asked my mom "do i disappoint you?" all she said after a minute of thinking was "yes..." i hoped she would say more, or maybe something nice. but all she said next was "well, its my bed time, i better go."
OP here i work 25 hours a week at an exhausting job 4 days a week. and on my free days im at school getting a degree that i dont want, but work twords just so my family will be proud of me. i have depression and insomnia that are starting to take controll of my life. i dont know what to do any more. cant move out, cant kill myself, and cant see a silver lining.
because she's a bad mom, OP if you have a dog and you raise it and this dog bites, barks at everything then you are shitty trainer the dog is not bad. If you failed to meet your moms expectations its because she's a shitty mom (trainer) to blame you for something you had no control over is a testimate to her training skills.
You were born so that your mom could get a free ride in life and not have to work as hard. Aww will hold you back time to go.
>>726676734 on the flip side, my dad who i dont live with is proud of me. and doesn't care if i go to college. im sacrificing so much for my mother's side of the family for approval. after all they're the ones that left me 30k for college.
>>726677211 Thats sounds about right I'm 27 now and have my own place, miles away from my mom.
Your mom is reaching a point in her life where no man wants to fuck her, its called hitting the wall. She used to be able to pull amazing men (your dad) with her looks but not anymore. So she takes it out on you by telling you your wasting your time in school, or what have you done all day. Woman do this because they want everyone to feel shit with them.
One thing I used to do was think about how killing myself would impact the family, because you have not lived by yourself you don't understand that there is more to life then dealing with shitty people. Once you move out you will feel that dead inside felling leave.
Take a trip to Thailand and fuck as many young skinny hoes as you can.
>>726677617 i get plenty of pussy from my GF, and i do see the better things in life. more than anything im dealing with weight of a large portion of my family's expectations of me. and to tell you how big my family is i have 4 parents and 11 grand parents.
>>726676389 Fuck you! You over priviledged worthless burger piece of shit!
37.5 hours is a minimum work week where I come from and here after all that, we still have free time to do fun stuff with family, study, take care of the kids etc.
No wonder that no one is proud of you if you can't even manage less. Then you come to /b/ and complain "hurr durr, look at me I have a depression because life is too easy and I still do nothing really, then wonder why mommy is not proud of me".
Normally would tell you to kys but that would dissapoint everyone in your family. Clearly the problem is all in your head so go to get your brain fixed by a shrink and start living and stop being a robot, you faggot millenial piece of shit.
>>726677961 go to college get a MBA and eventually move to some city sitting at a desk all day. i know it doesnt sound like a grand plan, but i just want to open a deli, or manage one of my local grocery stores.
>>726678146 So you've been in college for 2 years and you mom said you disappointed her....
let me tell you a secret nothing you do will ever be good enough. NOTHING if you get your MBA, then she will be disappointed because you're not married, if you get married she will be disappointed because you don't have kids, if you have kids she will disappointed because you don't have a good enough car.
The reason your dad left when you were 2 is because your mom (no disrespect) is a shitty person. She will keep on adding shit to her list of stuff to make you feel like shit.
nothing you do will ever be enough. just do you fuck them.
>>726676725 i used to be the same way, working towards a degree for a career i wasnt suited for. best advice i could give you is to enlist. spend 4 years traveling and finding the career you actually want
>>726678474 Just get use to dissapointment. I been working for 30 years and everytime you think you are ahead. You get a medical bill, or a car breaks down, or a kid needs braces. If you are this concerned over your mom being dissapointed in you, you need to toughen up man.
>>726678473 yeah i can see that and i know once i move out things will be better for me and my mom. i moved out of my dads and things got so much better afterwords. but as of now me and my girlfriend are trying to move out and we just dont make enough money. we are ~$400 short of being even able to consider signing a lease.
>>726678623 my dad actually did the same thing when he was my age. i wanted to do it when i was in highschool, but now i cant imagine being away from my father's side of the family. he has always been 30 minutes away
>>726677300 Dude, you see a psychiatrist once a month in the beginning then once every 3-6 months after maybe 3 sessions and they found the right prescription. You sleeping 4-5 extra hours in free time is a short fix for what a doctor could do to fix your life. You're here because your life sucks, so you're going to wake up tomorrow and do the exact same shit? The fuck? Change
>>726678646 I remember back when I was a kiss less virgin my mom would talk endless shit about me being a loser, my virginity was fucking obvious and she played on that, then I got a girlfriend at 23 and lost it and started having sex regularly, THEN it turned into I don't want these dirty hoes in my house, why can't you be a man and get a nice girl.
I thought me being a virgin was the problem now that I'm having sex you hate me more? woman are fucking retarded bro. I would tell you to move out but you can't your fucked,
when you mom saying shit like what have you done all day say something smart. Have fun at your moms expense this is how you will rebuild your spirit.
>>726678917 Well your mom is going to be around like minded people. Just get use to it. I'm not like the rest of these young Faggots and am going to tell you that your mom is wrong. Maybe you are a huge piece of shit. Either toughen up, give up, or work to meet her standards.
>>726678820 dont let that hold you back. I let that kind of thing hold me back until I was 22. I was just wasting time at home, getting away for awhile was the best decision. Got to travel constantly, meet bitches and got on a career track i actually can say that I enjoy
>>726679018 i already went to a doctor for my sleep, and she didnt listen to me. she gave me meds for a symptom that isnt there and dismissed all i said. i need to re schedule, the insomnia is the worst part honestly
>>726679365 Let me introduce you to Tyrone, he stands under some sneakers hanging from a powerline. Maybe the kid just needs some mellow. I didn't start smoking till I was like 28. I started cause of my stressful job, stressful life, and lack of outlet for frustration and anger. Punching bags wernt working, hobbies didn't help. But man the weed takes the edge off. Guess it didn't help that I don't drink either.
>>726679181 Naw they give drugs that change your perception of reality and hormone levels. You don't have to say shit about your life to get the drugs, just, I'm not happy and I can't sleep, gimme gimme
>>726679241 See someone else and be either more descriptive or convincing if giving info may lead to a unwanted diagnosis. Only you know you but only they know the drug for a specific ailment. So talk carefully
>>726679431 My mom was a overbearing controlling cunt. She use to control me morning to night, had me go to college, work long hours, convinced me to quit jobs I like and take higher paying ones I dont. One day, I said I was done with her shit and I left. 5-6 months go by, they had no way to contact me and then one day, I accidently bumped into my dad at a store, we said some formalities and he asked me to help him move a couch. I havnt had a problem with my mother since. I think she was scared of the alienation or fear of missing out on her grandsons life. Not saying to try this, but ribbing the umbilical chord out of her hands and cutting it worked for me. To this day I still hate that cunt.
>>726679081 to be honest i can't do this yet because i'm still dependent on my parents as a safety net, but the day I start making real money and know my future is 100% secure I will start making their lives hell. Don't get me wrong I will give them all the money they need and extra as gifts, but I will abuse the fuck out of them and become completely unfiltered, just like they were with me.
I hold the control now because I hold the money, isn't that right?
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