Anyone ever actually go from beta to alpha? IF SO, how?

>>717716752
Nope, it's impossible. Sorry, OP

>>717716752
Well apparently you just have to make yourself look big and smile

Yeah, used to be a very shy bullying victim until I was 17. Then I started boxing and bodybuilding and took massive amounts of steroids.
Now I had to stop sports, but the alphaness remained, because once you go alpha you never go back to beta.

>>717716752
The key to not being a beta is to not worry about all the alpha/beta shit entirely

>>717716752
pretty much do the things alpha in the pic does. firm handshake, posture, talk loud and a lot etc. basically fake it til you make it.

>>717717683
Came here to say this

>>717717683

Kind of this. Don't know how old you are OP, but use your next big life change to just redefine how you see yourself. College for example. Just show up your first day not giving a fuck what people think about you and do whatever you want. If you act like a bitch, people will treat you like a bitch.

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Yeah I have gone from alpha to beta fuck clocks

>>717716752
A lot of it is just attitude.
You can get that with a good fitness routine, a hobby that you're willing to dump a lot of time and effort into because you like it (and that you wouldn't be ashamed to talk about), and just learning how to relax.

>>717716752

Well, I was in alpha on FFXIV, then it became Beta... I played Beta for a long time, and then people complained that the game sucked, so they re-released FFXIV as ARR, and I played Alpha on that.

Amidoinitrite?

>>717716752
In college I had a different personality for each class and for each of my friends. Was anyone else like this?

>>717716752
Back in the high schools I was pretty beta-ish. Only thing that changed was senior year I manned up and quit letting the world kick me in the dick. After that I got laid and the rest followed suit.
Still not Chad tier but far from being a beta.

>>717718194
Yeah, I was like this in highschool.
I've become a lot more consistent lately.
And boring, now that I think about it.

>>717717158
You sound like the worst kind of person.

>>717716752
don't go to alpha, become gamma or delta

>>717718572
Omega my friend

>>717718446
no u

I got a gf, learned how girls worked and gained some social skills. We broke up I went to the gym and got body confidence, I'm not like a fit bro or anything. Then I started meeting up with girls and have been fucking girls ever since. My confidence in myself has now reached a great level and girls flock to me because of it.

>>717717158
You PC bro?!

>>717716752
The stance means absolutely fucking nothing if as soon as someone starts talking you loose all your spaghetti.

>>717717402
/thread

>>717716752
the whole alpha vs beta thing Is made up to make testosterone junkies feel better. just do what you want op. you dont have to be some jacked meat head to be an "alpha"

>>717717683
>>talk loud and a lot etc.

So basically be a negro?

Yeah, waitaminute, are there beta negros ever? Because they do a LOT of posturing. Are they all faking it?

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>>717716752
Alphas don't consider themselves alphas. They don't think about this shit at all. As long as you care about "alpha/beta" bullshit, you will always be a beta.

>>717718854
No Im not PC bro

>>717716752
Easy. Lift. Don't give a shit about women. That's it.

>>717718828
>learned how girls worked
>been fucking girls ever since
nobody that actually gets laid talks like this dude.

Kinda. I was never fully beta, but I definitely leaned to that side. Got a gf by sheer chance and it eliminated a lot of my insecurities. Now I shrug off rejection and walk with a little more gusto than before. I'm not full alpha either, but I think I lean towards that side now.

Just be yourselves XD

>>717719239
if you knew me, you would know that that isnt an option

>>717718937
>Are they all faking it?
i would guess many are. being a black man in this society cant be easy on the self esteem.

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>>717717402
Maybe you're right, maybe not. But I only shower, shave, and get a haircut because my job makes me. After getting complaints about my odor, I went back to showering before work.

If I won the lottery, I wouldn't look any different from a hobo. The only time I'd talk to anyone is out of necessity or if I suspected I could get more out of them then they could out of me.

So i am beta cuz i hate everyone around me?

>>717716752
Alpha is a narcissistic term. Most of them are ass hats that desperately hide their flaws.

Their girlfriends and wives are the ones that complain about them. They're probably in a standard 'were in a relationship but we're not on the same side' coupling.

It's about confidance. That's it. Alpha is just another term for douchebag, beta is a term alphas use to set themselves higher.

Be confidant introvert. The world notices.

Was and still am a fat guy. Got fat around second grade and got bullied a lot for it. Second year of middle school I was like fuck this i don't want to be a beta fuck. So I started just being confident about who I was friendly and outgoing. You also need to be intelligent enough to read social cues. Really confident people who are into somewhat occult hobbies are really off putting to some people. Truth is most people are just as awkward as you if not more awkward. You just need to know how to show the best sides of you. Don't just be yourself be your best self. Make that self better all the time.

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>>717716752
Cured amphetamine psychosis. Never fear fear ever again.

>>717716752
I was pretty beta in school, I guess.
I'm not anymore for the most part. I have an wasy time communicating with people and I have a healthy amount of self-confidence, I would say.
The main problem is that I simply do not engage women in a romantic way. ILike I said, I have no problem talking to them, but I don't shidt the conversation in a romantic direction.
Also I'm a massive cynic and sometimes I can't hide it.

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>>717716752
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>>717719442
This isn't being beta. This is being lazy. You're a lazy shit. That's why no one likes you. No one's just going to accept you as disgusting. Sorry.

You're not beta. You're disgusting. Change it.

>>717719479
no this whole concept is retarded

>>717719523
all of this

cure for beta-ness is the same as the cure for autism. You get out, get a good job, develop skills, start socializing, and training yourself not to care so god damn much. Actually practice talking to girls and get over the whole fear of rejection bullshit. When I think of the person I was ten years ago it makes me want to get in a time machine and kick my own ass.

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>>717719358
>being worshiped by almost all forms of media in the western world is bad for your self-esteem

I used to have butty buttcrack sexuals with an Indian boy in the woods by my mom's trailer. Such a soft butty buttcrack. If you tried hard enough you could pretend it was a really tan 8 year old girl at the beach. Yummzies!

>>717719818
THIS, as an alpha i would have to agree to all of this

puberty.

>>717716752
depends how i feel on the day to be honest.

I'm a fake alpha.
I fake my alphaness.
I have oneitus but act like i don't. I'm clingy and needy as fuck and insecure as fuck but hide that to.
I slip up from time to time though.
Although sometimes that is a good thing.
I went full beta on new years with My ex telling her how much i love her etc etc

>>717719818
yeah this

>>717720231
what you fail to realize is that this is how everyone is.
Everyone is faking it. Always.

this alpha/beta shit is stupid

>>717716752
Its honestly the way your raised and genetics for the most part. in the early years most men evolve higher social cues then other depending on their physical attributes. eventually most men will somewhat understand social encounters and at least get a taste of what being an "alpha" feels like, but all in all the confidence level really helps the whole jist of it. people who are better looking usually have a higher self esteem. so if you are an autistic fuck then guarantee you beta for life. this is where the stereotype of going to the gym and lifting because it clearly boosts physical appearance helping you to be more confident!

hope i could help

>>717719883
kek adam the tough guy

>>717720231

Yeah I did that too. It's okay to fake it bro. My GF said

>you were so loving on New Years Eve, you're never like that

I just ignored it and acted like I didn't know what she was talking about. You can't always be like that, it will 100% drive them away.

I'm pretty sure I have actually. In fact tomorrow I am at a friends 'Sesh'. This will be my 4th in 2 weeks. I thought it was impossible but just make friends with the right people and even being quiet is better than being an outrageous autist. People actually want to be around me and if you think this is a joke this is my first time going to 4Chan in 5 months. All i started doing was wearing 'nice' clothes and keeping my head down, then one day I bonded with this Alpha/Beta hybrid who dragged me along to the Christmas sesh last year. People like me more than they do him now. It's weird cause I don't feel like I've changed much but visiting this place again made me feel genuinely happy. Knowing that I am not stuck here like the large majority of the outcasts here.Smiling and being friendly wont make you alpha at all, it has the complete reverse affect. Even manlets make it to most seshs just by doing the right things. Anyways trying to find a porn WebM Thread. Wish you guys the best.

>>717720436
kek what?

>>717720594

can't be a lil bitch 24/7, you can slip up sometimes though.

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>>717720678
why would you just ignore your gf?

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>>717718939
/thread

>>717720789

One more time for the dudes in the back

>can't be a bitch 24/7

You see, when you're loving and caring 24/7 you will drive them away and they WILL find someone else. It's a balance.

Alpha male is a bullshit term. Most people who use it aren't alpha... they're idiots with control issues.

Just be what you are. If you aren't a leader, don't try to be until you know how. You'll just fuck up and look like a fuck knuckle. Leadership and confidence are learnable skills. Get out, find some psych books, get into shit that interests you and get friends that way.

>>717720981
uhhh what if you want to be loving and caring all the time? and not be a dick

A big resounding do whatever the fuck you want and not worry about stupid made up terms

>>717716752
>5'7
>anxious af cuz pussy
>people think i'm a faggot when not
make me alpha pls kthx

>>717721089
get a boyfriend

>>717721089

Then you might as well leave her now. Learned that the hard way. Especially if you're dating 8's, 9's and 10's. You can be loving and caring and all of that bitch shit if shes under an 8 though.