What is the worst emotional pain a relationship has brought you?
Personally, when me and my ex broke up, and she fucked a guy I had a bad gut feeling about 2 days later, and also kissed him in front of me.
>then tried to come back
and so she got railed and bailed a third time?
I broke up with a chick after I had to go to hospital after her suicide attempt and she headbutted me in front of my parents, through my brand new TV into my wall leaving a huge hole then started strangling me till my dad ripped her off, fun times
>She was uglier than me
She must have been a better person on the inside. Or at least, she had more to bring to the table for a long term committed relationship as a companion.
Being prettier is everything a guy wants, unless he's an idiot.
Ugh! I'd hate to see what the other girl looked like.
Worst pain has never been the chick leaving... its the shit inside the relationship that's fucked me over.
Had an ex who was certain I was cheating on her. I'd go down the shop for milk alone and get texts and calls every couple minutes. Or I'd smile at a waitress and have to spend the next few hours trying to convince the ex I wasn't flirting. She went through my phone, my comouter, my internet history... she screened my calls and if it was a female voice she demanded I keep it on speaker and talk in front of her.
When I left I was vetting threatening xalls, texts, emails... shit about killing me, killing herself, with heaps of 'come back, I love you baby' shit mixed in. Real fucking mess.
Now i have no idea why I stuck around for a whole year.
god fucking damn it cant have a single fucking thread without some fucker saying they're female and derailing the whole damn thing
>tits or gtfo
Found a pic
stop replying to non nude camwhores
My mother was dying and I had like 150 bucks and I spent every single one of them on gas and shit to see her at the hospital as much as I could. I didn't tell her at the time but she was mad I didn't go out with her and didn't spend any of that money on her and kept fighting with me
Fuck...you weren't kidding. That hurts me too a bit, so I feel your pain by a fraction.
He has a rather cute grill now
Actually a current thing happening now need advice,
Ive had a girlfriend for a while now ( around 8 months) known her for longer, and i was completely in love with her. She said it back and was so sweet to me, but this one guy kept asking her out and she said no. She told me on sunday that she said yes because she felt bad and she still loved me, but wanted to give him a chance. I have been so emotionally hurt for the past few days so i need advice for wat do. ( Her and i still talk daily, she says i love you often but i dont say it back bc its wrong and against my principles to say it while she has a bf.)
My dog died. I randomly sobbed over the following week. The vet's ringtone, which is a good song, is now hardwired to remind me of my dog's death.
About 3 weeks later, I had a dream where he was alive, but I was aware of him being dead. Nobody saw him except for me, and I began to doubt my sanity. How could I be seeing my dog alive and well, chilling, while nobody else can? Surely I must be going mad.
I have some videos of his last painful days in an unnamed folder on my computer, and every time I look through files to delete, I take a look into the folder and get sad.
I do just that, for now. Problem is, getting all of /b/ to be that consistent they were once a long time ago. Kinda defeats the purpose if I'm the only one doing it while everyone else devotes their attention to anyone claiming to be a cumdumpster.
Can't relate. I haven't been in a relationship. I'm lucky though I guess, I don't go through emotional pain often as a result. The books I read, the games I play, and the shows I watch trigger an emotional response stronger than anything I've experienced in real life so far.
Roses are red
Violets are blue
I'm going to viciously sexually
Well, like I said I ended up seeing her kiss him in person. Talked to her for a while after and after regaining composure cut everything off. She kept hitting me up after a few weeks. Wanted to be friends n Shit, but I wasn't gonna do that.
Interesting way of looking at it.
Not beating myself up. Some people are better looking than others. Just my subjective opinion that she is more attractive.
Plus apparently I look trans now kek
DUMP that bitch. She will get fucked by this guy (which she probably has already) then come back, you can then fuck her without dating her and keep whatever pussy on the side.
Getting emotionally hurt over women is fucking stupid. You should have prepared for the worst upon entering the relationship.
When will betas learn that women will use any excuse of 'emotional unhappiness' or other similar bullshit to fuck a random guy.
>protip: get rich, fuck bitches
It starts to seem normal. It starts slow, but after a while you realise you haven't seen your friends for a while. Then you start to question whether you really were flirting... it fucks you up. After I got out of there, I was convinced every girl that smiled at me wanted to fuck me. Led to some cringey shit and near-fatal beatings.
Got past it, but I can see why people get so fucked up after long shitty relationships.
Dating a basic bitch.
I have no good excuse to break up with her, other than I'm terribly bored of her.
She does all the chores, keeps up with events.
Great curves, not fat. 8/10
Likes all the dumb nerd shit I'm into
Mediocre at sex. No buttstuff and horrible at HJ/BJ/FJ. Into typical "50 shades" BS.
Has no real hobbies.
Going on 2 years...
Absolute depression and anxiety all day.
An ex girlfriend once told me she was sleepy, and wanted to go to bed. It was only 9:00 pm. It hurted me so terrible. I never been so humiliated in all my years. I cried and begged and pleaded, but she just rolled over and slept. So I had to break up with her at 6:00 am. That one really hurted me so deep inside.
Definitely the worst pain I felt was being cheated on by my boyfriend. Worst part was he convinced the girl he was cheating on me with that he was single. Lasted 2 months. Found out cause the girl messaged me. Shit sucks yo
Sure but I was barely 17, and I didn't want to talk about it to anyone I was really fucked up, I just told her I couldn't spend any of that money on anything else that I needed it for something really important
>have relationship to 17 year old girl
>goes about 1 1/2 year
> gf has depression
>be somewhat intelligent faggot that almost finished university
>cure depression in half a year of rudimentary therapy
>hey anon thank you i love you
>gets cards for a concert at 1 year anniversary
>day of concert
>my dog eats some fucking poisonous bait some fag put into our garden
>bring him to the doctor
>sorry anon he has to die
>cry like shit
>lets go to the concert
>sorry my dog is about to be euthanized
>no problem anon i will be at your house in an hour i just ask a friend to drive me
>friend drives her
>not to my home
>goes to concert
>anon this is what you deserve for leaving me alone
>mfw i cant fall in love again after that
>mfw its 5 years ago
>mfw bitch is engaged with her friend
Soo... My ex left for another boy, and she thought the guy would liked her but he didn't and then she started posting pics on Instagram and there was always some kinda hidden message to try to get me back but ofc i didn't care anymore.
>Well, like I said I ended up seeing her kiss him in person
No nudies in thread with face bro
Have this stupid and weird looking thing
I'm fine with that. I've been cancerous everywhere I go on the internet, so that's not an insult.
Besides, if you want some organize principles, join some online group.
Super trans lol. Don't feel to bad my fiancé left me for her ex husband. I just sit and laugh as she lives with an abusive man(seen it for myself) who works as a security guard. And she begged me to come back. Fuck that.
I'm lonely as fuck, but girls today...it's posts like that keep me confident I'm better off being lonely and depressed rather than having to spend my attention to someone I'm bored of or just don't want to be around.
Thanks for sharing that with us, keeps me on the right path, even if you didn't intend that.
My current (and first) gf of nearly five years admitted around October that she had gotten drunk with my brother somewhere in May and they exchanged a lot of dirty thoughts about each other. Then he basically told her "anything we do in secret doesn't count" and for some reason I'm expected to believe afterwards that she said no and they just sat around the rest of the night, being platonic friends or something. Even better is that she insists she is willing to stop hanging out with him but every fucking weekend I go to bed early for work she winds up getting shitfaced, sitting around alone with that piece of shit. He insists I can trust him which is a load of horse shit because neither of them told me anything about this for four months, and even then he yelled at her for speaking up.
I know what has to be done but I'm scared to do it. Not only do I have to break up with someone I thought I was gonna marry, but I also have to sever my brother from my life for the sake of future relationships. I still love both of these people and I'm not sure if I'm strong enough to do it, so odds are I'm gonna let it slide like a little pussy and they're gonna fuck behind my back for months before I snap and shoot us all three.
BONUS: She told me days after I drunkenly explained to her all of my most degenerate fetishes. She says she doesn't mind them but I worry if we break up she's gonna tell any future boyfriends about how much of a creep I really am. There's no way to win without people dying.
My fiancé cheated on me. I swore my entire life I'd never marry, until I met her. She changed my out look on a lot of things. It's been a little over a year and I haven't date sense. Don't really think I'm going to for a while
My ex left for my best friend at the time. They're married now.
OP that should have brought you the biggest emotional joy in your life
You had just rid yourself of somebody who did not give a single fuck about you and this unloving person devoid of morality and decency in general is now out of your life. That is fucking amazing. Now your next step is to not fuck up and pick another terrible girlfriend.
Raise your standards.
nah i stayed single after that. had some dates like going out drinking, doing sports, watching movies, cooking or some nice walks .... but i was afraid to fall in love again so i never wrote back after the first day and never dared to kiss or hug her. somewhat trust issues idk. used to be much differend before that shit, but falling in love means pure stress by now. i dont even have any female friends since that.
Honestly even with mysel being much more dominant then most(the word "alpha" gets thrown around here to much) if I buy chance find myself with someone that's out of my league I tend to me a lot more loyal and into making sure they have everything they want. I'm to caring and that too can get my in trouble
This is why you can make sweeping generalisations about women. They seem 'different', 'unique', etc. etc., until you realize that they're all the same, and will generally fuck Chad and Jamal on a whim, because of something so petty and pathetic that you have or supposedly haven't been doing.
Time for MGTOW niggaz.
Time to ditch them both. You don't get to choose your siblings, but if there's anything I've learnt it's that siblings are basically strangers that you just happened to spend a lot of time around growing up. They will always do shit you didn't think they were capable of.
Best I got. Deleted everything else
I've had two releationships. First one everything sucked except the sex. She'd cry hystericly in the middle of the night and then go over to laughing and then just wispering to herself. She watched to many movies and thought that would bring more drama to our relationship I guess. Sex was awesome though, we used to post here untill I realised we were both 17 and shit was considered cp.
My current one is awesome except for the sex. She's smart, cute, loyal, funny, gets along with my friends and all that stuff. But we almost never have sex and when we do it's just the tip cause apperently my 17cm (≈6 inch) penis is too long. It's missionary for 5-10 min and then cuddeling. Can't leave because she's so great but will never have bdsm, rapeplay, watersports, fisting, bjs, anal or post sex on b again. Shit is deressing as fuck. Feel like a total cuck everytime she's laying naked and good looking besides me
>never have bdsm, rapeplay, watersports, fisting, bjs, anal
what the heck man... i don't think i could be with a girl that doesn't take dick in the ass or isn't into some sort of rapeplay
>I know what has to be done but I'm scared to do it
>I was gonna marry
thank fuck you didn't give her most of your shit, right? that's a bright side
>sever my brother from my life
just fuck any chick he brings around win win
>she's gonna tell
who gives a fuck? people like weird shit /b/ro just look at this site. besides no one will believe what you ex says anyway
Girls in USA seem to be so shitty, latinoamerican girls are mostly loyal, there are a lots of bitches but a bit of male dominance and they follow you like dogs, feminism is almost none existing, just in the bigger cities
That's actually how I found out my ex was cheating on me. She was waxing and shaving for a whole month straight which was weird as fuck.
Dead giveaway. I hope you anons reading this remember this valuable anectode.
Tell her that you assume it's okay and won't hurt her if you start seeing other people on the side as well.
>cultivate open relationship.
>have MMF threesome pic related
>have FFM threesome
>find qt sub on FetLife
>closed triad as you and gf sexually torture your new mutual fuckslave.
I don't know what everyone's so upset about. Seems like you're in a pretty good position TBH.
Already realized that now. But it's actually been 4 months. Was going out a lot first couple months but been keeping to myself now, which is probably why I feel lonely. Just miss having a best friend That I can also fuck.
My ex used to wear my mom's underwear and I didn't know till I kicked her out, this was when I was 17
Yeah her friend sent the cap through FB.
She was my first kiss, first sex, first gf, first everything. She was even out of my league (she's a 7.5, im a 4) so maybe I had it coming
I was dating a girl who I though was going to be the mother of my children
Then we broke up and a few months later she started fucking a person who I thought was a gentleman because I sold weed in huge amounts to him and we also made money through common friends on other ordeals
There it was when I realized it's a jungle out there
My ex of 4 years took a guy back to our house and fucked him outside my bedroom a week after we broke up.
Then she tried to take me to court for a tenner I owed her.
Then contacted the police for allegedly strangling her.
Then got a super hench new boyfriend to follow me everywhere and try to assault me.
That shit went on for over a year after we broke up while I was in my final year of uni and fucked my grades up.
Stupid fucking cunt ruined my life. If there were no laws I would gladly torture the fucking bitch to death. I've never been able to have feelings for another girl since.
i spent 6 years and who knows how much money, and Every Ounce of strength in me getting her out of depression, building her a life worth living, a life we could share, infecting my entire fucking SOUL with the poison i had to draw out of her, and then, she dumped me 2 weeks before my birthday... because she was cheating on me and decided she liked the rich guy who was taking her to rome the week of my birthday more than me and didn't have a use for me anymore since i'd pretty much destroyed myself and my life helping her....
the worst part is, it's not a true pain, it's a Numbness, it's been years now and i'm barely anywhere into rebuilding my own life, or health, or anything.
My first ever long term relationship after fucking everything in sight for 10 years ended when my then girlfriend was exchanging nudes with a good friend of mine.
He told me once he felt guilty enough.
Should have punched him.
Should have listened to everyone that she was a prick.
Should have just carried on being a manslag... not slept with a single woman in 3 years since this shit happened because I've been completely put off having anything to do with women for now.
This thing happens to anyone. This girl gets the tiniest spark in her eye from someone else and will throw away everything in the last years to upgrade. She has probably been waiting for the moment since day 1.
Honestly it's hard to blame them. Why not go for the best you can get? True love is not a real thing.
>anon, we have to break up
>because you're an empty person. there's nothing to you. I've never felt more alone. my life is being drained by your apathy.
Shit hit me pretty hard for a while, but then I stopped pretending to give a fuck because she was completely right.
Either kill them both, or do pic related with them. It is the only way.
Honestly, i've accepted i'll never get that far, I'm just having to work at rebuilding what i can with what i have left. the Idea of even trusting people ever again actually hurts however, even making friends....
"Move on" sure, is that the suicidal depression, Anxiety attacks around people, the literally over 300lbs of bodyfat, or the other dozen things acrued? never mind the things Gone. like say life savings, jobs, being remotely employable because you spent 2 years focusing on helping her build her tattooist and piercing business, then had this epic breakdown meaning it's been like a decade since you managed to have a job?
But why is female logic this way? Can they really not think logically? Where are their morals? I think of fucking other girls all the time, but of course I would never do it in respect for my gf. I don't do shit I wouldn't want her doing. But also, if I cheated with a girl I would only get with her to fuck, that's it. I get my nut and I'm leaving. This bitch is making time for other people, pfff
6 months of my fiancee being cold and distant and fucking with my head constantly due to a bad reaction to gabapentin.
Dark times. Seriously close to killing both of us several times during that 6 month period.
It was so bad that I even spiraled back into the addiction cycle after 6 years of avoiding dependence.
We got her off gabapentin and I used suboxone to ease myself off of heroin and opiate dependence and now, a year later, we're both still happy.
Truth be told, I've been hurt more by friends than any significant other.
I have, however, done my more-than-fair share of hurting people...
Really, I don't deserve to be happy...but one day, maybe I will.
You see, I'm the person that these heartbreak stories are usually told about.
I've cheated on everyone I've ever been with, I've rubbed it in their faces, I've emotionally manipulated them...
I even turned one into a junkie whore.
Reflecting back on all of that and now having been in a happy relationship for 6 and a half years, I'm just wondering when life will bite back.
The slut cheated on me with my best friend of 10 years and then spread rumors about me to everyone essentially pretty much destroying my social life. Idk shes insane shes also a schizo so i guess i had it coming
Short version, Evolution has taught them that men are replacable and expendable, that they should not plan for the long term with them because they will be beaten to death by the next superior contender.
Combine with modern women choose the mates world and well.... is the divorce rate in the west a surprise?
Im also apparently trans, and weird looking with bad skin bro
Raise your standards
Damn anon I'm sorry she did that to you. Let's face it, girls are bitches no matter who they are or where they come from. Piss one off and she makes it her goal to make you regret it.
I hope you can find one with her head on straight.
Being told I'm 'too boring' because of my hobbies, and being alone for the last 12 years while the women (at the time, girls) who told me that are now living their lives and getting into shit while I'm just browsing /b/ and watching anime.
Many of them have become single moms though, so I'm not really that upset.
Yeah. what made me the most upset about the whole situation was that she wasn't even using sterile needles, they were just ones she got off some guy. So I had to go get a blood test
What Savings? i'm hand to mouth at this point. i'm trying so hard to rebuild, but shit takes so much Time, and even the slightest bump brings everything back down when you are still trying to even lay the foundation.
Yeah girls are bitches But Men can be assholes too
what she did to me completely fucked my head up so now i just mess around with girls and leave
its a shitty thing to do but its the only way i wont get all fucked up in the head again
We have been lied to people
It's OK to back off or even end the friendship to sootbe your hurt feelings. The way you feel now is completely normal, and it doesn't show a lack of maturity to end a friendship if it hurts too much to carry it on.
Don't ask stupid questions you know the answer to fam get the fuck outta there
this is some momcest shit, isn't it?
or you aren't your girlfriends type and you are being taken for a ride for financial/other gain. likely while she fucks behind your back.
Spoilers, everyone has a type, if your girl isn't trying to get in your pants you aren't hers.
I always thought that if I were in the tighest possible financial spot, I'd risk it all on something stupid. And if that failed, then I'd off myself since it's just the universe telling me it's time.
That's still my plan.
tf? you think she's uglier than you?
THIS is the only correct/sane answer.
Any other is just cuckold shit.
Not even lying man, just man the fuck up and to hell with her.
8 months are shit, 2 years can be a while.
>mfw completely serious
i fell in love with her 2 years ago
she's fucked 4 guys since she's met me and despite offering her the world on a silver platter she wont even consider me
almost all of her boyfriends have been ACTUALLY autistic like diagnosed and everything, or infinitely greasy jews that look worse than i do. shes dated ham planets too but never even fucking considered me
Don't do anything stupid man. I know it sucks, I've been to extremely low points as well... But it will get better. Just make sure you get out of the cycle you're in. Don't stay at home, go for a walk, sit at the park, etc.