>>721615640 My family is pretty upper middle class so I admit I am probably spoiled
>>721615648 I got into an argument with my dad and he was apparently already mad that I went to big bear with my friends for new years instead of spending it with my family. I think he's really mad because he feels like I'm not spending enough time with the family
>>721617118 If this situation seems to be lasting a while and you don't have a friend whose shower you can use, join a gym. Many gyms have discounts for new members especially at the beginning of the year, and you will have access to a shower and a locker where you can keep some things that you may not want to keep in your car.
>>721617441 My family is Korean and my dad cares a lot about doing traditional things which includes a ceremony on New Years and he was really mad that I couldn't make it. There's another Korean ceremony today and I told him that I might not make it because I had to pick up my friend from the airport. Although I did make it today, he was mad that I said I may not be able to make it because of a friend and we started arguing.
>>721617925 He was really mad and at the end of the argument, he was basically yelling and not even listening to me. I've seen him this mad before, and he usually goes through with whatever he says when he's mad.
Stop being such a piece of shit your parents have to throw you out. I can guarantee if your parents don't want to put up with your shit, no one else does either, this is a fucking wake up call. Get your shit together.
On that note, look for a free shelter, local churches will be places you can contact for free clothing and some support, There should also be other local homeless programs where you can get support, since you are on the internet, starting googling you stupid son of a bitch.
>>721615546 Sucks scro, been there. Wal Mart parking lots are your friend. Keep to yourself and don't be blatant and nobody will hassle you. Keep in mind you always need to have enough fuel to move to another location, staying mobile will keep attention to a minimum. A sign and a few hours in a fancy location will net you gas and food money, or if begging is too much for you temp agencies aren't as hard to navigate as you imagine, there is probably one in the nearest downtown area. Long term you need to get a job. Fast food will be quick and easy, and nobody will notice if you clean up in the sinks before shift - people change into their uniform in the bathroom anyway. Keep your head down and take all the shifts you can, and you'll be in an apartment before you know it. Remember: some of the greatest people have made themselves entirely from nothing, and a lot of them didn't have a Mercedes to start with. ;)
>>721618360 Pay them a couple hundred a month to stay there and try to leave asap ez shit. When you actually pay for rent people tend to leave you be your own person. My parents did anyway. Good luck anon
>>721618408 >Remember: some of the greatest people have made themselves entirely from nothing, and a lot of them didn't have a Mercedes to start with. ;) Name 12 people who did that in the last 20 years
>>721618716 Calmly request your things via text or an intermediary, and then cut all communications. You'll struggle like hell, but silence from you will put massive social pressure on your parents. They seem like the type to care. Over time, if you can maintain silence and independence, you will have them in the palm of your hand.
OP Come back when you think you're ready and talk with your parents. Talk about how are going to change and do it. If your parents let you stay don't talk to them unless they talk to you. Help out around the house. If they don't want you back you might as well just KYS and make your parents regret.
>>721616859 No it's not. When you're 18 and still living at home, you're basically freeloading and should either go massively out of your way to please your parents, or move the fuck out for college/a job. You sound like a huge, sensitive pussy. And this is coming from a huge liberal bleeding heart motherfucker over here. Maybe you can suck ops cock to make him feel better because DADDIE WAS SO MEAN TO HIM!
>>721618408 this guy knows whats up. Cheap gym memberships will also allow you access to showers and facilities. Hobbies and working out will help you pass the time while you save up enough to get yer shit together. You can do this. Its not that hard... you just have to remember that in the coldest part of the night. No one can break you ,except you.
Thread summary: spoiled Korean kid gets "kicked out" for spending time with friends instead of with family. Dad got REALLY IRL MADDDD. Op now convinced he is homeless, not realizing parents literally expect him to return home any minute to warmth and shelter.
Tl;dr: op is an attention whore that's bored and wants us to sob over a minor familial argument. Op also is a NEET.
It's raining :( I will probably sleep in this car tonight then stay at a friends this week while looking for a job. I am considering the army if the job hunt doesn't go well. Thanks for the advice guys.
Find a safe place to sleep in your car or even better at someone's house. Tomorrow talk to your Dad and be like "Nothing can change if we don't talk about it."
Spend more time with your family because that's all you really got man. If it doesn't work you can donate blood/plasma or beg for money. Try to make it work with your family. It might be boring, but the best thing you can give people is your time. Good luck.
>>721620003 Air Force or Navy. Combat seems fun, but get yourself a job that can segue into a career on the outside. Plus the lifestyle just sucks in the Army. You got this. You can probably get taken back if you want, or you can choose to make them suffer the consequences of their decision to fuck you, either way you'll survive.
You're all literally believing this? Spoiled kid gets "kicked out" and you're all passing off serious advice on homeless shelters and car-living tactics? Read between the lines a little bit here folks. Do you really think MAD DAD is going to deny his son a home tomorrow? Did anyone actually read op's posts? Christ.
I am from an eastern culture (born and raised there) I don't get it when people here treat their parents so mean. Why is it so hard to spend a little more time with them? Sooner or later you will be gone for your life. And you always have the time to spend partying or whatever thing you are into. They are not going to be around forever and some day this negative cycle will hit you back when you have kids.
Find high traffic location and beg like those homeless fucks do. Though don't pull that "Poor me" bullshit. Find something catchy and make it on a nice looking sign. Play to human nature.. " Need money for Beer and Weed" etc etc.. Those fuckers make bank I'm telling you!
>>721617304 So he didn't kick you out you are just starting drama and pretending he did? That's not kickin you out faggot unless he said pack your shit and get the fuck out you didn't get kicked out stop making more problems then you already have
>>721621405 Well, that is possible. Friendships change based on the age you are, and if someone spends his full time with his parents then he is loosing something too. Keeping a balance to have a satisfied family and good friendships is the best path. Leaning toward one side and sacrificing the other side is always catastrophic.
>>721615546 OP you can live at a nearby university get a gym pass... wifi, shower, toilet, locker live in your car in a uni parking lot find a job on campus cooking food find a job nearby the university
>>721619020 some celebs have had homelessness stints, and i dont mean couchsurfing amongst your many hollywood stars friends william shatner had bad years living in a trailer after his wife divorce raped him
>>721619486 also nurture relationships they're more necessary to survival than food honestly when i was young i was aloof and thought i could do without human contact now i realize it's where life is at i'm still a lonely neet btw and my only sustained relationship is on voice still it's troo give food to your heart and everything else feels like a well oiled machine
>>721624457 yeah many such cases! tb honest tho the "merchant guild of pol" once demonstrated that it wasnt only the 6 million figure that was used many times before ww2, but also 3 4 5 etc same goes on jewpedia still they're satanic roaches, dont be fooled
>>721615546 Based on your situation, I'm willing to bet drugs were involved. So, and I'm being honest here:
1. Quit doing fucking drugs. 2. Tell your parents you'll go to rehab (Because they can probably afford it. I had friends that didn't have folks that could and maybe they would be alive.) 3. Fucking do.
work at a 24 hour fitness place,etc. Free showers, water, place to park car while sleep, getting money, probably near restraunts. Save up for a while, then maybe look for an apartment to share with other people. Keep saving money for a while. Hope this helps somehow
>>721615546 GO BACK TO YOUR PARENTS HOUSE TELL THEM THEY LITERALLY CANNOT KICK YOU OUT, A) IF YOU'RE UNDER 18 THEY ARE LEGALLY OBLIGATED, B) IF YOU'RE OVER 18 THEY NEED TO LEGALLY EVICT YOU. THE POLICE WILL ENFORCE THIS. STOP BEING A FAGGOT.
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