/b/ me and my girlfriend are kinda on a break, we may not get back together but there's a chance, i still have alot of feelings for her.
here's the problem last time we saw eachother i went into her phone and went though her messages and found dick pics from a dude we both know, the guys's huge, may be almost twice my size, id estimate him at 8-9 inches.. just the thought of him fucking her with that monster pisses me off so much. how can i get him to back off /b/ ? or should i ask her herself not to do it ? pîc not related
>>694577825 >kinda on a break yeaah that means it's over though. Seems like it was her who initiated the break, so it basically means she's getting some d or flirting with some other guy just to see her options. Honestly, you should forget about her already and move on.
>>694579267 >>694579056 i know there's a good chance that we're not getting back together. but the thought of of her getting fucked by him just fucks me up so much. i have to fight to keep the image out of my head
The best thing to do now is get rid of everything that reminds you of her, distract yourself from thinking about her and go meet other girls!
Work on building yourself and seize all the opportunities you didnt have because of her. I went through a breakup not long ago but after a while things just get better and better. Don't let yourself sink into a pit of despair and emotions, reject he feelings you have for her. Its hard but it must happen for you to move on and be happy.
Dick size isn't everything. And if she ever tries to tell you otherwise, just remind her that its not your fault she is built like an up-turned trash can.
Also, the relationship is over. Its time to move one, and the quicker you can do that the better it is for your state of mind and mental health. She'll even throw a few psychological curve balls at you, making you think that you might get back together. This shit is great for a girls ego, so don't fall for it. Just move on and be happy, what ever made you "have a break" in the first place shows that your relationship wasn't very solid anyway.
The reason you're probably having a break is because the photos of the giant cock made her want to try it out and your relationship wasn't strong enough to withstand it.
If you want to really come out of this situation on top you should probably sleep with this other guys mother or sister. But don't ever gloat about it because it was just a casual thing.
>>694579959 Hey faggot, stop being such a pussy and go muh love for her. She doesn't love you, if she did, she won't be "impressed" with some guy's dick size. If you want to be a cuck, then go for it. He'll back off, maybe he won't, the fact of the matter is, she's still thinking of that dick. Get out, fuck bitches, and move on like >>694579581 said
>>694580561 because it was either a break so we could take some time and see how we feel or it would've been a straight break up. but the fact that she wanted to think instead of breaking up immediately still gives me some hope
>>694579435 You need to cure yourself by going cold turkey, i.e. dump nudes so you'll know there's zero chance of getting back together. You're so beta you'd hang on to that 0.01% chance so you need to destroy any hope right now.
When I was in HS I stole some slut away from a dude who was supposedly rocking 8+ inches. Im only 5.5 or so and I fucked her everyday after school she loved it. The shit was she was the one telling people about his dick and shit so I was kinda nervous but she wasn't loose at all, and this broad had a serious track record. The shit with me was I acted like I didn't give a fuck, this girl has seen all sizes and my shit worked just fine. I'm not sure if you're in a position to come back from your new found penis envy especially cause its with this chick you love, you have to ask yourself if this is gonna cause problems down the line.
>>694583119 i wouldn't say i have penis envy, most of it is jsut the fact that he'd fuck the girl i love, the fact that he's so much bigger just kinda makes it worse ? if that makes sense. i wouldn't care if she wasn't involved
>>694583296 Yeah but I feel like this will come back and haunt you if you get back together, like you'll be thinking of her thinking about those pics and shit. You can't be insecure, it might turn her off on you
>did she initiate conversation with big dick, or did he just send a dick pic >did she initiate time apart? >how long ago did the dick pic happen >how did she react when you found out if yes, yes, a while ago, and pissed, it's over bro
>>694584036 then it's probably some chad thundercock just sending out dick pics, you should probably get together with her for coffee or something relatively private and ask her about it in person. don't make assumptions without hearing what she has to say
>>694579435 And you know what? That feeling won't go away anytime soon. My marriage is nearing the end it seems and my wife isn't even doing anything yet that I know of and the thoughts of her getting a bigger better dick are in my head constantly. I wish I had advice other than to go out and try to find yourself a replacement (at least until you stop thinking about it all the time). Enjoy yourself as much as you can and don't let it drive you crazy.
>>694584538 don't be a pussy with your "what if" scenarios literally 99% of a relationship is open communication and if you're going to be going around behind her back making assumptions about this situation without even saying anything to her you're a beta faggot who doesn't deserve a relationship anyways
>>694577825 This happened to me once, it hurts for awhile but you'll get back on that wagon. If my ex wouldn't have cheated on me I'd still be with that fucking crazy bitch. I am now with a girl that is for sure an upgrade, when I go to pick up my kid from the skank and I pull up to her trailer it just makes me laugh when I come home in pull in to my 200k house.
OP, please have some dignity and pride. Love is one thing, but this is denial. You're giving her credit where I don't believe it is due, based on what you have said.
That dude didn't just get her number by magic. She was interested, just like he was, in exchanging messages. If he'd sent it unsolicited, she probably would've have freaked out on him. I hate to say it, but you can probably do better.
>>694585746 definitely good looking, but she does look like the type that can't say no to a big juicy dick. my bet is she's already spread her pussy of cheeks for him. probably also just had to see if she could fit it in her mouth. anyone agree ? but you can post more maybe she just looks slutty here, i could be wrong
Jesus Christ, OP - why did I have to read through this thread?
Seriously, I knew what the answer was when you said, "we're on a break." That's fucking code for "I want to see other people and not you, but maybe I'll keep you on the backburner if things don't work out." That's her way of having her cake and eating it, too, without hurting your feelings by completely dumping you.
Here's what you do: go FULL No Contact. Don't text her, don't call her, don't even look at her Facebook. Then go out and do shit. If you have any female friends, go hang out with them - even if there is no shot at anything romantic. The main thing is to enjoy yourself, and make sure she knows it too; post pics on Facebook and say what a great time you're having at such and such place with so and so.
Two things will happen: that jealousy that nearly all women have will kick in and she'll reach out to you. (Even she does text you, ONLY REPLY WITH ONE WORD AN HOUR LATER< IF AT ALL!) Or, she'll not care, which is good, because not only with you have your answer, but will already be on the road to getting over her and on with life.
If she's in contact with a dude you guys both know while you are on a "break" then she had these feelings before and may have even already cheated. You don't deserve the bullshit. Go ahead and dump her then find someone else.
Plus size isn't everything. One of my friends is hung like a mule but I've heard girls say it's uncomfortable and not fun.
>>694587172 >There is only one thing I would change about this, I'd never answer her messages or calls again.
That is the best answer, but I suggested the one word text for a reason - it pisses women off. You see, that's their game, and they hate when it is used against them, especially by a guy.
Here's a personal anecdote. >Be me, dating a cute tall girl for about five months. shit is starting to get serious. >She tells me right up from that she wants guys to start chasing her. Major red flag. Then she starts getting weird; long story short, I figured she was seeing someone new. >Whatever. We have a fight and I stop talking to her. >New guy dumps her. I start seeing a new girl. Take her out to concerts, etc., post pictures of us together. I'm having a blast. >For the next year, she would text me at least once a month, asking me to meet her at some bar where there's a good band playing, or saying she missed my voice. I replied with shit like "okay" or "whatever" (depending on the context) an hour or two later - no capitalization, no punctuation. >She would immediately call. I wouldn't answer. >If she texted me about why I didn't answer, I'd respond the next day that it was too loud where I was, I was with friends, etc.
The point is about taking back control. I'm not one of those MRA/ MGTOW fags, but women have become so used to everyone bending over backwards for them that if they get any resistance or rejection, they have no clue how to respond.
>>694577825 Dude, same thing happened to me. Instead of forgiving her and wait for the inevitable to happen again, tell her to fuck off. I forgave my ex for sending nudes and i regret it alot. You will feel like shit for a time but it will pass and when it does you will be happy that you ditched her ass.
But if you are like me you are probably not going to listen to this advice so have fun with the heartbreak and what not.
Look at it this way: if she's "on a break" - then so are you. Go out and meet new people and enjoy yourself. Living well is not only the best revenge, it's the best thing to do, period.
Like I said above, I've been there. I've done the pining thing. And you know what I found every single time? There is always someone better and that the last one was not as great as you made her out to be.
>>694586798 >Two things will happen: No, one thing will happen: This fag will ignore everything in this thread because he doesn't want to accept the truth. He'll act insecure, asking her over and over why she doesn't want to see him, she'll keep saying there's nothing between her and monster cock, and then finally she's going to break and just tell him to leave her alone because monster cock satisfies her and he doesn't.
But she'll add she still loves him and needs to remain friends.
OP, As someone pretty much in the "Other guy's" position at the moment, I can say that you had your shot, it obviously didn't work out. Let her go and explore for a bit. If she comes back, great. If not, Pleanty more beans in the tin.
Guys need to look at their relationships like a business; mind your resources and do what it takes to be successful.
If you have an employee that is underperforming, is lazy, insubordinate, shows up only when they feel like it, etc. - would you spend the time and energy and making them into a model employee?
No, you'd fire their ass and find a replacement that better fits the position.
Best case scenario here: OP's girl comes back and they date again. The problem? It's too late. OP already has doubts in his head and will wonder if she's not looking for a bigger dick somewhere else for the rest of the time they are together. That trust is gone.
OP, fire her ass. Trust me on this. You think her girlfriends are advising her to go back to you or to chase mister big dick? I'll tell you: it's the latter. And trust me, they know about his dick. How do I know? Because I'm pretty well endowed (just over 8") and nearly every time I broke up with a girl, her friends started hitting on me. One even flat out said that she knew about my dick size and wanted to try it.
There's no getting back to the way things used to be, OP. The cracks are already there, and can never be mended.
>>694590625 >ofcourse not but... i don't lone the employee ? you can't take feelings out of a relationship.
Of course not. You can, however, decide if you're going to waste your resources (i.e. feelings) with no return on investment. That's like owning stock in XYZ company and not selling despite 14 consecutive quarters of losses because they make your favorite widget.
>+ i thought it was a myth that girls really care about size that much ? aren't alot of thme uncomfortable with a dick that's too big ?
It really not that much of a myth, from personal experience. Every girl is different: some really don't care much, and some are size queens. I've had some girls that it was too much and some that, once they got used to it, could take all of it. I've never found a girl willing to try anal, though.
>>694580875 I know you don't want to hear this, but she only agreed to a break because she cares about your feelings even though she wants to break up. The "break" is a cushion for you to fall on, noting more. I'm a female and I KNOW how chicks like that think. She is wrong, but she thinks she's doing you a favor by letting think there is hope. I can't make you believe me, but if you want the TRUTH ask her. It fucking SUCKS but she is ready to move on.
now that we have more info i can think we can say she looks like she's down to fuck at anytime. besides you can't keep a girl like that satisfied with 4 inches. could you even fuck her tits properly ? or fuck her like she deserves ?
>>694584685 This. Your relationship is pretty much over as it stands right now. What have you got to lose by putting all cards on the table and being completely honest about it all. Including whatever led to the break in the first place?
>>694579435 Yeah man don't bother with her. If you're already apart it's even better. Stay away and DO NOT let her talk you into going back. If shes desperate for a shoulder to cry on she will come back to you. Trust me.
>>694593575 she might as well be a fleshlight when he's done with her. she looks pretty short, and he's sporting a 9 inch monster, assuming she can take it half her body will be filled with his cock, he'll just bend her over and move her on it like a cheap toy she can cum into without having to clean it.
>>694594578 It's implied man! She said she was impressed. I know it's hard but you have to accept that you're in denial. Think back to before your relationship; back to a nostalgia stress free time in your life. Remember that you can ALWAYS pick-up where you left off and continue on the right path. When you finally accept that it will not work because you will always be worried; then you will know and feel that it was the right decision!
Hey OP, if you are looking for real advice and you want to try and sort things out with your gf, then I think you need to sit down and talk with her.
Don't listen to all these immature idiots who are trying to get a laugh and some pics out of this. Ignoring or not talking to her is the worst thing you could do to resolve this, its just a surefire way for things to fizzle out and that will be the end of it.
You need to figure out what caused you two to go on a break? (Also who initiated the break would be helpful info for us).
Meet with her and talk things through. If there is something wrong on your end, tell her you do everything you can to fix it (and you will if you love her), but at the same time she needs to be aware its a two way street and that she needs to be open and honest with you.
Tell her that you were upset with her and that you went through her phone and found the pics. I think that you need to apologise instead of getting pissed at her about the dick pics. Even though they are there you did break her trust by going through her phone without her consent. Tell her you are worried about them and that if you are going to try and fix things between you, you need to be absolutely sure that nothing further will happen between her and that dick pic dude. She need to tell him she is not interested and to fuck off. Sending unsolicited nude or sexual photos to her without her permission or consent means he can be charged with harassment or sued in civil court for causing emotional distress or other damage. Also I'm assuming that if you both know him that means he is a local or you both hang in the same groups. The two of you should tell your friends what he did and that he is a cunt!
If she is a mature person and loves you, she will be willing to talk and work through your problems together. You could be happier knowing that together you are able to overcome certain problems that put strains on your relationship.
>>694591786 Well you lay it all on the line then. Say how u feel. Set limits and tell her what kind of relationship you want. You will be emotionally destroyed by a fickle insecure bored woman if you let her. You have to be ready to make good on your ultimatum. You cant be in a fractured unstable relationship it will eat you up and you will regret it, and it will end eventually.
>>694595054 She will obviously manipulate him. Her response to the picture was TOTALLY inappropriate for someone who's in a relationship. That is such a major red flag that you cannot trust that person. If she can't tell this guy to fuck off on a text message do you think she could in person?
>>694586815 >One of my friends is hung like a mule but I've heard girls say it's uncomfortable and not fun
FemAnon here and this is truth. More than 7 inches is a waste. At least for me, but that's cause most women have only 6-7 inches before you are touching the cervix - which hurts. For me personally more than 7 is a waste because I like to fit the entire dick in my mouth/throat while still being able to use my tounge. A huge dick isn't as fun to suck and lick; don't get me wrong too small isn't grest either. 6.5-7 is the perfect size. If you're not a stretched out whore.
>>694595332 I can only assume that they were on the break at this stage and she was still annoyed with her bf over whatever caused it. And instead of doing the obvious thing of telling him to get lost she decided to go with it as she knew it would piss off he bf if he knew. She could regret those actions if they get back together. Yeah she was wrong and made a mistake but she is a human. We all make mistakes at somepoint. You've probably fucked up at something bigger at some stage of you life than saying 'Oh nice' instead of 'fuck off' when you were pissed at someone
>>694588269 Fucking Brilliant Anon. Every Beta could change their sad lives if they'd do something as simple as take control of their feelings instead of giving control of them to anyone who loans out their cunt.
>>694594916 well, not a regular fleshlight no, he won' have to clean her out, and has 3 holes to choose from, opposed to just one. but be honest, you can't see this picture >>694590140 and not think that ? she'll gladly act as his fleshlight once she feels him inside
>>694577825 Stop being a beta faggot. You need to go and fuck that sluts friends. She'll get jelly, insecure and question why she is with big dick (apart from the sex). She'll want you back so you agree to talk. Talk ends in you fucking her before throwing her tramp ass out. And make sure it's an angry fuck. Ram it up her ass dry. But seriously ditch that bitch
She was wasted and so horny she had literally soaked a wet patch right through her jeans, dude.
She didn't just do it at a party, she let me push her to the wall and fuck her just off the dance floor with people watching. I only fucked her twice, once then and once later in the bedroom, but my buddy was horny as fuck and has a thing for sluts with tats so he went to town on her like half a dozen times and wouldn't shut up about how he wanted to go back for more when we were stumbling home.
She was a top tier fuck while blasted so she must be a goddess in the sack when she's not completely shitfaced.
Hey, OP. I'm back again with some sound input for you. This is going way longer than j though, and I've noticed a trend that I think may bring some clarity.
You do not dispute that she's a pretty shitty person, that shows me that you aren't completely clueless. But any time an anon starts objectifying her or talking about sex and shit, you get a little bothered by it.
Take away your physical attraction to her, and she's useless. If a girl that you believe to be a 3/10 was treating you this way, you'd drop her ass. I'm telling you exactly what you need to do: Get on with your life.
Looks are the only thing keeping you around and invested, and you can find a cutie who isn't fucked in the head down the line. I have faith in you, dude.
>>694595054 Don't do this, if she finds out you went through her phone, regardless the reason, you can guarantee she will come unhinged and you will look like the bad guy.
She'll probably blame you for the breakup anyways and she'll tell her friends how shitty you are and fuck that other guy with no hesitation. Hell, her friends will probably push her into fucking the guy just to add insult to injury.
Just move on, being alone for a while is a good thing, it will give you time to reflect and make changes to your life that will make you more desirable to other women. Oh, and go out and get laid, not a relationship. This will get you over some of the things that are running through your head right now. Knowing you can still pull tail is all you need to get through a bad relationship with someone that doesn't give a shit about you.
I ain't lying dude, but I don't know why it bothers you, I'd kill to have a kinky slut like that on the reg. You're a lucky man.
Dick is twitchin' just thinking about her grinding her ass on my crotch. Got me off better through two pairs of jeans while dancing than most chicks can with their mouths on my cock. If she hadn't have let me strip her down and fuck her I swear I'd have nutted in my underwear.
I went out for lunch and figured this thread would be kil.
I've given up. The only thing OP wants to hear is "Don't worry, bro - she's come back to you on her own. Just sit back and give her time, because every woman just wants a guy that doesn't assert himself."
Nearly everyone here is telling OP to go out and be happy and to not waste anymore energy and hope on her, but OP is still saying, "but it hurts!"
Yes, yes it does. Getting dumped sucks. And it's going to keep hurting as long as you are in denial that you've been dumped and keep pretending that you're "on a break."
"But she got the dick pics after we were on break!" Then why and how were you going through her phone? You think that's a healthy thing? If she knows, then you broker her trust, too, and only justified to her why she dumped you.
>Pic related. This is what will go through her mind if she miraculously comes back for sex with OP.
Hypergamy is why she doesnt want you,spinning plates is your only answer. Girls control sex, guys control relationships. Understand your power dynamic, be like chad and give girls the tingles. Pump and dump new chicks. Be like chad.
>>694602058 I've been with pretty close to 40 girls in my life, I've pretty much lost count at this point. I've fucked good looking girls, fat ones, whores like Op's GF and the list goes on and on. If I can give you any B/ro solid advice on here it's fuck, fuck and fuck till you die or lose your dick. Fuck as many women as you can because when you are old (41 now) in your 60's you will look back and say WTF did I do with my life.
>>694602349 Typical blue pill white night Disney fantasy reinforcing fag. She is just a cheap slut. She has a dual mating strategy she will fuck an Alpha and get his sperm, and if you are still around she will use your beta bucks to support her life. Alpha fucks, Beta bucks. Don't forget it.
>>694602696 her cheating is one thing. but this is really farfetched. you think she'd ask for a break so she could get kocked up and then go back to me once she think it might've happened ? that's just stupid
Oldfag here, too (43). You're spot on. But, like >>694602718 said, OP's got her on a pedestal and is ignoring every red flag she's shown, yet downplays his own trust issues (going through her phone after she dumped him).
>>694602432 Aside from the herpes and rare outbreak of warts, I love my life, the pills are cheap for my issues and till I get full blown aids I'm going to be the one sending dick pics to OP's GF and wrecking cucks' women's pussy's till I die.
Fuck OP, I'm not >>694602696 but I've fucking seen this shit happen to friends. >Grill dumps guy to go after alpha Chad. >Chad knocks her up and fucks off. >"Oh look who is still waiting in the wings!" >"OP, I've learned my lesson; you were what I wanted all along. Not watch the baby so I can go to the club and get some more dick."
>>694602988 Depending on her age, but remember we all have primal instincts. We are to find genetically healthy mates to produce offspring.Alpha males have the best genes but are least faithful but that's okay our society has brainwashed young boys to be the night in shining armor and take in this perfect being and save them from their past lives. She isn't perfect, and once a week before her period she craves dick its called hypergamy. And in this day and age she can rate and stud in a 100 miles radius. She chooses you because of things like distance and other factors. If a hotter guy reciprocates her inferests she is gone. Don't take it personal, just move on. We are men,, we are better then them. Learn natural science, history, and philosophy and become the best you can be. Lift. But never forget women control sex, YOU control relationships and if you have beta tendencies at this age then you having a lovely wife who fucks her tennis instructor and have a kid that may or not be yours is your future. You can't make someone an Alpha but you can project yourself as one.
At the end of the day you are just a cuck fuckinf faggot.
>>694593575 She's a person who, whether she's admitted it to you or not, is aroused by gangbangs and group sex. If you really want to stay with her, you'll have to be the third wheel in the Big Dick threesome or the organizer of her gangbangs.
Daily reminder that this is a shill thread intended to make you insecure about your penis size. OP doesn't exist. His gf doesn't exist. His horsecocked friend doesn't exist. Learn to spot shills, anons.
>>694605463 >he's been trying to use her as his source of self-respect.
that's bs, i just pisses me off that people would call someone i love a "toy" . hell if someone called your gf all those things you'd be pissed too doesn't have anything to do with self respect. it's about respect for others
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