Well, just ask for a credible pic. Timestamp. Or ask for something specific, like a pic of her with the inside of her fridge. You get that by playing the what's next to you game. Or what's in your fridge game. Something creative that doesn't insult her being a catfish.
>>734503292 Forgive me for being a ranging autistic faggot. But why don't you just ask her for her fb. If you are talking about actually dating and she says no then there is a reason why. Either catfish or something else. Or Skype call her etc.
Need a phone number chief, I'm connected to the US database of registered numbers here in work. If you share it with me I can more than likely verify her name for you and any names linked to her phone number.
>>734508190 She did give me her phone # we've just stuck to texting so far until we know each other better. I would ask for her FB, but I don't have FB, and I don't want to come off as a creep early on. >>734508166 I asked about that and she said for the right man she'd be willing to move. That's something.
I was just hoping for a covert way to confirm she's real without straight up asking her for something weird like a timestamped picture.
Gunna try out the anon that suggested playing 'What's Near You' a try in the morning.
If you want to send me the phone number on private I can confirm her identity for you for in less than 10minutes and provide you with social media accounts, a possible current address as well as photos for $10 PayPal.
I agree that it's "nice of you" to legitimately care about the kid considering he doesn't have a father. However, using your resources to care for another man's kid, to me seems like a perfect example of hierarchy as observed in gorillas and other monkey societies. You could argue that we have superior intelligence and therefore are better suited to define morality. However, has respecting that morality ever gotten you laid? Never for me.
Realistically, if you like this girl you've never actually met in person so much to take care of her kid and then make her the mother of your own, I think you have to tread carefully and be realistic. I met a girl online before, we were "crazy about each other" so we thought. We spent two days together and mutually couldn't stand each other.
Just be careful you don't get trapped in some situation you'd have been better off avoiding. If I'm at the bar with my friends or out socializing and a woman takes interest in me, I'll go along with it. Recently this happened, the girl was hot, then she busts out her phone and shows me pictures of her four year old kid. Instant nope for me. The "why" of it is almost just a natural reaction. It's a turn off knowing she has kids with someone else. That's baggage and holds me back if I am to try to make this woman my wife.
The only time I could justify it is if I were sterile and couldn't have children. Then sure. I like that homosexuals are allowed to adopt children now because they statistically stay together longer and make better parents.
>>734505420 I wouldn't ve taking serious dating advice for the betterment of my future from someone who says "naw nogga, throw my load and run skeet skeet"
Kids are fine, and this board is so conditioned by the propaganda posts that the definition for cucking has become so vast, they are afraid it will ve labelled on their relationships, shying away from many beautiful candidates
She has a kid, she's a babe, stop being a big puss puss, build some confidence and tell her u will meet her or pick her up somewhere public.. gg a. no background check beeded and b. Noone gives u personal info in case your old sweetheart trying to livestream mutilation :)
>>734508699 Just deleted my fb during depression.. best thing i ever did, realized i thought i got it to keep in touch, but everytime i would be passenger in a car or something or sitting at home I'd go tgrough "the feed of negativity" ya finding funny pics/vids but apso a whirlwind of negativity thinking, "i know this faggot can't afdord that car why is he pretwbding its his", noone gives a fuck about your 50th no make up live stream today".. generally the paasive aggressive shit to bfs, gfs, best friends, enemies.. it was just sad to see but i would always try skip it fast Doesn't change the fact that i was running through garbage everyday to find a dollar store toy (shitty meme)
>>734511564 T-boned by semi while crossing intersection. Splat.
I figure it's win/win for me if she's real. Either I get a cute girl and get to skip to the ok part of having a kid where they're about go be gone at school all day, or she moves to SD, things don't work out, and then it's not my problem.
Realistically I risk very little. I just want to confirm her being real somehow before investing my time and affection at what could be a ruse.
>>734512378 I deleted my FB a few years ago when I caught myself checking it every few minutes hoping to see something new instead of going out and actually doing something new. Once I got rid of it, instead of seeing all the cool things other people were doing, I actually went out and did those things lol >>734512135 OP here, I was raised by a stepdad, so maybe that's why I'm fine with dating a girl with a kid. Either way, I love my step dad. He literally tells his REAL kids that he loves me more than them because I'm a better son than them.
Plus I'm at that age where I wish I hadn't fucked up so many things and had a family, so it's easy to ignore all the faggots who only know how to yell the word cuck because they know they're getting cucked by life every single day.
>>734512135 Also I would ask to meet her in public, but we live about 1000miles apart. I mean, I'm doing ok as far as making money goes, but not so good that I feel comfortable driving from SD to TX to see if shes real...She said she'd be willing to move if it was for the right man, so I'm hoping to get her to move here if I can make her fall in love/it's not a catfishing attempt.
>>734512633 Not yet, only through email and texting. I've just never tried meeting a girl online before for dating, so I'm working my way up to it. Hopefully on my next day off.
It's easy if it's just some who're you're trying to fuck, because you don't have to get to know them, so if you strike out it's not a big deal. But trying to establish a real relationship and not fuck it all up by being myself? Now that's a fucking challenge.
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