>Be me. >6'4", 210lbs >ripped >8" dick (kinda narrow though) >not a virgin, but never slept around much >long ass hair > trimmed beard >metal af >6/10 book smarts >8/10 intelligence >anime, vidya, film, literature, art >speak eng, ger, rus >compsci major, russian minor >girls dont talk to me >catch some staring, but they never approach >approach girls, get shut down >try online >post nudes on reddit >16 comments "omg youre so sexy" >then why does no one talk to me irl you liars >only pm is from tthe guy in a bi relationship >flatteredbutnothanks.jpg >be me >be doing everything right as far as i can tell >invisible to girls >lonely af >cant understand why
Be cool big guy don't stress and worry about impressing people too much. Be yourself and the correct people, girls or guys, will surround you. Stop caring so much about what people think as that will only make you hesitant in your every move. Faggot
>>726827610 >get a proper haircut (not that I hate long hair, used to have it myself but after I cut it I've been more 'likable' I suppose so it could help + its handy as fuck) >metal af? don't tell me you're one of them people that try to look metal on purpose? I listen to that shit pretty much 90% of the time and I look regular, used to look metal but that was when I was 15 or something. Look normal is my advice >don't go by opinions of your pictures, pics are always deceiving >you seem like a stuck up little cunt, claiming you know languages and are intelligent, pretty much every foreigner you see around you knows more than 1 language so you're not that special. If you use that as conversation starters then stop, you make yourself look like an asshole >be confident if you're not already >stop thinking you're so great, maybe you're not (like one fine 'gentleman' we once knew that got a little too edgy) >anime, keep that shit to yourself, 90% of the people either claim they don't watch it but do, or just don't watch it at all. 10% are weebs and faggots
>>726827610 Most girls are fucking stupid anyway. All they care about is how much shiny shit and food you can buy for them. Just get a fleshlight or a sex doll, you can fuck 'em all day long and they don't expect anything from you in return.
>>726827610 Volunteer at places where you can interact with people/girls and they can get to know you gradually. Make acquaintances and friendships organically. Don't push things at all. This will give you practice in interacting with people.
>>726828936 it doesn't matter if you look good or not, long hair is always going to be inferior to short hair. You sound like a faggot, sorry but its just the way it is. If your hair is really that good looking then at least consider the possibility of girl's being jealous of it and not feeling comfortable around you, something along the lines of "he's a guy and has better hair than me? thats embarrassing". You claim to be so smart and yet you don't see the obvious... Even if you do know more than 1 language, then so what? its not like a girl is gonna ask you to say something to her in german or russian, possibly the 2 ugliest languages there are. If you really are good looking then consider the possibility of being 'over attractive' to the girls you're into, maybe you come across as a fuck boy? normal girls aren't really into that so maybe stop acting the way you act and get your shit together, act a bit tougher if you have to, its always attractive to girls
>>726828561 this. I used to be a skinny longhair metalhead, not an anime fan but still. once I cut my hair and bought some normal clothes, strangers started treating me differently, more cashiers and shit started smiling at me when they said "have a good day" and people seemed more interested in talking to me. >>726827610 point is, keep the interests, just dont broadcast them to everyone who sees you out in the world.
if that's a real picture its not your looks, its likely your attitude. Do you have a job? money it like bitch cap nip.
Are you a whiney bitch? It sort of sounds like you're one of the "woe is me" types, which is just depressing to be around.
Also your hobbies suck, metal, anime, film, video games, all lame to women. Take up playing a sport, or some specific hobby like smoking pipes or collecting ancient coins or something.
Dress better, if you're doing jeans and teeshirt you look homeless.
Learn to enjoy rejection, and then put yourself out there. I'm decent looking, smart enough, and can hold a conversation, I probably have a 25% success rate of getting dates from single women, thats just the world we live in.
>>726830109 this is genuinely my biggest worry, because ive got a pretty serious/stone-y face. i cant help it, i just feel weird smiling for no reason. ive been trying to be better about it lately though.
>>726828936 lol you are a fucking faggot, I also have friends with "great long hair" they look like a faggot we all say it, sure girls tell him "omg your hair looks so nice what do you use?" but when he is not near all girls say he looks like a girl lmao
What kind of girl will want to go out with a guy that looks more feminine than her?
Also nobody cares about English (who doesn't speak it?) German or Russian, literally ugliest languages in existance, I rather speak some congo tribe language than those two, I have never heard a girl say they love german accent or how russian speaks, so yeah just shut the fuck up with that shit you beta fag
also you sound like a fucking arrogant dumbfuck who thinks to high of him
>lose the hair >nah bro I look great ;)
fucking homo, if you really wonder why girls shut you down read every single response you will give in this threads, then read them twice so your retard brain can get the message through and you will the light by yourself
>>726828738 Being ripped has nothing to do with your weight. "Ripped" is a term used to describe someone usually between 6-10% body fat. Considering he's 6'4 and 210lbs, if we assume he's at the least lean he could be (10% body fat), we can conclude that he has an FFMI of 23.1%, which is very close to the peak of genetic possibility without use of steroids.
I think it's much more likely that you're either a skinny little shit or a fatass, and have never stepped foot in a gym nor taken a fitness education course in your life.
>>726830388 i dont speak japanses because im not a fat neckbeard sack of shit. and thats the difference to me, about what makes me liking anime less of an issue - beause im watching good shit that legitimately is considered critically acclaimed, while weebs are watching idk netsuko cat girl whatever
>>726830594 if youre a metalhead, learn to play an instrument really well, like practicing at least 90 min every single day. learn other shit besides metal to play when girls are around, unless you hang with metal girls. try to get into other kinds of music, good music with a groove. stop being a "metalhead" and start being someone that likes music in general.
The only reason I can see so far is that you want girls to come to you and that's not how it works you gotta set your self up to talk to a girl you can't immediately get a deep connection you have to try and build your way up through a moment you had with that person be it a simple hello to having an conversation.
Why the fuck would a woman even consider a man who can't provide from himself let alone her?
No I'm fucking joking about smoking a pipe, I perfer hookah, but either works, saying hey you want to come over and some some blahblah I just sent in from cuba, and if you come by a litter earlier I was going to make some (some shit you can cook) beforehand? vs "wanna watch anime with me?" Side note, learn to cook.
Geez I wonder which one of those statements would be more effective on getting a woman to hang out with you 0.o
Your normal is having women ignore you. If you want to keep that your normal, keep dressing your normal, keep your hair your normal, keep your hobbies your normal, etc. If you want your normal to be dating around and having your pick of women to enter a relationship with, fuck your normal and do something that works.
I've got no horse in this race OP, I'm just calling it like I see it.
>>726831093 A lot of you guys are assuming im trying to go for bimbo college sluts from buttfuck nowhere kansas. my biggest beef is that i cant find girl who share my interests. metal, video games, anime, books, and film ARENT solely male domains, so why cant i find chicks who are into what im into?
>>726831203 They do, that's why I said people with deep voice (who regularly speak slowly) sound good, for example I like how madara from Naruto speaks, but haring average jap people speak fucks my ears
>>726831127 so play bass guitar. aspire to do something like this https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=O7TJhK6pcEQ
if you look like a metalhead and call yourself a metalhead, people assume youre obsessed with the genre - it's pretty diverse, people do get obsessed with metal. the point is to stop coming across like you only like metal, it makes you seem nerdy or legitimately dangerous.
>>726831305 >why cant i find chicks who are into what im into? because you arent looking for bimbo skanks who you can cycle through until you find a good one. nobody is going to be just like you, you wouldnt want that anyways.
you need to get more experience with girls, because when one does cross your path that you would like, you wont know what to do.
Okay,femanon here >I like long hair and I am a metalhead >most of my girl friends don't like long hair,but they are not metalheads >start searching for girls that like the same things like you >go to concerts,start talking to the girls that check you out >make the first move >don't act like a know it all >let them see your qualities WITHOUT BRAGGING >Be funny Good luck! And maybe post a face so I could give you a rate
>>726831761 >>726831824 you need to expand your interests, dude. you like music and movies, find genres that you like that arent going to make girls uncomfortable. you can have your personal preferences, but become a fan of the actual artform instead so you can be more relatable.
>>726832412 ok but see this is what i mean. someone out there feels this way, hell, people i walk past on the way to class might even feel this way, but why the fuck wont they talk to me, or even say hello. ლ(ಠ益ಠლ)
>>726832175 you said you've great genes for long hair. This is bullshit, your hairline is 6/10 easy. You must think really highly of yourself man, stop that and get a reality check... cut that fucking thing off and maybe it'll help that serial killer stare of yours. Theres something about those eyes, every person I know that likes anime has the same dead stare, just by looking at you I don't want to talk to you. Haircut + smile more + stop watching anime and maybe girls will show more interest in you. Until then you seem like a self centered twat/borderline school shooter. Take my advice or don't, and keep asking yourself 'why nobody likes me?'
Cut your hair, stop acting like a spoiled 15 year old girl, get a job, be interested in something woman are interested in, and you will have a much easier time with women.
This thread gives me the feeling you have two very specific problems. You are totally oblivious to things that are obvious to most people.
You just don't seem like someone I'd want to hang out with, you post a thread about all these issues, you got lots of valuable feedback and you think it's all just bullshit, if it was all bullshit you wouldn't have these problems to begin with.
When one person tells you something, feel free to call BS, when 2-3 people tell you something, feel free to call BS, when all 10+ people that respond agree, its not BS, you just don't like the answer for whatever reason.
Textbook example of why another /b/tard will be foreveralone, but wouldn't have to be if they would just pull their head out of their ass.
>>726833415 everybody in my fucking state learns spanish. and at least theres good books from russian. and yea theyre white people languages, so? some guy said he would learn congolese or some shit. the fuck am i gunna do with congolese??? you cant seriously put "speaks congolese" on a resume.
>>726833505 we have all explained why its funny. youre unaware of the impression your appearance gives other people and thats funny to us.
just cut the hair. I went through that phase when I was a teenager. for me it was hard to do, but once I did it I immediately saw a difference in how people spoke to me. people smile more and are noticably friendlier now.
>>726833505 >not the guy you replied to btw whats the point? I read some comments here and you seem to have a reason for everything...if you're not gonna take any of these (valid) advices then why ask? you'll just keep doing what you do and think everyone just doesn't 'get it'. People telling you to get a haircut don't say that out of jealousy or spite, this is a genuine advice, but what do you know? you're like what? 18-19, you don't know shit
>>726833679 no is not you fucking autist, just because spanish people from europe invented it doesn't mean its a white language now, outside regions surrounding Spain, rest of the world thinks of Mexico, Argentina, Chile and plenty of latin countries that speak spanish which most are not white, so yeah fuck you
>>726833827 dont get completely shitfaced, you can count beers without being that guy that counts his beers. limit to 6 beers, stop drinking at least an hour before you go to sleep and drink several glasses of water.
if you cant even manage to not get hungover after a party then you probably arent as intelligent as you think you are.
>>726833505 The one you sounded so sure about yourself i was expecting like that typical model face, don't get me wrong you're above average but the hair doesn't show your "great genes" be more chill around people and cut your hair.
>>726827610 If you have good, thick hair, get a clean cut. Like 3 on the sides, 6 on the top. Once it grows out a little bit, it'll be fantastic. I do that, and I've got a bit of recession on the corners. Still load up on pussy like mad, and I'm not nearly as fit as you say you are. Same height, but like, 250 now cause I got lazy, smaller, but likely thicker dick, and I get the same reactions from girls too, but I find it's mostly the intimidation factor. I've had no problem getting a girl to talk to me once I initiate.
Take the first step. They'll always follow if you do.
Oh yeah, and if you slouch, stop fucking doing that. Use that height to your advantage.
>>726834070 Note the fact that there's pretty much everything these days. I've seen some weird ass people man, so why not a real weeb model. On the other hand, I live in Europe where all people are sluts and more open for everything, so maybe something similar will exist just here
>>726833971 but you act like you barely got out of high school and find it surprising how 'adult' it feels to buy your own food. You won't have long hair forever, trust me, in 3-5 years time you'll look back at your life and tell yourself "should've gotten that haircut then...". Besides whats not to like about short hair? doesn't need styling, not as greasy, easier to maintain, pretty much everyone looks better with it as opposed to long hair and if anything, you can always grow it back. Long hair at that age is only misleading, people think you're younger than you actually are and not in a good way, you'll look like a kid and not a man to women. I know you probably think you have that whole 'artistic' look about you but that only applies until you graduate high school, then its either a sign of autism or a severe case of extreme weeb faggotry
>>726834206 money today is a side benefit, the real benefit is job experience, respectability, resume building, and fucking learning how to talk and work with people, which is apparently something you never figured out.
Relationships are a lot like jobs. Lots of work, some good times, some bad times, and a bunch shit that happens all around those times that you have to deal with.
Plus anyone with half a brain would pick the a worker to date vs a non worker. You think girls want someone to mooch off them in a relationship?
1. Get a fucking haircut, you look ridiculous. 2. Try to have a more welcoming and happy natural facial expression, you look like you are really bored or on your way to Columbine 2.0. 3. Anime is one step away from being a fucking mlp-brony as far as I'm concerned. Sure watch it and enjoy it but don't fucking ever bring it up whilst getting to know a girl (unless she mentions that she likes anime. 4. Don't know how you dress but I'm betting you should upgrade your wardrobe significantly. 5. Don't wear band t-shirts. 6. Haircut dude, you need one, can't stress it enough...
>>726827610 Women smell the insecure in you. Having good looks gives a 3 minute advantage over the average and bellow average looks guys, after that if a man doesn't prove himself by "alpha" assertive verbal and non verbal cues he turns invisible.
>>726834465 All right. If you want to ignore the fact that spanish as a language originates from Europe and that the latin-american version is pretty much the same as the european one, good for you. I don't care if the majority of the speakers aren't considered european. Because the language still is.
>>726834934 doesn't change the fact people don't associate Spanish as being a white language, maybe just around spain but that is... Do americans think Spanish speaking people are white? lol don't be a retard and accept the facts, the language has white origins, but nowadays is not associated with whites, outside spain and surrounding countries.
>>726832175 It's not what you like. It's what the CONSUMER likes. Cut that hair respectable and go for broad appeal. Pun intended. Shave the sides with 2 guard and leave length on top, around 4", to wave up with some gel. Then learn to talk to girls by crashing and burning a few times without crying like a bitch. Beard length is fine. Don't let it go longer.
1. Get a haircut. Something along the lines of this image, but use your imagination. I got a haircut like this, immediate attention, never went back.
2. Same with the facial expression. You don't have to put a smile on all the time, just look like you're not spaced the fuck out all the time. And if you talk to someone, show some fuckign expression. Open your eyes, lift eyebrows, make it clear you're there and listening.
3. Idk about anime, but yeah, don't sperg out.
4. Also don't know about wardrobe, cause you're not wearing clothes in that picture. Like the haircut, clean is respectful, and despite what you may think about being just another normie, "clean and respectful" stands out a lot more to people than "fucking homeless."
5. Wear a band tshirt, who gives a fuck. Just dont sperg.
6. Find the kinds of folks you care to associate with, and show them you care about them. No one wants to be just another friend on facebook.
>>726835292 Where the fuck do you live? Nobody considers peru white country, brazil I think of niggers in favelas, maybe argentina but that's it... Rest of america (central and south) are non-white costa rica, honduras, salvador, chile, peru, colombia, nobody hear that and thinks of a white guy with blue eyes
Never leave the house in anything other than presentable. If you're going to the gym, duh, wear your gym shit. If you're going to the supermarket, or the mall, dont wear your gym shit. Dress accordingly to the time and place.
>>726835292 >even south americans are usually considered white I like south americans, my sister lives in argentina and ive been down several times - great country. up here in vermont, south americans are considered brown people.
though to be fair, louis ck is a mexican. we were just better at killing off our natives than the spanish were.
>>726835478 now you are typing shit out, of course there might be white mexicans, as there might be a nigger franch and a fast nig muslim swedish guy... But majority is non-white and people think of AVERAGE not of special cases, so no mexico is not associated with white people, as well as most american speaking countries
I like how OP is asking "how do I fix myself" then people answering his question but then just arguing! Wtf! You nigger, I'm basically like you (intelligent, metal, long hair, etc) but I have this thing called a personality and opened to criticism... Please consider suicide.
>>726836360 I'M SAYING THE SAME THINK JUST BECAUSE PEOPLE ASSOCIATE SPANISH WITH NONWHITES IT STILL DOESN'T CHANGE THE FACT THE SPA ISH AS LANGUAGE WE USE IS EUROPEAN. IF EVERYONE THOUGHT THE MOONS WAS MADE OUT OF CHEESE THAT WOULD BE THE CASE RIGHT? FUCK NO
>>726827610 >be me >6'1", 155 lb hungry skelly >dick down to my ankles >had sex, still hyper virgin >crew cut >no beard >german, english, passable latin, pidgin spanish and french >girls don't talk to me >cool with it 'cause I'm super gay >feelsgoodman.bat
>>726836130 >>726836321 Another thing: Just wear a nice fitting one-coloured T-shirt dude. These pattern things u got are something that I'm think was ok on like a 10-15 year old kid. Seriously. Also, your jeans look pretty lame. Try to find something that is a little tighter (not skin tight. Additionaly, every piece of clothing you have displayed to us is (again) something a teen would wear. You're 21 now m8 try to up your clothes game.
>>726837153 you DO want to look like every other douche, how are you not getting this? blend in some so you dont look like a guy that plays nerf guns while listening to metal and watches chinese cartoons.
>>726837153 Dude, you kind of do want to look like the other douches. How are you not understanding our tips of trying to look a bit more non-unique. You're behaviour is so teenage I can't believe it lol.
>>726832448 Did Galileo exist? Davinci? Jesus existed Fuck wad. Atheists don't not believe in Jesus, they believe that he didn't rise after 3 days and he stayed dead. They believe he was just a regular man.
>>726838447 LOL A CUTFAG how does it feel to have your penis mutilated? Not only you cannot even get a girl, but in the remote case that you do you will feel nothing because you got all your nerves jacked up by the jews hahahhaahhaa fucking loser
>>726838330 Lol, feel a bit sorry for him now (didn't at the start) he seems to actually not understand why people might think he's a bit odd looking. But very teenage behaviour indeed. Asks for advice, rejects every single piece of advice given in thread.
If we were OP's father it would be like this: OP: Dad why can't I get girls to like me? Dad: Cut your hair son. OP: Omg dad my hair looks so much better when it's long, haven't you noticed my big head!?!? -> OP runs out and slams dosor behind him.
>be me >23 yo >student who last time chosed bad graduates studies >had one gf for only 2 months >still miss her even we didn't match to each other >yeah, I'm still virgin (I have huge complex about that) >have only few friends >have no idea what to do with my life >no perspective for a good job in the future in my town >really want to be with someone, but there is no way to find someone >resigned and depressed >I think I'm gonna kill myself in the future
>>726838447 You actually posted a picture of your dick in a thread on /b/. You've also posted a picture of your face in same thread. Dude you are a danger to yourself. Cut your hair and go out drinking and stop being autism-o-2000 on /b/.
Enjoy scraping out the turtleneck of your shriveled, 3rd world microwang. Know that women the world over prefer it high and tight, and dread having to suck on that smelly, wrinkled mess you call a phallus.
At least you'll never have that problem. You'd have to leave your basement every so often. :D
>>726827610 You know what your problem is? Your eyes and are screaming "im depressed". You could try to smile but the problem with fake smiles is, that they don't reach the eye so you can't really hide your depression and girls see that. But not only this, no normal person would post his face on 4chan and his dick holyshit. People can sense that something is wrong with you, like i said no normal person would post pictures of themself on 4chan. You don't even look bad and your clothes aren't edgy schoolschooter core (but they are still normie core with no fashion sense)
>>726840453 lol literally talked with polish girls for years and they all hate cut jew dicks so cut your shit, you have only talked to your mom fag lord, of course she is going to tell your your dick is cute, fuck off or kill yourself
>>726840529 ive got to give you that one. ive only been single for about a year, and the absolute lack of feminine attention i get despite being complimented in person, reddit, and even here, is really crushing.
im the kinda person who really wants to connect with just one single person. i dont really want to sleep around and bounce from relationship to relationship. it just really hurts my self esteem to think that im not wanted,
>>726828561 all my this. shave all beard off, get a nice haircut, and you sound really aggressive, it's probably why girls don't "approach you" also most girls nowadays don't approach people anyways, but when they do, it's when the guy is laid back. Girls are overly sensitive most of the time, and you charging through like a viking hellbent on raiding and pillaging, scares them.
>>726841254 that guy killed some people right? or himself or something. see, why would i want to kill other people. its not their fault for not being attracted to me, its mine for not being attractive enough.
besides. murdersprees are for edgy dickheads who wanted to impress YOU /b/
Here is the problem you think girls are just going to be all over you like your animaes. They actually put up more of a fight pretending to be disinterested because they want to fuck you. They want you to make all the moves and charm then they don't want to feel like a slut for comming onto a guy. They want to pretend like they are struggling to fuck you to make themselves look good. Otherwise they know your just going to fuck them and dump them they want you to put in some effort and they want to hook you. This is what we call the game, you have to get over it faggot. Attractive women don't throw themselves on men. Even groupie girls are usually avarge or below. Anyway your welcome idiot.
>>726841606 not really. i realized after a lot of reflection about it, that while she didnt necessarily treat me that great, i didnt treat her nearly as well as i should have. theres a lot of things that go into it, but i still should have been there for her more, gone out of my way for her more, and just been a better bf. so while yea, i am a little bitter and torn up about it, im understand, and i dont blame her. from her perspective, she just "fell out of love" with me. what can i do about that besides let it go.
>>726841550 i really dont want to have to admit thats the way it is. i really wanna believe that ill find a girl smarter than that. cuz ,to me, thats pretty bullshit that i should have to go so far out of my way just to make a connection with somebody. if im honest and upfront with a girl, they should just be honest and up front with me
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