>Meet girl at party >hit it off well >works with kids, seems like a really kind girl >her apt walls get fucked by heavy rain >offer to host her until she finds something else >great sex, she cooks, clean, does laundry >she gets sick and into hospital >search through her stuff at her request to get her clothes etc to hospital >find one of my fav t-shirts in her stuff >leave it there to see if accident or intended >day comes for her to leave >bags are packed and she's not home >my shirt nowhere to be found >also pair of sunglasses missing >currently waiting for her to come and take her baggages.
What do /b/? I'm literally sick to my stomach, thought I finally found a nice caring girl, turns out she's a fucking thief. Wondering what else I'm missing.
How do I confront her about this? I hate conflict and she has a copy of keys. Would prefer no direct confrontation until I change the lock.(later today)
If I get some good advice, I'll fuck her when she gets home and post nudes.
Fucking sluts man. Literally ruined my hope in ever finding a girlfriend material person, going to just pump and dump.
>>738963146 Just be direct about it bro. Did you look for your sunglasses in her baggage? Cuz I wouldn't even consider parting with my favorite t-shirt much less my sunglasses, also if she says some emotional stuff about her missing you then make sure to really get them nudes
>>738963146 Are you sure she actually is stealing and not just really into you and wants a memento? Just calmly ask her about the shirt and see what she says. plus sunglasses get lost all the damn time, get over that.
>>738963779 Hey man I used to be a hardcore atheist most of my life, I've had many "coincidences" that confirmed to me that God exists. Do what you want with your life but I sincerely hope at some point you'll find Him too, my life really turned out great since.
>>738964027 Lots of anal references, maybe you wish I was a faggot. Have you ever had a strange feeling in your cock when seeing a homosexual movie scene? Dunno man, you sound like more of a faggot than me just saying.
jesus fucking christ why not just ask her if she has seen your shirt or the sunglasses? Just pretend you are genuinely looking for them. Another possibility is that she actually has them acidentally and doesn't even know.
Lot of you guys seem to be ok and acting like it's normal for a girl to take your stuck what the actual fuck, is this the world we live in? Glad I've been having only ons and sending bitches home in the last few years.
Anyway outcome of her coming home.
>She stays with me for a cigarette I act as if everything is ok. >She asks if she can "steal" one of my hoodies >I jokingly say what else have you been stealing >She says nothing >notice lower lip twitch, not an expert in body language but sure is strange >I insist >she says open my bags >I say nah not my thing and play it off as a joke >she left her laptop and some of her clothes here >Will return in about a week probably going to live with me for some time again.
I'm fucking confused guys. I mean she's really cute/petite small boobs but nice ass, and really nice person otherwise (works with autist kids helps them recover).
Fuck you 4chan thanks to you I'm now considering keeping a thief as a gf.
>>738963146 She did laundry are you sure she didn't just mix up the clothing, maybe you should just ask her? But if you really think she is stealing from you trust is gone and for her to steal from you after you helped her, then fuck her
>>738965778 Yeah mean this is it, I mean the shirt was there this morning when I took her stuff to the hospital. I dropped her stuff and been with a friend at lunch, when I returned her bags were packed and shirt nowhere to be found.
Seriously? you are butthurt over a t-shirt??? Women do this shit all the time if they like you. You want her to leave, keep obsessing over a fucking t-shirt and she will gladly leave your punk ass. Grow the fuck up man!!!
But yea, I have serious problems trusting people, after I've been stolen from several times in the past and fucked over by people I let in close to me.
Some people here think girls taking your stuff is normal but I really don't like this and don't know if she's really doing it because she likes my smell or some shit ( shirt was used and smelled heavily of my perfume by the way) or she's actually a thief.
She's only 20 and I expect girls to be crazy but what the fuck man seriously stuff like this makes me wanna mgtow
>>738965924 Ask her directly in a calm tone, hey I can't find my stuff, shirt and sunglasses, have you seen them. If she say no, I would say, but the last time I saw them you had them, so I am wondering where you put them
>>738965625 >>738963146 Who cares man, girls steal my shit constantly, it usually mean she likes me and wants to smell me or wants me to come hang out with her more. It's a fucking t shirt. Unless you dumb enough to buy that $200 Kanye shirt it's probably just a t shirt
Also, grab your sunglasses back, that shit is an inconvenience
>>738963146 I think you're overreacting, I mean if she has keys to your house, you guys must be a pretty solid couple. She probably didn't mean much by it, some chicks do that kinda shit. Just ask her where your shirt is/tell her to give it back. w/e man
>>738966032 Are you retarded? I don't care if she comes/stays/plays or leaves. I don't need a woman in my life but this girl I actually thought was nice and girlfriend material ( good with kids, cleans, cooks, laundry, very girly, lots of kisses, good bj, etc). but like this guy says >>738966399 relationships are all about trust, if she pulls this shit 2 weeks in how can I trust her in the future?
>>738968772 I'm not saying I'm Chad, but I've had my share of pretty girls every now and then, been avoiding relationships cause bitches be crazy. Really thought I found an unicorn here but looks like they really don't exist
>>738969563 Are you implying stealing is ok and I should just ignore it? What's with the christian hate on this board? I'm not here to convince you of anything you believe what you want, I have absolute proof of God and don't care what anyone else says about this.
There's nothing wrong about being a Christian and having sex before marriage. I don't belong to any sect and interpret the commandment to have sex only if you're really into the girl - not to do it just as a mutual masturbation.
Solomon had 700+ concubines and he was God's protejee, also lots of examples of multiple wives in the Bible.
I don't think God judges you over a formal contract that makes no sense. As long as you have an actual intimate connection with someone and it's not just mindless sex, I see no wrong in it.
I don't think you'll burn in hell when you die. There's no mention of eternal punishment in the Bible and wouldn't make sense anyway from a loving God.
I think you'll stand before God and then your life will just end that's it no more consciousness.
Knowing you will be forever separated from perfection in those last moments is the worst kind of punishment believe me, I've been there.
I did LSD couple of years ago was a strong atheist 2 weeks before the experience when me and 2 of my friends were hanging out getting baked af. They started playing this Legion(fitting name too) Tower Defense game in warcraft 3 one against the other. Thing is about these 2 guys lets call them Good Guy and Bad guy - is that they are exact opposites. One is very mean to people outside his bubble of close friends and general egotistic fag that always tries to impose his will on others and the other is very chilled and laid back and always bringing positive vibes. Anyway game begins and the Bad guy just owns the good guy from very first level. We were baked as fuck and I ended up reading Tato Te Ching from a thread on 4chan a buddhist poem about good/evil. And as the game progressed what I was reading was fitting perfectly, like when reading that evil boasts and shit the Bad guy would be like yo dude look at my score. Anyway I was like fucking weed always making these coincidences happen. The amazing thing was however that the Good guy actually initiated us to the game and he was losing badly barely surviving it was actually unbelievable that he'd escape some levels. And the Bad guy kept boasting about his score so I'm like ok if he reaches 666 score I will believe in supernatural. Game flows on and amazingly good guy actually passes level 10 with ease but same dynamic was going on their comments of the game perfectly fitting what I was reading / passages of good or evil. Anyway after some time bad guy goes hey dude look at my income. cont
My brain goes in overdrive thinking I'll die right that moment and only thing that came through my mind there was repeating first commandment. That calmed me eventually, didn't tell them and eventually they lost the game at a level we never reached before. Next day I ignored everything and went on as normal.
Fast forward 2 weeks first time doing lsd the bad guy comes to me one night was like let's go to the woods and take it now ( midnight) I convinced him it was a bad idea and to wait until daylight. So good guy calls and have us go on a ride with him, he takes a road out of town and I ask him where are we going to which he replied in the most calm voice ever "in the woods to take LSD". I was convinced that being with him nothing bad could happen so we went on. Got to the hills, made a fire, laughed like retards for like 2 hours, eventually managed to lit up a joint and a complete silence settled with us. Then out of fucking nowhere they start having a conversation of good and evil and it was fitting perfectly nihilistic vs very positive. In my head I started getting the idea that I did something very wrong taking this drug and maybe I'm going to die now but I kept telling myself it's a drug just a few hours it will pass.
What convinced me I was about to die though was the bad guy taking a chain he had tied to his pants and playing with it in the fire ( he also has a death tattoo on his arm he was doing this with). I got really fucking scared and was thinking ok this is it it fits too well to be just the drug I'm going to hell and this is my judgment. Also memories would pop up in my head with everything wrong I did in my life everytime I chose to ignore signs and did evil in perfect clear fucking images. Due to the high quality of the memories(like real fucking life no kidding) I was convinced reality was just a simulation and my choices lead me to this moment and my soul will be judged based on them cont.
>>738963520 >I've recently turned christian and pray almost daily Then you should know that Judge not lest you be judged. Vengeance is mine says the Lord. What you need to do is calmly ask her what's up? Don't be accusatory, just simply ask. Maybe she's really into you. Girls do little things like that when they like you. If that's the case, just tell her it bothered you, but don't act like a dick or freak out about it. It's called communication. Also, forgive her. Don't hold a grudge. That's what Jesus would do. Maybe this could be a real good thing for you bro.
>>738972192 >There's no mention of eternal punishment in the Bible I don't know what Bible you're reading from, but you need to find a better one. Whatever Hell is, a firey lake, eternal darkness, complete separation from a righteous loving god, or total nothingness, there is a judgemant waiting for all of us. Some for eternal righteousness, and some for eternal destruction.
So I was like this is it clinging to every word the good guy was saying, it was giving me some hope. I also started to see then how perfect God is and the Universe and how beautiful everything tied to each other and that I chose to be separated forever from this beauty with my shitty life. Good guy also says something comforting again that gave me hope that maybe God will save me. I also kept repeating "just a drug just a few hours to resist". But then bad guy gets up gets a piece of wood that resembled a scythe, puts it in the fire then starts playing with it in the air. That was fucking it, I was now sure that I'm dead and separated from God forever. Cannot describe the horror I felt in those moments but then the good guy said something not that he'd save me but that maybe there's a glimmer of hope out there. It's when I decided that I should just accept and respect whatever decision will be and got on my back and saw the stars. That's when everything changed really, I could feel the distance to the furthest start, could see how all it's just an ocean, everything connected to each other, everything perfect. How in this infinity of time and space I'm already dead anyway but at the same time immortal if all is just one thing. I experienced the best few hours of my life after this, just looking at the stars and the perfection of the creation. So after this night yea can't really say I could go back and be an atheist ever again. I started making small steps towards God and he proved to me over and over again through signs only I could understand how He really exists and intervenes in your life. Prophetic dreams, many life lessons and interventions from Him in my life I really can't go back even if I want to. Sometimes I think I cheated and maybe there won't be something for me after this life but I don't care that much now, I'm grateful for each day I get to live on this planet, for everything God gave me and try to thank Him every day.
>>738963146 >I hate conflict Then you need to deal with it. You won't go far in life at all if you can't handle conflict. Don't be a wuss. Seriously, it took me YEARS to discover that, and once I decided to do something about it, my life changed. It's not always good, and it's not always bad. It's life and it's fun.
Tried Christianity once, made every effort to reach out for god and i was truly spiritual and had strong faith.
Never once was there any tangible sign, any proof whatsoever, and after my life was torn inside out despite my faith and i almost killed myself i understood there is no higher power and only weak minded fools rely on such an idea to drag them through existence.
But hey whatever gets you out of bed in the morning, you crazy loser
>>738963146 fuck you're an idiot. she's taking those things because she has an attachment to you and not being near you is so fucking agonizing to her that she needs to wear your shirt or some shit. Do you not know who the fuck women work? Fuck, you autistic retard, have you never been serious with anyone in your entire fucking life?
>>738973978 I don't know maybe but I live a pretty good life, I own an important part of shares in a very promising startup and life seems to smile on me since I turned to Him.
I don't think you really tried it, maybe you went to church which I don't think is the answer. I think maybe you should turn to God with an open heart, be sincere with him, talk to him like to a close friend, ask Him for guidance and light. Maybe also read the Bible with an open mind ( I'd recommend KJV) and generally try to be a good person, there's nothing to be lost.
If you're looking for tangible proof, there won't be any, what would the value of faith be if you just knew to be true. Now that I've experienced these things and I know its true, I sometimes think I cheated and won't get anything after this life but still I don't go back and continue life beliving in God and thanking Him and trying to do my best to give my best in everything I do. This itself is enough of a reward so that afterlife would be just a bonus.
There's no reason to kill yourself man, life has good and bad also, you can't see the good all the time, I also have bad days every now and then but I don't give up and try to stay strong. You have to accept that live won't be all pink bad things will happen to you but try to take the lessons from there and improve all the time. So much more to live for look at the plants and animals they don't give a shit just exist and are beautiful. Try to reach a state of inner peace sounds like you're going through a rough patch, I'll pray for you.
I don't do these things for a reward in another life I try to appreciate this life and what it offers.
My best wishes with you anon. In the end I think everything will be alright.
>>738973978 >and after my life was torn inside out despite my faith and i almost killed myself i understood there is no higher power and only weak minded fools rely on such an idea to drag them through existence. That's a shame. Because that's really the time God's with you. You didn't recognize it. You looked at the circumstances instead of the one who would carry you through. And I say that as somebody who's been there MANY times. I've been through hell so many times in my life, and I'm bitter, angry, and downright pissed off at God for letting it happen. BUT, afterall these years I finally realize that God never guaranteed a gret life here. Our reward comes later. This is just a temporary time here on earth. All that's happening is he's trying to teach me to lean on him, to trust him when all around is chaos. And no, he doesn't always calm the storm. Sometimes you have to ride it out, and get your ass kicked. But once you make it through, and look back, you realize just how much you went through,and how much he carried you, because mst people couldn't do it by themselves. Please man, take some time and look for Him. Work out your anger and shit. He's not going to blame you for having a perfectly human reaction. God knows your heart man. He isn't going to give up on you.
>>738973978 Also, remember God is the most intelligent and sublime being. He will show you proof if you look closely eventually but it will be very subtle and very adapted to your personal life experience.
Just relax a little, take a step back from the bad thoughts and I'm sure you'll do fine.
Remember to be honest with Him, he knows your whole being, there's no point to pretend. He's actually your only true friend.
The gospel is really quite a simple thing. God so loved the world that he gave his only son, that whoever believes on him will have eternal life. That's basically it. Salvation comes from God by way of Christ, who died as a sacrifice for sin. It is an act of total grace on God's part. It's unearnable, it's nothing anyone can work for, it's nothing that can be attained by human effort. It just IS.
All that's required is a response. Do you believe, or not? That's it. You don't have to do good works to get it, though once you get it, the good works will come. You don't have to go through rituals, or ceremonies to get it. In fact that's the exact opposite of what the Gospel means.
Now, Life is still life, we'll have to trudge through it daily, weekly yearly, etc, but at the same time we'll know that this is only temporary. Our reward comes later. We'll be with God for ever. The most perfect being/thing/concept/ever. Salvation is simple, but the walk is never easy. If you think about it, anything of any value comes with great cost. YOu'll face trials, tribulations, anger, hate, violence and even death, but know that this is temporal. Our reward is eternal.
>>738975258 >i lifted myself up on my own strength Where do you think that strength came from? >im in a wonderful relationship with a beautiful woman now and life almost couldnt get better That's great. I'm glad you're happy. But please, take some time and reflect. Look past the shit that nearly took you down. Try to keep an open mind. Look for God bro. He is there, whether you think so or not.
Or don't. It's your life man. I do wish the best for you, but you do what you need to do, I don't want to try to boss you around.
>>738975809 Maybe you should look, you invented this 'god' because you dont believe in yourself enough and need to have something there to attribute your strength to. Your blind luck. Your trippy brainfarts. Anything you dont understand. Anything you dont want to understand
>>738977261 Look man I don't claim to understand everything and have no desire to push my faith on you. I believe and have enough proof I'm sure I will understand everything at the right time. Disease is a direct cause of our degeneracy I think. If people kept to natural lives and food and harmony we wouldn't have gotten to this I'm sure. Most diseases are known to have a psychological factor. This is my take on this.
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