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i am 21 this year in final year of university still a virgin

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i am 21 this year

in final year of university

still a virgin

how the fuck do i get laid /b/
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>>719746436
become a fag
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>>719746436
As long as you're not a guy should be easy

Oh wait
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>>719746436
Be friends with people
Be social
Work on confidence
Have your own place
Exercise

It really doesn't take all that much
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>>719746574

but girls are hot
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>21
>final year of university

move to a country with real universities.
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prossies
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>>719746702
>lists 5 things
>It really doesn't take all that much

you're retarded
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>>719746436
I think I know the problem anon. Three questions.
Do you work out?
Are you average looking?
How many girls have you actually tried talking to? I don't mean classmates. I mean walk up to and hit on?
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>>719746746
>5 normal human being things is too much
>Becomes booty bothered and aggressive

Maybe your problem is a lack of effort and emotional sensitivity
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>>719746702

yeah my social life is fucked I know that much. I've just always had lots of anxiety and am insecure about the way I look. I've tried to go out of my comfort zone and I don't grow from it.

injured my back over time at the gym, even using low weights. so I stopped doin that.
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>>719746920
Start back up
It took me a year to go from the leg press to squats and deadlifting because of my ruined knees

More importantly though, it shows you're at least into self-improvement and the act of working on your confidence is attractive

The anxiety will go away once you get more experience, being able to overcome anxiety is attractive
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>>719746828

>I used to until I injured my back

> I'm not sure, definitely not an abomination. Probably average but my nose is crooked so there's that.

>None, but I've made out with 2 girls. Both times drunk off my tits, so I don't know if it even counts.
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>>719747036
Pretty much, as long as you're actively working on goals and are ambitious you will be seen as a lot more attractive. Confidence is something you carry and women can see it without even talking to you
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>>719747051
Are you a boy or girl?
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>>719747160

girl
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>>719747036

I will probably slowly get back into gym once I have my car and licence. Membership recently expired, got my driving test next month.

I really want to go hard at the gym, but shitty injuries and other circumstances prevent me. I was doing stronglifts 5x5. not so sure on that program anymore.
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Same here, man. 20, uni, and still a virgin.
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>>719747334
Lose weight
Learn how to do your own make up
Get a nice hair cut

>Life is a lot easier for women
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>>719747160
>>719747334

dude is trolling, I'm a guy
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>>719747112
Chicks don't even look my way, I must radiate virginity
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>>719747436

haha you thought i was a virgin girl at 21 what a fucking idiot
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>>719747386
I would suggest looking into P90X or some other home work out plan then

Also, start working on your diet
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>>719746722

actually doing a 4 year degree. I started straight out of high school
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>>719747511
haha I've had sex with 20+ year old virgins though
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Jesus fucking christ OP. Just stop being shit at life, only got the sex when I turned 24. I'm not a totally ugly cunt either.

The biggest turnaround is I stopped self doubting and just acted out on the stupid impulses I had. Wanted to grabass a girl in the club? Fuck it grabass away. Go to a strip club shit wasted? Do it. "Teach" a girl to play pool while feeling her up before each shot, do it. I turned into a complete manwhore and it worked out fine.

The whole thing was/is fun. It's not just actually landing the girl, the entire part leading up to it is usually a shitload of fun. Loosen up, get drunk/high and nail some sluts OP
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>>719747051
Bro to get laid.
> you have to be fit. Not only does it show that you're not a lazy piece of shit but if a girl wanted to hook up with an average Trump voting fatass everyone would be getting laid.
2. If you're average, you're ok here.
3. "You miss %100 shots you don't take." You gotta hit on girls man. This is truly the easiest way. There's been times that I get a girls number and by that night I have my fingers in her pussy. When I'm trying to bang a girl, even if I'm not, I hit on as many girls as I can. I'll walk around campus for an hour and just go up to them and try and talk to them. Yeah you get shut down a lot, most of them don't go anywhere, you'll make a friend or two but I assure you, a lot of those girls you'll hit on are as horny as you are. I assure you this bro. You just gotta be cool and not come out creepy.
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>>719747598

>tells OP to stop being shit at life
>lost virginity at 24
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>>719747569
you went on university after high when you were 17? wtf?
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>>719747704
Yup, finished high school a year earlier than most people
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>>719747787
>be
where are you from? Uganda?
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>>719746436
Be a normal person?
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>>719747607

I understand chicks are horny , but even when I'm many drinks deep I barely have confidence to talk to a girl first, anxiety is a bitch
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>>719747598
Lol... lost virginity at 24, I'm a cool guy now guise. You sound like a fucking creeper is what you would like.
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>>719747844

Why is this weird

In the UK people start university at 18
But out of highschool we go to college/sixth form which is 2 years
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>>719747844

what do you mean >be

I'm from Australia
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lower your expectations, then you may realize sex isn't critical to your success/sanity.
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>>719747787
US fag here, I also started college at 17
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>>719747671
>>719747972

Aye, learned a lot and came a long way from being a lonely loser to actually being normal socially.

Or just let him continue on and learn that sitting around doesn't count for shit like I did. Doesn't bother me much.
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>>719746871
> Maybe your problem is a lack of effort and emotional sensitivity

It's called not being a normie wagecuck
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>>719747964
That's the problem. If you were a cute hottie at the bar, would you wanna talk to the creepy drunk who doesn't know what he's talking about? Of course not. Even as a guy no one wants to talk to that guy. You're presenting yourself all wrong.
You've heard this before and I will be another to say it, anxiety isn't a real decease. It'll all in your head. The only reason "you have anxiety" is because you're giving it to yourself. And if you don't stop it now you ever will.
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>>719747569
> 4 year degree

what kind of degree is done in 4 years?

I thought bachelor is 3 and master is bachelor + 2 = 5
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>>719748278
engineering
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>>719748264
Even if its all in my head, it feels very real
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>>719748278
4 years is pretty standard. Medical field is way worse than that again for the higher end shit.

I did engineering and it took something like 7 years because I stopped for a bit halfway through because I was flat broke.
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>>719748389
No bro. You make it feel real. You're living in a fantasy world. All these fears. And anxiety. All that you feel is not there. You're doing this to yourself. You heard of "anxiety" once and chose to hide behind it. "Do this anon - on no my anxiety I can't" it's all an excuse if you think about it. There literally nothing stopping you except for yourself. Anxiety isn't real man. It's not real.
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>>719748328

>engineering

there are no girls in engineering.

You are still young, so study again but this time pick a major that has some girls. Something like social sciences.
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>>719748278

the useful ones
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>>719748600
There are a few women in engineering, but regardless a person shouldn't shit where they sleep
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>>719747598
lmfaooooo
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>>719748389
Something else. Make a logical decision for me here anon. Would you rather have a cute perky tittied girlfriend, with a tight tight little ass, take her to the movies, she's wearing a skirt, no panties, she sits in your lap and sticks your dick in her ass and swing slowly back and forth for the rest of the movie...
Or would you rather live the way you're living now, alone, wishing a girl would even send you a text?

It's too easy man. If you don't make the changes nothing else will. You're the only one who can make this happen. It will literally never happen if you don't make it happen. Doesn't the first option sound much better than the life you're living right now? Then why not go after it? Even if you fail you'll just end up back where you're already are anyway, so why not?
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>>719748700
well, you are not supposed to shit on women but to fuck them.

From my experience this approaching random girls in a bar and taking them home for one night stands is bullshit and rarely happens.

If you want to have sex with a woman, you need to have some kind of relationship with them that is beyond 1 desperate drunk conversation.
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>>719746702
I'm stuck at the social and confidence parts. I've definitely improved since starting college but still hard. I can talk online but in person my mind goes blank 90% of the time. Me and my friend both like same girl but he has enough confidence to act like an idiot in front of people. I don't open up to people I haven't known a long time
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>>719749074

This, it helps to live with a few
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>>719749074
I'm not OP, guy earlier giving him advice
Also eng major though

President of an engineering club on campus
Most of my friends are in other majors though
I play music a lot, always eat my food near the amphitheatre
Occasionally I'll randomly walk up to someone and ask them to sing or to share an orange

Pretty much what I'm getting as is the best advice is to not stick to what you're comfortable with with social areas

He can either be another engineer or the only engineer in the group
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>>719746436
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>>719749060
I agree with you buddy

It's just been hard to get any inspiration to make those first steps. I don't want to throw around excuses, but the last 8 sh years of my life I haven't felt properly happy. I will skip important days at work or uni just cause I dread getting up so much. I don't know if you've been in a depressed state before, but shits hard man. If you're life has been mostly sunshine and rainbows you may have never felt this before.

In saying that there are many people who go through a lot of shit and are able to eventually conquer those emotions, I guess I am looking for those types to give me advice. Not saying I expect that shit off /b/, I just made these posts cause I'm bored.
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>>719746436
23 here

no clue
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>>719746436
consider you might have set your standards too high.
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https://www.reddit.com/r/SexyGifsNsfw/comments/5bhoji/adriana_chechik_manuel_ferrara_slutty_and/
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18 here, lost my virginity at 16. Stop being a pussy go talk to some girls, not that hard imo
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Get a girlfriend - that's the easiest way to get laid. I have far more sex when I'm in a relationship vs. being single. Some people are born as hunters and others are born as farmers - figure out which you are and embrace it.
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>>719749167
You sound exactly like me
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whatever your fantasy is about pornstars forget it your not going to find that perfect chick my suggestion is to be yourself and shoot just below what you think your standards are just to get that initial piece of pussy then once you have got it work on your confidence and go from there.
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>>719750665

And when they all reject you?
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>>719747607
Mah niggah, any tipps for approaching? Since when do you pick up?
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>>719751235

i like this advice tbh,

if I'm gonna fuck an ugly girl tho i want it to be discrete.
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>>719746436

Graduate, get a job, and start achieving shit in the real world - self-esteem issues are a major turn-off. The best thing you can do is build confidence.

Money doesn't hurt either
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