/b/ Pls. I need help from any of you guys who have gotten laid, had relationships, or are good at getting girls. What's the best way to get girls? I've tried everything. Confidence, manliness, humor, the "bad boy" persona, taking up guitar, being a tough guy, everything. I need real advice for getting girls. Any help would be appreciated.
>>717651724 well if you want a specific girl, that's a lot harder than throwing game at every girl you'd fuck and getting a small percentage of them the biggest mistake dudes make is pursuing one girl too eagerly/too long. Make it known you're down to fuck and if she doesn't reciprocate, stop contacting her at all. Either she gets what she wants, and doesn't fuck you, or in girls massively fucked up brains, she "lost" that "game" and now she might come back and fuck you.
confidence and be yourself, my first girlfriend i straight just asked out in college randomly. months after we broke up, i was friends with my current girlfriend for a few months. she wanted to stay at my cabin so we went for a weekend, asked if i wanted to share a bed and i said sure. woke up in the morning and kissed her, been together for years since
she flat out admitted that when we first first friends what did it was that i was nice, chill, smelled good, dressed well, and i wore shirts that accentuated my muscles. that and i was just myself, after my first girlfriend broke up with me i wasnt actively seeking out a relationship. it just happened
i actually first met her on a board on here and we met irl at a car show
if youre legitly OP youre going to have a hard time getting a decent girl being in a biker gang, my cousin had it made with a really nice girlfriend that had wealthy parents, he got into drugs/gangs and dumped his ass. they just started talking again after got clean
>>717653665 your hair makes me cringe. it looks dyed and it looks like you probably dress in panties and go on dirtyroulette at night pretending to be a female . wait... thats how i spent my night. nvm, you do you bro
>>717653841 Damn. My gang doesn't get into drugs. I rejected a girl because she brags about the drugs she did and also tried to kill herself by ODing on oxycontin. Straight up said, "Sorry. We don't take junkies." Felt good.
>>717653665 Trust me man, the hair is not helping you at all. Don't just look for a job, aspire for something you actually want to do. Women find ambition and self accomplishment attractive. Also lift heavy and do cardio. If you see no results your workout is not intense enough.
>>717654046 I only dye it here and there. It's normally brown, but I dye it black, to match my favorite color, clothing, and personality. I tried dying it back to brown last night, but nothing really happened.
>>717651724 Ignore girls who are lifeless, shallow, bitches. Ask girls to hang out directly, who are kind, respectful and fun. Start by just asking them to hang out depending on your age and situation. If you are in college go have coffee or study for a similar class. If you are in high school it's a little more challenging. You might have to get her to hang out with a group of her friends at first. Good Luck. Don't worry about it (thats where ignoring worthless girls comes in).
>>717651724 drop your preconceptions and learn how to be fun and make people feel good when theyre around you. find people you actually want to be around because you like who they are instead of liking how hot they are.
if you suck at bagging women you have to start out with women that you already have stuff in common with personality-wise. then once you become more sociable you can evolve and expand.
>>717653307 Diet is more important than working out. And if you aren't eating enough protein and getting sleep you won't see jack shit for gains.
Don't underestimate sleep. Getting enough sleep is key to building muscle. Lack of sleep releases stress hormones. Stress hormones make your body think that you are in a survival mode and that you need to build fat because tough times are ahead.
Working out doesn't build muscle. Working out stimulates the release of hormones that instruct your body to build muscle. Stress hormones counteract and cancel out those growth hormones.
>>717656160 100 bench presses? how much weight? What back workout? When do you treadmill? Usually when someone explains their workout, they express it like this: >number of sets X number of reps of this exercise with this much weight > for example: 4x12 deadlifts 135lb
>>717656160 You need to do more research. It's good you have the motivation to work out, but you clearly don't really know what you are doing.
The science of getting fit is pretty simple, look at all the braindead morons who can get ripped. But if you aren't working out properly and eating right and sleeping then you are just wasting your time.
Humans are pretty good at picking up on falsehood, even if they don't know it most people will be uncomfortable with you if you're putting on an act for them. The best advice I can think of is don't think about it, put yourself in the position to be in conversations and let it naturally flow.
>>717657336 Alright. Want visible results fast? Try the 5x5. That's all you need. Google that, first result. Boom! Do that. Stop using machines, you're wasting your time. Do the 5x5, eat meat, eat vegetables, drink only water, don't eat junk, sleep 8 hours and if you can, buy whey protein. That's all you need to get fit. Seriously. It's that simple.
Don't socialize with anyone at the gym. Don't take any advice from anyone at the gym. And be polite.
Don't forget to grow a beard and cut your hair. That's it in terms of physical appearance. A fit body looks good with any clothes, but clothes your size with you as a well groomed man will take you places.
As for your personality, having discipline with your workouts will make you a better person. Reading will allow you to enrich a conversation. Listening to people and making them feel comfortable around you is more than enough. Just don't try to be fake, everyone will notice it and you will fail.
>>717651724 Just stop being anything that doesn't make yourself comfortable in your own skin. Dig in to your hobbies, take care of your appearance (join a gym and eat less if you're fat), and bond with someone over a shared interest or sense of humor. Trying to bond as someone you aren't will only rip you up in the long run.
>>717652396 >>717654840 >>717655790 >>717656204 Pretty much these things OP. If you go at it with the intent of "getting girls" you'll just have a bad time and seem fake. Don't think about it, instead think about the things to you enjoy doing or want to do. Join a club or pick up a hobbie, Hang out with people that share similar interests. Focus on improving yourself and your life as an individual. Once you do you will develop a natural comfort/confidence level because your doing things for yourself (not to attract the attention of women). Don't force it, don't rush it..
I will be your first response that is from a person who actually gets girls. You don't "get girls," if girls don't like you now, they never will. Go "all in" on one girl and make sure you have a steady job, and that will get you a girl. don't attempt to have sex with her, if sex happens it happens, it probably wont happen for you.
The key to getting women is confidence, and the foundation of any man's confidence is not just your level of physical fitness, but your ability to hold shit down and stick up for yourself. I'm a musician and I spend a lot of time out in bars and clubs, and around women. I'm not a big guy, 5'7 and when I started lifting I was 150 lbs. I did Stronglifts 5x5 three days a week, hit the heavy bag in just wraps, and ate like a fucking horse for 8 months. Find a buddy, spar and do pad drills occasionally.
Putting yourself through real, heavy physical strain like that changes you. It doesn't just make you more muscular. My posture is better. My joints are stronger. My skull and bones are thicker and more dense. My hands are strong; my knuckles are calcified and rock hard.
Now at 175, I'm still not the biggest guy in any room, but that shit doesn't matter. Within reason, regardless of their physical size if someone tries to fuck with me, I at least have something to say about it and I'm not compelled to back down and be made to look like a chump. May sound crazy, but that little amount of time on this program has made me so god damn strong and explosive, no one is going to pick me in a fight without paying for it. If I catch pretty much anybody square with a cross or hook, they are taking a fuckin nap, no doubt about it.
Women pick up on the kind of confidence that comes with that. Confidence is owning a room. Not being a dick just because you can, but knowing that nobody in any given room can decide they dont like you and try to make you look like a chump without paying for it. My 2c, for whatever it's worth to you.
I'll tell you the real secret. Don't watch porn or fap. Conserve your literal essence and you will have a natural animal magnetism . the word for it is charisma . it will give you real confidence Instead of pretending. This is the secret the Jews don't want you to know. Tapping and watching porn damages the psyche and makes it impossible to connect with women the right way. It also makes men docile and weak instead of dominant and assertive. Its why Jews create porn to make the goyim Easier to control. This is the reason you're all awkward virgins.
>that feel when this new years i was given an opportunity of a lifetime >was drunk and passed out >woke up to people still chatting at about 5 AM >chick is talking >sounds real thirsty for cock >still a bit drunk, so im able to converse without cringe >wants to fuck, i want to fuck too >she wants to go to an old unused laundromat >we start walking >we start talking >next thing i know >still talking >haven't made my move >still talking >7:30 AM hits >still talking >its interesting at least >about 8:45 rolls around >"so are you still down to fuck?" >she keeps talking >im a virgin loser who never gets the chance to actually converse with girls >indulge in more conversation >we leave and watch an episode of Scrubs >awkwardly sitting next to eachother in silence >STILL HAVEN'T MADE MY MOVE >9:30 hits, someone in the house is awake now >just tell her im tired >make my bed on my couch while she was still there >she walked home alone >keep beating myself up over this whole fucking scenario >she didn't want to come over the next day because she was embarassed >forever a virgin.
>>717651724 >What's the best way to get girls? >I've tried everything. >Confidence, manliness, humor, the "bad boy" persona, being a tough guy
ok dude just stop trying so hard. guys like you usually are the last people to end up with someone.
i get hit on lots of times but i just ignore that because i'm simply not interested. also i'm not a desperate fuck, that helps because people notice and don't like you. i got a girl that i fuck and she's into heavy sm so i'm fine but the others just like me and want me around. i'm even balding and just look a bit better than average but i guess i'm charming and funny but i don't try to make people laugh, i just entertain myself and my friends when we're out. i'm pretty sure people notice that and like that i don't sell my true self out just to impress people. if you're true to yourself and don't force shit everythings good but you wont do that. you think you can learn how to pick up girls but i'm pretty sure you got other issues in life. personally i think it's retarded to fuck millions of whores, i want the special ones and don't want to whore myself out.
oh god, i guess that cliche-tip being yourself worked for me. just realized that.
>>717651724 never understood why guys want to get with girls so bad in the first place. sex is boring, girls are cunts, go out and focus on having fun instead of hooking up. if you try to make yourself a more sociable and fun person girls should come naturally and even if they dont you shouldnt care.
Lucky for you I actually have a heart for this kind of thing, so my 4chan answer is don't be a cuck, but my real answer is that if you really want a relationship, then I know it's cleché as fuck, but it's all about putting yourself out there and meeting the right person for you. It's not about putting on faces or personas, or being flashy and fake. Just be real. It fucking sucks being alone, trust me, I know. But every second you feel alone just adds up into making it all the sweeter when you find someone. The best advice I can give is to find what it is about yourself that you want to advertise to others, then put yourself in situations you can meet new people, and eventually someone will respond. Keep your chin up mate, there's new opertunities around every corner.
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