A very attractive girl I know in RL matched with me on Bumble. She sent me the first message last night around 9pm (funny gift that basically said "hello"). I replied back around 10:30pm. Basically said hey, how are you and complimented her.
It's been 24 hours later and she hasn't replied. I should note we went to high school together (a very long time ago) and added to each other on fb years ago. According to fb she hasn't signed on in 23 hours.
I thought about mesaaging her on FB but saw I sent a series of cringey messages to her in 2009 and don't want her to re-read those.
Should I wait until tomorrow and give her my number on bumble and tell her to text me?
the flow of conversation should be her (if she started, you, her, you etc. If she's got something better to do, fuck it. if she wants to talk she'll talk. don't overthink it. for the love of god don't spam her
>>720081173 Ok. I guess if she hasnt been on FB in 23 hours and her last reply was around that time period she probably is busy. How long should I give it to to follow up with her? Also, what should my follow up even be? I'm kind of acting fast because my ex is suppose to be in town Sunday and has been gone several months and will want to see me so I'll need to be juggling. I want to follow up with this girl. esp since she goes waay back
>>720081193 Moron, did you not catch what I just told you you do not directly compliment a woman if that is true then it means you indirectly compliment a woman. Do not contact this woman again if she contacts you then you have a chance move on
For example instead of saying the gay thing you did about her hat you should have said something like hey where do I get a hat like that? Do you think it would look as good on me?
>>720081892 Also, I used to try to hit on her in HS but was too much of a pussy. I only spot to her in gym class. She seemed to treat me really nice back then and back of my mind I thought I had a chance but I told myself I didn't and then at some poitn quit talking to her entirely.
Now I have a chance again. If she hasn't been on FB in 23 hours and her last message to me was around that time period maybe she really is busy.
>>720082131 Admit you failed and your crying Ober spilt milk, pining over this bitch makes you weak. You contact her and you've validated this to her guy. Just imagine right now she's blowing some other guy and you should be fucking some other strange. Because she probably is.
How do I get past LMR? I had that happen last girl I was with. She had her shirt off, bra on, wouldn't let me take it off but let me fondle her breast. Kept taking her boob out but she didn't want to go further. So she let me sleep in her bed with her but nothing else... was weird..
>>720083088 Which is why you will never pass the s*** test women want reassurance that you don't just want sex idiot...even if you do... no both responses are stupid and gay and guaranteed to make her run further away then you've already pushed her you have a 3 day window if she contacts you within 3 days then you know she's interested if you respond first it shows you're desperate.
Also worth noting the capture for this post was dead end
>>720083409 Well the girl I mentioned that gave me LMR is over with. But I'll keep that in mind. She was giving me resistance in several ways but would let me fondle/lightly kiss her/she moaned when I massaged/kissed her next but no sex... Whatever done with that one. Just dont wanna fuck this new one up.
>>720083626 Here's what you need to do to establish your value. Go find another woman and learn to communicate with her. Go out and talk to as many women as you can doesn't have to be about anything in particular doesn't have to be asking them out or anything sexual you need to get over this obvious lack of ability to communicate with women. You need to have a number of women you can pull from to hang out with. If this woman you're interested in then contacts you you say oh I'm going out with XYZ girl why don't we hang out the day after. Even if XYZ girl maybe doesn't exist. If she doesn't respond within the three days contact her and give a goodbye response something reinforcing you have a positive value in such a way that it implies that you don't need her.
Be warned it is the nature of women that they are informants that is to say information gatherers learn to tell the truth in a way of a omission without lying.
Women want what they can't have and they will go after it viciously
>>720084182 Dipshit, we are giving you solid gold nuggets dumbass take some f****** notes this is valuable information that we are dropping on you you're not going to get this anywhere else get over this dumb b**** I was even nicer in my last reply
>>720084347 Ok, I will see what she does within the next 2 days. Maybe she is busy as shit. I don't know.
When she matched with me it took her almost 12 hours to send the first reply. I figured time would run out and we'd unmatch. She hasn't been on FB in 24 hours (again I never talk to her / stalk her on FB so I don't know her behavior). I'll just not reply back a few days.... See what she does with my last message. If by Friday night she doesn't reply, I'll text her simply "You can text me <number>" and then never write her again, unless she responded.
>>720085413 ok ill wait 2-3 more days and then send her a hail mary text saying "Feel free to text me, I don't always check these things: <number>" if that makes me beta then i no longer give a fuck because i see i have another match on tinder
>>720085502 youre right. i am putting her higher value cause i wanted to fuck her a loooong time agp and she is very hot. i was a nerd kid in HS and she was popular. she is still hot and guess she didnt care i was the nerd kid back then / now. i am told im a good looking guy but obvs im autistc
>>720085707 im used to being on the back burner. ill meet girls in RL and we got on GREAT. Theyll willingly give me their numbers and agree to hang out later. Some do follow up and at most kiss them when we meet up again to have them not contact me anymore.... or more lately they give me their number and then never want to hang out after a good first meet
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