>>699513298 I'm actually quite slim (I maintain this by working out 6 days a week and counting calories). It's not that I'm 'too shy' to socialize, rather, I choose not to engage others unless I absolutely have to; I prefer my solitude.
When it comes to women in particular, I notice they only care about themselves and are willing to step on any man's heart just to get what they want, and they're *never* truly satisfied, so they always want more.
>>699511558 But I have one 11 months today, actually We've apparently liked eachother for five years but every time I tried to make a move she genuinely thought it a joke because I suppose I'm the type of fake-flirter that I got from stage acting Never give up, lads
Not depressed, but I have serious self-image issues right now. Maybe when my confidence comes back I will throw myself out there. I know for a fact if I did right now I would only land with girls who are in my position as well. That's not something I want.
>>699513534 You sound like an angry 12 year old. Bad people will step all over you if you let them. You are attempting to cover up your desire using pain from your past and the only person you are hurting is yourself.
>>699514250 Well, I'm in my late-20s and not angry. I have no 'desire' for a woman or a relationship, because I have no use for either. Seriously, what does a man get out of a relationship outside of sex and a notion of "companionship?"
because i was seeing a aussie chick while living in japan and she wanted to date 6 different dudes at the same time. (shes polyamorous) i said i aint no cuck and dropped her. i than proceeded to meet a qt3.14 japanese girl 2 days later. working on the gf part.
>>699514452 Stop jerking off so much. Sex is important for men, its in such a deep part of our brain. Also having someone rely on you, and providing for them makes you feel ascended. Like everything in your life becomes secondary and you dont give a fuck if you can provide.
>>699514452 I get the feeling you've given up looking for women, you've most likely had shit experiences with women, and by doing so you paint all women with the same brush. They say ignorance is bliss and you're using ignorance in to deluding yourself that all women are bad, because that allows you to be happy and live your life, because you believe that you'll never be happy with a woman, since they are all the same to you. But believe me, you'll regret this decision that you're making, this mindset that you'll have. You should stop feeling sorry for your self and find the right woman for you, before it's too late.
>>699515158 I barely fap once or twice a week these days; sex hardly even interests me anymore. Sex is nothing more than a physical action used to facilitate reproduction and a base pleasure. When you've decided that you don't want to reproduce, and the 'pleasure' aspect of sex is no longer a factor to you, what else do you do? You become someone like me who doesn't give a rat's ass about women or sex anymore. Not trying to be edgy.
And I don't need anyone dependent on me just so I can feel better about myself. As I've said, I prefer my solitude instead of having to listen to some broad prattle on non-stop in my ear about her first world problems. Couple that with only having to 'provide' for myself, and you really have to wonder why *any* man in his right mind would waste his time on a woman.
I completely fell in love with some random friend of my best friend. I literally waited months before telling her that I like her, because I was too afraid of messing up the chance. The day I told her my feelings was just two days after she had started seeing somebody. She had a strong interest in me as well, but didn't say anything because I ignored her and acted as if I wasn't interested. I was too late, and at this point I've annoyed her so much about it that she no longer wants to talk to me. It's more complicated than that, but it follows me around everyday and it really feels terrible.
>>699511558 had severe acne since I was 13 until I was 21, because mom made it worse by trying home remedies or pay shitty treatments and shitty dermatologists, until I was 22 I had a decent job and paid for accutane, now lots of scars and have to save for laser treatment to heal scars
mom deprived me from any social interaction my whole life by being over protective, dont rlly blame her tho cause dad died when I was 3, so single mom raising 3 kids and no job or university degree
social anxiety every single fucking time. my autisms is too fucking much. literally had girls threw themselves at me and did nothing
developing anxiety and now can barely sleep, which causes acne and to be too lazy during the day to workout or go to the gym
poor family, shitty house, i need to move out and need to do it right now, city apartments can be expensive
low selfsteem and almost no confidence when girls approach, my body and mind react by themselves
>>699515616 >doxing oneself online No, thank you. Though I will say that I see even not-so-attractive guys (fat fucks with neckbeards and all) still with girlfriends, so that argument is moot.
>>699515643 You're right in that I've 'given up' on women; as I said, I no longer have need or use for them. But you are wrong in the idea that I'll ever regret this decision; I learn by example, and the examples set by other men who have had their lives FUCKING RUINED by women is enough to teach me not to deal with them.
>>699515309 Holy shit. I've been so sad lately because I recently lost a friend, not to death, but she never wants to see me again because I fucked up horribly. She also has bad depression. I guess atleast I know that she's alive and well right now.
I'm incredibly sorry that this happened to you. It is going to take you a long time to get back to normal again, but you will. This will affect the rest of your life, sure, but you'll be able to live normally eventually. Just let yourself be sad, cry as much as you can, and try to take it easy for the next little while. Then, try to surround yourself with friends/family. Keep yourself busy. If you're living on your own then you should go stay at a friend's house for a little while or at your parent's place. Just don't give up. Life is worth living, and you'll find someone again in the future.
>>699515804 Wow. I'm sort of in a similar situation. I fell in love with a girl who was getting married in a week. She felt the same way about me. We cuddled a day before her wedding, but she was too afraid to change everything in her life by calling off the wedding and so she went through with it. I went to their place on the night of the wedding incredibly drunk. I broke shit in their house by accident, I told everyone about my feelings for her, and I completely humiliated her. She never wants to see me or talk to me again and I miss her every fucking day. I just wish we could atleast be friends.
So, we both have strong feelings for someone who no longer wants anything to do with us that has/had the same feelings for us. It fucking sucks.
>>699516027 Did you miss the part where I said that not all women are the same and that you've painted them with the same brush, you've heard of examples from other men that have had their lives ruined, but not all women are like that, there are women out there that wouldn't want that at all, why don't you learn from your own mistakes, rather than following the examples of others, I mean, unless you're a mindless sheep of course.
>>699516688 Of course not all women are 'bad' (NAWALT-response), but I'm not digging through garbage to find a steak, only to find that said 'steak' has become tainted by the garbage (other women) that it's spent its entire life around. I've made no mistakes when it comes to women, because I generally don't waste my time caring about them or what they think.
>>699517128 Just around. On walls in town mostly. I didn't take much notice to begin with, but when I was in college I had to go to the bathroom and left my notebook, laptop, etc at a table. When I came back that symbol had been scribbled on the top left hand corner of one of the pages. I had no idea who did it. I asked other people if they had seen it before, everyone says no. No one knows what it means.
>>699516905 I completely understand. She's what made you happy. She's what made you want to get up each day and you were ready to spend the rest of your life with her. It's not going to be easy, anon, but you have to try. Would she want you to kill yourself? Or would she want you to try to find happiness? Again, it's going to be hard. Really, really, really fucking hard. But you have to try to move on eventually. Not right now, it only happened yesterday, so just let yourself be sad. After a few days though, you really need to try and be around people. It's what's been helping me with my much smaller situation. Just hold on anon, everything will be okay again eventually.
Did she leave you any sort of note or anything? How did you even find out or whatever? What was the situation, if you don't mind sharing? Also, you DEFINITELY should get therapy.
>>699517195 Yeah man, it makes me feel better as well. What was your girl like? What made her so great?
The girl I was in love with was really fucking beautiful and was the kindest person I've ever known. She really showed that she cared about me, she'd ask how I was and really meant it, she gave me all the time in the world, and when I would do something nice for her she would return the favor. She invited me to hang out all the time and she just gave me the time of day and it was really nice. She complimented me a lot as well and we had so much fun together.
The night that we cuddled... We stayed up all night, until 11 AM which is when I had to work. We talked about our lives and our childhood, we talked about being together and how we could possibly pull it off. She stared into my eyes like no girl has ever and she tried to kiss me, but I didn't let her. I figured it was wrong.. I wish I would have kissed her. I think she respected me more though, for being a good friend. We were supposed to continue being good friends but then I did what I did on the night of the wedding and I made her have to BEG her new husband to stay with her. I miss her so much.
>>699517735 We lived in a pretty big apartment. I came home and went upstairs, and she was hanging there. I called the ambulance, but they couldn't do anything. Her parents are on the other side of the world, so they asked me to plan everything. She left no note. And I'm sitting here, looking at the same fan that she ended herself on. I just wish I was home sooner.
I am not good at maintaining a relationship. I tend to do everything and say everything funny and interesting on the first few days then it gets awkward after a while. I am like a non stereotypical fuckboi if you get my drift. I tend to just be myself but I have social anxiety and I just can't handle a commitment
>>699520741 The last time I talked to her was this morning, before I went out, I had to run errands. We were talking about the possibility of having kids. I went out, and when u got home that's when I found out
>>699521589 I'm sorry. Just because she's gone doesn't mean that the wonderful memories you made with her are gone as well. You need to try and look back on those great memories and be happy that they happened.
Do you draw at all? Or sing? The friend that I just lost, I've been thinking about doing a big picture filled with all of my favorite memories with her. Maybe you could do something similar, or you could write a song or a poem about her. Write her a letter. Some of these things might help you cope with the situation.
>>699519982 Fair enough. I'm not really arguing it here. It's quite damn obvious the said graph is tongue-in-cheek. However, I think it's also fair to say that it goes against someone who claims to have a better mental health and sharpness of mind to use a silly emotionally-driven picture not unlike the one posted. I mean, even the syntax of the list at the bottom is pretty fucked up.
Because the only girls from my school that don't have kids are the two that went to college and became massive whores. Because the only two cunts that I dated were online and they were both cheating feminists who thought men should do everything for them. Because women are quite gross in all reallity. Men may have chunky dick snot but at least we don't leak fluid like a broken faucet when we're turned on, and we don't bleed and smell like a bullet wound monthly. I'll probably kill myself before I even kiss a girl, and I'm ok with that
>be me >fall for a girl hard >speak everyday etc etc >she invites me to meet up >cant make it :/ >keep talking >eventually she starts getting flirty >fall harder and harder >about to grow some balls and ask her out >she says shes a lesbian >... >keep talking to her >she blocks me on everything >i literally havent done anything cringy or autistic >hear she's dating a stupid ugly autist, literally 3/10, we'll call him eugene
>skip forward a year >feeling better, looking to move on >fall for another girl >start talking to her >much flirtier right off the bat >laughs at all my jokes, holds my fucking hands >i ask her out >sorry, i dont like meeting up with only one friend >... >she then spreads twisted stories of us together, saying i acted like a cringe >killmenow.jpeg >friends now hate me >i still love her >see her change her relationship status on facebook >look at the guy i need to kill >it's eugene, the ugly 3/10 autist from earlier >... >fml.gif
>now have no friends, all were lost because of both the bitches being bitches >dont go to parties so i cant drink and get an easy fuck there >have developed anxiety when around people because of this bullshit, so hardly go out >find myself lifting weights in my bedroom or reading history books most of the day >mfw
cause i got rock bottom self esteem, and am just not ugly. Even though I'm pretty clever and funny I just can't seem to get a gal's attention (granted girls that meet my standards... no niggers of fat chicks)
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