Hey guys, to cut a long story short: Me and my fiancee decided

Also, I'm 26 and she's 19. Yeah. This might have a lot to do with it.

I figure that she thinks she's missed out on a lot of experiences. And for context, she also had a threesome planned with this guy and his GF when I met her and made her go exclusive with me. Hence why I'm feeling insecure. It's like I denied her an experience and now she's desperate to make up for it.

>>720038184
Don't do it man, you will regret it

>>720038594
Yeah I know, I'm not going to do it. But am I being unreasonable? Is it probable that she secretly/subconsciously wants to fuck him still? How could she even ask this when she knows I hate him? Does she not give a fuck about my feelings?

do NOT marry her.

run anon, it'll hurt now but you'll be so much better long term

>>720038761
no she doesn't
she is using you, and even if you say no she will go behind your back and do it anyways, with or without you there

>>720038761
Not unreasonable at all, OP.
Seems she really isn't taking your feelings into consideration. Maybe it's because she's young and has matured enough yet.
She probably just wants to fuck him if she keeps pushing for him.

If anything, agree to have a threesome with the fuck buddy if you have an FFM threesome with a woman of your choice first, then dump her after that's done. I wouldn't stay with her.

If she declines then just dump her. You don't want to marry that.

>>720038184
She not a keeper at this point anymore imo. Say you insist on ffm first. Profit, and then walk away from the relationship before mmf.

>>720039141
That's not a risk at all tbh. If anything she's trying to get my permission in a subversive way.

I can see it from her point of view. She likes having sex with him. But she loves me and likes having sex with me. If I'm okay with it, why not get the best of both worlds and have sex with us both.

It's the kind of logic I'd rationally arrive at too. If my fiancee was good with me sleeping with one of her hot friends I'd be down.

I'm quite confident she doesn't have the constitution to cheat, which is why she's trying so hard to get me into the threeway.

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>> ITT cuck faggot
kill yourself.

>>720039176
She's 100% open to a FFM threesome, regardless of whether we go through with the MMF one. But she's also kind of bi, so it doesn't mean the same thing with her.

>>720039040
have the threesome with another girl first
then you should leave her

>>720038184
This bitch is already fiending for other dick. She is not, and never will be, a long term keeper. Understand this and do this
> agree to have a threesome with the fuck buddy if you have an FFM threesome with a woman of your choice first, then dump her after that's done.
Once again. This bitch is *not* a keeper. She lost all worth when she started asking you to be okay with other dick.

>>720038184
At this point, it just seems like she just wants to fuck him without consequences. Better leave her now, because I don't think it'll be long before she's banging her ex whether the three some happens or not.

>>720039300
dubs never ever lies 100*this

>>720039402
i thought that same thing 14 months ago anon, but she cheated anyways

and that was after both 3 ways, she picked the guy.. same exact situation, exx fuck buddy that i hated

and after all said and done, kept fucking him afterwards on the side

she'll come back with well you agreed to let me fuck him and throw the MMF threesome in your face..

it's your life though broanon. Best of luck to you

FFM threesome wasn't worth it in the long run

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>>720038184
she is unsatisfied with you and looking for a way to fuck her ex. if you dont give her this out she will leave you and fuck him anyway

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>>720039402
you are some hardcore beta-cuck faggot

>>720038184
You're a fucking idiot m8 might as well get straight to sucking some cock at the rate you're going. Enjoy getting cucked by your slut, my girl isn't stupid enough to say some shit to me about "fucking some other guy" man you guys need to get your whores on a leash jeez

>>720039588
how many fucking times i have to.say that dubs faking never ever lies

>ffm

>leave bitch

>profit

>>720038327
>Also, I'm 26 and she's 19.
>fiance

why are you marrying a fucking child? you get whatever you deserve.

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>>720039799
but what about love

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The way me and my GF do it is to make sure were both completely comfortable. If you have any reservations about doing the 3 way MMF with that guy then absolutely dont do it and put your foot down and be absolutely firm that it isnt happening. If you get sort of roped into doing it you wont have fun, you'll hate it, and afterwards you'll just be paranoid about everything and it will ruin whatever relationship you have.

Same goes for the other way too though, if you're gonna swing a 3some she has to be absolutely comfortable with who the chick is. Think about it, your GF is gonna let you stick your cock in some other chick, shes gonna have to completely 100% at peace with who it is.

Goes both ways

>>720040035
she's 19, she doesnt love

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>>720040035
Female
>loyalty
>love

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>>720040300
>>720040347

>>720040292
Lol it's not even close to the same thing. Dicking some whore in a threesome is much different than letting some dude take ownership of your woman to blow a load inside her.

>>720040300
This is wisdom. Women don't generally starting thinking like nonwhores until mid 20s when they realize that they actually do have a biological clock.

>>720038184
It ain't about the threesome, it's about her wanting to go fuck her old fling. Since you said she's bi the ffm threesome is probably just icing on the cake for her, but deep down it's just a means to an end for riding that guy's dick one more time. Plus it's in a way that let's her do it without having to feel bad about cheating on you.

>>720038184
Sry OP she is still fucking him behind your back and wants a good laugh with him at your expense.

>>720040560
Just fuck some whore behind her back you faggot do it like it's been done for generations you fuck. The fuck is this "here fuck my girl" bullshit.

>>720040726
Or just pick wisely in who you are going to be monogamous with. The wife and I have fucking great sex and I have zero desire for other women. Half you faggots cant tell a good woman from a prostitute.

>>720038327
shes 19 and female. pretty much all what she wants is to suck dick

>>720038184

Venturing into threesomes is a challenge for any relationship; only emotionally mature and openly trusting couples are able to pull it off.

I could be wrong, but my take is that she wants to have sex with this guy again while technically not cheating on you. By agreeing to a threesome, you are sanctioning her sleeping with an old boyfriend. It doesn't sound like a good idea, and she doesn't sound like an emotionally supportive partner.

>>720038184
Threesomes are WAY overrated. You only have one dick. Your girl already has two holes you can have.

>>720040976
how many fucking times i have to.agree with that?

>>720040873
Well the thing is that some of these females put their best foot forward, the white inside starts coming out as they're more comfortable with you. That's when you have to kick them to the curb. The thing you faggots are ok with is your bitch actively trying to immasculate you right to your fucking faces and you pissy bitches are perfectly ok with tasting some other guys dick.

Don't do it guy, have a long travel and then search for a guy online, do a threesome and then block him everywhere (don't save names or number, don't give him yours of course), you both will have a good fuck and won't hear him anymore!

>>720038327
>19
>fiance
>missing out on experiences
Go on, marry her anon. It will be great.

>>720038184
>>720040976

Addendum to my post: I wrote thinking she was your girlfriend. Now that I realize you two are engaged, I would take the time to really consider your future.

If you boil all this down, you have your future wife - consciously or not - disregarding your emotional needs, oblivious to how her actions are affecting you. Any marriage counselor would tell you this a huge red flag.

All the best.

>>720038184
c u c k
u
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k

>>720041467
This.

>>720038761
Tell her I just dont like the guy seems like a douche im gonna choose the guy, when she says what the fuck ? say it is about sex not appareances get her some b tard.

>>720038184
dude, never let another man shit on your porch.

>>720041554
how many fucking times i have to.say that op is a major cuck if dont hit the shit out of this bitch and leave her or just leave her your.choice

>>720038184
GTFO OP, have an FFM them dump her ass. She's definitely gonna fuck him, if she isn't doing so already.

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Run. Ghost her. Don't tell her the reason.
Calmly pack her shit overnight, put it at the front door.
Write a note explaining that your relationship is terminated, and her eviction is non negotiable. Give her 24 hours to leave.
Go buy a prostitute or two and some scotch to kill the remaining sadness.
Never reply to any attempt of reconcilliation or communication.

Full ghost mode.

>>720041863
Come on now anon, OP isn't gonna do that he's actively trying to find some guy to blow a nice thick load inside his bitch

>>720041863
yeah I kinda feel bad for him not even niggers let their bitches have threesomes honestly OP it is pretty sad.

>>720038184

You're 26 and she's 19. In that seven years a lot has changed culturally. The youngsters are a lot more "libertine" if you get me.

>>720041554
Thanks for the help, you summed up my thoughts really well.

Basically I said that that doing it like this meant that the only person out of their comfort zone was ME. The other guy would be having just another threesome, which he does all the time with his GF. My fiancee would be fucking two guys she's already fucked before and knows she likes, will enjoy and have a good time with. Meanwhile I'm the only one here with any question marks at all. I don't know if I could even deal with another guy fucking her. I don't know the guy, but I hate the idea of him. I don't know anything.

Basically this whole idea seems very one sided and I'm the only one taking any risks.

I said this to her and she rejected it point blank. Like "I don't know if I'll like it either. I'm nervous too."

So she was completely unwilling to grant that I'm going to be uncomfortable and that it didn't seem fair. She also said that it would be better for her to be comfortable and safe, rather than with some random from Tinder. I disagreed.

The other thing is the power dynamic. If it was a random from Tinder then it would be like an interview, pretty much. He'd have to meet us in a bar, impress us both. It's like a shared decision. I feel very in control and in a position of power. Whereas if it's her and her ex fuck buddy, it's like the whole thing doesn't have much to do with me. Does that make sense?

>>720041945
how op cant agree with this
blind cuck
please op grow up and get a woman not a young whore teen bitch

>>720042044
No I don't. What do you mean?

>>720042031
i m not happy at all

>>720042249
You shouldn't be op your bitch is riding the cock carousel

>>720038184

I think your reaction is normal and very understandable. As always, I think the best solution would be to tell her directly how you feel about that. She must be able to understand why the situation makes you unconfortable, and she may just change her mind once she realizes that its a legit problem for you.

sorry for bad english, i hope your problem will be solved

>>720041979
You sound like a sociopath. Masterful advice, though.

>>720042032
never ever.be.a cuck

i think i would beat up that whore until she move than.byebye
or.just.leave her

>>720038184
Message to OP: Abort Mission. I repeat. Abort Mission. Over.

>>720040560
>biological clock

and mileage...

>>720042395
I've tried. She's fairly unwilling to see it from my point of view. She doesn't even really get why I think it's a weird situation to ask for a threesome with her old sex buddy.

>>720038184
>>720042110

Jerk off and then immediately afterwards decide if letting your woman's ex fuck her in a threesome is a good idea. The answer will be obvious, unless you are a massive fucking cuck.

>>720042110

Yes, that makes sense. It is very much a one-sided decision. If I were you, I wouldn't go through with it, and would be pondering over whether or not this is the girl I want to marry.

However, if you are committed to this relationship, I'd urge you to talk with her about how this affects you. Encourage her to view it from your point of view: how would she feel if you proposed a threesome with a hot ex-girlfriend?

>>720042585
DO THIS NIGRA
>>720041979
>>720041979
>>720041979

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>>720042585
OPs face as he reads the (Yous)

Dude you are throwing your life away with this cunt.

Run DMC

>>720042585

its strange, but maybe she will just accept that something she cannot understand is important for you ?

Its like when a couple doesnt share the same political views, they can still talk and respect the other's point of view while not understanding it

>>720042110
also i find your logic really legit, you clearly thought about it and you are not acting just by basic jealousy. Espeially the power relation thing seems very important to me too, its a very good point to bring.

>>720038184
go nuts ur not mrrying this one i promise u this is just another chic, but if u do it w that guy u will absolutely feel like murdering them both if i was u hit n quit

>>720041863
>>720042335
its me i m just not happy with that whole.mmf stuff
why op have to be a cuck
why.he cant be a faking man and leave the bitch
bitch is.a.bitch
never trust.a bitch i feel that
who have a faking partner and would like to.suck other cock dont say that she is.a.wifematerial.angel
she is just a.simple.whore
leave her or regret the marriage

op is a major cuck i feel this way.

>>720038327

Don't fucking marry a god damn 19 year old you fucking idiot, they don't mean a fucking word they say at that age.

>>720043474
Listen to this Tibetan Monk OP. Listen to him.

>>720043158
I've sincerely tried to rationalise this whole thing out.

>>720041863
>>720042031
>>720042032

please OP don't listen to the classical /b/ talk.

I find it amazing that you are trying to broaden your sexual practice so openly and discussing it rationnaly.

So many people confronted to this situation would just act on jealousy alone and not try to solve the problem like a responsible adult should : by talking and understanding each other

>>720043853
>cuck/whore detected
He obviously doesn't want to do it, ejit.

>>720043680
i hope he will

all what we have just hopes

hopes he will follow his mind

his.heart is a major cuck i feel that

>>720043853
You find cuckolding amazing lel

>>720043853
fuck you

>>720044222
when trips lies?

>>720039436
but he's actually trying to prevent the cuck

>>720044425
>wanting MMF threesome
>not being a chick
Pick one m9

>>720044519
CUCK FUCK YOU AUTOCORRECT
REEEEEEEEEEE

>>720043853
bullsalways gotta be looking for new pussy, don't they.

>>720038184
Considering you wrote a fucking novel about how you feel I'd say it's time to get the fuck out of there, you're not the open relationship kinda person and she seems to be.

>>720044858
this$

If you were merely dating, I'd say why not. You get to fuck other women and she gets to fuck other men. If you realize that this isn't for you, dump her and start again. You are planning on marrying her. DO NOT DO THIS! Unless you enjoy wondering if it is safe to eat your wife out when you come home, like getting tested for stds every 2 months and/or the thought of paternity testing all of your children fills you with wonder, much like opening a present at christmas, do not marry this woman. Even if you never get into the mmf threesome, this woman will never be faithful to you. Her old BF will always be around to plow her fields when you are not around.

>>720038184
me and my wife swing

what she is doing is making you a cuck

>dontdoitanon.jpg

tell her to find a random

>>720038184
Do it man, so you will end this hidden inferno.

Truth will make you free.


let her to keep his old lover, get another woman who really wants you, why u wanna be with a person that is not clearly 4 u?

>>720038184
Bad news OP, if you are not already a cuck you will be, and this man will be the one to nail her. Dump the bitch

>>720039629
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>>720039986
>>720040027
>>720040292
>>720040976
>>720041945


All of this advice for you >>720038184
>>720038184

LISTEN TO IT

This girl does not have your best interests at heart insisting on a guy you're obviously uncomfortable with having involved. SHE JUST WANTS HIS D.

If you go through with it, GUARANTEED you're gonna find her fucking some scumbag (protip; probably the ex) in your bed on the DL while you're out at work/family/whatever.

>>720038184
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>>720045210
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>>720042585
read

she isnt.just.a.whore.she.is.dump as.shit.aswell so any.faking.motherfaking.reason why.you dont leave.her.now.

oo i get.one.do.the.faking.ffm.and.leave her

>>720038761
secretly?

u naive man, secretly, jo jo jo jo

>>720038184
3-ways are a test of a relationship. Lots of 'em break after. Considering those red flags yours prob will too.

Do whatever you want, but when shit goes sour just know when to cut it off.

Threesomes are a mistake for a relationship that matters.

>>720045568
i want.to.fuck him

this.is.how.she said.it.secretly

op you have to stop sniffing that shit

>>720040035
>19
>love

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

Is the pic your fiance? If she's that hot I'd go along with it the MMF and see what happens. Don't have to marry her if shit falls apart.

Otherwise, just bail now. If you let her do this she will walk all over you in the future.

>>720038327
>made her go exclusive with me
There's your problem. You can "make" someone else do what you want sexually. OP is a rapist.

>>720038184
Shes a hoe

First thing first...
Quit being a bitch and have a serious conversation about it.
Lead with how you feel. "I hate this guy. I feel competitive cause I know you guys had good sex or you wouldn't have had him for a fuck buddy at all."
Be honest.
"Blah blah blah. I'm sad and disappointed that even tho I told you I won't consider it at all."
Ask her if she's not satisfied sexually. Ask her if she'd just prefer a more open relationship. If that option is NOT OKAY for you, tell her you're not comfortable with her sleeping with people indiscriminately.

Maybe get on fetlife and start a profile. Head to some kink parties. Maybe get on swingular or polylife and make profiles there. Read The Ethical Slut.

Converse. Get out of /b/ and get with your grill.

>>720038184
mane, its very bad. i think its best to say something like fuck you, and leave/ but its my opinion, wtf this girl is your fuckbuddy? or its something serious? if you serious with your feelings - you have to be more radical, cos if something will go wrong later - you will be sad cos of all this wasted time on this/ or you can beat the shit out of her buddy, just for your pleasure, id did something like that

>>720039040
bump

>>720046483
or beat the shit out.of.the whore.gf and leave

>>720046664
66666

Just leave her

>>720046722
best option.ever

For fucks sake don't marry a 19-year-old. Hell, don't marry period. Marriage is for fucking cucks that don't like their money.

>>720038184
Fucks sake, OP, don't marry this hoe. There are SO many better girls out there, dont waste your time with her, its not worth it. Mark my fucking words, OP, she WILL cheat on you. Even if you cuck out and let her do the threesome, she'll leave your ass and fuck him. Get a girl that makes you happy and loves you.
And if you want to keep this girl? Make it known that you dont fuck around. Drop little hints alluding to "I'll fucking kill you and make it look like an accident if I ever catch you with another man." Make it known you dont want her talking to, thinking about, or even BREATHING the same oxygen as this faggot. Or you could do some really saucy shit, like make her have a threesome with a girl that makes her insecure. Idolize and fantasize this other chick 24/7, and when your bitch has had enough, rub it in her face. Although this could backfire and she could end up cheating on you out of spite.

>>720047249
/leave whoregf
/whisper Op alias faglord01
/yell dont be a major cuck

>>720047249
bae more like hoe