>>718537764 literally happened an hour ago had to do a pic for job application girl working there insists that she can take the pic of me is overly nice, im pretty pissed off, thinking about other stuff, dont even pay attention pic is finished, she asks if i like it, i was like yeah whatever thanks bye now at home, realisising that she asked me if i have a girlfriend right after she asked if i like the pics >my face right now i fucking suck guys
>>718537990 why the fuck does that happen im always so fucking absent in reallife, especially when with people i dont know im just to deep thinking about my problems, that i dont even realise things happening arround me i didnt even realise she asked me if i have a girlfriend, i didnt say anything it was like yeah something girlfriend, and now at home when i think about it, i feel like shit she was so nice to me, and clearly showed interest, and i was like this fucking arrogant asshole who probably broke her tiny heart today
>>718537764 Because I don't want to waste my time listening to someone's bullshit, getting cheated on, lied to, and having mediocre sex when I could be fapping to the thought of fucking myself. No one is as sexy as me. I wish I could clone myself. I'm the best. I love me.
>>718538349 no, its over ill look like an idiot i was so fucking absent, it was like 12,99 and i said 13, so i gave her a 1 cent tip, she must think im the biggest asshole or retard ever you know, when your bill is like 8,73 and you just say 10, so the cashier doesnt have to search for 27 cents, man i was so fucking not there, that i did that with 12,99 i dont know why that happens fuck me guys, im such a retard
>be me 23 >sperg neet but facially handsome >qt3.14, 9/10 broke up with ltbf >contacts me on fb at 3am >proceed to chat nearly all night >laughs at my rtrd jokes >invites me for coffee >wears nothing but xl t shirt >we start to hang out on a daily basis >touches me, hugs me, compliments me >isthisaprank.jpg >confused as fuck >convinced she's yanking my chain >starts coming to my place >putting feet on my lap asking for massages >knows im a foot fag >we drink a bottle of wine >this happens nearly daily >start smelling perfume on her >asks me out for paintball and ziplines and shit >still convinced its a prank bro >sleep through date >contact wanes >one word responses >stops replying to my texts >no_regerts.jpg
Tl;dr ignored a 9/10 because was convinced she just wants to be friends and a goddess like that wants nothing to do with me.
Would pull pics but permab& from facebook so fuark.
>>718538652 stop being a beta faggot, go back and talk to here you piece of shit. Either that or go on feeling sorry about your pathetic ass. Don't you think, that she would be glad you came back? Just say you were kinda absent-minded, and wasn't really paying attention at that time.
>>718537990 Man that's tough. I remember when I was talking to this one girl I liked. I made a fool of myself every time I tried to talk to her. Eventually I gave up, turns out she had a crush on me. One of her friends told me she liked my confidence, but I still don't see what she means.
Because I'm a beta fag and a complete puss when it comes to talking to women and being open about what I want.
Also, girls want cocky, asshole guys. Women want a compassionate, loving man. Eventually I'll reach an age where girls have been burned and appreciate that, but for now I'm stuck in neckbeard hell.
That being said, there is something to being an asshole that is hot to women and I feel like I betray myself when I act like that. Better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for someone your not tho.
My ex from about two years ago completely destroyed my sense of self worth, and have been trying to get it back. I would like another relationship, but in the meantime I seem to end up just doing fucked drunken shit and terrible one night stands with girls that I have no intention of persuing anything else with.
Currently talking to a grill now. My last relationship was such a huge fuck up that it's hard for me to open up again. Most of our conversations go quiet a minute after we greet each other. I go blank. Maybe it's not the time for another relationship so soon? Also I'm a stoner and she's super anti weed. I have been trying to quit but I don't think I can flat out never smoke again
Because not a single person has shown even a remote interest in me as a person for the entirety of my life and i have come to a gradual acceptance of this over many years. I have come to terms with the fact that i will die bitter and alone in front of my computer of a heart disease when i'm 30.
Becuase not only are my standards too high in general compared to what I have to offer, but I have a mix of oneitis (been chasing the same girl for 3 years) and pussyitis (haven't said a word to her regarding my feelings for 3 years).
>>718540390 Today's the day nigga! Three years?? What you gonna wait for, another three? To find she's found someone, has a kid and gets married and then you find out years down the line she liked you too but was too shy? Fuck that shit, life is too fucking short, just man the fuck up and tell her you like her. At least you'll either some sweet pussy or you can move on.
Because nowadays girls only want either money, good looks, or big dicks they want male model material beefed up tatted good looking schmucks and don't realize average looking guys need loving too >inb4 beta neckbeard It's true they only go for big dicks, money or good looks
Excuses!: >women are horrible whores Maybe the ones you've attracted. Most people don't have that problem >no one wants me Because you're beta af. Grow balls, approach women, have confidence. Women will rarely put in the effort to make the first move, so either you do or you rot in a basement, all alone, forever. >I'm too weird Start being normal, or the kind of weird that some women like. It's not hard. Act. Then when you're in a relationship, be yourself. She will probably like it. >they all gold diggers/status seekers/want a bbc There are some that want these things. But most are a lot like guys, and will be happy with a reasonably attractive person, or similarly attractive, at least. >my standards are too high Fucking lower them. Or be alone. You're probably not worth it to them, anyway, if you can't be realistic. >still not over my ex That sucks, anon. If it's been more than 6 months, start getting laid, at least. It's time. If it's been over a year, get the fuck back out there. You are missing opportunities. >girls only want assholes Bullshit. They want confidence. Not arrogance, confidence. Even someone that likes a beta in the bedroom (which is really fucking rare) still wants some overall confidence. >I like penis Well, then, you have no issues getting laid, do you? >social anxiety, etc. Take some pills. Venture out a little bit at a time. You'll feel better in the end. >don't want to deal with women You're gay. Go eat some cocks.
>>718546542 I don't know. I'm 36, I've been doing this for 24 years. People generally don't keep count past their teens. Unless they've only been with a few people. But I've slept with three people since the first of this year, so there's that.
>>718547155 >I don't know. I'm 36, I've been doing this for 24 years. People generally don't keep count past their teens. so how many sluts' hands youve touched in your teens? not counting your prom where you had to dance with female
>But I've slept with three people since the first of this year, so there's that. like who? your mommy, daddy, sister and grandma?
24-fucking-years of experience and yet you have no loyal wife or female gender friend. you realise that all of your work time was literally wasted? instead, you could just, you know, concentrate on things you enjoy
>>718547768 Go ahead, mock me all you want. You sound miserable, to just assume all these things about someone... it sounds like projection. But I'm generally happy with my life.
I've lived with my gf for over 10 years. We're poly. I've been dating another girl for 2.5 years, and a third for a year. I'm doing pretty well, and my effort is rarely wasted (whether in relationships or otherwise). I only concentrate on things I enjoy, at least now. I used to spend too much time working, but I made enough money to cover the things I love, now. So I no longer have to work doing things I don't particularly enjoy to support the things I like to do.
>>718548740 >A cuckold is a man who raises another mans child without his knowledge I have no children, and I am raising no children. So by that definition, or the more generally accepted one that I posted, I am not a cuckold.
>Go ahead, mock me all you want. lmao, cuck. and you call yourself a """"man""""?
>You sound miserable, to just assume all these things about someone... it sounds like projection ????????
>But I'm generally happy with my life. >generally Shitposting is fun aint it
>I've lived with my gf for over 10 years. 10. FUCKING. YEARS. WITH. FEMALE. and she was just a """"gf"""", holy shit dude and then you left her? kys you faggot, this could be your wife
>I've been dating another girl for 2.5 years, and a third for a year. >dating >for 2.5 years What the fuck and who the fuck are you? You date one year at best, then its just general meeting, fucking cuck
> I'm doing pretty well, and my effort is rarely wasted (whether in relationships or otherwise). oh really, so hows it going knowing youve been someones cuck for 10 years?
>I used to spend too much time working, but I made enough money to cover the things I love, now. so, now youre shitposting on 4chin how good and experienced alpha you are. make sure to get that one gigabit internet for quick-posting skillz
rest of your post is shit. just gtfo from here, big cuck
>>718549525 This guy gets it. I'm not raising any kids, I'm not supporting anyone. I live with one woman, and we share most costs. It's efficient. There's literally no benefit to marriage (we'd even pay more taxes, because we both make good money), so we don't want to be married. I see other women, she sees other women. Sometimes we see other women together. I've been seeing two women regularly, one of which is married (they are open) and the other is single. They don't have any expectations, so it works out well. But we have fun.
So, >>718548913, how the fuck am I a cuck? My resources aren't going to other men. I'm not raising any illegitimate children (or any children, for that matter). I'm not married, and never plan to be married. So there's no definition of "cuckold" that describes me.
>>718537764 I like the idea, i've had plenty of chances to pursue relationships but what stops me is the thought of commitment and being tied down with someone who just isn't that interesting (i.e. all women, time to get gay).
>>718537764 I quit every relationship I've had because of the effort it takes. Also women have a half time running as soon as they enter a relationship after which they turn into irrational bitches and the sex isn't enough anymore to tolerate it. I'm in college, really the last thing I need is a girlfriend.
Pretty sure this other guy was just a troll, or a young teen that likes to spit retarded stuff because "le epic maymays".
Let it go, have fun with your girls. (I can't do that with mine, she ain't "happy" about being open. Leads to me lusting on some other girls sometimes. I'm happy overall, just sometimes I see a sweet ass and I'm in the zone for a minute or two thinking if cheating is "that bad". Never acted on it tho, probably never will.)
>>718537764 Frankly after on and off relationships for the last decade, with your moms blowjobs alone I've been able to stay away from dating and just grow as a human. She satisfies me sexually on the side enough to let me focus on my career, and I really appreciate that about her. Your dad the cuck is great too. He's been really supportive of your mother slipping her finger up my ass on the side until I can get back on my feet. I really envy you OP, you were raised by some great parents. Thanks for asking though, we should hang out sometime.
>>718550788 Oh, I know he's a troll. I come to /b/ mostly to troll the trolls.
I ended up open, out of necessity, as a teenager. My gf lived too far away, so we dealt with it as we could. Then I just never lost my taste for variety. I talked to my cohabiting gf about it, years ago, and she was super uncomfortable with the idea of being open/poly. But I never pressured her. Just said, hey, you're bi, this could work out for you if you were inclined. Took about three years for her to really open to the idea, now she wouldn't have it any other way.
Things might change as you get older, and as these things become more common. You don't sound like the cheating type, and that'd likely kill any chances of more legitimate forms of seeing other women. Maybe read a few books on the subject, and then talk about it with her in a more "academic" sort of way. It takes the pressure off, like you're not even talking about your specific relationship.
Because women in my area are broken. I'm tired of casual relationships. I'm wanting something set in stone. I'm wanting marriage, children, and a happy future to share with someone, but I'm not going to share that with a hipster, punk, or rave girl who's anti-slut shaming, into poly relationships, casual sex, feminism, pansexuality, and especially one who'd flake for no reason. Also, almost every pretty-looking girl aroune 18-21 (I like them young) always claim to have anxiety and end up doing stupid shit behind my back, and either I find out myself that she's cheating, losing interest, or they end up flaking and disappearing quietly from my life.
Holy fuck! No! That's like looking for some bullshit excuse to slut around and desperately trying to justify it. It's like someone claiming to be pansexual, because they're too afraid to admit they're a bisexual dick-licker and look up some bullshit excuse to make their regretful decisions seem tolerable.
>>718554221 >bullshit excuse to slut around Nah, it's the way humans are without all the societal bullshit that fucks us up. Why do most Westerners divorce? Adultery. Because we're not naturally monogamous, and we don't have oppressive structures in place to punish/kill adulterers. People that claim to be monogamous are not really monogamous the vast majority of the time-- they are serial monogamous. Humans just don't mate for life, we are evolved to seek out variety and to be far less attracted to the familiar (to avoid fucking our relatives). Monogamy leads to familiarity, familiarity reduces attraction, and we cheat. Unless you come up with a structure hat allows variety. Sexually repressing people never ends well, and the West is going to see monogamy fade as a result; we're most of the way there, just looking at the divorce rates.
>>718554666 All you're telling me is that we should ignore man-made laws to remove the stigma.
We're not savages anymore. We're not monkeys.
Imagine having a child and that child wonders what his mother was like in the past.
>"Well, son. Your mother was quite the slut back in the day. I met her at a punk rock show, and she claimed to be pansexual and was for open relationships. Yeah, I love your mother, but I also like to sleep with Kelly next door."
How'd you feel if that was your mother? That's not a good mother at all.
>>718554887 >punk rock show How fucking out of touch are you lmao tbch famalam that is literally how 90% of the people married that i know met though, You literally described how one of my ex's got married, pansexual and everything.
>>718554887 >All you're telling me is that we should ignore man-made laws to remove the stigma. There are no laws against polyamory. Or serial monogamy. You just can't marry more than one person in the West.
>We're not savages anymore. We're not monkeys Yeah, but our societies are falling apart because we're not accounting for our biological needs. What's worse: breaking up a two-parent family because one of the two parents fucks someone else, or making that more acceptable to do, and maintain some sort of family structure?
>Imagine having a child and that child wonders what his mother was like in the past. Do you really think most parents truthfully answer every question about their past? No. As long as the kid is generally supported, who gives a fuck about what consenting adults do in privacy?
>How'd you feel if that was your mother? I'm sure my mom fucked people before my dad. Then they divorced. And she's remarried now, and I'm sure she fucked her new husband. It would have made absolutely no difference to me if any of these events overlapped, or if she did any of these things outside of marriage. It's all arbitrary. People are gonna fuck, it's what they do.
>That's not a good mother at all. Good parents provide. They provide care, resources, education, and stability. None of these things are inherently affected by who they fuck.
>>718555307 Just because it's modern doesn't mean it's good.
>>718555342 The fact that your parents are divorced tells me you didn't receive a very good upbringing. And these biological needs you speak of are nothing but brief moments of releasing dopamine and an addiction. It's best to be with one person you connect with and the sparks flying are much better than cheap lays from different people. This allows stable families, proper upbringings, and healthy communities.
>>718555862 No, you're not /soc/. You have a libido issue.
>>718556282 >The fact that your parents are divorced tells me you didn't receive a very good upbringing. >implying More than half of marriages end in divorce, it's not a sound indicator of an upbringing. I've had two parents, my whole life. They've both supported me. I've had as many resources as I needed (and no more than were good for me). I had stability. I am well educated. So you are wrong, by any measurable standard.
>nd these biological needs you speak of are nothing but brief moments of releasing dopamine and an addiction. You sound like an ignorant hick. Sex is a far deeper drive than dopamine. And the vast majority of people on the planet end up fucking multiple people in their lifetime, without ever becoming subject to sexual addiction. You don't know what the fuck you're talking about.
>It's best... blah blah blah >implying That's all subjective bullshit. It might be best for YOU. But it's not what's best for most people. No one I fucked in the last 20 years has been a cheap lay. They have all been ongoing, stable, healthy relationships. I just don't limit myself to one.
>This allows stable families Tell that to the kids of divorced parents
>proper upbringings In a one-parent household, due to divorce, resulting from adultery, because society deems our innate needs to be wrong? You're off your rocker. You sound like a religious fundamentalist.
>and healthy communities. I'm in a healthy community. We all support each other, we have more of a support network than any monogamous people I've met. Including most church communities.
What this comes down to is that you know nothing of this lifestyle. The fact that it is different than your own is threatening to you. And you lash out against it as a result, making broad statements with absolutely no evidence.
I have two girls I could have easily started a relationship with but honestly they were not high quality enough. I was in a serious relationship for 6 years but we split up because we had grown apart. I'm aiming to move to pursue my career so I'd rather find a girlfriend in whichever new country I move to.
>>718537764 Can't get attached to them in a meaningful and true way. We just fuck. Fucking three different girls at the moment. One is very fat, the other one is normal and quite cute, but she could loose 5 kilograms, the last one looks normal, but has differently sized boobs. Her pussy is pure bliss, though, much better than the others. Don't really know why.
Because I'm recently divorced and have no interest in an LTR ever again. Then again I'm so bitter nowadays I doubt any woman could stand me long enough so I doubt I can get a girlfriend if I wanted one
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