Some people can't cum because they spend years wanking so they are used to that technique. As for you boner problem it couldve been just nerves lad These prob wasn't affected by being high and drunk cause people have sex high and drunk all the time, it's the best sex
>>722953992 This. I'm 31yo and I lost my virginity last year. Impossible to cum except with my own hand. Not drunk, on drugs or whatever, just 15 years of fap... But if you're just 20 and keep going with her, you should be OK very soon I guess !
>>722954143 Well to be honest not jerking off makes sex 100x better cause you will cum and your dick hasn't been pleasured in a while so you will enjoy it alot more However I wouldn't go full cold turkey unless you know the sex is always going to be there like it would be stupid to stop jerking off and waiting months to have sex again. Not cummin isn't a big deal and women don't mind because at least then they know they aren't gonna get knocked up
>>722954203 You lost your virginity at 30, you really should not be giving sex advice
It's nerves OP as beta as it sounds I didn't cum the first time either. Stone sober but I was a nervous 16 year old. Second gf was when I was 20. Didn't cum first time either. I think it's nerves and getting comfortable with that person. My current gf I never had the problem, but I have a connection with her that I haven't had with anyone else. Good luck. Don't overthink it.
>>722954511 Yeah, maybe, but you gotta find it also. You can make your own luck. My life was total shit but all that bad luck has gone in a few days >>722954602 Well, /b/ Is the place where someone will understand me. >>722954634 I needed a little help from drugs to achieve it, so it helped >>722954723 Beta shit doesn't matter. But ok, I'll play it cool and see how it goes
>>722955011 Honestly man, I learned that when I stopped over thinking it, everything came naturally (pun intended). She knows your a virgin so you don't have to impress. Just get used to banging lol. Good luck OP. You truly remind me of my younger self.
Don't worry next time just try to relax and most importantly have fun. The first time is never supposed to be great or amazing and now that you have gotten it out of the way, next time just don't fap and you'll be fine.
And you're surprised you couldn't finish? Jesus Christ, it really was your first time, wasn't it? All of those things (especially alcohol) can be boner killers. Honestly, I'm impressed that you were able to get it up at all. Stop stressing your body prior to sex, and you shouldn't have any trouble at all.
Very common. Just lay off on the fapping. The death grib jerk kills dick sensitivity. Your dick is in love with your hand. Needs retrained. As to being high being a problem. Some stuff makes it hard to cum or even get hard. I.e., stims. While some stuff ramps things up.
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