>22 kissless virgin >made a move on a girl and we were dating >went well for about a month >then I started letting my insecurities take over >she said she doesn't want to continue this anymore >I'm miserable as fuck right now >fucked up the one relationship I actually thought would work >fucked up my first relationship ever >still a kissless beta retard She was perfect, and I don't say that because because she was the first girl to show interest in me like she did, but because we were so on the same page and every box, she just ticked right off...I feel like killing myself I feel that bad...anything to cheer me up guys?
>>736598256 it was a long distance relationship, I wanted to see her as often as I could, she wanted to see once a month, I wasn't really up for it but i said 'ok' because I liked her. She wanted to take shit way too slow tho. She was very weird about the whole thing too, like she only talked to me when she felt like it but if i ignored her message because I had to go somewhere then she acted all cold...idk I just feel shit for fucking up like that
>>736598489 I'm insecure too, I'm awkward as fuck and I don't know what to do with girls. I suppose the only good thing about all this is that I learned how to date and such, still sucks because I really wanted to be with her, thing is, the distance + her taking everything so slow was a major buzz kill for me, like my friends got into relationships within like 2 weeks of knowing the girl. The one I dated didn't even answer some basic questions after a month of knowing each other because apparently she didn't know me well enough, even though we were so on the same page and got along so well and I made her feel comfortable...
>>736598394 >implying there's something wrong with being a 40 year old virgin Enjoy that festering yeasthole attached to that inferior childlike being. Women are literally niggers with infected axe wounds for genitals. And those genitals spew out more shitty people.
I was kinda in the same spot as you, although I am quiet a few years younger. To what I have read about what you said, is that I can say that she was not all that interested in the first place. You did nothing wrong by replying too late or something, a lot of women like to give mixed signals and I get that it gives you a very shitty feeling. My first real love was with a girl over a long distance and it feels really bad after. I recovered over a month. I am now at the point that I cannot even believe I have ever loved that girl. The same thing will happen to you. You'll notice when a women actually is interested and you should not be afraid to do something intimate. If you feel like she has any doubts, she is not interested enough.
>>736598826 She was interested, I could tell, she was just very insecure and needed to know people and she didn't consider talking online 'getting to know someone', so we'd only spend about 8 hours on a date once a month and she'd consider that getting to know me. I was more open with her, she asks me questions I asked her, except I answer, she didn't, so it made me feel like I have to choose my words super carefully and that just wasn't working out... She did message me every day, it was her idea to talk like that, but I had a feeling that I was just a place holder until she found someone close, because we lived a bit far from each other...
>>736598759 I think she might've been fucked over before or something, but she was genuinely interested I know that for a fact, like she told me theres no point of talking to someone if you're not gonna see them, so she implied she wanted to date, and we did, i was gonna see her again tomorrow but I suppose that didn't work out...
Idk, she just kept getting offended by basic questions, like I asked her about her favorite number and why its her favorite, she told me not to get too curious, but then she asked my about mine and i told her no bother, she just seems to play things way too slow and way too safe for someone like me, which was the only thing I didn't like about her and tbh, she made me feel miserable more than she made me feel happy, especially lately when I thought I knew her a bit so I thought asking her some questions was fine, guess she didn't feel that way about me. She pissed me off a lot of the time but I went with it since I liked her, i think we're better off not being together tho, too much stress like
>>736599076 What kind of retarded logic is that? Nobody praised a MGTOW for acting the way you are and told you to stop being such a bitch at the same time. There is just some beta faggots who agree with MGTOWs when they say the same whiny shit as you and there is other people who disagree with you when you say the same thing. Stop acting like they are the same people and only complain when you do it, but not when others do it. How fucking stupid do you have to be?
>>736599421 Its scary similar to what I had with that girl I loved. I felt like everytime she wanted to talk to me or she needed me, I was there, but it was never really the way around. That made me feel miserable. It changed me alot after I got that depression period out of the way, I got alot better with girls in a short period of time. I am sure you will notice the difference in a girl REALLY being interested. Sometimes girls just want attention but find it hard to actually cut it off, so they just hurt you ultimately. A girl that actually likes you will not give you a miserable feeling or piss you off.
>>736599913 you don't have shit. You're a lying faggot that works at 9-5 in a shit excuse of an office, living your misery life with your ugly girlfriend. Have fun living off your 50k 401k for the rest of your life
>>736599990 Yeah thats a really good indication that she is not fully interested. Women actually do want to kiss guys as bad as guys want to kiss girls. It just has to be someone that they actually are really compelled by.
>>736599800 Thanks man. Yea I think I'm better off now, she made me feel insecure and wasn't really having it, but I dealt with her insecurities.
She liked to shit on me a lot of the time too, like she sees her friend almost every other day but when it was time for us to meet up I was counting days but for her it was like "oh was it that long? sorry but Im seeing my friend tomorrow!" and i was like "are you serious? it was your idea to see me tomorrow!" i didn't tell her that because I think i'd ruin whatever we had going on but it felt like, unless I asked her when she had a day off to meet up, she wouldn't tell me so i took that as a hint that she's not that interested. She was very bipolar about talking too, one day she's all happy and tells me how interesting I am to her and then she barely gives me room to respond with shit like "ikr? oh yea? nice." even though my attitude didn't change at all, like I could never tell when it was ok to talk to her, even though she'd text me every day anyway... she was too much for me to handle in that regard, I liked the fact she was as awkward and inexperienced as me tho, very like minded too but tbh, that didn't make up for the other bullshit
>>736600358 yea, but we hit it off straight away, she told me she'd be awkward as fuck but she wasn't the minute she saw me, she was very comfortable and told me that she wanted to meet up again. Then she started flaking out on me and felt like she didn't want to see me again because of anxiety or something, I felt terrible having to put up with it but what can you do if you like someone?
>>736598381 She wasn't the one, and she seems like a real corny grumpy lil bitch. You shouldn't date Feminist cumbuckets, go sign up to some dating apps, and of you wanna loose it then lower your fucking expectations you fucking beta rookie faggot.
>>736600376 god im sorry to bring you this but that is just a way to cancel the date. Do you really think she didnt know you two were going to meet up? A girl does think about those things alot. She made up her mind ultimately and didnt want to go anymore. 'Seeing a friend tomorrow' is a classic. Girls like attention from guys alot, and they like someone they can talk to. Thats why she was sometimes so talkative to you, but its also why she suddenly stopped caring or talking when she had other things to do. LONG DISTANCE = NO NO, you can much better find someone you like in person.
Yeah, I guess. It's easy to say, but if someone makes you feel terrible, you shouldn't really like them. Put your well being over some manipulative bitch. When you find someone, you'll get it. My first gf was kinda crazy, and I didn't realize that until it ended.
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