>Have been with gf for 8 years >Tells me she wants to be

what are your thoughts on domestic violence?

>>738936071
against

>>738936124
look into changing them

drop the bitch like a bag of hammers

>>738935886
break up. 3 months ago

>>738935886
bro, you are quite literally being cucked

She doesn't love you anymore and she's using her new orientation as an excuse to cheat on you.

Drop her.

>>738936225
this

>>738936124
>>738935886
KILL HER

CHOKE THE BITCH TO DEATH WITH YOUR BARE HANDS AND RAPE HER CORPSE

>>738936071
fpbp

>>738935886
Fuck her and her shit

>>738936291
cuck is when the other guy doesn't know - she's been open and honest from the start

>>738936304
bump, she isnt even polyamorous,shes just bored of you

>>738935886

"Pain and soul searching"

You convinced yourself it's ok for other people to fuck your girlfriend.

Then she leaves you for someone else and begins treating you lick a cuck.

How did you not see this coming? Women are only "polyamorous" till they find a dick they can't move up from. That "orientation" (which is total bullshit) goes out the window in a heartbeat.

Face it, she wanted to keep long term options open with your ass while she took miles of dick. And for women, they can literally fuck as much as they want since they are the choosers of sex - dudes, it's much harder to find other women to fuck, especially those that are ok with you being in another relationship. Women are possessive fucks.

>>738935886
stop referring to her as your gf

congrats you got kinda cucked, but now have a snuggle buddy when she visits, its really not bad for you as long as you don't heavily emotionally invest in her

>>738936304
but it's not cheating if you tell the other person

>>738936071
Lol

>>738935886
If you do anything but leave her, you are a weakling who gets what he deserves. Grow a fucking pair, junior.

>>738936291
>>738936382

No, I'm pretty sure cucks take pleasure in the thought of their woman sleeping around. If she just cheated that doesn't make him a cuck. He has to like it.

Which, seems like he does if he let her go.

OP, buy a rope.

>>738935886
do you want to kiss and cuddle some other dude's fucktoy that's now your ex?

if so do it.

personally I wouldn't, but I'm fairly jealous and only use women for sex so clearly I'm not you. I'd probably let my girl kiss and cuddle you if she wanted to though.

>>738936382
Cuck is when the guy does know and he's okay with it.

Someone screencap this, please.

>>738936382
Who the fuck told you this lie

>>738935886
Bad b8 m8

Yet it still makes my blood boil. Why tho?

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>>738935886
OP, I'm sorry, but the only recourse here is suicide.

HEY LOOK ANOTHER FAKE GAY CUCK THREAD

>>738935886
That means its not polyamorous but tbh shes not even real and youre just a larping cuck

Tell her to fuck off and be with him then, not having sex means youre not in a relationship and youre just paying for another persons existance for no reason

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>>738936616
I bet she did

>>738936460
You're right. Its called being cucked.

>>738936382
You're completely wrong
You're the epitome of a cuck

>>738936399
yeah that's true, since we became 'poly' I've fucked one other girl I wasn't really into, and she's had 4 (bear in mind we've only been doing this 3 fucking months lol). girls don't like it when I tell them I already have a gf, just want another lol

>>738935886
Are you mildly attractive? Because either she will still have sex with you anyway despite her promise to this guy, OR she will not sex you and its literally because she wants to hurt you because it makes her feel good.

Find another girl but don't tell her, then tell her she doesn't mean shit to you and slam the door in her face next time she visits.

>>738936399
>OP asks specific question about his situation
>we get deep insight into anons misguided hate for all women made clear by his grand sweeping assertions
great post kid

>>738936225
this again

you're either troll or beta as fuck

>They make a deal: he's OK with her seeing me, we can kiss, cuddle, whatever, just no sex

dude, that guy is literally the bull in the cuckold relationship you got.

I bet his dick is bigger than yours, and he is more fit than you

>>738935886
tell her to research poly cowboys, and that if it really is about being poly, then she needs to tell him that if her relationship with him interferes with her relationship with you, it's not going to fly. Ethical non-monogamy (which poly falls under) requires consent from all parties.

>>738936643
I wish it was b8, this is 100% fucking true, my fucking life. And I honestly thought I'd be with this girl for the rest of my life. I'm 32 for fuck sake

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>>738935886
Kick that bitch to the curb!

>>738936328

you're clearly a femenist trying to make this thread appear misogynistic. go away

>>738936903
Fucking commit seppuku on Periscope right now

>>738936927
>ITT: newfag

https://imgur.com/gallery/hlOyr

pretend everything's cool then next time she's opening your door throw acid in her face

>>738936903
Nah, I really can't believe you. I mean, why why why why why why why why why why why why why would anyone be ok with this? Good story though, really gets the heart thumping.

>>738936903
I thought being a cuck was only a meme
Why didn't anybody tell there are people that actually do this and are ok with it?
My worldview has been shattered

>>738936750
The funny thing is, I always felt secure because I'm pretty sure I'm more attractive than her, so never felt that she would have a better option. I'm an 8 and she's a 6 (I might be wrong, but I think this is the case)

>>738936872
Actually no, but he does have more in common with her (which wouldn't be fucking difficult to be fair)

>>738935886
if it doesnt bother you dont worry about it but you should still fuck her just cause that guys a dick

>>738935886
where is the Bel-Air? why are there responses other than 'become an hero'? what the fuck did you weeb shits do to this site?

>>738935886

1. Drop her. you're already in the bullshit zone.

2. learn your lesson, keep next one on a short leash.

3. if you have "doubts" youve lost at "life". check yourself out.

p.s. feelings are for noobs
p.p.s. life and people are over rated anyways.

good night.

...

I said goodnight sir!

>>738937089
>>738937167
seriously dude, refer to this >>738936891

>>738936903

walk away, don't keep in touch. You'll get over her and that's the sad truth.
All the time effort and money you spent in two years time you'll look back and go.. "meh".

love is not the only dish of a happy life, find out what you want to do woth the only fucking life you have, write it down, make a timeline and get focused on your dreams. When you quit being a beta and have your own plans, you'll get a partner becasue you'll be an alpha. Not some pathetic little beta scrounging around for whatever affection he can find whereever he can.

>>738937089
Post pics so we can see if you're right.

>>738936891
yes, the problem is that she like this guy so much she's prepared to compromise a bit on the poly. Basically she either has to sacrifice him, or sacrifice the poly part of her.

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Get her to help pick out a chastity cage you can wear while she's with you so that you don't get tempted to try and make her break her promise to her boyfriend.

>>738937258
y-you said you wanted to be this word, and t-this word means this, so now y-you must be this!

Stop being an idiot and get out of this self hating situation. You are a literal cuck, new BF is dictating your life, tell her to fuck off

Agree to meet her every time, then don't be there, or "take a phone call" and leave. Power is a psychological game. Have her come to a party and ignore her, and tell other dudes she's DTF. Play like you don't care, and eventually YOU'LL BELIEVE IT. It will become reality.

>>738937320
If you really did want to spend the rest of your life with her, you CANNOT be ok with her wanting him that bad INSTEAD of you. Not as well as. Instead of.

This is bad b8.

>>738936124
Alright I probably shouldn't of just thrown something like that out there and not followed up.
That's a good stance to have. I suppose in this case you should fuck her right in the pussy. If you got any porn of her send it to him and tell him about how she's a great little whore for you, don't send them all at once tell him a bit about it, how much she likes it, then kind of trickle photos out once you got his attention. He probably doesn't feel the same way about domestic violence so she'll probably come back to you and then the cherry on top, dump her.

>>738936982
and you're still a femenist trying to make it appear that men hate women. Then using it to say "look look men are dangerous, lock them up"

You're pathetic

A man would just walk away and leave her.

>>738935886
I'm in an open relationship as well but its only to have sex if my women moved out and lived with another guy it would be over. Sounds like you're just being a cuck

>>738937419
wow you realy want OP to look like a butthurtfag don't you.

>>738937432
literally quoting from a relatively famous thread that is somewhat relevant to OP's situation. Not a big deal. Who gives a shit people say worse on /b/ all the time, /pol/ is literal nazis, you think a little domestic violence and post murder raping is going to change 4chan's image? Fuck off

>>738937494
that was how ours started but yeah, it escalated quite quickly...

>>738937320
compromising on the poly is either unhealthy (because if she IS poly she'll hate herself later when the new relationship energy dies down and she realizes he's a manipulative prick) or a huge red flag that she wasn't poly to begin with, in which case refer to all the other posts about leaving her

>>738935886
Youre just another fucking plagued cuck, nothing more than a scum chocaroach spreading your cuck sickness, a real man would beat her ass and dump her, find the gay shes trying to fuck and beat his ass to the fucking hospital, set his house on fire and kick his dog!
Thats what a man would do.
But your a cuck so piss youreself and hide.

>>738937608
lol fuck you if im going to fuck some chic that wants to be with other guys he gets to see and hear the details. he bought the ticket, so he can take the cuck ride.

>>738935886
>What would you do lads?

Not be a cuck.

But if you're insistent on this, let her visit for a kiss and cuddle and fuck her anyway. She's obviously some dumb slut so treat her like one.

>>738935886
How could you even agree to this you stupid cuck? "Wanna be poly?" " Yeah sure i don't mind other people fucking my girlfriend"

Stop being that fucking beta dude, i would fucking dump my gf just for bringing the shit up

>>738937080
Only a meme?
What kind of ignorant fuck are you?
Were fighting in the trenches in the fog of feminazi queefs and cuck scum against this feminazicuckplague like theres no tommorrow and you think its just a meme.

>>738937381
I wonder whose sheckles paid for this post

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>>738937336
this

obviously this girl means a lot to you OP and you want to keep her in your life. just accept your new role in the relationship and find new ways to love her without sex.

>>738937698
she's told the other guy look, I am poly, I might be able to be exclusively with you for a year or so, but don;t be under any illusions that I'll be your life long monogamous partner. if a guy I like asks me out in 2 years time I will say yes. he said: OK, I think I can work with that.

I think he thinks he can convince her to be monogamous

>>738935886
your relationship ended the moment those words exited her mouth retard

>>738937732
thanks for your input, given me a lot to think about

>>738935886
Please have some self respect and leave her. Any alternative is better than what you're doing.

look bro beat the shit out of that asshole and break up with that stupid cunt

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And you're still with her why?

>>738938094
I think you might be right

>>738938094
I think you might be right, just wanted to give it a go and be sure

>>738936071
rage autism?

>>738938136
The only thing you should think about is wether your a cuck or a man! If your a cuck for sure then kys instead of being another fucking cog in the feminazi queef system infecting /b/ or man the fuck up. At the least tell the whore to kys and fuck off and cut off all ties and ignore her whore ass.

>>738938017
Joseph Goebbels

>>738938067
then he's a cowboy, and toxic to her and your relationship. tell her to research poly cowboys.

>>738935886
Dump her, move on to fresher pussy.

It will be physically and emotionally healthier for you.

>>738935886

This is probably a troll. But if not, are you even fucking listening to yourself? How low is your self worth?

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>>738938328
Ignore these e-macho anons. Relationships are fluid and can take all sorts of forms. You don't need sex to love and be with each other. Show her how much you love her by being patient with her and she'll probably end up getting bored of him and breaking up anyway.

>>738938576
but if you look at the situation pragmatically I have 2 choices: 1) Be alone with the possibility of new relationships, 2) Be alone with the possibility of new relationships, and have a girl who will come and snuggle with me every so often.

Taking all emotion out of the equation, isn't option 2 better?

I would kill her, rape her corpse and feed what's left to my dogs. Easy peasy!

>>738938720
Thanks mate

>>738938373
>then he's a cowboy, and toxic to her and your relationship. tell her to research poly cowboys.
Why are you trying to salvage an irreconcilable relationship? Are you trying to convince him a sexless relationship is okay? Because it's not. Him pining for her is an emotion that is meant for elderly people, and he needs to find something more emotionally rewarding. I personally like monogamy not just because of the sex, but the emotional stability. If they want to act like they're dating, fine, but there should be some intimacy and something more meaningful on the horizon. Otherwise they're just fuck buddies, with no fuck. And thats just stupid.

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>>738938720
The fuck? You've been soft dumped because she doesn't want to fully drop you and be "the bad guy" in the relationship.

>>738938328
Drop her ass cold and never speak to her again. Move on, your relationship is over. It sucks she dumped you in this manipulative way, but face reality: it's fucking over

>>738938973
yeah, she's dumped all her previous bfs in the usual way. why did she choose this painful and drawn-out method for me?

>>738939096
because 8 years

>>738939096
let me put it this way: would you marry this girl knowing full well this could happen again (and likely will)?

>>738938742
No, option 2 make you a literal cuck, you'd have more self respect getting a hooker every once in awhile

>>738939187
fuck no, but that's not the question I'm asking

Low quality b8, this whole thread is.

>>738939290
then here is the bottom line: drop this bitch before she mentally fucks you up even more

other decent women will likely be put off by it, so end the relationship fully before going out to date normal people

>>738939347
i fucking wish it was mate

>>738935886
Not to ruin your sob story. But who is this chick?

>>738939415
I don't have to tell the other women, I can end it on the sly if it gets serious. she'll still be there for me, my girl, if I do become single again

>>738939546
>she'll still be there for me, my girl, if I do become single again
ok now I know it's bait

no one is this dense

>>738939283
>you'd have more self respect getting a hooker every once in awhile
I'm going out to Vegas in the fall for this very reason. I'd rather spend a couple grand on an amazing porn star fuck on my birthday than a couple grand on failed dates and weird bullshit over the year. Then I don't have the drive to keep putting myself in shit that takes a year to play out badly.

>>738939484
sorry mate, no idea

Rape her and if she tells the police, just claim it was consensual and that she feels guilty. They'll believe you.

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>>738939096
Maybe she thinks you're the only one who's open-minded enough to understand what she needs in a relationship and that you're willing to try new dynamics out without letting your ego get in the way. The whole sexless thing will go one of two ways. Either you find that you and her actually enjoy it and get into tease and denial. Or you or her don't end up liking it and so shift the relationship dynamic again either by her breaking up with other guy or him coming to accept you two having sex.

>>738939812
>obvious cuck fetishist trying to jew the OP

>>738939812
It's possible the other guy will eventually be ok with us sexing, and the more time we spend together, the more likely that will become

>>738935886
Well, fuck, it's like this. You aren't very bright.

>>738939546
>she'll still be there for me, my girl, if I do become single again
She's not your girl, Anon. You are being Friendzoned by your Ex. You just don't get it yet. The rules are being established by her current boyfriend, who is "letting her" snuggle with other people- but she is obeying and therefore enforcing the new rules of your failed attempt of an "open relationship".

Holy shit this thread is infuriating, OP you are a huge faggot doormat.

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>>738936829
hes right though

I just want to fucking kill this guy tbh. he got into the relationship on tinder, and my gf's profile specifically said she was polyamorous. oh and now you have a problem with that you cunt, well fucking deal with it or fuck off

>>738940368
you are an idiot for agreeing to being slow dumped

>>738940450
probably, fuck her

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>>738940368
go with the flow OP
the whole no-sex thing will work itself out
if you love that girl and she loves you then nothing will stand between you for long

>>738939956
>It's possible the other guy will eventually be ok with us sexing, and the more time we spend together, the more likely that will become
Let me fix this for ya - you are waiting for his permission, and her willingness. You are waiting for him to dump her, and hoping you can white knight the situation, IF she doesn't have a new target in her sights. She will keep doing this, you will get older and miss opportunities while you hold a torch for her. If she eventually can't find a "good guy", you are the fallback position - not the first choice. This will not play well in your mid-age years. Resentment will fester, as you know she spent years searching for better men and not finding someone, she eventually fails and comes back covered in invisible jizz.

the only thing you can do is treat he the same way.

when she comes over pretend that you are in a relationship with her, act like nothing has changed,still fuck her. But in the meantime sleep with 100's of sluts.

>>738935886
Cuckold.

>>738940522
I don't love her after what she's done to me, I just want to be able to fuck her asshole again

>>738940675
Sorry OP that asshole is her boyfriend's now. Best you can hope for as far as sex goes is her agreeing to watch you jerk yourself off onto yourself before she rolls over to sleep.

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>>738940675
Has she asked you to pay for her ankle tattoo yet?

>>738938742
No because you will be emotionally drained and most likely damaged, OR you will start going emotionally numb to protect yourself because rage and hurt is the normal physiological response to this shit, man. This will get you all out of balance, cause distress, and probably have long lasting interpersonal concequences even outside of this one cuck relationship.

You're facing a sunk cost issue. You need to be able to respect and value what you had AND admit to yourself that THIS NOW AIN'T IT.

>>738935886
this can't be real

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>>738937011
cool your jets rahiid


OP just end it. she didnt move in with that other guy, she moved away from you.

trying to mend whatever fuckin crapshoot relationship is going on here will only cost you time, money, and your dignity.

she'll realize in six months this european cuck is a smelly, jobless hippy and run back to you, at which point you can fuck her blind then dump her ass back on the dirty streets whence she came

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Maybe you could find out if her boyfriend is bi-leaning at all and you could get your fucking from him.

>>738935886
Kill them both OP. The sweet rush of taking lives is far more satisfying than any silly relationship.

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>>738935886
So your gf wants to bamg other dudes and them dudes be pissed off at ya cus u be datin yo girl?

>>738942902
yeah, fuck my life

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You obviously don't respect yourself
And This is coming from a guy who melts his brain every weekend

>>738935886
Fucking bait..
if it is true you are a cuck and should kill yourself

>>738943283
>and this is coming from a guy that thinks getting high is cool

>>738938720
When she gets bored of choking on the other guys cock.
Maybe OP can also raise the other guys child when she gets pregnant

>>738935886
Not once in my life I've considered suicide as an option, but if I were you, I would change everything in my life or jump off a bridge.

>>738943186
So what'd you decide to do OP?

>>738935886
oh looks it's our 20x a day bait/cuck post

>>738935886
What the fuck? Another guy can fuck your gf but not you..

>>738943786
Why kill yourself when you kan kill the source of the problem?

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>>738936328
Actually, I agree.

Kill her but get life insurance on her first.

Then I can see it on law and order SVU

/hugh fuve

*spelled it that way on purpose. Love it or leave it"

>>738936210
This

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>>738943527
I don't get high because It's cool
I get High to get High dumbass

>>738943914
If he had the balls to do that he would not have ended up in this situation in the first place.

What a shitty troll

>>738935886
You are a fuckinf idiot, that is all.

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>>738935886
Don't be a pussy OP, fuck her anyways. Pic unrelated.

>>738936382
weak bait

>>738944215
>69 anons 148 replies
>weak bait

choose one

>>738944076
this.

And how about be a man OP, i know it's hard since there's very few role models on 4chan, but you are are being cucked by some US fag, you need to demand your right. right of pussy.

kill yourself.

>>738943914
Then you go to jail forever. I'd rather just dump her. More pussy outside the walls. Jail sucks.

> polyamorous
I'll never understand that. Isn't it just saying
> i love everyone i love
I mean, it makes no statement about why you love multiple people or think it's applicable. It just states that you can. Funny considering that love is usually understood as a unique relationship.
So how can you have said unique relationship with multiple people, unless, it's not truly love, but some other form of relationship, strong friendship e.g.
Seems like people can't grasp that you can care about a friend like you care about a loved one, without being in love and having sex.
> this must mean that said person loves me, for he doesn't actively bring me down like all the others.

>>738945322
this fag tries to make turn something simple into something complicated. Are you a woman by any chance?

>>738936903
>Be muslim
>have 4 wives
>any of them cheat they'll be gangraped and murdered by her family

>be Americuck
>be faithfully monogamous for 8 years
>GF wants other dick but still wants your money
>ok bae

How the fuck are you ok with being such a fucking embarrassment?

Close your wallet and walk away

>>738945452
Nope, so in what way is being polyamorous a simple thing?

>>738935886
Polygamous is a buzzword for slut

>>738935886
Beat the dude up and tell your stupid fucking gf to stop being a slut

>>738935886
have some dignity and lose that cunts number. dont text, message, or speak to her ever again.

hey look, instead of cuck threads or white boi threads they now make polyamorous threads and still think they're original
>go die in a pit

8 years and your still not married? pretty much speaks for itself.

>>738935886
drop the bitch and run. "polyamorous" is a code word for not bein able to maintain relationship. /thread

>>738935886
girls are all or nothing deals.
make sure she knows that, and stop fucking yourself over

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>>738935886
Damn the Jews are really trying to push this cuck shit on us goyem

>>738947282
/pol/bot gonna bot

>>738935886
You are a cuck OP, why did you agree to an open relationship? It's obvious she's doing it to make it look like she's not cheating on you but she's probably bored of you and wants to fuck other peiple. Either you put your foot down and disallow this bullshit or enjoy cucking yourself because she'll go off with the new guy. You should split up.

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>>738935886

>>738935886
Fuck your dumbass post. Who is the chick in the pic?

>>738935886
So you cucked yourself into the next realm?

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>>738935886
>mwf i realize this might actually be real

>>738947372
Wait im a bot? Im just saying people are making these cuck threads to normalize this shit

>>738935886
Do you give her money

>>738936734
Thats just hilarious. You lose in every situation here.

>>738943939
Lost to this one.