>>719746436 I think I know the problem anon. Three questions. Do you work out? Are you average looking? How many girls have you actually tried talking to? I don't mean classmates. I mean walk up to and hit on?
>>719747036 Pretty much, as long as you're actively working on goals and are ambitious you will be seen as a lot more attractive. Confidence is something you carry and women can see it without even talking to you
Jesus fucking christ OP. Just stop being shit at life, only got the sex when I turned 24. I'm not a totally ugly cunt either.
The biggest turnaround is I stopped self doubting and just acted out on the stupid impulses I had. Wanted to grabass a girl in the club? Fuck it grabass away. Go to a strip club shit wasted? Do it. "Teach" a girl to play pool while feeling her up before each shot, do it. I turned into a complete manwhore and it worked out fine.
The whole thing was/is fun. It's not just actually landing the girl, the entire part leading up to it is usually a shitload of fun. Loosen up, get drunk/high and nail some sluts OP
>>719747051 Bro to get laid. > you have to be fit. Not only does it show that you're not a lazy piece of shit but if a girl wanted to hook up with an average Trump voting fatass everyone would be getting laid. 2. If you're average, you're ok here. 3. "You miss %100 shots you don't take." You gotta hit on girls man. This is truly the easiest way. There's been times that I get a girls number and by that night I have my fingers in her pussy. When I'm trying to bang a girl, even if I'm not, I hit on as many girls as I can. I'll walk around campus for an hour and just go up to them and try and talk to them. Yeah you get shut down a lot, most of them don't go anywhere, you'll make a friend or two but I assure you, a lot of those girls you'll hit on are as horny as you are. I assure you this bro. You just gotta be cool and not come out creepy.
>>719747964 That's the problem. If you were a cute hottie at the bar, would you wanna talk to the creepy drunk who doesn't know what he's talking about? Of course not. Even as a guy no one wants to talk to that guy. You're presenting yourself all wrong. You've heard this before and I will be another to say it, anxiety isn't a real decease. It'll all in your head. The only reason "you have anxiety" is because you're giving it to yourself. And if you don't stop it now you ever will.
>>719748389 No bro. You make it feel real. You're living in a fantasy world. All these fears. And anxiety. All that you feel is not there. You're doing this to yourself. You heard of "anxiety" once and chose to hide behind it. "Do this anon - on no my anxiety I can't" it's all an excuse if you think about it. There literally nothing stopping you except for yourself. Anxiety isn't real man. It's not real.
>>719748389 Something else. Make a logical decision for me here anon. Would you rather have a cute perky tittied girlfriend, with a tight tight little ass, take her to the movies, she's wearing a skirt, no panties, she sits in your lap and sticks your dick in her ass and swing slowly back and forth for the rest of the movie... Or would you rather live the way you're living now, alone, wishing a girl would even send you a text?
It's too easy man. If you don't make the changes nothing else will. You're the only one who can make this happen. It will literally never happen if you don't make it happen. Doesn't the first option sound much better than the life you're living right now? Then why not go after it? Even if you fail you'll just end up back where you're already are anyway, so why not?
>>719746702 I'm stuck at the social and confidence parts. I've definitely improved since starting college but still hard. I can talk online but in person my mind goes blank 90% of the time. Me and my friend both like same girl but he has enough confidence to act like an idiot in front of people. I don't open up to people I haven't known a long time
>>719749074 I'm not OP, guy earlier giving him advice Also eng major though
President of an engineering club on campus Most of my friends are in other majors though I play music a lot, always eat my food near the amphitheatre Occasionally I'll randomly walk up to someone and ask them to sing or to share an orange
Pretty much what I'm getting as is the best advice is to not stick to what you're comfortable with with social areas
He can either be another engineer or the only engineer in the group
It's just been hard to get any inspiration to make those first steps. I don't want to throw around excuses, but the last 8 sh years of my life I haven't felt properly happy. I will skip important days at work or uni just cause I dread getting up so much. I don't know if you've been in a depressed state before, but shits hard man. If you're life has been mostly sunshine and rainbows you may have never felt this before.
In saying that there are many people who go through a lot of shit and are able to eventually conquer those emotions, I guess I am looking for those types to give me advice. Not saying I expect that shit off /b/, I just made these posts cause I'm bored.
Get a girlfriend - that's the easiest way to get laid. I have far more sex when I'm in a relationship vs. being single. Some people are born as hunters and others are born as farmers - figure out which you are and embrace it.
whatever your fantasy is about pornstars forget it your not going to find that perfect chick my suggestion is to be yourself and shoot just below what you think your standards are just to get that initial piece of pussy then once you have got it work on your confidence and go from there.
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