Hey, guys. I am Agender, ask me anything.
I have a wife and I am a software engineer, and I don't think I'm a special snowflake, if that's a start.
How is it possible to not be any gender like what the fuck? Are you referred to as It or They? Cause that shit creepy
I did! But I've never felt like a man or a woman. Ever since I was a kid, I never really fit the part of either, but the fact that it's a recognized identity now is very incredible to me.
>I've never felt like a man or a woman.
This is some subjective dumbass bullshit. It's not about how you feel kiddo because feelings don't fucking matter. You either have a dick or you don't
Also, why are there flags? If you can't choose to be something then why have pride in it?
You don't need to get upset dude. I have a penis, yes, but gender and sex are two different things.
For instance my sex is male, but I do not have a gender.
More so, just as you said; pride! It's the same reason the American flag exists, dude.
Do you have a penis or do you have a vagina?
As >>699373234 asked, it's either, "I have a penis" or "I have a vagina," or "I mutilated my genitaliae, so I am literally agender."
Alternatively, does this trigger you?
Looks like OP left to go find his safe space, let's make this a Spiderman thread now
I have a penis, and I don't touch Tumblr. They misconstrue everything to the nth degree.
They're all about jumping to attack someone before explaining factual information to them.
>I don't think I'm a special snowflake
Yes, as clearly demonstrated by your making a thread the sole purpose of which is for people to talk about you and how different you are.
Let me put it to you straight. You are lacking in hormones. It's a common medical condition. It is treatable.
Accepting that you are some other gender than your penis is a fad at this point. Just be a man/woman and get hormone therapy for the genitals you already have.
You literally cannot come up with a reason why this is wrong.
Whatever my kids prefer to be called, but at birth it would be cruel to call them anything but they're sex. I wouldn't force my identity on to them.
But we want to have kids someday, yes!
You need to go back to elementary school and re-learn pronouns because they is a word used to point out multiple people. You are one person. The A means no/none/not.
Lil bit lost there bud >>>/Tumblr/
>I am a male
>I have no gender
Well then what the fuck are you and how the fuck can you not be a gender?
My Brain hurts
>doesn't like having sex
I think you mean asexual. You're going to tell me you don't know what aromantic or demi-gender means too?
You're feeling attacked? Maybe you're just...
I mentioned this earlier, gender and sex are two different constructs on a biological level.
I see how this is weird, and it is to a lot of people. But once I realized there was a term for how I was feeling it made my life eons better.
Which one are you more attracted to?
Morons can't hold a conversation.
Example - OP claims to be agender when he means asexual.
Agender isn't a thing, while asexuality is.
If you can't even say what you mean correctly, you're a moron, and cannot hold a proper conversation.
I'm an Attack Helicopter and there are no bathrooms for me. Life is difficult when I imagine away reality.
>gender and sex are two different things
You are a man. Your gender is male. You cannot give any evidence to the contrary because it's completely subjective. I don't know why you would think that you were anything else, it makes no fucking sense.
>It's the same reason the American flag exists, dude.
The American flag exists to represent a sovereign nation independent of all others, with its own powers and people.
I didn't know the agender nation was part of the UN
Investing is really important! As for the non-monetary side of things, networking and connecting with people is as well! Talk to many people and make connections, and be friendly and open. Opportunities will come to you! Good luck!
The fast track is getting your hormones corrected, softdick.
You're trolling right?
Hey, thank you! I just don't belittle back. There is a difference between being mean and misinformed, and I always try to inform someone before being mean. Not everyone has access to the same information as others do!
OP don't post this on /b/ post it on Tumblr or /LGBT/ where sexuality matters, Honestly on /b/ we really don't give a shit
Here is some advice for the Low T Op. Might help with its staggering faggotry.
Do you watch Steven Universe? (serious question. I want to fuck Yellow Diamond)
You can't prove in your genes or some shit that gender and sexuality are different
Oh wow guys I didn't see an A in there >>699377377
So, maybe you don't need hormone treatment, maybe you need a psychologist?
I won't really argue since I have no knowledge in this area of science, biology, or whatever.
If OP wants to be agender, I'll respect them. If OP was trans, inter, etc. etc., it's fine by me.
My dash is dead. sorry, hun.
How does it feel being a joke? Like seriously, how do you look down your pants and say to yourself "Hey! This doesn't belong here!" It's simple shit for brains, whatever your x and y chromosomes are then that's what gender you are, quit living in a stupid delusional world and wake up.
Knowing I am agender is the first time in a long time I haven't felt like some sort of joke; it's really hard to explain having a concrete identity after so long of being confused.
I'm not worried, you're the one that came on this site you fucking idiot, YOU asked for our opinions so take them, no safe spaces here bud, try reddit, and yes i called you bud because you are in fact a man with a penis
Hey, just some advice, from a fellow /lgbt/ member. 4chan is one of the most thickheaded, anti-trans communities. They dont listen to things like simple definitions of phrases like gender-identity, and get caught up in semantics.
It's almost certainly not worth your time. Go to pride events or better websites and educate people there. There are still lots of people at lgbt places (and websites) who disagree with agender, and i think they will be a bit easier to reach.
Just Delete this entire thread it was a waste of time and OP is a waste of space
>OH WOW LOOK AT ME I DONT KNOW IF IM MAN OR LADY GUYS NOTICE ME XDDD
Seriously OP we don't care but maybe your friends over on /LGBT/ will care
You must be either Jewish or Retarded, friend.
I've also known I was agender, but the term just didn't exist. I was always called with he pronouns, but it never felt right. I tried using she pronouns but that didn't feel right either.
I'm trying to stress how much this identity means to me and so many other people! It really helped me.
>Agender is a term which can be literally translated as 'without gender'. It can be seen either as a non-binary gender identity or as a statement of not having a gender identity. People who identify as agender may describe themselves as one or more of the following: Genderless or lacking gender. Gender neutral.
You are thinking of "asexual." Agender is like being androgenous and dropping your masculine features, while not aquiring new feminine ones, or picking and choosing what traits they like. Basically not being a normie by not following gender constructs
Which brings us back around to morons not being able to converse properly. Believing yourself to have no gender means you're like too stupid for others to try to speak with rationally.
You're a fucking idiot millennial and I hate your generation for stupid shit like this. You are a narcissistic asshole who think k that the world revolves around you. Nobody gives a shit about you OP
Actually, I'm glad you did answer that question. Because now I can see that you really do need a psychologist.
Information is getting misconstrued, I don't have kids. However, my wife wholly accepts that I am agender, and loves me all the same.
I don't expect special treatment besides being called they, and I don't expect people to look at me any different way.
They may be referring to OP with a different pronoun, but OP is respecting it. Referring to OP with pronouns other than the ones they accept is rude.
there's not a thread of stupidity that I see in OP right now. just because you dont identify as male of female doesn't make you a retard.
Kek this is not our generation's doing. Lgbt movement has been going strong for a while now. It was almost certainly your generation who did this. Also are you like 40 and on /b/ wtf.>>699379857
I am Apache kin. I feel my aroura machine guns and misled launchers when I wake up. I crashed in the Vietnam war. I know there were no apaches then but I just feel,that's where I come from
>I don't have kids
Well there is something to be thankful for.
I had to look that up. You're no amateur to arguments, I see.
Yes, of course it's rude, cause that man may not want to be called a man.
It's really ironic that you're calling this generation "stupid" when you're too ignorant to accept change.
ofc birth certificates are gonna put down the newborn as "male" or "female". the child has no idea who they are or who they want to be. think of it as a potential placeholder.
God damn you are so stupid...its not a fucking placeholder if its BIOLOGY dude B-I-O-L-O-G-Y.
Your a man. Get over it and stop trying to say your something that your not just so you can brag about to people as if your special.
Sorry, missed this one!
My closet contains both masculine and feminine clothes, yeah! I just wear whatever I feel like or look good in!
As for why I identify as agender, it was mostly just finally having a term for the way I felt and had for most of my life!
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It's very similar to transgender. In that people don't accept the gender they want to present as.
I'm not trans or agender. So maybe I'm not an expert. But agender are held down in ways similar to trans people. But they don't need to transition or anything, they just act differently and don't like to be boxed into gender norms. (i think) some take hormones as well.
I just think that gen x had more influence over allowing this type of thing to happen than millenials.
How do you argue with the fact that gender is picked by chromosomes.
XX or XY determines your gender.
Unless you have no chromosome 21, I think it's fair to say that you are a gender. Male or female?
You're a fucking BABY BOOMER??
Get out of here you old priveledge asshat. You DESTROYED AMERICA.
You reproduce by yourself? Or do you mean asexual you faggot. HA JUST BRND U BISEXUALS:1 ASEXUALS:0
Shut the fuck up and stop lieing out your ass to feel special.