What's the best way to make a man be your bf if you have

>>717632753
You can't make people do anything, you might as well accept that before you become a borderline, crazy person.
Is his issue just with the penis, or is it the fact that you won't be able to give him kids in the future?

>>717633066
I don't want to force anyone, I think he needs a nudge. He doesn't like cock, but it's not my first straight guy. He's older, and I really doubt he wants children.

>>717633364
Tbh fam I don't like my penis, either, and don't wish to use it on anyone.

>>717633364
>>717633590
Are you sure he adores and loves you though?
Has he said so or are you projecting your on infatuation onto him?
Also too bad about your relationship with your junk, I think it is sad when people can't enjoy their genitals.

>>717633964
I know he likes me. He's told me I'm basically everything he wants, and I'm 100% after I get surgery. We carpool, work together, spend our breaks and lunches together, get along super well, and flirt enough.

I'm a transsexual. I can't be happy being a girl with a penis, it feels very wrong. I'm not neurotic about it, though.

>>717632753
Rape.

>>717634510
I can't get hard enough to rape anyone, silly

>>717634498
Well all you can do is show him that you are romantically interested in him and let him decide on his own if he wants to be with you.
Also I gathered you were a transsexual, I know what dysphoria does to people, I've supported friends and former lovers through bouts of it.
I still think it is kind of sad when people can't enjoy their genitals. Some of the best times I've had involved my penis, so I wish others could enjoy their genitals like I enjoy mine.

>>717635204
I had a pretty good run trying to be a guy. Ie njoyed my penis as much as I could and then some. It was a choice I made, and I gave up a lot as far as good male attractiveness is concerned. I gave up a nice 8" cock for a 4" weakling, for one. I have some fond memories I couldn't now replicate. I get it.

It is what it is, m8. No worries.

>>717636008
Well you do what makes you happy.
How far along in your transition are you and how close are you to the surgery?

>>717636528
5yrs hormones, 4yrs full-time, legal name change and passing, 1-2yrs from surgery

So really I'm there except my junk

>>717636910
Nice, sounds like you've gone through the worst period and gotten to the other side.
I'm kind of curious about how you look now.

>>717636528
There's been one guy before with whom I'd think we'd be good relationship-wise, but it wasn't to be. I don't just jump into this stuff, I've been around tbh fam (i don't mean turbo slut, I'm just not in my 20s and was married and all). I think we'd work out super well. It's uncanny.

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>>717632753
Well shit, whaddya look like????

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>>717637283
Definitely. Transitioning fucking sucks, it was very trying.

>>717636910
poor girl
i'm similar. Been living full time 100% changed except my genitals too.

Really all you can do is hope he makes a decision you like. Even after you get the surgery, know it will not make this issue go away. He will know, and that's what he's having trouble with.

You really don't need that in your life if he can't see past that and like you for who you are. Especially if you are pretty passable with a fucking rockin' body and a pretty face, he needs to take a hike if you're not good enough. Nobody is perfect.

You should post pics of you and him or something, i'm really empathetic about this and I feel like I want to get to know you guys.

>>717637632
kek is dat sum Lord Raptor shit?

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>>717637681
.... Holy cow, Well he'd be stupid not to with such a beautiful facial structure and gorgeous eyes like that!!

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>>717637811
Dat's some oldfag shit.. stay far away.
>and yes
>czeched

>>717637472
I've felt like that about people before.
It's always a good idea to take a step back and analyze whether your feelings are putting the person on a pedestal or if they are an actual reflection of who they are.
>>717637681
Also wow, you look stunning. Kinda makes me feel lucky for being bi, if you were flirting with me and mentioned you had a dick, I'd just be "it's alright" while internally going "shit, this chick likes me?".

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>>717637811
>Lord Raptor
Nah try za warudo from JoJo's

>>717637689
Aww thanks. I'm aware that he may not ever be comfortable with transwomen. That's fine, I'm not saving myself for him. It's just rare I find I guy I really really like, you know? Grats to you on getting everything done. I'm happy for you.

>>717637893
kek danke

>>717638050
Thanks, you're sweet. I've known him about two months. Slept next to him several times. He's always been very nice and normal to me even though he's known about 5 weeks.

>>717638025
Darkstalkers isn't oldfag?

>>717638188
I know that movie... Ichi the Killer

>>717638535
Well you could try to escalate physical contact. Nothing overtly sexual, just stuff where you touch him in a friendly manner. If he starts feeling aroused around you, from your platonic physical contact, he might get past his reservations about you being trans.

>>717638050
lol you're actually white knighting for a tranny. I'd say you're putting the pussy on a pedestal but she doesn't have one.

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>>717637689
>rockin' body
Also, ...

Just saiyan

>>717637681
dick or gtfo, jk. but wow you look remarkably female. I wouldn't have known. I am happy for you. So if your man isn't about that d don't make him suck it or whatever. although I hear some guys like pegging so I can't understand why. but you need to know it's not a perfect fit just because you are insecure or not wanting a penis and he doesn't like penis sexually. there is a problem there. and he may like you but this is going to present numerous problems and you need to talk about it, maybe go to counseling. if he truly loves you he will LOVE and accept all of you, even the parts you don't.

>>717638954
Meh, she's pretty and I'm procrastinating so I don't have to go to bed.
She asked for advice and I obliged.

>>717637681
I'd say be honest with the guy. A lot of guys fap to tranny shit already, so he might be into it. And if not, you shouldn't mislead him. If he's not interested, he doesn't fit in your life and you can find someone that does.

>>717639099
>He's pretty.

>>717632753
Shop out the leash and we'll think he's actually dead...

>>717638924
We don't see eachother often outside work. At work, we're both all about being professional, like no PDA etc. I'm thinking about teasing the shit out of him so he'll give it up. We'll see.

>>717638649
It's oldfag I guess.... I know I used to play it a lot back when 4chan basically started but wrrryyyy isn't from darkstalkers, JoJo's bizarre adventure fam.
>Ichi yes

>>717639373
Does he KNOW you're trans?

>>717639097
I don't like guys sucking it, tbh. I only see straight men, btw, and they've so far gotten over it because I don't expect them to give it attention. Like, a girl who only wants anal and no cunnilingus, I guess, is basically how I roll.

>>717639099
Fuck the fags, mayne.

>>717639467
I didn't play every 2D arcade game. My best guess is King of Fighters...yes?

>>717639528
For long enough, yes. Read the thread.

>>717639329
No skin off my nose to use the pronoun people like. As long as it isn't made into law that I have to.
Also read my other posts, I'm bi, if op wanted to be called he, I'd still find him pretty.
>>717639373
Well even platonic PDA could tip him over to wanting you in a relationship. I always get all warm and fuzzy on the inside when people touch me in a friendly manner, even if it's just platonic, it's nice to feel loved.

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>>717639051
mmm. how long have you been on HT and will your breasts get bigger, would u want them to? I am never sure how to ask.

>>717639775
Heh I've not been called "he" in a damn long time, that would be weird and unnatural.

That's the thing, though. It feels right to touch him and lean on him and so on, just random normal stuff, but I'm not sure if it'll make him #triggered or smthg. He's kinda a dork, I don't think he'd ever be mean to me, but I'd like to at least keep our amicable colleague relations.

>>717639807
I want bigger bewbs, honestly. At my age I'd probably gain max 1/2 cup. So a boob job is definitely not out of the picture, though not exactly a priority

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Not lacking in the back, either

>>717640332
Well it's his responsibility to tell you if he's getting uncomfortable.
If he doesn't act uncomfortable around your platonic affections, I wouldn't worry about it.
Just let him know that it is alright if he sets boundaries.

>>717640332
Make up your damn mind do u wanna fuck him or not? I'd at least invite him over and watch TV and then sit close to him. If he's still hesitant I'd at least go for it and try to make out. Chances are he'd put his arm around you and be chill (if he agreed to come over). Just to be sure I'd make sure to be flirty when you were asking him over. If he turns you down twice, then he's not interested. Simple.

>>717639051
you're not that bad at all.
You're taking a really insecure angled picture, but either way you're not that bad.

>>717640708
I know. I'm old-fashioned and expect the man to set the tone, but I also know a lot of them are nervous af around girls. I sense that in him. Not just trans girls, but common ones, too.

>>717640734
We've already fallen asleep holding eachother in his bed a handful of times, starting after he knew.

>>717639766
ok, came in kinda late to the races going over past replies now. Ok so I get the idea but I would want both. Simultaneously. LOL. I don't know what his problem is but if he's being sketch I would move on. but how much time have u spent alone together, have you two done anything sexual?

>717641081
>really insecure angled picture
That's a straight-on pic, dumbass. If I was going for a MySpace angle, it'd be from way up high.

>>717641210
Is that the farthest you've gone? If so I'd just try to get alone and escalate to see what happens. He's probably just shy.

>>717641210
Being old-fashioned won't get you far in this day and age though. Most guys in the western world has had feminist rhetoric pounded into their head since their early teens now. Unless the girl gives them a definite go ahead, they'll be nervous about accidentally raping them.
Being confident around him about your attraction to him, will basically allow him to do the same.

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>>717640683
nomomom

>>717641414
That angle (I think it's the ribs) and way you arch your back makes you look more like a guy. I'd take it more straight on if you're trying to look more girly.

>>717641309
I blew him but he stopped me pretty early on. I think he has some sort of physical or psychological sexual dysfunction. Not trying to put him down, he's kinda a dork around women. He's way more positive towards me than other women in our workplace.

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>>717641784

>>717641855
Do you know if he's had relationships in the past?

>>717641737
We joke about feminazi Tumblr shit all the time. He's over 40. I think he's cool on the permission slip sex angle.

>>717642016
I know he was married, but never asked for any past relationship details.

>>717632753
Move on and find someone else.
It's a big planet.
Don't get hung up on one person.

>>717641855
I think you were right all along and you need to spend more time together. The whole intimate without being intimate thing. Keep at him and make him feel comfortable. I think if u approach it the way you've been doing he will come around. Lots of talking and flirting and don't rush him because he sounds like he may not have had a lot of experience.

>>717642109
It might be residual psychological shit from his old marriage then. As >>717642216 says, take it slow and help him be comfortable and you should be golden.

>>717639051
>>717641414

this pic is sideways. You're clearly angling you fucking hips. what the fuck are you talking about?
Jesus you're really fucking defensive. Maybe this guy is in for a total cunt after all.

>>717642109
oh fuck seriously. so maybe this dude:
>>717641737
may be right. anyway good luck!

>>717642216
I know what you mean. It seems odd, because he's about a decade my senior; but guys gave different levels of development in different areas. And I think it's worth teaching him in the one area he's lacking. Mind you, he's not like some autist retard, I think he just has personal hangups because he hasn't been with a woman in a while, and I can help that along.

I've gotten zero creep vibes from him. Just dork vibes lol, with plenty of "this is a man" vibes

>>717642458
this is what happens when someone wants to prove beyond a reasonable doubt they weren't feeling awkward. PUT THE GUN DOWN ANON!

>>717642458
Never change, MGTOW kekeke

>>717642714
Dork vibes can be very attractive. Personally, I find people who can enjoy themselves while doing goofy and dorky shit without being self-conscious, really attractive.

>>717643032
I'm not sure how to describe it. He's def a man. Just some of the things he says, how he says them, to whom, the pacing. I can only describe it as dorky. I know he means well, it's just robotic and cute, sometimes.

>>717643305
I think I'm his final boss as far as sanctity of manhood is concerned. He's ex-mil, btw. But also dudeweedlmao

>>717643305
>>717643494
He kind of sounds a bit aspergers to me, but if you find it endearing, go for it.

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>>717642714
Good luck you'll make progress I have a feeling about this. Haha dork vibes are the best though. Yeah be the best tutor EVER. Make him your little student!
>>717642109
yeah I think its cool you guys bond about stuff...

>>717643699
I never really thought of it. Like, you know how fully developed men have this different skin and hair texture? I don't now how to describe it, it's just fully roughened and developed. That's what he has. I love it. It's kinda a cute angle through which I've observed he has a dorky disposition. Otherwise he's pretty normal, neither tightass, hardass, or faggot.

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>>717643494
>things femanon should have mentioned previously.
THAT'S SO FUCKING HAWT!!!!!!!!

>>717644219
omgoooooooood I want to see this guy!

>>717643816
Heh my little professor or Aspergers prince?

>>717644219
So you've found yourself a handsome, rugged, yet slightly awkward former military guy?
When did this thread turn into a harlequin romance?

>>717644514
It'd take me a long time to find an example, sorry hon

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>>717644525
LMFAO. You're little teacher's pet because he's a dork ;P

>>717644596
Um uh I dunno but like he's really nice and stuff XDDDD It's embarrassing, stop!

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>>717644909
oh haha, no worries. I was just getting hyped over squad goals. :) U want my snap, I wanna b fwends

>>717645249
Don't mind me, I'm just jealous and on my fifth year of a dry spell. Just do yourself the favor of putting some effort in this guy. If it falls through, it sucks, but if it doesn't I'd envy you a bit more.

My current plan is to get to stay the night again, bring my own alcohol, then tease the fuck out of him, and if it goes wrong then blame the alcohol; if nothing else, no real loss

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>>717645249
in the background right now. this song:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xsKxjEQk6xo
GO GET HIM ANON!

>>717645901
I don't snap or kik or anything. You can Gmail me at ktkitkatkow, if you like

>>717646129
I'm going to push soon, just gearing up and gaining advice

>>717646523
k! Awesome yay!

>>717646523
Well go get your romance novel man, I wish you all the best.

>>717647004
ty

>>717646672
yay!!! Ty!

>>717646446
Lol I'll try my best

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