Once or twice a day would be ideal for me. Once a month would be ideal for her. Through manipulation and compromise, we do it about once a week and she gives a few blowjobs a week also. She doesn't enjoy sex or blowjobs, but she knows I'll break up if she doesn't. I might break up with her anyways so I could find someone that enjoys sex and doesn't see it as a chore. It would just be really difficult because I love her and we're similar in most ways besides libido.
>>719886487 Polyamorous male here. My Fiancée and I don't really have sex. My cock is too big for her - really a bummer. My other partner and I have sex 5-10 times a week depending. We all live together. Feels good man
Fiancee is 120lbs 5'8" 23years old Other partner is 90lbs 5'1" 22 years old
I'm 5'11" 190lbs and 26 years old.
My fiancée has a second partner as well and they're able to fuck because his dick is a bit smaller which works for them
>>719887058 There is literally zero cucking. We just all do whatever the fuck we want. My fiancée and I are financially stable and support each other in that way. I get to fuck a gorgeous Asian girl who lives with us whenever I want. My fiancée gets to still get her rocks off, and I don't have to live with him. I get threesomes with the girls constantly
Partner and I both have a high libido, but it's not the same. I'm bisexual, he isn't. So we have an open relationship where we bring in about half a dozen regular play partners that are all female. It keeps everyone happy.
Compromise is important, but so is being happy. If you can't be happy with the compromise don't do it. A good sex life is (regardless of how you define it) is important for a happy healthy relationship.
I'm pretty sure sex is what ended my last relationship. I wanted it multiple times a dayand my gf wanted it maybe once a week. Id usually be okay with her saying no but sometimes when she'd turn me down after a week of not having it I'd get pretty fucking mad
I dated my girl purely for her pussy. Sex is off the charts. We used to fuck at least twice a day. Even when we would drive somehwere we couldn't make it more than two hours or so before pulling over to fuck. Other than the fantastic sex she is a miserable sow of a person. Just a miserable human being that cannot be happy no matter what happens in her life. The complete opposite of what I want in a partner. I still ended up agreeing to marriage for the sex. Been with her almost a decade now. Have a kid and a house and everything. She's still miserable and we have sex only once or twice a week now, but it has gotten better over time. Would never have guessed that is even possible. It is fucking mindblowing. I recon I will bail before I hit 40 so I could still be young enough to get a decent partner. On the other hand...I really could waste the rest of my life with her just for the sex.
My wife wwould ljke to fuck every day... so would i but we have to wera condoms to avoid betting pregnant. Ive got her knocked up before and didnt even cum inside. So we have tobe careful which kinda sucks. Kinda ruins it. We have 3 kids already. I dont have health insurance on myself cuz i cant afford, and she wont take bc because she says she just wants to eat all the time. So i guess thats why i fap a lot
I have a very high sex drive... I could do it once or twice a day. My gf's is very low and we usually fuck about 3-4 times a month. In the beginning it was every day... 4 years later and shits died down. feels bad man
in relationship for several years we used to see each other only on weekends (functional long distance relationship) and we would fuck like crazed teenagers every weekend...now live together and she's happy but we fuck like twice a month wtf I jerk off 2 or 3 times a day not happy but when we do fuck the sex is still good dunno what to do
Married to a frigid fucking bitch for 15 years. She never wants to fuck. When I finally get her to do it, her pussy is dry, so I use tons of lube. Any position other than missionary is out of the question, because she says it hurts. We have three young kids, otherwise I would be the fuck out of here.
>>719887959 >>719887959 Sure man. We are both really into bdsm and I tie her up a lot and junk. We both get off on giving her beating/spankings with a cane etc. her cunt is seriously the tightest I've ever fucked. When we are all in bed together (we share a bed the three of us) I will frequently take her from behind and force my cock into her while telling her to be quiet so as to not wake my fiancée. She gets off on that pretty hard and so do i. It's always a fun game to see how hard we can go before she wakes up.
She's also into rape roleplay (con non con) and ddlg. It's all pretty hot to me honestly. I dump loads into her all day.
My wife is in punishment mode. Anal at least twice a day. Minimal vaginal play. Edging her constantly. Orgasm denial until Friday. She fucked up. Normally she get spanked or the cropped, but she needed something special this time.
>>719886487 If left to our own we have sex 4-5 times a week. Occasionally up to 10 times. Still going on like this after 2 1/2 years. I think it's kind of funny that I'm the one starting to get tired of sex. Like I just want to play my games or something now.
>>719886487 My girlfriend lets mew fuck her once every 2 months or so. Shes older than me (shes 40 - i'm 38). She just doesn't seem interested most of the time. Uses excuses like "I have to work" or "I'm too tired". But when I do get to fuck her pussy she lets me cum inside of her, so that makes the wait all the more worth it to me. Nothing beats blowing your load in a pussy.
>>719888488 Got duped into having kids too. The day she found out she was pregnant she started putting on weight. Nothing but empty promises from her ever since. She started drinking too. Is at least 85lb overweight by now. Would love to get the fuck out of dodge, but her gravity field is keeping me. That and I got retrenched 2 years ago and have been struggling to get back on my feet so she pretty much pays for everything.
>>719886487 Once every two weeks. Sometimes once a week. GF is hot and wants to fuck a lot but I totally lost my sex drive since she moved in. Regret this decision... Life lesson learned - don't let her move in.
>>719888927 Yeah man it's fantastic. And the level of consent to make it all happen is really great. We all have a ton of fun and it's all a blast for everyone involved.
Ddlg and d/s dynamics are in all of my relationships. With her it's interesting because she's the smallest girl I've been with for sure. She doesn't get into the cutesy kid shit which is cool. Just likes to get her tight holes used while she screams daddy. Now that I think about it, it really isn't ddlg in a way. Just a d/s dynamic with the words "daddy" and "little girl" being used
>>719887370 My ex girlfriend couldn't handle my dick either. Length 7,87" and circumference 6.54 inches. Pretty much she says it hurts when I enter her and also when I bumb into the end of her pussy. Most people think its a blessing to have such a canon but I failed multiple times at having one night stands because it could just not fit without tearing her internals. I want to shorten my dick... Or find a girl whos harbor accept my Ocean Cruiser.
Once every 2 months plus on my birthday and on christmas
been married for 7 years. At first we had sex like every day, then maybe once every 2 weeks - this was the time I fapped a lot. She caught me fapping multiple times which made her really mad, so she decided to put my dick in a chastity lock (which was also a secret fetish of her). I was curious about it so I agreed. At first she would let me out every 3-4 days to fuck her, but now its every 60 days.
>>719889619 Yeah 8.5" here 6" circumference so it's not huge -- my fiancée just has a weird shaped cunt I guess. I bottom out in her too easily and she bleeds after sex with me pretty often. Now we only fuck like once a week or less. Thank god for my other partner and her ability to take it even though I swear she's way tighter but loves it when I bottom out and hit her cervix
My girl's sex drive is so high that I still consider leaving her. I thought having a girl with a high sex drive would be cool but she literally wants to fuck 5+ times a day. It gets tiring after the second time, maybe third. I can't give dick that much.
>>719889871 All the time man. Usually Asian qt fucks me while fiancée eats her out or plays with her in some way. Frequently they'll be kissing or I'll be kissing one of them while the other begs for cum inside her cunt. It's the fucking dream
>>719886487 We both want to, but there's a few issues. Even though we are 18 we still live with our parents. We're moving out for college in 5 months, but we won't be living together so that's pretty shit. Also she's afraid of getting pregnant, doesn't trust condoms so she says she'd rather wait until we finish college.
Altough she has given me a handie and a titfuck we both have a high libido. So we suffer
Used to fuck everyday, have several regulars. Lately (last 2 months) I havent fucked cause tired of it. I hate women, theyre stupid and shit in bed. Gonna start fucking men in the ass instead. More manly, and they usually fight back.
>>719886892 Probably this for everyone that isn't a virgin pretending itt. Normally 1-2 times a week after 5 years tho so cant complain. Wish Id receive some mor bj's tho and want to have my dick sucked by her and another chick one day. Currently working our way up to even more sex a week tho + the sex is fucking awesome. Its not a chore once she gets in the right mood, ffs she becomes a good fucking horny whore then who loves to have her tight ass hole stuffed. Mhhh, Im deffinately fucking her tonight! pic unrelated
My wife was molested as a child and also has PCOS and one of the side effects was a drop in libido. She's horny every once in a great while, we made love the night before last, but before that it was months. I usually fap and sometimes she helps me. Her meds are starting to help as they're beginning to balance out her hormones. We love each other and accept the situation. Also have children. -shrugs- The way I always explained it to her when she asks how I cope was that I fapped before I met her, so there's not much change. I'll survive with a few nights of love making every once in awhile, and I love her, care about her and want to be with her. If something changes, great. If not, oh well. I've never been one to sleep around. It's no big loss for me.
>>719890458 >>719890458 Yeah man. This girl is really very stable which is wonderful. We've been together for a bit and she's never had a relationship less than a year in length. So I have high hopes. This is her first polyamory setup and we treat her like gold. She says it's the most supported and cared for she's ever felt. Interesting seeing as how I beat the fuck out of her with implements all the time
When my wife and I were young I wanted sex everyday. But she was going through some medical stuff and only wanted it once a month. Now 10 years later. I'm an old flag and only want it once a week and she wants it twice a day. Trying hard to keep up.
>>719886487 I work 60 hours a week and me and my girlfriend have sex about once a week, twice if I'm not exhausted. She's cool with it and so am I. When you are together a while and grow up you realize sex isn't everything in a relationship or even all that fun.
My ex gf had the most glorious tits and body i had ever been with, legit double d of PERKY goddamn goodness. She was a fucking boring piece of shit in bed though i eventually cheated and left. disappointing since she had such fucking potential it triggers me
For most relationships out of the new period where you're fucking like rabbits, a healthy sex life is probably twice a week. It varies very much depending on the girl but chances are she's not as physically attracted to you as you are to her.
If you want sex more often you have to find out what turns her on. Still unless she has some deep perverted streak don't get your hopes up about multiple daily sex sessions. Girls who never want sex are boring and frustrating, girls who always want sex are exhausting. Need to find your middle ground.
>first few months, almost daily >nearly a year into relationship though, we haven't had sex in 2 months (to be fair, there was a 3 week gap that she was in another country, and that 3 week fell around the time her birth control ended) I hate it, it seems like she doesn't care about it nearly as much as I do, but I'm not gonna end it over events that are most likely rare (I hope)
>>719886487 Dated a Dominican for 4 years. Let me fuck her whenever I wanted. Would let me do anything I wanted to her as long as it was respectful. She would dress up for me and everything. That Latina attitude gets old fast though. Now date a Polack and her sex drive sucks. I threatened to leave her if she didn't start doing her part around here, now I fuck her once every other day. It's bullshit because it's like pulling teeth to get her panties off, but once we start fucking, she always gets into, ends up enjoying herself and cumming.
Last time I had sex was on December the 10th. My girlfriend and I don't have sex very often, mainly because it's too exhausting (no, we are not fat). I also hate children and I don't want any. We help each other masturbating almost everyday though. I especially like when she touches my asshole while I'm jerking off.
>I enjoy myself >I cum >Sex feels good, I like it when I do it
>Never initiate, never start, never interested
Why the fuck do women get like this? They'll claim they like sex once they're into it, but I don't understand how you would never initiate something that you claim you like.
It's like saying you like a good burger but you're also fine with never eating a burger again in your life. If a burger happens to appear in front of you then you might take a bite, but otherwise you won't go to a restaurant and buy one.
Where is the fucking logic there? Do women just enjoy limiting themselves of pleasures in life?
If not every day, every second day. Sometimes multiple times a day however she gets sore easily. I make it a priority to make her orgasm at least once every time, that definitely helps. Again though, she gets sore easily. She's very thin and I've got a large penis.
>>719886487 My gf used to be borderline and still has some issues, primarily being afraid of sex. Can't go more than halfway in without hurting her or sending her into a panic. That means we have sexual contact twice a week or once every two weeks, it varies.
I am post 207, I am 33 years old and have two kids.
Once I hit my 30's it dropped off for me even though I stay in shape. Having small children kills your drive too, it actually decreases your testosterone so that you are more attentive to children and less to pussy.
>>719893172 Yeah, I know. Makes little sense. I think it has to do with them afraid that the only thing they can offer this relationship is sex and that they're more than just a fuck doll. Albeit, sex isn't everything, it helps me focus (if that makes any sense). I get more work done when my balls are empty.
>>719893673 That's weird. My last girlfriend was borderline personality disorder and she was a fucking wildcat sexually. It was like that's all she lived for. Insane sex but I had to leave after she tried to jump outta my moving car. shit was fucked.
I had sex 5 times in 2016, all of them one night stands.
I had a gf before and we had sex every day, bare a few exceptions (particularly bad "red days", separation etc.). We pretty much had the same libido. There were times when either of us wasn't in the mood, though. We solved it by
a, Having sex on those days b, Not having sex those days
>>719893843 I can understand that I guess, but it's flawed logic unless the girl is with some beta cunt.
My girl knows there are millions of other women that would fuck me at the drop of a hat. It's a big world. There's obviously a reason I'm staying with her besides just sex.
Also - I still don't get even from a selfish standpoint why you wouldn't want to fuck. The way I see it, life is too short to get hung up on some bullshit. Fuck, have fun, live life. Enjoy yourself. Won't these women look back on their death beds and wonder why they were so frigid?
I dunno, maybe most people are too stupid to think that far ahead.
>>719893496 I'm 29, she's 28. We have sex twice a week or so, and both in shape. I workout 3 times a week at work and she uses our home gym. No kids. Just rather get home after work and hangout, cook dinner, watch a movie, do something together and actually bond. "Friendly roommates" is a funny way to put it, more like "people who are invested in each other emotionally and not just physically" is more what I would say.
I enjoy her company, we have good sex. I masturbate probably only once or twice a week if even that. I guess it's libido, idk. Neither of us have a problem with it. Haha.
>>719894813 I guess to someone with a higher sex drive it sounds like friendly roommates.
I'm fully invested emotionally AND physically to my girlfriend (3+ years) and I need ALL of that shit. I need the hanging out, sleeping together, cuddling, working out, bonding, going on dates, etc. All the little romantic things, leaving notes, etc.
But I also need the sex. It helps me feel closer to her and solidify those romantic bonds with her. It helps keep me feeling romantic. Also, it's just a need. Higher sex drive and all.
I'm not saying I couldn't go without for a long time if needed. I wouldn't dump my girl just cuz she had a business trip or extended tour or something if she was gone for months. But if we were together, able, and she wasn't willing/wanting it too to the point we fucked twice a month (shit, even once a week?) I would probably have to pull the plug. I just wouldn't want to live an unfulfilled life where I'm left wanting something I'm not getting for the rest of my life.
I'm not saying this to unnecessarily piss people off, and feel free to disagree, but in my humble opinion, if she only wants to have sex with you once per week, or worse, once per month, you're doing something terribly wrong.
If she's truly into you, she'll want to do you just as much as you want to do her.
Probably 2-3 times a week on average, but sometimes it's almost daily and sometimes it's about once a week. It depends. If it was completely up to me it would probably be about 8-9 times a week but birth control pretty much kills my wife's sex drive.
>>719886487 I'm 26 w/ 18yo long-distance girlfriend. We don't get to have actual sex, of course, but she'll strip down for me any time I want. Sex will probably be 1-2 times a day once she's living with me. It's never hard to get her in the mood.
>>719886487 I've got a very heavy libido, can't get bored with sex and I love having it on tap
>first gf, virgin, long distance, fucked a lot at first when we crossed over to non virginity >eventually her drive died, probably because she lost interest in the relationship
>second gf, begin pretty active >grows to having sex like 3-4 times a day at least >she's about as horny as I am, basically sex on tap for both of us >bitch ends up cheating on me for no good reason >leave the whore
>get new gf >virgin, takes quite a bit to let her feel comfortable with sex >she starts getting into BDSM and eventually has some pretty wild ideas, I'm definitely into it >suddenly her sex drive is gone >relationship turns sour >she leaves me
Haven't been laid in 4 years, too depressed, socially different, stylistically polarizing and misanthropic to even approach women, or humans in general. I'm just going to die lonely.
>have internet fuck buddy relationship with a girl in an open relationship >she's got a libido like mine >still no pussy for me, only pics, vids and stories.
>>719886790 >>719886830 >>719886892 >>719886962 If you do it more than twice a day, how long do you last..? I have sex with my girlfriend about 1-2 times a week for about 30-60 mins. If we did it everyday, let alone twice aday, it would begin to take up a sizeable portion of the week
>>719897193 Uh poly guy here - first time I usually last 30-40 mins. Second and third times I often just won't cum. It's just too much work for all involved if it gets to that point ya know? Just focus on getting her off and hope that her cumming sends you over the edge
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