How can i get rid of my extreme oral fixation? I cant reach orgasm unless something degrading is happening to my mouth like being gagged with my wet panties or piss soaked ones, atm, foot worship, getting throat fucked.. esp when im held down/tied up...its all i think about and its ruining my life cus im not attracted to normal men who arent sadists so all i can do is just touch myself ):
Pretty much any guy, regardless of how "normal" he may seem, would be more than willing to ram his dick In your mouth if that's what gets you off. Just start off by saying that you like give head, and you're already through the door.
Tell him that you want to 69, but just tell him that you'd prefer if he were on top and if he did it rough. It's pretty easy to bring up those fetishes without sounding like a freak. You just have to ease into it. And if your not getting off, just tell him that you'd like him to be more rough, eventually he will ask you to specify and you can move into choking and shit.
you did mention throat fucking. thats what i meant with face fucking with deepthroat
but tbh you just sound like a lot of fun in bed. seems a bit more like a brag post then really wanting help
I have to find them o>>734485525
I need more than just throat fucking i need a guy who wants to keep me quiet and do all the things I mentioned in my orijinal post. If he doesn't want to do it without me asking I can't get off unfortunately
You get rid of a fixation by entertaining it until it becomes boring. Find a sadist.
Now, most sadists don't advertise that they're sadists very obviously.
Date a bunch of men and then It'sNotYouIt'sMe them until you find a sadist or MAKE them into a sadist.
> How can i get rid of my extreme oral fixation?
Don't do it. That shit's hot as fuck. You know how hard it is to find a girl willing to do kinky oral shit? Find you a guy who appreciates it.
I'm definitely not bragging because most of the things I mentioned in my origin opposed I'm really embarrassed about and don't tell anyone. It actually really makes me depressed cus that's the only way I can get off, because I have to settle for less attractive men who share my fixation
I'll help you. I'll throat fuck your little mouth.
Yo OP. I'm not a grill but I got something for ya, might be shit advice but still I give.
You said your problem is
>I cant reach orgasm unless something degrading is happening to my mouth
I'd suggest getting one of those white egg vibrators. I have one(for the intended purpose of massage, I use it on the regular to help with camps/soreness from being a /fit/izen) but I tried it on my pee pee two or there time. Couldn't last more then like three min (usually got 10 min easy solo or with a grill I can pace and go longer). Shit was a bit much for me, but one might help you cum. Apparently hoes love those things.
I'd tie that in with something a bit more wholesome. Find a nicer thing that still turns you on, bust some wicked nuts (vibrator for easy mode), but focus on the more wholesome thing, be rubbing it to that thing. Get your mind to associate that with sexual activity as appose to piss panties.
Why would you want to get rid of an extreme oral fixation? Is it detrimental to your existence or situation?
Will say this though. A lot of guys would kill for a chance with someone like you. Been in relationships where if the girl isn't kinky like you there is almost no sex and when there is it isn't satisfying. You'll find your man someday.
Well, madam, seeing as you've gone above and beyond the rules, I'll give you some advice. Firstly, the more you try to ignore your fetish, the more it will come bursting out. The trick is to recognize and accept it, maybe even find someone who will do it with you. The way to do this without dating sadists is to date a guy for a bit, then explain it to him and see if he'll help you with it. Odds are, he's just as kinky in a different way, so you might find even more things you like.
Tl;dr Accept your oral fixation, don't keep it hidden, and try to get normal guys to do it with you. Also, the egg vibrator idea was a good one. Hope I could help.
This is what I'm saying! Don't deprive the world of an already rare commodity, kinky chicks are few enough as it is, the super kinky ones are like winning lottery!
well for what its worth, i would kill to have a partner who was into sex like that. don't let it overwhelm you, own it instead. Become one with it. Water seeks its own level, and so should you.
What I'm saying is that it makes me depressed cuz I've been looking for years and I've only found one who shares my fixation that I'm attracted to, but we're not together anymore
Sweetie, you don't have anything to worry about. Sorry all sadists are not cute/datable, but hey, we hold our own. (no pun intended).
We are all imprinted in some way during our youth. Be thankful it wasn't something really bad like being seriously abused. Get on fetlife. Do some research. maybe you can find something else that sparks your interest and dull the need for the oral to get off.
Good luck. :-)
Nc guy here. Looks like I'm a rare one.
I dated a woman who had many of the same fixations. She wanted it to be spontaneous and surprising as well so I devised a system of negotiation whereby the rules were set and signals agreed to days or longer in advance. I only ever approached her one time that she felt overwhelmed and had to end it abruptly. It woke up some powerful memories of someone forcing themselves on her as a child. I told her I wouldn't attempt it again until she talked with somone about it and we drifted apart.
I dated a girl who couldn't get aroused or cum unless I hit her. It was difficult.
Although it was nice to just treat her like she was a jukebox and I was the Fonz when I wanted to fuck.
i was seeing a girl for awhile you liked it extremely rough. The rougher the better. One time i slapped her so hard she got a bit of a black eye. Thats when her bf finally figured out she had been cheating on him coz he was too much of a pussy. hahahaha good times
true masochists are alright, but take effort. causing pain can take a while.
not really into spitting either m8 but I'm alright with twisting a girls nipple till she cries. different strokes.
Hahaha noooo. My list goes on. But nah. Got too much going on here to travel even for someone as rare as you. Would be cool to keep in touch if a time ever came where I could. Also right at 6' and yeah I'm not fuggly but I don't know a guy who would call himself cute.
>I cant understand how you managed that shit
We only dated for three months because I didn't have a sex drive like she did and having to Mike Tyson her every night got tiresome. I do miss her sometimes because she was a good bang.
Our first date was pretty memorable.
Me: "I don't have a condom" (because I didn't expect to fuck her on the first date)
Her: "That's ok, you can cum in my ass"
Have you done face-sitting rimming yet?
Face-sitting doesn't seem to be as commonly enjoyed by women. I guess men's asses often are too bony, and women don't like anal play that much anyway.
22 yo male from Ohio here. I have a 7.6 inch dick, and I will sit on your chest, pressing my cock down your throat, while reaching around me fingerfucking you until you scream. I hope you like fingers up your ass, because nothing make my cock throb real hard in your throat like sliding my fingers in every hole you have. Then when I'm done and I've filled your throat with my cum, I'll stick those fingers down your throat and make you swallow it while fucking the hell out of your swollen pussy and fill it with more of my baby cream.
Isn't me. But he has a point. Even if I went up there I'd have no idea who I'd be looking for. Just be standing at town hall going to every woman going "do you have an oral fetish?"
First time? I don't think you've been here long enough.
I bet a little whore like you would love to try to fit this in her mouth ;)
have you ever try this, beign fuck from behind in doggy style while sucking big toe or foot in mouth from the dude? I only did this once to my gf but she didnt like it she thought it was too degrading
Fuck you're so dirty, how much of a pathetic and desperate slut are you to be degrading yourself like this for these pathetic fucks?
I'm not the dude giving you these instructions, but if you're looking for a guy to kik I'll give you my account name.
I'm about to leave for work, so I won't be able to respond for a while, but I'm sure a slut with piss soaked panties in her mouth can think of a few ways to keep herself entertained for a moment at least.
How about this:
Your partner is sitting on your face, making you lick his asshole. You're immersed in his ass, and you can only touch yourself so long as you keep rimming. Then, he squeezes out a hard-boiled egg that had been shoved in his ass (which, prior to this, had been meticulously cleaned and douched). You have to eat the egg before he lets you cum.
This question isn't a joke, but I couldn't help myself with the picture.