Why can't i maintain an erection when having sex? I'm 21 years old, in good shape and exercising an hour a day. I smoke, but over the past year I've cut back to 2-3 cigarettes a day. I haven't drunk in nearly 3 months, and I smoke 2-3 joints per week. My life is by no means stressful, work life is good and i don't have any financial problems. I used to maintain an erection for hours at a time, but one night two weeks ago my erection faded after 20 minutes of foreplay and never came back up. This has been reoccurring every night since then and has been seriously frustrating me. Anyone have any ideas whats wrong with me?
>>717385101 went cold turkey on porn the night this happened as well, still didnt help. Tried watching porn last night to test if I've just become desensitized due to porn and i maintained an erection for about 20 minutes before it died as well.
>>717385458 well I was taking biotin to help grow in some patches on my beard, but i stopped taking it due to my poop turning green. The ED started about a week and a half after stopped taking biotin. I also sometimes take NyQuil, but at the most i drink about 10 mL to help me sleep
>>717385865 well i've been having sex more often recently and considered that might be taking a toll on my penis, but "more often" for me is 3 times a week, which I don't really know if thats a lot relatively speaking. With porn, i can fap every night for months and still be okay so Idk, maybe my libido is fucked lol
>>717387643 also considered that. tried watching gay porn, no arousal at all. It's like in my mind i love the titties and ass and the honeypot and i wanna demolish her with my dick, but my dicks like "eh im going to sleep" lol
>>717388059 >Then buy some tadalafil, maximpeptide has some good stuff. I have 3 bottles of this right now. Slightest hint of sex and you are rock hard. It stays up no matter what you are thinking too. Might get you over the hump.
>>717388233 im gonna try to go cold turkey on that as well. I've been smoking since i was 17 and from ages 18 to half of 20 i was smoking nearly half a pack a day but my sex drive wasnt effected at all. In 2016 I started going to the gym more and cut back on smoking to once before work and once on my break, and ive maintained that since august 2016 with my sex drive being pretty normal until 2 weeks ago. I wasnt smoking any more or any less around the time frame of this happening
>>717385112 You damned heathen piece of dirt. Don't you dare to blame our father Jesus Christ. After all these sinners come out of their hideouts and destroy our present from god you prefer to blame our holy grail.
This happened to me. Went to my doc. He prescribed 5, 50 mg viagra and told me if I needed more he would do more testing. I used 2 and it jump started everything back into shape. I still have 3 left and don't need them anymore.
OP, you aren't giving yourself what you really want. Either you don't truly love your woman or you don't like the type of sex you are having (or you are gay but not tryna troll here). If you are convinved you love your girl, try some kinkier shit. Try voyeurism, the risk makes me so hard I think the veins on my dick are about to explode. If you are unsure about your love, try cheating. No, really, you can't make a relationship work if you don't love her. Lastly if none of that works, throw all your inhibitions out the window then go on craigslist and suck a dick.
>>717389592 If the areolas haven't changed that is realy good. You are still puffy though which means your estradiol is up. Usually it is caused by being too fat. That isn't your problem so that would leave the most obvious thing as too much stress. Stressing about your dick definitely doesn't help. Check every now and then for lumps. If they form you will need to go to an endo. Don't play with them though or you will make it much worse.
>>717389696 Out of nowhere. I was either fapping or Fucking daily. Then out of nowhere, while in bed, I would get hard during foreplay and then it would die and not come back. Then it got so I could fap and cum without ever getting hard at all. I stopped all anal play and that did not help. After that I went to the doc, got the meds and in 1 week I was back flip Fucking for hours and multiorgasmic again.
>>717384626 Don't worry OP I didn't know whether I would or could cum or not for about a year and ended up blistering my dick quite a few times. That was pretty frustrating, but it was due to medications that I was on, I eventually figured out to stop that med, but it sure was a waste of a year of fapping.
>>717389766 see im not sure if its the quality of sex. I'll admit the sex we have isn't extremely kinky especially by /b/ standards, but two nights before this happened i was rock hard enjoying every second of oral sex, 69, missionary, doggy, everything. I would assume that I would slowly over the course of a few days or weeks find less and less pleasure in sex and force myself to mix it up, but in contrast i was enjoying the sex one night and 48 hours later i just couldnt maintain it, but in my mind i was super frustrated because I WANTED to have sex
>>717390726 There could be more information that refutes this point. He could just talk with someone for a long time about it and it might go away miraculously, or it could be something in the food he's eating or his water is contaminated.
>>717390428 yeah i quit the weed and gonna try to cold turkey the cigs too but god knows how hard nicotine is to quit, might get a vape but the stigma of vaping being so douchey makes me just want to try my luck at cold turkey
>>717391122 >>717390999 i mean before this happened i've been building muscle and watching what i eat and running a mile and a half a day so i assumed that would be building testosterone in me but idk im neither a doctor nor bodybuilder
Go see your doctor discuss your problem openly and they'll take it from there many things can cause erectile dysfunction.such as stress? Allergies, medication complications hormones also consider the possibility that stds can have an adverse affect on your libido. Not to cause concern but rather to.emphasise that you seek a legitimate medical and profestival opinion.
Happens to me.once every few years for.a.period of about a couple.of weeks usually stress related even though the source.of stress may not be due to.work and can be hard to pin down or articulate.
That you don't find me attractive bullshit that you may get from your SO doesn't help the problem the stigma surrounding mens health isues and the accompanying ignorance doesn't help.either and adds to the stress.
>>717391619 honestly now that i think about it i don't really remember what i think during sex, but i know my thoughts are the same. I feel turned on and love all the foreplay and all and legitimately think im rock hard but i reach down and feel that im soft it really throws me off cause i think im turned on but my dick isnt
>>717391653 well I dont have set meal plan that i follow strictly, I cut back sugar and sweets and completely cut cheese out of my diet and switched to skim milk, i only eat whole grain wheat breads and organic shit, and I try to eat a big meal after working out and light for dinner. I've actually been feeling healthier since i started watching what i was eating
>>717391761 yeah i think I'll have to pay my doctor a visit, maybe some viagra will jumpstart my sex drive. Honestly the only stress in my life at the moment is my dick issue, and its confusing because before this happened i didnt have any huge stress but now that its happened i kind of realize im super stressed and i guess its not helping with the ED
OP: typically anything that raises your blood pressure (stimulants) can cause you to have trouble maintaining an erection, regardless of how horny you are. First time I found this out was when I took Claritin D for allergies. Shit cleared out my nose but it also made my dick stop working (Was 20 at the time). Drink less caffine, stop smoking, check out any meds you are on and see what happens.
>>717392759 now that you mention it, ive been drinking more coffee recently, but im kind of a lightweight to caffeine, so "more coffee" to me is a medium cup of warm coffee from Dunkin Donuts and i mostly don't even finish that whole cup
Honestly speak to your old man about it if you can it has happened or will happen to every guy in here at some point I thier lives. Most my friends don't like talking about it or deny it then go quiet as fuck as I joke about it. Just a case of not giving a fuck what people think and the ability to take yourself lightly instead the muh dick muh manhood shite you might get from friends.
It's embarrassing talking about it with your old man but he's a fellow man who will (or at least fucking should) treat you with a degree of respect and confidence. If he doesn't call him out on his bullshit and reserve the right to pull twelve feet of ego outta his crusty bellend when it happens to.him and he opens up to you... and laugh.... heartily... that part is important the laughter.
Jokes aside anonymous chat on the cans is all well and thus issue is very common and typically a temporary thing when I was woefully strung out it lasted about 6 weeks either no boner or weak boner couldn't even masturbate at times
Saw my.doc and she (that was fun) said it's normal and insisted i ring her either outcome in a couple of weeks next time it happened I just didn't stress about it as much as it's been experienced before
>>717393715 one problem there, my old man died of lung cancer back in 2008 lol if i could I would. I did speak to a friend of mine who was on antidepressants a couple months back about this because he suffered from it too and opened up to me about it and it helped him get through it till he was off antidepressants and i hoped it was all in my head and talking to someone about it would help me get through it but clearly did not help :(
Shit sorry to hear about your old man that comment would have been a bit crass if I had known. Sorry dude. When you said you're on your parents medical insurance I made an unfortunate assumpion my bad.
Just take it easy with yourself don't worry get professional rest up and put it out of your mind as best you can
>>717394694 nah its ok fam im not gonna be a pussy and cry about something that happened nearly a decade ago completly understand, when i said parents i meant mom and step father but just as many step parent/child relationships he can die for all i care
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