She's friend with my friends but I've met her 4 times and the last time was in my hometown at a party this summer. I've moved home now and want to start dating her but I now when i read my message again I get second thoughts and thinks it's really cringy. We are both 22yo
Translation: Hey! Dont you have Tinder or have you already swiped left on me? Jokes and side, we've never really said hello but I remember you where nice so I wonder if I could invite you for coffee any day or perhaps meet out on the pub? :)
not too cringey, but shes definitely blanking you, or thinking of what to reply with. If she doesnt get back to you then shes a cunt, but shes rly hot so I can see why youd be interested. Are you a good looking guy?
this are the 2 only options in my opinion 1. it seems that she hasn't get the message yet(correct me if im worng but it doens't appear her miniaturized profile pic where the check is) 2. she's just not iterested so let it go anon
Rarely do you ever want to send a text that's over 3 sentences long. Ahort and sweet is so impoetant.
So next time, no jokey intro. No pretext. No explaining shit. Just say hi. Thats all. Less is best.
If you send a paragraph, it isnt sexy. Just short and straight to the point. As if shes just any other person.
Hi. How are you? Do you want to go out?
Literally thats it. If you try to jazz up what youve texted her, if its obvious that you put thought into it, then it comes across as tryhardy and as if youre putting her on a pedestal. Whcih most people dont want to be. They just want to be treated as normal people.
>>721137970 That is retarded advice. Don't believe what your uncle and romcoms tell you, girls don't want to be treated like shit all the time. They don't want to be worshipped, but they don't want to be an afterthought either.
>>721136841 OP it was cringe when you mentioned Tinder. Now she knows you have a Tinder and the vast majority of people on there are there to fuck. Might've been better off leaving that out but overall it wasn't bad. I would give it 24 hours and if she reads it and doesn't respond within like a few days she's a fuckin' bitch for not having the courtesy to respond. You'll be alright.
>>721138523 Good thing is that Tinder dont really work that way in our town, it's a small town so no one really catch up to fucl eachother, just a dating app too see if theres a mutal interest bc everyone too ashamed to walk up toba friends friends at the club.
>>72113869>>721138696 Speaking from own experiances, nignogs aint getting that poon more than us whiteboys. Atleast not the grade A white roastbeef. Them nogs mostly just lay around with their own kind in the slums.
>>721138743 Vet, hade bra kemi i somras och hon verkade intresserad då (men inte jag) så jag tog en risk nu..
Det är mer bekanta bekantas, hörde med en polare om jag borde våga. Sen har jag precis flyttat hem från studierna så har inte så många vänner kvar här, vi träffas bara när HELA mitt gäng och HELA hennes gäng är hemma
>>721139580 Dude dont play any fucking cards. Your trying is obvious and a big turn off. Sure, add her. But just say Hi for shit's sake. She's not a puzzle. She's just a person. It feels creepy when someone is obviously playing cards.
>>721142991 Add as friend and maybe write somethinge more in case of she haven't seen it bc of fb wierd "other inbox" thingy, or am I only living on hope? I believe she do answer me if she would have seen it
>>721136841 Don't msg her again until you see her again in real life and then ask her out again and if u get rejected don't worry atleast u took it like a man and planted the seed so she knows u like her, next time she sees u she'll really respect u for not being a little bitch by asking twice
And when ur looking fresh as fuck at some point when she sees u she'll instantly remember that u asked her out before and will feel more comfortable and inclined to talk to u more
>>721143727 Sorry bro don't worry about it, pussy urge is something ur imprisoned in like everyone else u need to learn to get angry and do what u like which is what u want not what ur urges want thats what women do, don't worry bro just work on urself and remember love is a lie, the shit u feel when u fall in love*STOP RIGHT THERE* Feel (emotional response created by you [thought of love] that signals ur body to release chemicals that u can literally feel in ur body)
>>721144527 youre dumb. he wasnt messaging her on a fucking dating website, hes seen her around town. and to put forth a fucking presentation to ask a girl out is retarded, you look desperate. just be cool about it and treat it like its not a big deal, because its not. he shouldve just messaged her and sent some messages back and forth and then said "we should go ____ sometime this week."
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