Yeah, used to be a very shy bullying victim until I was 17. Then I started boxing and bodybuilding and took massive amounts of steroids. Now I had to stop sports, but the alphaness remained, because once you go alpha you never go back to beta.
Kind of this. Don't know how old you are OP, but use your next big life change to just redefine how you see yourself. College for example. Just show up your first day not giving a fuck what people think about you and do whatever you want. If you act like a bitch, people will treat you like a bitch.
>>717716752 A lot of it is just attitude. You can get that with a good fitness routine, a hobby that you're willing to dump a lot of time and effort into because you like it (and that you wouldn't be ashamed to talk about), and just learning how to relax.
>>717716752 Back in the high schools I was pretty beta-ish. Only thing that changed was senior year I manned up and quit letting the world kick me in the dick. After that I got laid and the rest followed suit. Still not Chad tier but far from being a beta.
I got a gf, learned how girls worked and gained some social skills. We broke up I went to the gym and got body confidence, I'm not like a fit bro or anything. Then I started meeting up with girls and have been fucking girls ever since. My confidence in myself has now reached a great level and girls flock to me because of it.
Kinda. I was never fully beta, but I definitely leaned to that side. Got a gf by sheer chance and it eliminated a lot of my insecurities. Now I shrug off rejection and walk with a little more gusto than before. I'm not full alpha either, but I think I lean towards that side now.
Was and still am a fat guy. Got fat around second grade and got bullied a lot for it. Second year of middle school I was like fuck this i don't want to be a beta fuck. So I started just being confident about who I was friendly and outgoing. You also need to be intelligent enough to read social cues. Really confident people who are into somewhat occult hobbies are really off putting to some people. Truth is most people are just as awkward as you if not more awkward. You just need to know how to show the best sides of you. Don't just be yourself be your best self. Make that self better all the time.
>>717716752 I was pretty beta in school, I guess. I'm not anymore for the most part. I have an wasy time communicating with people and I have a healthy amount of self-confidence, I would say. The main problem is that I simply do not engage women in a romantic way. ILike I said, I have no problem talking to them, but I don't shidt the conversation in a romantic direction. Also I'm a massive cynic and sometimes I can't hide it.
cure for beta-ness is the same as the cure for autism. You get out, get a good job, develop skills, start socializing, and training yourself not to care so god damn much. Actually practice talking to girls and get over the whole fear of rejection bullshit. When I think of the person I was ten years ago it makes me want to get in a time machine and kick my own ass.
I used to have butty buttcrack sexuals with an Indian boy in the woods by my mom's trailer. Such a soft butty buttcrack. If you tried hard enough you could pretend it was a really tan 8 year old girl at the beach. Yummzies!
I'm a fake alpha. I fake my alphaness. I have oneitus but act like i don't. I'm clingy and needy as fuck and insecure as fuck but hide that to. I slip up from time to time though. Although sometimes that is a good thing. I went full beta on new years with My ex telling her how much i love her etc etc
>>717716752 Its honestly the way your raised and genetics for the most part. in the early years most men evolve higher social cues then other depending on their physical attributes. eventually most men will somewhat understand social encounters and at least get a taste of what being an "alpha" feels like, but all in all the confidence level really helps the whole jist of it. people who are better looking usually have a higher self esteem. so if you are an autistic fuck then guarantee you beta for life. this is where the stereotype of going to the gym and lifting because it clearly boosts physical appearance helping you to be more confident!
I'm pretty sure I have actually. In fact tomorrow I am at a friends 'Sesh'. This will be my 4th in 2 weeks. I thought it was impossible but just make friends with the right people and even being quiet is better than being an outrageous autist. People actually want to be around me and if you think this is a joke this is my first time going to 4Chan in 5 months. All i started doing was wearing 'nice' clothes and keeping my head down, then one day I bonded with this Alpha/Beta hybrid who dragged me along to the Christmas sesh last year. People like me more than they do him now. It's weird cause I don't feel like I've changed much but visiting this place again made me feel genuinely happy. Knowing that I am not stuck here like the large majority of the outcasts here.Smiling and being friendly wont make you alpha at all, it has the complete reverse affect. Even manlets make it to most seshs just by doing the right things. Anyways trying to find a porn WebM Thread. Wish you guys the best.
Alpha male is a bullshit term. Most people who use it aren't alpha... they're idiots with control issues.
Just be what you are. If you aren't a leader, don't try to be until you know how. You'll just fuck up and look like a fuck knuckle. Leadership and confidence are learnable skills. Get out, find some psych books, get into shit that interests you and get friends that way.
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