent but was a father of convenience. never really taught me anything at all. he's a cuck himself. constantly chases single mothers and goes out of his way for them rather than actually make effort with his own kid.
same here though man, I'm outta the dating game now. have far too much I wanna do with my life. be assed with a woman ruining it all for me. if I ever want kids I'll go the surrogacy route. I don't need sex. had my fill. it's nothing special. pussy is overrated.
>>739073043 Most women are like this tho. Never really met one that isn't. If they aren't skanks already then they'll become one. Pre age 30 women just want tons of dick and or attention. Then at 30 they get that realization of losing whatever shit she has so shes gotta get someone with money and success to tie down
>>739082159 mate, story of my life. was raised by a single mother and a great grandmother. basically surrounded by women and few men, and those men didn't teach me a thing. so naturally I just wanted to treat women well and take care of them because that was what I was told men should do and that it'd benefit me to do that too. that I'd get myself a good woman etc. all lies though.
being that kinda man just ends up with you cucking yourself out for narcissistic women who self-victimise specifically so they attract males like you who want to make things better for them.
this is why the traditional dominance hierarchy in the family unit is important. because if the male isn't dominant, the woman becomes dominant, and everything begins to circulate around appeasing women whether by overt or covert means.
>>739082616 I'd go as far as to say, under the right circumstances, every woman is like this. because they lack the psychological makeup to actively defy their biological imperatives unless they consciously work at it over a long period of time. reproductive / sexual marketplace value is of uppermost importance to them, so they skank it out with the best males they can get access to. women hate themselves if they aren't getting sexual attention, well they hate themselves even more because even when the are getting it, they still hate themselves. skanking it out is just like positive affirmation for them that they're still attractive, which is all they care about.
>>739062708 I don't agree with everything, but her being feminist is a 11/10 red flag. Especially if they are talkative about it. I honestly don't know what those soon-to-be-dykes on tinder expect to get when they make it clear in their description. Come to think, long descriptions about them being "feminist, thought provoking, farts smelling" are absolute red flags.
>>739082688 it's because the majority of them nowadays don't need to work on their intellect or their personality because all they need to get what they want is to have an average face and average body. us men put much more of an emphasis on these things (intellect and personality) because we have to work on them our entire lives to get what we want so we project that onto others (women) and expect the same when in reality they have no need to have interests or hobbies or intellectual pursuits most of the time. nor do they have the time because they're too busy fixing themselves up, going out on dates with numerous men, lying in bed eating or going out drinking.
>>739064555 >My wife is Canadian, and their culture still values for the most part real values. I love visiting Canada, they manage to be progressive and liberal WITHOUT shitting on liberal values somehow. In America we shit on liberal values as a way of promoting being conservative and traditional. In Canada they basically say, "Be creationist, or libertarian, or whatever you want eh, but respect my right to be liberal too eh?"....and they actually do.
>>739062262 >weird change in habits >crazy eyes >insists on you to pay for everything >doesn't own a toothbrush >has a shitty job >has no direction in life >had more then 5 men before she met you >no vehicle >speeding tickets >previous child/children >massive debt >daddy/mommy issues >short hair >fat arms >doesn't suck cock
>>739064555 Coming from another oldfag this guy is right. Go ahead and don't listen though, keep buying that sjw agenda and end up cucked. Females can't change biology, they are attracted to real men who know what they want. Go ahead and put pussy on a pedestal and see where it gets you young padawans.
>>739067379 I'm in a similar situation, but the girl is a Christian, so her father wants me to be a good Christian husband. I live 9 hours away now, but her dad still contacts me and asks me when I will marry her. They're refugees, so the arranged thing is normal but it seems weird to me. I entertain the idea of marrying her occasionally, but I don't think that I could actually do it.
>>739068820 Exactly, and most guys get a very small likes for equal quality photos. Any old bitch will get 50+ likes for posting anything, 100+ like for putting paint on their body or some artistic shit. Its is all self indulgent self worship. I wish guys would stop chasing though and tone these basic sluts down. A year out of highschool the smarter guys will stop giving out likes.
>>739084919 hahaha fat bitches posting nudes on insta with the caption "free the nipple" and they get hundreds of likes.
I post a sick filtered edit of a dick pic I took and I get shitloads of unfollows pfffft.
but yeah I know what you mean. I actually get pissed off when I see all these thirsty little manchildren constantly commenting on female's photos and liking them in the hope that they'll be noticed and get a DM. it's utterly pathetic and makes things so much harder for everyone.
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