>>717632753 You can't make people do anything, you might as well accept that before you become a borderline, crazy person. Is his issue just with the penis, or is it the fact that you won't be able to give him kids in the future?
>>717633364 >>717633590 Are you sure he adores and loves you though? Has he said so or are you projecting your on infatuation onto him? Also too bad about your relationship with your junk, I think it is sad when people can't enjoy their genitals.
>>717633964 I know he likes me. He's told me I'm basically everything he wants, and I'm 100% after I get surgery. We carpool, work together, spend our breaks and lunches together, get along super well, and flirt enough.
I'm a transsexual. I can't be happy being a girl with a penis, it feels very wrong. I'm not neurotic about it, though.
>>717634498 Well all you can do is show him that you are romantically interested in him and let him decide on his own if he wants to be with you. Also I gathered you were a transsexual, I know what dysphoria does to people, I've supported friends and former lovers through bouts of it. I still think it is kind of sad when people can't enjoy their genitals. Some of the best times I've had involved my penis, so I wish others could enjoy their genitals like I enjoy mine.
>>717635204 I had a pretty good run trying to be a guy. Ie njoyed my penis as much as I could and then some. It was a choice I made, and I gave up a lot as far as good male attractiveness is concerned. I gave up a nice 8" cock for a 4" weakling, for one. I have some fond memories I couldn't now replicate. I get it.
>>717636528 There's been one guy before with whom I'd think we'd be good relationship-wise, but it wasn't to be. I don't just jump into this stuff, I've been around tbh fam (i don't mean turbo slut, I'm just not in my 20s and was married and all). I think we'd work out super well. It's uncanny.
>>717636910 poor girl i'm similar. Been living full time 100% changed except my genitals too.
Really all you can do is hope he makes a decision you like. Even after you get the surgery, know it will not make this issue go away. He will know, and that's what he's having trouble with.
You really don't need that in your life if he can't see past that and like you for who you are. Especially if you are pretty passable with a fucking rockin' body and a pretty face, he needs to take a hike if you're not good enough. Nobody is perfect.
You should post pics of you and him or something, i'm really empathetic about this and I feel like I want to get to know you guys.
>>717637472 I've felt like that about people before. It's always a good idea to take a step back and analyze whether your feelings are putting the person on a pedestal or if they are an actual reflection of who they are. >>717637681 Also wow, you look stunning. Kinda makes me feel lucky for being bi, if you were flirting with me and mentioned you had a dick, I'd just be "it's alright" while internally going "shit, this chick likes me?".
>>717637689 Aww thanks. I'm aware that he may not ever be comfortable with transwomen. That's fine, I'm not saving myself for him. It's just rare I find I guy I really really like, you know? Grats to you on getting everything done. I'm happy for you.
>>717638535 Well you could try to escalate physical contact. Nothing overtly sexual, just stuff where you touch him in a friendly manner. If he starts feeling aroused around you, from your platonic physical contact, he might get past his reservations about you being trans.
>>717637681 dick or gtfo, jk. but wow you look remarkably female. I wouldn't have known. I am happy for you. So if your man isn't about that d don't make him suck it or whatever. although I hear some guys like pegging so I can't understand why. but you need to know it's not a perfect fit just because you are insecure or not wanting a penis and he doesn't like penis sexually. there is a problem there. and he may like you but this is going to present numerous problems and you need to talk about it, maybe go to counseling. if he truly loves you he will LOVE and accept all of you, even the parts you don't.
>>717637681 I'd say be honest with the guy. A lot of guys fap to tranny shit already, so he might be into it. And if not, you shouldn't mislead him. If he's not interested, he doesn't fit in your life and you can find someone that does.
>>717639097 I don't like guys sucking it, tbh. I only see straight men, btw, and they've so far gotten over it because I don't expect them to give it attention. Like, a girl who only wants anal and no cunnilingus, I guess, is basically how I roll.
>>717639329 No skin off my nose to use the pronoun people like. As long as it isn't made into law that I have to. Also read my other posts, I'm bi, if op wanted to be called he, I'd still find him pretty. >>717639373 Well even platonic PDA could tip him over to wanting you in a relationship. I always get all warm and fuzzy on the inside when people touch me in a friendly manner, even if it's just platonic, it's nice to feel loved.
>>717639775 Heh I've not been called "he" in a damn long time, that would be weird and unnatural.
That's the thing, though. It feels right to touch him and lean on him and so on, just random normal stuff, but I'm not sure if it'll make him #triggered or smthg. He's kinda a dork, I don't think he'd ever be mean to me, but I'd like to at least keep our amicable colleague relations.
>>717640332 Well it's his responsibility to tell you if he's getting uncomfortable. If he doesn't act uncomfortable around your platonic affections, I wouldn't worry about it. Just let him know that it is alright if he sets boundaries.
>>717640332 Make up your damn mind do u wanna fuck him or not? I'd at least invite him over and watch TV and then sit close to him. If he's still hesitant I'd at least go for it and try to make out. Chances are he'd put his arm around you and be chill (if he agreed to come over). Just to be sure I'd make sure to be flirty when you were asking him over. If he turns you down twice, then he's not interested. Simple.
>>717639766 ok, came in kinda late to the races going over past replies now. Ok so I get the idea but I would want both. Simultaneously. LOL. I don't know what his problem is but if he's being sketch I would move on. but how much time have u spent alone together, have you two done anything sexual?
>>717641210 Being old-fashioned won't get you far in this day and age though. Most guys in the western world has had feminist rhetoric pounded into their head since their early teens now. Unless the girl gives them a definite go ahead, they'll be nervous about accidentally raping them. Being confident around him about your attraction to him, will basically allow him to do the same.
>>717641309 I blew him but he stopped me pretty early on. I think he has some sort of physical or psychological sexual dysfunction. Not trying to put him down, he's kinda a dork around women. He's way more positive towards me than other women in our workplace.
>>717641855 I think you were right all along and you need to spend more time together. The whole intimate without being intimate thing. Keep at him and make him feel comfortable. I think if u approach it the way you've been doing he will come around. Lots of talking and flirting and don't rush him because he sounds like he may not have had a lot of experience.
>>717642216 I know what you mean. It seems odd, because he's about a decade my senior; but guys gave different levels of development in different areas. And I think it's worth teaching him in the one area he's lacking. Mind you, he's not like some autist retard, I think he just has personal hangups because he hasn't been with a woman in a while, and I can help that along.
I've gotten zero creep vibes from him. Just dork vibes lol, with plenty of "this is a man" vibes
>>717643032 I'm not sure how to describe it. He's def a man. Just some of the things he says, how he says them, to whom, the pacing. I can only describe it as dorky. I know he means well, it's just robotic and cute, sometimes.
>>717642714 Good luck you'll make progress I have a feeling about this. Haha dork vibes are the best though. Yeah be the best tutor EVER. Make him your little student! >>717642109 yeah I think its cool you guys bond about stuff...
>>717643699 I never really thought of it. Like, you know how fully developed men have this different skin and hair texture? I don't now how to describe it, it's just fully roughened and developed. That's what he has. I love it. It's kinda a cute angle through which I've observed he has a dorky disposition. Otherwise he's pretty normal, neither tightass, hardass, or faggot.
>>717645249 Don't mind me, I'm just jealous and on my fifth year of a dry spell. Just do yourself the favor of putting some effort in this guy. If it falls through, it sucks, but if it doesn't I'd envy you a bit more.
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