What are the red flags that make you stay away from a girl if you are looking for a relationship?
>smokes >has tattoos >she is bisexual >never went to college (free where I live) >has shitty or dead-end job >believes in homeopathy, horoscope etc. >is religious (theist doesn't bother me) >has thousands of friends on FB >has hundreds of pictures online >is simple, but complicated (whatever this means) >drinks too much >is a stoner >is a "gamer girl" >she is overweight >doesn't speak a second language (English for example, for where I live) >likes Friends, but doesn't care about Seinfeld
>>719667079 yep and you're a fag. I think you took everything a lot of guys like and just reversed it because you lead a sad and pathetic life. Give me a chubby stoner who likes to play games and fuck other women with me.
>>719667174 they are unstable as fuck >>719667264 I don't have a hobby either, so I can't really complain about that.
The few girls I know who actually have a hobby are former art students who started working in other fields, but still paint at home. One dances and actually got some prizes with her team and one like old school photography, so they are actually creative.
The rest who claim to have a hobby listen to shitty music on youtube and run in the park half an hour a month.
>talk about themselves to much >addicted to social media (snapchat, instagram etc) THIS ONE KILLS ME >havent travelled or have no interest in the world outside the US >prescribed serious medicine, adderall, xanex etc (she cant function without a drug) >has a terrible taste in music >extremely religious >her friends are losers
im sure there are others, but off the top of my head those are recent ones ive come across
>>719667417 I specified a relationship, I mean someone you can trust and no just fuck for a while. I've only had fuckbuddies since I joined tinder and I am getting tired of it. They all smoked, looked weird and had issues. I don't want that anymore.
daddy issues all women like attention but attention whores are another thing entirely women that don't like it if you have female friends or talk with other women (bonus points if she insists its different when she has male friends)
>>719667079 All that and: Chews with mouth open, smacking lips, believes in ghosts or other paranormal entities, can not read or write in cursive, can not tell tim on a watch or clock thst is not digital.
>Girls with no father figure >Girls with no mother figuer >Girls with no parents >a twin >Only child >More than two tattoos >Smokes cigs >Is open about smoking weed >Smoking weed in general >Fat >Any signs of bipolarism >Any signs of depression >Any mental disorder in general >Open feminist >Liberal >Extremely religious >Fake
>>719667264 This so much.. Gamer girls with no hobbys is fucking worse than drinking at a bar with friends. They sit around an play viyda and expect you as the boyfriend to be their soul interaction with other humans for months on end... Ive straight up told girlfriends of mine to get a hobby or I'm gtfo of their life.
>>719667079 >smokes >has bad kids, or more than one kid for that matter >parents hang around too much >talks about ex boyfriends >is still married, even if separated >no job >religion is important to her >is fat >obvious hygiene issues >lots of makeup >talks obsessively about any one single subject >won't eat meat unless a legitimate medical reason >major medical issues >sexually repressed/resists trying things >is attracted to blacks >can't put her phone down >drives a Prius
>>719668984 OP here. After I cum I don't want to be near them. until I need to cum again. If I find a girl that keeps me interested after I cum, I will try to make it work. >>719668865 I know I would probably be on a similar list if a girl made it... >>719668996 >a twin? What happened? What did you see?
Black ex-boyfriend Smokes Posts fuck videos for shits and giggles Religious atheist Pictures of the same child all over her place, but claims it isn't hers....surprise it always turns out to be hers Only male friends Has a large male dog
>>719667079 >What are the red flags that make you stay away from a girl if you are looking for a relationship? >she's fucked more than 1 or 2 guys >she's atheist >she's feminist >she embraces new-age anything >she lives on social media >she admires celebrities and follows their lives >her mother divorced and remarried and divorced and remarried >lives to shop
>>719669584 These two twins me and my friend dated back in 2012. they where adopted from crack addicts, so they where already kind of crazy. Anyways, the twin my buddy dated went crazy and fucked a bunch of other dudes and girls which in turn made the twin I was dating go crazy and fuck a bunch of dudes and girls. Just left a bad taste in my mouth for twins in general.
>>719669878 The large male dog thing comes from the fact that EVERY FUCKING WOMAN that I've been with that has a large dog lets it lick her pussy in greeting and much much worse. Either I have horrible luck with women from California, or all of them are like this.
>>719670219 >ITT: I want a long term partner who isn't interesting in the slightest, won't challenge me, no character, and looks what I consider normal. >Also no feminists. Even though I'm the reason they exist.
>>719670314 A lot of people with no life experience thinks that college kids are interesting and engaged with ideas, where people in the trades are boring. In my experience, the reverse is more likely to be true. >PhD here
>guy "friends" predominantly with real few friends who are girls >abusive dad/other daddy issues (but who doesn't have them nowadays damn) >Falling in love too fast for comfort - this is a psychopathic move for when she later destroys your life cause "she did everything for you! WHY do you insist on knowing what me and Chad did when you were away I do everything for you!" >any girl that ever lived is as red as the chinese flag
>>719667079 One tatto, a "youth-sin", can be overloked. So ist, when there's a decent explanation: college, job, second language and that ridicoulus fucking friends thing. Overlooked without an explanation can be, partly with the expectation of her to change: smokes, bit of esoteric dumbness, drinking, stoning.
If everything is perfect, but one or two of these things are mildly the case, you're incredibly stupid not to try, because the general soft factors of non-dumbness, likeability and wether you have "chemistry" are more important and harder to find; and way harder to put on a check list.
>>719670922 Pretty much you described the average br and their average tastes. Not that they are bad, is just that bisexual girls here aren't much desired upon. As opposed to the public college education. Witch matches your description. I don't have problems with bi, but I wouldn't want it in a relationship. That usually means that she will cheat
>likes horses >goes to philadelphia/lives in philadelphia >more than 50 likes on IG pictures >more than 1000 followers on IG >drinks very often >likes anything enough to post pictures of poorly drawn fanart >only listens to pop music >only interested in pop culture >ghetto >likes k-pop >no job >no car >rich/spoiled
>>719667079 >over 5'0" >comes from poor or middle class family >drives a car over 3 years old >never been in a photoshoot >doesn't have an oval face >can't cook >Democrat >has no royal or nobel heritage
>>719672973 people who smoke smell like shit and taste like ashtrays. Most tattoos are shit, this applies to everybody. I don't mind if she smokes once every few weeks and plays something, but when that's all she does we have a problem. Here, if you don't speak a second language, especially if young, you are considered a retard or a gypsy.
I just watched about 2 minutes of a women's match from the bar table championships and holy shit it was horrible, both lags didn't come back past the side pocket.. I have always given them the benefit of a doubt because vagina but why are they generally worse at everything and don't feel the need to be better people? Are there so many emotions and hormones that cloud their brains? I've had plenty of girlfriends and sex and some of them were great down to earth chicks that understood the world more than others but none of them were ever great at anything.. Right now I'm living in a college town so I meet a lot of college chicks and I ask them what they're going to school for and it's awkward because they always say some meme degree like sociology that they clearly aren't passionate about and just going through the motions to please their parents while getting blackout drunk 3 times a week.. And if there are genuinely nice stable hot passionate driven ones where are they, in bookstores or at work or married or what?
she will if i force myself on her and take her back to my race. then stand over her shitty beta cuck nonwhite boytoy. thats why they made glock 19s, so white boys could take their white chicks back by force.
>>719667079 has tattoos has piercings has long toenails has painted toenails has fake fingernails has way too long fingernails has decorative stuff on her fingernails (idk what this shit is called) too much makeup
>Smokes cigarettes >Has a kid >Overly relegious or relegious family >Claims any political affiliation (e.g. registered Democrat or Republican) >Frequents bars or clubs >Is a "hot girl" so never developed a personality/constantly needs a conversation to be led for her, cannot contribute intellectually >Against civilian gun ownership >Pro life >More than just a few ear piercings, or multiple face piercings.
>>719674896 This is true because of a broader truth: in any couple, the mental health of both persons will sink to the level of the most fucked up one. I tried to save a few crazy hotties before I realized that they only made me crazy, and I never even approached making them more sane.
>>719674745 I can see why the fingernail stuff would bother you. >too much makeup this >>719675042 Forgot about age. I get along so much better with girls over 23 if I think about it. I find it weirder for guys over 25 to want to be in a relationship with someone between 15 and 19 than to just want to fuck them a few times. >>719675111 I don't mind if she goes to the club from time to time. Preferably with me, though.
I'm 41 and single. In 6th grade I learned enough that kept me from making huge lifestyle mistakes. In western society women scream for "equality" which are actually Demands to be legally guaranteed to be Dominant at the sacrifice of all else. My three requirements keep me happy, and destroy women (possibly 2 suicides induced by me). 1. Hygiene. If she's not ill, and not fresh from a grimy job site, she should be cleanly dressed, not smell, and not scratching, have weird skin marks, and otherwise show homeless habits. 2. Personality. AUTHENTIC personality, being compatible with me not necessarily submissive. I don't have to agree but her actions and speech should not cause me to cringe or feel sick to my stomach, I have walked away many times. 3. Intelligence. Especially the dumb cunts who believe everything they hear from liberal-femi-nazi-dykes WTF? Check facts, don't expect me to not contest her "Facts", and it is always fine to admit not knowing something or for her to note her opinion. Discussion is not "I AM ALWAYS RIGHT". At a restaurant when she suddenly randomly starts screaming "RAPE" leads to me filing a protection order against her (fucking dumb bitch). Be with a lady for 2 weeks and she declares she's pregnant... 3 months pregnant, with a nigger baby. I arranged and paid for a DNA parent test, she never showed up and I never saw her again.
>>719667079 It's called the 'Medicine Cabinet Test" >she has been prescribed anti-psychotic medication >frequently takes narcotics >claims to have fibromyalgia (connects to the first two) >is more interested in her iphone than what is happening around her >cannot cook without cutting/burning herself >cannot balance a check book
>>719676351 It is the ones that don't know how to enjoy life. They are depressed because it is all they wanted, is to have a family. That is their hobby. They want a real life The SIMS.
They wanted it too much, and come off as try-hards. They scare away all the good men that understand family is work and commitment, not a fucking game. If you don't enjoy your life before kids, it will only get worse.
>Have 3 kids and the most "basic" ex-wife >The worst part is telling her how her boring life is making you dangerously depressed.
>smokes - no >has tattoos - no >she is bisexual - no >never went to college (free where I live) - yes >has shitty or dead-end job -yes >believes in homeopathy, horoscope etc. - no >is religious (theist doesn't bother me) - no >has thousands of friends on FB - no(232) >has hundreds of pictures online - no >is simple, but complicated (whatever this means) - sometiems yes >drinks too much - never drinks >is a stoner - no >is a "gamer girl" - no >she is overweight - no she is skinny >doesn't speak a second language (English for example, for where I live) - no >likes Friends, but doesn't care about Seinfeld - ever talked about any of them
>>719676565 I don't. And it is starting to bother me. I have a friend who said I shouldn't be bothered because I am having fun, and I am. But at the end of the day I feel empty inside.
I am also a big loser. What makes me even a bigger failure is that I am not ugly, I am not a neckbeard, I've been told I am above average in terms of looks. However, only in the last few years I learned how to deal with girls.
I have made this list after I finally interacted with them and found what I don't like. Every girl I meet is better than the next so this is turning me into a prick because I always feel like I can do better.
If a woman has no hobbies she will not understand why you have a things you want to spend time doing that are not centered around her. >>719667537 Hanging out in a bar getting drunk is not a hobby for anybody. It is a way to waste time when you cannot be bothered to do something better.
>>719667079 Basically all the same as yours anon but taking away & adding a couple. Taking away. >Gamer girl is fine (if genuine.) >not speaking a second language is fine. (It's the uk what do you expect.) >friends / seinfeld etc Adding >Single mothers(ew.) >Dyed blonde badly >Dyed unnatural colours >Overly highly-strung (standards are okay but a bitch is a bitch.) >'Plastic' aesthetic Inb4 'you'll never find a girl like that. Already did.
mine >black or white (especially the white as snow ones) >smokes and constantly talks about it >le skater girl meme >hair dye >tattoos >piercings >overweight >"my body, my choice" (AKA i'm a lazy piece of shit) >doesn't care about her future >talks about how she hates exercise >liberal >ghetto ass asians and mexicans >cat lover >LDS Mormon >fucked 5+ guys >short hair >no manners >doesn't post memes >posting photos about this astrological sign and this astrological sign totally match now fuck!!! >religious >atheist >drinks heavily >listens to heavy metal >big nosed light skins >listens to trap rap >talks about how she's horny on social media >le gamer girl meme >talks about her sex life on social media >uses Tumblr and Twitter >Feminist >constantly talks about food >le edgy i'm not normal meme >watches shows like Keeping Up with the Kardashians >keeps up with Hollywood gossip >bisexual
>>719677980 The thing is you will probably have to get in a relationship with her before you can find out if she can handle those kind of situations. >>719678066 The thing with gamer girls is that is all they do all day. At least the ones I've met. And when they get out, guess what they talk about? Games. What I am trying to say is I am more interested in people who like to talk about more than one thing. The friends/seinfeld thing, it is easier to connect with girls and people who have a similar sense of humor.
>>719678453 feel bad about the rape thing. genuine rape and isn't a major plot point in her life? I can deal with it. Gets "raped" through stupidity (i.e. being only white girl in an all black party and drinks too much/does drugs)? Fuck that shit. Stay the fuck away.
>>719677176 there's a difference between being bi and having a threesome. just because a girl has a threesome it doesn't mean she is bi, she is just pleasing her man and having some fun in the meantime.
a woman going out of her way declaring that she is bi is a red flag because it says something about her mental state.
>>719667079 This is actually a good list... similar to mine. You can break some rules and be okay but there are major ones never to be touched. I.e. religious, stupid, nerdy. Stoners and drinkers are ok for me because I'm both. Simple but complicated is the big one.
>>719667079 Atheist Not an University student/ finished Not from Europe Not White Not atleast slightly conservative Fundamentalist Fat SJW Homo-sympathiser A lot of make-up Speaks only one language Do not read Drinks/ does drugs too much
>>719668903 Really nigga? I worked with a female naval engineer. Not only could I talk to her about cars and bikes, but she was my superior too. Attractive as well, guys flocked to her like flies to shit. And no, she didn't enjoy the attention as much as you'd like to believe. There are normal and desireable women, you just don't see them often because they're not on an autistic website screaming about patriarchy.
>inb4 nigga u just got b8ed Just making a point.
My list is: >Tattoos >Sexual history that goes into upper double digits >Any sort of female 'disorder' (cutting, anorexia) >history with substance abuse >shit taste in media (music, tv, film) >overly promiscuous wardrobe >egoism >shitty friends >skewed male to female friend ratio
So many virgins in this thread. All these neck beards with their unrealistic requirements for a girl they will never meet nor ever have a relationship with. When did you guys become such fucking pussies?
>>719678802 I am not that stiff and as >>719678920 said some rules can be broken. What I mean by stoners is girls who smoke weed every fucking day. I even avoid hanging out with guys who do that. I will also try some psychedelics at some point in my life, but when you spend every day getting high and drunk you have a problem.
In Canadaland you get the opportunity to date women of every culture. I've devised the following in my experiences. Which makes picking women out for long term relationships difficult.
Indian girls that don't "party" or do drugs/drink have the most boring lives as their culture 9 times out of 10 don't let women go outside and live a normal Western life. They also all live at home with their parents until their 30's if they aren't married off before than. 9 times out of 10 you won't get to date them anyways. No race mixing.
Canadian "Asian" girls aren't cultured for shit. Even though they live in a country that has more "diversity" than any nation in the world. Their lives consist of: Waking up, driving daddies BMW to their receptionist job. Driving home. Hang out at Asian tea house in Asian part of town. Rinse repeat.
White girls are always the most fucked up around here. Suffer from all red flags.
>>719667079 I met this girl. she doesn't have too many girl friends outside of her immediate family. Not too many guy friends either but she could be hiding them from me. It seems red flag-ish to me, but I also want to get my dick wet. wat do?
>>719680197 Well, if you really need to get your dick wet, take her on a coupe of dates and talk try to find out more about her. Look for any other flags. Maybe you didn't get a chance to meet her friends. Girls usually talk about their friends, though.
>hair color outside the natural spectrum >tattoos >tobacco >drugs >a lot of exes >lots of male friends >addicted to social media >shit tier taste in music or film >whore tier clothing >self harm >any form of emotional baggage >non prescription glasses >talks about herself every chance she gets
So they literally have to be agnostic? You sound like a virgin who's come up with some ridiculous idea of your "perfect girl" because it comforts you that it's unreasonable and something you'll never have to deal with.
I smoke a little have one small tattoo Never went to college (uni) because I fucked up high school due to home problems and muh depression. but I did go to college. I have a shitty job and consider myself lucky with the current job market in the UK. Thousands of people apply for things like mcdonalds... I like to drink (im scottish) I neither like friends nor seinfield
I don't think any of these define me. the real issue is how ugly and unhappy I am in general. tfw no bf to spend life with.
>>719667878 yeah and relationships are better with the type of girl I talked about. Skinny broads who do nothing but act like saints and have nothing but girly hobbies are the worst. They're the ones you fuck and leave. The bitch who has a few extra pounds is down to do you good and won't be out fucking around on you. She'll be on your couch, with a snack, a blunt rolled, your xbox ready to go, and she'll have her fat fucking tits hanging out ready for you to play with and stick your dick between. Are you seriously a fag or just stupid? I knew all this shit by age 19.
>>719681227 lol no I don't think so. also you're all fucking young. I've been on here too long. >>719681316 >>719681334 >>719681499 been there done that. If you care that much you can search the archives for scotchan but im not going to any effort here
>Smokes >Super Religious >Has Kids - Especially if she labels herself as a "Stay at Home Mommy" >Doesn't have a career >Vegan >Cheated in a previous relationship >Describes themselves as a hardcore "Feminist". >Pro-Life >Can't cook - She doesn't have to be my fucking chef. Being able to cook is a basic fucking life skill, it'd be like if she couldn't read. >Overweight, eats like shit, and doesn't exercise or have any motivation to. >Has one of those shitty "Just Breathe" or cliche as fuck tattoos. >Has had a large amount of sexual partners.
how about just being friends and cooling your heels about needing sex
it seems being impulsive can cause problems in the long run
with that being said, everyday you are around the girl you are interested in, is a chance to learn a bit about her personality. you actually should try and pick up more unbiased, knowledge about as many personality types as possible, even your own
what i fear in a girl, is one that won't compromise with you and one that holds grudges, even with trivial things. those, im sure, have a higher chance of taking your kids and leaving you, in time
of all the relationships i know of, all of hem either partner wasn't willing to understand the other. divorce happens
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