>>724077238 Not much. You really only control yourself and how you react to this. You could try to get her professional hel or into rehab, but I warn you now, junkies don't care about anything but junk
>Laugh at her misery. >Bombard her with pics of you and how great your life is, and how better it is without her. Send her pics of you with girls better looking than her, or post them so she can see. >Then when she's at her lowest point, fuck her in the ass, then face fuck her till she pukes. >Video tape it, and after she OD's and dies, play it for her family and friends at the funeral. >Win
>>724077238 People often get addicted to drugs because they lack other things that make them feel good. It's easier to get over it when you have something else in your life that makes you happy. Find her something else that makes her happy. Something to distract her.
>>724079457 Nope. That's porn logic. In the real world, even successfully helping people with serious problems does not result in them becoming sex slaves. They just thank you sometimes and you get to feel good about being a decent person.
>>724077238 Not much, sadly. Until she decides she wants help, which may never happen, there's nothing you can do other than keep her from fucking up your life in her never-ending quest for more drugs. Be careful.
>>724081909 It comes down to the user really. I know a 20 year old kid going through that and got clean for a month then went hard into it again. He has been clean a month again so we will see when/if he falls again >co-workers kid, i don't know him though. He just provides the occasional update
You just have to move on, dude. I went through this before. it never ends well.
Her and I were dating for 8 months, and then she got this new friend group who never tried weed before and she wanted to be "the cool girl who smoked weed". I never really cared because I smoked before, but then they kept wanting to try new things.
She had hung out with these people a lot, and i stayed away because military. I told her that I don't support her new friends or the decisions she'd been making: Lots of weed, a bit of ecstasy, coke and finally heroin. We broke up after I heard about the harder drugs.
Holy fuck, heroin is some bad shit. I was at drill with my unit and at 1am, I got this phone call. She was crying hysterically saying that she needed help and that she was dying.
I drove 2 hours and when I finally got there, I had to kick the door in because her fucking friends said she didn't need help.
She was lying there, half-asleep and was half naked, makeup smeared, and her friends were still about to do another round of drugs. She would of OD'd, no question.
Covered her up, brought her out to the car, told her I was taking her home.
She. Flipped. Out.
She punched, kicked, bit, scratched me the entire way to her parents place. We almost crashed 4 times.
She kept talking about how she wanted to go back and that she was having fun. She said she put down $150 and that they were going to use her share.
I just sat there in awe. This girl was in college, on her way to a 4.0 GPA. Her family didn't have much, but she was bettering herself. Then this happened. We talked about marriage once or twice for fun, but even at that early stage in our relationship, it seriously felt like it'd be nice to spend my life with her.
She's in rehab now. I call her folks every now and then to check up on her, but i'm not holding my breathe for her to come running back to me.
i had a similar situation. this girl i was dating was a recovering heroine addict (gg anon amirite). i fell for her pretty hard as she was honestly really fucking great, but an addict will always be one in some capacity.
many attempted suicides, thoughts of doing heroine again, and the meanwhile, despite my better judgment, i was trying to confirm her as my girlfriend (beta as fuck, but in my defense, slammed that meat wallet first date).
She ended up believing she was destine for sainthood thanks to a TV level catholic friend and a priest.
i ended it there, finally realizing how much of a idiot i was. she ended up going back to heroine, telling me it was my fault, yadda yadda.
tl;dr dont do it. point her in the right direction to a rehab clinic, then bolt.
>>724077238 Give her positive encouragement, but do your best to avoid enabling her bad habits. Encourage her to get help! Explain why you care, show her you give a shit about her and try to be supportive. It'll just put a rift between the two of you if you try and control what she does though.
>>724083825 Don't be like the people i lived with. Been starving and dependant on food banks, been in protective service after watching them get handcuffed and taken away, sisters abused and shit. And then after all that getting a call they OD'd and were in a coma. Fine now and i love them to death but i understand how people can grow up to be not after living with that
>>724084370 Absolutely, my kids always been fed and well taken care of but I realized my habits were taking away from them. That's why I realized I needed to get clean because I knew that eventually I'd steal from my own grandma and that's not the kind of life I wanted for them
>>724080260 >>>724077238 (OP) >People often get addicted to drugs because they lack other things that make them feel good. It's easier to get over it when you have something else in your life that makes you happy. Find her something else that makes her happy. Something to distract her. Not always just to feel good, sometimes they do it to deal with emotional stuff they're going through. It all that does is numb the pain and bottles up the issue.
Honestly man, until she's truly ready to get better, there's nothing really you can do. Even if you were force her to get the shit out of her system (force her to detox) she would probably go back to it. The physical addiction might be gone, but there is still the psychological and neurological addiction as well.
Maybe might want to stay at a friend's or family member's place for a bit. If cops go to your place for whatever reason, and they find her periphanalia she could say it's yours, but if you're not there that's a bit of a safety net for you
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