>>720012842 Because if you wasted the time getting nudes, I know they're worth seeing. I'm sure her bodys nice. Plus she wasted all your time when she likely knew she would friendzone you far sooner than she told you, so fuck her for wasting the only thing people actually have worth value. Time.
>>720013133 You rolled dubs on yourself, i think you earned this thread and yourself a nude post mah man. Also full frontal if you have it, and face if you really feel like flippin this ratchet bitch the bird
So I'm suspicious that my crush, who've I've messed around with but never fucked is now banging one of our friends. I don't have proof but it seems very likely that they are fucking. Should I confront and ask her?
>>720014111 Noooo, nigga. Not if she's not into you or else you'll look like a fucking weirdo.
You don't have a "right" to question her about who she dicks down because she's not yours and never was.
I understand wanting to and it seems super likely that this bitch led you on but you gotta stay strong and act like you don't give a fuck.
You act super cool about everything, remain in touch, work on yourself to get in the best shape and have the best life you can, pull bitches and make sure she knows without actually telling her. If you stick around long enough it's super likely she'll try to hook back up at some point and that's when you can deal the killing blow.
I've done this so many times over the course of the last 30 years. It's fucking beautiful and easy as shit once you stop catching feelings over this cunt.
>>720014182 I'll try and keep it short as possible >be me >virgin >spend half the summer with this girl >we connect really well >only girl I've felt truly comfortable around Ffw to last month >tells me if I really like her then that I shouldn't >rejects me, tells me she doesn't want to hurt me >ignore for a week, she sends me 20 texts at a time about how she needs me and shit like that >give in and invite her over for a new years party at my house >she kisses me, I reject her >comes over next morning and then it leads to me fingering her Ffw to last week >ended up eating her out, tells me "if you want to lose your virginity nows your chance...Now hurry up before I change my mind." >I cant get hard so that fucked me over a bit
But now she seems to be really flirty with our friend and always chilling with him. I've been keeping my distance from ever since last month. She has been doing the same. This past weekend she seemed to be flirting with him massive right in front of me and hinting that she wanted to be alone with him. >mfw I drove past his house early this morning and her car was there.
I don't have proof that they're fucking but it seems likely.
>>720014709 That's why I'm asking. I feel like if I even do ask her she'll just lie to me and say "no were just good friends anon :)" or some bullshit like that. But I do have the right to know because she is into me and I'm obviously into her.
Hard mode seems like a stretch. I have no motivation to better myself at this point in my life. I can't get girls as it is, I'm just a short and skinny asshole. And even if I do go through with it, is it even worth banging her at that point. I want her now and not to be shared with my friend. If she was just hooking up with someone from tinder or something I wouldn't care. But then again I can just be overthinking this whole situation.
>>720014831 As an amateur psychologist in training, I can tell you that this woman has problems you can't take on. She's been rejected and tried to rebound off you to feel better, and is looking for some sort of validation from men instead of any meaningful relationship. She's hurt, and numbing the pain with sexual interest and intercourse to avoid dealing with the underlying problem. They might be fucking, she might be working her way up to it, but no matter what, she gonna hoe out for a while. If you wanted to be in a relationship with her, you can't do that, at least not right now. If you just wanna fuck her or fwb, then now's the time to strike.
But considering you couldn't get hard and rejected her, you probably wouldn't be into fwb and want a meaningful relationship.
Thanks for sharing your story, anything you want to add?
>>720015167 >I feel like if I even do ask her she'll just lie to me and say "no were just good friends anon :)" or some bullshit like that. Your instincts are good. Never expect them to be honest, especially when it comes to shit like this. They think they'll be doing you a favor by "sparing your feelings" which may be true but fuck that shit, who needs pity?
>Hard mode seems like a stretch. I have no motivation to better myself at this point in my life. I can't get girls as it is, I'm just a short and skinny asshole. It might seem like a stretch at this point but it's really not. All you have to do today is act like it's all gravy, baby. You SHOULD put some distance between the two of you. It'll give you some time to heal AND she needs to understand that you will, in fact, live without her pussy blessings.
Now, to try to preclude this issue from reappearing with other women in the future, you should get /fit/, get fashionable, and get out there. Right now IS the best time to do this. You won't give a shit if you get shot down right now. You're still fucked up over the other chick.
>>720015275 >entertaining You're hanging out with her allowing her to practically cuck you in front of your homie. If you ask me, your friend's a shithead too but most guys will totally fuck their best friend's woman and think nothing of fucking a chick that shot their friend down.
Wasn't trying to sound harsh on you, either. This is just tough love because I actually WAS a beta orbiter a long time ago.
>>720015615 Everything you said is spot on. She fucked up in the head, too many issues to count. Idk if they're fucking, she's known to fuck with guys heads like getting real close to them and shit and not letting them get any. Our friend is an emotional drug addict who offers nothing to the table. I hope she's really not interested in him, he's a bitch and was straight up crying/sobbing in front of me and our other friend the other night.
Worst part of all this is that he used to bully me in high school and I was too much of a pussy to stand up to him back then. and now he's making moves on the girl I'm crazy for. I want to drop them both so badly right now but a chance at pussy is so tempting.
>>720015810 Her and I have been really distant lately. She never makes effort to hang with me and if we do make plans she always bails on me. If I do end up asking her, I'm gonna make her tell the truth. I wanna ask her in person but I can never get a moment alone with her. I want to better myself but I'm just so unmotivated to do so, I sleep all day and smoke when I'm not at school or work.
I feel like this is going to end up with me trying to fight him and me calling her a bitch and blocking her from my life. I hope not I really do care about her but I can't deal with this shit.
>>720012168 Bro stop being a pussy. Stop trying to be friends with girls with the hope they will eventually see the "real you" and fall in love. Beta pussy grow a pair, stop respecting them they are inferior to you
>>720016225 he may not offer anything in one sense, but he provides her with a sense of power and importance. Like you, she bullied you, and it feels good to have the power to make you want her.
She probably has self esteem issues herself and uses other people to make herself feel better, an inferiority complex i believe.
best revenge is to fuck her and then reject and trash her hard. Or you can just fuck her and know that she means nothing to you, because she will own you and destroy you if she does, that's the game she's playing
>>720018117 dude, it's over. you.. you said the word 'friendzone' to her. completely ruining any chance you *thought* you had. ya done fucked up. remove the word zone from your already limited vocabulary completely. take this as a lesson and move on.
>>720019134 Nah I ate her out and couldn't get a boner when it came down to fucking her. Next morning she told me she was pissed off saying she was way too drunk and shit like that. And yeah I do I've out so much effort into this, she so fucking hot too. I wouldn't want to lose it to anyone else. But if I find out she's fucking my friend I'll lose all interest and probably never talk to her again, that would be the last straw.
>>720019352 You should fuck her before you know for sure then. Why can't you get an erection? Do you think it's because of your emotional distress regarding her? She's hot, but you can't get your dick hard. What's wrong anon?
Don't know if you're still here OP but cut ties and move on, it's hard but it's the only cure to being friend zoned.
Current girlfriend of mine didn't know if she wanted to be in a relationship when we first started seeing each other until I told her that I wouldn't hang around if we weren't getting together. She thought I was being a cunt but I told her I wouldn't subject myself to being around her if I couldn't have her. She's my submissive little Slut now.
Tl;Dr make your feelings clear and tell her you won't settle for less
>>720019485 Ive always heard nofap and noporn as being a myth. But it may be true. I watch too much porn I think. I have a lot of HD brazzers porn on my computer that I jerk off to instead going out and finding a girl. Not 100% sure about that though, its def a possiblity. Also I was drinking whisky and I've heard whisky dick is a thing.
It could be the emotional distress but at the time I was ready to fuck her, I wanted her so badly. I didn't even realize I wasn't hard until I took the condom out. Shortly after I left the room and came back an hour later and cuddled for the rest of the night while she was still naked.
>>720019870 try to cut out the whisky that'll probably help. and coming to terms with what kind of girl she is will probably help, also, being your first time you're probably nervous too. Just don't think about it too much
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