Well my bf plucked up the courage to tell me that he's sexually attracted to little girls. He told me he was into loli, to which I was like alright that's no big deal. He started freaking out saying he didn't want to persue a music career in fear that people may find out about it. I tried calming him down telling him I thought it was normal for guys to watch loli porn before. He then told me that he actually wants to fuck little girls. He said he would never do it but he thinks about it and is sexually attracted to them. This has changed my perspective of him. We are both 21 years old we have been together for 2 years. I don't really want to be with him any more even though I love him and have conciderd him my best friend. Can anyone give me advice? Tell me more about this issue. Is it normal.
>>719742936 I think you should be more concerned with how fucking stupid he was to tell you this ...... Never ever ever admit to something like this ..... He probably will never actually on his attraction but he will still always be stupid
>>719743243 He said he was scared of someone using this against him. I'm glad he felt he could trust me but like I don't know why he would tell me this and not think it would scare me. I told him that when I watch porn I like to watch girl on girl and he started freaking out saying that I'm gay and shit. I may be a little bi but it was just like. What.
I just can't look at him the same. If I tell him it's bugged me I feel he will get really depressed and may hurt himself because he feels so much shame over this. I try not to be judgmental but I can't get over it. I have gone through childhood sexual abuse and I can't believe he thinks that of young girls
>>719743660 I know that by always watching loli it will just intensify this fantasy of his. We have a healthy sexual relationship but now I question everything. I just don't feel good enough for him. I'm jealous. And I'm just worried for him.
>>719743952 Shit has been fucked in our relationship for a long time. But it doesn't stop me from caring for him and losing attachment. I'm just tired of his childish behaviour and our toxic relationship. I have tried breaking up with him but get back in fear that he will off himself. Fucking help
>>719743582 Now you know hevis honest and stupid. But honest. Most people have a turn on they don't act upon. Now you know his. The next guy may fap to the thought of beating you and may do it. This guy will not do any harm.
>>719744138 i doubt he'll actually an hero, wasting years of your life on someone who will never work will only hurt you, you'll wish you got out earlier. i'm going to sleep but goodluck with the man child situation
>>719744246 Thanks. The last time I saw him was before I left for England. I plan on staying here for a few months, I don't want to go home until we are broken up. The last time I saw him he told me all of this. He is constantly demanding sexual favours and I always help him out when we are together. I just feel like he just always needs sex and wants it with lgs
>>719744138 If he starts looking for cp I'd book it or tell him to stop and threaten to leave him because he's gonna get locked up for that. Also if you have tried to leave but he's suicidal just remember not to let him drag you down with him. It sounds like a dick move but its better just him than both of you but if you feel you have to stay, do what you must.
>>719742936 Is being pedo normal? You know the answer to that... >I do appreciate that you came to the one website where you might be convinced that child rape isn't a all bad. For THE FBI I think sex with anyone under of 18 is terrible and illegal as it should be
>>719744448 I want this to end but I have attachment issues to him and I'm always worried about him. I would take my life if he took his over the fact of me leaving him. Either way I know he will be fucked up. If I tell him that what he told me is bugging me and changed my mind on him he will go insane. It's just fucked and I wish to be out of this. I ran away from North America to England just to get away from him
>>719744637 Can't say I've been in a situation like yours but I do know past break ups resulted in deep relief for me even if I was nervous about losing the girl. Hope it turns out well for you op whatever you decide
>>719744963 Like I don't know if he told me this to get me to dump him? That's what my insecurities tell me. But as I said when I do break up with him he begs me to come back and tells me how ducked up he is mentally. We have been together for nearly 3 years. We love each other but I want something new and a different relationship.
>>719742936 he is a pedo, which is cool (90% males actually are, they just keep quiet about it), but he dont likes his girl watching lesbian porn? you need a real man just leave him (i guarantee you he wont off himself)
>>719742936 If your looking for a reason to break up with him tell him that seeming as how he was so honest with you that you feel you have to be honest with him, then tell him youve been fucking a nigger behind his back, then he will break up with you...profit??
>>719745828 The thing is his best friend and I have had a thing and I know that we want to be together but can't because of the relationships. I honestly need an actual man. He is still so young in the mind. I don't know if he will ever grow up. I have guys hitting me up a lot. I turn them down because I'm in a shitty relationship but I know I'm passing by good stuff just because of fear
>>719744138 >but get back in fear that he will off himself. Fucking help
You can't be like that OP. Sometimes you just have to bite the bullet and take care of yourself. If you're not enjoying the relationship and fixing it hasn't worked thus far you need out. Don't be held hostage.
My last girlfriend did this to me and it was the most miserable I had felt in my entire life - and sure enough when we broke up she didn't do jackshit. Unfortunately / Fortunately I don't talk to her anymore. And my life is on the right track now.
>>719746071 I always want to be his friend but I know he would not be able to handle it if I was seeing someone. We have broken up before and he started seeing someone else. It fucked me up but it helped me move on. He then dumped her and begged for me back. And that is the biggest regret of my life. I feel for it and now I'm in this situation
>>719746347 I haven't cheated but when we were broken up he told me to get with his best friend because he knew we were into each other and wanted me over him. After finding out that we actually hung out he begged for me back and regretted it
It's a very rare scenario when a couple can continue being friends - not impossible but your relationship isn't the formula for it. I wouldn't say that you're breaking up with him because of the loli shit but rather all the other toxic parts of the relationship.
>>719746481 This relationship sounds like garbage. You admitted you would rather be with his best friend and he dumped you before to get with someone else. You are not thinking clearly and letting your heart control your actions instead of your mind which everyone usually does so you probably won't even listen to any advice we give you.
Alright niggers, listen up. It doesn't matter what he strokes his oak to ou'd he doesn't do anything about it. He a bitch nigga from the sound of this so don't act like he'll ever have the balls to act on this fantasy. Let the man get his cummies from drawings. Let me ask you, if he never told you this, literally nothing about you're situation would be any different. You're just using what has been drilled into every person's head about pedos to affect a loving relationship when nothing had changed about him from day 1. You're being incredibly petty for someone who claims to "love" him, when in reality you're just using this as an excuse to dump him, because clearly you don't live him, you just love the things he does for you.
No tits posted, and you're still here. Saged, downvoted, and dabbed on
>>719742936 I cant answer if its normal or not, but I can give some (bad) defense to his position, everyone wants their skin to be younger, there's millions of products solely to make you're skin as perfect as an eight year old.
Well my bf plucked up the courage to tell me that he's sexually attracted to little girls. He told me he was into loli, to which I was like alright that's no big deal. He started freaking out saying he didn't want to persue a music career in fear that people may find out about it. I tried calming him down telling him I thought it was normal for guys to watch loli porn before. He then told me that he actually wants to fuck little girls. He said he would never do it but he thinks about it and is sexually attracted to them. This has changed my perspective of him. We are both 12 years old we have been together for 2 years. I don't really want to be with him any more even though I love him and have conciderd him my best friend. Can anyone give me advice? Tell me more about this issue. It is a mental illness.
Well my bf plucked up the courage to tell me that he's sexually attracted to little girls. He told me he was into loli, to which I was like alright that's no big deal. He started freaking out saying he didn't want to persue a music career in fear that people may find out about it. I tried calming him down telling him I thought it was normal for guys to watch loli porn before. He then told me that he actually wants to fuck little girls. He said he would never do it but he thinks about it and is sexually attracted to them. This has changed my perspective of him. We are both 15 years old we have been together for 2 years. I don't really want to be with him any more even though I love him and have conciderd him my best friend. Can anyone give me advice? Tell me more about this issue. Is it nomal I got wet?
Your boyfriend is a kid, you're 21, Jesus, boys mature slower and in his head he's still a kid that's why he thinks he is attracted to little girls. You now know his true self - if it scared you you are a kid too. I say man up and mother him, he has issues and needs help to grow up.
Well my gf plucked up the courage to tell me that she's sexually attracted to little girls. She told me she was into loli, to which I was like alright that's no big deal. She started freaking out saying she didn't want to persue a music career in fear that people may find out about it. I tried calming her down telling her I thought it was normal for girls to watch loli porn before. She then told me that she actually wants to fuck little girls. She said she would never do it but she thinks about it and is sexually attracted to them. This has changed my perspective of her. We are both 16 years old we have been together for 2 years. I don't really want to be with her any more even though I love her and have conciderd her my best friend. Can anyone give me advice? Tell me more about this issue. Is it normal.
>>719742936 OP you're BF is a ticking time-bomb of sadness and regret, get out of there before he goes "off". Not to mention, your happiness should always be your #1 priority and I'm getting huge vibes of unhappiness from your posts.
OP, sorry to break it to you but every man wants to fuck little girls. You should appreciate that your bf is at least honest about it. You'll never find a straight man who doesn't like loli, and if you end up with a dishonest man who just doesn't admit it instead that'd be sad
Alright, how young are we talking here? Secondly, your guy seems like a complete faggot. Not letting his girl look lesbian porn. This can't be real. Thirdly, at first I was thinking that you shouldn't dump him because you were overreacting to a fetish. But reading a bit more about him, why the fuck did you date this guy in the first place?
I get that it seems I'm unloving and to a degree I could be using this info to break it off. Because there are deeper issues in this relationship. We both suffer from depression and anxiety and we are not good together. But still what he told me is always on my mind and I just can't look at him the same. I'm not with him for "the things he does for me" because he doesn't even have a job or drive. I have a full time job and am not interested in things to get me to stay. I stay because we are friends, we like to fuck and we feel like we need each other and can not live without. I know that I want to break free but it's not easy and I'm scared. I just want it to be over and be single for years before I get into another sierous relationship.
>>719748201 >>719748173 literally just posted the second one. i also have no job but i do have neetbucks. it's a mystery why she wants to stay with me since i've pointed out she can do better. then again i've tried to cut it off myself for my own reasons. it is a mystery,
>>719748410 I'm afraid of him hurting himself. I'm scared of loosing someone I'm so close to. I talk to him all day about everything. I'm scared to see him move on again be cause he rubbed it in my face last time. I'm scared of him going psycho and not letting me be free
>>719748201 He says that if he ever got popular with his music somehow people would find out about his fetish and that his life would be over. I told him he is being paranoid and that it's not going to happen. But he says everything we do on the internet will be released.. nothing is safe and everyone will know.
OP, you dumb. You're going to end up leaving him sooner or later, so stop wasting your youth on someone like that. You could be fucking men instead of a selfish, forever-boy who will never satisfy you sexually and emotionally. A music career? It will never take off. A loli fetish? You'll never be his peak sexual desire. He's going to stay selfish and unemployed.
>>719742936 You will never get a normal perspective here. Even though /b/ is infested with normalfags now they all like to act edgy. Ask your friends if they would date a pedophile or someone that faps to cartoon children. Now let me see that little pussy.
Okay, so your boyfriend is attracted to a younger body...So what? Pretty sure he'all never act on it, because he had morals, and from what I read, is massive pussy. Also, both of you are as equal of a wreck, just off yourselves.
>>719742936 He needs to clarify: is he a pedophile or a hebephile? If he's a hebephile then ask yourself: is it so unnatural at an older age to be sexually attracted to girls/boys that you used to be sexually attracted to when you were their age? Also TITS OR GTFO
>>719748557 Similar to my situation with my ex - He's going to see that you're afraid of that and use it against you. You just have to learn that some people will come and go in your life. There's no reason you should be scared of him moving on if you're over him so obviously there's still something going on with you and him and you should take some time to figure that out.
Be straight up with me, do you have many friends? People to talk to.
>>719749466 I'm introverted and don't like people. I really don't have friends and I feel really awkward around people. I get asked to hang out lots but decline because I feel so awkward unless I'm drunk. I'm staying with a close friend in England, I wouldn't talk to her about it cause she's really snotty and would be freaked out. But I have best friends in Canada and I just find it weird to Skype them about this. Wish I had more friends and support
>>719749611 I agree that this is the truth. I know that most men obviously like younger females liking an attractive 16 year old seems fairly normal. But sexualised 6-13 year old fucks with my brain a bit. Maybe even younger than 6
>>719749919 Ok so since my original post didn't convince you, maybe this will shed sone insight. People often confuse hebephilia with fucking toddlers. Hebephilia is perfectly normal, but everyone forgets it's even a word. However you should find out if the bf is a hebephile or an actual pedophile, makes a big difference
>>719749802 I figured as much from what you posted thus far which is why I asked. I'd like some folks to talk to myself and it sounds like you're going through a similar situation that I just got done with ( for the most part ). If you want some support or just an outlet I'm willing
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