>>734289428 I don't love them. Why would I try to reestablish a relationship like that with someone I don't love? Just asking to be miserable. You need to move along. You would only make them miserable and are only making yourself more miserable.
>>734290718 You can continue to love them without obsessing over them. Go out and meet new people, find someone that makes you feel how you feel for your ex. I mean, that's gotta be better than obsessing and being depressed right?
I still spaghetti around the girl I loved for 5 years. I told her how I felt after those 5 years, she said she was lesbian (actually is legit, she's now had a girlfriend for the better part of 3 years now), and it's been about 2 years since then. She blocked me on Facebook six months after the fact, despite my never contacting her since telling her, which is what really hit me harder than anything else, because we used to be really close friends before drifting apart
>>734291580 well, unlike her, i couldn't just pretend like we never cared about each other, we used to love each other, then one day she just up and said "nah, kthx bye" shit like that leaves you wondering if there was something wrong with me or what i did or said, it fuckin hurts
my ex added me on "LinkedIn" a few days ago after 5 years of no contact... half of the stuff on her profile was like misspelled so i "endorsed" whatever i endorsed all of them. she messaged me being like "haha wow i didn't notice those were misspelled, thanks for pointing them out!"
at this point i just can't date or talk to girls, idk. it's whatever
>>734291941 sorry man but i had the exact same shit happen to you.. i'm pretty sure that anyone that gets dumped feels like the relationship was going really well right up until the day that she decides to tell you it's over lol. sorry~
>>734293525 the best course is always to be honest man. even if you don't break up with her, at least make your current fears and feelings clear to her. it's the only fair way to do it, and while she probably won't immediately appreciate it in the long run it'll be invaluable to her growing from it as a person and not becoming bitter
I guess I don't relate in a strict sense. There was a girl in high school I almost got a chance with. But I didn't have priorities in order and she saw that so she went her own way. Still think about her all the time, feel like if we had met now we could have been great together. Thoughts of her have plagued me for about seven years now. Through two different relationships, obviously never mentioned it to either girl. Am fully functional, and not really obsessed I wouldn't say. I don't stalk her or anything. Even on FB. Still think about her. And I've been in with my girlfriend for a year next month.
>>734292739 How low is your reading comprehension? >When YOU broke up >YOU Your loving her is irrelevant, YOU ended it and now YOU get to live with YOUR regrets. She wasn't upset YOU broke up with her, because she was already fooling around on YOU. YOU just gave her the excuse she was looking for to fuck him full time.
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