>>717309693 i've done that but i need cigarettes so i take a break every now and then and leave, had a rough one and spent few weeks in my house my family thought i had an illness because i went so pale
>>717310066 i was drinking a few beers i couldnt quite get the face right on this painting i was working on so i was in abit of a mood we started texting and got into an argument as we sometimes do and she ended it saying i've changed she cant be with me its rough we have been going out for 3 years so i did expect her to walk out on me i suppose
>>717310285 lost my friends because she accused one of them of trying it on with her and when i tried clearing up the situation they told me to come back when im done with that crazy bitch and basically just stopped talking to me
>>717310623 22. And you've been dating for 3 years. OK, all clear so far.
Right, anon, I'll hive you some advice. I'm 12 years older than you and still recall the stupid years of my twenties.
Let me lay this down as blunt as possible, OK? Firstly, forget the chick.
If you're in your twenties and have been with the chick for three years and haven't gotten married yet, then forget about it.
If she was meant to be, you'd know it. Three years is a long commitment and if neither of you wanted to get serious, then obviously you were not meant to be. It's OK, you'll find a new girl.
No, really, you will. I've been there, done that. Felt the same emotions as you. I now see it as a big farce that I allowed a young and scared me to follow. I had no advice for the situation. Now I just reflect.
As for your friends, make amends with them. If they are your best buds, keep them. Those kinds of people don't always come into your life. My closest friend and I have been best buds for over 15 years. We live in different continents but still call each other every week to drink and talk. We help each other.
That's something you won't get from cunt, no matter how in love with it you are.
>>717310891 Don't work on it Just do it ! I will find you anon and stick my penis in your ass if you don't stop immediately with this unnecessary shit And don't even think about vaping because then I will come 100% and fuck you
>>717311040 I'm sure that there will be plenty of opportunities to make new friends if you're in a city. You mentioned earlier that you enjoy painting. See if you can find an art group/club in your area and go down. You'll be with like minded people and will have more chance to make friends.
>>717311166 damn haha do feel abit better hearing it, i suppose i should be honest here i have been replying to her texts i know you shouldnt and she wants to meet up with me to talk in person, what should i do with that because she seems fucking crazy atm, im still trying with my friends i guess theirs no guide to life you just gotta wing it im glad you keep in contact with your friend though thats awesome
>>717311287 well heres the thing before my girlfriend i was actually planning to go uni and when we met i was just starting uni in another city when we got serious i dropped out came back home...been thinking about that lately
>>717311166 Secondly, expect your twenties to be rough.
They always are. You're in this strange area of where you're supposed to be an adult, but are transitioning from being a teenage student. The world works differently and these years are a learning process.
You'll have trouble making new friends, you say. This will pass over time as you become settled and secure in your personality and situation.
You will make horrible blunders and that's OK. You, at that moment, might suspect the outcome of such actions, but will probably take a chance anyway. It will probably blow up in your face.
That's OK too. Failure isn't forever. In order to understand success you must taste failure. No successful person has ever not failed. Mistakes teach you, not the passing of years.
Advice from those closer to you in age and have gone through the same problems-- you should listen to it as it is far more relevant to you than what your parents or grandparents tell you.
Faith in yourself is more important than anything else.
>>717311684 20s feel rough man, especially because im related to people who are all succesfull, my cousins been to law school hes a comedian works as a local council member too, im related to a few doctors or people with the degree anyway so they tend to grill me every christmas, but thanks anon i guess i need to find myself a direction and actually do something
>>717311459 Meet her in person and break it off if this is what you both think you feel at the time.
Do not fall for any of her emotions and do NOT respond to your own emotions as that are based on fear. Those are the eaters of your ego and rational. They serve only to harm you, not help you.
If you do break it off, don't make it dramatic and make a time for the two of you to exchange any of each other's stuff you might have at the other's place. Quick and simple, no need to make a show of it.
Then apologize to your friends and explain what you've done. They might feel as if, over the years, you've caused them great stress over this chick or that you favoured more time with her over them.
For this , you should consider. I didn't and hurt a lot of friends when I was young and retarded for a girl. We are better now, but I felt bad for a long time knowing I had hurt them.
>>717311713 i dunno it got abit messy towards the end i finished the first year except for the last two weeks of my course i decided to be stupid and flunk out i cant really explain it i wanted be back home with my then girlfriend and friends and not studying so i kinda fucked the tutors around
>>717312085 i think i need to rebuild my friendships that i lost, i can hear it in the way my friends speak to me like im coming off crack or coming out of prison they seem abit distant to wanna know me after all the shit and fair enough i can be abit of a cunt i guess, i was meant to see another old friend today but he hasnt replied to me...guess lifes just a mystery of bullshit
>>717312119 May not be the best solution then. If you only broke up with gf yesterday, and your problems with friends are because of her, It may be best to leave it a few weeks before speaking to friends again. Allow the dust to settle.
>>717312419 did you ever go back to your course? or no interest now? i feel depressed not in the faggy emo sense just like not fully well but im scared of taking anti depressants i dont wanna depend on them like i've seen my parents do
>>717313262 Just say straight away -- "hey bro, look, I'm sorry. I was being a dick and didn't see I was being a fuckwad to you. I'm not going to do that shit anymore. Let's meet up sometime soon for something to eat--- my treat."
And you pay for it. I don't care if it is Burger King or a sports bar with chicken wings and beer. You pay the bill.
An effort to show how much his friendship means to you goes a long way.
>>717313594 jesus, sounds like a real nightmare, i hate that some women resort to destroying property its immature, least you didnt have kids with that though right? they reckon you get most of your genes from the mother
>>717314493 i had a similar problem when i was depressed i was fucking a lot of girls that were easy, tbh it made me feel more empty to bang each one and watch them leave my house never to call them again
>>717314969 that blows man but least you banged her haha no regrets there, if shes a cool person i'd go to her town just for the excuse to fuck say your seeing a friend in her town and shoot her a text
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