Okay /b/, there is this tall, hot, blonde 9/10 girl in my lecture i have a huge crush on Once she noticed that i was looking at her during class The semester i ending and we only have one exam left and it will be tomorrow I don't know if we will be in the same course again next semester so tomorrow might be my last chance I swear you if i don't ask her out or get her number i will fucking kill myself for being such a beta faggot
>>724709385 I don't know I am one of this retards who overthink everything till it's too late and then regret not to take the chance Spontaneously i would create a scenario where i fuck it up, she sees me as a creep and we still end up in the same course next semester
>>724709460 Sorry but that's not her I don't have any pics of her nore does she have any social media accounts besides the kind where you need the phone number
>>724709512 I know that i'm a dipshit but i always get nervous and fuck it up
>>724709696 She smiled at me when she noticed But nothing more I tried to give her another look in her direction in the hall after class but she was with her friends
>>724710813 She is a super beautiful 9/10 tall, blonde german girl I bet she don't have facebook and that stuff because she gets enough attention in real life I always see her greeting some girl or guy before class like she's very sympathetic
>>724710683 Maybe a bit too straight forward She don't even know my name
>>724714185 Ok So once i looked at her before the latest exam and the guy who was sitting next to her (i kinda know him but not so well) seemed to have noticed me Then it looked like he told her while looking in my direction It happened so fast that i didn't realize what's happening She turned her head in my direction with a wide smile I was realy nervous so i looked away like i always do I hate myself for this This was on monday and since then i didn't see her I bet /fa/ would adore her for her body and taste in fashion She really knows how to dress herself
>>724715445 Ok, sorry then So you experienced the hedgehog'd dilemma?
>>724715916 Damn, that's brilliant But this anon is right >>724716103 She could have a boyfriend or just not like me This ends up in an awkward situation and then she tells it her friends and i become the needy weirdo
>>724716908 im new to the bread, but ive read all and im gonna say this if you dont do anything, then youll never know dont think about it, just do it my gf does the same thing, just do it try to say hi, if she makes you fail to talk just type on your phone and do it that way
>>724717419 I know It's always the same You will regret it more if you don't do anything I understand this and this is right but i don't even know what to do or say Your suggestion is pretty good Thanks anon
As a piece of general advice for everything on women, read Models by Mark Manson. It goes through everything on how to be a confident attractive man, talking to, attracting and dating women. Everything from your sense of self-worth to sleeping with her.
>>724719998 Yeah, but i have the problem of not ruining it in the first seconds If i find a thing we have in common or something she likes to talk about i'm good in keeping conversations going I am a good listener
I never realized until now how often I just luck into pussy. I don't do anything special. I also don't get a crush on a girl I've never spoken too. I do sometimes look at girls and think damn I want to fuck her and if I think I can I might try. I did have a crush on my current girlfriend but it turns out she had an even bigger crush on me and had for a long time. She actually told me she left a party and cried after she saw me leave with another girl. I kinda felt bad for her. I also wish she never told me that.
>>724708927 Things don't happen over night you faggot. You should've been working on this all semester by chatting her up etc. instead now all you can do is struggle to say some shit and then beg that you two hangout next semester
>>724720586 >Focus on your best female friend >You two are perfect together Sadly she has a bf since i know her Also i'm not interested in getting in a relationship with her Our friendship is very strong and in a romantic relationship the chance to have an argument is much higher I just want to be her friend
>>724720706 I was afraid of this She could just ignore me because i'm not playing in her league
>>724721045 No, i have some respect towards women and don't do such things Also i already looked if she has fb or something like that but found nothing
>>724721556 Aww, good for you two that you end up in a relationship
>>724721999 I hope so Also you understimate my faggotnes
Mate, you wouldn't be this beta if you didn't have confidence issues which makes this difficult to begin with. That's ok- that comes with time.
You need to look at this as a lose-lose situation if you do nothing. Do nothing, no girl, just regret. This can be potentially a lose-learn or lose-win situation if you do say fuck it, sit your ass next to her and just open your mouth. As stupid as it sounds, I do know a few girls that go for nerdier guys because they like how "Cute" they are.
Get out there mate, because you have the opportunity to start taking life by the balls and making decisions. Let me tell you, the bloke who grabs life by the balls is the only one that gets noticed.
>>724723956 >I can't help it >I feel bad for doing such things >It's my nature >If this means i will be a virgin forever i'm fucked
Women don't feel bad turning down nice guys, nor do many of them feel bad cheating on their boyfriends unless they get caught.
Now, not all women are cheaters, but many of them are and have the attitude I said above.
My point is that there is NO reason to feel bad for shit. THEY don't care that much, why should YOU??
Lets level/even the playing field here...
Hot girls get hit on MANY times everyday buy witty hot dudes. They can chose whatever they want. Do you think their going to go out of their way after a guy who has no backbone and can't even talk to them?
My point is, Don't Care So Much! They don't give a fuck about YOU on a white knight level. Don't give a fuck about Them on a white knight level.
I'll tell you this... You will miss 100% of the home runs you don't swing at. If you swing and miss... then at least you swung. And not only that, you'll learn how to swing that bat better each time you do it. But, if you NEVER swing the bat, you'll NEVER learn.
You'll spend your entire life in the dugout watching everyone else play the game but you.
>>724723956 OP, I'm like you. I'm a complete pussy when it comes to getting girls and I have fucked one crazy bitch when I was 17 and haven't had shit going since then. I have zero confidence, the girls who I knew I could fuck were crazy and I stayed away, I wanted the girls I couldn't get, and I never made a moves on the ones that were right for me.
I'm 27 now. Somehow this 8/10 Latina girl who seems super nice starts comin onto me a couple weeks ago. Been making small talk quite a bit, chilled around by her a little last Friday since she was workin late and it was slow over there.
Anyway we're supposed to hang out tomorrow after both of us get done with work. I'm so fucking jaded and skeptical that I have no idea what this girl who is too pretty and too nice for me wants. I'm going to fuck it up somehow.
When this inevitably goes downhill, I think I'm just going to become a complete dick and fuck all the 4/10s I can find and break their hearts.
>>724726443 >this girl who is too pretty and too nice for me
That's your problem. You're walking into this already thinking you're going to loose. No bitch is too "pretty" or too "nice" for you. OKAY??
Get some confidence about yourself. At least you are trying though. Think of it this way... she's one fish in the ocean, and your life is going JUST FINE without catching that fish... although it would be nice if you snagged her.
What I'm saying is that when people aren't desperate, turndowns aren't a loss, because you're already happy with your life to begin with. Now, if a woman sences that about you, she many times will WANT to be with you. Why? Because she knows that you don't NEED her to be happy. You're already happy on your own.
NOW you are intriguing to her.
This may or may not happen with her, but it's healthy practice to be secure in your own life and not fear rejection. The more you play, the more you learn. It's like piano... I've played it for 10 years. When I first started I sucked... but I kept playing it... and... I got better. Practice makes perfect.... RIGHT?? Love and dating are no different.
>>724726858 Thx mang. Not sure if I have a shot but only hope I have is that she's 33 and was married and it ended in a bad way so maybe she does actually want a nice guy.
Probably not. She just doesn't know me well enough. But if that is the case, maybe there is hope for you as well before you turn 30.
Otherwise you really just need to lower your standards. If I just wanted pussy, I could've done that. Or maybe even found a girl I actually liked but wasn't attracted to (that actually happened when I was like 21. I wish that girl was better looking). Or you could fuck some crazy bitches with tats and piercings but I'm not playing those games no matter how dry my dick is. Did it once and almost a second time and fuck that.
Hell, I don't know what I'm talking about. I'm just trying to think about how not to fuck this current thing up. She seems like she doesn't want to move too fast but at the same time I would wife this girl tomorrow if she proves she isn't batshit insane so it's taking everything I got not to blow up her phone with smalltalk texts and try not to seem needy. And then it gets me second guessing myself. I feel way more comfortable talking to her IRL but don't want to get all attached like a white knight all early.
I'm really fuckin anxious for tomorrow to actually chill with her a bit when neither of us are working. Saw her today while we were both working and I been doubting myself a bunch since I saw her last on Friday but then when I see her and the smile, I gain alpha confidence so I really just need to not think about this shit.
And I really should have more confidence with it too because I thought at first she was just really nice and wasn't trying to hit on her at all until she initiated it a bit. I'm younger too so idk how that all plays into it.
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