Depends on how the relationship ended. My ex got arrested trying to but drugs from an undercover cop. Girl was a total sociopath lowlife, lied about being a drug addict, faked cancer, conned thousands out of people (myself included), just a horrible, manipulative person. But I ultimately forgave her, she was a victim of her addiction just as I was a victim of her lies. as for me, I just get on with my life, focus on working and making that paper, and having a good time. Do I hate her? Yeah, but as long as that hate doesn't take over, I'm good.
>>734269045 need more info OP. How long were you together? How long ago was the break up? How did you break up? etc. etc.
Really the only answer is time. I just got out of an almost 6 year relationship. the hardest part is getting over the nostalgia. Once you can take a step back and look at things clearly, you'll realize the breakup was inevitable and for the best.
Hang out with your friends a ton. Go places with them and make new memories. Seriously man, it's taken me like 2 months to get where I'm at for feeling ok.
Also https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VG9VhC0hiTg Great breakup song. May induce some tears, but it helps.
>>734271545 Well, it's not an ex per se, so I'm not sure if I'm just a whiny faggot (spoiler: I'm a whiny faggot), but I met someone in NY a little over 2 years ago who is one of those people you don't really WANT to get over. Smart, awkward, and absurdly asian. So maybe that's both our problems, OP: are you sure that you actually WANT to get over your ex?
>>734271925 I don't think I want to. But I know I NEED to. And being friends with her is out of the question and probably the stupidest thing I could do. Cuz even thinking about her with someone else makes me want to punch a wall.
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