Getting a girlfriend is not the same as getting a bike or something else, you earn the privilege to date someone, then you work at keeping them. First thing you do is smile a lot and try to be happy even when you have nothing to be happy about. Carry your self with confidence even if you don't have any. Compliment the girls on what their wearing and doing even if you don't mean it. And most important, brush your teeth and have a fresh breath, nothing worse than a nice person whose breath smells like shit.
Don't know mate, got the same problem. 20 years old, kissless virgin. A couple of days ago I was hanging out with a friend of mine in my room, playing videogames and stuff. I asked her for a handjob, she slapped me and raged out. What did I do wrong?
>>685356716 Not a female you fucking idiot, a 40 year old man with tons of experience. I'm willing to bet that I can get your mother and girlfriend to drop their draws for me without effort. I know what women like and want to hear so I apply those things then get to work. You’re just some naive little punk that thinks pussy should be ready and available whenever your little dick gets hard.
Forever this. I've been in four relationships totalling 7 years plus 2 years single (use tinder dude) and this is all there is to it. Unless you're the fattest cunt out it'll only take you 6-12 months of really hard work and research to develop an attractive body and then you just need to not be (a) creepy and (b) weak. Be assertive. Be confident. Watch lots of Scrubs.
>>685356721 I'm assuming that this person is such an autist that they couldn't figure out the basics of human interaction, so this would be a good primer on it. People call you out for your faggotry here like no other place, and you need to have to stupid beaten out of you if you ever want to get better.
You ask her, you are insinuating she is a slut. Most girls want to be put into a position where they can comfortably decide on their own if they want the dick whilst at the same time appearing like they don't have a choice.
If you can master the art of giving someone a choice whilst making it look like they don't have a choice, your dick will never be dry, and the creampies will runneth over.
>>685358037 That's human interaction. The bank teller directs you to one of his associates, when he really means to say is "Fuck off", or when your professor tells you to consult the syllabus he means "Fuck off". Don't listen to what someone says, listen to what they mean. Also, don't talk about this with other people or else you give the message that you're a paranoid freak.
>>685359041 Hey, this is a better alternative to what you just said. That's what it means to be civilized, polite lies and holding back the worst of your impulses so we don't slide back into the hell hole of prehistory.
No dude, i've been begging to break up with her for literally over a year. On several occasions she's refused to leave my apartment unless I agree we're still together.
The sex was great The cuddles were great My life still sucked I will go into the mountains and train for 4 months, and when I emerge a beautiful butterfly I will find a superior mate who has a lower BMI and hopefully takes up less of my time. It is known.
At least you have guts. remember that part. You'll need it.
Then look up Corey Wayne on youtube, read his whole book, do everything in it and watch all 4,000 of this videos.
Shit fucking works. Too goddamn well. I have to carve out time for myself (like right now when I just want to relax) cuz bitches are constantly breaking down my door.
You'll eventually learn you have to make definite dates happen. My system was each morning, I figured out the next three evenings/afternoons when I wanted to be with a hot woman. Then, when I meet a woman, I see if we're compatible, can have fun, then tell her I'd like to meet her at time X at place Y. If that doesn't work, try the second timeslot and the third. If that doesn't work, just forget it. Next honey.
After that, go to the date and just have fun, tease her, enjoy yourself, don't pretend to be anything you're not. Make it cheap and short. Public place. No movies, no restaurants. Coffee, glass of wine. Sandwich. Art gallery. And make it in the evening or late afternoon. At the end of the date, kiss her good night. Not a peck, but not a full on make out session. Then wait half a week and tell her you want to see her in one of your time slots. Don't ask. Don't call her in the mean time. If she doesn't/want/can't make it, then drop/forget her forever unless she gets back in touch with you.
All this is in Corey's material. If you do anyting else except learn from him you're a fucking waste of time.
>>685354081 all right, here it is, make sure your listening. prepare >prepare your entire life for having a girl round all the time. >make sure your room is always sexy and ready for a girl, and sex. >dress confidently every day. >walk with your sholders back and your chin up >never leave a dirty room or you wont want to bring a girl home >look up sex tips, know how to finger, eat out correctly. know at least 5 positions. get to where you are confident sexually. >have a job so you have money to spend on food for her or go to school so you have your own life and it doesnt become all about her. >have a routine (make french press coffe twice a day, read a book for 2 hours every day so you have a life of your own before and during the relationship.
VISUALIZE >visualie the girlfried you want to the last detail, this will be fun because you can choose. >visualise the sex, practice, make sure you masturbate so you dont prematurley ejaculate during sex. >SLEEP NAKED this helps you get comfortable with your body. >visualise spending the night and having her around.
Attack >find where girls hang out, get around girls, find where the parties are, hang out with your friends and encourage them to explore more. put yourself out there. > LOOK HER IN THE EYES, every girl you approach, look her directly in the eyes. if she likes you shell love it. >the goal here is to get as many phone numbers as you can. if a girl gives you her phone number, she will gladly hang out again, and sometimes this means she actually wants to fuck you. always follow up, if she doesnt text you back for a while, just wait, she may be playing games.
Finding the ONE >when you find the one, you will know it. its a feeling that only comes every once in a while, but you will know. >play it cool, dont talk too much, ask her about herself, let her do the talking. If you talk too much a girl can figure out more about you, wich can be bad in a lot of cases. >when you have sex, let her sleep in bed with you,
>>685359956 Imagine for a second everyone that doesn't like you, has a problem with the things you do and the way you look honestly expressing their distaste for you and never holding back. That would make for a great society, right?
to summ it up >prepare yourself and your place for a girlfriend >sleep naked to get comfortable with your body >put yourself in the vicinity of girls >look them in the eyes >let her do the talking, ask her questions about herself, dont talk too much
if you cant find the energy to go out looking for girls at parties etc. dont jerk off for as long as it takes you to start talking to girls, your dick will want to explode and your hormones will be crazy trying to get you to mate. naturally you will try harder, a little secret i learned from my senpai, worked for me
>>685354081 Don't be afraid of rejection. Know that deep down, all women are simple creatures, the same as men just with different sensibilities. Get yourself out there on ANY social media platform. I met my IRL gf of 2 years on goddamn meetme.
>>685354081 Look up NIck Sparks on youtube, he is kind of a douch but look past it, his stuff is very usefull. helped me and my best friend have sex with like 10+ girls in a year. (we arent much pussy slayers, im not trying to brag etc.)
>>685361207 Then please explain verbal and mental abuse, because that's what we would end up with. We hold back because of empathy and sympathy for others. Without these things, we end up in a community where anyone can approach you and say what they want however they want.
>>685354081 Dont try to let her think you are rich if you arent (even if you are) it always ends badly like dont show off with expensive clothes things etc, it will get you results, but its hard to sustain.
I know how much everyone on this site hates reddit, but if any of you are seriously looking for guidance when it comes down to getting and keeping a woman, you should all take a look at "the red pill" subreddit. It takes a very analytical, and sometimes a little psychopathic, view point when analyzing women and relationships with women, but it's all really good stuff.
>>685362840 So do I, but when I know I need to act confident, I imagine myself as someone else. A Chad like character from a TV show or movie. In that moment I'm not anon, with his insecurities and flaws, I am Chad, I'm fucking flawless and perfect. And then when ur done, just return to your normal self. It takes a while to trick ur mind into believing it, but once you do, yoll stop spilling all that spaghetti.
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