>be me, 16 at time. >Blonde hair, 5'11, gray eyes. >A virgin retard >2014, and I had recently moved home from a duty station in Italy with from family. >because we always moved, I never tried to make friends because I wouldn't get to know them for long. >Our new home is decently large, and nice. >the school is extremely large, which is very new to me. >during the first two weeks of school, I'm basically a ghost to everyone there. >have average normie classes, like English and History. >out of nowhere, this guy named "tony" comes up and ask me for help in history class, because he seen that I was paying attention in class. >I say okay, and we become friends. The third week a 11/10 girl comes in with tony. >first thought was they were a couple, because they were close. >I don't say much because I'm afraid to embarrass myself. >half way through third week, tony comes up and tell me 11/10 girl thinks I'm cute. >I am completely shocked, because no girls in the past have showed real interest in me. >we exchange numbers and begin talking. >after the weekend, we become a couple, and it's pure bliss. >we are adorable and it's seems so livid. >my parents are proud of me, because I've never had a girl over before in all of my 16 years. >the first two months are awesome, she always come over on the weekend and we play vidyagames and shit >Out of no where she leaves for Disney land with her family. >After she comes home, she acts completely different. >she becomes more hateful and rude. >She begins to argue with me for no real reason, like if I talked to someone she didn't like or I cut my hair. >this random shit begins to make me think. >At this time, I had begin failing classes and a failing social life. >on top of that, my girlfriend begins to mentally abuse me. Continue?
>I continually ask her if she really said care for me, and she keeps telling me yes. >but in the back of my mind, I knew that's something was up. >while during our 6th month of dating, she informs me of a old friend was moving home. >it didn't really bother me, until I found out it was a guy. >I get confused and asked her about it. >she straight up tells me that he is in love with her. >I'm all like, "woah, you can't talk to him, because of blank blank and blank." >she blows me off and says, "oh I don't like him back, but he doesn't know about you." >I basically feel like I punched in the stomach by hulk. >I go, "can you say something about me? Because I am your boyfriend and all." >she half heartly consents, and says fine. >over the next month and a half, they begin talking nonstop and doing calls. >I ask her what they were about, and she says just talking. >I begin to get skeptical and think the worse. >Her bestfriend begins to slowly take her away form me, having her come over all the time, barely hanging out with me. >One night, she cuts her hair randomly. >like short. >really short. >I get confused and say something about it. >she begins to cry and says I'm trying to control her, and doesn't talk to me for the next week. >the next weekend, she stays the night at her best friends, and they call me. >11/10 girl is crying to her best friend saying I sexually assaulted her and I was trying to control her. >her friend says that controlling people was evil. >I basically explain how I was expressing my opinions, and I never said she couldn't. >everything cools down for the next week. >11/10 stops texting me often, and stops coming over. >at this point, I begin to fall into depression. >11/10 then goes around and says I forced her into uncomfortable situations when she came over, and I was trying to control her. >People come to me and spit on me, calling me a monster. >just right around Feburary 14. cont.
>>726851095 Either she met someone else and is consciously or subconsciously trying to poison the relationship to end it easier, or some serious shit happened to her and this is how she's dealing with it. Basically you need to have a serious conversation with her about it and ask her what's wrong.
>>726851095 >on top of that, my girlfriend begins to mentally abuse me the point where you should have dumped her >she half heartly consents, and says fine. >over the next month and a half, they begin talking nonstop and doing calls. 2nd but already too late
>I find out and I tell my parents about how she said horrible things. >my parents call her, and discuss everything. >she tries apologizing to me and my family, saying he never did. >the evidence was perfectly clear. >she breaks up with me the night before we were supposed to have sex for the first time. >over the next month, she begins to spread lies and rumors about me, and doesn't talk to me. >then one day in the middle of school, she comes up to me, and tells me that I regret you and I never loved you. >I snapped and left school. >I went home and sat on my couch and cried. >I remembered that my dad had a pistol in a lock safe in the basement. >I head down stairs and open the safe, and pull out the gun. >I then grab a bottle of whiskey. >I begin to drink until I can't stand anymore. >I put the gun in my mouth, and attempt to pull the trigger. >click >the son of a bitch was empty. >why. Was. It. Empty. >I threw the gun and went up to my room. >I begin to pull away from everyone I knew. >my friends, my family. >I began to sit in my room, and stay on the computer. >Over the next few months of 2015, I simply become quiet, and only said something when a teacher called on me. > senior year rolls around, and I am quiet. >I don't go to parties, and I don't talk to girls or anything. >just my job and my computer. The story is almost over. This was in 2014 to 2016 guys.
dump that cunt. seriously. when i was 16 i had a 19 year old GF... she was acting real shady so i got into her email and found her making plans with this guy she was going to be going to college with. telling each other they loved each other and shit.
i printed the emails out and taped them to the door of her house, with fuck you written on it.
bitch was a lying manipulative cunt. she came over to my house and tried to get me to fuck her. i wouldn't.. didn't want anything to do with her after that.
she went and told everyone i broke up with her because she wouldn't have sex with me.. complete lie, we fooled around lots before i noticed she was acting shady as fuck.
tl;dr .. i had a gf like that in HS.. dump that cunt.. not long after i got a new gf, she was younger, she gave awesome BJs and i fucked her brains out constantly.. was with her for 6 years til i broke up with her. don't stay with shady cunts, drop them and don't look back.
> I still see her, and people talk about her to me. >I don't say anything back. >why are you fucking retarded? >Skip to the month before graduation. >I began talking to a recruiter and looking at my college opinions. >Out of nowhere, her bestfriend comes up to me. >she tells me a horrible secret. >she was sexually assaulted the year before met. >everything clicked. >why she thought I assaulted her. >she consented and then halfway through would be reminded of everything that happened to her. >I had no idea. > after that, I cried for her and myself, knowing the horrible feelings I caused her. >she then told me everything that had happened to her before then. >she made out with that boy and kept him around when she needed a guy to talk to. >she jumped around guy to guy because she didn't find the right person. >the guy who sexually assaulted also stalked her, for about two years. >I regret dating her, because it still stays on my mind.
I hope you got the feels guys. It was pretty hard to talk about. Any questions?
>>726854260 I know this sounds generic but when I graduated, I lost nearly all my Friends. I have 2 good friends with whom I go drinking it playing league. You will find new friends and also maybe begin to trust women again. I abused girl once in drunken state and swore to myself, that I would Never hi on a girl again.
>>726856369 Be thankful for all the stuff you learned from it, then you can finish it for yourself and start something new. You are still very young and It won't be the last drama you have to go through, trust me, so learn from it.
>>726855306 Listen man. I had a similar experience. Trust me, I know what its like to be in a relationship that just GRADUALLY declines until the girl is in control and youre doing everything you can to pine for her heart, only for it to smother out like a candle in a cold room. I escaped from it just last summer, but I want you to know that it ISNT over. Everything right now hurts, you feel teased and toyed with because you were. It all feels like you were just the wrong guy in the wrong place at the wrong time. And right now, its OKAY to feel this way, you have to cry it all out before it gets better. And it WILL get better my guy. It wont be better now, but so long as you focus on yourself, on being a better person, surrounding yourself with better people, it will be. Things will take time. But if you make the effort to at least try to make things better, the world will give back to you what you give it and yourself.
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