Does /b/ have a female best friend? I cant deal with that shit. I inevitably start getting more and more attracted to them, and then it just hurts so much more when i found out theyre dating someone else or that theyre a little slut. feels thread?
I used to in high school. She was the only person in my life I could completely trust, then we went out separate ways. I still kinda miss her tbh, think about her from time to time. Sometimes I have dreams where we meet up again and just hangout and talk.
It's a trap my man, don't fall for it. If you want to get involved with a girl just turn it into a relationship and save yourself the headache.
>Inb4 brushes off my advice
I can't stop you, but you can never say you haven't been warned.
>>726857438 Well yeah, I've had a massive crush on one of my best femfriends, but when I confessed and it became clear that she doesn't feel that way, it sort of faded for me a bit and I can deal with it because I'm a goddamn adult.
>>726857888 thats what confuses me about her. Shes mormon af but literally every guy i know of shes dated shes made out with.. then shell complain that all guys wanna do is makeout when they hang out with her
>>726857943 Thats the problem, is she doesnt see me as a boyfriend. so i dont wanna be that cringey fuck who just sits around and listens to her bullshit. Dont get me wrong, i like having a female friend, its cool. but thats a bitch to deal with
>>726857970 >>726858064 shes dating a guy now but i dont wanna make things awkward and never talk to her again, but i dont wanna sit around and listen to her bullshit
>>726857438 I've had a couple very close female friends throughout the years, out of all of them only one who I developed real feelings for.
My exes all hated the fact that I hung out with females without them being there, it sometimes was even the reason we broke up. I'm a guy so obviously the desire to bone was there if they were really attractive, but in most cases we were really just friends.
The one who I did have feelings for though basically 'friend zoned' me, as I did try to date her. She pity fucked me once in our senior year of high school. I didn't attempt anything, I was actually drunk at a party with her, she brought me home and told me "since I know you've always wanted it so badly."
I've since moved on, though, and we're still friends to this day though we have very little contact these days. I still go out for drinks with another friend every couple months, with her husband.
The rest of them, their boyfriends/husbands find it weird to still talk to an old male friend from high school, so I never hear from them anymore.
>>726859655 were on a 30 day streak right now and its like literally every other day before these past few we would talk all the time from when we got off work til we went to sleep, we would talk and work, then get off and go on snapchat, get food, etc.. but now she barely responds and at work shes less talkative.
Grats on turning 14.5 and figuring that out. There are so many other things you'll have fun learning too. For example, birds fly. Fish swim. Don't hate women for being women - just focus on being a man. If you do your part right, the pussy will come. If not, become an inventor or something, I don't know man.
>>726857438 I just asked one of my female friends who I've only hung out with one-on-one twice before if she wants to be roomates next year. I already know I'm not attractive enough to fuck her. Bad idea?
>>726860333 I get that. But originally I never intended to develope feelings. We were best friends for years and she went through a horrible break up and I did my best to be there for her. It was a recent thing. But I know I shouldn't waste my time with her.
>>726860158 If it was you not replying, or being less chatty at work then she would be trying to suck you off every weekend.
You should stop committing any effort to her at all, when she messages you you should read it, then don't reply. She will know you read it and didn't bother replying. This is a very cool thing to do it shows you don't give a shit. Start talking about other chicks around her when you do end up talking to her.
But most of the time chumps like you won't take advice like this, you can't help yourselves. She's gone, you should consider her gone in your mind, and she ain't back until she sticks her tongue in your mouth. It's very easy to not reply to a text here and there, she does it every day, if you did it too you might actually get laid, but you probably won't.
I moved to a different country and met this girl from my home country in my class. She is my only real friend here. I don't have friends otherwise but she's got many many friends so I'm not sure where I stand on the "rank." she hugs other friends, but not me. So maybe I'm not up top.
I don't feel attracted to her by any means although she's not bad looking. She's got a boyfriend anyway. It's just a friendship.
My best friend was in high school but we kinda parted ways and I've never seen him since HS. (2014)
like i said, shes already dating a guy rn.. should i wait it out for awhile and see if they break up and then try the like "swoop in and save the day" type thing? or just keep her at distance and try to stay casual friends?
>>726861795 That never works. I know this from personal experience. Just stay casual friends and find yourself a girlfriend. If she has any interest in you, she'll show jealousy of you giving another girl attention.
>>726857438 I have really good female friends, but they're not my best friends, they're just rly close to me. Being attracted to them is perfectly normal, you just have to keep in mind that altho it's not mutual, they can be really good friends otherwise. Keep up.
>>726861795 If you're good friends with her, and she's dating someone else then she's definietly not into you. You'll just screw yourself over if you coe up with this thing. If you really can't handle it then say something like "I used to have a bit of crush on you years back..." or something that says you are/were attracted her a bit, but nothing serious, so your friendship can stay like this before. Then you'll see they aren't into you a bit.
>>726862388 >"I used to have a bit of crush on you years back..." If you do this don't let the conversation hanging there, follow it with a joke to release tention or it WILL be akward and cringy as fuck.
>>726861090 I was in a similar situation a few years back.
I'm really not a narcissistic asshole or anything, but I've always been obsessive about my image and reputation. I've always dated the hottest girls(that would actually date me, anyway. I'm really nothing special but attractive enough to pull some lookers).
I ended up going to this new bar that opened, and the owners daughter worked there. She was way, way below my standards but she was so incredibly amazing personality wise that I had to ask her out.
We started dating almost immediately, but because I'm an asshole I kept her hidden from everybody other than a select few family members. It didn't take her long to realize that I wouldn't go out in public anywhere with her where anybody I know might see.
She ended up breaking up with me because she knew I was embarrased to be seen with her. I tried to apologize and introduce her to my friends that day, but the damage was already done. She refused to speak to me and changed her number the next day.
I thought about going to the bar to try to talk with her, but just felt way too fucking bad. Maybe I should have tried, just to apologize again.
TL;DR - if you really like somebody, don't worry about their looks. I fucked up possibly the best relationship I've been in because I was worried about what people would think of me
>>726864836 OP is either very young, or dumb enough to believe retarded lies.
No of-age girl is going to "make out with a guy and break up with him in a week". Who the fuck does that? Only instances I've ever heard of or experienced was with girls in middle school, maybe high school freshmen.
The girl mentioned is obviously banging these dudes and keeping OP in the dark. More than likely because he's a shoulder to cry on when she reflects on herself and is feeling down, and doesn't want to get rid of that cushion.
She knows that I had a thing for her cause I did tell her and I did try to make a move but she just said that she never saw me as anything more than a friend.
Still talk to her and supposedly (according to others) I'm considered one of her best friends atm
The only way I can think of combating this bs is to just keep myself occupied. I try to keep somewhat busy with uni and with learning extra shit like bass cooking and video editing. Need to also find a job and go get my fat ass back to the gym.
But ya the best thing to do is to just keep yourself busy. Hang out with other peoples you may know, even if you don't really condsixer them friends. Like try to distance yourself from her but don't ignore her/be a dick to her about it all. And if it really is bothering you and you do care about whatever relationship you might have with her then tell her your feelings why you feel like that and what can be done for the both of you so you won't continue hurting and she won't be hurt if you do leave.
Or you can fucking ignore her and see if she becomes clingy to you, that's always fun.
But really I don't know if the advice is right or not cause I mean I'm going through the same shit right now
>>726867139 Dude i was there too when i was younger, the sooner you walk away without making a scene and look for pussy elsewhere the better. Give it a shot in a few years when you've had time to work on yourself and become a better man. Work on your own goals, focus on success and women will follow.
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